In this first episode of the year, I’m sharing something that may not matter to anyone else on the planet and how it reminded me that self-care isn’t always loud, aesthetic, or dramatic.Sometimes self-care looks like claiming space. Sometimes it looks like taking one small step toward a vision you don’t need to explain to anyone else.We’re talking about:Why small beginnings matter (especially in January)Creating physical, emotional, and energetic space as a form of self-careLetting intentions unfold without rushing or pressureHow honoring what feels meaningful to you is an act of self-loveThis episode is an invitation to start the year gently, intentionally, and on your own terms.Reflection PromptsWhat’s one small step you can take this year that feels big for you?What kind of space do you want to claim or protect in 2026?Where can you move with intention instead of urgency?Soul-Care Circle Invitation✨ Soul-Care Circle: Intentional Vision Board Creating ✨If you’d like to explore your intentions for 2026 in community, I’m hosting a virtual Soul-Care Circle where we’ll gather to reflect, connect, and create vision/intention boards that go beyond goals—including joy, safety, support, movement, healing, and alignment. Date: January 31, 2026 Where: Zoom Cost: Donation-based (any amount)This is a cozy, judgment-free space to slow down, check in with yourself, and intentionally call in the energy you want to carry this year.How to JoinSend your donation via:Cash App: @browngirlselfcareVenmo: @browngirlselfcare👉 Important: Please include your email address and “for Soul-Care Circle” in the note so I can send you the Zoom link.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

The B.E.I.N.G. Space reopens January 3rd, 2026Welcome to the final episode of our end-of-year series! I am wrapping up our conversation on self-recovery and boundaries by offering a framework for leaving 2025 behind and crafting a intentional, liberated blueprint for 2026.The steps are:Honor the release that needs to happenYour goals don't need to be about fixing your perceived flaws or being hypercritical of yourself. Think about setting intentions insteadBe sure to include community building in your plans for 2026I'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode as well as some of your intentions for 2026. If you share this episode or your intentions on social, be sure to tag me.If you are listening on iTunes or Spotify please leave a rating and review pretty please :)Also, if you are making some changes in 2026 and need clarity and support as you boldly bloom, book some time on my calenedar here: The B.E.I.N.G. Space I will be back "in office" January 3rd.See you in 2026!!!!Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Following last week’s episode on being your authentic self, today we are diving into the challenging but essential work of communicating new, radical boundaries. This is all about preparing yourself for a truly authentic 2026 where you are free to be yourself. In this episode i'll be sharing:how boundaries are liberationthe importance of staying as cool as a cucumber when expressing your boundariesthe necessity of not only expressing the. boundary but having a consequenceResources/Links:In case you missed it, here is last weeks episode - December Is The Best Month To Release The "Fake" and Find Your Real SelfNeed clarity in your journey of blooming? Book a BEING Session with me here!Join me on Zoom on December 17th right here - BGSC Soul-Care CircleOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

The work discussed in this episode, as we enter the final days of 2025, is not just about ending the year on a high. What I feel it is, is an opportunity to see 2026 as the year your authentic self is non-negotiable. In this episode we are talking about self-care through the lens of transition, a fresh start, into the new year. In this episode let's explore: Winter as the Shedding Season: Using the end of 2025 as a time to identify and release the societal expectations and masks that stifle our authentic selves.Decolonizing Your Worth: Challenging narratives of strength and productivity to embrace softness, vulnerability, and rest.Returning to Your Roots: The importance of reconnecting with hobbies, creativity, and ancestral wisdom that spark your mind, heart, and spirit.Resources and links:Join me on December 17th for Soul-Care Circle. Click here to register on ZoomShare your story! What are you shedding this season? Tag @browngirlselfcare on social after listening today and let me know.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode, I'm getting honest about the moments when your spirit is no longer whispering, but instead she’s tapping you on the shoulder, side-eyeing you, and begging you to just sit down somewhere.As Black women, we’re praised for pushing through, carrying everything, and keeping it all together. But this season is about something different: honoring your humanity, choosing ease, and learning to pause before life forces you to.We’ll explore the 5 signs that show up when you’re out of alignment: when you’re scattered instead of centered drained instead of nourished ✨eactive instead of peaceful doubting instead of grounded and disconnected instead of intuitiveOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hello Beautiful Black Woman!In this (rewind) episode I'm sharing five ways that show me the healing work we are doing is actually making a difference. This includes:Understanding that there will still be hard things to process emotionallyUnderstanding my toxic patterns and behaviorsNot trying to change people but instead focusing on meRealizing that I can choose what I do for healingListen in to todays episode and be sure to write down the affirmation that I provide at the end.If you'd like to support the podcast be sure to rate and review where ever you are listening or/and share this episode on social media.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Overconsumerism this holiday season will not save us. Many of us want to "keep up with the Jones'" when they likely are living check to check themselves. Buying with intention versus buying to people please and prove your worth are different energies. Let's have a quick chat about this.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey! In this episode I'm sharing part of a recent video I created. In It I talked about the idea of the American dream. By those standards, this vision of success we've been told to strive for, I am failing because my life doesn't align, and that's ok! Listen in for moreOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

If you are in need of a reminder to slow down, be present and not feel pressured to buy/have "all the things", this episode is definitely for you!Recently, i watched a movie on Hulu called "Perfect Days" about a toilet cleaner in Japan. I thought it would be about his job (and how could that even be exciting??) but it was about much, much more.I'm sharing six takeaways that will help you experience your own "perfect" days, ones where you are more grounded and present, versus worrying about the accumulation or use of the latest and greatest stuff.As mentioned, if you'd like to spend some one on one time with me, getting your self-care plan in order, you can connect with me here: BEING w/ BreOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This episode, what I'm doing for the next 30 days is going to sound crazy. I get it. It needs to be done though because I'm locking in on how I'm blooming versus worrying about laboring to earn money. In our culture 9-5'ing/grinding is where our energy primarily goes and if there is anything left we do a little tending to ourselves. I'm flipping the narrative for the next 30 days and making self-care the primary and working secondary. Listen in to learn more about the framework I'll be using. Also, feel free to join me or watch on my Youtube channel and let me know your thoughts! Youtube - @browngirlselfcareOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Dear Black women, especially those of us over 40 years old, now is your time (and mine) to get "unstuck." Let's stop waiting around for something magical to happen in order for us to do WHATEVER it is we want to do in this season.This episode is straight from my Youtube Live. Be sure to subscribe there so you can see my beautiful face :). Here is the linkLet me know what you thought about todays episode. What is something you've been waiting for? What are you being called to do?Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

There is a bit of cussery in this episode, heads up.I’m in my 50s and haven’t worked a traditional job in six years. In this episode, I’m sharing how I walked away from my job, the ways I’ve sustained myself, and what rebuilding my dream life actually looks like.I talk about:Why I quit my job and what led up to itHow I kept myself afloat through moving, using my 401k, podcasting, freelancing, and building Brown Girl Self-Care offeringsThe mistakes and challenges I faced along the way — survival mode, giving too much away for free, buying things I didn’t need, people-pleasing, and caring too much about what others thinkHow I’m actively rebuilding my life now, including paying off debt, eating healthier, practicing yoga, baking bread, keeping my space calm, and prioritizing what truly mattersMy vision for the future — from living on land with a sister friend, buying an RV, traveling, and building a life where I’m healthier, stronger, and freerThe hard truth about being honest with yourself and getting tired of your own messThis is a raw and real conversation about choosing yourself, starting over, and proving that even after setbacks, you can still create a beautiful life.Mentioned in episode:Ninja Foodi Airfryer that I use several times a weekThe above is an Amazon affiliate link which means I may earn a small amount of money if you click the link/make a purchase.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

I tried recording this episode on Sunday and when I went to upload it, there was no audio. So I decided to hop onto Youtube Live on Monday morning and record it there. *Trigger Warning* In todays episode I'll be sharing about a young Black woman who unfortunately took her own life. The point of the share is to not only say her name, but to reinforce the idea of Black women staying Black Woman centered. No one cares about Black women the way that Black women do. We need each other.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

I want to preface this episode with a couple of things:#1 – Extreme self-care isn’t about shock value. It’s about survival, liberation, and choosing yourself when everything around you says don’t.#2 – The choices I’m sharing in this episode may feel uncomfortable, even unthinkable, because Black women are socialized to endure instead of disrupt. But these choices are valid. They are powerful. And they are yours to claim.In this episode of the Brown Girl Self-Care Podcast, I’m talking about five extreme self-care moves that many of us are told we can’t choose:Cutting off a parentDeclining the caregiver roleChoosing not to have childrenLeaving the traditional churchInvesting in yourself firstTo live well we sometimes have to be extreme or disrupt the status quo. I'd love to hear your thoughts on this. Leave a comment on Spotify. Share this episode and tag me on social. Email me at connect@browngirlselfcare.comOfferings*FREE Resource* 5 Ways For Black Women To Practice Taking Up SpaceReady for deeper support? Book a BEING session and let’s rebuild routines that actually work for your life.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

I want to preface this episode with a couple of things:#1 - You don't owe the world "your pretty"#2 - The self-care in this episode is less about performance and more about affirming your worth, reminding yourself of who you are and feeling great about yourself, FOR YOUIn this episode of the Brown Girl Self-Care Podcast, I'm giving you five simple beauty practices that serve as daily reminders of self-worth and identity. These are not about chasing trends or fitting into outside standards. It's about choosing rituals that ground you, feel authentic, and help you move through life's transitions with confidence and more self-love. OfferingsReady for deeper support? Book a BEING session and let’s rebuild routines that actually work for your life.Not ready for a session yet? Download my free Anti-Burnout Guide here and start making small shifts today.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

My sleep has been wrecked since I moved. Last year I had the perfect setup: a bed that supported me, a routine that worked, and deep, consistent rest. Now? I’m on a futon, waking up at 4 a.m. to take my daughter to work, and dragging through the day. n this episode I'm sharing:Why fall naturally shifts your body’s sleep rhythm (and how to work with it)The basics I’m returning to: earlier bedtimes, wind-down rituals, and morning lightTangible adjustments that help: showers or baths at night, better pillows, and bedding that supports youThe tools I’m using to stay accountableWhy great sleep is not a luxury for Black women, but a necessityIf your sleep has been off, you’ll leave this episode with practical ways to reset and reclaim real rest this season.OfferingsReady for deeper support? Book a BEING session and let’s rebuild routines that actually work for your life.Not ready for a session yet? Download my free Anti-Burnout Guide here and start making small shifts today.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This week I turn 50. Instead of balloons or cake, I’m marking this milestone by sharing five truths that feel carved into me now. Call it my 5 for 50. These are the lessons I’m carrying into this next decade—about boundaries, embodiment, reciprocity, friendship, and trusting the timing of my life.If you’re in your 40s, 50s, 60s, I hope you hear yourself in these truths. And if you’re younger, I hope you take them as reminders to claim your life sooner rather than later.In this episode I share:Why I will no longer overexplain myselfHow my body, not the clock, sets the pace for my lifeThe line I’ve drawn around reciprocity in relationships and workThe honest truth about not knowing how to be a good friend until later in lifeWhy I am no longer comparing my timeline to anyone else’sMentioned in this episode:Book a B.E.I.N.G. SessionOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Boundaries don’t always look like cutting people off or quitting jobs. The ones that actually keep you from burning out are the daily boundaries — the small choices that say: my time, my body, and my energy belong to me.In this episode, I’m breaking down five daily boundaries that protect your sanity:Not answering texts right awaySaying “I can’t talk right now”Blocking off the first 30 minutes of your morningLeaving when you’re readyRefusing to explain your “no”These may look simple, but they’re radical. Because every time a Black woman says no to urgency, over-functioning, or people-pleasing, she’s also saying no to the systems that demand her exhaustion.Listen in if you’re ready to stop being “on call” for the world and start saving your energy for yourself.Book a B.E.I.N.G. self-care session with me Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

We are out here building businesses, doing side gigs, dreaming about walking in our purpose, right? Yes! As we do this, there may be a pull for you to get out there and showboat just how well you are doing by flaunting your income while encouraging others to quit their job and "get like you." This episode is a reminder that this isn't the way to grow. There will be ups and downs in your entrepreneurial journey. Don't let the "highs" fool you into thinking you need to flaunt because things can change very quickly.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

I’m sharing what it looked like to move from bracing for the worst to making space for the best. This shift didn’t happen overnight, but it’s changed how I move through life, how I feel in my body, and how I trust myself.We talk about:The moment I realized my trust was starting to changeHow my nervous system used to feel vs. how it feels nowWhy trust takes time to rebuildAlso, as mentioned: BEING 1:1 Coaching is open. This is where we sit together and put out the fires—whether it’s burnout from your job, the weight of family dynamics, being the go-to for everyone in your circle, community or church obligations, caregiving without support, or constantly feeling like you have to be the strong one—so you can reset and move forward lighter. You’ll leave with clarity and steps you can actually use right now. If you want to go deeper, we can work through the full BEING framework together. Book your session here.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

So many of us are walking around with an invisible contract we never agreed to—but we’re still out here living by it. It's the Superwoman Contract. In this episode, I’m naming what it is, where it comes from, how it keeps us stuck, and what it costs us to keep performing strength.We talk about:What the Superwoman Contract actually isWhy we feel obligated to carry so muchHow this “strength” is expensiveWhat it could look like to void the contract and choose something elseMentioned in this episode:➡️ BEING 1:1 Coaching is open. This is support for Black women who are navigating reinvention, self-trust, and soft power after survival. If you’ve been carrying it all, this is your space to finally set it down. Book your session today.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

I'm turning 50 soon, and that shift is showing up everywhere. That includes Brown Girl Self-Care. In this episode, I’m sharing why Brown Girl Self-Care is now centering Black women in our 40s, 50s, 60s, and 70s. There needs to be wellness and self-care conversations for Black women who have entered middle-age. That is what this is.We talk about:Why most wellness content doesn’t hit for us anymoreWhat self-care meant before vs. what it means nowThe transitions we’re moving through in midlifeWhy this shift is necessary—not just for me, but for usMentioned in this episode:➡️ BEING 1:1 Coaching is open. This is support for Black women who are navigating reinvention, self-trust, and soft power after survival. Price increases in a few days—book now to lock in the current rate.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey!Back with an Eff The Cubicle Friday episode! Can we keep it real today? Straight without the chaser? Some of you listening to this episode will stay at that job you hate, not because you can't rock your gift but because you refuse to believe in yourself. Hit play and let's talk.Also, as mentioned, if you have been doing way too much and can't get a handle on prioritizing your needs, book some time on my calendar right here! It's hard to figure out your needs or even what's next for you when life is full of people-pleasing, carrying the weight of family and the job, and always having to be "on." These sessions help you feel clearer, lighter, and more connected to what you need so that you can bloom.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

We romanticize the idea of creating space—clearing our calendars, releasing relationships, cutting ties with the noise. But what happens when you finally get the space you’ve been asking for... and it doesn’t feel good?In this episode, I talk about the raw, often ignored reality of what spaciousness brings up: the discomfort, the second-guessing, the urge to fill the quiet. If you’ve made changes to protect your peace and now feel unsettled by the stillness, this conversation is for you.In this episode:Why stillness can feel unsafe at firstHow your nervous system reacts to peace when it’s used to chaosThe temptation to refill what you just clearedWhat to do when the quiet feels like too muchIf you're in a season of stretching, releasing, or sitting in uncomfortable in-between moments, book a 1:1 B.E.I.N.G. session with me. It’s a space to process, reconnect, and move through what’s surfacing with care. → Join me here!Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey!!This is a replay episode from 2022 and I'm being very, very real about ways "I" was not a safe space for other Black women when I was younger. This is an eye-opening episode because we never intend to harm but if there is unresolved trauma, it's very possible that at some point we will. Recording this episode humbled me but I 'm sharing because it's not about judgement or blame but about awareness and reflection as we continue leaning into community care and support for one another.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

*This episode is a little cussy so nsfw*Hey, hey! In this episode of the pod I'm sharing some thing you need to hear about having your needs met. At the end I also provide a quick affirmation/reminder to carry with you this week.Also, here is the information for the self-care guidance I mention in this episode. Every woman that books this month will lock in the promotional rate for life of $49/session. We all need space to be held. We all need space to unravel. We all need space to center OUR needs and to get guidance on ways to bloom. This is your space. Join me in the B.E.I.N.G. Space anytime.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

**** This episode has cussing and also goes into detail about childhood trauma/abuse****It’s been one full year since I went no contact with my mother. In this episode, I’m reflecting on how I spent the day, the grief and grounding I’ve moved through, and three lessons I’ve learned since choosing distance over dysfunction. This isn’t about being strong or unbothered—it’s about what happens when you choose peace and refuse to shrink, even when people expect you to go back.I’m sharing this episode for anyone who's navigating estrangement, emotional distance, or rebuilding themselves after breaking ties. You’re not alone. And no, you’re not wrong for choosing yourself.In this episode, I share:How I spent the one-year anniversary3 real lessons from going no contactThe ways I’ve learned to honor myselfHow people will try to guilt youMentioned in the Episode:→ Learn more about B.E.I.N.G. Self-Care Coaching: [Book Your Session w/ Me Here]Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This is an "Eff The Cubicle Friday" episodeReal talk—when you don’t charge, you train people to treat your work like it’s free and like they have access to you at any and all times.In this episode, I’m breaking down what happened when I asked for support and got silence... and how I realized I helped create that pattern.We’re talking about why so many Black women feel unseen in their businesses, and how to unlearn the guilt around getting paid for your care.If you’ve been grinding with heart and getting crumbs in return, this one’s for you.Mentioned in this episode:Book Self-Care CoachingMy LinktreeSupport my work (CashApp)Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

We talk about wanting community. Wanting softness. Craving care and to be seen. The thing is though, how are you gonna ask for that from other people, or give it to other people, when you don’t even give it to yourself?In this episode, I’m talking about what it really means to be in community with yourself. You’re out here showing up for everybody else, doing the most, saying yes when you don’t mean it, and ignoring what you need. That’s a form of self-abandonment.I’m sharing some things I wrote in my journal this week, a few hard truths about how we treat ourselves, and why being your own best friend is the kind of care that changes everything.Links for this episode:→ Book a Self-Care Coaching Session with me: Click Here→ Listen to last weeks episode on self-abandonment: Click Here → Follow me on Instagram: @browngirlselfcare → Want to support this work?: Click HereOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode, I’m talking about what it actually looks like to rebuild trust with yourself — especially when you’ve spent a lifetime ignoring your needs, second-guessing your voice, and shrinking to keep the peace. If you’ve ever felt stuck in patterns of self-abandonment, this one’s for you.I share the 4 daily practices I’ve been using to come back to myself and start rebuilding that trust in small, intentional ways.This is not about being perfect. It’s about not disappearing on yourself anymore. This is important liberation work.Mentioned in this episode:– The 4 daily practices I use to rebuild self-trust– What it means to make a decision and not waver– How to move without proof (and why that’s important)– Real-life examples of what this looks like for everyday Black womenAlso, here is the link to the hypertension article I read and mentionedWork with me here:🧘🏾‍♀️ Book a B.E.I.N.G. Self-Care Session → Click here!Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Eff the Cubicle Fridays: A New Chapter BeginsIn this episode, I’m introducing a brand new series called Eff the Cubicle Fridays. This series was born from my desire to break free from the 9-to-5 grind that was draining the life out of me. I share the story of how I launched this podcast while working in a high-pressure corporate job, terrified my employer would find out, and how that fear pushed me to move anyway.We’re talking entrepreneurship, creativity, personal growth, and what it means to reclaim your time and voice. If you’ve been dreaming of building something outside the system—or you’ve already started—this series is for you.🎙️ Ready to Start or Sustain Your Podcast?I’m now offering 1-on-1 podcast coaching for Black women who are ready to launch or keep their podcast going with clarity and strategy. If you're ready to invest in yourself, see your vision come to life, and work with me 1-on-1, book a session today.→ Here is the booking link to check it out and hold your space on my calendar🔗 Links + ResourcesBook Podcast Coaching: [Book here]Follow on Threads and Instagram: @browngirlselfcareSupport my work - CashappOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Listen to the episode from 2020Link to the free mini quideIn this episode, I share a moment that caught even me by surprise — when I was out walking and found myself shoulder-checking someone who didn’t make space for me on the sidewalk. It wasn’t aggressive. It wasn’t loud. But it was intentional.And I didn’t apologize.This story became a reflection on the ways Black women are taught to shrink, to step aside, to stay small — and what it means to finally stop doing that.I talk about:What really happened that day on the sidewalkHow that moment helped me see how much I’ve yielded in the pastThe truth I didn’t want to admit: it was intentional — and I’m not sorryThe quiet power in holding your ground when you’ve been trained not toWhy taking up space isn’t arrogance — it’s ancestralThis episode is for the Black woman who’s tired of stepping aside — physically, emotionally, or spiritually — just to keep the peace. If you’ve been shrinking and you’re ready to return to yourself, this one is for you.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Have you lived your entire life knowing that you deserved to receive tenderness as well as be tender? I lacked that for a long while and unfortunately it cost me two solid relationships. In honor of our humanity I decided to take a year exploring tenderness as a form of liberation and am sharing my thoughts with those of you signed up for the newsletter. You can sign up at any time by visiting here, scrolling down to the bottom and adding your best email address. Today I'm talking about living a life with more tenderness plus I'm sharing a couple of updates. Press play and tap in.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this heartfelt rewind episode, I take you inside a quiet moment of reflection at a solo retreat where I finally let the tears come. I talk about what it means to give so much to others while constantly putting ourselves last, and why so many Black women — myself included — struggle to give the same love, softness, and support to ourselves.I share:Why crying helped me realize what my soul is cravingThe emotional toll of always showing up for othersWhy some of us need to completely tear down our foundations and start overWhy self-love isn’t selfish or soft — it’s necessaryA question that might help you get closer to your own self-loveThis one is for the woman who’s been giving everything but feels empty inside. You’re not alone — and you can rebuild.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Brown Girl Self-Care is where Black women reclaim our wholeness and power in a world that demands our labor but denies our humanity. Here, the care of ourselves—and the care for each other—become sacred acts of justice, powerful ways of honoring our humanity in a world that doesn’t. Let’s take this journey together—we are worthy of this care.In this episode of Brown Girl Self-Care, we're cutting through the noise and naming the truth: Black women are not the problem — the systems are. Capitalism, white supremacy, grind culture, and patriarchy have conditioned us to blame ourselves for exhaustion, financial struggle, and “inconsistency.” But that ends here.We’re not just naming the harm — we’re talking about how to push back in 2025. From reclaiming rest, to doing less without guilt, to unlearning money shame, this episode is your reminder that healing and resistance can co-exist.In this episode, I cover:Why rest still feels hard (and who benefits from that)How capitalism set us up to fail with moneyThe truth about “doing the most” and what it costs usReal ways to resist — even if you're still tired, in debt, or just getting started This is for you if:You’ve been feeling like you’re not doing enoughYou’re healing while still playing the gameYou’re ready to choose rest, ease, and clarity — without guiltOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Brown Girl Self-Care is where Black women reclaim our wholeness and power in a world that demands our labor but denies our humanity. Here, the care of ourselves—and the care for each other—become sacred acts of justice, powerful ways of honoring our humanity in a world that doesn’t. Let’s take this journey together—we are worthy of this care.If you’re feeling heavy the day after Mother’s Day, this episode is for you. Whether the day brought up grief, frustration, numbness, or just left you feeling emotionally off, you are not alone. In this gentle episode, I’m holding space for the Black women who are expected to “bounce back” on Monday when their hearts are still tender. We’re talking about softening into the week, honoring your truth, and giving yourself permission to move slow. You’ll also hear a series of affirmations to carry with you as you reclaim your energy, one breath at a time.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Brown Girl Self-Care is where Black women reclaim our wholeness and power in a world that demands our labor but denies our humanity. Here, the care of ourselves—and the care for each other—become sacred acts of justice, powerful ways of honoring our humanity in a world that doesn’t. Let’s take this journey together—we are worthy of this care.First things first! I want to invite you to join me on May 14th at 7pm CDT for the "Take The Mic, Take up Space!" Podcasting 101 Workshop for Black women. You can sign up right here. This is a virtual event, being held on Zoom, that I'm hosting where I'll teach you how to get your podcast started, no more excuses. If you've been looking for a sign to start using your voice, this is it.Now, onto todays episode. Have you ever been called boring or even a square? I have been several times and I allowed that to shame me into trying to be someone that i was never intended to be. I realized that the idea that I was too boring to show up or share parts of my life online (parts that I deem aren't too private or sacred) had a huge impact on my business and and even how I felt about myself. If this is you too, I'm sharing some takeaways I want you to consider.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Brown Girl Self-Care is where Black women reclaim our wholeness and power in a world that demands our labor but denies our humanity. Here, the care of ourselves—and the care for each other—become sacred acts of justice, powerful ways of honoring our humanity in a world that doesn’t.First things first! I want to invite you to join me on May 14th at 7pm CDT for the "Take The Mic, Take up Space!" Podcasting 101 Workshop for Black women. You can sign up right here. This is a virtual event, being held on Zoom, that I'm hosting where I'll teach you how to get your podcast started, no more excuses. If you've been looking for a sign to start using your voice, this is it.Now, on to todays episode. I decided to let chatgpt give me a prompt that would help me do some self-reflection and it didn't disappoint. I wasn't sure that I would share this when I hit record because this was a personal note that I created for myself to process my thoughts on fear + self-worth. I'm sharing this because I want YOU to trust your voice. It's hard to trust your voice if you are searching for the perfect thing to say or the perfect thing to feel. Healing is not about an aesthetic, it's about being real, raw and unfiltered. Using your voice can be a great step to becoming a place of safety for yourself and this is so important. Don't be afraid to use the prompt in todays episode to see what comes up for you.Let’s take this journey together—we are worthy of this care.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Brown Girl Self-Care is where Black women reclaim our wholeness and power in a world that demands our labor but denies our humanity. Here, the care of ourselves—and the care for each other—become sacred acts of justice, powerful ways of honoring our humanity in a world that doesn’t.In this episode I want to remind Black women of the importance of giving themselves their best. We have got to stop reserving our 'pretty' for others or future occasions. Black women have done enough, we have given enough, it's beyond time we utilize our best for our benefit before it is given away to others. On top of that, I'm tired of playing the supporting character in life so I share a bit about that, too. 2025 is about shaking tables and no longer hiding ourselves. Let’s take this journey together—we are worthy of this care.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Brown Girl Self-Care is where Black women reclaim our wholeness and power in a world that demands our labor but denies our humanity. Here, the care of ourselves—and the care for each other—become sacred acts of justice, powerful ways of honoring our humanity in a world that doesn’t.Overconsumption can be tearing down your self-identity and self-worth, instead of helping us take action on our inherent abilities and knowledge. You were put here to lead but your conditioning tells you that you need to consume more before you can take action. No matter your purpose, this episode is for you.Let’s take this journey together—we are worthy of this care.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Brown Girl Self-Care is where Black women reclaim our wholeness and power in a world that demands our labor but denies our humanity. Here, the care of ourselves—and the care for each other—become sacred acts of justice, powerful ways of honoring our humanity in a world that doesn’t.2025 is a pivotal year for me and for many other Black women who are sick of these systems and sick of laboring at jobs that deplete and exhaust us. Black women deal with societal systems every day that are not designed for us to thrive and I've come to realize that I have to break free from fear, perfectionism and imposter syndrome so that I can reject traditional 9-5 labor and instead do things that tap into my purpose and joy. Sound like you too? Press play!Let’s take this journey together—we are worthy of this care.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Brown Girl Self-Care is where Black women reclaim our wholeness and power in a world that demands our labor but denies our humanity. Here, the care of ourselves—and the care for each other—become sacred acts of justice, powerful ways of honoring our humanity in a world that doesn’t.I've got a listener question today that came from my Instagram dm's. She wanted to know how I hancled/am handling my IRS debt. Listen in and I'll share the simple steps I took for my 13k of IRS debt as well as the mindset shifts I finally made regarding financial/struggle cycles.Let’s take this journey together—we are worthy of this care.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Brown Girl Self-Care is where Black women reclaim our wholeness and power in a world that demands our labor but denies our humanity. Here, the care of ourselves—and the care for each other—become sacred acts of justice, powerful ways of honoring our humanity in a world that doesn’t.This episode is specifically for those of us who grew up believing that we were "bad" or too flawed to be loved due to how we were treated as children/the conditioning we received in our childhood years. I've been thinking about my identity a lot as of late and once I learned that our identities were perfect when we were born, it made a profound shift in my life. Instead of grasping blindly at trying to be someone I'm not, I'm more focused on nurturing my "soil."Let’s take this journey together—we are worthy of this care.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Brown Girl Self-Care is where Black women reclaim our wholeness and power in a world that demands our labor but denies our humanity. Here, the care of ourselves—and the care for each other—become sacred acts of justice, powerful ways of honoring our humanity in a world that doesn’t.In this episode I'm getting real about my financial struggles, personal growth, and the steps I'm taking to break free from generational cycles of trauma and lack. I talk about my decision to leave corporate life in 2019 for my mental health, the challenges I faced thereafter, and my ongoing battle with debt. I want to STRESS the importance of shedding shame and guilt tied to financial hardships while discussing the conditioning and societal expectations that often plague Black women. My hope is that other 'cycle breakers' will continue to prioritize healing, make intentional choices, and reframe their mindset around money and self-worth as they navigate their unique journeys in 2025 alongside me.Let’s take this journey together—we are worthy of this care.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Brown Girl Self-Care is where Black women reclaim our wholeness and power in a world that demands our labor but denies our humanity. Here, the care of ourselves—and the care for each other—become sacred acts of justice, powerful ways of honoring our humanity in a world that doesn’tSometimes we need to ask for grace, and there is no shame in that. Whether it’s adjusting a financial commitment, backing out of a purchase, or simply admitting that we don’t have the capacity for something right now—giving ourselves permission to be honest is an act of self-care.In this episode, I share two real-life moments this week where I had to step back and say, “I can’t do this right now.” It wasn’t easy. It felt a little embarrassing. But I let that go because the reality is this: Being honest about what you need is responsible, not shameful.Come get this reminder that we are all human and that self-preservation is a must.Let’s take this journey together—we are worthy of this care.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Brown Girl Self-Care is where Black women reclaim our wholeness and power in a world that demands our labor but denies our humanity. Here, the care of ourselves—and the care for each other—become sacred acts of justice, powerful ways of honoring our humanity in a world that doesn’tI had big plans for this season—new episodes, a bold rebrand, coming back stronger than ever. But the truth? This might not be the season for big things. And that’s okay.In this episode, I’m sitting with that truth and letting go of the pressure to force momentum. If you’ve been feeling stuck, unsure, or like you should be doing more, let’s breathe through that together. Sometimes, the most radical thing we can do is honor where we are.Let’s take this journey together—we are worthy of this care.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Brown Girl Self-Care is where Black women reclaim our wholeness and power in a world that demands our labor but denies our humanity. Here, the care of ourselves—and the care for each other—become sacred acts of justice, powerful ways of honoring our humanity in a world that doesn’t.In this episode of the Brown Girl Self-Care podcast, I’m opening up about what I learned from taking an unplanned break. After moving and needing time to settle in, I found myself sitting in the discomfort of not producing—of not showing up in the ways I usually do. And even though I knew I needed the rest, there was still that lingering feeling that I should be doing more.I’ll share how this experience reminded me that we are often more tired than we realize, how the pressure to always be productive is deeply tied to colonization and capitalism, and why it’s so important to give ourselves permission to pause before burnout forces us to stop.In this episode, I’m sharing five key things to keep in mind when you’re struggling to rest:You’re probably more tired than you even realize. We’ve been conditioned to run on empty for so long that exhaustion can feel normal—until we finally stop.Resting will make you uncomfortable at first. When we’re used to equating our worth with productivity, stepping back can feel unnatural. That’s colonization talking.The world won’t fall apart because you take a break. We carry so much on our shoulders, but the truth is, things will keep moving even when we pause.You don’t have to feel “ready” to rest. If you’re waiting for a perfect moment to slow down, it’ll never come. Your body, mind, and spirit need care now.You have permission to pause. You don’t have to earn your rest. You don’t have to justify it. Rest is your birthright.If you’ve ever felt uneasy about slowing down—like you’re somehow falling behind or not doing enough—this episode is for you. Let’s take this journey together—we are worthy of this care.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Brown Girl Self-Care is where Black women reclaim our wholeness and power in a world that demands our labor but denies our humanity. Here, the care of ourselves—and the care for each other—become sacred acts of justice, powerful ways of honoring our humanity in a world that doesn’t.In this episode of the Brown Girl Self-Care podcast, I’m sharing an intimate life update as I prepare to move from California to Arkansas. I’m opening up about the emotional and practical challenges I’ve faced along the way, including letting go of 95% of my possessions due to financial constraints.I’ll share how deeply rooted scarcity and self-worth struggles have shaped my life and why this move represents more than just a physical transition—it’s a journey of healing, grief, and reclaiming intentionality.I’ll also introduce my upcoming collaboration with Yolanda, founder of Parenting Decolonized, as we work together to create a sustainable living community for single Black mothers and their children. This episode is about resilience, community, and embracing change, even when it feels hard.Let’s take this journey together—we are worthy of this care.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Brown Girl Self-Care is a space where Black women come to honor our humanity and reclaim our power in a world that takes us for granted. Here, choosing ourselves—our healing, our joy, and our rest—is an act of radical resistance and deep self-love.In this episode, we’re exploring the emotional toll that masking takes on Black women. We’ll start with a few deep breaths to create a calming space and then dive into my journey of setting boundaries and acknowledging my emotions, reminding us that healing can bring up some friction.We’ll also unpack the societal pressures Black women face to mask their true feelings, using Angela Bassett’s reaction at the Oscars as an example. This conversation critiques cultural expectations that demand we hide our pain to keep others comfortable, and instead encourages us to embrace our humanity, honor our emotions, and create spaces where we can be authentic.Let’s take this journey together—we are worthy of this care.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Brown Girl Self-Care is where Black women reclaim our wholeness and power in a world that demands our labor but denies our worth. Here, the care of ourselves—and the care for each other—become radical acts of love and justice, profound ways of honoring our humanity in a world that doesn’t.In this episode, we unpack the discomfort and stigma that Black women often feel when it comes to asking for and receiving help. Cultural, familial, and societal influences can make vulnerability feel unsafe, but learning to receive is essential for our healing, growth, and liberation.I’ll share personal reflections, practical tips for practicing vulnerability (including how to accept compliments!), and encouragement to embrace the abundance and support that divine resources offer us.Let’s walk this path together—you are deserving of a life where you feel supported, held, and whole.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Brown Girl Self-Care is where Black women reclaim our wholeness and power in a world that demands our labor but denies our worth. Here, the care of ourselves—and the care for each other—become radical acts of love and justice, profound ways of honoring our humanity in a world that doesn’t.In this episode, we explore what it means to listen deeply to the signals our bodies send us and how that listening is a practice of love and liberation. When survival mode has been our default, it’s easy to overlook these signals, but they are key to protecting our peace and reclaiming a life of wholeness and joy.I’ll share personal reflections, wisdom from my therapist, and reflective journal prompts to support you in reconnecting with yourself and creating a life that centers care, liberation, and joy.Let’s walk this path together—you are deserving of radical love and care.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this quick episode, let's talk about the idea of breaking free from legalism and embracing grace as a foundation for personal growth in this new season. Legalism is the strict adherence to moral codes that kept me stuck for years until I realized how important it was for me to unlearn the harm of this kind of mindset. If you are moving towards more self-love, acceptance, and peace, your daily practice of life has got to include allowing for more grace and less strictness. Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In honor of the new year ahead, let's talk about being in a place where we want to allow change into our lives to align with personal growth and abundance. You weren't put here to live, struggle and die so, prepare yourself for the changes ahead. In this episode I'm giving you a few simple steps to get you started.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This year has had some amazing things come to fruition, but it was also hard in some ways. too. When you are the one in your family or circle breaking generational cycles, or if you are blooming into some life changes right now, it's easy for our minds to feel like it's always going to stay hard or that you will struggle forever. Choosing peace as I'm talking about in this episode isn't about bypassing your feelings or pretending that everything is cool. Instead it's deciding that you are doing the best you can and that it is ok to lay claim to peace instead of chaos.I wanted to share a quick insight from the book 'The Four Pivots' by Shawn A. Ginwright, PhD. Specifically I'm highlighting a powerful quote from the book: 'I choose peace of mind instead of this.' It brought me so much clarity as I continue working through some challenges that my hope is that it's a powerful affirmation for you as well.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey! In this episode I'm talking about 4 things we all need, even if on occassion: silence, stillness, solitude, and surrender. These elements are essential for holistic self-care, especially for us, Black women who deserve to prioritize well-being as we resist cycles of stress and dysfunction.If you are thinking about tuning into your intuition, embracing vulnerability, and practicing self-care this episode is for you.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of the Brown Girls Self Care Podcast, I'm sharing three critical actions Black women can take in 2025 to transform their lives with more healing and joy. The episode emphasizes the importance of dating oneself regularly, undertaking solo trips to foster self-reliance and personal growth, and implementing 'think weeks' or days for deep reflection and planning. These are practices we can use to validate ourselves, embrace our humanity, and prioritize our comfort, ease, and liberation.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey y’all, it’s Bre, and I’ve got something important to share with you today. After reflecting on the constant hustle culture we’re all caught up in and seeing a powerful confirmation in an unexpected place—a video of Macy Gray, no less—I’ve decided to take a sabbatical for the month of December.In this episode, I’m sharing:Why rest is a necessaryHow I knew it was time to pause and honor my intuition.What you can expect when I return in January with fresh, intentional episodes.If you’ve been feeling like you need permission to pause, this is it. Rest is a way to honor your humanity and sometimes, the most powerful thing we can do is nothing.Thank you for being part of this beautiful community, for listening, and for holding space. I’ll see you in January—until then, take care of yourself, rest deeply, and know that you’re already enough.Connect with Me:Join the email list for updates: Join Here!Follow me on Instagram and Threads: @browngirlselfcare on bothOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, sis. Let this episode be your reminder that the work you’re doing—yes, even the small stuff—is working. Whether it’s pausing to take a deep breath, setting a boundary, or speaking to yourself with more kindness, these small shifts are creating big changes.Today, I’m sharing personal reflections and encouragement to remind you that you are making progress, even when it doesn’t feel obvious. I’ll talk about a recent experience where I noticed my own growth, celebrate the small wins that often go unnoticed, and offer journal prompts to help you reflect on your own journey.The work is working, sis—so keep going. Let’s celebrate the small victories together.Journal Prompts to Explore:What’s one small shift I’ve noticed in myself lately?Where can I show myself more grace today?Let’s Connect:Did this episode resonate with you? DM me or share your reflections on Instagram (@browngirlselfcare)—I’d love to hear how the work is working in your life.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this very transparent episode, I share the challenges of staying true to the mission of Brown Girl Self-Care while navigating the harsh realities of capitalism. As a one-woman operation, I discuss how sponsorships have helped sustain this platform but also created inner conflict when values clash with business opportunities.You'll hear:Why I’m reimagining the future of Brown Girl Self-CareThe struggles of centering Black women in a capitalist systemHow I’m leaning into faith, community, and creativity to move forwardMy thoughts on Black women creating sustainable spaces for joy, healing, and liberationPlus, I touch on what’s next for the platform, including a free Podcasting 101 workshop and a fresh approach to community-building through my new minimalist website.If you’ve ever wrestled with balancing authenticity and survival in your work, this episode is for you.💌 Stay connected by joining the Brown Girl Self-Care newsletter at browngirlselfcare.com and become part of the 92% who are thriving unapologetically.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey y’all, it’s Bre here, and this week, I’m pulling back the curtain to let you in on the big changes happening with Brown Girl Self-Care as well as with me. I recently made the decision to close down the newsletter, and today, I’m talking about why—and what’s coming next.I’ll be sharing how this next chapter of Brown Girl Self-Care will include three areas that are deeply important to me and, I think, to you too:Black Women’s Health: Taking care of our mental, physical, and emotional well-being, because health is part of our freedom.Building Businesses That Honor Rest: Talking about how we can make a living on our own terms without grinding ourselves down or having to feel fake as we do it.Living Sustainably and Bucking Norms: I'm going all in on a lifestyle that aligns with my values and supports Black women, roots keeping, our community, and my peace. So more us and less capitalism and consumerism.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Meet me on Zoom for "Gather and Be" on Monday, November 4th @ 5pm Pacific / 8pm Eastern. Link Here In this episode of the Brown Girl Self-Care Podcast, I'm talking about 'creasing the page' as a way to engage fully with life especially for those of us that are afraid to step out and be seen or make mistakes. I sill struggle with perfectionism, the fear of making mistakes, and in the past these fears have held me back from leaving my mark.I want to encourage you to embrace imperfection, show up authentically and take small steps towards your goals while aligning yourself with curiousity and the willingness to step out of your comfort zone.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey y’all, it’s Bre here with a special check-in episode of Brown Girl Self-Care. With election season in full swing and November 5th quickly approaching, I’m holding space for Black women who are feeling overwhelmed, stressed, or even terrified by the current climate. In this episode, I share responses from our Threads community and offer practical tips to stay grounded, empowered, and resilient during this time. We discuss taking things one step at a time, preparing for uncertainty, decentering men, and prioritizing our well-being above all. Remember, you are not alone—we’re in this together. Tune in for a moment of support, reflection, and solidarity.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

As the end of the year approaches, it's time to talk about something crucial: taking time off. In this episode of Brown Girl Self-Care, Bre is breaking down why Black women need to prioritize their health by using their personal time off (PTO), Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA), and short-term disability. Many of us let our PTO go unused or feel guilty about asking for time away from work—but not taking time for yourself has real consequences. In 2024 we are going to lay claim toL the time we are leaving on the table.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode, let's chat about the delicate line between protecting your peace and speaking up for yourself, especially as a Black woman navigating a world shaped by trauma. I'm sharing my thoughts on when speaking up is necessary and how to distinguish between fear and empowerment. We are reclaiming our voices, healing with compassion, and balancing self-care in a society that often tries to silence us so let's go.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

It's going to be one of those episodes, today. I'm sharing about my perimenopause/menopause journey, signs that I'm actually in perimenopause so that you can have a "heads up" as well as giving you a few tips to help get you through when it comes for you. Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of the podcast, Bre is sharing a reminder straight from "corporate life."Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey! There is a ton of talk out there about narcissists but what does it really mean to possibly be one, or be in relationship with one? What the heck even really is a narcissist? If you've ever wondered, or want to learn more about what you can do to protect yourself, this is the episode for you.If you haven't already, be sure to follow Dr. Nic on Instagram as well as check out his podcast Untherapeutic for insight on relationships that "everyday" people can benefit from.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

(This is a rewind episode from 2023)In this episode of the Brown Girl Self Care Podcast, Bre delves into the importance of Black women showing up for themselves. Sharing her personal experiences and thoughts, Bre discusses what it means to prioritize self-care and healing, despite the societal and personal hurdles faced. She offers practical ways to reclaim self-worth, set boundaries, and practice compassion. Bre also provides journal prompts to help listeners reflect on their early memories of feeling neglected and find ways to honor their needs and emotions. This episode is a heartfelt guide for Black women seeking to navigate their path towards healing and self-empowerment.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of the Brown Girl Self Care Podcast, host Bre is giving you insights on the importance of not having everything figured out in life. She discusses the societal pressures to achieve certain milestones by specific ages and encourages listeners, especially Black women, to give themselves grace and compassion. You are allowed to have space for self-reflection, healing, and allowing yourself to grow organically.This episode is a reminder to rest, celebrate your wins, take a beat, and remember that your journey will have uncertainties and doesn't have to be perfect.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

It's Labor Day, plus my birthday was just a few days ago so I have been taking time to REST. With that said, I have an amazing REWIND episode for you that is perfect for the seasonal change that's coming.I'm sharing my personal strategies for transitioning from summer into the fall and winter months. Through the end of the year this includes prioritizing my mental health, getting sunlight, taking care of my skin plus some other practical advice you don't want to miss.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of the Brown Girls Self Care Podcast, host Bre explores the benefits of five holistic supplements she uses daily to manage stress, anxiety, and improve focus. The supplements discussed include CBD, L-theanine, Lemon Balm, Holy Basil, and Magnesium. Bre shares her personal experiences with each supplement, emphasizing the importance of doing your own research and consulting with healthcare professionals. She also provides detailed insights on how to incorporate these supplements into a daily wellness routine for optimal benefits. This episode is a valuable guide for Black women looking to embrace a more natural approach to self-care and well-being.Products mentioned *CBD - Alliant HempL-theanine - Mary Ruth'sLemon Balm - Mary Ruth'sMagnesium - Mega FoodsHoly Basil - Mary Ruth's*As an Amazon AssociateI earn from qualifying purchasesOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of the Brown Girl Self Care podcast, I'm sharing about my upcoming move from Los Angeles to rural Arkansas. Yes, you heard that right! There are several reasons for this move including the fact that California is just too expensive. In this episode I'm also going to give you personal insights and tips to consider if you are wanting to deprioritize a 9-5 life and instead prioritize a journey that is more in alignment with your values and well-being.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Yeesss!! It feels so good to be back with a solo episode. I've missed this so much. In case you didn't know (and how could you not?!) I talk. Alot! I did some reflecting and figured out why I talk so much to myself and if you are healing from childhood trauma/systemic trauma, you may do this as well for a very similar reason. Also, I'm sharing my love for a book that you gotta add to your healing toolkit/resources.*Language of Letting Go - Melody Beattie - https://amzn.to/3WJhlQg*I am an amazon affiliate so any purchases you make from the above link might earn me a little change/commission to help keep Brown Girl Self-Care going.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

**TW: This episode discusses sexual abuse/assaultIn this episode of the Brown Girl Self-Care Podcast, I'm speaking with therapist and wellness expert Candyce "CE". Anderson, MS, LPC, Founder, and CEO of Revita Therapy and Wellness. We planned this conversation ahead of the Diddy debacle but conversations that center the pressing issue of trauma/harm culture in Hollywood and the pervasive nature of sexual assault are ALWAYS relevant. Key topics:The focus on men’s behaviors and accountabilityThe impact of societal conditioning on women's responses to trauma Coercive sexual assaultThe importance of self-care, intuition, and recognizing one's worthThe critical need for men to hold each other accountable. This episode is a must-listen for black women seeking healing, empowerment, and validation in their journey toward self-care and well-being. It is also a must-listen for MEN as well.Guest information:CE AndersonWebsite revitatherapyandwellness.com/Keep up with CE on Instagram, Twitter and FacebookOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

It is time for us to be centered in corporate spaces so that we can WIN. Today I'm speaking with Dr. Ella Washington, an organizational psychologist and founder of Elevate Solutions. Together we are tackling the challenges many of us face in corporate environments, including feelings of alienation, the necessity of navigating biases, and the importance of authentic self-presentation. In this conversation we touch on several themes including:Key Topics:Challenges in Corporate Spaces:Experiences of feeling like an outsider in corporate environments.Struggles with authenticity and masking one's true self to fit in.The emotional and financial burdens of not being compensated fairly for one's labor.boundaries.Personal Identity and Professional Life:The importance of knowing oneself and setting personal standards of excellence.Overcoming pressures to meet biased expectations and embracing one's unique strengths.Negotiation Skills:Broad aspect of negotiations beyond salary discussions, including continuous negotiation within one's career for roles, responsibilities, and workplace benefits.Strategies for introverts in building connections and developing influence.Make sure that you share this episode and tag BGSC for your chance to get a copy of Dr Ella's Book (Unspoken: A Guide To Cracking the Hidden Corporate Code)*Take the quiz Dr. Ella mentioned on her websiteConnect with Dr. Ella on Linkedin*As an Amazon Affiliate Brown Girl Self-Care earns a commission on qualified purchases.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of the Brown Girl Self Care Podcast, Bre welcomes special guest Chika Uwazie, an expert in psychology, feminine energy and self-love coaching. In this episode Chika shares insights on how to balance masculine and feminine energy, drawing from her own journey as a former tech founder who transitioned into a life of flow and ease. She discusses the significance of tapping into feminine energy for better overall well-being, the impact on relationships, and the power of intuition. The conversation also explores how self-awareness, gratitude, and affirmations can help women reconnect with their inner wisdom and creativity. This episode is an inspiring reminder of the importance of embracing our softer sides and prioritizing self-care. Tune in for an enlightening discussion on finding balance and achieving a fulfilling life in harmony with your true self.Key Topics:The significance of leaning into feminine energyTransitioning from a hustle mindset to a flow stateThe role of intuition and self-awareness in decision-makingBalancing masculine and feminine energies in daily life and relationshipsThe impact of societal and cultural expectations on Black womenPractical steps for embracing and nurturing your feminine sideGuest Information:Chika UwazieWebsite: thesoftnest.comCheck out Chika's gems on Instagram Chika's podcast The Flow EraOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Trigger Warning: This episode touches on childhood trauma and also incudes strong language.In this episode of the Brown Girl Self Care Podcast, host Bre discusses the journey towards personal freedom and healing from childhood trauma. She emphasizes the importance of black women reclaiming their lives and identities. Bre shares her experiences growing up under the restrictive norms of white-centered Christianity, dealing with childhood abuse, and the struggle to meet her family's expectations. She highlights the significance of setting boundaries, self-love, and breaking generational cycles of trauma and shame. Ultimately, Bre encourages listeners to seek their own definitions of freedom and to take actionable steps toward achieving it, even if it means confronting difficult truths and letting go of toxic relationships.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of the Brown Girl Self Care podcast, host Bre speaks with Deesha Dyer, author of 'Undiplomatic: How My Attitude Created the Best Kind of Trouble.*' Deesha shares her journey from humble beginnings to interning at the White House while learning how to overcome imposter syndrome, build self-worth, navigate single-hood in her 40's and practice self-love with a huge portion of grace. We also discuss the impact of constant self-doubt and how deep-rooted childhood experiences shape adult insecurities.Spoiler alert, for Black women it's important to have access to community support, therapy, genuine self-reflection in overcoming negative self-perceptions, play and curiosity in finding joy and balance. Black women deserve to recognize their worth and pursue their aspirations despite societal challenges, so press "play" on this episode and get these soul gems!Ways to keep up w/ Deesha:Pick up her book Undiplomatic: How My Attitude Created the Best Kind of Trouble *Connect with her on Instagram!*As an Amazon Associate, I earn a small amount from qualifying purchases.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode I'm in the "studio" with my friend and guest Yolanda Williams, founder of Parenting Decolonized. We get real about a range of topics for Black women, including divesting from capitalism, redefining success, and embracing simpler, community-oriented lifestyles. Yolanda also shares her journey from California to Central Arkansas, detailing her experiences with homesteading, land ownership, and growing her own food. This conversation will hopefully help cement the importance of community support, trust, and redefining wealth beyond monetary terms. Black women deserve to reclaim their time, seek ease, and build sustainable, supportive communities so we highlight some practical steps to start living a more intentional life, including gardening, supporting local farmers, and practicing mutual aid.We both want you to live a life of abundance, rest, and joy outside the confines of traditional capitalist structures so press "play" and let's go!Learn more about Yolanda (and her work) here:Parenting DecolonizedInstagramYoutubeInstagram for Wild N Free FarmOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of the Brown Girls Self Care podcast, host Bre discusses inner child work, reparenting, and boundaries with therapist Rikki Clark McCoy, founder of Flourishing Minds. They explore the significance of addressing childhood trauma, the impact of dysfunctional families, and the importance of self-care for Black women. They also emphasize the value of learning to trust oneself, building healthy relationships, and setting boundaries. Additionally, Rikki details her holistic approach to therapy and promotes her wellness retreats aimed at helping Black women reconnect with their inner selves and foster healing.Keep up with Rikki three ways right now:Rikki hosts amazing retreats! Check out her next one in Sedona, AZ right here.Follow Rikki on Instagram to learn more about holistic healing for Black women.Listen to Rikki's podcast - The Therapy w/ Rikki PodcastOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey!Today is a "rewind" episode that originally aired back in 2022. As someone who strongly believes in the power of an abundant mindset (versus poverty/scarcity based beliefs) i wanted to share this gem of an episode again as a reminder that we can create the lives we want. Now, I guess I need to say this...obviously, we still face strong systemic oppression. So I'm not saying that we can control every outcome. What I am saying though, is that the mindset (and energy) we hold can be a powerful way for us to get into the flow of the lives we deserve.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey!!So excited to be in community today. In this solo episode I'm helping you get serious about being in relationship with yourself as you bloom while also being mindful that it can feel hard if "struggle" is looming right ahead. Let's talk about it. Leave a comment on Spotify under this episode or send an email here!Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

My guest today is Youtuber Jerri Cherry who is a Senior Citizen Advocate. In this episode she shares her journey from retiring with only three thousand dollars in the bank, her move to a retirement community, and the moment that inspired her to reevaluate her life which resulted in starting her Youtube channel "What Nobody Told Me After 65." This episode is rich w/ Jerri's personal anecdotes, reflections on societal issues, and her journey towards building a secure future through faith, investment and creating online content. Follow Jerri on her Youtube Channel - What Nobody Told Me After 65Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this empowering episode of the Brown Girls Self Care Podcast, host Bre Mitchell sits down with Dr. Traci Lynn, a trailblazing entrepreneur who turned $200 into a $100 million empire. Dr. Traci Lynn shares her remarkable journey, overcoming setbacks, faith in God and the power of resilience. She discusses the importance of self-care, building a supportive network, and empowering Black women in business. Whether you're an aspiring entrepreneur or seeking inspiration to fuel your self-care journey, this episode is a must-listen.Dr. Traci has promised to come back to continue the conversation! Be sure to get your questions in before it's too late by emailing connect@browngirlselfcare.com.Ways to connect w/ Dr. Traci Lynn:Her InstagramHer FacebookBig Dog AcademyOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This is a rewind episode that you may have missed. Let's continue to fight for our peace because there aren't too many things more important than that.Today I've got a solo episode for yout. I'm getting real about my recent experience with "comparison-itis: and how a quote from Shawn A. Ginwrights book The 4 Pivots inspired me to choose peace of mind over a harmful spiral. If things are spiraling for you too and you need permission to stress less, this episode is definitely for you.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this weeks episode I'm sharing "raw and real" details about my journey to being debt free to help you avoid some of the pitfalls I've had along the way. You will leave this episode feeling inspire to keep going as well as feeling like you are seen and supported. If fear around debt is keeping you stuck, this episode is definitely for you!Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey! This week we are diving deep into the world of singlehood, relationships, and empowerment with the esteemed sociologist, Dr. Kris Marsh. Dr. Kris and me, Bre Mitchell, are unpacking the gems from Dr. Marsh's groundbreaking book, "The Love Jones Cohort." Get ready to challenge the status quo as we debunk stereotypes surrounding Black women's love lives and celebrate the beauty of not settling.In this candid conversation, we laugh, we learn, and we liberate ourselves from societal norms, all while sipping on some truth tea. Dr. Marsh shares her wisdom on the importance of nurturing non-romantic relationships and the freedom found in refusing to settle for less. Plus, she spills her top-notch self-care routines, from mental health Mondays to hitting the green for a round of golf.But wait, there's more! We're not just talking the talk—we're walking the walk by shining a light on Black-owned businesses and rocking representation in everything we do. So grab your favorite beverage, settle into your comfy spot, and get ready for an episode packed with healing, liberation, and unapologetic self-love. It's time to rewrite the narrative and embrace the power of being true to yourself. Let's do this!Be sure to show Dr. Marsh some love!! You can find her book,The Love Jones Cohort: Single and Living Alone in the Black Middle Class near you in a Black Owned bookstore or, if you'd prefer, you can get your copy on her website. Dr. Marsh on InstagramDr. Marsh on FacebookBrown Girl Self-Care is all about fostering sisterhood and we want you to be part of it! Share your thoughts, questions, or personal stories inspired by this episode on our social media platforms. Connect with Brown Girl Self-Care on YOUTUBE, FACEBOOK or INSTAGRAM if you want more content like this. Don't forget to tag a sister who needs to hear this message too! Together, let's continue to grow, heal and bloom.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey! In this episode of the Brown Girl Self-Care podcast I want to check in with you and to do my best to ensure you feel seen and supported. In this episode I touch on a few topics including:The importance of taking time for yourself so that you don't feel depletedMaking time verus TAKING timedesire to live authentically without feeling the need to meet others' standards or expectationsBeing honest with our feelings and not needing to pretendGrab your journal, press play and let's tap in!!And before i forget!! You can follow along with me on Youtube now too!Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of the Brown Girl Self Care Podcast, host Bre Mitchell takes a reflective journey into the concept of starting over. With the backdrop of a restorative and very lush park setting, Bre shares her raw thoughts and experiences, delving into the reasons behind her desire to reset and redefine Brown Girl Self Care. From shedding external influences to embracing authenticity and inner strength, Bre offers insights and inspiration for listeners navigating their own paths of growth and renewal.This episode touches on:Starting Over with Brown Girl Self-CareReleasing External InfluencesReevaluating PrioritiesPermission To Start AgainOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

*trigger warning* This episode talks about exploitation and abuse of a Black child.In today's episode of the Brown Girl Self-Care Podcast, I am speaking with Monique Smith, aka the worlds oldest living Jane Doe. We dive into:The traumatic experiences she endured and how she became a "Jane Doe"Laying claim to her identity unapologetically so that she could begin to heal and thriveBreaking cycles with her childrenHow our babies are labeled as "runaways" more often than not and why that happensWalking out her God-given assignment even as she was unsure if she had a passion for itHow she was able to explore softness and trust after traumaMonique's book, I Am The Ancestor, can be purchased directly from her website. Click Here To Check It Out! For more details on booking this amazing woman for your next book club, inquire here.Monique's website - Known as MoniqueMonique's IGMonique's FacebookOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey Sistren!Welcome back to the Brown Girl Self-Care Podcast, your safe space for healing and empowerment! Host Bre Mitchell dives into a vital topic today: breaking free from financial struggle to pave the way for a future filled with abundance and liberation. Join us as we explore six transformative steps, rooted in self-love and empowerment, to reclaim your financial health and set yourself up for success. It's time to honor your journey, prioritize your well-being, and embrace the freedom that comes with financial empowerment. Want to get straight to the point? Start at around the 10:30 mark :)Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Happy Monday!If you have never heard about the basic in's and out's of intermittent fasting or need encouragement while taking a break from sugar, tap in to todays episode. I'm sharing the basics of what IF looks like for me plus also sharing one thing that happened as a result of my body getting back on track.As noted in the episode this is not medical advice. Please speak with a medical professional if you are considering starting your own journey. ********I've FINALLY started the BGSC Youtube channel. Click here to see my 1st video and leave me some encouragement in the comments.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Something recently happened on my end that was an excellent reminder for me to do what I believe is right/stay in integrity with my morals and faith and I absolutely had to share it here on the show. I had the opportunity to work with a brand that MANY influencers partner with but Iturned it down because it didn't sit right in my spirit. It ended up being the right decision even though on the front end it seemed like I missed out on a great opportunity. Listen for more deets and use this episode as a reminder to use your discernment when possible, even if it means not moving forward with any type of opportunity.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

If you need an infusion of good energy as we begin to shift towards "spummer" (aka Spring + Summer, lol), THIS is the episode for you! It's time to get into our flow while we forge ahead, living our best lives. Listen to todays episode and refresh your spirit!Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, sis, happy new week!In this weeks episode I'm covering a few things:5 different types of depression. Yep, there is definitely not "just" one layer of depression.Myths that Black women unfortunately have to face and resist when it comes to our mental health and/or how we existHow "just pray about it" no longer works when it comes to our healthA few online mental health resources FOR US.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

**This episode has a little bit of "language" in it so, NSF little ears or possibly work spaces**Happy Monday, Sis!Today I want to chat with you about giving yourself permission to STOP trying to keep people happy and what that looked like for me personally. If you are a recovering people pleaser, you need to listen to todays episode.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Happy Monday!In today's episode I'm getting a little personal and sharing a small slice of my thoughts on the future of BGSC Podcast. After listening today I'd love it if you took some time to think about if you are intentionally releasing and making space in your life for not only rest but also for change.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey hey!Welcome back to the pod. This week I'm having a vulnerable conversation with you about what it can mean to value yourself, how for some of us that are survivors of childhood trauma we are forced to prioritize our safety and also three things I'm doing in my journey of healing and blooming.Join me on Sundays for The Bloom Room when you support my work on PatreonOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey! This week's episode is a little different! After saying for some time now that I'd be doing BGSC videos on Youtube, I've recorded my first real video. This process is absolutely not comfortable for me but I want to show you that it's possible to follow your purpose even when it feels scary to put yourself out there.In this weeks episode, which is audio from the YT video, I'm reintroducing myself, sharing my thoughts on how money does NOT motivate me as I walk in my purpose, and how there are times that even though on the outside appearances can be one thing, on the inside they can be COMPLETELY different.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Black women get called so many negative things and we are always being hit with labels that are meant to make us feel bad about ourselves and/or encourage us to selflessly burn ourselves out by putting our entire beings last. If you have it in your mind that you are lazy because that's what you were told, or because you aren't doing all the things, this episode is for you.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This conversation isn't for anyone that isn't ready to hear it. If you put to much emphasis on fear/what people think, it will be hard for you to live a life of financial freedom.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey!*Trigger Warning For Episode (child abuse, domestic violence)*I want to share a bit about my journey to acceptance regarding the relationship I have with my parent. I hope this helps those of you having a hard time with the mother/daughter dynamic to heal a bit.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey!I recently took a staycation in a pretty swanky villa in Malibu. The point was not only to get somewhere, sit down and just be, but also I wanted to allow myself/my nervous system to see that it's ok to invest in myself and have luxury experiences.Press play and let's talk about it on todays episode.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey,Today I want to share a few things with those of us that are juuuust about ready to throw up the peace sign to our 9-5's. This was me which is why I quit my "good paying job" in 2019 right before the pandemic hit. There are two things I want to tell you before you move forward so please listen to this episode.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

How many of us every year say "new year, new me" without giving much thought about the shifts necessary to see change in our lives? This was me for many, many years. I would say it but never really meant it. Tune into todays episode where I'm sharing three things I want you to consider doing to help you not waste time in 2024.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Happy 2024!! I am so excited to be entering the new year with you. There are many distractions happening right now that, if allowed, will get you all caught up, deplete your energy and take you completely off your path. If 2024 is your year of elevation, healing, cycle breaking and much more, you absolutely must listen to this episode today because this is specifically for you.Get your 50 Journal Prompts For Black Women Who Are Radically Blooming journal right here!Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Happy Holidays and Merry Christmas. Press play on todays episode to hear my special wish for you.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey!I'm sharing a gentle reminder with you today, one that I think we need to hear many times. We can't control everything and there are going to be times where you'll need to take a step back, lean into your faith, trust God and know that things will work out for your better good. You know I have a backstory for you, right? Listen to todays episode to find out what that is and how I am using this gentle reminder even though I may have to spend hundreds of dollars handling an emergency that I didn't cause.Also, here is the tiktok that you need to see today.Lastly, you can join me/support BGSC on Patreon here.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This episode is a call to action for Black women to embrace their wellbeing. I'm sharing three transformative practices that will align you with freedom, self-love, growth and much more. This isn't just about "self-improvement." It's about leaning into the strong AND soft parts of yourself.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, Hey!If you are struggling with your insecurities and can't seem to allow yourself to break free, hit play! In this episode I'm sharing how life was for me before I got intentional about addressing my insecurities plus I'm giving you a few things to consider before going into 2024, Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode I'm joined by Cherrise Wilks, Founder of The Fund Finders as well as Affinity Consulting Group. Cherrise is not only a distinguished business development and government consulting leader, she also advocates and mentors, often seen speaking at conferences and conducting training on critical business topics like government contracting and business sustainability. In a nutshell, Cherrise is not afraid to talk about money or take the necessary steps to secure it for herself or her clients. This is why I invited her to be in conversation with me about the importance of Black women advocating for themselves in corporate and/or 9-5 spaces, in this episode we talk about the importance of mindset, how you must ALWAYS negotiate your salary, taking a step back to move ahead and much more.Keep up with Cherrise here:Affinity Consulting GroupThe Fund FindersGet your business funding guide hereInstagramOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey!In this episode I'm sharing 5 powerul ways that you can center yourself during the holidays. This is a must listen episode if one of these apply:You are in debtYou people-pleaseYou have a lowered sense of self-confidence/self-wothThe holidays leave you mentally drained or physically exhaustedAlsio, as mentioned in the episode:Here is the article about decolonizing your dietOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey!Quick episode for you. I want to share my thoughts on something that troubled me for a minute regarding the podcast as well as confirm which topic(s) likely won't ever be discussed here.Also, have a blessed week and thank you for your support from the bottom of my heart Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, Hey!If you want to have a "real" conversation without all the cutesy fluff about how you can begin now to align yourself with the 2024 your future self will thank you for, press play on this episode of the Brown Girl Self-Care podcast.I'll be sharing:How many goals/pillars to focus on between now and the end of the yearWhy you should start nowWhat a SWOT Analysis isReflections at the end to help you reflect so you can hone in your focusOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey!I want to share some encouragement with you today because recently, I had been questioning if I should continue with Brown Girl Self-Care. Listen in and I hope that you are left feeling inspired and encouraged today.Be sure to share this episode if you felt it in your spirit the way that I did.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey!In today's episode I'm sharing three things I take on a regular basis that are helping me:Grown my hair and nailsGet clearer, more glowing skinReduce inflammation in my body/jointsFeel more calmHelp me sleep betterIf you'd like to know what I'm taking to help get this glow up, press play on this weeks episode!Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey Y'all!So I'm trying something new for this episode. Several weeks ago I sat down and had a virtual conversation with someone directly from the BGSC community. I did this because just like it's important to hear from people that may be a bit more mainstream on the show it's also important to hear from women just like me and you directly from our community.Robin is sort of a "Jill of all trades." She's done a ton in her life thus far including acting, writing, painting and even standup! Currently she's hosting her podcast: A Closed Mouth Does Not Get Fed as well as writing a book that details her first hand experience with surviving an aneurysm. In this episode we talk about not only what it was like having an aneurysm but also:If there were any warning signsWhat she had to remind herself to get over being embarrassed by using a bedpanWhat she feels her purpose in life is right nowWhat keeps her moving forwardRobin also shares her thoughts on God plus gives you some encouragement that will hopefully fill your spirit.Robin's FacebookRobin's IGOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey Sistren!This is part two to last weeks episode. I promised that I'd share a simple item that I use every single day that is helping me to bloom and elevate. What you bring awareness to is able to heal, change or grow so, after you finish the episode I highly suggest that you get your hands on one ASAP and start using it this week. The 2.0 version of you will thank you for it.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, sistren!Happy Monday. In today's episode I'm sharing a little revelation I had while shopping at Costco recently. I have done some major healing in the last few years, but I still get disregulated. It's ok to not be perfect and it's ok to take a breath, raise your hand and ask for/receive help.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey! Have you ever thought about the effect an elevated (bathroom) morning routine can impact the rest of your day? Let's talk about it on todays episode. I'll be sharing some pointers to help you rethink the way you spend your time in there for your best glow-up ever!Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

I've got a special episode for you today and I know you're gonna love it!Kamili Bell Hill, Author of "Happy Plants, Happy You" is joining me "in the studio" to share our insights plants, life and everything in between. Here are a few things we touch on in this episode:When your plants bloom, you bloom and change as wellListening to those inner nudges as you step out in faith while on a new pathWhat life was life after leaving a petty 9-5 environmentWhich plants she suggests to start with if you are new to being a plant muvaDo plants need light or is low-light an actual place where plants can thrive?Pre-Order your copy of Happy Plants, Happy You right here and be sure to go say "hey" to Kamili plus tag her in your plant pics over on Instagram by following her here:PlantBlerdBlack People with PlantsOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Story Time - One night while I slept I CLEARLY heard a voice say - "You have not because you ask not." Y'all, I was SHOOK!!In this episode, I'm talking about the concept of asking and how YOU deserve and SHOULD ask for what you want and need even if you were conditioned to believe you aren't worthy of it.Join me on Patreon for more self-care support!Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey!Happy Labor Day and yes, there is a new episode of the podcast today. Absolutely! Especially because today is labor day I want to give you some indicators that automatically tell me you are in need of stillness and unproductivity. This week I am offering a free stillness challenge that starts today (9/4). Want to join? Sign up for the newsletter (scroll to the bottom and add your email address) or join me on Patreon!Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey!In this episode I am sharing a small bit of my personal evolution (in the hopes of offering encouragement to those of you that are elevating plus healing) including how it's been exactly one year since I took a spiritual solo road trip from California to Georgia.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome to another empowering episode of the Brown Girl Self-Care podcast! In this week's episode, we are diving deep into the transformative power of sisterhood and community with a truly inspiring guest. Join us as we engage in a heartfelt conversation with the incredible Dr. Joy Harden Bradford, the visionary behind Therapy for Black Girls, and the author of the enlightening new book, "Sisterhood Heals."Dr. Joy not only shares her insights on how cultivating sisterhood is an ongoing journey that requires vulnerability but we also discuss takeaways from how our elders modeled friendship behavior plus do a little unpacking around conflict in our relationships plus challenge the perception that conflict is entirely detrimental, discovering how disagreements can lead to deeper understanding and growth when approached constructively.As mentioned in this episode, take the Sisterhood Quiz right here!Keep up with Therapy For Black Girls and Dr. Joy here:InstagramFacebookWebsiteGet your copy of Sisterhood Heals hereOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey! In this episode I'm sharing SIX SHIFTS to consider when it comes to changing your money story.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey Sistren!In today's quick (but real) episode let's talk about money, liberation, and our mindsets today. If you are struggling with your finances and can't figure out why, you gotta get your mind right!! Next week I'll give you some ideas on how to move forward with a more empowered mindset/strategy. Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, Sistren! Press "play" and join me as I connect with the brilliant clinical dietician and author, Jessica Wilson, who wrote the transformative book, "It's Always Been Ours: Rewriting the Story of Black Women's Bodies." Together, we will dive into an eye-opening journey to peel back the layers on the impact of white supremacy and how it shapes the relationship that Black women have with their bodies. In this conversation we talk about food, body image, self-perception and food respectability. Unpacking the effects of survival mode on our food choices and body acceptance, Jessica sheds light on the urgent need for healing and transformation. We are in need of liberation and conversations like this one are a great way to empower ourselves while challenging the harmful, oppressive norms we have to deal with every single day (which is EXHAUSTING). You can keep up with Jessica here:InstagramTwittaGrab your copy of It's Always Been Ours!Jessica's WebsiteOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey, sistren!I've got a GREAT episode for you this week because I'm sharing 12 "simple" things that you can start doing that align with showing up for yourself. If you are a self-abandoner (like I was/am at times) and/or want to explore what it means to nurture yourself since you were never handed that blueprint, press play on this episode.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, sistren!I want to talk about being allowed to ask ourselves why/question things before making decisions. Were you allowed to do so as a child? Do you find yourself operating from the surface-level version of yourself constantly? Let's talk about it on todays episode. I also share what my attachment style is which is something important to consider when we talk about self-exploration and questioning thoughts/patterns.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In today's episode, I am sharing some things you can expect when it comes to holding boundaries. A lot of times, this can be super hard to do and you may feel like you are "failing" when in actuality, you aren't :)The author mentioned in this episode:Nedra Glover TawwabThe two books I mentioned:Drama FreeSet Boundaries, Find PeaceOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey!Let's unpack the 4th of July holiday (just a little bit) and also talk about what it can mean to redefine OUR freedom and independence. I'm also sharing what I recently did for self-care that is helping me level up my mindset as well as have more "unbalanced balance."Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey! There is a ton of talk out there about narcissists but what does it really mean to possibly be one, or be in relationship with one? What the heck even really is a narcissist? If you've ever wondered, or want to learn more about what you can do to protect yourself, this is the episode for you.If you haven't already, be sure to follow Dr. Nic on Instagram as well as check out his podcast Untherapeutic for insight on relationships that "everyday" people can benefit from.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, Hey!In this episode I'm getting straight to the point to talk about mother wounds, signs that you are still carrying them around and also how I finally liberated myself. This episode does discuss physical abuse so if that's a trigger for you, it's ok to skip this episode sis. Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey! In todays solo episode I'm sharing a bit more about my self-love journey, how being in a different environment can be a positive part of your self-care journey, and also why it's ok for Black women to cry and feel emotions.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Whew, Chillaayyy!! This conversation is a great one, y'all. I'm in conversation with author, yoga teacher and life-learner Jessamyn Stanley today. We discuss her new book, Yoke, but also connect on life, our bodies, self-worth, my #blackgirlluxury purchase of new pots and pans plus a whole bunch of other juicy stuff. We go deep but also have a few "kee-kee's" along the way. Hit play and drop in :)You can find Jessamyn and support her in these places:Jessamyn's InstagramThe Underbelly IGJessamyn's WebsiteOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey!This week I'm sharing about how I'm learning to lean into relationships with Black women that allow me to experience more closeness, sisterhood, safety....basically INTIMACY. If you were taught that intimacy is bad, or that it is only about sex, this episode is definitely for you because it's something that I was conditioned to believe as well. I'm healing and liberating myself from toxic untruths so thought this episode might serve you in some way as well.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

** This episode has a little language!! **Hey, hey! I'm in conversation with Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons, an award-winning associate professor of counseling psychology at the University of Kentucky and sexual wellness advocate. Dr. Candice is also the host of F*ck the System: A Sexual Liberation Podcast and How to Love a Human, a liberation podcast that asks people with multiple marginalized identities what the world would be like if it loved them.We are talking about the fight she found herself in with her womb as a Black woman and everything that went with that including heavy periods, the unexpected impact on her self life and even how she had to challenge the notion of "Black Excellence" to save her life.Be sure to connect with and keep up with her here:https://www.drcandicenicole.com/Her InstagramHer Youtube ChannelOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey! Thanks for listening to the Brown Girl Self-Care Podcast. Today I've got a solo episode for you. I'm getting real about my recent experience with "comparison-itis" and how a quote from Shawn A. Ginwright's book The Four Pivots inspired me to choose peace of mind over this harmful spiral. If things are spiraling for you too and you need permission to stress less than what you might currently be experiencing, this episode is definitely for you.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey!In this episode of Brown Girl Self-Care, I am in conversation with Mary-Frances Winters, author and diversity, equity, and inclusion expert, to discuss her book, "Black Fatigue: How Racism Erodes the Mind, Body, and Spirit." We explore the concept of "Black fatigue" and also its effects on Black women in the workplace.Whether you're a Black woman navigating the complexities of the workplace or someone looking to learn more about the impact of systemic oppression on marginalized communities, this episode is a must-listen.Be sure to pick up the book we discussed today- Black Fatigue: How Racism Erodes the Mind, Body, and Spirit as well as her most recent work - Racial Justice at Work: Practical Solutions for Systemic Change by clicking the links OR, if accessible by visiting your local Black owned Bookstore.Learn more about Mary-Frances Winter here:LinkedinFacebookInstagram**The links above are affiliate links through Amazon. I may be paid a small amount when you purchase through these links**Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey! In this episode, join me as I engage in a meaningful conversation with Brianna Holt, author, writer, and reporter, on her debut book titled IN OUR SHOES: On Being a Young Black Woman in Not-So "Post-Racial" America. Together, we explore the pervasive stereotypes and systemic challenges that Black women face on a daily basis, and empower ourselves to stand in our power.Holt's book offers a roadmap for expanding empathy, understanding, and allyship, as we dive deep into critical topics such as:• The "adultification" of Black girls, which has been linked to violence against them;• The danger of medical misinformation, which often results in Black women being ignored, disrespected, and even fatally harmed;• The prevalence of appropriation, where non-Black individuals treat Black art, music, and style as trends to try on, while Black individuals are criticized for the same things that are part of their cultural identity.Join us as we unpack these important issues and learn from Holt's insights and solutions.You can purchase her book here* -> In Our Shoes: On Being a Young Black Woman in Not-So "Post-Racial" AmericaYou can learn more about Brianna here:Her websiteHer Instagram*As an Amazon affiliate I earn a small percentage every time a purchase is made from my link. Thank you for your support!Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey!In this episode of the pod, I want to talk to you about how we limit ourselves by not believing we have gifts and talents, and why we tend to do this. If you know that 2023 is your year but you've been scared to move forward with purpose and intention, tap into todays episode.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey! In this episode I'm sharing my thoughts on what it means/looks like to start "doing the work" including:Addressing where we are in our journeyBeing in community with others vs. going into isolation out of fear or shameLearning to believe you are worthyDon't forget to leave a review where ever you are listening and share if you found this episode helpful. If you want to keep the healing going be sure to find me on Instagram or on Facebook. Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey! Welcome to the Brown Girl Self-Care Podcast, a show for Black women who are learning to prioritize their humanity while existing in a world that does not.In todays episode I'm sharing a profound thought I recently had that may help you on your healing journey - you don't have to the scared little girl anymore and this is going to be a key part in building in our self-confidence.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey. Welcome to the Brown Girl Self-Care podcast - a show for Black women learning to bloom as we honor our wholeness, healing and humanity while existing in a world that doesn't.Todays episode is one meant to encourage you in your journey. If you've been going through life feeling like you aren't worthy enough to be yourself and leave your mark on the world, this one is definitely for you. Have sound sensitivity? Give these Loop ear plugs a try. ** These are the ones that I mentioned in todays episode and so far they work well to help lessen the sounds of a busy neighborhood during my morning quiet time.** I am an Amazon affiliate which means that if you purchase I will earn a few cents in commission.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey! Thank you for listening to and supporting the Brown Girl Self-Care podcast. You are the best part of the community and why I do what I do.In this episode 'I'm sharing about the grief I've had over choosing to have an abortion as well as sharing some perspective on what is on the other side of grief as well as how life may not be what we imagined and thats ok.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of the podcast I'm exploring the topic of how we must "mask" and keep our faces fixed in order to be accepted and valuable. This is a huge problem and one that we've had to deal with for centuries.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this weeks episode I'm sharing with you a couple of questions to reflect on as we explore what humanity is and what it means for us to honor that humanity. I'll also share my B.E.I.N.G framework which is a work in progress that integrates with the conversation we are having today.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hello Beautiful Black Woman,On the show this week I'm sharing a few things that you'll likely notice start to happen as you empower yourself by setting boundaries. Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this weeks episode I want to talk about listening to the truths our bodies tell as well as being ok with discomfort. Towards the end I'm going to give you some truths about setting boundaries straight from my therapist and also journal prompts to help you during the week.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey!! In this weeks episode of the pod I'm sharing a few things I really want you to start thinking about this year as we explore ways to live a fuller, healthier and happier life. I'm talking deodorant, water bottles and much more.Have you signed up to join me on February 26th? Click right here for the opportunity to join for free!-> BookclubOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey! Before you listen to this episode, be sure to register for the BFF (Black Fem Freedom) Collective Bookclub that happens every month starting February 26th!! Click right here to join us-> Bookclub. Up first we are discussing bell hook's Sisters of the Yam which you can get right here -> Order Here**Now that that's done, let's get into todays episode. I'm sharing real talk about having permission to free yourself by releasing someone else's hangups that don't serve you.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, Hey! In this weeks episode I am sharing something that recently happened that ended up having me spiral and start telling myself some really negative things. I'm also sharing my process on how I'm actively healing from this and nipping it in the bud.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey! Let's get into todays episode. I'm giving your three things to be on alert for when it comes to "guru's and influencers." Are they bad? Do they lie? Should you be on guard to preserve your mental health as well as your bank account? That's what I'm sharing my thoughts on today.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode, is it ok for me to put my notes down and just flow? That's exactly what I'm doing as I discuss these points:Saying "no" and setting boundariesA book recommendation that can be used for all of 2023 - Jesus Calling by Sarah Young. Click here to check it out -> Jesus Calling*How an early morning start reminded me that God is present even when I don't "feel" himHow you decide to feel about yourself is your choice to makeWant to connect with me? You can email me here!Thank you for being the best part of Brown Girl Self-Care*This is an Amazon affiliate link. If you decide to make a purchase I will make a few cents off of what you buy. I do this to help keep the show going.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this weeks episode I'm getting real about how I was so afraid I'd let down the BGSC community last year plus three ways I'm releasing expectations of "Black Excellence" as I move forward.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Were you ever told that "practice makes perfect?" When it comes to self-care are you allowing perfectionism to keep you from enjoying the healing path that you're on?Let's talk about it in todays episode.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Happy New Year to you! Girl, we made it to 2023. I'm hoping that you had the chance (to slow allll the way down during the holidays so that you could recharge your internal battery. On the first episode of the new year I'm sharing seven things that I wish for you. Truthfully there are hundreds if not thousands of things that I wish for you, for me, for us. I tried my best to pare it down into a small list. Consider this part of our liberation list. Err..that's a work in progress. But how amazing would it be to have a liberation list for Black women. Maybe thats a work in progress. Anyway, on to todays episode!Happy listening and be sure to share the episode if it touched your spirit. Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hello Beautiful Black Woman!In this episode I'm sharing five ways that show me the healing work we are doing is actually making a difference. This includes:Understanding that there will still be hard things to process emotionallyUnderstanding my toxic patterns and behaviorsNot trying to change people but instead focusing on meRealizing that I can choose what I do for healingListen in to todays episode and be sure to write down the affirmation that I provide at the end.If you'd like to support the podcast be sure to rate and review where ever you are listening or/and share this episode on social media.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode I'm sharing my heart on how many of us are walking around smiling but in pain on the inside. It's ok to not be ok, sis. Please know that you matter and you are beyond valuable. Please know that you are loved.If you are in a situation where you need to immediately connect with someone because you are struggling PLEASE reach out to the Suicide and Crisis hotline by texting 988 or visiting https://988lifeline.org/Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey! in this weeks episode of the podcast, I want to share with you some powerful, but oh so simple, ways that you can self-soothe anytime that you need.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, Hey Beautiful Black Woman!I'm sharing five things with you today that I/we want to consider releasing as we head in to a brand new year. Email me at connect@browngirlselfcare.com and let me know what I'm missing from the list.I'm so thankful for you. YES, YOU!! So glad that you are a part of the BGSC community whether you are a listener, hang out with me on social, support on Patreon or work with me privately. This healing and inner work we are doing is a tremendous way to honor who we are as well as break the chains of chaos and dysfunction we've been subjected to. You are doing an amazing job and I'm so glad to be a part of your journey.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey! In this episode of the BGSC podcast I'm sharing a part of my shadow work process plus giving you a "tough love" reminder that our time here won't last forever, so prioritize yourself and live your life NOW.Have a self-care question that you'd like to see answered on the show? Email it to connect@browngirlselfcare.com.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hello Beautiful!In todays episode I'm sharing what two things I did for self-care over the last week or two. Spoiler alert, one of them includes edibles.Also, I'm sharing with you a misconception that some have about self-care being a magic pill. Also...In case you are wondering, here is the weighted blanket*:And here is the book, A Gentle Reminder by Bianca Sparacino**I am an amazon affiliate so may be paid a tiny fee if you purchase items through the links provided.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey! In this weeks episode I'm diving into the topic of creating the life that we deserve which includes bringing awareness to the type of energy we are bringing to the table. I had to make a decision to stop operating from a place of low energy that I wasn't aware I even had. What we do now will lead to the type of life we have in the future so don't miss this weeks episode.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey hey, beautiful Black woman! Listen in to todays episode where I go COMPLETELY off script with zero notes and talk about how I've struggled hugely with conflict/confrontation. Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey Sistren!I'm digging into the community question bag to share some tips on how to detox from social media. With the holidays plus the NEW YEAR just around the corner, this can be an amazing time to center yourself and put your energy into outlets that serve you better than scrolling Tik Tok. If you'd like to support my work, consider becoming a Patreon Member. www.patreon.com/browngirlselfcareOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey! In this episode of the pod I'm sharing some thing you need to hear about having your needs met. At the end I also provide a quick affirmation/reminder to carry with you this week.This episode is a little cussy, just a heads up.If you'd like to support my work, consider becoming a Patreon Member. www.patreon.com/browngirlselfcareOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, Hey, Beautiful Black Woman! Have you ever heard someone say that they are triggered and not quite know what they meant? In this weeks episode of the Brown Girl Self-Care podcast I'm sharing some basics on "triggers" as well as some steps to take care of yourself if and when they pop up. Since the holidays can be a time of super stress this is a great time to prepare yourself and help to maintain your peace.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey! Right off the bat I'm letting you know that a little cussing is involved in this episode, mmkay? Ok!With that said, I'm sharing my thoughts with you on what it means for Black women to be productive and ways to consider shifting away from this idea that our worthiness depends on what parts of us/our labor can be monetized as we grind and burn out.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Where did the time go? We blinked and now it's all ready the end of 2022. Yes, I am being a bit dramatic but listen, these fall and winter months hit differently. As we start to wrap up the year I want to give you four things to consider that will hopefully help you make a smooth transition into the cooler and darker seasons that tend to affect our mental health in several ways.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Did you know that white supremacy plays a huge part in our day to day lives in regards to how we feel about ourselves, the money we do/don't make, how healthy we are as well as the healthcare we receive, how exhausted we are in these 9-5's and much more?In today's episode I'm sharing 3-4 ways that I'm actively healing and prioritizing my wellness by de-centering whiteness. Grab your journal and press play to hear todays episode.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey! Welcome back to the BGSC podcast. In todays episode I want to get real with you about being a woman "of a certain age." Yes, i'm in my late 40's. Yes, I am single. Yep, I've never been married. You may be wondering a few things like...have I ever been engaged? How long have I been single? Do I get lonely? Would I ever date anything other than a Black man?Let's go ahead and talk about it! Grab your tea, settle in somewhere and let's get into it.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey Beautiful Black Woman!In this episode I'm recapping my road trip and sharing the lows, the highs, thoughts on not preparing for this journey, releasing "old Bre" with gratitude and why it's ok for "strong" Black women to do things that challenge them.Here are links to some of the things mentioned on the show*Car Fan: (plugs into the wall, your laptop or directly into your car if you have a USB port in there like I do) https://amzn.to/3eAvcprMagnetic Car Curtains (I have a 4 door Sedan): Back windows-> https://amzn.to/3QCbw1Y + front windows -> https://amzn.to/3QFoGv0Pepper Spray: https://amzn.to/3qwvu3oSun Shade (make sure you select the right size for your car): https://amzn.to/3DfRSFS9 Qt Cooler: https://amzn.to/3Qx0jj3Flying J App: https://pilotflyingj.com/rewardsWays you can support my work:Support the show on PatreonBuy me a coffee: Cashapp - $browngirlselfcareShare the episode with someone you love or consider leaving a 5 star rating and review wherever you are listening to the show.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Heyy!!Even though it's a holiday, I'm still here sharing my thoughts and experiences with individual and collective self-care for Black women. This work is important to me and so, consider it a labor of love. My hope, seriously, is that you are able to slow down and listen to todays episode while taking full, deep breaths and sipping on something restorative like lemon balm tea or perhaps a matcha latte.Let's get into todays episode! I want to share my thoughts on how, due in part to this healing work I've been doing, I've been able to bring awareness to some hurtful things that were said to me/about me when I was a child and then reframe it to something that feels more like MY truth.Press play and let's get into it.Ways you can support the work that I do:Support the show on PatreonBuy me a coffee: Cashapp - $browngirlselfcareShare the episode with someone you love or consider leaving a 5 star rating and review wherever you are listening to the show.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

I'm back in the "studio" and excited to talk about this weeks topic which is inviting peace into our journey.  I also share some things I regularly do that help me to feel more calm throughout the day.  You are worthy of peace but life and this system we exist in threatens it regularly.  Brew some tea and then listen to this episode. Product that I mentioned: Lemon Balm Drops* Ways that you can support my work include:  Cashapp - $browngirlselfcare Join me on Patreon: www.patreon.com/browngirlselfcare  Leave a rating and review on iTunes, Spotify or wherever you are listening   Share the show with a friend  :) *I am an Amazon affiliate and may receive a few coins if you purchase through the above mentioned linkOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In todays episode (road trip edition) I am sharing some thoughts and tips around developing a newer identity and how to start “walking it out.”  If you are ready to begin identifying as a higher version of yourself and set a new foundational set-point, including  putting and end to self-sabotage, listen to this episode.  Ways that you can support my work include:  Cashapp - $browngirlselfcare Join me on Patreon: www.patreon.com/browngirlselfcare  Leave a rating and review on iTunes, Spotify or wherever you are listening   Share the show with a friend    Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hello Beautiful Black Woman, Did you know that you can deepen your self-care practice by implementing the 4 S's?  Silence, solitude, surrender and stillness can be used separately or collectively and don't have to be "perfected" in order to be of benefit. **************************** This episode has graciously been sponsored by Fitbeads a company that offers self-care waistbeads handmade by Black artisans in Ghana.  Treat yo'self and get 20% off when you visit www.fitbeads.co and enter code BGSC20 at checkout.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hello Beautiful Black Woman, Let's talk a smidge about legalism and how the pressure or influence to do everything by the book is what prevents you from allowing yourself grace. Write this quote down in your journal or stick it on your wall with a post-it:  "Allow grace - not legalism - to be the foundation for your practice (Peter Scazzero). If you are curious about the book I mentioned, view it here* -> Emotionally Healthy Spirituality . **************************** This episode has graciously been sponsored by Fitbeads a company that offers self-care waistbeads handmade by Black artisans in Ghana.  Treat yo'self and get 20% off when you visit www.fitbeads.co and enter code BGSC20 at checkout. *BGSC is an Amazon affiliate and as such, I may be paid a small fee if you purchase from the booklink above.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey sis! In today's episode I am being very real about my previous thoughts about yoga as well as where I am with it today.  *Spoiler alert* I was afraid to do certain stretches labeled as yoga out of fear of angering God.  Girl, I'm having a whole conversation about this today so press play and let's get into it. This episode has graciously been sponsored by Fitbeads a company that offers self-care waistbeads handmade by Black artisans in Ghana.  Treat yo'self and get 20% off when you visit www.fitbeads.co and enter code BGSC20 at checkout. Join me for the next member only Soul-Care Sunday happening in August by becoming a patron.  Visit patreon.com/browngirlselfcare to support the show and become a member.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey!! In this episode of the podcast I'm in conversation with connector and story teller Brie Penermon, Founder of FitBeads, who ethically sources and offers waistbeads that foster self-love, body-love and culture for women. Brie shares with us how she lost herself and ended up risking her health in the hopes of juggling marriage, babies, a career plus school.  Did I mention that this was all at the the same time? Her body ended up slowing her down in an unforgettable way and had it not been for rocking waist beads she may not have had the lightbulb moment she needed until things went from bad to worse. Listen to todays episode and also be sure to find your amazing pair of Fitbeads today.  Click here to shop and be sure to take 20% off your purchase by using code BGSC20.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey!  In this episode I'm getting candid about no longer being stuck in my life and the one thing I've had to do to continue moving forward in my healing.  I promise that it sounds simple but it can in fact require a ton of courage.  I hope this episode blesses and helps you to not feel like you're the only person "going through some thangs." Books I mentioned in todays episode: Happy Money Book -> https://amzn.to/3AVQIOy ** Healing Your Lost Inner Child -> https://amzn.to/3ObOoGd Finding Me (Viola Davis) -> https://amzn.to/3OeDPST ** I believe that this is the book that talks about mapping out your childhood/teenage timeline.   Love the show and want to dive deeper into sisterhood and healing?  Join me on Patreon - > www.patreon.com/browngirlselfcare. Amazon disclosure - I participate in the Amazon Affiliate program.  This means that if you purchase something I mention by clicking through the links above, I'll be paid a small commission from the sale.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hello Beautiful Black Woman! Welcome back to the Brown Girl Self-Care Podcast.  In today's episode I'm sharing four surprising ways you may have not been a safe space for another Black woman.  This episode is not about judgement or blame but about awareness and reflection as we continue leaning into community care and support for one another. Patreon supporters of the BGSC podcast get exclusive access to BGSC self-care support group sessions.  Join today -> Patreon.com/browngirlselfcareOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, Hey! How easy has it been for you to tap into self-care?  How does it feel to be vulnerable by being in community with other Black woman?  What would your life look like six months from now if you were in a space where the people in the environment lead with compassion, grace and support?  How would you tap into wholeness when you're able to put your cape down? Let's cultivate a safe space together.  2x a month we are going to have virtual, healing meetups right online.  Join me on Patreon at any level for access: Patreon.com/browngirlselfcareOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, welcome back! In this episode I'm talking about something that seems pretty popular these days - starting your life over from scratch.  I've been thinking about this to various degrees for some time now and so today I'm sharing my thought process as well as some questions you should ask yourself if you've ever considered doing something similar. Has the Brown Girl Self-Care podcast helped you embrace a self-care lifestyle?  Consider supporting my work by becoming a patron in my private community!  Click here for more info.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hello my darlings! Welcome back to the Brown Girl Self-Care Podcast.  On todays episode I'm getting real about some areas of my life I've had to acknowledge and/or begin working through to heal my daddy wounds.   1. Being assertive 2. Learning how to receive 3. Embrace softness  4. Being there for myself 5. Allowing others to support me 6. No longer romanticizing his role in my life + letting go of bitterness Love the pod?  Be sure to support by leaving a 5 star rating and review where ever you listening. Really love the pod and want to support the work that I'm doing?  Be sure to become a patron over at Patreon!Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey Girl! Welcome back to the Brown Girl Self-Care Podcast.  Today I am in conversation with fashion icon, actress, tv host, author and speaker Bevy Smith.   Recently she spoke on the TED stage about confidence, being authentic and how life gets greater, later.  In this episode, Bevy is dropping major gems on life, being your authentic self, owning your ish, working through toxic traits, loving yourself and so much more.   If you haven't already, grab a copy of Bevy's book, Bevelations- Lessons From A Mutha, Auntie, Bestie and be sure to keep up with her on Instagram. Love the Brown Girl Self-Care podcast?  Come join me on Patreon and become a supporter!Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Welcome back to the Brown Girl Self-Care podcast.  With what is happening in the U.S. there may be times when you are out and about, wanting to "just be" or prioritize yourself, but it doesn't feel completely possible because you don't feel safe.  Instead of giving up on self-care, think about ways that you can make your personal space a place of refuge. Love Brown Girl Self-Care and want to support my work?  Consider joining my Patreon -> Brown Girl Self-Care on Patreon Did this show serve you in some way?  Consider sharing this episode with a friend.  And don't forget to leave a rating and review on iTunes.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey! Welcome back to the BGSC Podcast.  If you have been struggling to feel centered or recharged, this episode is for you because it may hold the missing key in your self-care practice.  In this episode I'm sharing a bit about earthing, the practice of connecting physically with the earth as well as growing my own food.  Yes, after 4 or 5 years I've finally moved forward on getting a balcony garden started.  Earthing (or grounding) as well as growing my own food are tools for my self-care kit that are both helping me to not only tap into calm and joy, but also allowing me to reconnect with my roots.  Listen in for more.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey! In this episode I'm sharing ways and reasons to be productive for yourself versus giving it all away to others and your career.   Come join our sister squad.  19 spots remaining for June's Puzzle and Sip.  Get puzzle and tickets for you and your friends here -> Puzzle and Sip Support for our sponsor:   RVL Wellness Co is offering a 15% off discount to all of my listeners. Go to www.rvlwellnessco.com and use code "BGSC15” at checkout for 15% off your first order of a self-care puzzle for a limited time. This episode was sponsored by RVL Wellness Co., a small black woman-owned puzzle company located in Charlotte, NC. RVL (pronounced Revel) Wellness Co. was founded to provide Black women a luxe self-care experience through dedicated quiet time and mindfulness products. Founder, Brittny Horne, understood the pressure on Black women to be booked and busy without prioritizing their wellness. She started RVL as a reminder to pause and enjoy an intended moment of calm through puzzling. They're on a mission to elevate both the personal and professional well-being of Black women. Their mindfulness products feature curated collections from Black female artists and reflect the values, dreams, and joy in our life experience. They believe art should be savored and design puzzles to be framed and used as home decor.  Whether you have time for a mini wellness break or a full day for quiet time, they have a range of puzzles for you to bask in your peaceful moment. Renew your energy with their handmade puzzles available in 48, 120, or 300 pieces. It’s your right to settle in and show love to yourself through intentional downtime. They're here to help you revel in it, piece by piece. RVL Wellness Co is offering a 15% off discount to all of my listeners. Go to www.rvlwellnessco.com and use code "BGSC15” at checkout for 15% off your first order of a self-care puzzle for a limited time.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

I'm back with an Eff the Cubicle edition episode of the pod.  Here are some things discussed today: You already know (or knew) what you wanted to do years ago How we pretend to show up when we really aren't showing up How I wasted YEARS of my life starting and stopping Let me know your thoughts about todays episode.  Reach me at connect@browngirlselfcare.com. Also, as mentioned, here are the details for the Soul-Care Sunday happening on June 12th! - > Puzzle and Sip! As of now there are 19 spots left to join us.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of the podcast I am in conversation with Brittny Horne, Founder of RVL Wellness, a self-care puzzle company created specifically for Black women.   During our time together here are some of the points we talked about:  How Brittny decided to take a huge risk by living in another country at a young age and if it paid off  Working in a toxic job and how she ignored the red flags in the pursuit of making money  Questioning herself to the point of having panic attacks and how she reclaimed her life How doing puzzles with her grandmother nurtured her spirit Why she decided to start a puzzle company that featured Black art   Want access to podcast episodes before they drop?  Click here to join Brown Girl Self-Care on Patreon for bonus content created to refill your cup.   Join Us For The Puzzle + Sip! Support for our sponsor: This episode was sponsored by RVL Wellness Co., a small black woman-owned puzzle company located in Charlotte, NC. RVL (pronounced Revel) Wellness Co. was founded to provide Black women a luxe self-care experience through dedicated quiet time and mindfulness products. Founder, Brittny Horne, understood the pressure on Black women to be booked and busy without prioritizing their wellness. She started RVL as a reminder to pause and enjoy an intended moment of calm through puzzling. They're on a mission to elevate both the personal and professional well-being of Black women. Their mindfulness products feature curated collections from Black female artists and reflect the values, dreams, and joy in our life experience. They believe art should be savored and design puzzles to be framed and used as home decor.  Whether you have time for a mini wellness break or a full day for quiet time, they have a range of puzzles for you to bask in your peaceful moment. Renew your energy with their handmade puzzles available in 48, 120, or 300 pieces. It’s your right to settle in and show love to yourself through intentional downtime. They're here to help you revel in it, piece by piece. RVL Wellness Co is offering a 15% off discount to all of my listeners. Go to www.rvlwellnessco.com and use code "BGSC15” at checkout for 15% off your first order of a self-care puzzle for a limited time.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, girl, hey!  Recently, right as I was hopping off of an Instagram Live a young lady asked me about self-soothing.  I wasn't able to discuss it then, so thought the podcast would be an excellent place to provide some insight. In this episode I talk about what self-soothing is, why I feel that it in some cases it's a band-aid fix (but definitely a tool for our self-care tool kits) and also some ways to do it to bring down stress levels and anxiety. Support for our sponsor: This episode was sponsored by RVL Wellness Co., a small black woman-owned puzzle company located in Charlotte, NC. RVL (pronounced Revel) Wellness Co. was founded to provide Black women a luxe self-care experience through dedicated quiet time and mindfulness products. Founder, Brittny Horne, understood the pressure on Black women to be booked and busy without prioritizing their wellness. She started RVL as a reminder to pause and enjoy an intended moment of calm through puzzling. They're on a mission to elevate both the personal and professional well-being of Black women. Their mindfulness products feature curated collections from Black female artists and reflect the values, dreams, and joy in our life experience. They believe art should be savored and design puzzles to be framed and used as home decor.  Whether you have time for a mini wellness break or a full day for quiet time, they have a range of puzzles for you to bask in your peaceful moment. Renew your energy with their handmade puzzles available in 48, 120, or 300 pieces. It’s your right to settle in and show love to yourself through intentional downtime. They're here to help you revel in it, piece by piece. RVL Wellness Co is offering a 15% off discount to all of my listeners. Go to www.rvlwellnessco.com and use code "BGSC15” at checkout for 15% off your first order of a self-care puzzle for a limited time.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode I'm sharing five things that I wish I knew years ago when I battled depression.  The Mayo Clinic defines depression as a mood disorder that that causes a persistent feeling of sadness and loss of interest.   Causes of depression include abuse, serious illnesses, personal problems and even genes with women being twice as likely as men to be depressed. (WebMD) According to Hopkins Medicine, approximately 26% of Americans suffer from a diagnosable mental disorder in a given year.  That is about 1 out of every 4 adults.   My hope is that this episode, and my story, help you or someone you know to understand that if you've ever experienced depression, anxiety, sadness or uncertainty, you are not alone. Support for our sponsor: This episode was sponsored by RVL Wellness Co., a small black woman-owned puzzle company located in Charlotte, NC. RVL Wellness Co. was founded to provide Black women a luxe self-care experience through dedicated quiet time and mindfulness products. Founder, Brittny Horne, understood the pressure on Black women to be booked and busy without prioritizing their wellness. She started RVL as a reminder to pause and enjoy an intended moment of calm through puzzling. They're on a mission to elevate both the personal and professional well-being of Black women. Their mindfulness products feature curated collections from Black female artists and reflect the values, dreams, and joy in our life experience. They believe art should be savored and design puzzles to be framed and used as home decor.  Whether you have time for a mini wellness break or a full day for quiet time, they have a range of puzzles for you to bask in your peaceful moment. Renew your energy with their handmade puzzles available in 48, 120, or 300 pieces. It’s your right to settle in and show love to yourself through intentional downtime. They're here to help you revel in it, piece by piece. RVL Wellness Co is offering a 15% off discount to all of my listeners. Go to www.rvlwellnessco.com and use code "BGSC15” at checkout for 15% off your first order of a self-care puzzle for a limited time.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, Hey! In this episode of the Brown Girl Self-Care Podcast I'm in conversation with Dr. Nic Hardy, a Licensed Therapist based out of TX whose zone of expertise includes helping us repair and/or grow from our relationships while also addressing challenges we face that are rooted in fear, anxiety and trauma. His work has been featured in Cosmopolitan, HuffPost, NBC LX, PopSugar Ask.Men, Bustle, PscyhCentral and other national publications. He has also consulted on mental health for several fortune 500 companies. He received his Ph.D. from the University of Houston, where his research focused on relationship satisfaction in Black and minority families. Today, Nic and I are talking about self-care as it relates to issues including: Survival mode Managing tension in relationships where we are the primary caregiver The importance of not overcompensating in relationships How to better communicate with your partner in healthier ways so that we aren't sending/reading the dreaded "we need to talk" text message You can find Nic here: Instagram -> https://www.instagram.com/nichardy_/ Website to book a session -> https://www.nichardy.com/ Twitter -> https://www.twitter.com/nichardycs If you know that it's your season to take your self-care to the next level, be sure to join my private community on Patreon -> https://www.patreon.com/BrownGirlSelfCareOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

I used to believe that self-care (specifically through self-help and personal development) was a cure for how broken, unworthy and damaged I believed myself to be.  I was addicted to any and everything self-help but would never take the time to implement anything I learned. If this sounds like you, I want you to know that you aren't broken.  Listen to todays episode and let me know if you can relate to my personal share this week. Get access to exclusive self-care content when you support the show on Patreon. Share this episode with a friend and don't forget to tag me on social with your thoughts on this topic.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

How can you begin to embody what it means to take up space?  As a Black woman who worked in corporate America I can tell you that there were many, many times that I bit my tongue or hid my brilliance and based on conversations I've had, I am not the only one. How do we embrace our value and begin to take up the space we rightfully deserve?  Today I'm sharing three specific ways: 1. Honor your value 2. Own your words 3. Fill the space with your presence Also, a bonus one is that everything we do doesn't warrant an apology (like I used to believe). Press play on this episode to listen and be sure to share with someone that needs to hear todays message. Love the podcast?  Want to show support AND get access to bonus self-care content for Black women?  Join me on Patreon here -> Brown Girl Self-CareOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, Hey!   In this episode of the Brown Girl Self-Care Podcast Host Bre Mitchell Is addressing 3 things to consider when it comes to "haters" and also, more importantly, what you should focus on instead of giving your energy to naysayers. Be sure to share this episode with other Black women that need some encouragement and motivation today to prioritize their wholeness and healing plus don't forget to leave a review on iTunes. Want bonus self-care content including challenges and merch?  Support the pod on Patreon by going to patreon.com/browngirlselfcare  Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, Hey! In today's episode I'm sharing my thoughts on the confirmation hearings and how what Hon. Jackson Brown experienced correlates to Black Women in corporate America. Make sure to support the podcast by joining me on Patreon at www.patreon.com/browngirlselfcare to get bonus content!Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey Beautiful Black Woman!!   Happy Monday and welcome back to the Brown Girl Self-Care Podcast, a show for Black women who are tired of the narrative that wholeness and prioritization are not for us. On todays episode I'm sharing 5 words with that I now think about in a whole new light when it comes to my wellbeing.  These 5 words have been holding me hostage FOR YEARS before I got intentional about putting myself first.  Are these words holding you back?  Press play on this episode and see for yourself. Be sure to join me on Patreon in support of the podcast.  www.browngirlselfcare.com/browngirlselfcare  Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey! In this episode of the podcast Self-Care Coach Bre discusses the importance of "packing light" as well as three indicators that it's time to start letting things go.  If you've been feeling stuck or weighed down with old relationships, circumstances, habits or beliefs that no longer serve you, this weeks episode is for you. Join Me on Patreon: Patreon Work with me to map out your restorative 12 week self-care plan: Book a strategy session  Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey! In this weeks episode of the pod I'm talking about the unsexy side of self-care.  While there are a lot of people on social media showing you their self-care highlights I want you to understand that self-care isn't always "'pretty" so that you don't get caught up in comparison traps. I'm also sharing three steps to take that will help you on your self-care journey: 1 - Self-awareness 2 - Get still 3 - Move Forward Want to support the Brown Girl Self-Care Podcast for more content like this?  Join my Patreon! - www.patreon.com/browngirlselfcareOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey girl! Carrying the weight of life can get super heavy, quickly!  It's important to get into a habit of moving and being active because you are giving your body and mind permission to release and let go (emotions, things keeping you stuck and stagnant, etc).  In todays episode I'm talking about walking and walking meditations.  Have you ever tried this?  Press play to hear more.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In honor of hitting 1 million downloads, I'm sharing 4 realizations I've had since/while starting this podcast.  Please be sure to share with the women in your life who are on a journey of healing. In this episode I'm talking about learning to trust yourself, ditching perfectionism, understanding the power of habits and how it's never too late to use your gifts. Ready for more clarity, confidence and creativity?  Book a 90 minute self-care strategy session with me!  Click here to learn more and book your appointment.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Happy Valentines day!! I used to feel so conflicted by this holiday and it was mostly because I centered how I loved myself based on who did or didn't love me. Listen to todays episode for three tips you can begin to use today to invite more healing to your self-care journey. Check out the 14 Day Mindset Challenge Right Here -> Mindset Challenge Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Trigger Warning:  In this episode I'm discussing suicide.  Please protect your mental health and choose a different episode if this is a triggering topic for you right now. Resources I give in this episode: 1-800-273-TALK (National Suicide Prevention Hotline) Text "Strength" to 741-741 (Crisis Text Line)  --------------------------------- Click here to learn more about the Mindset Challenge that starts February 14th, 2022!Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Join me for the New Year, New Mindset Challenge starting February 14th.  Use code "Happy New Year" for early bird pricing through February 2nd.  Click Here To Enroll Or Learn More -> New Year, New Mindset ChallengeOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey! On this episode of the podcast I'm challenging you to take ten minutes out of your day to be still for better health.  Are you in?  Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

A new episodeOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

A new episodeOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

A new episodeOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

As we enter the new year you are likely thinking about the changes in life sure to come as God begins blessing you with the things you asked for.  If you've ever felt a bit of panic or even thought "Am I making a mistake by wanting this change" this episode is for you. Learn to use affirmations to increase your calm, clarity and confidence in 2022.  Attend the Brown Girl Self-Care Affirmation Workshop happening January 2nd, 2022.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Heeeey! In today's episode I'm answering a community members question about how to bounce back from a bad decision.  This is a great question because everyone makes choices that don't end up panning out in ways that we hoped for and when that happens we feel stuck on how to move forward.  There is usually shame around it too.  You are more than just the outcomes of your decisions. Girl, have you saved your seat for my affirmation workshop happening on January 2nd?  This will be a virtual event so no need to hop on a plane or book a hotel.  For 90 minutes I'll be teaching you how to think about your thoughts and words and how to use affirmations in a way where you start to notice positive transformation.  If you're tired of feeling like the words you are saying are a lie, if you don't know how use affirmations or if you want to create a life of more calm, clarity and confidence this workshop is for you. Register for your space here -> Brown Girl Self-Care Affirmation WorkshopOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

On this episode I'm asking to think about where you are rooted.  By rooted I mean your thoughts, things that were spoken over your life, daily messages you receive, etc that you've absorbed and now allow to dictate your life in this season.  Are you rooted in good soil?  It's never too late to set a new course for your life. To join me at Januarys self-care workshop by reserving your space here - AFFIRMATION WORKSHOP Stay connected with me and this unapologetic movement of self-care for Black women by : Following on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/browngirlselfcare/ Following on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/browngirlselfcare Signing Up For weekly email updates https://view.flodesk.com/pages/611d92f65d8876143a1a2623Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, sis!  Welcome back for another episode.  Today all I want to do is drop some words of encouragement in your spirit if you are struggling with a case of the Monday Blues.  If your job feels like a soul suck, this episode is for you. Stay connected with Bre and this unapologetic movement of self-care for Black women by : Following on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/browngirlselfcare/ Following on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/browngirlselfcare Signing Up For weekly email updates https://view.flodesk.com/pages/611d92f65d8876143a1a2623Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey! In this episode of the show I'm sharing six sneaky ways we can end up falling for common self-care traps that slow us down or completely take us out.   Are you ready for 1-on-1 self-care coaching?  Book your sessions here: https://rebrand.ly/selfcarecoaching Stay connected with Bre and this unapologetic movement of self-care for Black women by : Following on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/browngirlselfcare/ Following on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/browngirlselfcare Signing Up For weekly email updates https://view.flodesk.com/pages/611d92f65d8876143a1a2623  Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey! Have you ever felt like you were too quirky, "weird," or just didn't fit in because there was something about you that stood out from the crowd?  Did you try to hide that thing?  Were you teased for it?  That thing you've been sleeping on about yourself can be the key to moving your life forward in a beautiful way.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey! Sis, do you have an emergency self-care plan in place?  I'm giving you four things to think about today to help you put one in place this week. Everyone needs support in life.  If you are ready to work one on one for self-care coaching, email Bre at connect@browngirlselfcare.comOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

I'm not sure who this episode is for but I want to be obedient and release it.  Take action, Sis. Also, if you are in need of self-care coaching you can email me at connect@browngirlselfcare.com.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode I'm sharing five simple ways to invest in yourself today  that will empower you to not only acknowledge your value but also help start to shift you out of "grind" mode.    Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In todays Eff The Cubicle episode I'm joined by Aai'sha Shakir-Wright, founder of Sugar Shak Collection.  Aai'sha shares with us how she uncovered her passion which led her to starting a wildly successful business, how she created a life of freedom, what her season of sacrifice looked like and also why money is not the most important benefit of being an entrepreneur. For our listeners, Suga (Aai'sha) is giving you 50% off of EVERYTHING in the Sugar Shak when you use code "Brown Girl".  Visit sugarshakcollection.com to support a Black Business that supports Black Women by creating quality body and skin care products.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode I'm sharing 4 things for you to consider when it's hard to receive support or ask people for help.  Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In todays episode I'm sharing some things I've learned that I wish I could go back in time and discuss with my younger self.  Are any of my things on your list?  What would you go back in time to discuss with your younger self? Join me at the end of October for our Waist Beads + Wine event.  Get your virtual ticket now!Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode I'm giving you a four question exercise you can begin using IMMEDIATELY in times of feeling overwhelmed with responsibilities and challenges straight from the book How To Stop Worrying and Start Living by Dale Carnegie. Have you gotten your ticket to our crafting event Waist Beads + Wine where you'll learn how to make your own strand of waist beads? Get your ticket by clicking here. Find this episode helpful?  Share it with your sister-friends.  Also, don't forget to leave a rating and review!!Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

You ready for another Eff The Cubicle episode?  Sho nuff!  Today I'm in conversation with Shana Campbell, Founder of Launch Your Brilliance.  Launch Your Brilliance is an online business created to provide coaches, consultants, influencers and other service based entrepreneurs the nuts and bolts of how to run challenges and webinars plus offers done-for-you courses and digital products.  Get Shana's free, short delegation workbook right here today! https://www.launchyourbrilliance.com/effthecubicle.  Don't forget to hit the self-care shop and pick up your Eff The Cubicle swag for 10% off this week only.  No code needed!Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Got a quick episode for you this week and it's all about how we are no longer co-signing with the popular saying "One man's trash is another man's treasure."   Be sure to listen, share and leave a comment!! Also, come hang out with me on October 30th at our next virtual event.  Get your ticket for only $27 by clicking here to learn more.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

I've got a listener question this week and it's all about ways to get clear on what you want.  Spoiler alert - negative thinking is not going to move you forward. If you listened to this episode be sure to share your thoughts in your stories on IG so that I can share them with the community. Have you checked out the self-care shop, sis?  I've got some amazing, hand-poured affirmation candles that can help you set the tone for any mood.  Click here to visit the shop and get yours today!Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey y'all!  Welcome to Eff The Cubicle Fridays!!  I'lll be sharing candid conversations with amazing Black women entrepreneurs plus tips you can use to help bring your vision of starting a business to fruition. Be sure to grab your Eff The Cubicle swag by clicking here:  Eff The Cubicle Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

How do you handle delays in your life?  Are you fussy, fearful and impatient or are you able to stay patient and trust in God's timing.  Here's an embarrassing diddy about the time I (recently) experienced a delay and how I handled it like a non boss .  I also have three takeaways about delays and how they aren't a "no" but just a "not yet." Affirmation candles are "buy one, get one 50% off" through September 29th.  Stock up now by clicking here. Have a question (or topic) you'd love to have answered on the show?  Email connect@browngirlselfcare.com and let me know. And don't forget to text "WORTHY" to 833-774-1547 for self-care reminders, love notes and vip sales updates right to your phone.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

I've got a listener question for you today.  Shout out to Tamia for being an awesome listener of the show and for writing to me at connect@browngirlselfcare.com . This episode is all about being consistent during the times we don't want to be. Want some self-care love by way of text messages that come directly from me?  Send the word WORTHY to 833-774-1547. There is still time to join us for the Waistbeads + Wine (Virtual) Event.  Click here to get your ticket today and I'll see you there. Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Y'all, I carried a ton of tension around in my body back in the day and didn't realize it.  In today's episode I'm sharing exactly what that tension represented and where in my body I felt it.   Like this episode?  Be sure to leave a 5 star rating and review on iTunes.  Also, don't forget to share the Brown Girl Self-Care podcast with a friend. Get your ticket to the Waist Beads + Wine Self-Care Event happening October 9th by clicking here or go to www.rebrand.ly/waistbeads. Text "WORTHY" to 833-774-1547 to get insider access to Brown Girl Self-Care love notes, reminders, events & merchandise sales.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey Sis, I know that it's Labor Day and all, but I'm still hitting you with an episode of the show. Have you ever run away from your greatness and the better that God has for you?  Deep down you knew it was there but it scared you so much to have to walk into that season of uncertainty it caused you to make excuses, run away,  ignore the signs and stay in a place of chaotic comfort?  Yep, that is what I want to talk about on todays episode.  I'm giving you four things to consider or try when you get to the place where you can no longer run from what is in store for you. **Registration is open for our next virtual self-care event, Waist Beads and Wine. Visit www.Rebrand.ly/waistbeads or click here to learn more about the event. Get your ticket before the price goes up, ladies!  I can't wait to see you on October 9th. **Text WORTHY to 833-774-1547 for self-care love notes, event updates, secret give aways and sales!Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey!   I'm talking with Vlogger Stephanie of Oh! Stephco about her experience as a Black woman that doesn't have "pretty privilege."  Don't know what that is?  In a nutshell it means the more attractive you are the more opportunities (money, interest, relationships, gifts, favorable treatment, etc) are available to you. I found Stephanie's viral Pretty Privilege video back in July (click here to watch) whilst scrolling around on Youtube and co-signed my way through parts of it.  I wanted to be in conversation because I've had similar experiences as a Black woman that doesn't check the boxes of what society considers conventionally beautiful or relevant.  For anyone that has ever felt less than and invisible I want you to know it isn't you! Listen in then let me know your thoughts on todays episode. You can find Stephanie's channel here: YoutubeOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Today is the day of Collective Rest!  Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey! You know the quote "If it costs your peace, it's too expensive?"  Well, what if we are costing our own peace because we are in a place of mess?   Let's talk about that in todays episode! Speaking of "peace" I have two HOT designs in the shop this week that I want you to see.  Get your t-shirt or sweatshirt today! https://bit.ly/3kzmQht https://bit.ly/3j8oiaXOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

I know I'm not the only one that would get excited about having surgery because it meant at least 4-6 weeks off of work, right?  The thing is that I was using avoidance (not addressing the challenges I had or how I felt) to navigate my life but that didn't mean the problems I had disappeared. In this episode I'm sharing three things I had to learn to do that helped me get a better handle on my avoidance issues. In the episode I mention the link I found on CNN in case you would like to help support Haiti.  Click here!Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Laughing but so serious! Hey Sistren, today I'm having sharing a part of my growth/personal development journey.  I have a habit of switching up something I'm going to do and instead moving forward on someone's suggestion because they are in a (sometimes perceived) place of authority.  Sound like you?  Listen to this weeks episode where I'm sharing three things I want you you (and me) to do before automatically shifting the direction of our businesses and lives. Will I see you on August 29th and 30th at the Brown Girl Self-Care Virtual Retreat?  Click here to get your ticket!Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, Hey! Saying this off the top - There is LANGUAGE in this episode.   Today I'm sharing my thoughts on how Simone Biles and Naomi Osaka were called "quitters" for choosing their mental health over entertaining the masses.  It takes courage to put yourself first and girl, I need you to know that it's ok to do so.   Let's get into it in todays episode. Also, don't forget there is still time to get your virtual retreat ticket.  Click here!Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey Sistren, This week, I'm in conversation Tifani Gilliam, Founder of Women Surviving SHTF™. As the saying goes - If you stay ready, you ain't got to get ready - and I'm a firm believer that women, especially Black women, must be prepared for emergencies.  Our communities are not prioritized the way that we deserve and so if something happens (heaven forbid) like another flood, massive earthquake, or civil unrest, being able to safely stay indoors or quickly leave our homes with what we need to survive and take care of ourselves is not an option. I need you to do three things: Have a pen and notepad ready to take notes Commit to spending 30 minutes after the episode reflecting on three ways you can begin your prep work journey today Share this episode with a friend that needs to hear it Join Tifani's community and learn more about prepping right here: Black Preppers : Women Surviving SHTF™ - Melanin Ready Prep™    Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey Sistren, Gotta quickie but goodie this week in the form of some reflection.  When I say the word "rest" do you automatically think of sleep?  There are other ways to rest and today I'm talking about some of them in the hopes that you will get laser focused on what type you need when you need it. Tickets are now available for the Brown Girl Self-Care Virtual Summit!Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey Sistren, This week, I'm in conversation with Debi and Alana of Nap Fam and Goddess Reflections.  They are a dynamic mother/daughter duo who not only work together but also love each other and say they are best friends. I wanted to have them on so that I could unpack my experiences of being a daughter as well as a mother, so that I can learn how to navigate towards healthier relationships on both sides of the spectrum This is a two-part episode, with part two dropping tomorrow.  In these episodes we are discussing any and everything including: - Learning how to speak to your kids so they listen vs yelling out of frustration - Journaling - The importance of exposing children to different experiences while they are growing and evolving - The six core values prioritized in their relationship that helps make all of this work in a healthy way Make sure you share both episodes with a friend!!  Please be sure to support Debi and Alana right here: Natural And Proud Nation App Goddess Reflections I AM Have you heard about the Day of Collective Rest for Black Women happening in August?  Make sure you are on the newsletter to get more info by clicking right here!  In need of community?  Come hang out with us in Brown Girl Society and be a part of our wonderful village.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey Sistren, This week, I'm in conversation with Debi and Alana of Nap Fam and Goddess Reflections.  They are a dynamic mother/daughter duo who not only work together but also love each other and say they are best friends. I wanted to have them on so that I could unpack my experiences of being a daughter as well as a mother, so that I can learn how to navigate towards healthier relationships on both sides of the spectrum This is a two-part episode, with part two dropping tomorrow.  In these episodes we are discussing any and everything including: - Why Debi decided to break traditions and parent Alana the way she felt made the most sense - How Alana told Debi she had sex for the first time and how Debi reacted in a way I can't honestly say I would have been able to - Hard lessons Debi learned about life which prompted her to empower Alana at a young age to be more liberated - The six core values prioritized in their relationship that helps make all of this work in a healthy way Make sure you share this episode with a friend and don't forget to come back tomorrow for the continuation of our chat! You can catch up with Debi and Alana right here: Natural And Proud Nation Goddess Reflections I AM Have you heard about the Day of Collective Rest for Black Women event?  Make sure you are on the newsletter to get more info by clicking right here!Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey Sistren, Recently I made a huge decision that can potentially change the course of my life.  When I tell you this decision had me shook, yall!  I ended up getting a bit anxious, ok, super anxious and this led to me having a panic attack. In this episode I'm sharing: - How long I've had anxiety and panic attacks - How going into fight/flight/freeze mode can be helpful but also harmful -What my anxiety attacks personally feel like - The 5-4-3-2-1 grounding exercise I use to calm down and center myself Be sure to share this episode with the important women in your inner circle. Have you heard about the Day of Collective Rest for Black Women event?  Make sure you are on the newsletter to get more info by clicking right here!Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey! Sistren, the MJB My Life documentary is up on Amazon Prime.  You need to run, not walk, over to the TV or your nearest streaming device, put it on and get your entire life. There were so many take aways for me, including the apalledness I felt (I'm not even sure if apalledness is a real word) when hearing about K-Ci's role in her story.  But today we aren't talking about that.  Today I'm going to share 4 powerful notes I need you to hear and understand.   In this episode I'm talking about: Why success isn't about how much money you have in the bank Leaning into your "saving grace" Seeing past the "physical" Why you need to stop crapping on yourself Be sure to share this episode with the important women in your inner circle. Have you heard about the Day of Collective Rest for Black Women event?  Make sure you are on the newsletter to get more info by clicking right here! Support this episodes sponsor: Sugar Shak - Natural Bath, Body and Skin Essentials  Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey! I've got a GREAT episode for you.  I'm in conversation with Nomad Crystal Vanner and she is spilling the tea on just about everything vanlife.  If you have ever considered buying a 60k Sprinter Van and hitting the road (ok, that was possibly just me) or if you think that the freedom of vanlife is only a "White" thing, this episode you gotta hit play on this episode.  Here are some discussion points: Basics to getting started How does Crystal protect her peace while taking care of her mental health Where does she...go to the bathroom? Why you should camp out in your car before even thinking about going all in What she does to afford a nomadic lifestyle Be sure to watch Crystals adventures on her Youtube Channel by clicking here! Her Website: Nomad 4 Less Her Instagram: Crystal Vanner Resources mentioned: African Americans That RV and Camp African American Singles That RV and Camp Have you heard about the Day of Collective Rest for Black Women event?  Make sure you are on the newsletter to get more info by clicking right here! Support this episodes sponsor: Sugar Shak - Natural Bath, Body and Skin EssentialsOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Solo episode today!  I recently experienced a woman walking completely and boldly in her vision and it was a sight to see.  I've been telling myself for the last few months that I am ONLY walking in Faith and there is ZERO room for disbelief.  Seeing this Queen do exactly that was an excellent reminder for me to keep building my table even if no one else is in the room to sit at it (yet).   Have you heard about the Collective Day of Rest for Black Women event?  Make sure you are on the newsletter to get more info by clicking right here! Support this episodes sponsor: Sugar Shak - Natural Bath, Body and Skin EssentialsOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

I'm speaking today with licensed marriage and family therapist Hazel Walker of It's AParently Time about being yourself, the importance of determining who you are outside of the labels of mother, employee, etc, empowering yourself to dictate who has access to you and also communicating your boundaries in relationships when dealing with draining situations. Liked what you heard in this episode?  Be sure to register for Hazels FREE event "Am I Ready For Parenthood" and also connect with her on social media. Support this episodes sponsor: Sugar Shak - Natural Bath, Body and Skin EssentialsOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In a time where we can have orders Amazon Primed within 24 hours (or less) it's no surprise that having to wait more than a few days through a tough decision to see a breakthrough can be agonizing.  It's during those times that it's even more important to activate your faith.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

"National Be A Millionaire Day" was a few days ago and it got me to thinking about what being a millionaire would mean as well as the fact that cash might be king but there are other ways we can be wealthy right now.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

May is Mental Health Awareness Month and so I wanted to support you by sharing ways that I've been able to honor and be mindful of my mental health.   If you found this episode helpful please be sure to like, comment and share with your sistrens!Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Today I am speaking with physician and success strategist Dr. Omolara Uwemedimo, creator of Melanin, Medicine & Motherhood.  In this juicy episode we discuss what Faith means to her, how she uses her voice as an introvert, the major occurrence that happened in her life that caused her to slow down and also some book resources that helped shape her life.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

If you've gained a few pounds in the last year or two, hear me when I say you aren't alone.  Lockdown, stress and working from home got me caught up in a rut which found me not moving my body as much as I used to.  To counter the weight gain and get back on track I've started doing two simple activities (walking + intermittent fasting) that will tone my body, increase my energy and keep my mind clear.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

I've been slowly simmering on borderline rage for the last few weeks off and on.  In today's episode I'm sharing MY thoughts and feelings regarding the guilty verdict Derek Chauvin received and why I don't feel like celebrating.  I get a little emotional in the episode so if that is triggering please be gentle with yourself and skip this episode.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

A new episodeOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Have you ever been shamed or guilted into attending potlucks, after-hours  events or traveling for your job?  I was for quite some time until I took a firm stand, set a boundary said I would only participate when I felt it was right for me.  I talk about that in todays episode!Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

I received a community question from a young woman asking how she could change her mindset to encourage more awareness, faith and access to abundance when lack is super prevalent.   Listen to todays episode where I give some insight on how I've been able to work on moving past limiting beliefs and opening myself up to positivity and thinking more abundantly. Special shout out to todays sponsor Buttered By K-Luxe.  If your skin is crying out for moisture  and you are about that "natural product" life, check out their moisture rich body butters and scrubs..  I've got a special code that will get you 15% off your order - BreSpring15.  Visit www.butteredbykluxe.com today!  Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode I'm speaking with Christian Counselor and Speaker Kobe Campbell about trauma.  What you are listening to is a portion of a conversation we recently had live in front of an audience.  Here is what you'll hear in the session: What is trauma? How is it received? How do you know if you experienced it? What are the ways our relationships with our parents play out in our friendships and intimate partnerships? Make sure you connect and follow my guest Kobe here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/healingcirclepodcast/ Healing Circle Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-healing-circle-podcast/id1448504061 And also, make sure you join Brown Girl Society by clicking here for more conversations just like this one, monthly printables to help you stay in alignment with your goals and also a village of like minded women all focused on healing and living an elevated life:  https://bit.ly/3qOZbulOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

It's easy to forget who you are, or who you are being led to be, when you feel stuck in a place of being overwhelmed and depleted.  That's how I've been feeling for about a week or so.  Today I decided to make a list (with the help of the alphabet) of who I am in God based on his promises for my life as well as the purpose he has for me.  I hope that you find this list helpful and that it encourages you to hit the pause button this week and sit down with your pen and journal to make your own. Feeling alone in your journey of a life well lived?  Need more faith based support?  In need of a sense of belonging and community with other Black women?  Join Brown Girl Society!Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey Beautiful Black Woman!! In this episode of the podcast I'm sharing a letter I received from the community and my thoughts about staying comfortable with your struggle.   If you are feeling afraid to get out of your struggle comfort zone or have ever gotten anxiety about a season of growth and opportunity, this episode is for you. Make sure to join our online village, Brown Girl Society, by clicking here.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, sis! I've gotten questions on occasion asking "How do I start loving myself or showing up for myself?"  In this episode I'm going to give you seven ways that we show up for others, which not coincidentally are ways that God shows his love for us.  These simple but effective principles are powerful ways to also commit to loving ourselves.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Sis, if you are working at a job that no longer serves you, hear me when I say you are not stuck.  If you are afraid to set up healthy boundaries in the workplace, you are not out of luck.  If you have never negotiated to get what you want and need when looking for a new position it's not too late. A few weeks ago I had the pleasure of speaking with lawyer and coach Toya Gavin of Legally Bold about all of the above (and more!!) during a Brown Girl Self-Care LIVE fireside chat.  This conversation was so timely I wanted to bring some of the nuggets she dropped here to the podcast.   You can connect with Toya on Instagram right here! ps - Toya will be doing a workshop in Brown Girl Society on March 17th on how to stay in alignment with the goals and vision you are claiming in 2021.  You don't want to miss this, girl!! Brown Girl Society is the official membership of Brown Girl Self-Care.  For only $24.99/month you'll find virtual meetups, a supportive community and monthly workshops all centered on your healing, care, joy and abundance from a Christian perspective.   Want in?  Email me directly: connect@browngirlselfcare.comOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey hey! Ever been hard on yourself about how you haven't done enough or things didn't work out the way you wanted them to but you tried your very best?   This episode of the show is specifically for you.  It's a quickie meant to encourage you and help you keep your head up and not be so hard on yourself. ps - Join our growing Facebook group if being in community with beautiful Black women all focused on self-care is your jam!Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hello Brown Girl in Bloom, This episode is all about how we are no longer undervaluing ourselves and instead are going to be intentional about building ourselves up.  I'm giving you 4 takeaways that you can start using today to start living and thinking differently.  This episode pulls no punches and is shared with love. Be sure to share this episode with a Brown Girl in Bloom and don't forget to rate and review if listening on iTunes.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey!  A few weeks ago I hosted a Brown Girl Self-Care LIVE session on Zoom along with my guest, Katara McCarty.  Katara is the creator of the Exhale App, a self-care resource for BIWOC.  During the session Katara gave the community super helpful info about how stress interrupts our nervous system as well as 5 (FREE) ways we can intentionally pause and practice self-care. You can find the Exhale App here! And follow Katara here on IG! Also, make sure you have registered for the "Aligned with His Vision" Board Party that happens on January 30th, 2021!Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Accepting kindness in the form of help, compliments and gifts is not only a celebration of you it's also an act of resistance. I recently experienced a situation where I declined someone pouring into me and it really made me sit down for a while and reflect on why I reacted the way I did.  In this episode I'm giving you three thoughts on how to shift your perspective if you have a challenge receiving kindness.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

2020 was about survival for me.  I quit my "good paying job" September 27, 2019 and, instead of finding a new job, Covid hit in January or February 2020. I feel like now I am being called to boldy reinvent myself but in order for me to do that, I've got to take better control of my morning and also how I decide to show up in life. In this episode I'm sharing a few ways I'll be working this year to show up more confidently as well as be more responsible and forgiving.  Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Happy New Year!!  During a period of reflection at the end of last year I came to the conclusion that I wanted to be super intentional about doing what I could to help bring a different kind of energy and seriousness to 2021.  I'm believing and claiming that this year will be amazing and pivotal for my life and business and I want that for you too. With that, in this episode I'm sharing 4 shifts I'm using to help make this year different.  Make sure you have a pen and notebook handy. Also, be sure to sign up for the official Brown Girl Self-Care Vision Board Party right here _> https://www.browngirlselfcare.com/event-details/aligned-with-his-vision-board-partyOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This episode is all about natural hair!  Recently Brown Girl Self-Care hosted a free community chat on Zoom where myself and guest Robin Butler (Coil Beauty Inc) shared tips, tricks and products to help you on your natural hair journey.  Make sure you have a pen and journal handy and also, be sure to share this episode with a friend looking to learn more about ways to honor and take care of her hair. This episode is brought to you by Coil Beauty Inc.  Find out more about their "God Made Me Coily" Doll and Book Kickstarter Campaign that is going on right now by clicking here. Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

It's funny how God will teach you a lesson in the midst of chaos.  Recently I got a good reminder that success is still possible even when we can only see a few steps ahead and the way forward has traps, bumps in the road and pitfalls. This episode is is sponsored by COIL Beauty Inc.  When you were a little girl did you have a doll that helped you see how beautiful you were? How about a book that put your beautiful features front and center instead of an after thought?  Click here to see the empowering "God Created Me Coily" book + doll COIL Beauty Inc has created for our babies and help support their kickstarter. Also, Brown Girl Society is open to new members. Click here to join if you are ready for a God centered self-care approach and community.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Brown Girl Society started day one of the "Believing Bigger" journal on 12/13.  One thought I had for the ladies that I'll share with you is, how ready are you for the big thing you are believing for?  If God handed it to you right now, how would you treat it?  Sometimes it isn't enough to say we are ready but we have to physically/mentally/emotionally start to prepare ourselves while we wait. This episode is is sponsored by COIL Beauty Inc.  Mommies/Aunties/Grandmas click here to see the empowering "God Created Me Coily" book + doll COIL Beauty Inc has created for our babies and help support their kickstarter. Also, Brown Girl Society is open to new members. Click here to join if you are ready for a God centered self-care approach and community.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

2020 is winding down which means now is the perfect time to figure out what your "focus word" for 2021 will be.  Not sure how to decide?  In todays episode Bre, shares the technique she used to uncover her word for 2020 and how she kept it top of mind for the year. Please support this episodes sponsor, Coil Beauty Inc and learn more about their Kickstarter, offering a book and doll that celebrates our beautiful hair textures. Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this final episode on resilience I share a super cringe worthing, embarrassing story that triggered my inner critic plus my process for moving through it.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

How resilient are you in the face of challenges and upsets?  When I was younger, I really struggled with being able to bounce back in a healthy way because I didn't know how to cope.  In today's episode, I'm sharing the downside of chronic anger, ways to possibly work through it, plus a bible verse that helped me put things into perspective.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode Bre is giving you 4 ways to begin inviting more clarity into your life so that you can get into alignment with God's vision and purpose over your life. Have your journal handy to jot down notes and "aha's" you may receive. Also, here are the books mentioned in todays episode: Believe Bigger (Amazon affiliate link) 100 Days of Believing Bigger Journal (Amazon affiliate link)Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode I take a few minutes to talk about the election (YAY!!!) and how it was allowing me to get sidetracked by trolls and nonsense.  I came across an excellent quote by TD Jakes that gave me inspiration to stay focused on what matters.  Listen to todays episode if you've been watering the wrong things in the lasts few months. *Episode has a little language*Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

It's not hard to notice greatness in others but when it comes to ourselves, we draw a blank.  In this episode Bre talks about honoring our greatness plus gives three journal prompts for reflection.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Bloomies, why do we go back to the "trash" of old relationships and habits that no longer serve us?  It's because we are getting something out of it.  What?  That is for you to reflect on.  Listen in on todays episode where I share my thoughts and experiences.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, Bloomie! Quick episode today where I share some of MY personal experiences around raising a child as a single parent.  I'd often put my needs to the side and put self-care on the back burner.  This definitely had some consequences that I've come to regret. Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hi Brown Girl in Bloom, I'm sharing a journal entry that I'm hope will allow you to take a look at who you are when times are tough and also, think about the guards up around your heart.   Be blessed, be well!  Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Today I have Dr. Gina Charles on the show.  Dr. Charles (aka Dr. G) is a board certified Family Medicine Physician, Entrepreneur and Wellness Expert who encourages Black women to live healthier lives and advocate for themselves.  In this medical edition of the show we discuss how colon cancer isn't just a "male" disease, things that can increase your risk, tips to help you feel more comfortable speaking with your doctor and also letting your doctor go if they aren't empowering you to take charge of your health. Want to connect with Dr. G?  Here is where you can find her: www.drginacharles.com www.instagram.com/drginacharles www.facebook.com/drginacharles www.twitter.com/drginacharlesOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

I was re-reading portions of "When they call you a terrorist" by Patrisse Cullors recently and a question jumped out that made me pause.  The question was  - "What is the impact of not being valued?" For me, when I'm not valued the impact results in feeling invisible, used, not respected and worthless.  This is definitely nothing new as the system was designed to keep us oppressed while using our genius for profit. If you've been feeling like you aren't enough or like you aren't valued, today I'm giving you 4 ways to reclaim your power: Remember what you bring to the table Expect the best for yourself Treat yourself the same way you'd treat someone you admire Invest in yourself Listen to todays episode and also, don't forget to leave a review on iTunes and share with a friend. *There is a little language in this episode*Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Thanks for catching this episode!  Today I'm talking more about abundance and also how scarcity thinking will have you clinging to things you need to let go of. Be sure to leave a 5 star review on iTunes and also check out Brown Girl Society by visiting browngirlselfcare.com.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Ready for some Monday motivation? On todays episode Bre shares a question she's been asking herself each morning that helps her get unstuck, stop making fear based moves and allows her to show up as her best self. If you think that winning is the only way to see change happen, or you have been stuck with your personal goals, this episode is for you.  Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey Beautiful Brown Girl, In this episode of the podcast I'm peeling back a little bit of my layers on what it means for me to express my emotions through crying.  You may have had to stifle our tears as a child/young adult and now you are trying to come to terms with the idea that expressing yourself through tears is valid and ok. Let's talk about! P.S. - Be sure to share this episode with a friend and don't forget to rate/subscribe.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Is your soul in need of more affirmations to help you get through the next month?  Don't worry because I got you!  Take 20 minutes, get comfortable and quiet, and listen to 21 affirmations all about being healthy. I am a firm believer that life and death are in the power of the tongue so I encourage you to speak life and health over yourself at all times.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey!!!   Today I'm sharing about how our spiritual, physical, mental and emotional wellbeing makes up the "rooms in our body" and an exercise on how to create a vision for your life.  This stemmed from a quote I found from author Rumer Godden that in essence says everyone is a house with 4 rooms and these rooms need to be at minimum "aired out" everyday.  I'll explain more in the show so click "play" to listen now. Also, make sure you sign up for the 5 day #cancelgrindculture challenge which starts August 31st.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Today's episode is all about "grind culture."  Surprisingly, though most relate it to jobs employment, for Black women it also applies to the work we do after we clock out for the day.  At the end of the episode I give a few prompts for reflection on what grinding looks like for you and if there is room for improvement. If you'd like to explore more about grind culture and take some time prioritizing yourself, sign up for the 5 day Cancel Grind Culture challenge that starts on August 24th.  Make sure you are on the newsletter to get more details this week. Click the link below: NEWSLETTEROur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey, hey! If you are allowing your mistakes to hold you back I need you to listen to todays episode so that I can give you a good word.  I'll be sharing about making mistakes, learning lessons and also "poor choices."   If you find this episode helpful can you please share it with one of your friends?Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey Beautiful Brown Girl! Let's hit the "PAUSE" button and make space to be still and center our self-care.  I hope that you enjoy this months meditation. Also, will I see you at the next Soul Care Sunday?   Click below to register now. Click Here Have an amazing week!Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Have you ever dated someone with narcissistic characteristics?  What void were you filling?  Were you too embarrassed to break things off?  Did you need an apology before you could move on? I'm talking about this with my guest, Dani Belgrave.  Dani is a 30-something mental health advocate and body positivist. Listen to our "real talk" chat where Dani shares the woes of dating a narcissist and how she was able to get her life back. You can find Dani here: www.instagram.com/absomaybeOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Have you ever allowed yourself to become distracted or procrastinated because you felt that you weren't smart enough or worthy enough to keep pushing towards your goal? I'm talking about that today on this weeks episode. Ways to support the show: paypal.me/browngirlselfcare Share this episode with a friend  Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

I had to record this episode because there are 2 things I didn't say when I had the conversation about Dani about manifesting.  I hope it gives you clarity on who I am and what I believe.  Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Well hello Beautiful Brown Girl! I've got a special guest on the show today who is breaking down what it really means to manifest (because I was wrong!!) and also the SUPER EASY 3 step process she swears by to make "manifesting happen." Dani Faust, Spiritual and Manifestation Coach and host of the Manifest it, Sis podcast is giving us life today as she breaks down how Black women can co-create with God to go after and achieve the things and experiences we want out of life. After the episode, catch up with her on: Instagram @thedanifaust  Facebook @Coachdanifaust Blog www.Okdani.comOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey beautiful brown girl! Today I'm doing something a little different on the show.  AN AFFIRMATIVE MEDITATION!  Yasss!!!!  Allow me to pour into you, refresh your spirit and remind you of who you are today so that you can center your wellbeing and mood as you do all the brave things you do each day.    If you are feeling this episode let me know.  Email me at connect@browngirlselfcare.com or screenshot this episode and post it in your stories on Instagram so that I can see it and share.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Does the thought of investing in yourself make you feel overwhelmed? Do you have strong feelings about how your life should go but you don't feel confident enough to make it happen?  Girl, I got you.  If you are a habitual shrinker/people pleaser this episode is especially for you.  Listen to this weeks episode where I share 5 ways to start investing in yourself so you can start making sh*t happen. Want to: Learn More About The 7 Day Self-Care Glow Up? email me? connect@browngirlselfcare.com reach me by mail?  Bre Mitchell 11331 183rd St #310, Cerritos, CA 90703Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Father's Day 2020 has come and gone and for some of us all we could do was hang on and do our best to get through it.  Though the day is over, we are still processing our feelings and triggered memories.  Let's chat about that today and I'll give you a few suggestions on how to nurture yourself this week. Want to: learn more about the 7 Day Self-Care Experience?  Click here! email me? connect@browngirlselfcare.com reach me by mail?  Bre Mitchell 11331 183rd St #310, Cerritos, CA 90703Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey Beautiful Brown Girl! You are getting a smorgasbord today.  I'm checking in with you on why I'm not doing the labor of educating White people, Juneteenth ( and why we are buying black through July 4th), plus two books I read this month.  Click play to listen and don't forget to rate/subscribe where you are listening. Want to: learn more about the 7 Day Self-Care Experience?  Click here! email me? connect@browngirlselfcare.com reach me by mail?  Bre Mitchell 11331 183rd St #310, Cerritos, CA 90703Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey Beautiful Brown Girl! You were taught that it's "bad" to speak up and use your voice when actually that the perfect opportunity to be your authentic self.  I'm talking about it on todays episode. Want to: learn more about the 7 Day Self-Care Experience?  Click here! email me? connect@browngirlselfcare.com reach me by mail?  Bre Mitchell 11331 183rd St #310, Cerritos, CA 90703Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey Beautiful Brown Girl! When businesses and groups I've purchased from don't address the experiences Black people are having, I let them go.  Listen to todays episode and see if this feels like self-care you can get behind. Want to: learn more about the 7 Day Self-Care Experience?  Click here! email me? connect@browngirlselfcare.com reach me by mail?  Bre Mitchell 11331 183rd St #310, Cerritos, CA 90703Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey Beautiful Brown Girl! Why is self-love so hard?  These days it's much easier to find a million things to dislike about ourselves but so hard to believe we are worthy of loving ourselves.  This week I want you to try one simple exercise of self-love and see if it resonates with you.  Click to listen to this weeks episode. Want to: learn more about the 7 Day Self-Care Experience?  Click here! reach me? connect@browngirlselfcare.com send me something by mail?  Bre Mitchell 11331 183rd St #310, Cerritos, CA 90703Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey Beautiful Brown Girl! Today I am sharing 8 major takeaways from the Netflix documentary "Becoming."  Michelle Obama allowed us a peek into her private/work life while giving us major life changing thoughts. Grab your pen and journal so that you can take notes!! Want to: learn more about the 7 Day Self-Care Experience?  Click here! reach me? connect@browngirlselfcare.com send me something by mail?  Bre Mitchell 11331 183rd St #310, Cerritos, CA 90703Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey Beautiful Brown Girl! Have you experienced moments of feeling...off, but don't understand why or how you got to that place?  I definitely have which is why I do my best to check-in with myself everyday.  Today I'm sharing six questions to start asking yourself daily or as needed. Want to: learn more about the 7 Day Self-Care Experience?  Click here! reach me? connect@browngirlselfcare.com send me something by mail?  Bre Mitchell 11331 183rd St #310, Cerritos, CA 90703Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey Beautiful Brown Girl! I wanted to stop allowing life to control me and instead start controlling life because I was tired of showing up from a place bitterness and annoyance.  I wasn't giving myself the "all about me time" I needed and it was quite apparent.  Because of this I've created a peaceful morning routine that has helped me to be the best Bre possible (most days).  If you are crafting a morning routine or didn't know they were even a thing, this episode is for you. I mention the book The Morning Miracle* which you can purchase here if interested. Want to: reach me? connect@browngirlselfcare.com send me something by mail?  Bre Mitchell 11331 183rd St #310, Cerritos, CA 90703 *This is an affiliate link which means I will receive a small amount if you purchase, which helps me keep the show going.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey Beautiful Brown Girl!! Today I'm sharing a slightly embarrassing mishap that proved without a doubt that if you are persistent and bold, the world will make space for you to do yo thang. Also, sign up here for the 7 Day Self-Care Experience! Want to: reach me? connect@browngirlselfcare.com Want to send me something by mail?  Bre Mitchell 11331 183rd St #310, Cerritos, CA 90703Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Our words hold more power than many of us realize.  Like Proverbs 18:21 says "Life and death are in the power of the tongue."  So how are we using this power?  Are we building ourselves (and others) up or tearing ourselves down?   Listen to today's episode where I share with you three words we can remove from our vocabulary TODAY that will help us feel more bold and confident immediately.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

On today's quick episode I'm sharing about: Stocking up on meat (Thanks CNN!) Intermittent fasting 1 mindset hack you can try immediately 2 books on self-love that you need to check outOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

With this global pandemic on the move and trying times weaving their way into our thoughts and processes, I'm going to give you 4 lies to be aware of that you either have experienced or may down the line.   I'll give you the 3rd one right off the bat:  We are NOT all in the same boat with how we are dealing with our new normal.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Relationships can be complicated but definitely so when we are hanging on when it is time to let it go.  There are so many feelings that come up for us when we are forced to identify a damaging relationship for what it truly is.  You may have fooled yourself into thinking things are ok, but I'm going to give you six signs that you need right now to identify the relationship isn't working.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

It's time to talk about something that makes many of us uncomfortable...DEBT.  Did you know that it is possible for you to get out of debt and do it in a reasonable way?  Did you also know that being in debt for a lot of us has to do with the mindsets we were taught as kids?  Listen to this episode where I talk with Krystal Dillard who shares how her and hubby were able to get their whole finance life on track, get out of debt and increase their net worth.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

So here we are, sis.  The coronavirus is definitely a thing and we are doing our best to stay calm but ahead of the curve while new updates keep coming in and stressing us out. To maintain a sense of normalcy the BGSC podcast will be updated twice a week (instead of once) in the hopes of encouraging self-care while we wait to see what the effects will be over the next few weeks.  So with that said, today I'm giving you 9 ways to stay calm as well as keep moving forward while we are in this season especially if a quarantine goes into effect.  If you have kids that will be home this episode is especially for you.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Are you stuck in an endless loop of setting goals and targets but not hitting them.  Do you feel like you keep setting yourself up for failure in your career, relationships and even your finances?  You may be experiencing self-sabotage and don't realize it.  Listen to this quick episode and I'll discuss 5 reasons why we self-sabotage and what that might look like based on a blog post I discovered by Lisa Jeffs. If this episode resonates with you, be sure to check out these other blog posts that may be of great help to you if you'd like to work through this issue and grow into a healthier and happier version of yourself. Relationships Finances CareerOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

So last week was a whole mess.  My teen came down with the flu which meant I was on double mommy duty, ramping up my energy to make sure she was ok for the last 6 days as well as avoiding getting sick.  She's totally fine now and we are pretty much in the clear but I did have to make sure I took a few simple steps to take care of myself while caring for her.  I talk about it in this weeks episode. Also, this week I answer a community question about journaling.  How to start and also how to stay consistent.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Netflix has some excellent documentaries available in honor of Black History Month, one of which is She DID That.  I was super excited to sit down and watch because I just knew that it was going to feed by soul and leave me feeling empowered.  This documentary did not disappoint and my hope is that you have time soon to check it out at least once especially if you are an aspiring entrepreneur. Renae Bluitt, Lisa Price, Melissa Butler, Tonya Rapley, Luvvie and other intelligent, successful black women set the stage for a phenomenal experience that will leave you feeling like you can do anything you put your mind to (which you can!!).Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Sis, are you honestly embracing the wonderful things you are and do?  Are you walking in your greatness or are you making these three excuses that I make to just "get by?"  Listen to todays episode and let me know your thoughts.  There are a few cusswords in this episode LOL.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Today I'm deep diving into the marginalization of black girls by way of the "boys will be boys" platitude, micro aggression and racism with my guest Rebekah Ferguson.   Rebekah is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with over 10 years of experience providing counseling in justice involved populations and making space for marginalized people.  She comes from an extremely religious, born-again Christian family, so extreme in fact that she ended up being raised in a cult community consisting of a tiny largely White neighborhood in upstate NY. Here is Rebekah's story of how she was able to break free and gain a sense of identity as an empowered black woman:Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

We have a community question today around what it means to show yourself grace.  This is an excellent question and so relevant today because now, more than ever, we need to be mindful of how we treat ourselves.  Listen in on todays episode on grace and, if you have a question that you'd like to have answered you can email it to connect@browngirlselfcare.comOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

The world was rocked on January 26th with the news of Kobe and Gianna Bryant being killed in a helicopter accident and we were left feeling devastated.  On today's episode I'll be discussing some ways that we can begin to process our feelings and thoughts surrounding this tragedy as well as loss in general.  Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

For the last few years I'd been trying to manifest things and gain stuff with Law Of Attraction however, there was one huge problem with that.  Listen to this quick mini episode where I share my personal beliefs of manifesting and why I no longer use The Secret.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Have you ever put yourself in a relationship that you know 1000% isn't for you?  Were you afraid to set boundaries because you thought he would leave you?  How do you rebuild your life after facing infidelity and learn to love yourself?  Author and Speaker Chalet Jean-Baptiste shares her story today on the podcast.  This is a great episode! Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

If you didn't have a chance to create a vision board last year because you lacked direction or didn't know understand it's importance, have a listen to todays episode.  I'll be sharing a few tips and things to think about when it comes to making your board that will help inspire you to whip out your magazines, scissors and glue and start it today!Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

We all want to start 2020 off on the best foot, right? I surely do! As I sit here typing, there's a dead plant on my desk that is a great way to sum up how the last few months of the year were: ashy and parched. RIP Plant!! There were some highlights but there were definitely some areas where I could have done better and gone harder. With that said, here are a few things I am doing/will be doing for the new year. Have a listen and don't forget to click here to subscribe and rate the show!Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Whew, Chile!  It's Christmas time and you know what that means?  Debt, pressure and a whole lot of "it's got to be PERFECT" going on.  Let's kill that noise tuh-day!  I'm going to share a few tips you can try that will help get rid of some of the anxiety surrounding Christmas plus I share a few tips from our community as well.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In today's episode Bre shares her thoughts on taking a look at the "company you keep" as we enter an exciting new decade.  We are privileged to see 2020, let's not waste time!!  Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Could you use a little more boldness and confidence in your actions and decision making processes?  In this episode of the Brown Girl Self-Care podcast Bre talks about her experience at a co-working space that made her aware of how some of us move differently, take up more space and aren't apologetic about it.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

In this episode of the Brown Girl Self-Care podcast Bre shares signs and symptoms of anxiety, stress and burnout that she has experienced.  She also shares one way she has learned to assist in dealing with it all. Mentioned in the episode: Facebook Group (Click to Join)Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hey Girly!  Today I'm doing a short episode!  Yes, you heard that right!  Because you know I can go on and on....and on, but today we are keeping it brief.  I'm sharing about a technique that I've been doing for years to keep unwanted (as in nosy or drama starters) folks out of my personal business and for the most part out of my mental space.  You may have been doing it too and had no idea there was a name for it.  Learn about it in todays episode.  Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Today I am answering a community question regarding a single mom of a 3 year old that is stuck between security and being unhappy on the J-O-B.  Also, I'm giving you 5 reasons why our glow ups get a little stuck and we can't work ourselves up to the next level.  Listen with an open mind!!  This episode has language and is not intended for small ears.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

What do you do when you've hit rock bottom? Is it possible to pull yourself out of despair when you are in serious need of healing plus have people pleasing tendencies, are afraid that God is angry with you all the time and are working a job that you wish would just blow up so you no longer have to go?   Today I am exploring all of this with my guest, Nya Abernathy.  Nya is a married mom of (soon to be) two based out of Atlanta.  Her business, The Dignity Effect,  explores and teaches healing and self-care with grace and bravery.  Also, can I ask for a favor?  If you like the Brown Girl Self-Care podcast and want to hear more episodes like this one can you please click here to rate, review and subscribe?Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Today I am sharing my thoughts on what it means to be in survival mode, how trauma shows up for us, how existing in this space as a black woman throws us into survival mode and a few ways to try to work through all of this besides therapy (which is crucial).   Please visit www.browngirlselfcare.com for show notes. Also, please be sure to leave a review and rating on iTunes.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

When your menstrual cycle is out of control how do you feel and what the heck do you do?!!?!?  Heavy periods are very common for black women and they can get so bad that our lives can be turned upside down and even ruined.   We are missing days from work, fighting with doctors to help us (and not just use us for insurance money) and overall mentally depleted with the ever raging red war.  Listen in today while I chat and share with Tiyanna Washington.  Tiyanna is a NYC-based licensed social worker and youth mental health advocate recognized for her mental health advocacy and community service.  She has worked within the school system servicing youth diagnosed with emotional disturbances, behavioral-conduct disorders, and severe cognitive and learning delays.  While working through the challenges of assisting our youth she has also had to deal with super heavy periods which left her drained.  Click play to listen as we share our experiences, plus Tiyanna gives us some takeaways that helped change the course of her cycles.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Sexual abuse and violence against women runs rampant in the U.S. as well as other countries around the world.  How do we work through this when it's a parent or relative that violates us? In our community is it ok to talk to our children about ownership of their bodies and that "no means no?" Today I am speaking with Pastor Lyvonne Proverbs, a New York City native, body and sex-positive preacher, transformational speaker, poet, educator, and creative social entrepreneur working to end #ChurchToo. An Emmy-award-winning media producer, plus featured in Essence as well as Cosmopolitan, Pastor Lyvonne is the founder of beautiful scars (@WereSurthrivors), an online storytelling agency focused on trauma, healing, and resiliency. She is committed to eradicating childhood sexual abuse having dealt with it not once but TWICE in her lifetime. Listen in as we sit down, get as comfortable as we can with a topic like this and share our experiences as well as our journeys to healing.   *Trigger Warning as well as a few cuss words sprinkled in as well.  This is a #realtalk type of conversation*Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Bre Mitchell (host of the podcast) dives into what it's like to be an "over-apologizer", how it shows up in our life and how to shut it down! Life is too short to not be the best version of ourselves we were placed her to be.  Apologizing for everything limits us, not enhances.  Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

We've got another amazing episode this morning!  I had the chance to chat with Motivational Speaker DeAnna Leach, who founded Check, Shift & Grow in 2018 to help women reach their goals by helping them check their mindsets. DeAnna got raw and real about her interracial marriage that ended in divorce due to her partner cheating.  She shares about: Recovery after divorce How pride kept her in the relationship Being strong for her children to rebuild her life Learning to forgive and to stop blaming her mate for everything that went wrong You can follow and connect with DeAnna right here: Website - Check, Shift and Grow Instagram - Check, Shift and Grow This episode is sponsored by Sugar Shak Collection! Use code BROWNGIRL to get your FREE Fresh Start Bundle OR use code BG20 to get 20% off your entire order.  Both offers expire 12/31/19.  Visit sugarshakcollection.com today.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

It’s time for a bonus episode.  WHAAAATTTT?!?!  I know. Crazy, right? Today talk about one super powerful way to stay peaceful during times when our lives are in a season of uncertainty. Since recently quitting my job I’ve had moments of vulnerability and nervousness about how my bills will get paid and even if I made the right decision.  If you too are in going through trials and tribulations I encourage you to give this episode a listen. Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

This is an incredible episode!  I had the pleasure of chatting with Candace Wilkins, Blogger, Minister and Author "Letters to the Finishers."  She shared about her to decision to put off college and how trying to stick to the wrong path to success lead to anxiety and pressure.  Also, she shares more about how overwhelm can cause us to start a ton of things but never finish them.  If you are a quitter or procrastinator this show is for you. ** One thing to note is that on this day I was having audio issues so, if you notice a bit of overlap or me laughing in weird places just chalk it up to a glitch. **  Don't miss the message because it will bless you. If you'd like to catch up with Candace you can check her out here: www.candacewilkins.com Facebook Instagram Letters to the Finishers (this is an affiliate link which means I may earn a small percentage if you purchase)  Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

What do you do to prevent running yourself into the ground and running on "e?"  Can you be at your best when you're feeling your worst?  Let's talk about it!  Today I'm sharing simple hacks to give yourself a boost and fill up your "self-care bank account" before you need to make a huge withdrawal that causes your body to shut down.  Black woman are highly susceptible to superwoman syndrome and feeling guilty about wanting alone time or setting boundaries.  Let's counter that immediately with some of the tips shared on the show. ps - Be sure to check out my 5 Day Self-Care Flow program that will help you bring attention back to your life, mindset and overall wellbeing.  Click Here!Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Today I'm talking with KyAira Carter, Certified Yoga Instructor and Owner of Yokyni Organics.  Stepping into entrepreneurship came from a year of intense therapy where she was encouraged to release years of suppressed emotion, toxic behaviors and unhealthy beliefs formed about herself and others, and generational trauma that she - like many other African American people - was carrying without even realizing. Healing those wounds allowed her to replace everything she'd unlearned with unconditional love, healthy boundaries, and self-confidence. Today we are talking about how she was able to meet her parents where they are after they separated, how she ended up moving back in with her dad after experiencing freedom on her own, and when she realized she could set boundaries in her (sexual) life.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

I recently had the pleasure of speaking with Zakiyyah Walker, PersonaI Revolution Coach and Legacy Strategist, regarding trauma being encoded in our DNA, "strong black woman" syndrome, and how growing up with a mother involved in toxic relationships altered the course of her life resulting in multiple suicide attempts.  Zakkiyah has survived, is thriving and due to that her mission is to help black women get crystal clear on what they really desire, the habits that are keeping them stagnant and the steps to create the life they want --ON PURPOSE. She is committed to helping Black women remove their "crown of thorns" and heal from societal, generational and, ancestral trauma through strategic life-changing actions. How to reach Zakkiyah: WithZakiyyah.com Instagram Facebook Twitter Books mentioned: The Souls of Black Folks (W.E.B Du Bois) Post Traumatic Slave Syndrome (Joy A Degruy) Assata Shakur Autobiography (Assata Shakur) Women Who Run with Wolves (Clarissa Estes) Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Do you have a place where you can go to be alone and replenish your spirit?  Today I’m in the car, at MY spot, talking to you about why this is important and how to find your own.  Thank you so much for your support!  Please be sure to share and rate  the show on iTunes. Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Sierra Brown is the owner and operator of Melanin Well, LLC; a health and wellness coaching company, where she helps women of color (and those that love us) lose weight and live well with ease, confidence and conviction.  She also happens to be a West Virginia native, former college basketball player, and the oldest of 6 children.  It's these experiences, as well as a health scare (left renal vein thrombosis) her senior year of college, that made her the wellness-obsessed black woman she is today. Sierra blogs over at melaninwell.com about her experiences as a black woman, including her path to healing from sexual trauma as well as what life was like growing up as one of only a few black kids in her class and community. Want to learn more about Sierra?  You can find her here: Instagram Facebook Group (Where you can also find out more about Melanin Well Academy) Website (Where you can also find out more about Melanin Well Academy)Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Is it possible to take a gap year/sabbatical even as a 9-5'er?  I say absolutely YES!  With proper planning, the right attitude and some faith I believe we can take the time off we need to reset our minds and bodies.    What I discuss today: a brief update on where I've been what a sabbatical/gap year is ways to get started even while on the j-o-b Please be sure to leave any comments and questions you have down below about today's show.  Also, make sure you are signed up to the newsletter for updates on the next episode. Thank you for prioritizing yourself, BreOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Checking on others in our life is super easy but when it's time to do it for ourselves it seems like a daunting task.  What does it mean to check in on your self, why is it important and how can we do more of it?  I talk about that in todays episode right on the heels of Mothers Day 2019.  Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Today I'm talking about knowing who you are, regardless of what your circumstances are as well as a few ways I have learned to chill out during my time on the plantation.  Whoops, I mean at work.Our Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Happy Self-Care Sunday!  It's time for a new episode!  I feel like posting every two weeks is tooooooo long in between so I'm considering moving to once a week.  Antyweigh!  Today I'm talking about getting my eyebrows done at Ulta and then I pick up where I left off about my waistbead experience which bubbled up negative thoughts about my body.  Have a listen then let me know what you think!  Also, if you'd like to reach me feel free to email connect@browngirlselfcare.com Bre the Self-Care PusherOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Hello Beautiful Brown Girl.  I've been waiting for this day for a while now!  My name is Bre and I'm the Head Self-Care Pusher (HSP) behind the scenes of Brown Girl Self-Care Co.  I'm also right alongside you while we navigate this job that has been thrust upon us which is taking care of ourselves completely and doing so with love and forgiveness in an unapologetic way.     In today's episode I introduce myself and spend a few minutes telling you why I started BGSC.  If you have any questions or topics you'd like to see discussed here be sure to email me at connect@browngirlselfcare.com. Bre Self-Care Pusher www.browngirlselfcare.comOur Sponsors:* Check out Bilt: https:// joinbilt.com/SELFCARE* Check out Chime: https://chime.com/selfcare* Check out Progressive: https://www.progressive.comSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/brown-girl-self-care/exclusive-contentAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy