Unlock Deeper Intimacy & Connection With Thais Gibson This Boxing Week. Start Your Free 7-day Trial and Get the Attachment Styles & Sex Course ($250 Value) Free for Life. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/boxing-week?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=boxing-week&utm_medium=organic&utm_term=aUrPwa0KzOI&utm_content=yt-12-20-25&el=podcast Moving in together can feel like a major relationship milestone, but when one partner has a Dismissive Avoidant attachment style, it can also surface unexpected challenges. In this episode, Thais Gibson and co-host Mike DiZio walk through what to realistically expect when you first move in with a Dismissive Avoidant, why certain behaviors show up, and how to navigate this transition without taking things personally or creating unnecessary conflict. If you’re considering moving in with a Dismissive Avoidant, or already have, this conversation offers clarity, compassion, and practical strategies. Living together often fast-tracks couples into the power struggle stage of relationships, and Dismissive Avoidants can feel especially activated by this shift. In this episode, you’ll learn why Dismissive Avoidants may retreat, equate comfort with love, struggle with compromise, and fear expectations, even when they deeply care about their partner. Thais and Mike explore: ✅ Why Dismissive Avoidants need space to regulate emotionally ✅ How fear of being trapped can show up after moving in ✅ Why conflict feels especially threatening in their home environment ✅ How unconscious habits from hyper-independence impact cohabitation ✅ What conversations must happen in advance to prevent resentment Most importantly, this episode emphasizes that these patterns are understandable, workable, and not signs that the relationship is doomed, especially when both partners are willing to communicate and do the healing work. Key Takeaways ✅ Dismissive Avoidants often retreat into personal space to self-regulate after moving in ✅ Comfort and routine may be interpreted as love, leading to unintentional complacency ✅ Fear of expectations can cause emotional withdrawal, not loss of care ✅ Avoiding conflict temporarily increases long-term tension ✅ Compromise and shared habits must be consciously built, not assumed ✅ Clear conversations before moving in reduce fear, shutdown, and resentment Timestamps 00:00 – Introduction 03:17 – 1. Dismissive Avoidants Retreat to Their Own Space for Emotional Distance 21:34 – 7-Day Free Trial Promo 22:25 – 2. Dismissive Avoidants Equate Comfort With Love 31:06 – 3. Dismissive Avoidants Fear Expectation and Being Trapped 43:22 – 4. Dismissive Avoidants Retreat to Avoid Conflict 48:33 – 5. Dismissive Avoidants Struggle with Compromise 51:14 – 6. Dismissive Avoidants Are Protective of Their Belongings 51:14 – Live With Them for a Few Days Before Moving in 1:00:04 – Subscribe and Follow For More Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #DismissiveAvoidant #AttachmentTheory #AvoidantAttachment #CommitmentIssues #PersonalDevelopmentSchool #ThaisGibson #RelationshipHealing #SecureAttachment #DatingAdvice

Start Healing Your Attachment Style With Personalized Courses Taught by Thais Gibson. Free for 7 Days (Enough Time to Complete a Full Course). Limited-Time Offer https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_term=aIKk1oX3_YE&utm_content=yt-12-19-25&el=podcast Dismissive Avoidants don’t commit because they’re pressured, convinced, or chased. In fact, those approaches usually push them further away. Commitment happens when specific emotional conditions are met, conditions rooted in their childhood conditioning, core fears, and unmet needs. In this episode, Thais Gibson explains the real reasons Dismissive Avoidants propose, marry, and invest long-term and why these patterns often surprise people who are dating or loving them. In this video, Thais breaks down the four core drivers behind long-term commitment for Dismissive Avoidants, drawing from attachment theory, conditioning, and years of clinical experience. You’ll learn: Why Dismissive Avoidants are often trying to avoid breakups more than commitment itself How pressure triggers autonomy wounds and emotional shutdown How childhood conditioning shapes their beliefs about relationships and marriage Why many Dismissive Avoidants secretly fear they “can’t do” relationships The deep shame wound that makes them fear being truly seen The emotional needs that help dismissive avoidants feel safe enough to commit This episode also explains what actually helps move the relationship forward, without suppressing your own needs or walking on eggshells. ✨ Key Takeaways ✔ Dismissive avoidants often fear commitment because they associate closeness with pain ✔ Pressure triggers rebellion, not security ✔ Relationship beliefs are shaped by childhood environments — not objective reality ✔ Many dismissive avoidants fear they are defective or incapable of relationships ✔ Acceptance, direct communication, and emotional stability increase safety ✔ Commitment grows when relationships feel predictable, non-shaming, and emotionally safe ⏱️ Timestamps 00:00 – What Makes Dismissive Avoidants Commit Long-Term? 00:24 – Dismissive Avoidants Avoid Breakups 02:43 – Dismissive Avoidant Don’t Like Being Pressured 03:56 – Our Perception is Conditioned by the Environment We Grew Up in 06:16 – 7-Day Free Trial Promo 07:07 – Dismissive Avoidant Fear They Can’t “Do” Relationships 09:09 – Dismissive Avoidant Fear Being “Found Out” as Shameful or Defective 10:05 – Needs of the Dismissive Avoidant 13:01 – Comment and Subscribe Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #DismissiveAvoidant #AttachmentTheory #AvoidantAttachment #CommitmentIssues #PersonalDevelopmentSchool #ThaisGibson #RelationshipHealing #SecureAttachment #DatingAdvice

Start Healing Your Attachment Style & Unlock Your Core Needs. Free for 7 Days + Bonus Course for Life! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-free-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-free-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_term=2iAB3SwfKMY&utm_content=yt-12-17-25&el=podcast How Do You Actually Bond With a Dismissive Avoidant, Without Losing Yourself? If you’ve ever felt confused, disconnected, or like you’re walking on eggshells in a relationship with a Dismissive Avoidant, this video is for you. Bonding is possible, but only when it’s done in a way that honors both your needs and theirs. In this episode, Thais Gibson breaks down the real core needs that make dismissive avoidants feel safe, connected, and bonded, while also showing you how to communicate your own needs without self-abandoning or creating resentment . In This Video, You’ll Learn: Why unmet needs quietly starve relationships over time What Dismissive Avoidants are truly afraid of in closeness How to communicate needs without triggering withdrawal Why appreciation, empathy, and understanding matter more than grand gestures How safety, stability, and certainty create lasting emotional bonds Key Takeaways: ✔ Dismissive Avoidants bond through clear boundaries, autonomy, and emotional safety ✔ Concrete communication prevents misunderstandings and fear-based withdrawal ✔ Appreciation works best when it’s sincere, specific, and grounded ✔ Empathy and understanding meet deep unmet inner-child needs ✔ Healthy relationships require mutual needs to be acknowledged and met ⏱ Timestamps: 00:00 – What Makes Dismissive Avoidants Feel Bonded? 01:26 – The Significance of Needs 03:04 – 1. Dismissive Avoidants Need a Sense of Autonomy, Independence, and Freedom 05:17 – Needs Course Promo 06:10 – 2. Dismissive Avoidants Want to Feel Understanding in the Relationship 07:16 – 3. Dismissive Avoidants Need Appreciation and Acknowledgement 09:17 – 4. Dismissive Avoidants Need Empathy 10:09 – 5. Dismissive Avoidants Need Certainty, Stability, and Safety Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #AttachmentStyles #DismissiveAvoidant #HealingAttachment #PersonalDevelopment #Relationships #EmotionalNeeds #ThaisGibson

Start Healing Your Attachment Style & Unlock Your Core Needs. Free for 7 Days + Bonus Course for Life! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-free-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-free-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-12-13-25&el=podcast The Fearful Avoidant attachment style is often labelled as unpredictable, confusing, or “mixed signals.” But behind the push-pull, the self-protection, and the sudden emotional shifts is something deeper: hidden childhood pain and conditioning that never got healed. This video uncovers that pain — the chaos, broken trust, abandonment fears, and betrayal wounds that wire the subconscious nervous system to equate love with danger. You’ll learn how conditioning forms, why your nervous system responds before you’re even conscious of it, and how ancient wisdom + neuroscience come together to create a practical path forward. Most importantly, we walk through a step-by-step exercise to rewire the core wounds Fearful Avoidants carry, and finally stop reliving the emotional past in the present. You’ll learn: ✅ The childhood patterns that shape Fearful Avoidant attachment ✅ Why your nervous system reacts before you can think ✅ How conditioning becomes identity — and how to break that link ✅ What ancient traditions teach about non-attachment and self-awareness ✅ Why observing your conditioning changes your relationship to it ✅ A powerful rewiring method to release abandonment, betrayal, and unworthiness ✅ How repetition and emotion reprogram core beliefs stored since childhood Episode Breakdown: 00:00 – The Inner Childhood Pain of the Fearful Avoidant 02:28 – Fearful Avoidants Experience Chaos in Childhood 04:43 – Conditioning Shapes Our Identity 06:48 – Needs Course Promo 04:23 – Express Your Needs Early On 07:14 – Pavlovian Conditioning: Pavlov’s Dog  09:42 – How Our Conditioning Can Affect Our Nervous System 13:14 – The Avenues to Healing  15:36 – Non-Attachment and the Observer  19:09 – Ancient Wisdom on Clinging to Our Conditioning  22:16 – Rumi: “Out Beyond Ideas of Wrongdoing and Rightdoing” 23:37 – Transcendence VS Rewiring 25:14 – Belief Reprogramming – Step 1: Write Down Your Wounds and Fears 26:37 – Step 2: Find the Opposite of Your Wound or Fear 27:28 – Step 3: Come Up With 10 Pieces of Evidence Why This New Idea is Possible   28:23 – Your Subconscious Mind Speaks In Emotions and Imagery 31:22 – Record and Listen Back for 21 Days 32:18 – Bowl of Light  Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #FearfulAvoidant #AttachmentStyleHealing #AttachmentTheory #EmotionalTrauma #InnerChildHealing #Neuroplasticity #ThaisGibson #PersonalDevelopmentSchool #RelationshipHealing #SubconsciousReprogramming

Start Healing Your Attachment Style & Unlock Your Core Needs. Free for 7 Days + Bonus Course for Life! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-free-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-free-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-12-12-25&el=podcast If you’ve ever felt torn between wanting love and fearing it at the same time, this episode is for you. Join Thais Gibson, founder of The Personal Development School, for a powerful deep dive into the core wounds of the Fearful Avoidant (FA) attachment style and what it really takes to heal them. You’ll discover how FAs develop conflicting subconscious beliefs about connection, trust, and vulnerability and how those beliefs drive push-pull patterns, emotional burnout, and relationship anxiety. Thais shares her proven framework for identifying and reprogramming your own wounds so you can finally feel safe giving and receiving love. 💡 You’ll Learn: The core wounds that keep fearful avoidants stuck in painful patterns How to recognize the signs of conflicted attachment behavior Why your nervous system gets triggered during intimacy and distance Practical steps to reprogram fear-based beliefs and build inner safety How to use somatic tools to regulate emotions in real time A step-by-step approach to becoming a secure, emotionally available partner Key Takeaway: Healing as a fearful avoidant starts with understanding your core wounds, but true transformation happens when you reprogram your nervous system and beliefs to feel safe in connection. 🎙️ Meet Your Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and creator of the Integrated Attachment Theory™. With a Ph.D. and over 70,000 students worldwide, she teaches emotional mastery, subconscious reprogramming, and secure relationship skills. 📚 Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📘 Read Learning Love by Thais Gibson https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Explore the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #FearfulAvoidant #AttachmentHealing #ThaisGibson #EmotionalHealing #SubconsciousReprogramming #SomaticHealing #RelationshipAnxiety #AttachmentStyles #SecureLove #PersonalGrowth

Start Healing Your Attachment Style & Unlock Your Core Needs. Free for 7 Days + Bonus Course for Life! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-free-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-free-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-12-10-25&el=podcast Many people misunderstand what sex and intimacy mean to a Dismissive Avoidant — assuming distance, shutdowns, or withdrawal are signs of disinterest. But neuroscience shows that Dismissive Avoidants bond through intimacy in very unique ways, and their core wounds around vulnerability deeply shape how they connect emotionally and physically. In this video, Thais Gibson breaks down what happens in the mind, body, and nervous system of a Dismissive Avoidant during sex and connection. You’ll learn why intimacy activates old subconscious programming, why vulnerability can trigger fear, and how to build a safer foundation for physical and emotional closeness. You’ll learn: ✅ Why vulnerability activates core wounds like “I am unsafe” and “I am defective” ✅ How emotional intimacy can trigger shutdown after closeness ✅ Why pressure or expectations around sex lead to withdrawal ✅ How shame becomes subconsciously associated with intimacy ✅ The role of childhood emotional neglect in adult sexual dynamics ✅ How fear of inadequacy impacts desire and presence ✅ What partners can do to communicate without triggering shutdown Episode Breakdown: 00:00 – What Happens to Dismissive Avoidants Around Sex and Intimacy 01:00 – 1. Dismissive Avoidants Have Big Core Wounds Around Intimacy 01:35 – 2. Dismissive Avoidants Are Afraid of Feeling Trapped, Helpless or Pressured 02:50 – Needs Course Promo 03:17 – When There is a Lot of Vulnerability Around Sex 03:56 – If There is Pressure Around Sex 04:27 – When Sex Becomes Less Frequent or Creates Problems 05:17 – If They Feel Criticized About Sex 05:32 – When They Feel Incapable of Meeting Their Partner's Needs 06:04 – If They Are Critical About Themselves 06:22 – Do You Have Any Questions? Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #DismissiveAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #AttachmentTheory #AvoidantAttachment #IntimacyIssues #RelationshipAdvice #SexAndAttachment #Neuroplasticity #ThaisGibson #PersonalDevelopmentSchool

Start Healing Your Attachment Style & Unlock Your Core Needs. Free for 7 Days + Bonus Course for Life! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-free-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-free-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-12-08-25&el=podcast If you’re tired of feeling confused, undervalued, or “left hanging” by someone who only gives you just enough to keep you around, this episode breaks down the psychology of Dismissive Avoidant breadcrumbing. Thais Gibson explains the deeper emotional and subconscious roots of breadcrumbing within the Dismissive Avoidant attachment style, including how their childhood emotional neglect creates a comfort zone around emotional scarcity. She also reveals why people on the receiving end of breadcrumbing often feel “stuck,” and how this dynamic stems from their own learned comfort with neglect. You’ll walk away with practical tools to recondition your subconscious comfort zone, shift limiting beliefs, rebuild your standards, and create a relationship model based on mutual nourishment rather than deprivation. You'll learn:  ✅ What breadcrumbing actually is and why it’s so common with Dismissive Avoidants ✅ How childhood emotional neglect creates an Avoidant's “breadcrumb comfort zone” ✅ Why trauma spreads through patterns, not intention ✅ How Dismissive Avoidants can stop breadcrumbing by learning to stop breadcrumbing themselves ✅ Why people who accept breadcrumbs usually have their own comfort zone of neglect ✅ How to recondition your subconscious to expect, and accept, real emotional nourishment ✅ The role of boundaries, standards, and self-worth in stopping the cycle ✅ Why identifying your needs changes your entire dating experience Episode Breakdown:  00:00 – Are You Being Breadcrumbed by a Dismissive Avoidant? 02:34 – Why We Accept Breadcrumbs: Subconscious Comfort Zones 05:15 – Dismissive Avoidants Must Stop Breadcrumbing Themselves 06:37 – Giving Yourself What You're Not Receiving Externally 08:22 – Needs Course Promo 08:47 – Why You Stay in Breadcrumbing Dynamics 09:26 – Boundaries as a Declaration of Your Self Worth Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #DismissiveAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #AttachmentTheory #ThaisGibson #PersonalDevelopmentSchool #HealingAttachment #RelationshipPatterns #Breadcrumbing #EmotionalNeglect

CYBER MONDAY OFFER: FREE Somatic Attachment Healing Course for Life! Get the Somatic Attachment Healing Course FREE for life when you start your 7-day trial of the All-Access Pass. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/somatic-attachment-healing?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=cyber-monday&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=yt-11-29-25&el=podcast Can a Dismissive Avoidant actually become secretly obsessed with you? In this vulnerable episode, Mike opens up about a real-life limerence experience, revealing what Dismissive Avoidant infatuation truly looks like from the inside. If you’ve ever wondered whether a Dismissive Avoidant is thinking about you more than they let on… this episode will give you clarity, compassion, and surprising insight. Today we’re diving into the 6 key signs a Dismissive Avoidant is secretly obsessed with you and why dismissive avoidants can experience deep limerence even when they appear emotionally distant. Mike shares a personal story of unexpected intense infatuation, how unmet needs and repressed traits triggered limerence, and the subtle ways Dismissive Avoidants try to connect without revealing too much. We also break down the psychology of limerence, why it hits so hard, and which attachment style tends to experience celebrity-crush limerence the most. Dismissive Avoidants do experience limerence, often intensely, but privately. Dismissive Avoidant limerence is usually triggered when someone reflects their deeply repressed traits or meets long-standing unmet needs such as acceptance, attunement, and emotional support. Signs of Dismissive Avoidant obsession often show up indirectly (liking all your posts, asking deep questions early, staring from a distance, subtle attempts to “bump into you”). Limerence becomes soothing for Dismissive Avoidants, a way to experience emotional intensity without vulnerability. Dismissive Avoidant women are the most likely group to develop strong celebrity-crush limerence. True connection requires moving from fantasy to authenticity and learning to meet your needs more directly. 👥 ABOUT THE HOSTS Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a leading expert in Attachment Theory and integrative emotional healing. Mike is a former Dismissive Avoidant who openly shares his experiences to help others understand attachment dynamics and healing. 📚 RESOURCES & LINKS Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #DismissiveAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #Limerence #AvoidantAttachment #AttachmentTheory #PDS #ThaisGibson #EmotionalHealing #Relationships If you’re ready to break old patterns, heal your nervous system, and transform your relationships from the inside out, start your 7-day trial today and get the Somatic Attachment Healing Course FREE for life. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/somatic-attachment-healing?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=cyber-monday&utm_medium=organic&utm_term=fxGk1uk5YWM&utm_content=yt-11-29-25&el=podcast

Get 14 Days Free inside PDS's All-Access Pass  with 65+ courses, live webinars, and a thriving global community: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/black-friday?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=black-friday&utm_medium=organic&utm_term=livestream&utm_content=yt-11-24-25&el=podcast In this special live Q&A, Thais Gibson, founder of The Personal Development School, walks you through the practical process of identifying your core wounds and attachment triggers — the hidden emotional patterns that drive your reactions, fears, and relationship dynamics. Whether you’re anxious, avoidant, or somewhere in between, you’ll learn how to decode emotional triggers, understand their root causes, and start reprogramming them at the subconscious level. Thais also answers audience questions in real time, helping listeners uncover their most powerful healing opportunities. 🎙️ Meet Your Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and creator of the Integrated Attachment Theory™. With a Ph.D. and more than 70,000 students worldwide, she teaches emotional intelligence, subconscious reprogramming, and secure relationship skills. 📚 Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📘 Read Learning Love by Thais Gibson https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Connect with Us: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #CoreWounds #AttachmentHealing #ThaisGibson #SubconsciousReprogramming #EmotionalIntelligence #SelfAwareness #HealingJourney #AttachmentStyles #PersonalDevelopment #EmotionalHealing

Start Healing Your Attachment Style With Personalized Courses Taught by Thais Gibson. Free for 7 Days (Enough Time to Complete a Full Course). Limited-time Offer: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_term=haGEv_CHOq4&utm_content=yt-11-21-25&el=podcast When you love someone deeply but every argument feels like hitting the same wall — one partner chasing, the other shutting down — it can be excruciating. You want connection and resolution, but every attempt only pushes you further apart. In this episode, Thais Gibson reveals five crucial steps to break free from the Anxious–Dismissive Avoidant argument cycle. You’ll learn how to de-escalate conflict, communicate your needs without triggering defenses, and turn disagreement into emotional closeness and repair. You’ll learn: ✅ The core triggers for both Anxious and Dismissive Avoidant partners ✅ How to identify emotional patterns that keep you stuck in painful cycles ✅ A powerful somatic technique to calm your body during conflict ✅ The “one topic per conversation” rule that prevents spiraling arguments ✅ The step-by-step framework for validation, communication, and resolution ✅ Why learning your needs — and expressing them — transforms every relationship Episode Breakdown: 00:00 – When A Dismissive Avoidant Argues with An Anxious Attachment Style 01:30 – 5 Steps To Change How You See Conflict 02:27 – Step 1. Know Your Triggers. 02:53 – Anxious Attachment Style Biggest Core Wounds 03:20 – Dismissive Avoidant Attachment Biggest Core Wounds 04:48 – Step 2. Practice a Somatic Processing Skill 05:25 – Research on Triggering Experiences 06:54 – Step 3. Stick To One Topic Per Conversation 07:26 – 7-Day Free Trial Promo 08:15 – Steps 4 & 5. The Validation, Need, Validation Framework 09:20 – Locked in Trigger Cycles 10:00 – Framework for Conflict Resolution 11:50 – Arguing Isn't About Right or Wrong  12:26 – Announcement: New Livestream Podcast! Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #AttachmentStyles #AnxiousAttachment #DismissiveAvoidant #RelationshipCommunication #ThaisGibson #PersonalDevelopmentSchool

Transform Your Life and Relationships This Black Friday! Get 14 Days Free Inside the Personal Development School’s All-Access Pass — including 65+ courses, live webinars, and a thriving global community: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/black-friday?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=black-friday&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-11-10-25&el=podcast When someone you love suddenly shuts down and says “I’m fine,” it can be confusing, painful, and triggering — especially if you know something’s off. In this episode, Thais Gibson and Mike de Zio dive deep into what’s really happening when a dismissive avoidant (DA) or fearful avoidant (FA) pulls away. They explore how shutting down is rarely about spite or indifference — it’s a subconscious protection strategy. Through personal stories and actionable steps, Thais and Mike explain how to understand these patterns, respond without pushing your partner away, and create safety for honest reconnection. 💡 You’ll Learn: Why dismissive and fearful avoidants withdraw when they’re hurt The 6 key steps to reconnect without triggering defensiveness How to validate your partner’s needs without abandoning your own What to say (and not say) when they need space How to rebuild communication, empathy, and safety in conflict Why clearly expressing your needs is a vital part of healing 🕓 Episode Breakdown: 00:00 – Intro: Why avoidants “shut down” during conflict 03:00 – Understanding Avoidant Protection Mechanisms 06:10 – Thais’ Past Experience as a Fearful Avoidant 07:45 – Why Avoidants Retreat When Hurt 09:03 – Emotional Safety vs. Pressure in Relationships 11:00 – How to Support a Dismissive Avoidant Without Overstepping 13:05 – The Power of Asking Gentle Questions 16:12 – How Opposite Needs Create Miscommunication 19:00 – Is It Okay to Sleep on an Argument? 21:15 – Reassurance, Timing, and the Hybrid Approach 22:30 – Step 1: Approach Them With Sensitivity 24:45 – Step 2: Offer Support Without Pressure 27:00 – Step 3: “Timebox” the Conversation 30:19 – Step 4: How to Reconnect When They’re Ready 33:10 – Step 5: Communicate Needs Clearly & Calmly 36:00 – Step 6: Take Your Own Needs Into Account 38:00 – Why Communicating Your Needs Builds Emotional Safety 41:00 – Healthy Conflict vs. Avoidance 44:30 – How Validation and Compromise Foster Secure Attachment 46:00 – Final Reflections: Reconnecting After Withdrawal Key Takeaway: Avoidants don’t shut you out because they don’t care — they do it because vulnerability feels unsafe. The more you understand their patterns and communicate your own needs clearly, the faster you both can reconnect from a place of empathy, not defense. 🎙️ Meet Your Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and creator of the Integrated Attachment Theory™. With a Ph.D. and over 70,000 students worldwide, she’s a global expert in attachment healing, subconscious reprogramming, and emotional intelligence. 📚 Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📘 Read Learning Love by Thais Gibson https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love 🎧 More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ 📱 Connect with Us: 📸 Instagram: @thepersonaldevelopmentschool 📘 Facebook: The Personal Development School 🎵 TikTok: @thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: The Personal Development School ▶️ YouTube: The Personal Development School #DismissiveAvoidant #FearfulAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #ThaisGibson #AttachmentHealing #EmotionalSafety #ConflictResolution #RelationshipCommunication #SecureAttachment #SubconsciousHealing Remember: Silence doesn’t always mean disinterest — sometimes, it’s protection. Learn how to bridge the gap with compassion and clarity. 💗

Start Healing Your Attachment Style With Personalized Courses Taught by Thais Gibson. Free for 7 Days (Enough Time to Complete a Full Course). Limited-time Offer: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_term=f9AVk6MYyY8&utm_content=yt-11-17-25&el=podcast When a Fearful Avoidant and a Dismissive Avoidant enter conflict, the emotional fallout can feel explosive, confusing, and deeply painful. One partner feels overwhelmed and unheard, while the other shuts down and retreats — and neither realizes what’s actually happening beneath the surface. In this mini masterclass, Thais Gibson breaks down the hidden dynamics driving Fearful Avoidant–Dismissive Avoidant conflicts, the subconscious wounds fueling these reactions, and why these cycles repeat until you learn to see them differently. You’ll finally understand what each partner is experiencing internally, and what has to shift to break the pattern for good. You’ll learn: ✅ The core wounds that shape Fearful Avoidant and Dismissive Avoidant conflict ✅ Why Fearful Avoidants over-give, under-receive, and burn out emotionally ✅ How covert contracts lead to resentment and misinterpretation ✅ The Dismissive Avoidant perspective: why criticism triggers their deepest shame wounds ✅ What each partner actually feels but doesn’t say during conflict ✅ How miscommunication fuels the pursuit-and-withdrawal cycle Episode Breakdown:  00:00 – The Fearful Avoidant & Dismissive Avoidant Relationship Cycle  02:13 – Fearful Avoidants Tend to Over-give and Over-deliver in Relationships 02:56 – Fearful Avoidants & Covert Contracts  04:26 – Black Friday: Somatic Processing Course Promo  05:12 – Core Wounds of the Fearful Avoidant  05:47 – Core Wounds of the Dismissive Avoidant  06:59 – Miscommunication Between the Two 09:12 – Dismissive Avoidants and Emotional Shutdowns  10:29 –  If You Don’t Communicate in a Healthy Way, Your Words Will Fall on Deaf Ears. 11:35 –  The Next Mini Masterclass  Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #FearfulAvoidant #DismissiveAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #AttachmentTheory #ThaisGibson #PersonalDevelopmentSchool #AttachmentHealing #RelationshipTools #EmotionalConnection

Transform Your Life and Relationships This Black Friday! Get 14 Days Free Inside The Personal Development School’s All-Access Pass—65+ transformative courses, live webinars, and a thriving global community: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/black-friday?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=black-friday&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-11-10-25&el=podcast Moving in with a dismissive avoidant partner can be both exciting and surprisingly challenging. In this powerful episode, Thais Gibson and co-host Mike reveal the five biggest (and most unexpected) things that happen when you start sharing a home with someone who struggles with emotional closeness. From the retreat for space that often follows big steps forward, to fears of losing autonomy or conflict avoidance, this conversation dives deep into how dismissive avoidants process intimacy—and how you can build understanding, connection, and balance instead of frustration. Through personal stories and professional insight, Thais and Mike share practical strategies for communication, conflict resolution, and emotional safety—so you can navigate cohabitation with compassion and clarity. You’ll Learn: The #1 reason dismissive avoidants retreat into their own space after moving in How to discuss space, boundaries, and routines before issues arise Why dismissive avoidants equate comfort with love (and how that affects dating effort) How to avoid the “roommate trap” and keep the spark alive The importance of acceptance and autonomy for both partners Why DAs often struggle with conflict, change, and vulnerability How to communicate needs without triggering shame or withdrawal Episode Breakdown: 00:00 – Intro & Why Moving In Can Trigger the Power Struggle Stage 03:16 – 1 — DAs Retreat to Their Own Space to Create Emotional Distance 07:16 – How to Navigate Space & Routine Discussions 09:16 – The Role of Acceptance & Allowing Autonomy 13:30 – 2 — How Cleanliness, Habits, & Personality Types Impact Living Together 17:10 – Creating Shared Routines and Avoiding Misunderstandings 21:31 – PDS 7-Day Free Trial & Membership Overview 22:36 – 3 — DAs Equate Comfort With Love (and Why It Leads to Complacency) 25:41 – Why You Should Always “Date” Your Partner 31:11 – 4 — Why DAs Feel Trapped or Pull Back Emotionally 35:28 – Communication Scripts for “Recharge Time” & Emotional Safety 43:29 – 5 — When Conflict Arises: How to Handle It Without Triggering Shutdown 47:18 – The Long-Term Benefits of Secure Co-Living 51:10 – Bonus: Acts of Service, Self-Consideration & Learning True Partnership 56:14 – Rumi’s Quote on Growth & Healing in Relationships 59:09 – Final Reflections and Listener Tips Key Takeaway: When you understand a dismissive avoidant’s wiring—fears of loss, shame, and autonomy—you can transform potential friction into deeper connection. Secure relationships aren’t about avoiding conflict—they’re about communicating through it. 🎙️ Meet Your Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and creator of the Integrated Attachment Theory™. With a Ph.D. and over a decade of experience helping 70,000+ students, she specializes in attachment healing, subconscious reprogramming, and secure relationship building. 📚 Helpful Links: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Listen to More Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📘 Read Learning Love by Thais Gibson https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ 📱 Connect with Us: Instagram: @thepersonaldevelopmentschool Facebook: The Personal Development School TikTok: @thaisgibson LinkedIn: The Personal Development School YouTube: The Personal Development School Channel #DismissiveAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #ThaisGibson #EmotionalIntimacy #RelationshipCommunication #PersonalDevelopmentSchool #AttachmentHealing #ConflictResolution #SecureAttachment #EmotionalGrowth Moving in together doesn’t have to mean emotional distance. Learn how to communicate, compromise, and stay connected—no matter your attachment style. 💗

Transform Your Life and Relationships This Black Friday! Get 14 Days Free Inside the Personal Development School’s All-Access Pass, Including 65+ Powerful Courses, Live Webinars, and a Thriving Community. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/black-friday?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=black-friday&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-11-10-25&el=podcast When a Dismissive Avoidant starts dating an Anxiously Attached individual, the attraction is instant, but so are the triggers. What begins as magnetic chemistry often becomes a cycle of closeness and withdrawal, as both partners try to meet old needs in new ways that feel both familiar and painful. In this video, Thais Gibson explores the hidden dynamics between Dismissive Avoidant and Anxious attachment styles during the dating stage, revealing what draws them together, what drives their early challenges, and how they can navigate the push-pull cycle with awareness and communication. You’ll learn: ✅ Why Dismissive and Anxious types feel such strong initial chemistry ✅ What early needs and wounds this pairing unconsciously fulfills ✅ How their opposite traits — independence vs. connection — create both attraction and conflict ✅ The most common breakdown points in the dating stage ✅ How to recognize and stop the “trigger cycle” that keeps them repeating painful patterns Episode Breakdown:  00:00 – When a Dismissive Avoidant Dates An Anxious Attachment Style 01:14 – Exclusive Series for the Entire Month 02:06 – 1. They Are Attracted to Each Other Early On via Trait Variety  04:20 – Black Friday: 14-Day Trial Promo 04:40 – The Mystery of the Dismissive Avoidants 06:43 – 2. The Dismissive Avoidant’s Unmet Needs From Childhood Are Met When Dating  07:32 – 3. Anxious Preoccupied Individuals Struggle to Move Slowly in Relationships 09:33 – How They Trigger Each Other  12:51 – The Neuroscience Behind Dismissive Avoidants and Anxious Preoccupied Individuals  15:36 – The AP (Anxious Preoccupied)/DA (Dismissive Avoidant) Trigger Cycle   17:20 – Coming This Month: How to Navigate Relationships Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #DismissiveAvoidant #AnxiousAttachment #AttachmentStyles #AttachmentTheory #AvoidantAttachment #ThaisGibson #PersonalDevelopmentSchool #AttachmentHealing #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalAwareness #AttachmentRecovery #DatingAdvice

Start Healing Your Attachment Style With Personalized Courses Taught by Thais Gibson. Free for 7 Days (Enough Time to Complete a Full Course). Limited-time Offer: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-11-06-25&el=podcast When a Dismissive Avoidant stops talking, it’s usually a defense mechanism. But what happens when you go silent instead? The reaction might surprise you. While they seem calm or detached, there’s an entire emotional process unfolding beneath the surface. In this video, Thais Gibson explains what really happens when you stop talking to a Dismissive Avoidant, the five key emotional stages they move through, and what their silence actually means. You’ll learn how space impacts their nervous system, why they sometimes come back indirectly, and how to decide whether reconnection is truly healthy. You’ll learn: ✅ The 5 emotional stages Dismissive Avoidants experience when you pull away ✅ Why initial relief is often followed by confusion and regret ✅ How independence becomes a form of emotional control ✅ The subconscious fear that drives repression and withdrawal ✅ What their indirect attempts to reconnect (like memes or jokes) really mean Episode Breakdown:  00:00 – What Does the Avoidant Do When You Stop Talking to Them?  00:24 – The Four Attachment Styles  01:25 – 1. Dismissive Avoidants Feel Relief When They Have Space 02:07 – The Cost of Conflict  03:35 – 2. Dismissive Avoidants Feel an Increased Sense of Independence  04:43 – 3. Dismissive Avoidants Start Having Mixed Feelings 05:47 – 7-Day Free Trial  06:37 – 4. Dismissive Avoidants Begin Questioning or Regretting Things 07:16 – 5. Dismissive Avoidants Will Make Attempts at Reconnection 08:39 – What to Do If You're on The Other Side  Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #DismissiveAvoidant #AvoidantAttachment #AttachmentStyles #ThaisGibson #PersonalDevelopmentSchool #AttachmentHealing #FearOfIntimacy #AttachmentRecovery #RelationshipAdvice #HealingRelationships #AttachmentTheory

Start Healing Your Attachment Style With Personalized Courses Taught by Thais Gibson. Free for 7 Days (Enough Time to Complete a Full Course). Limited-time Offer: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-11-05-25&el=podcast When a Dismissive Avoidant pulls back or refuses to commit, it can leave you feeling confused, anxious, and unsure of where you stand. However, a Securely Attached person handles this moment very differently, and their response changes everything. In this video, Thais Gibson breaks down how Securely Attached people respond when a Dismissive Avoidant won’t commit — and why it turns the dynamic in their favor. You’ll learn what emotional maturity looks like in action, how to communicate without pressure or people-pleasing, and how to back your needs while staying calm and confident. You’ll learn: ✅ How Securely Attached people handle commitment delays with clarity and self-respect ✅ Why understanding different attachment style timelines prevents unnecessary pressure ✅ How to communicate needs without triggering defensiveness or withdrawal ✅ What boundaries look like when someone stays in the “gray area” too long ✅ How standing firm in your standards helps you naturally attract secure love Episode Breakdown:  00:00 – Securely Attached vs Dismissive Avoidant & Commitment 00:33 – The Unique Timeline for Each Attachment Style & Commitment 03:12 – What Would the Securely Attached Person Do? 04:36 – 7-Day Free Trial  05:26 – Step 1: Let the Person Know How They Are Feeling 08:20 – Step 2: Follow Up With More Clarity and Specificity 11:37 – Conclusion Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #DismissiveAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #AvoidantAttachment #ThaisGibson #PersonalDevelopmentSchool #AttachmentHealing #SecureAttachment #RelationshipAdvice #AttachmentTheory #EmotionalBoundaries #HealthyRelationships

Get 7 Days Free Plus Lifetime Access to Our Ending Codependency Course — Free Forever! Start Creating Relationships That Last. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-codependency-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-codependency-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-11-04-25&el=podcast  Most people assume Dismissive Avoidants never fall deeply in love, but they do. The signs just look different. When they start to care, it shows up in subtle, often misunderstood ways that can leave you questioning where you stand. In this video, Thais Gibson reveals five key signs a Dismissive Avoidant is truly falling for you, and how to recognize the difference between casual affection and genuine emotional investment. You’ll also learn how to respond in ways that build trust, connection, and long-term security. You’ll learn: ✅ How Dismissive Avoidants express love differently from other attachment styles ✅ Why slow inclusion in their world signals growing trust and safety ✅ What it means when they start opening up emotionally or making future plans ✅ How they show care through action instead of words ✅ Why their efforts to bridge distance reveal true emotional commitment Episode Breakdown:  00:00 – What Does it Look Like When A Dismissive Avoidant Falls in Love? 00:34 – Sign 1: Including You in Their Life 01:36 – Sign 2: Opening Up Emotionally 03:12 – Sign 3: Making Tangible Long-Term Plans 03:41 – Sign 4: Listening and Meeting Your Needs 04:53 – Ending Codependency Course Promo 06:06 – Sign 5: Bridging the Emotional Gap 06:53 – These Are Important Signs to Look For Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #DismissiveAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #AvoidantAttachment #ThaisGibson #PersonalDevelopmentSchool #AttachmentHealing #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalIntelligence #AttachmentTheory #LoveAndAttachment #AvoidantPartner #AttachmentRecovery

Get 7 Days Free Plus Lifetime Access to Our Ending Codependency Course — Free Forever! Start Creating Relationships That Last. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-codependency-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-codependency-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-11-03-25&el=podcast  Most people think Dismissive Avoidants don’t get jealous — but that couldn’t be further from the truth. They do experience jealousy, but it often hides behind sarcasm, withdrawal, or emotional distance. In this video, Thais Gibson breaks down five surprising ways jealousy shows up for Dismissive Avoidants — and how to recognize the subtle patterns beneath the surface. You’ll also learn how their fear of vulnerability, shame, and need for control shape the way they express (and suppress) jealousy, and what you can do to respond with empathy and healthy boundaries. You’ll learn:  ✅ The 5 hidden signs of Dismissive Avoidant jealousy  ✅ Why sarcasm, withdrawal, or coldness often mask emotional pain  ✅ How shame drives their need to self-protect and retreat  ✅ Why jealousy triggers both counter-dependence and emotional shutdown  ✅ How vulnerability and healthy communication can stop the cycle Episode Breakdown:  00:00 – How Jealously Shows Up for Dismissive Avoidants  00:40 – The Silent Comparison 01:42 – Withdrawal Instead of Confrontation 03:09 – Sarcasm & Passive Aggression About the Situation 05:55 – Ending Codependency Course Promo 07:31 – Cold Then Slightly Warmer Behavior 08:48 – Shame for Feeling Jealous 09:48 – Summary: Jealously Doesn't Look Like Rage or Confrontation Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #DismissiveAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #AvoidantAttachment #ThaisGibson #PersonalDevelopmentSchool #AttachmentHealing #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalIntelligence #JealousyInRelationships #AttachmentRecovery #EmotionalAwareness

Get 7 Days Free Plus Lifetime Access to Our Ending Codependency Course — Free Forever! Start Creating Relationships That Last. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-codependency-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-codependency-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-11-02-25&el=podcast If you’re hoping your partner will “change” once they fall more in love, get married, or become more committed, you’re not seeing the real person in front of you. You’re falling in love with their potential, and that illusion can quietly destroy intimacy and long-term trust. In this video, Thais Gibson breaks down five powerful reasons why dating or marrying for potential leads to emotional disconnection and unmet needs. You’ll learn how to stop confusing fantasy with reality and build a relationship based on truth, acceptance, and emotional safety. You’ll learn: ✅ Why loving someone’s potential disconnects you from true intimacy ✅ How projecting an ideal version of your partner creates emotional walls ✅ Why “helping them change” often feels like pressure, not love ✅ How to communicate your needs without blame or shame ✅ What the power struggle stage really means — and how to grow beyond it Episode Breakdown:  00:00 – Are You Expecting to Change Your Partner?   00:46 – 1. You Are Seeing a Fantasy of the Person, Not the Person’s Reality 02:24 – 2. Hoping Somebody Changes Creates a Silent Pressure in the Relationship 03:46 – 3. Learn to Communicate Through Conflict in a Way That is Accepting of Others 05:35 – Ending Codependency Course Promo 06:09 – 4. Dating the Potential or Expectation of Somebody Ends Up Blocking Intimacy 07:40 – 5. Connecting With the Fantasy Keeps You From Building a Proper Foundation 08:26 – How is This Meeting A Need in Your Life? 09:13 – Summary of Building Healthy Relationships Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #AttachmentStyles #RelationshipAdvice #ThaisGibson #AttachmentHealing #PersonalDevelopmentSchool #AvoidantAttachment #AnxiousAttachment #EmotionalIntimacy #HealthyRelationships #RelationshipPatterns #AttachmentTheory

Get 7 Days Free Plus Lifetime Access to Our Ending Codependency Course — Free Forever! Start Creating Relationships That Last. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-codependency-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-codependency-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-11-01-25&el=podcast If you’re Anxiously Attached or a Fearful Avoidant, you might be unintentionally pushing your Dismissive Avoidant partner away — even when all you want is closeness and reassurance. This painful chase–withdrawal dynamic plays out in countless relationships. But it can be healed once you understand how your patterns trigger theirs. In this video, Thais Gibson reveals five powerful ways to stop sabotaging your connection with a Dismissive Avoidant partner. You’ll learn how to communicate effectively, self-soothe, and build a relationship that feels safe for both people, without losing your authenticity or needs. You’ll learn: ✅ Why overcommunication can push a Dismissive Avoidant further away ✅ How to balance self-soothing with healthy connection ✅ The difference between communicating from wounds vs. needs ✅ Why criticism breaks trust and what to do instead ✅ How to stop assuming space means disinterest ✅ The secret to bridging different attachment needs before conflict starts Episode Breakdown:  00:00 – Are You Unintentionally Pushing Your Dismissive Avoidant Partner Away?  00:32 – 1. Overcommunicating as a Means to Self-Soothe 01:43 – Self-Reflection Question  02:24 – 2. Question Your Expectations and Decide on What You Think is Healthy 04:01 – Ending Codependency Course Promo 04:45 – 3. Using Criticism to Communicate a Need 05:57 – 4. Assuming That Space Means Disinterest 08:04 – 5. Discuss Habits That Bridge the Gap in Your Differences 09:17 – Summary of Building Connection Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #DismissiveAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #AvoidantAttachment #ThaisGibson #PersonalDevelopmentSchool #AttachmentHealing #RelationshipAdvice #FearfulAvoidant #AnxiousAttachment #HealthyCommunication #AttachmentTheory

Get 7 Days Free Plus Lifetime Access to Our Ending Codependency Course — Free Forever! Start Creating Relationships That Last. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-codependency-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-codependency-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-10-31-25&el=podcast  Being a Fearful Avoidant can feel exhausting. You might crave closeness one moment and fear it the next. You might find yourself stuck in cycles of connection and withdrawal, unsure how to stop repeating the same painful patterns in love. In this video, Thais Gibson breaks down five hard truths about being a Fearful Avoidant and how to finally overcome them. You’ll learn the deeper psychology behind your push-pull behavior, the hidden self-betrayals that block intimacy, and practical tools to begin healing at the subconscious level. You’ll learn: ✅ Why you crave deep connection but fear vulnerability and loss ✅ How early emotional conditioning wires you for both anxiety and avoidance ✅ Why overgiving and self-abandonment keep you stuck in one-way relationships ✅ How unmet needs and fear of rejection drive emotional exhaustion ✅ What rewiring your core wounds actually looks like in daily life Episode Breakdown:  00:00 – The Hard Truths About Being A Fearful Avoidant   00:18 – Hard Truth 1: You Deeply Want Closeness 02:21 – Hard Truth 2: You Are Both Anxious and Avoidant 03:52 – Hard Truth 3: You Often End Up In One-Way Relationships 04:23 – Hard Truth 4: You Don’t Want To Be Vulnerable 05:20 – Ending Codependency Course Promo 05:54 – Hard Truth 5: You Betray Yourself More Than You Realize 06:53 – Next Steps to Healing  Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #FearfulAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #ThaisGibson #PersonalDevelopmentSchool #AttachmentHealing #FearfulAvoidantAttachment #AttachmentRecovery #EmotionalHealing #AttachmentTheory #RelationshipAdvice #HealingRelationships

Get 7 Days Free Plus Lifetime Access to Our Ending Codependency Course — Free Forever! Start Creating Relationships That Last. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-codependency-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-codependency-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-10-30-25&el=podcast Understanding why Dismissive Avoidants sometimes seem distant or unresponsive isn’t about blaming them; it’s about uncovering the subconscious fears and patterns that shape their behavior.  Recognizing these dynamics is key to setting boundaries, communicating your needs, and fostering healthier, more secure relationships. In this video, Thais Gibson breaks down the unseen issues Dismissive Avoidants face when you give them space. You'll understand what’s happening beneath the surface, respond constructively, and know whether your relationship can move toward a healthier place. You’ll learn: ✅ How Dismissive Avoidants often operate in a “functional freeze” due to nervous system dysregulation ✅ Why their need for space isn’t about you, but about unresolved trauma and subconscious fear of closeness ✅ How attachment styles influence reactions to intimacy and distance ✅ Why closeness can trigger old fears of neglect, shame, or feeling trapped ✅ Practical strategies to find the middle ground: honoring their pace while respecting your own needs ✅ How to encourage partners to work on themselves and address trauma around love ✅ How to communicate clearly, set boundaries, and recognize patterns of pursuit or withdrawal ✅ When to step back and protect your emotional well-being if healthy reciprocity isn’t happening Episode Breakdown:  00:00 – Intro  00:34 – Overview of the AttachmentStyles 01:33 – Why Avoidants Chase You When You Pull Away 03:36 – 1. Walk the Middle Ground. 04:30 – 2. Encourage that Person to Work on Themself. 05:36 – Ending Codependency Course Promo 06:15 – 3. Help Them While Setting a Deadline 07:33 – 4. Communicate Directly 08:21 – Conclusion Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #DismissiveAvoidant #AttachmentStyle #SubconsciousPatterns #HealthyRelationships #PersonalDevelopmentSchool #ThaisGibson #BoundariesMatter #EmotionalIntelligence #RelationshipGrowth #BreakRelationshipPatterns #HealingAttachment #SecureAttachment #StopChasing #EmpoweredRelationships

Get 7 Days Free Plus Lifetime Access to Our Ending Codependency Course — Free Forever! Start Creating Relationships That Last. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-codependency-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-codependency-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-10-29-25&el=podcast  When a Dismissive Avoidant comes back after a breakup, it can be confusing. They might seem calm or detached while secretly wrestling with resurfacing emotions. But before you jump back in, it’s essential to understand what’s really happening beneath the surface. In this video, Thais Gibson explains what happens when you propose a fresh start after a breakup with a Dismissive Avoidant. You’ll learn about the “Breakup Boomerang” effect, why their emotions often return weeks later, and how to know whether it’s safe to try again. You’ll learn: ✅ What the “Breakup Boomerang” means and why emotions resurface later ✅ How Dismissive Avoidants process loss and regret after distance ✅ The signs they’re ready (or not ready) for true emotional reconnection ✅ How to assess if both partners are willing to do the real work ✅ What conversations must happen before giving it another chance ✅ How to find closure and self-healing if it’s time to move on Episode Breakdown:  00:00 – Intro  00:43 – The Breakup Boomerang Effect  04:06 – Going Through the Breakup Boomerang Effect ≠ Ready for a Relationship 04:58 – Ending Codependency Course Promo 05:09 – 1. Assess Whether You’re Both in a Place to Move Forward Together 06:20 – 2. If the Answer is Yes, Then Have a Conversation 07:23 – 3. If the Answer is No, Then Set a Boundary 07:45 – What Needs Was This Person Meeting in My Life? 08:51 – Summary 10:17 – Conclusion Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #DismissiveAvoidant #AvoidantAttachment #AttachmentStyles #ThaisGibson #PersonalDevelopmentSchool #AttachmentHealing #BreakupAdvice #AttachmentRecovery #RelationshipAdvice #HealingAfterBreakup #EmotionalHealing

Thinking About Becoming a Certified Relationship Coach? Start With Our Free IAT Ebook, Where You’ll Learn Real Tools From the Program That You Can Begin Applying With Clients Today. Download Your Free Guide Here: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/iat/info?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=iat-ebook&utm_medium=organic&utm_term=uF12gKGWOtM&utm_content=pod-10-28-25&el=podcast Fearful Avoidants don’t walk away because they’re indifferent — they walk away because fear overwhelms them. Understanding why they leave suddenly can help you respond with clarity, protect your emotional well-being, and navigate the aftermath of a breakup. In this video, Thais Gibson explains why Fearful Avoidants may regret leaving relationships and how their subconscious mind drives their intense shifts between anxiety and avoidance. You'll gain insight into their behavior and learn how to respond in a healthy, empowered way. You’ll learn: ✅ Why Fearful Avoidants rapidly shift between anxious and avoidant states, and what triggers these swings ✅ How the subconscious mind stores emotional “warehouses” of past trauma that influence present relationship behaviors ✅ Why breakups often happen as a protective strategy, not a reflection of true feelings ✅ How unmet needs and poor communication can push Fearful Avoidants to pull away ✅ How recognizing triggers and past imprints can help you avoid taking their behavior personally ✅ Practical strategies for communicating your needs and setting boundaries in challenging relationships ✅ How insight and self-work can transform relationships and prevent repeating painful cycles Episode Breakdown:  00:00 – Intro  00:46 – Fearful Avoidants Shift From Feeling Anxious to Avoidant 06:08 – Integrated Attachment Theory™ Certification 07:01 – 1. They May Threaten to Leave to Get Away From the Pain 09:42 – 2. They Are Not Good at Communicating Their Needs 13:02 – Conclusion Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #FearfulAvoidant #AttachmentStyle #SubconsciousPatterns #BreakupRecovery #PersonalDevelopmentSchool #ThaisGibson #EmotionalMastery #RelationshipHealing #BoundarySetting #HealthyRelationships #RegretAndGrowth #AttachmentAwareness #RelationshipInsights #EmpoweredLove

Unlock Deeper Intimacy Starting Today. Get 7 Days Free Plus Lifetime Access to Our Attachment Styles & Intimacy Course and Finally Transform Your Relationships for Good! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-sex-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-sex-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-10-25-25&el=podcast Dismissive Avoidants have a habit of resurfacing after breakups — sometimes weeks, sometimes months later — leaving their partners wondering why. But the real reason they come back runs much deeper than nostalgia or loneliness. In this video, Thais Gibson reveals the true emotional mechanics behind why Dismissive Avoidants return after a breakup. You’ll discover how delayed emotional processing, fear cycles, and subconscious associations drive their behavior — and how to respond in a way that protects your boundaries and emotional wellbeing. You’ll learn: ✅ Why Dismissive Avoidants process relationship pain on a delay ✅ How “feelings minus fears” influence their pull-back and return cycles ✅ Why distance can temporarily dissolve their fears and reignite feelings ✅ What to look for when they reach out between genuine reconnection vs. surface contact ✅ How to protect your boundaries and avoid getting stuck in an emotional loop ✅ The key to truly healing from a breakup is meeting your own needs and rewriting painful stories Episode Breakdown:  00:00 – Intro  00:20 – 1. Dismissive Avoidants Don't Process Their Hurt Around Relationships in a Normal Way 01:41 – 2. Dismissive Avoidants Are in Their Feelings Minus Their Fears 02:35 – Other Surface-Level Reasons 02:59 – Step 1: Are They Willing to Do the Work to Reconnect? 03:37 – Step 2: Heal the Needs That the Person Represented 04:43 – Attachment Styles and Intimacy Promo 05:27 – Conclusion Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #DismissiveAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #DismissiveAvoidantAttachment #ThaisGibson #PersonalDevelopmentSchool #AttachmentHealing #RelationshipAdvice #HealingFromBreakups #EmotionalBoundaries #AttachmentTheory #EmotionalRegulation Understanding why Dismissive Avoidants come back helps you detach from confusion, protect your peace, and approach reconnection or closure with self-respect and clarity.

Unlock Deeper Intimacy Starting Today. Get 7 Days Free Plus Lifetime Access to Our Attachment Styles & Intimacy Course and Finally Transform Your Relationships for Good! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-sex-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-sex-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-10-24-25&el=podcast Walking away from a Fearful Avoidant can feel like abandoning the person you love most. But in reality, being willing to walk away is what creates safety, self-respect, and healing for both people involved. In this video, Thais Gibson explains why walking away from a Fearful Avoidant isn’t rejection — it’s regulation. You’ll learn how distance restores emotional balance, how it triggers subconscious accountability, and why this boundary can actually deepen real love and long-term connection. You’ll learn: ✅ Why Fearful Avoidants often respect partners who set boundaries ✅ How nervous system regulation and space create transformation ✅ The neuroscience behind attachment ruptures and emotional reset ✅ How calling out unhealthy patterns builds trust rather than destroys it ✅ What “walking away” really means, and how to do it without threats or ultimatums ✅ Why this space is essential for genuine reconciliation and growth Episode Breakdown:  00:00 – Intro  01:08 – 1. Fearful Avoidants Like to Be Called Out 03:41 – 2. It Signals Self-Respect 04:27 – The Neuroscience Behind Taking Space From Stress 06:14 – Attachment Styles and Intimacy Promo 07:14 – 3. Fearful Avoidants Respond Well to Emotional Accountability.  08:08 – 4. This Makes a Genuine Reunion Possible 09:37 – Ancient Wisdom on Detachment 10:43 – Conclusion Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #FearfulAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #FearfulAvoidantAttachment #ThaisGibson #PersonalDevelopmentSchool #AttachmentHealing #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalBoundaries #HealingRelationships #AttachmentTheory #EmotionalRegulation Understanding that walking away is not rejection but self-regulation helps both partners heal, rebuild respect, and create the conditions for true secure love.

Unlock Deeper Intimacy Starting Today. Get 7 Days Free Plus Lifetime Access to Our Attachment Styles & Intimacy Course and Finally Transform Your Relationships for Good! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-sex-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-sex-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-10-23-25&el=podcast When your birthday comes and your Dismissive Avoidant partner barely acknowledges it, it can feel like they just don’t care. But what’s really happening underneath that silence isn’t usually indifference — it’s emotional conditioning and self-protection at play. In this video, Thais Gibson breaks down why Dismissive Avoidants seem to ignore birthdays or special occasions, and what’s actually going on in their subconscious mind and nervous system. You’ll discover the neuroscience behind emotional suppression, how early experiences shape avoidant reactions, and what you can do to respond with both compassion and self-respect. You’ll learn:  ✅ The 5 key psychological reasons Dismissive Avoidants pull away on important days  ✅ How childhood emotional neglect shapes their response to celebration and intimacy  ✅ What brain studies reveal about emotional suppression, empathy, and joy  ✅ Why Avoidants minimize birthdays, and what it really says about their attachment wounds  ✅ How to communicate your needs clearly without triggering defensiveness  ✅ When to stay compassionate and when to recognize a pattern that won’t change Episode Breakdown:  00:00 – Intro  01:09 – 1. Emotional Intimacy Feels Unsafe for Dismissive Avoidants 03:34 – 2. Dismissive Avoidants Often Feel a Sense of Learned Helplessness  04:23 – The Neuroscience Behind Dismissive Avoidants and Emotional Detachment 06:01 – Attachment Styles and Intimacy Promo 06:48 – 3. They Think Emotional Neediness is a Sign of Weakness 08:03 – 4. Dismissive Avoidants Fear Expectation  08:54 – 5. They Never Experience Consistent Emotional Celebrations 09:50 – If You’re on the Receiving End  12:13 – Conclusion Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/

Unlock Deeper Intimacy Starting Today. Get 7 Days Free Plus Lifetime Access to Our Attachment Styles & Intimacy Course and Finally Transform Your Relationships for Good! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-sex-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-sex-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-10-22-25&el=podcast If you’ve ever felt like you’re speaking a different language when trying to connect with a Dismissive Avoidant partner, you’re not wrong. They process emotions, safety, and closeness differently at both the neurological and subconscious levels, which can make even simple conversations feel confusing or one-sided. In this video, Thais Gibson reveals how to communicate so an Avoidant actually hears you, without triggering withdrawal or shutdown. You’ll learn the five key principles that transform connection, backed by neuroscience and attachment theory, plus how to stay calm and secure while getting your needs met. You’ll learn: ✅ The 5 keys to communicating with a Dismissive Avoidant, without chasing or pressuring ✅ How to speak to their subconscious mind so they actually feel safe opening up ✅ The neuroscience behind why Avoidants pull away when emotions run high ✅ The difference between emotional expression and logical communication — and how to balance both ✅ How to frame your needs without sounding like an ultimatum ✅ Why timing, tone, and body language matter more than words ✅ Practical scripts to get your Avoidant partner to listen and respond Episode Breakdown:  00:00 – Intro  01:53 – 1. Communicate Your Feelings in a Logical, Factual Way 04:29 – Attachment Styles and Intimacy Promo 05:07 – 2. Use Timing Properly 07:07 – The Neuroscience Behind Avoidants and Connection 09:06 – 3. State Your Needs  09:47 – 4. Leave It Open-Ended 11:04 – 5. Timebox When Asking the Dismissive Avoidant for Something 13:46 – Conclusion Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #DismissiveAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #AvoidantAttachment #ThaisGibson #PersonalDevelopmentSchool #CommunicationTips #RelationshipAdvice #AttachmentHealing #EmotionalConnection  Mastering this kind of communication can completely shift your relationship dynamic, helping you connect with empathy, clarity, and emotional safety on both sides.

Unlock Deeper Intimacy Starting Today. Get 7 Days Free Plus Lifetime Access to Our Attachment Styles & Intimacy Course and Finally Transform Your Relationships for Good! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-sex-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-sex-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-10-21-25&el=podcast Dating a Dismissive Avoidant can change you — sometimes in ways you don’t even realize. Over time, their emotional distance can actually condition your brain to link love with withdrawal, connection with uncertainty, and safety with space.  In this video, Thais Gibson shares seven ways dating a Dismissive Avoidant can affect you permanently, and how to recognize if these changes are already happening. You’ll learn the hidden psychological and neurological patterns that shape your attachment style and how to rewire them through awareness, self-trust, and healing practices. You’ll learn: ✅ How dating an Avoidant can subconsciously train your brain to fear closeness ✅ Why you may start questioning your worth or silencing your needs ✅ The neuroscience behind rejection, distance, and emotional pain ✅ How over-functioning and hypervigilance reinforce unhealthy dynamics ✅ What to do if your relationship is starting to impact your self-worth or boundaries ✅ How to tell when growth is mutual — and when it’s time to walk away Episode Breakdown:  00:00 – Intro  01:33 – 1. You Begin to Question Your Own Worth in This Relationship 03:13 – 2. You May Learn to Suppress Your Needs Even Further 03:41 – The Neuroscience Behind Emotional Rejection and Isolation 04:47 – Attachment Styles and Intimacy Promo 05:32 – 3. You May Overfunction Emotionally in This Relationship  08:20 – 4. You May Find Yourself Being Even More Hypervigilant  09:03 – 5. You Lose Touch With Secure Love 09:46 – 6. You’ll See Yourself Dismissing Your Own Boundaries 10:28 – 7. You Feel Stressed More Often 11:21 – If You’re the Only One Doing the Work  12:43 – Ancient Wisdom on Self-Consideration 14:28 – Conclusion Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #DismissiveAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #AvoidantAttachment #RelationshipAdvice #ThaisGibson #ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #AttachmentHealing #EmotionalHealing  Recognizing these patterns will help you protect your self-worth, reconnect to secure love, and choose relationships that nourish rather than drain you.

Unlock Deeper Intimacy Starting Today. Get 7 Days Free Plus Lifetime Access to Our Attachment Styles & Intimacy Course and Finally Transform Your Relationships for Good! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-sex-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-sex-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_term=fRwZN0y1E-Q&utm_content=pod-10-15-25&el=podcast Dismissive Avoidants rarely say what they actually feel — instead, they test it. When they want you in their life, they won’t move closer right away…they’ll quietly test how safe you are first. In this video, Thais Gibson breaks down 5 hidden ways Dismissive Avoidants test emotional trust — and how to respond without losing your self-respect or over-giving in the process. You’ll learn how these subtle “trust tests” show up in relationships, what they’re really looking for underneath, and how to handle each moment with confidence and clarity. You’ll learn: ✅ Why Dismissive Avoidants pull away after closeness (and what they’re observing) ✅ How they test emotional safety through small vulnerabilities ✅ The neuroscience behind avoidance and emotional connection ✅ What delayed commitment really means for them ✅ How to respond when they need “space” — without losing yourself Episode Breakdown: 00:00 – Intro  00:46 – 1. Dismissive Avoidants Withdraw or Retreat After Moments of Closeness  02:29 – 2. Dismissive Avoidants Will Test the Safety of Being Vulnerable  03:01 – The Neuroscience Behind Dismissive Avoidants  04:38 – Attachment Styles and Intimacy Promo 05:43 – 3. Dismissive Avoidants Test to See if You Accept What They Judge Themselves for  07:25 – 4. Dismissive Avoidants Will Often Delay Commitment 09:02 – 5. Dismissive Avoidants Often Test How You Will Handle Their Boundaries 11:00 – Conclusion Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #DismissiveAvoidant #Avoidant #AttachmentStyles #ThaisGibson #PersonalDevelopmentSchool #AvoidantAttachment #AttachmentTheory #EmotionalIntelligence #HealthyRelationships #AttachmentHealing If you’ve ever felt confused by a Dismissive Avoidant’s mixed signals, this will help you decode their behavior and build healthier emotional boundaries in your relationships.

Thinking About Becoming a Certified Relationship Coach? Start With Our Free IAT™ Ebook, Where You’ll Learn Real Tools From the Program That You Can Begin Applying With Clients Today. Download Your Free Guide Here: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/iat/info?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=iat-ebook&utm_medium=organic&utm_term=0gluagmi2_c&utm_content=pod-10-14-25&el=podcast Dismissive Avoidants don’t chase — but that doesn’t mean they don’t care. Often, their withdrawal comes not from indifference but from deep-seated fear and subconscious self-protection. Understanding why they pull away is the first step to seeing the truth behind their behaviour. In this video, Thais Gibson explains what it really means when a Dismissive Avoidant doesn’t chase, why vulnerability feels unsafe for them, and how their subconscious beliefs shape their decisions. You’ll gain clarity on their withdrawal patterns and learn how to respond in a way that preserves your emotional health. You’ll learn:  ✅ Why vulnerability triggers fear in Dismissive Avoidants  ✅ How subconscious beliefs block them from pursuing connection  ✅ The self-protective thought patterns they rely on when feeling threatened  ✅ Why “it’s easier to be alone” becomes their default choice  ✅ How shame wounds influence their ability to sustain closeness Episode Breakdown: 00:00 – Intro  00:27 – 1. Dismissive Avoidants Are Terrified of Vulnerability 01:42 – 2. Dismissive Avoidants Are Constantly in Their Feelings, Minus Their Fears  03:03 – 3. Dismissive Avoidants Believe That It’s Easy to Be Alone 05:06 – Integrated Attachment Theory™ Certification 06:00 – 4. Dismissive Avoidants Lack Healthy Modelling of Healthy Relationships 06:57 – 5. Dismissive Avoidants Have a “Defectiveness” Core Wound 08:07 – Initiate the Conversation, Set a Deadline, and Vet the Person 08:52 – Conclusion Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #DismissiveAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #AvoidantAttachment #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalHealing #ThaisGibson #ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #AttachmentTheory #FearOfIntimacy #AttachmentHealing Understanding these dynamics will help you stop overthinking their absence and start recognizing what it truly means when a Dismissive Avoidant doesn’t chase.

Unlock Deeper Intimacy Starting Today. Get 7 Days Free Plus Lifetime Access to Our Attachment Styles & Intimacy Course and Finally Transform Your Relationships for Good! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-sex-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-sex-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_term=UZURew1Gr4o&utm_content=pod-10-13-25&el=podcast Have you ever been dating a Fearful Avoidant and everything seemed to be going great — until suddenly, they pulled away and lost interest? Or maybe you are a Fearful Avoidant and can’t understand why you sometimes go cold, even when things are good. In this video, Thais Gibson breaks down 5 key reasons fearful avoidants suddenly lose attraction — and what you can do to prevent it from happening, whether you’re dating one or healing as one. You’ll learn: ✅ Why broken trust instantly shuts down a Fearful Avoidant’s connection ✅ How anxious pressure or crossed boundaries trigger loss of attraction ✅ The “expectation overload” that makes them pull back fast ✅ Why feeling trapped activates their powerful flight response ✅ How unmet needs and emotional burnout lead to sudden detachment Episode Breakdown:  00:00 – Intro  00:47 – Reason 1: Their Trust is Broken 01:43 – Reason 2: Violated Their Boundaries 02:53 – Reason 3: Unreal Expectations on Them 03:40 – Attachment Styles & Intimacy Course 04:21 – Reason 4: Feeling Trapped 05:05 – Reason 5: They Feel It's a One-Sided Relationship 06:43 – Conclusion Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #FearfulAvoidant #DisorganizedAttachment #AttachmentStyles #ThaisGibson #AttachmentTheory #AvoidantAttachment #HealingRelationships #PersonalDevelopmentSchool #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalConnection #AttachmentHealing  If you’ve ever wondered why a Fearful Avoidant loses interest so abruptly — or how to stop this pattern before it ruins a great relationship — this video will help you understand exactly what’s going on beneath the surface.

Unlock Deeper Intimacy Starting Today. Get 7 Days Free Plus Lifetime Access to Our Attachment Styles & Intimacy Course and Finally Transform Your Relationships for Good! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-sex-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-sex-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-10-07-25&el=podcast They text you every day, spend weekends with you, and act like you’re together, yet freeze or pull back the moment commitment comes up. Sound familiar? In this video, Thais Gibson breaks down why dismissive avoidants often behave like partners without committing, revealing the emotional roadblocks, childhood conditioning, and subconscious fears driving their behavior. You’ll also learn how to recognize the difference between emotional unavailability and genuine potential, plus practical tools to protect your heart, communicate your needs, and decide when to stay—or walk away. You’ll learn: ✅ The four key reasons dismissive avoidants resist commitment—even when they care deeply ✅ Why emotional intimacy feels unsafe due to childhood neglect or unmet needs ✅ How vulnerability and commitment trigger subconscious fear and shame ✅ Why poor conflict-resolution skills cause long-term resentment and withdrawal ✅ How communication gaps make both partners feel misunderstood and criticized ✅ What “Integrated Attachment Theory™” teaches about repairing connection and building trust Video Breakdown (Timestamps): 00:00 – Intro 00:37 – The Four Attachment Styles 01:11 – 1. Emotional Connection Wasn’t Modeled in Childhood 04:17 – 2. Dismissive Avoidants Struggle With Vulnerability 05:39 – Integrated Attachment Theory™ Certification 06:33 – 3. Why They Don’t Know How to Resolve Conflict 09:46 – 4. Why They Feel Misunderstood and Criticized 12:10 – Conclusion Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #DismissiveAvoidant #AvoidantAttachment #AttachmentStyles #ThaisGibson #AttachmentHealing #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalIntelligence #BoundariesMatter #SecureLove #RelationshipHealing They act like your partner but resist commitment. Discover the emotional patterns behind dismissive avoidant behavior and how to respond with clarity and strength. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share this episode. 💗

Unlock Deeper Intimacy Starting Today. Get 7 Days Free Plus Lifetime Access to Our Attachment Styles & Intimacy Course and Finally Transform Your Relationships for Good! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-sex-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-sex-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-10-06-25&el=podcast Dismissive Avoidants rarely come out and say “I’m done.” Instead, they show it through subtle but powerful patterns, often long before the actual breakup happens. In this episode, Thais Gibson breaks down the four unmistakable signs that an avoidant is emotionally checking out and shares how to protect your self-worth, regulate your nervous system, and set healthy boundaries before it’s too late. Drawing on neuroscience and ancient wisdom, Thais explains how oxytocin drops, cortisol spikes, and emotional disconnection create chaos in relationships—and how to use self-awareness and communication to stop the spiral and regain control. You’ll learn: ✅ The four red flags that signal a dismissive avoidant is preparing to leave ✅ How “flaw finding” and subtle criticism act as deactivation strategies ✅ Why they replace intimacy with creature comforts like work or hobbies ✅ The neuroscience of emotional withdrawal and bonding disruption ✅ How to use pattern interruption and self-regulation to stop self-blame ✅ The boundaries and conversations that separate healing from heartbreak Video Breakdown (Timestamps): 00:00 – Intro 00:53 – 1. If You See Them Shutting Down Emotionally 01:52 – 2. If There Are Sudden Devaluing Behaviors or Comments 04:59 – Attachment Styles & Intimacy Promo 05:31 – 3. Replacing Intimacy with Creature Comforts 06:51 – The Neuroscience Behind Relational Distress 09:16 – Pattern Interrupt 11:29 – Setting Clear Boundaries 13:44 – Ancient Wisdom on Self-Consideration 15:30 – 4. When They Stop Communicating 16:41 – Conclusion Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #DismissiveAvoidant #AvoidantAttachment #AttachmentHealing #ThaisGibson #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalIntelligence #AttachmentStyles #BoundariesMatter #BreakupRecovery #SecureLove When an avoidant starts to pull away, it’s not random, it’s patterned. Learn to spot the signs early and protect your peace before it’s too late. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share this episode. 💗

Unlock Deeper Intimacy Starting Today. Get 7 Days Free Plus Lifetime Access to Our Attachment Styles & Intimacy Course and Finally Transform Your Relationships for Good! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-sex-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-sex-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-10-05-25&el=podcast Many Fearful Avoidants see themselves as fiercely independent—until real feelings and vulnerability take hold. Suddenly, emotional dependency sneaks in, making it feel like you lose yourself in the relationship. If this resonates, you’re not alone—and there is a way to break free from the push-pull cycles. In this video, Thais Gibson reveals the hidden signs of emotional dependency for Fearful Avoidants, the neuroscience and childhood roots behind it, and the exact steps you can take to heal so you can love deeply without losing yourself. You’ll learn: ✅ The 3 key signs of emotional dependency in Fearful Avoidant relationships ✅ How attachment trauma in childhood wires the brain for dependency cycles ✅ Why independence flips into preoccupation when real feelings develop ✅ How neuroscience explains the highs, lows, and nervous system disruption the Fearful Avoidant's experience ✅ 3 practical steps to heal, regulate, and create secure interdependent relationships Episode Breakdown: 00:00 – Intro  01:14 – Have You Lost Yourself in a Relationship Before?  01:41 – 1. When Feelings Get Real, You Feel You Are Over-identifying With Your Partner 03:29 – 2. Although Difficult to Ask, You Seek Reassurance in a Relationship 05:12 – Attachment Styles and Intimacy Promo 05:48 – 3. You Sometimes Feel Emotional Highs and Lows 07:09 – The Neuroscience Behind the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style 10:34 – Step 1: Learn to Meet Your Own Needs 11:44 – Step 2: Have a Relationship With Yourself Outside of Your Romantic Relationship  12:53 – Step 3: Rewire Old Triggers From Past Relationships 13:38 – Ancient Wisdom on Self-Love 14:49 – Conclusion Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #FearfulAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #EmotionalDependency #AttachmentTheory #Relationships #Healing Fearful Avoidants often feel independent until deep feelings trigger hidden emotional dependency. This episode explains why it happens and how you can heal to keep your sense of self while building healthy, lasting relationships.

Achieve Your Goals FAST With the “Needs” Course. Free for Life With a 7-Day Trial https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-free-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-free-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-09-27-25&el=podcast    Are you stuck in a painful cycle, wondering if your Dismissive Avoidant partner will ever come back? It’s exhausting to feel like your life is on hold, constantly walking on eggshells and hoping things will change.  In this video, Thais Gibson breaks down the major signs that a Dismissive Avoidant has reached the true point of no return—so you can stop second-guessing yourself and finally get clarity. You’ll learn the psychology, neuroscience, and relationship dynamics behind this attachment style, how to spot when healing is no longer possible, and what steps you can take to protect your peace and reclaim your life.   You’ll learn: ✅ Why Dismissive Avoidants often leave relationships, and when they never come back ✅ The “gray area” dynamic that keeps you stuck and prevents real progress ✅ How conflict-avoidance and emotional suppression create walls over time ✅ The neuroscience of deactivation and why it worsens if left unaddressed ✅ The questions you must ask to know if true healing and reconnection are possible ✅ Three powerful healing steps you can take today if you’re the loved one of a Dismissive Avoidant ✅ How unmet needs and old wounds keep you chasing breadcrumbs—and how to break free   Episode Breakdown: 00:00 – Intro  00:45 – 1. When the Emotional Disconnection is Reinforced, They No Longer Want to Connect 03:21 – 2. If Dismissive Avoidants Feel Criticized, They Will Pull Away 05:34 – Discover, Embrace, & Fulfill Your Personal Needs Course Promo  06:11 – The Neuroscience Behind Deactivation  08:36 – Being Willing to Do the Work is a Prerequisite for Healing 09:49 – Step 1: If You See This Person Withdrawing Over Time, Prepare Yourself to Heal 10:23 – Step 2: “What Are the Needs That I’m So Scared of Losing?” 11:06 – Step 3:  “What Wounds Are Chaining Me to This Potentially Unhealthy Situation?” 12:05 – Ancient Wisdom on Self-Love and Consideration  14:02 – Conclusion   Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships.   Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast  📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast  🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1  📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/    Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/  📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool  🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson  💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/    #DismissiveAvoidant #DismissiveAvoidantAttachment #AttachmentStyles #AttachmentTheory #ThaisGibson #PersonalDevelopment #HealingJourney #RelationshipAdvice #SelfLove #EmotionalHealing #Boundaries   This episode will help you recognize when it’s time to stop waiting for change and start honoring your own needs so you can step out of painful cycles and create space for healthier, more fulfilling relationships.

Achieve Your Goals FAST With the “Needs” Course. Free for Life With a 7-Day Trial https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-free-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-free-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-09-26-25&el=podcast    One of the most painful experiences is when a Fearful Avoidant suddenly walks away without warning. What most people don’t realize is that there is a specific red flag that the relationship is close to ending. In this video, Thais Gibson breaks down what that behavior is, why it happens, and how you can respond with clarity and self-respect. You’ll learn the neuroscience of why Fearful Avoidants shut down, how past wounds shape their fear of vulnerability, and what to do if you notice these warning signs in your relationship. Thais also shares a simple framework you can use—whether you’re the Fearful Avoidant or their partner—to bring needs to the surface and stop the cycle of sudden exits.   You’ll learn: ✅ The behavior that signals a Fearful Avoidant is ready to leave ✅ Why unspoken needs and unmet expectations push them toward sudden exits ✅ How childhood chaos wires them to avoid expressing vulnerability ✅ The neuroscience of fear, safety, and why needs feel dangerous to share ✅ Why sudden breakups aren’t about you—but about unresolved conditioning ✅ A practical exercise to rebuild safety and communication ✅ How to know if the relationship can be repaired—or if it’s time to move on   Episode Breakdown: 00:00 – Intro  00:37 – 1. Fearful Avoidants Struggle to Communicate Their Needs  02:05 – 2. Fearful Avoidants Pressure Themselves to Meet the Needs of Others 04:05 – Discover, Embrace, & Fulfill Your Personal Needs Course Promo  04:53 – The Neuroscience Behind Fear 08:27 – Step 1. Ask Yourself, “How Much Did I Communicate My Needs?” 08:55 – Step 2. “Did I Communicate in a Way That Was Likely to Be Received?” 10:08 – Step 3. Do a Weekly Needs Check-in 11:54 – Conclusion   Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships.   Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast  📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast  🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1  📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/    Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/  📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool  🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson  💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/    #FearfulAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #AttachmentTheory #RelationshipAdvice #BreakupHealing #EmotionalHealing When a Fearful Avoidant leaves suddenly, it’s usually because unspoken needs and fears have quietly built up until they shut down completely. Learning the red flags and creating space for open, healthy communication, you can protect yourself and build stronger, more secure relationships.💓

✨ Achieve Your Goals FAST With the “Needs” Course. Free for Life With a 7-Day Trial https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-free-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-free-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-09-25-25&el=podcast   Have you ever wondered what really happens when you pull away from a Dismissive Avoidant? It can feel confusing when the person who once shut down suddenly starts to pursue you. This push-pull cycle can be painful, but understanding it is the key to breaking free from games and creating real, lasting connections. In this episode, Thais Gibson explains why Dismissive Avoidants often re-engage when you step back, the subconscious fears driving this pattern, and how you can respond in a way that honors both your needs and theirs. By learning these dynamics, you’ll gain the clarity to set healthy boundaries, stop repeating cycles, and know when it’s time to walk away.   You’ll learn: ✅ Why Dismissive Avoidants feel safer pursuing when you step back ✅ How “feelings minus fears” explains their hot-and-cold cycle ✅ The role of childhood conditioning and trauma in these behaviors ✅ Why pulling away works temporarily—but isn’t a long-term solution ✅ How to find the middle ground between autonomy and intimacy ✅ The importance of setting boundaries, deadlines, and direct communication ✅ How to know if someone is willing (or not) to do the work in a relationship   Episode Breakdown: 00:00 – Intro  00:49 – The Four Attachment Styles 01:46 – Feelings Minus Fears 03:39 – 1. Learn How to Walk the Middle Ground 04:34 – Discover, Embrace, & Fulfill Your Personal Needs Course Promo  04:54 – 2. Encourage the Other Person to Work on Themselves 06:06 – 3. Set a Deadline 07:10 – 4. Communicate Directly About the Situation 07:58 – Conclusion   Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships.   Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast  📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast  🎧 Discover MorePodcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1  📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/    Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/  📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool  🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson  💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/    #DismissiveAvoidant #FearfulAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #AttachmentTheory #RelationshipAdvice #Boundaries   When you pull away from a Dismissive Avoidant, their fears of closeness quiet down and their true feelings often reemerge. By understanding this cycle, you can stop playing games, communicate directly, and decide whether the relationship has the potential to grow.

✨ Achieve Your Goals FAST With the “Needs” Course. Free for Life With a 7-Day Trial https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-free-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-free-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_term=nJOcd3mLmY8&utm_content=pod-09-24-25&el=podcast   Do you ever feel torn between craving closeness and pushing people away? You’re not alone—this push-pull cycle is one of the biggest signs of a Disorganized Attachment Style (also known as the Fearful Avoidant. In this video, Thais Gibson reveals the 10 clearest signs you may actually be disorganized attached—and how understanding them can completely change the way you see yourself and your relationships. You’ll discover how chaos in childhood wires the nervous system for both fear of abandonment and fear of commitment, and how these patterns play out in love, friendships, and family dynamics. Most importantly, you’ll learn that with the right tools, you can reprogram old wounds and move toward a secure, lasting connection.   You’ll learn: ✅ Why the Disorganized Attachment is often misdiagnosed as anxious or dismissive ✅ The “pendulum swing” between fearing abandonment and fearing commitment ✅ How hypervigilance, suspicion, and jumping to conclusions develop ✅ Why boundary struggles, over-giving, and people-pleasing keep you stuck ✅ The role of shame, guilt, and self-criticism in keeping you disconnected ✅ How inconsistent vulnerability shows up as under-sharing or over-sharing ✅ Why unresolved trauma fuels all-or-nothing thinking and emotional chaos ✅ A powerful roadmap for reprogramming subconscious beliefs and needs   Episode Breakdown: 00:00 – Intro 01:08 – 1. Fearful Avoidants Flip-Flop Between Fearing Abandonment and Commitment 03:49 – 2. Fearful Avoidants Can Go From Activating to Deactivating 04:23 – Discover, Embrace, & Fulfill Your Personal Needs Course Promo 04:43 – 3. Fearful Avoidants Often Jump to the Worst-Case Conclusions 06:35 – 4. Fearful Avoidants Are Afraid of Feeling Helpless 07:54 – 5. Fearful Avoidants Tend to Be Highly Empathetic or Sympathetic 10:05 – 6. Fearful Avoidants Tend to Struggle With Boundaries 11:03 – 7. Fearful Avoidants Struggle With Regulating Strong Emotions 12:41 – 8. Fearful Avoidants May Undershare or Overshare 13:45 – 9. Fearful Avoidants May Struggle With Extreme Guilt or Shame 14:20 –10. Fearful Avoidants Activate and Deactivate Strongly 14:54 – Conclusion   Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships.   Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/   Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/   #DisorganizedAttachment #FearfulAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #AttachmentTheory #RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalHealing   Disorganized (Fearful Avoidant) attachment can leave you stuck in a painful cycle of craving love but fearing it at the same time. By learning the 10 key signs and how to reprogram these patterns, you can move toward secure, healthy, and deeply connected relationships.

Embrace Breakthroughs With The “Heal From a Breakup” Course—Free for Life When You Start a 7-Day Trial. Limited-time only! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-breakup-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-breakup-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=yt-MM-DD-YY&el=podcast It’s not usually the big fights that end relationships with dismissive avoidants—it’s something far more subtle: the slow fade into the “roommate trap.” In this episode, Thais Gibson explains why love with a dismissive avoidant often erodes into mere coexistence, how neuroscience confirms disengagement is more damaging than conflict, and the exact steps you can take to prevent it. You’ll learn about the “four pillars of connection,” why avoidants over-rely on intellectual connection, and how unspoken needs and unprocessed conflicts slowly build walls that kill intimacy. Thais also shares a practical 3-step strategy to stop the cycle and reintroduce emotional closeness into the relationship. You’ll learn: ✅ Why dismissive avoidants rely heavily on intellectual connection, neglecting emotional and romantic pillars ✅ How comfort, routine, and security become their version of “commitment” ✅ Why lack of communication about needs leads to walls and eventual disengagement ✅ What the Gottman Institute reveals about emotional disengagement as the #1 predictor of divorce ✅ How oxytocin and shared vulnerability moments rebuild bonding ✅ A 3-step roadmap: set deadlines, clarify needs, and practice “micro-vulnerability” Episode Breakdown (Timestamps): 00:00 – Intro 00:36 – Why Avoidants Prefer Intellectual Connection 00:59 – The Pillars of a Relationship 02:40 – Why Avoidants Feel Safety in Disconnection 04:32 – Heal From a Breakup Course Promo 05:21 – Communication Struggles of Dismissive Avoidants 07:54 – The Neuroscience of Conflict & Vulnerability 09:47 – Step 1: Set a Deadline 10:34 – Step 2: Clarify Your Needs in a Relationship 12:03 – Step 3: Be Upfront About Boundaries 13:06 – Conclusion Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #DismissiveAvoidant #AvoidantAttachment #AttachmentHealing #ThaisGibson #RoommateTrap #RelationshipHealing #AttachmentStyles #SecureLove #EmotionalHealing #BoundariesMatter The “roommate trap” silently kills relationships with avoidants. Learn the hidden reasons it happens—and the steps to reignite intimacy and connection. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share this episode. 💗

Embrace Breakthroughs With The “Heal From a Breakup” Course—Free for Life When You Start a 7-Day Trial. Limited-time only! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-breakup-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-breakup-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=yt-09-19-25&el=podcast Do you keep ending up in toxic cycles, no matter how much you want healthy love? That’s because you don’t attract the love you deserve—you attract the love your nervous system is wired for. In this episode, Thais Gibson reveals how nervous system regulation transforms the way you show up in relationships, how fight, flight, freeze, and fawn responses keep you stuck in unhealthy patterns, and why learning to regulate your nervous system with a simple, science-backed practice can calm your body, reset your mind, and attract healthy love. You’ll learn: ✅ Why and how Securely Attached people keep their nervous system regulated ✅ Why fight, flight, freeze, and fawn modes sabotage closeness ✅ The neuroscience of regulation and its link to secure love ✅ How ancient wisdom predicted what science now proves ✅ A simple breath + self-soothing exercise you can try today ✅ How to break the cycle of chaos and finally feel safe in love Timestamps: 00:00 – Intro 01:14 – The Nervous Systems of the Attachment Styles 04:38 – How to Heal From a Breakup Course Promo 05:13 – The Neuroscience of Secure Attachment 06:16 – Ancient Wisdoms on Inner Peace 07:52 – Regulate Our Nervous System to Become Securely Attached 08:37 – Connecting Internally With Our Breath 09:15 – The Box Breath 09:53 – Why Being Present in Your Body is Important 11:33 – Conclusion Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #DismissiveAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #RelationshipAdvice #AttachmentTheory #TrustIssues #Boundaries

Embrace Breakthroughs With The “Heal From a Breakup” Course—Free for Life When You Start a 7-Day Trial. Limited-time only! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-breakup-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-breakup-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_term=MLsOSMJXuEU&utm_content=pod-09-18-25&el=podcast Few things feel more invasive than wondering if your partner is snooping through your phone. If they’re a Dismissive Avoidant, the thought can leave you feeling confused... aren’t they supposed to avoid closeness, not seek it?   In this episode, Thais Gibson unpacks when and why Dismissive Avoidants might snoop, what it really means about their level of investment, and how you can rebuild trust with healthier communication. Most importantly, you’ll learn how neuroscience, psychology, and ancient wisdom all point toward the same truth: trust grows through honesty, boundaries, and self-mastery.   You’ll learn: ✅ Why most Dismissive Avoidants avoid snooping—but what it means when they do ✅ The surprising link between snooping and long-term commitment fears ✅ How manipulation often shows up as an indirect attempt to meet needs ✅ Why low oxytocin makes trust harder for Dismissive Avoidants ✅ A practical exercise to uncover the real need behind snooping (and meet it directly) ✅ How to respond if you’ve been snooped on—without losing self-respect ✅ Why healthy boundaries, not control, are the foundation of secure love   Episode Breakdown: 00:00 – Intro 01:20 – Dismissive Avoidants Will Often Avoid Snooping 03:49 – What is Happening in Their Internal Reality? 07:50 – How to Heal From a Breakup Course Promo 08:48 – The Neuroscience Behind Snooping 10:09 – Step 1: What Outcomes and Needs Am I Looking for? 10:42 – Step 2: How Can I Better Meet This Need? 11:46 – Ancient Wisdom on Trust and Boundaries 12:54 – Conclusion   Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships.   Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #DismissiveAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #RelationshipAdvice #AttachmentTheory #TrustIssues #Boundaries

Embrace Breakthroughs With The “Heal From a Breakup” Course—Free for Life When You Start a 7-Day Trial. Limited-time only! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-breakup-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-breakup-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-09-17-25&el=podcast Few things feel more invasive than realizing your partner might be snooping through your phone. If they’re a Fearful Avoidant, this behavior can leave you feeling betrayed and confused. In this episode, Thais Gibson breaks down why Fearful Avoidants snoop, what it really reveals about trust wounds, and how to heal the root cause so you can create safe, secure love. You’ll see how fear of betrayal, abandonment, and broken trust wires their nervous system to scan for threats—and why snooping is a misguided attempt to seek certainty. Most importantly, you’ll learn how to replace fear-driven behaviors with open communication, boundary-setting, and deep subconscious reprogramming. You’ll learn: ✅ Why Fearful Avoidants snoop and the core wounds driving the behavior ✅ How survival wiring and hypervigilance keep them scanning for betrayal ✅ The link between snooping, broken trust, and self-fulfilling prophecies ✅ Why direct communication is the only path to real security ✅ How neuroscience shows snooping is an overfired threat detection system ✅ 3 practical steps to stop snooping and start building trust now ✅ Why reprogramming subconscious fears is essential to long-term healing Timestamps: 00:00 – Intro 01:13 – 1. They Snoop Out of Fear of Betrayal 02:58 – 2. Snooping is an Unhealthy Attempt to Seek Control 04:24 – 3. They Snoop to Soothe Their Fear of Being Deceived 05:37 – How to Heal From a Breakup Course Promo 06:34 – The Neuroscience Behind Snooping 08:14 – Step 1. Practice Exposure Work on Vulnerability 09:24 – Step 2. Set Healthy Standards and Open the Dialogue Early 10:58 – Step 3. Rewire Your Subconscious Wounds and Fears 11:54 – Ancient Wisdom on Internal Healing 12:39 – Conclusion Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ #FearfulAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #AttachmentTheory #RelationshipAdvice #TrustIssues #Boundaries

✨ Build Amazing Connections With Our 7-Day All-Access Course Pass and Keep Our “Key Pillars to Secure Attachment” Course Fully Free for Life (Valued at $250!). Claim this free gift before they run out! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-pillars-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-pillars-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-08-29-25&el=podcast Fearful avoidants often struggle to trust love fully—not because they don’t want it, but because their subconscious mind has absorbed painful stories from childhood and past relationships. In this episode, Thais Gibson breaks down the 5 most common lies fearful avoidants tell themselves about love, why these beliefs feel so real, and how to reprogram them for secure, lasting connection. You’ll discover the hidden fears beneath these lies, how they silently sabotage relationships, and what practical tools you can use to recondition your nervous system and subconscious to open up to love without fear. You’ll learn: ✅ The false beliefs fearful avoidants carry about being unworthy of love ✅ Why they expect abandonment and betrayal—even in healthy relationships ✅ How self-protection strategies become self-sabotage ✅ Tools to question and reframe these painful lies into empowering truths ✅ How nervous system regulation makes love feel safe again ✅ The key mindset shifts that unlock secure and fulfilling relationships Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #FearfulAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #LoveHealing #AttachmentTheory #ThaisGibson #RelationshipHealing #OvercomeFear #SecureLove #EmotionalHealing #SelfWorth The lies fearful avoidants believe aren’t the truth—they’re old stories ready to be rewritten. Learn how to release them and embrace secure, lasting love. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share this episode. 💗

✨ Build Amazing Connections With Our 7-Day All-Access Course Pass and Keep Our “Key Pillars to Secure Attachment” Course Fully Free for Life (Valued at $250!). Claim this free gift before they run out! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-pillars-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-pillars-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-08-25-25&el=podcast Have you ever wondered what happens when you finally pull away from a dismissive avoidant partner? Instead of you chasing, the roles reverse—and it can change everything. In this episode, Thais Gibson explains the psychological and emotional impact your distance has on a dismissive avoidant, why it triggers them differently than when you over-give, and how this dynamic can either spark growth or reinforce disconnection . You’ll learn how avoidants process separation beneath the surface, why your boundaries often awaken feelings they’ve been avoiding, and how to use space intentionally without falling into power struggles. You’ll learn: ✅ What pulling away signals to a dismissive avoidant at the subconscious level ✅ Why avoidants may begin to recognize your worth only once you stop over-pursuing ✅ How your emotional independence can reduce their fear of engulfment ✅ The difference between pulling away with resentment vs. pulling away with healthy self-respect ✅ Practical ways to hold your ground while leaving the door open for healthier reconnection ✅ Why creating balance between closeness and autonomy is key to secure love Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #DismissiveAvoidant #AvoidantAttachment #AttachmentStyles #ThaisGibson #BoundariesMatter #AttachmentHealing #SecureLove #RelationshipAdvice #SelfRespect #EmotionalHealing Sometimes, pulling away is the most powerful thing you can do. Learn what happens when you stop chasing and start honoring yourself. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share this episode. 💗

Build Amazing Connections With Our 7 Day All-access Course Pass and Keep Our "Key Pillars to Secure Attachment" Course Fully Free for Life (Valued at $250!). Check It Out and Claim This Free Gift Before They Run Out! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-pillars-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=june-promo&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-08-25-25&el=podcast   If you’ve ever been suddenly cut off by a dismissive avoidant partner, you may have experienced what’s known as the “dismissive avoidant discard.” In this episode, Thais Gibson breaks down what this painful dynamic really is, why it happens, and how to protect your sense of self-worth when it occurs. Thais explains the underlying fears that drive dismissive avoidants to push people away—often right when relationships deepen—and why their withdrawal has more to do with survival wiring than your value. Most importantly, she shares how to reframe the discard so you stop personalizing it, and instead use the experience as a catalyst for boundaries, clarity, and secure attachment. You’ll learn: ✅ What the dismissive avoidant discard looks like in real relationships ✅ The subconscious fears and childhood conditioning driving this pattern ✅ Why their withdrawal is not a reflection of your worth or lovability ✅ How to stop self-blame and reclaim your power after being discarded ✅ Steps to set healthier standards and attract secure, consistent love ✅ How to turn painful endings into opportunities for deep healing Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #Hashtags (SEO-Optimized): #DismissiveAvoidant #AvoidantAttachment #AttachmentStyles #ThaisGibson #RelationshipHealing #AttachmentTheory #AvoidantDiscard #SecureLove #SelfWorthHealing #BoundariesMatter The “discard” may feel personal, but it isn’t a reflection of your value. Learn what’s really happening—and how to rise stronger. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share this episode. 💗

🎁 Spin To Win Handpicked Prizes By Thais Herself, Including FREE Gifts Worth Over $250 in Courses, Free Trials & More to Start Healing Your Attachment Style. Promo Ends Soon! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/spin-the-wheel?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=spin-to-win&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-08-22-25&el=podcast If you’ve ever shared a home—or tried to—with a dismissive avoidant, you know it can feel like a rollercoaster of independence, distance, and confusion. In this episode, Thais Gibson uncovers the 5 most shocking realities of living with a dismissive avoidant partner, and how you can respond without losing yourself . From their strong need for independence, to their discomfort with conflict, to their hidden craving for connection they rarely admit, you’ll walk away with clarity and tools to stop personalizing their behavior. Thais shows how to honor your needs while navigating theirs, so you can either build a healthier relationship or know when it’s time to step back. You’ll learn: ✅ Why dismissive avoidants withdraw at home even when they care about you ✅ The role of independence and autonomy in their daily life ✅ Why they often avoid conflict and prefer to shut down rather than engage ✅ The subtle ways they still crave connection despite appearing detached ✅ Tools to balance their patterns with your own needs and boundaries ✅ How to protect your self-worth and avoid the trap of self-blame Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #DismissiveAvoidant #AvoidantAttachment #AttachmentStyles #ThaisGibson #LivingWithAnAvoidant #RelationshipHealing #BoundariesMatter #SecureLove #AttachmentTheory #SelfWorth Living with a dismissive avoidant doesn’t have to leave you confused and drained. Learn the 5 shocking truths—and how to thrive with secure love instead. Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share this episode! 💗

Spin to Win is Back! Spin Now to Win Handpicked Prizes By Thais Herself—Including $250 Courses, Free Trials & More to Start Healing Your Attachment Style. Promo Ends Soon! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/spin-the-wheel?utm_source=youtube&utm_campaign=spin-to-win&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=yt-08-13-25&el=youtube Dismissive avoidants often keep their deepest thoughts and fears completely hidden, even from their closest partners. But in counseling, once trust is built, surprising truths emerge. In this episode, Thais Gibson pulls back the curtain on five confessions dismissive avoidants have shared in private sessions, insights that explain their distance, hesitation, and hidden needs. From the belief they’re “not cut out” for relationships to the way conflict can rattle them for days, you’ll see the avoidant attachment style in a whole new light. More importantly, you’ll learn how to build trust, communicate effectively, and create a connection where their needs (and yours) can truly be met. You’ll learn: ✅ The hidden belief that they’re “better off alone”—and why it’s a learned defense, not the truth ✅ Why emotional closeness can feel unsafe, even when they crave love ✅ How childhood emotional neglect plants deep shame that’s triggered by even small feedback ✅ Why conflict overwhelms them—and how they can learn healthy resolution skills ✅ The surprising reason they often feel their needs aren’t met (even with a loving partner) ✅ How to meet each other halfway through clear, safe communication ✅ Access to a free course on the 5 key pillars of secure relationships Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #DismissiveAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #ThaisGibson #AvoidantAttachment #ConflictResolution #EmotionalSafety #RelationshipCommunication #SecureLove #SubconsciousHealing #RelationshipNeeds If you’ve ever been confused by avoidant behavior, this episode will help you see the deeper truth and give you tools to bridge the gap. Subscribe, rate, and share it with someone navigating avoidant relationships. 💗

Spin to Win is Back! Spin Now to Win Handpicked Prizes By Thais Herself—Including $250 Courses, Free Trials & More to Start Healing Your Attachment Style. Promo Ends Soon! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/spin-the-wheel?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=spin-to-win&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=yt-08-11-25&el=podcast Have you ever dated a dismissive avoidant who seemed amazing at first—only to slowly pull away around the 6-month mark? You’re not imagining it. In this episode, Thais Gibson reveals the hidden avoidant timeline—why avoidants often show their “best self” early on, but gradually reveal deeper fears, wounds, and patterns as attachment builds. You’ll learn the 6 stages of relationships, why avoidants change gears between month 6 and 12, and the specific fears that surface once emotional bonds deepen. Thais also shares practical communication tips to help you navigate the power struggle stage and strengthen your connection instead of losing it. You’ll learn: ✅ The 6 stages of every relationship—and where most couples break up ✅ Why avoidants seem warm and connected early, then start to pull away ✅ How “feelings minus fears” explains their shift after real attachment forms ✅ The specific fears that trigger avoidant distancing behaviors ✅ How flaw-finding becomes a subconscious self-protection strategy ✅ Communication techniques to resolve conflict without pushing them further away ✅ How to frame needs positively so avoidants feel safe enough to meet them Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #DismissiveAvoidant #AvoidantTimeline #AttachmentStyles #ThaisGibson #PowerStruggleStage #RelationshipStages #AvoidantAttachment #RelationshipCommunication #SecureLove #SubconsciousHealing If you’ve ever been blindsided by an avoidant’s sudden distance, this episode will give you the roadmap to understand it and the tools to keep love alive. Subscribe, rate, and share it with someone navigating avoidant dynamics. 💗

Start Healing Your Attachment Style With Personalized Courses Taught by Thais Gibson. Free for 7 Days (Enough Time to Complete a Full Course). Limited-time Offer: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-08-01-25&el=podcast Why do avoidant partners seem distant—yet strangely attracted to certain people? And why do they finally connect with people who do one surprising thing? If you’ve been chasing avoidants or caught in a cycle of overgiving, this episode will change everything. Thais Gibson reveals the psychological root of why avoidants fall for people who prioritize themselves—and how your relationship to yourself creates the attraction blueprint. You’ll learn about the shadow self, how repressed traits influence attraction, and what makes avoidants feel safe, intrigued, and emotionally engaged. You’ll learn: ✅ Why avoidants are drawn to people who own their space and set boundaries ✅ How people-pleasing is really self-abandonment (and how to stop) ✅ What the “relationship shadow” is—and why it shapes your patterns ✅ Real examples of how repressed assertiveness attracts avoidant partners ✅ How to transform your inner relationship and attract emotionally available people ✅ Why secure people are also drawn to self-connected individuals ✅ A free resource to start shadow work and healing today Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #DismissiveAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #ThaisGibson #PeoplePleasing #ShadowWork #SelfAbandonment #RelationshipHealing #SecureLove #EmotionalAttraction #SubconsciousMind If this episode helped you rethink attraction and self-worth, subscribe, rate, and share it with someone caught in avoidant cycles. Real love starts within. 💗

Improve Emotional and Physical Intimacy With the Attachment Styles & Sex Course. Normally $250, Free for Life When You Start Your 7-Day Trial Between July 24–31. Keep It Even If You Cancel. Limited-time Offer: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-sex-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-needs&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-07-30-25&el=podcast Fearful avoidants often give off mixed signals: they crave closeness but fear it, they want deep love but struggle to trust it. So what do they actually need to feel safe and fulfilled in a relationship? In this illuminating episode, Thais Gibson breaks down the essential emotional and psychological needs of the fearful avoidant attachment style—many of which are hidden even to the FA themselves. Whether you're healing as an FA or loving one, this episode gives you a roadmap for creating real connection, security, and lasting growth. You’ll learn: ✅ The 11 core needs every fearful avoidant must have met to sustain a relationship ✅ Why emotional depth is a lifeline—not just a preference—for FAs ✅ How trust is built (and broken) through congruency and transparency ✅ The underrated importance of presence, safety, and freedom ✅ How novelty, growth, and independence coexist with emotional closeness ✅ The role of subconscious chaos—and how to replace it with stability ✅ Why appreciation and consistency are game changers for long-term love Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #FearfulAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #ThaisGibson #RelationshipNeeds #SubconsciousHealing #EmotionalDepth #TrustAndSafety #MixedSignals #AvoidantAnxiousDynamic #SecureLove Found this episode helpful or healing? Please subscribe, rate, and share it with someone navigating a relationship with a fearful avoidant. Your support helps more people love and be loved better. 💗

Improve Emotional and Physical Intimacy With the Attachment Styles & Sex Course. Normally $250, Free for Life When You Start Your 7-Day Trial Between July 24–31. Keep It Even If You Cancel. Limited-time Offer: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-sex-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-needs&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-07-28-25&el=podcast Does your partner suddenly pull away from sex once things start getting serious? Has intimacy gone cold after a strong beginning? If you're in love with a dismissive avoidant—or healing these patterns yourself—this episode brings clarity and compassion to a confusing relationship dynamic. Thais Gibson explores why dismissive avoidants often shut down around intimacy after the honeymoon phase, what’s happening neurologically and emotionally behind the scenes, and how to tell whether your relationship can be healed—or whether it’s time to walk away. This is a must-listen for anyone seeking clarity around love, intimacy, and self-worth. You’ll learn: ✅ Why sex becomes triggering for DAs after emotional bonds deepen ✅ The subconscious childhood programming that fuels intimacy fears ✅ How DA self-protection kicks in through emotional and sexual withdrawal ✅ The real reason dismissive avoidants dissociate during sex ✅ How performance anxiety and fear of criticism shut down desire ✅ Communication tools to reestablish trust and connection ✅ Why unconditional acceptance (not pressure) reopens emotional safety ✅ When to set a deadline—and how to decide if the relationship is worth it Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #DismissiveAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #ThaisGibson #IntimacyIssues #SexAndAttachment #EmotionalShutdown #FearOfCloseness #RelationshipHealing #AttachmentAndSex #EmotionalIntimacy Found this episode insightful? Please subscribe, rate, and share it with someone navigating intimacy with an avoidant partner. Every share supports more healing. 💗

Improve Emotional and Physical Intimacy With the Attachment Styles & Sex Course. Normally $250, Free for Life When You Start Your 7-Day Trial Between July 24–31. Keep It Even If You Cancel. Limited-time Offer: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-sex-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-needs&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-07-25-25&el=podcast Why does sex sometimes bring you closer—and other times make you want to run? If you or your partner identify as fearful avoidant, you might feel both deeply connected and overwhelmed during intimacy. This episode explains why. Thais Gibson explores how the fearful avoidant attachment style bonds during sex, what they need to feel safe, and why physical connection can open—or close—the door to emotional intimacy. Learn how sex interacts with neurochemistry, trust, and vulnerability, and discover how to turn intimacy into a gateway for healing instead of confusion or fear. You’ll learn: ✅ The 5 pillars of relationship connection—and where sex fits in ✅ Two common bonding patterns for fearful avoidants in relationships ✅ How neurochemicals like oxytocin and dopamine affect bonding ✅ Why sex can lead to emotional shutdown for FAs without trust ✅ How to prevent the push-pull dynamic triggered by vulnerability ✅ What FAs need most to feel safe, respected, and seen during sex ✅ How to create a more secure, emotionally fulfilling connection through intimacy Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #FearfulAvoidant #AttachmentAndSex #ThaisGibson #AttachmentStyles #RelationshipIntimacy #EmotionalConnection #NeurochemistryOfLove #SecureRelationships #SubconsciousHealing #PushPullDynamic If this episode opened your eyes or your heart, please subscribe, rate, and share it with someone healing their intimacy patterns. Your support helps more people access tools for emotional clarity and connection. 💗

Explore Your Attachment Style With Thais Gibson. Access All Courses, Live Webinars & Q&As Free for 7 Days (Enough Time to Complete a Full Course). Limited-time Access: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-07-23-25&el=podcast Avoidant partners often get misunderstood—seen as cold, distant, or commitment-phobic. But underneath those protective walls are unique needs and a deep desire to connect… on their terms. If you want to love an avoidant without losing yourself, this episode is for you. In this insightful episode, Thais Gibson shares five often-overlooked emotional needs that dismissive avoidants require to feel safe, open, and genuinely happy in love. Whether you're dating an avoidant or healing avoidant tendencies within yourself, you’ll walk away with empowering tools to build connection without sacrificing your own needs. You’ll learn: ✅ Why avoidants need structured independence—not endless space ✅ The role of empathy in healing childhood emotional neglect ✅ How harmony (not drama) keeps avoidants emotionally engaged ✅ Why literal, direct communication builds safety and trust ✅ How to foster growth through acceptance (without enabling unhealthy patterns) ✅ Simple scripts to express your needs and avoid triggering deactivation ✅ The secret to balancing freedom and closeness in real, secure love Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #AvoidantAttachment #DismissiveAvoidant #ThaisGibson #RelationshipNeeds #IntimacyAndIndependence #AttachmentTheory #CommunicationInLove #EmotionalSafety #SecureRelationships #PersonalGrowth If this episode helped you understand avoidant behavior more deeply, please subscribe, rate, and share it with someone who needs this message. It might just change their love life. 💗

Learn Your Relationship Needs & Build the Best Relationships of Your Life with our COMPLETELY FREE Discover Your Needs Course. When You Sign Up for a 7-Day Trial, You Keep This Course for LIFE! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-free-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-needs&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-07-16-25&el=podcast If you’ve ever felt like your heart is at war with your mind—wanting closeness one moment, then needing distance the next—you might be living with a fearful avoidant attachment style. And that internal push-pull doesn’t mean you’re broken. It means you’re human—and there’s hope. In this insightful solo episode, Thais Gibson takes you into the emotional landscape of the fearful avoidant. You’ll learn how early attachment wounds shape chaotic internal worlds—and how to begin healing from the inside out. Whether you’re identifying as FA yourself or trying to understand a loved one, this episode brings clarity, compassion, and real tools for change. You’ll learn: ✅ Why fearful avoidants often feel emotionally “split” and reactive ✅ The two subconscious core wounds that drive their behavior ✅ How FAs unconsciously sabotage their relationships—and how to stop ✅ Why needs go unmet in FA upbringings (and how to reclaim them) ✅ The role of shame and “self-abandonment” in the FA emotional cycle ✅ Practical steps to build internal safety and restore self-trust ✅ How to break the push-pull pattern and move toward secure love Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #FearfulAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #ThaisGibson #HealingAttachment #EmotionalHealing #PushPullDynamics #ReprogrammingTheMind #RelationshipTrauma #SecureAttachment #PersonalDevelopment If this episode resonated with your story, don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share it with someone healing their inner world. Every listen helps more people find their path to secure love. 💞

Learn Your Relationship Needs & Build the Best Relationships of Your Life with our COMPLETELY FREE Discover Your Needs Course. When You Sign Up for a 7-Day Trial, You Keep This Course for LIFE! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-free-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-needs&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-07-14-25&el=podcast Have you ever wondered what’s really happening when a dismissive avoidant partner withdraws? Why do they need so much alone time—and what does that time actually look like? In this powerful solo episode, Thais Gibson breaks down the misunderstood reality of dismissive avoidant behavior in their free time. Far from restful or emotionally fulfilling, much of that alone time is spent simply surviving—numbing out, self-soothing, or unconsciously avoiding emotional needs. If you’re trying to understand (or heal from) a relationship with a DA, this episode is essential listening. You’ll learn: ✅ Why DAs crave time alone—and what’s really happening beneath the surface ✅ The difference between solitude and self-connection ✅ How unmet emotional needs in childhood shape adult self-neglect ✅ What “creature comfort” behaviors are actually regulating ✅ Why intellectual growth often replaces emotional growth for DAs ✅ The connection between emotional suppression and nervous system dysregulation ✅ How to shift from survival mode into healing, growth, and connection Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #DismissiveAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #ThaisGibson #EmotionalHealing #RelationshipPatterns #AvoidantAttachment #SelfNeglect #InnerWorld #SubconsciousHealing #PersonalDevelopment Found this episode eye-opening? Be sure to subscribe, rate, and share with someone who needs help understanding dismissive avoidant behavior and healing the relationship with themselves. 💞

Learn Your Relationship Needs & Build the Best Relationships of Your Life with our COMPLETELY FREE Discover Your Needs Course. When You Sign Up for a 7-Day Trial, You Keep This Course for LIFE! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-free-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-needs&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-07-12-25&el=podcast Do your emotions sometimes feel too big to manage, like you're overwhelmed, panicked, or desperate for connection? If you're anxiously attached, this isn’t just in your head. It's the result of unmet needs and subconscious conditioning and there’s a path to peace. In this compassionate solo episode, Thais Gibson breaks down why anxious preoccupied individuals often feel enslaved by their feelings and dependent on others for emotional relief. She then guides you step-by-step on how to build internal trust, self-soothe, and heal your attachment style by reconnecting with your needs. You’ll learn: ✅ The two emotional roots of anxious overwhelm: unmet needs and painful stories ✅ Why anxious individuals struggle to self-soothe—and how to change that ✅ The path from codependency to healthy interdependence ✅ How to build trust in yourself through daily need-meeting ✅ A practical exercise to identify and fulfill your top 15 emotional needs ✅ How to communicate your needs clearly (and avoid miscommunication in relationships) ✅ Why healing your attachment style is possible with consistency and the right tools Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #AnxiousAttachment #EmotionalHealing #RelationshipNeeds #ThaisGibson #CodependencyRecovery #SelfSoothing #AttachmentStyles #InnerTrust #SubconsciousReprogramming #PersonalDevelopment If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe, rate, and share it with someone ready to reclaim their emotional power. Your support helps us reach more people on the path to healing. 💕

Release Stored Emotions and Reset Your Nervous System With Proven Somatic Tools Taught by Thais Gibson. Buy the Course for $19 (Regularly $250). Limited-Time Offer: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-somatic?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-somatic&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-07-04-25&el=podcast Do you ever feel emotionally overwhelmed, exhausted, or stuck in cycles of stress and burnout? If your nervous system feels constantly “on,” like you can never fully relax or be present—this episode is for you. In this solo episode, Thais Gibson shares how nervous system dysregulation quietly sabotages your relationships, health, and personal growth and how somatic tools can help you shift from fight-or-flight into peace, presence, and healing. Drawing from personal experience and polyvagal theory, Thais explains how learning to regulate your body transforms your emotional landscape. You’ll learn: ✅ The difference between sympathetic and parasympathetic nervous system states ✅ How trauma trains your body to stay in fight-or-flight ✅ Why emotional reactivity feels “bigger” when you're dysregulated ✅ Practical somatic habits to reset your system—no fancy tools required ✅ What most people are really doing when they binge eat, drink, or scroll ✅ Why your energy crashes (and how to access a second wind without burnout) ✅ How to stop coping and start creating from a place of grounded peace Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #SomaticHealing #NervousSystemReset #PolyvagalTheory #ThaisGibson #EmotionalRegulation #PersonalDevelopment #StressReliefTools #HealingTrauma #BurnoutRecovery #MindBodyConnection 💬 Love this episode? Please subscribe, leave a ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ review, and share it with someone who needs a nervous system reset today!

Start Healing Your Attachment Style With Personalized Courses Taught by Thais Gibson. Free for 7 Days (Enough Time to Complete a Full Course). Limited-time Offer: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-07-02-25&el=podcast Why does your dismissive avoidant partner pull away, seem distant, or leave you wondering where you stand? If you’ve felt unseen, frustrated, or confused in your relationship, this episode is for you. Thais Gibson and co-host Mike dive deep into the inner world of the dismissive avoidant attachment style—revealing what’s really going on behind seemingly “cold” or “unavailable” behaviors. Mike shares vulnerably from his own experience as a former DA turned secure, while Thais explains the neuroscience, patterns, and powerful strategies to bridge the gap and create deeper connection. You’ll learn: ✅ Why DAs often don’t factor in your needs—and how to work with it ✅ What “independence” really means to a dismissive avoidant ✅ Why conflict feels unsafe and how to open difficult conversations ✅ The truth about DAs and feedback sensitivity ✅ How to communicate your needs without triggering deactivation ✅ When and how healing leads to real change in your partner ✅ How to assess whether a DA partner is truly willing to grow with you Episode Breakdown: 00:00 – Attachment Style Quiz 00:42 – Intro 04:12 – 1 — They Don't Factor Someone Else's Needs When Making Decisions 19:02 – 2 — They Put Less Emphasis on Relationships 23:59 – 3 — They Dislike Conflict 35:04 – PDS Membership Program 36:03 – 4 — They Feel Safe in Their Independence and Autonomy 37:42 – When Their Personal Space is Invaded 43:54 – Love and Connection: Quantity vs Quality 44:24 – 5 — They're Sensitive to Feedback 58:34 – Conclusion Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #DismissiveAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #ThaisGibson #EmotionalHealing #RelationshipAdvice #SecureAttachment #FearOfIntimacy #PersonalGrowth #InnerWorld #SubconsciousReprogramming If this episode gave you new insight, don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share with someone who needs a little clarity in their relationships. Your support helps us reach more healing hearts.

💞 Want to become secure and attract healthy love? Start the 6 Pillars to a Secure Relationship course FREE for 7 days! 👉 https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-pillars-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=june-promo&utm_medium=organic&utm_term=podcast-episode&utm_content=pod-06-14-25&el=podcast Curious if the person you're dating is actually secure—or just seems that way? When it comes to building a healthy relationship, recognizing secure traits early on can save you months (or years) of confusion, anxiety, or emotional push-pull. In this insightful episode, Thais Gibson breaks down the five core traits of a securely attached partner. From how they handle conflict to how they set boundaries, you’ll learn how to spot emotional maturity and relational balance—so you can date with clarity, confidence, and peace of mind. 🎯 In This Episode, You’ll Learn: Why emotional transparency is a hallmark of secure attachment How securely attached partners handle conflict and miscommunication The difference between interdependence and codependence What healthy vulnerability really looks like in dating How boundary-setting helps secure people stay balanced in life and love 👩‍🏫 Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. 🔗 Learn more about Thais 🧰 Helpful Resources 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ 📲 Connect With Us on Social 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #SecureAttachment #HealthyRelationships #DatingAdvice #AttachmentStyles #EmotionalIntelligence #ThaisGibson #PDSPodcast #RelationshipTips #SelfAwareness #EmotionalMaturity ✨ If this episode gave you clarity, please subscribe, rate, or share it with someone navigating the dating world. Knowing what secure looks like changes everything. ✨

🔐 Ready to heal and rewire your attachment style? Start the 6 Pillars to a Secure Relationship course FREE for 7 days—yours to keep for life! 👉 https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-pillars-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=june-promo&utm_medium=organic&utm_term=podcast-episode&utm_content=pod-06-14-25&el=podcast Tired of cycling through insecure relationships or struggling with painful patterns you can’t seem to break? Change is closer than you think. In this powerful episode, Thais Gibson shares the exact 6-step framework from her Integrated Attachment Theory to help you become securely attached in just 90 days. Based on thousands of case studies and the unique needs of each attachment style, this roadmap integrates subconscious reprogramming, emotional regulation, and identity transformation—giving you a real path to lasting healing and secure love. 🎯 In This Episode, You’ll Learn: The key differences between traditional and Integrated Attachment Theory (IAT) How insecure patterns are wired into your subconscious—and how to rewire them The 6 core areas you must master to become secure (including emotional regulation, needs, and boundaries) How to use subconscious tools like repetition and somatic work for real transformation What 92% of committed PDS students did to become securely attached in 90 days 👩‍🏫 Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. 🔗 Learn more about Thais 🧰 Helpful Resources 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ 📲 Connect With Us on Social 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #SecureAttachment #AttachmentStyles #IntegratedAttachmentTheory #EmotionalHealing #ThaisGibson #SelfWorth #HealingJourney #SubconsciousReprogramming #PDSPodcast #PersonalGrowth ✨ If you’re ready to rewire your attachment style and experience real love, please subscribe, rate, and share this episode with someone on their healing journey. Healing is possible—and it starts with the right tools. ✨

💞 Heal your attachment style with Thais Gibson’s signature course: The 6 Pillars to a Secure Relationship—FREE 7-day trial starts today! 👉 https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-pillars-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=june-promo&utm_medium=organic&utm_term=podcast-episode&utm_content=pod-06-14-25&el=podcast Do you often feel panicked when your partner pulls away or worry they’ll stop loving you out of the blue? For the anxious preoccupied, relationships can feel like an emotional rollercoaster—but it doesn’t have to be this way. In this transformative episode, Thais Gibson explores the roots of insecurity for the anxious preoccupied attachment style and offers clear tools to help you feel safe, seen, and secure—without needing constant reassurance. Learn how to reconnect with yourself, meet your own needs, and communicate with confidence. 🎯 In This Episode, You’ll Learn: Why unmet needs trigger panic and identity loss in anxious preoccupied individuals How to develop a secure sense of self by identifying and meeting your own needs Why the traits you seek in others often mirror what you're ready to strengthen in yourself How advocating for your needs reduces insecurity and increases relationship satisfaction How to challenge assumptions about abandonment and rejection before they sabotage connection 👩‍🏫 Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. 🔗 Learn more about Thais 🧰 Helpful Resources 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ 📲 Connect With Us on Social 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #AnxiousAttachment #RelationshipInsecurity #AttachmentStyles #HealingJourney #ThaisGibson #EmotionalHealing #SelfWorth #PDSPodcast #InnerSecurity #HealthyRelationships ✨ If this episode resonated with you, be sure to subscribe, rate, or share it with someone who could use extra support and validation in love. You’re not alone. ✨

🧠 Heal your attachment style with Thais Gibson’s 6 Pillars to a Secure Relationship course—FREE 7-day trial (yours to keep, for life!) 👉 https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-pillars-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=june-promo&utm_medium=organic&utm_term=podcast-episode&utm_content=pod-06-14-25&el=podcast Fearful avoidants often feel confident at the start of a relationship—until deeper commitments trigger the old fear of betrayal, mistrust, or not being “good enough.” If this sounds familiar, you’re not broken—you're responding to past emotional injuries that can be healed. In this compassionate episode, Thais Gibson dives deep into the core insecurities of the fearful avoidant attachment style and shares practical steps to help you build inner safety, trust others, and receive love without perfectionism. Learn how to move beyond the rollercoaster and into lasting emotional security. 🎯 In This Episode, You’ll Learn: Why fearful avoidants often feel most secure in the dating stage—and what changes later How trust wounds develop and get triggered in relationships What a “fragmented internal trust baseline” is and how to reprogram it Why hiding your flaws keeps you from building real trust How to release perfectionism and reclaim your worth—even on your worst days 👩‍🏫 Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. 🔗 Learn more about Thais 🧰 Helpful Resources 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ 📲 Connect With Us on Social 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #FearfulAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #RelationshipInsecurity #SelfWorth #HealingJourney #EmotionalHealing #ThaisGibson #TrustIssues #PDSPodcast #PersonalGrowth ✨ Found this episode helpful? Please subscribe, rate, or share it with someone on their healing journey. Your support makes a difference! ✨

Build Amazing Connections With Our 7 Day All-access Course Pass and Keep Our "Key Pillars to Secure Attachment" Course Fully Free for Life (Valued at $250!). Check It Out and Claim This Free Gift Before They Run Out! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-pillars-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=june-promo&utm_medium=organic&utm_term=podcast-episode&utm_content=pod-06-19-25&el=podcast   Why do dismissive avoidant partners sometimes pull away after intimacy—or seem disconnected during it? If you've ever felt confused, hurt, or triggered in these moments, you're not alone. This episode is here to bring you clarity, compassion, and a path forward. In this powerful and revealing conversation, Thais Gibson and co-host Mike delve into the hidden emotional patterns behind the dismissive avoidant attachment style and sex. Drawing from neuroscience, real client stories, and lived experience, they unpack how avoidant behaviors form—and what it takes to build meaningful intimacy, trust, and long-term desire. You’ll learn: ✅ Why DAs often crave physical intimacy early on—only to pull away later ✅ The four pillars of connection and how sex fits into healthy relationships ✅ The difference between lust and love—and why both matter ✅ How neurochemicals like oxytocin and vasopressin shape bonding for men and women ✅ What to do if you've “had sex too early” and want to shift your dynamic ✅ How to build intimacy through intellectual and emotional connection ✅ The real reason many DAs avoid eye contact during sex ✅ How to communicate sexual needs without triggering shutdowns Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #AttachmentTheory #DismissiveAvoidant #EmotionalHealing #ThaisGibson #SexAndIntimacy #RelationshipPatterns #PersonalDevelopment #FearOfCloseness #AnxiousAttachment #EmotionalIntelligence If you found this episode helpful, be sure to subscribe, rate, and share it with someone healing their relationship patterns. Your support helps us reach more people on the path to secure love. 💕

🧠 Heal your attachment style with Thais Gibson’s signature course: The 6 Pillars to a Secure Relationship—FREE 7-day trial 👉 https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-pillars-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=june-promo&utm_medium=organic&utm_term=podcast-episode&utm_content=pod-06-14-25&el=podcast Dismissive avoidants are often seen as confident or aloof in relationships—but underneath that exterior, many silently struggle with deep feelings of insecurity. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, disconnected, or emotionally shut down in love, this episode is for you. Join Thais Gibson as she unpacks the hidden insecurities of the dismissive avoidant attachment style and shares empowering tools to break free from shame, self-doubt, and emotional repression. Learn how to build self-acceptance, communicate your needs, and reconnect authentically—without losing your independence. 🎯 In This Episode, You’ll Learn: Why dismissive avoidants often feel "not good at relationships" How unmet expectations trigger shame and emotional withdrawal The internal dialogue that fuels insecurity—and how to rewire it The link between emotional modeling and relationship confidence How to speak up about your needs (without feeling weak or clingy) 👩‍🏫 Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. 🧰 Helpful Resources 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ 📲 Connect With Us on Social 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #DismissiveAvoidant #AttachmentStyles #InsecureAttachment #EmotionalHealing #ThaisGibson #RelationshipAnxiety #SelfSoothing #Boundaries #PDSPodcast #PersonalDevelopment ✨ If this episode helped you understand your inner world more clearly, please subscribe, rate, or share the podcast with someone navigating avoidant tendencies. Your support helps others heal too! ✨

🚩 Ready to date with confidence and clarity? Start the 6 Pillars to a Secure Relationship course FREE for 7 days! 👉 https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-pillars-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=june-promo&utm_medium=organic&utm_term=podcast-episode&utm_content=pod-06-14-25&el=podcast Ever found yourself deep in a relationship, only to realize it was never aligned with what you truly needed? Dating with insecure attachment can make it easy to miss the warning signs—and even easier to justify them. In this powerful episode, Thais Gibson walks you through 8 essential red flags to look for in the early stages of dating. Whether you're anxiously attached, fearful avoidant, or somewhere in between, these insights will help you break out of painful patterns and make empowered choices in love. 🎯 In This Episode, You’ll Learn: Why “respect” is a foundational non-negotiable—and how to spot subtle disrespect early The root reason couples build resentment (and how to avoid it) How to tell the difference between privacy and secrecy What lack of individuation looks like and why it threatens long-term compatibility Why unhealed baggage from past relationships often leads to future pain The psychological signs of controlling behavior that may be easy to overlook 👩‍🏫 Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. 🧰 Helpful Resources 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ 📲 Connect With Us on Social 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #DatingRedFlags #InsecureAttachment #AttachmentStyles #RelationshipHealth #Boundaries #ThaisGibson #DatingWisely #EmotionalAwareness #PDSPodcast #PersonalGrowth ✨ Love this episode? Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share it with someone navigating the dating world. Your support helps others heal too! ✨

💔 Heal your attachment style with Thais Gibson’s 6 Pillars to a Secure Relationship—FREE 7-day trial (enough time to complete the course!) 👉 https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-pillars-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=june-promo&utm_medium=organic&utm_term=podcast-episode&utm_content=pod-06-09-25&el=podcast Do you find yourself longing for someone who doesn’t feel the same way—or even someone you’ve never spoken to? The pain of unrequited love can feel all-consuming, but it holds a powerful message from your subconscious. In this heartfelt episode, Thais Gibson helps you decode the true meaning behind infatuation and emotional longing when it isn’t returned. You’ll discover how fantasy forms when core needs go unmet—and how to turn the energy of heartbreak into self-empowerment, healing, and integration. 🎯 In This Episode, You’ll Learn: Why your brain turns to fantasy when your emotional needs aren’t met The connection between unrequited love and unmet childhood needs How to identify the repressed traits you’re projecting onto others A simple framework to uncover and meet your own needs in the present How to move from emotional longing to real-life connection and confidence 👩‍🏫 Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. 🧰 Helpful Resources 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ 📲 Connect With Us on Social 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #UnrequitedLove #AttachmentHealing #EmotionalNeeds #ThaisGibson #FantasyLove #PersonalDevelopment #Boundaries #SelfEmpowerment #PDSCommunity #SubconsciousHealing ✨ If this episode helped you see unrequited love in a new light, please subscribe, rate the podcast, or share it with someone who needs support. Your shares help others heal too! ✨

💔 Ready to heal your attachment style and attract healthy love? Start the 6 Pillars to a Secure Relationship course FREE for 7 days! 👉 https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-pillars-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=june-promo&utm_medium=organic&utm_term=podcast-episode&utm_content=pod-06-06-25&el=podcast Are you struggling to decide whether to stay in or leave a relationship that feels emotionally draining? You’re not alone. Sometimes, love isn’t enough—and staying too long can mean abandoning yourself. In this episode, Thais Gibson shares the top five reasons it may be time to walk away from a relationship—especially when growth, safety, or shared values are missing. Drawing from years of experience in private practice, she offers compassionate insights that help you get clear on when it’s time to stop hoping—and start healing. 🎯 In This Episode, You’ll Learn: The #1 red flag that should never be ignored in a relationship Why mutual effort—not attachment style—is the true key to lasting love How empathy plays a critical role in relationship repair (and what happens when it’s missing) The long-term cost of mismatched values—and how to spot it early What non-negotiables really mean, and why compromising on them leads to resentment 👩‍🏫 Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. 🧰 Helpful Resources 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ 📲 Connect With Us on Social 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #AttachmentHealing #EmotionalHealth #SecureAttachment #RelationshipAdvice #BreakupSupport #ThaisGibson #PDSPodcast #Boundaries #EmotionalIntelligence #PersonalDevelopment ✨ If you found this episode helpful, be sure to subscribe, rate, and share the podcast with someone who needs support on their healing journey. Every listen makes a difference! ✨

Start Healing Your Attachment Style With Personalized Courses Taught by Thais Gibson. Free for 7 Days: Enough Time to Complete a Full Course! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-06-02-25&el=podcast   Dating a fearful avoidant and not sure how to build real connection without scaring them off? This episode breaks down exactly what you need to know to create emotional safety and deepen your bond in the early stages of dating a FA partner. Thais walks you through the unique needs fearful avoidants have in the first 3 months—and how to avoid the common mistakes that make them pull away. Whether you're new to attachment theory or deep in the work, this episode is packed with insights that will help you show up with confidence, curiosity, and care. What You'll Learn: ✔️ The 4 Pillars of Connection (and how FAs prioritize them) ✔️ Why presence and depth matter more than grand gestures ✔️ The role of novelty and transparency in building trust ✔️ How to ask the right questions to create intimacy ✔️ Subtle behaviors that help a FA feel emotionally safe This isn’t about playing games—it’s about  Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School, best-selling author, and a global leader in attachment theory and subconscious reprogramming. With a Ph.D. and more than 13 certifications, Thais has helped over 70,000 people heal attachment wounds and build secure, thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #fearfulavoidant #attachmentstyles #datingadvice #relationshiptools #emotionalconnection #howtodateavoidants #securelove #attachmenttheorypodcast #relationshipgrowth #thaisgibson   Found this helpful? Subscribe, rate, and share this episode with someone navigating early relationship stages. Small shifts make big impact.

14-Day All-Access Trial: Transform Your Life with Expert-Led Mental Health & Personal Growth Programs https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/mha-month?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=mha-month&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast   Feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or drained? These hidden habits might be the reason. In this transformational episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais breaks down five common habits that quietly sabotage your emotional well-being—and shows you exactly how to replace them with empowering strategies that fuel your growth. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ How resisting reality (instead of accepting and problem-solving) wastes emotional energy ✔️ Why disconnecting from yourself leads to burnout, self-abandonment, and anxiety ✔️ How unprocessed emotions and painful internal stories accumulate emotional “residue” ✔️ Why indirect communication creates resentment—and how to communicate clearly and vulnerably ✔️ How perfectionism paralyzes progress and erodes self-worth ✔️ Simple mindset shifts and reprogramming techniques to rebuild emotional resilience and inner peace   Each habit is explained with real-life examples and actionable tools you can start applying today to take back your energy, build self-trust, and create a healthier, happier life. Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and an internationally respected expert on attachment theory, emotional healing, and subconscious reprogramming. With a Ph.D. and more than 13 certifications, Thais has helped over 70,000 people globally transform their lives from the inside out. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Browse More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Dive into the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #emotionalhealing #selfdevelopment #selfawareness #emotionalresilience #personaldevelopment #habitchange #overcomingperfectionism #attachmenttheorypodcast #emotionalintelligence #selfgrowthjourney Loved this episode? Please subscribe, rate, and share it with someone ready to reclaim their emotional energy and build a more empowered life. Growth starts here!

14-Day All-Access Trial: Transform Your Life with Expert-Led Mental Health & Personal Growth Programs https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/mha-month?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=mha-month&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast   Fearful avoidant attachment doesn’t have to define your relationships or your life. You can rewire old patterns—and it starts with healthier habits. In this transformative episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais dives deep into essential daily habits that help fearful avoidants heal emotional wounds, reclaim healthy boundaries, and rebuild a secure relationship with themselves and others.   What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ Why repetition plus emotion reprograms your subconscious attachment patterns ✔️ How to practice true assertiveness without anger, blame, or emotional volatility ✔️ The importance of spending intentional time alone while in relationships ✔️ How journaling helps connect you to real-time emotional needs and self-validation ✔️ How to replace chronic self-criticism with compassionate self-correction ✔️ The power of substituting "thank you" for constant apologizing to rewire guilt and shame ✔️ How consistent small shifts lead to emotional resilience, connection, and empowerment Whether you're a fearful avoidant yourself or love someone who is, this episode offers practical, powerful, and deeply compassionate steps for long-term emotional transformation. Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and an internationally respected expert on attachment theory and subconscious reprogramming. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications, Thais has helped over 70,000 people heal attachment wounds and reclaim secure relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Visit the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #fearfulavoidant #attachmentstyles #emotionalhealing #healthyrelationships #selfsoothing #selfvalidation #subconsciousreprogramming #assertiveness #healingjourney #attachmenttheorypodcast Found this episode helpful? Please subscribe, rate, and share the podcast with someone ready to build better emotional habits and relationships. Healing is possible—and it starts today.

14-Day All-Access Trial: Transform Your Life with Expert-Led Mental Health & Personal Growth Programs https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/mha-month?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=mha-month&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast   Struggling to break unhealthy patterns and create lasting change? Healing anxious attachment starts with the habits you build today. In this empowering episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais shares practical strategies to rebuild your relationship with yourself, meet your own needs, and create healthier emotional habits. Designed especially for those with anxious preoccupied attachment styles, this episode offers a powerful blueprint for transformation and long-term emotional well-being.   What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ Why anxious attachments form from inconsistent emotional caregiving ✔️ How unmet needs create emotional “addiction” to relationships—and how to break free ✔️ The importance of creating daily rituals for self-connection ✔️ How building a strong internal relationship reduces anxiety and external dependency ✔️ Practical habits to stop self-abandonment and build authentic self-worth ✔️ How to balance developing all areas of life—career, financial, emotional, mental, and spiritual ✔️ Why purpose, meaning, and emotional self-soothing are critical to long-term healing By shifting your habits at the subconscious and behavioral levels, you can move from emotional survival to emotional empowerment—and create the safe, nurturing life you deserve. Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School, best-selling author, and a globally recognized expert in attachment theory and subconscious healing. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications, she’s helped over 70,000 students create profound emotional transformations. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Explore the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Listen to More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Browse the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #anxiousattachment #healthierhabits #selfconnection #selfsoothing #attachmentstyles #relationshipanxiety #emotionalhealing #selftrust #healingjourney #attachmenttheorypodcast Loved this episode? Please subscribe, rate, and share the show with someone working toward healthier relationships and deeper self-connection. Healing is possible and it starts here.

Get Free Access to All of My Attachment & Relationship Courses This Mental Health Awareness Month. Start Your 14-day Trial Now and Complete a Course Before the Offer Ends! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/mha-month?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=mha-month&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast   Is your partner emotionally unavailable—or emotionally manipulative? In this in-depth episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais is joined by co-host Mike DiZio to unpack the 9 diagnostic criteria for Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) and explain how these traits differ from what you see in someone with dismissive avoidant attachment. This episode goes far beyond the surface, giving you practical tools to differentiate between personality disorders and attachment wounds, understand confusing behaviors, and protect yourself from staying in toxic relationships under the wrong assumptions.   What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ The 9 clinical traits of narcissism (based on DSM criteria) ✔️ Why dismissive avoidants may appear cold—but aren't manipulative ✔️ The root causes of narcissism vs. avoidant attachment ✔️ How each style relates to vulnerability, attention, and accountability ✔️ How dismissive avoidants can empathize and change—and why narcissists often don’t ✔️ Why NPD healing is rare—and how shame avoidance blocks growth ✔️ Practical examples and red flags to look for in your relationships Whether you're confused about a past partner, navigating a current dynamic, or exploring your own behavior, this episode delivers eye-opening clarity and practical insight. ⏱️ Episode Timestamps 00:00 – Attachment Style Quiz 00:42 – Intro: Why This Distinction Matters 05:15 – 1: Grandiose Sense of Self 07:57 – 2: Requires Excessive Admiration 21:33 – 3: Fantasies of Unlimited Power, Beauty, Success 29:18 – PDS Membership Program 30:12 – 4: Entitlement 39:32 – 5: Believes They're Special & Unique 43:23 – 6: Interpersonally Exploitative 48:50 – 7: Arrogant or Haughty Attitude 52:18 – 8: Jealousy of Others 53:25 – 9: Lack of Empathy 59:05 – Conclusion Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School, best-selling author, and a global leader in attachment theory and subconscious reprogramming. With a Ph.D. and more than 13 certifications, Thais has helped over 70,000 people heal attachment wounds and build secure, thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #narcissistvsavoidant #attachmentstyles #emotionalhealing #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #attachmenttheorypodcast #howtofindlove #emotionalresilience #mentalhealthawareness #selfprotection #dismissiveavoidant Found this helpful? Please subscribe, rate, and share with someone who’s navigating confusing relationship dynamics. The clarity you gain could save you years of heartbreak.

14-Day All-Access Trial: Transform Your Life with Expert-Led Mental Health & Personal Growth Programs https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/mha-month?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=mha-month&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast   Dismissive avoidants may seem confident on the outside—but is that really the full story? In this revealing episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais explores why dismissive avoidants often struggle deeply with self-esteem issues—even when they outwardly appear strong, independent, and unaffected. You'll learn the hidden emotional patterns behind dismissive avoidant behaviors and gain critical tools for healing from within.   What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ Why dismissive avoidants often battle hidden shame despite seeming confident ✔️ How early emotional neglect leads to internalized feelings of being "defective" ✔️ Why strong boundaries can sometimes be a mask for emotional pain ✔️ The role of low-level sympathetic nervous system activation (fight/flight/freeze) in daily life ✔️ How living out of alignment with emotional needs damages self-esteem over time ✔️ What emotional suppression costs avoidants—and how to start reconnecting with feelings ✔️ Practical strategies to accept vulnerability, listen to emotions, and build authentic self-worth   If you've ever wondered why you—or someone you love—seems "fine" but struggles with deep disconnection or self-sabotage, this episode offers eye-opening clarity and actionable healing steps. Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leading authority in attachment theory and subconscious reprogramming. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications, Thais has helped more than 70,000 people build emotional resilience and secure relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Listen to More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Explore the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #dismissiveavoidant #lowselfesteem #attachmentstyles #emotionalhealing #attachmenttheorypodcast #selfworth #selftrust #emotionalresilience #healingjourney #subconsciousmind Enjoying the show? If you found this episode valuable, please subscribe, rate, and share with anyone navigating emotional disconnection or healing from low self-worth.

14-Day All-Access Trial: Transform Your Life with Expert-Led Mental Health & Personal Growth Programs https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/mha-month?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=mha-month&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast   Struggling with self-esteem, emotional disconnection, or self-soothing? There’s a path to healing—and it starts within. In this supportive and empowering episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais teaches three powerful ways to reconnect with yourself emotionally, increase your self-esteem, and build lasting inner resilience. If you often seek validation from others or struggle to process emotions in a healthy way, these foundational practices will transform your relationship with yourself.   What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ How giving yourself the same support you seek from others heals emotional wounds ✔️ Why small daily acts of self-care (tailored to your love languages) are critical for self-connection ✔️ How internal validation through kind self-talk rebuilds self-worth ✔️ Why journaling and emotional check-ins create deeper emotional intimacy with yourself ✔️ How honoring your feelings, setting boundaries, and meeting your needs foster genuine self-trust ✔️ Simple practices to strengthen emotional regulation and boost self-esteem every day   When you consistently show up for yourself, you don’t just heal—you thrive. This episode offers real, practical steps to create the safe, empowering inner relationship you deserve.   Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and an expert in emotional reprogramming and attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications, Thais has helped more than 70,000 students worldwide build emotional security and conscious relationships.   Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Browse More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Dive into the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/   Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #selfesteem #emotionalconnection #selfsoothing #selftrust #selfworth #attachmenttheorypodcast #emotionalhealing #reprogrammingbeliefs #selflovejourney #selfawareness   Found this helpful? Please subscribe, rate, and share this podcast episode to support your community’s growth journey. 💙 Real change starts when we reconnect with ourselves.

Get Free Access to All of My Attachment & Relationship Courses This Mental Health Awareness Month. Start Your 14-day Trial Now and Complete a Course Before the Offer Ends! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/mha-month?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=mha-month&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast   Ready for commitment—but want to avoid repeating the same mistakes in love? Start by asking the right questions. In this insightful episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais and co-host Mike DiZio reveal the 10 essential questions you should ask yourself and your partner before diving into a committed relationship. These questions go beyond chemistry—they’re rooted in emotional intelligence, subconscious programming, and long-term compatibility.   What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ How non-negotiables, standards, and morals shape long-term relational success ✔️ Why asking “Are we emotionally ready?” can save you years of heartbreak ✔️ How to bring up topics like children, lifestyle goals, and emotional needs with confidence ✔️ What patterns to watch for in yourself and your partner before committing ✔️ The art of discerning compatibility without turning dates into interviews ✔️ Why admiration and difference are vital to lasting attraction ✔️ How to set shared visions for love, lifestyle, and commitment Whether you're anxiously attached, avoidant, or working toward secure love, this episode gives you an empowering framework to date intentionally—and protect your future self. Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a renowned expert in attachment theory and subconscious healing. With a Ph.D. and 13+ certifications, Thais has helped 70,000+ people worldwide achieve deep, lasting relationship transformation. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Explore the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Browse More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #datingintentionally #attachmentstyles #relationshipreadiness #nonnegotiables #selfawareness #relationshipgoals #attachmenttheorypodcast #securelove #relationshiptools #healingattachment If this episode resonated… Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and share it with a friend. Your intentional love journey starts here.

14-Day All-Access Trial: Transform Your Life with Expert-Led Mental Health & Personal Growth Programs https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/mha-month?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=mha-month&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast   Feeling stuck in sadness? Depression often has deeper roots—and you have more power to heal than you might realize. In this powerful and compassionate episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais unpacks the three major root causes of depression—and provides practical, science-backed steps to begin your healing journey today. Whether you're personally struggling or supporting someone who is, this episode will bring you clarity, hope, and tangible action steps.   What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ The role of gut health and serotonin production in emotional well-being ✔️ How chronically unmet emotional needs create pain—and what to do about it ✔️ Why painful subconscious beliefs create suffering beyond the initial pain ✔️ How your brain’s need for certainty can trap you in negative meaning-making cycles ✔️ Practical steps to identify unmet needs and proactively close emotional gaps ✔️ How to reframe painful thoughts and shift out of depression patterns ✔️ Daily practices to reprogram your mind, restore your emotional resilience, and reconnect with life Thais also shares how understanding the difference between pain and suffering is crucial for long-term emotional health—and why meeting your needs consciously and proactively is one of the fastest ways to heal. Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leading voice in healing attachment wounds and subconscious reprogramming. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications, Thais has guided over 70,000 people worldwide toward deeper emotional resilience and fulfilling relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Listen to More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Dive into the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #depressionawareness #mentalhealthhealing #unmetneeds #emotionalhealing #attachmenttheorypodcast #reprogrammingthoughts #selfsoothing #mentalhealthpodcast #subconsciousmind #emotionalresilience If you found this helpful… Please subscribe, rate, and review on your favorite podcast platform. Share it with someone who might need to hear that healing is absolutely possible.

14-Day All-Access Trial: Transform Your Life with Expert-Led Mental Health & Personal Growth Programs https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/mha-month?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=mha-month&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast   Is there a hidden link between dismissive avoidant attachment and chronic depression? In this deeply insightful episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais explores the strong correlation between dismissive avoidant attachment styles and low-level, often chronic depression. Learn why emotional repression, unmet needs, and painful belief systems contribute to emotional numbness—and how true healing is possible.   What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ Why chronic emotional repression can lead to emotional "toxicity" over time ✔️ How dismissive avoidants unconsciously disconnect from core emotional needs ✔️ The role of unmet needs and negative belief imprints in depression ✔️ Why love and connection are biologically essential for emotional well-being ✔️ How painful childhood associations with vulnerability cause long-term inner conflict ✔️ The importance of reprogramming beliefs about vulnerability, love, and connection ✔️ How gradual exposure and conscious reprogramming can create profound healing   Thais also shares practical, science-backed strategies to break the cycle of emotional disconnection, reconnect with your own feelings, and heal depressive patterns at the root.   Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School, best-selling author, and a leader in subconscious reprogramming and emotional healing. With a Ph.D. and over a decade of experience, she has helped tens of thousands transform their relationships and inner lives.   Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Browse More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Explore the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/   Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #dismissiveavoidant #attachmentstyles #depressionrecovery #emotionalhealing #subconsciousreprogramming #attachmenttheorypodcast #howtofindlove #emotionalprocessing #emotionalresilience #selfsoothing   Love this episode? Please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone navigating emotional shutdown or relationship struggles. Healing is possible—with the right tools.

14-Day All-Access Trial: Transform Your Life with Expert-Led Mental Health & Personal Growth Programs https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/mha-month?utm_source=youtube&utm_campaign=mha-month&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-05-07-25&el=youtube-podcast     Do you feel uncomfortable with vulnerability, tend to pull away in relationships, or avoid conflict at all costs? You might be operating with a dismissive avoidant attachment style—and you're not alone. In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais shares the 10 most common signs of dismissive avoidant attachment and the powerful subconscious programming behind them. Whether you relate to these traits or recognize them in a partner, this episode offers clarity and a compassionate path forward.   What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ Why DAs avoid vulnerability and emotional intimacy ✔️ How they subconsciously escape from emotional discomfort ✔️ The impact of covert emotional neglect on identity and core wounds ✔️ Why dismissive avoidants fear conflict—and how it plays out in relationships ✔️ How shame, fear of criticism, and a belief of being “defective” shape their behavior ✔️ Why DAs tend to lose feelings suddenly—and how it's linked to fear, not fact ✔️ What it means when DAs say, “I’m just not capable of being in a relationship” ✔️ Simple reprogramming steps to become securely attached If you’ve ever said “I don’t do emotions,” or dated someone who shuts down the moment things get real, this episode is your blueprint to understanding and transforming dismissive avoidant attachment from the inside out. Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School, best-selling author, and world-renowned expert on attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in CBT, somatic healing, and subconscious reprogramming, Thais has helped over 70,000 students transform their emotional patterns and relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Visit the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #dismissiveavoidant #attachmentstyles #avoidantattachment #attachmenttheorypodcast #emotionalhealing #vulnerability #selfregulation #relationshipadvice #anxiousavoidant #reprogramming Found this helpful? Please subscribe, rate, and share the podcast. Your support helps more people access life-changing insights—and build the secure, connected relationships they deserve.

14-Day All-Access Trial: Transform Your Life with Expert-Led Mental Health & Personal Growth Programs https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/mha-month?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=mha-month&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast   Feel like your emotions sometimes hijack your actions in relationships? You're not alone. In this validating episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais walks you through the early and critical steps to understand and overcome activating strategies—the emotional impulses that lead anxious and fearful avoidants to chase connection in ways that can backfire. You'll learn exactly why your mind creates activating thoughts, how to stop acting from fear, and what conscious strategies you can use to rewire these old patterns.   What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ What activating strategies are (and how they sabotage healthy relationships) ✔️ How unmet needs and emotional triggers drive “emergency” behaviors ✔️ The difference between conscious choices vs. subconscious survival reactions ✔️ Why respecting others' boundaries supports your long-term emotional needs ✔️ Practical tools to witness, interrupt, and reprogram activating thoughts ✔️ How self-awareness and repetition can rewire your subconscious mind for secure love   If you've ever had that "urge" to text, call, show up uninvited, or overexplain after someone pulls away—this episode gives you the clarity and steps to break free from old emotional cycles and move toward calm, conscious connection.   Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and an expert in healing attachment wounds and reprogramming the subconscious mind. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications, Thais has helped over 70,000 people create emotional security and healthier relationships.   Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Browse More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Explore the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/   Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #anxiousattachment #activatingstrategies #emotionalhealing #subconsciousreprogramming #relationshipanxiety #selfsoothing #attachmenttheorypodcast #howtofindlove #emotionalregulation #healingjourney   Found this episode helpful? Please subscribe, leave a review, and share with anyone who struggles with emotional reactivity or relationship anxiety. Healing begins with understanding. 💙

14-Day All-Access Trial: Transform Your Life with Expert-Led Mental Health & Personal Growth Programs https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/mha-month?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=mha-month&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast     Ever feel like you’re constantly fearing rejection or abandonment—even in a good relationship? You might be experiencing relationship anxiety fueled by anxious preoccupied attachment. In this heartfelt and insightful episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais unpacks the subconscious patterns, wounds, and behaviors that drive relationship anxiety—and shares powerful tools to help you heal, self-soothe, and thrive in love.   What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ Why anxious attachment forms from inconsistent emotional caregiving ✔️ How hyper-attunement to others’ needs leads to self-abandonment ✔️ The link between unresolved childhood needs and intense fear of rejection ✔️ How anxious partners unconsciously overextend and people-please ✔️ Why anxious types often misinterpret neutral behaviors as rejection ✔️ How to reprogram your core wounds, self-soothe effectively, and stop overexplaining ✔️ Practical daily strategies to build self-worth and emotional resilience   Whether you identify with anxious attachment yourself or love someone who does, this episode gives you deep insight, actionable tools, and hope for building secure and lasting relationships.   Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and an internationally recognized expert on attachment theory and subconscious reprogramming. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications, she’s helped over 70,000 students heal their relationships and emotional lives from the inside out.   Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Explore More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Visit the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/   Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #anxiousattachment #relationshipanxiety #attachmentstyles #selfsoothing #healingjourney #subconsciousreprogramming #attachmenttheorypodcast #emotionalhealing #relationshiptools #findsecurelove   Found this helpful? Please subscribe, rate, and review the podcast—and share this episode with someone who deserves to feel safe, loved, and secure. 💙

Spin to Win! Get exclusive discounts on PDS membership. Limited-time offer—don’t miss out! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/spin-the-wheel?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=spin-the-wheel&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast   Ever felt your partner suddenly pull away after a moment of closeness? You may be seeing a deactivating strategy in action. In this illuminating episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais uncovers the top 7 deactivating strategies dismissive avoidants use to create distance when they feel emotionally overwhelmed or unsafe. Whether you're in a relationship with a DA or identify as one yourself, this episode breaks down the subconscious drivers behind these behaviors and offers empowering insights to shift the pattern.   What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ Why physical distancing is the DA’s first line of defense ✔️ What a “vulnerability hangover” is—and how it leads to emotional retreat ✔️ How “connection hangovers” after intimacy spark silence or doubt ✔️ Why DAs often doubt their own feelings and question the relationship ✔️ How fear of expectations and not knowing “the rules” can trigger withdrawal ✔️ Why fixating on an ex or fictional figure creates emotional space ✔️ What these patterns are really protecting—and how to heal them for good Thais also shares how to navigate these patterns without taking them personally, while helping DAs build healthier models of closeness, trust, and vulnerability. Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and expert in attachment reprogramming. With a Ph.D. and over a decade of experience, Thais has helped over 70,000 people overcome insecure attachment styles and build conscious, fulfilling relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Explore the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Listen to More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #dismissiveavoidant #attachmentstyles #deactivatingstrategies #relationshipadvice #attachmenttheorypodcast #emotionaldistance #howtofindlove #subconscioushealing #emotionalpatterns Enjoying this episode? Please subscribe, rate, and review the show on your favorite platform—and share it with someone who’s been confused by avoidant behaviors.

Spin to Win! Get exclusive discounts on PDS membership. Limited-time offer—don’t miss out! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/spin-the-wheel?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=spin-the-wheel&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast   Everything was going great—so why did your fearful avoidant partner suddenly pull away? In this insightful episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais unpacks the 5 surprising reasons fearful avoidants can seem deeply connected one day… and emotionally checked out the next. Whether you’re on the receiving end of this dynamic or struggling with it yourself, this episode brings clarity to the confusion and empowers you with tools for change.   What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ Why broken trust, even in subtle ways, can instantly shut a fearful avoidant down ✔️ How boundary violations and anxious pressure cause withdrawal and overwhelm ✔️ Why high expectations or feeling trapped can spark a sudden loss of interest ✔️ The internal burnout that happens when a fearful avoidant suppresses their own needs ✔️ How to stop this cycle with better communication, boundaries, and emotional awareness   Thais also shares a key takeaway for fearful avoidants: if you’re consistently losing feelings “out of nowhere,” it’s a sign that your needs have been unmet for too long—and it’s time to speak up before you shut down.   Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and expert in attachment theory and subconscious reprogramming. With over 13 certifications and a Ph.D., Thais has helped more than 70,000 people rewire their relationship patterns for good.   Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Explore the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Browse More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/   Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #fearfulavoidant #attachmentstyles #emotionalshutdown #losingfeelings #avoidantattachment #howtofindlove #attachmenttheorypodcast #relationshiptools #emotionaltriggers #subconsciouspatterns   Love this episode? Please subscribe, rate, and review the show—and share it with someone who needs to understand this dynamic. Healing starts with understanding.

Spin to Win! Get exclusive discounts on PDS membership. Limited-time offer—don’t miss out! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/spin-the-wheel?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=spin-the-wheel&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast   Still feeling anxious, needy, or stuck in painful relationship cycles? Reparenting may be the key. In this transformational episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais walks you through the core concept of reparenting—what it is, how it heals anxious attachment, and why it leads to faster, more lasting change. If you've ever found yourself clinging too tightly, afraid of rejection, or losing yourself in relationships, this episode will help you uncover why—and what to do about it.   What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ What reparenting actually is (and isn’t) ✔️ How trauma includes both what did happen and what didn’t ✔️ Why anxious attachment forms from unmet childhood needs ✔️ How unmet needs lead to dependency, low self-worth, and staying in the wrong relationships ✔️ A powerful 3-part reparenting exercise to start healing right now ✔️ What healthy self-soothing, self-validation, and internal reassurance look like By the end, you’ll learn how to self-source your needs, stop seeking breadcrumbs from the outside world, and finally feel safe, seen, and empowered within.   Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School, best-selling author, and globally recognized expert in attachment theory and subconscious reprogramming. With over a decade of experience and more than 70,000 students helped, she’s on a mission to teach you how to heal from the inside out.   Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Explore the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Listen to More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Browse the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/   Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #anxiousattachment #reparenting #attachmentstyles #emotionalhealing #selfsoothing #attachmenttheorypodcast #subconsciousreprogramming #howtofindlove #emotionaldependency #healfromwithin   Love this episode? Please subscribe, rate, and review to help others find this work—and don’t forget to share it with someone who’s ready to take their healing into their own hands.

Spin to Win! Get exclusive discounts on PDS membership. Limited-time offer—don’t miss out! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/spin-the-wheel?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=spin-the-wheel&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast   Why are anxious and dismissive partners so magnetically drawn to each other—and yet so often stuck in pain? In this powerful episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais explores the intense emotional dynamic between the “love addict” (anxious attachment) and “love avoidant” (dismissive attachment). Learn how their core wounds, unmet needs, and subconscious patterns both clash and intertwine—and most importantly, how each can heal independently and together.   What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ Why anxious and dismissive styles are subconsciously drawn to each other ✔️ How unmet emotional needs in childhood fuel anxious clinging or avoidant withdrawal ✔️ Why the dismissive avoidant craves space while the anxious needs closeness ✔️ How this dynamic leads to painful push-pull cycles and mutual frustration ✔️ Practical tools for both partners to heal: anxious self-soothing & avoidant vulnerability ✔️ What each style must do individually to change the relationship together   If you’ve ever felt stuck in an “on again, off again” dynamic—or feel like you’re giving too much or shutting down too fast—this episode is your roadmap to healing and connection.   Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School, best-selling author, and a globally recognized expert in attachment theory and subconscious healing. With a Ph.D. and over a decade of experience, she’s helped over 70,000 people transform their relationships and emotional patterns from the inside out. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Explore More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Browse the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #anxiousattachment #dismissiveavoidant #attachmentstyles #lovepushpull #healingrelationships #attachmenttheorypodcast #subconscioushealing #relationshippatterns #howtofindlove If this resonated... Please subscribe, rate, and share the podcast with someone navigating anxious or avoidant attachment dynamics. The cycle can be healed—starting with awareness.

Spin to Win! Get exclusive discounts on PDS membership. Limited-time offer—don’t miss out! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/spin-the-wheel?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=spin-the-wheel&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast   Why do avoidant attachment styles turn to numbing instead of soothing—and what’s the cost? In this eye-opening episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais breaks down the difference between true self-soothing and numbing behaviors in fearful and dismissive avoidant individuals. From emotional eating to shopping, gambling, or overconsuming media, these behaviors often mask deeper unmet needs for comfort, safety, and connection.   What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ Why fearful and dismissive avoidants struggle to self-soothe in healthy ways ✔️ How childhood conditioning leads to numbing behaviors as a survival mechanism ✔️ The neuroscience behind why we repeat unhealthy patterns despite knowing better ✔️ How to rewire addictive behaviors by identifying the real needs underneath ✔️ Why creature comforts like food, porn, or spending are often misused as coping tools ✔️ Simple daily practices to shift from coping to healing (without judgment) Whether you’re avoidantly attached or supporting someone who is, this episode offers a powerful roadmap to break free from numbing loops and create lasting emotional regulation. Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in healing attachment wounds. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications, she’s guided more than 70,000 students in reprogramming subconscious patterns for deeper connection and freedom.   Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Explore More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Dive into the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/   Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #fearfulavoidant #dismissiveavoidant #attachmentstyles #emotionalnumbing #selfsoothing #addictivebehaviors #attachmenttheorypodcast #reprogramming #emotionalregulation Love this episode? Please subscribe, rate, and review the podcast on your favorite platform—and share it with someone navigating emotional coping habits. You might just change a life.

Spin to Win! Get exclusive discounts on PDS membership. Limited-time offer—don’t miss out! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/spin-the-wheel?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=spin-the-wheel&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast   Is your friend more distant, private, or slow to open up than most? They may be operating with a dismissive avoidant attachment style—often misunderstood but deeply wired for independence and protection. In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais outlines 10 revealing signs that your friend may be dismissive avoidant, and most importantly, how to build connection without pushing them away.   What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ Why dismissive avoidant friends are slow to warm up—but value loyalty and consistency ✔️ How intellectual and shared-activity bonding replaces emotional depth early on ✔️ The “6–8 touch point” rule before they’ll fully let you in ✔️ How dismissive friends handle conflict (and why they may disappear after one disagreement) ✔️ Their deep need for privacy, emotional safety, and a sense of autonomy ✔️ What wounds they carry—and how to build trust without overwhelming them Whether you're feeling disconnected from a friend, recovering from a confusing dynamic, or looking to deepen a long-standing bond, this episode offers a compassionate roadmap to navigating friendships with avoidant attachment.   Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School, best-selling author, and leading expert on healing attachment wounds and subconscious reprogramming. With a Ph.D. and over a decade of experience, she’s helped more than 70,000 members around the world transform their relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Explore More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Dive into the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #dismissiveavoidant #attachmentstyles #friendshipadvice #emotionalconnection #avoidantattachment #attachmenttheorypodcast #howtofindlove #healingrelationships #personalconnections #attachmentquiz Enjoying the show? Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and leave a review to support the podcast—and share this episode with a friend who could benefit from better understanding avoidant dynamics.

Spin to Win! Get exclusive discounts on PDS membership. Limited-time offer—don’t miss out! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/spin-the-wheel?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=spin-the-wheel&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Can love thrive between a dismissive avoidant and someone securely attached? Or is the emotional gap too wide to bridge? In this deeply validating episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais and co-host Mike DiZio explore what happens when a dismissive avoidant (DA) partners with a securely attached person. From breakthroughs in vulnerability to the real work required to sustain love, they break down what works, what doesn’t—and what makes all the difference.   What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ How repeated exposure to secure behaviors helps a DA reprogram core wounds ✔️ Why healthy communication and consistent boundaries are essential ✔️ The difference between leading by example vs. “parenting” a partner ✔️ How co-regulation transforms avoidant emotional patterns ✔️ The #1 factor that determines if the relationship will last ✔️ When it’s time to walk away vs. when to lean in with patience and clarity Whether you're in this dynamic or love someone who is, this episode helps you see the road ahead clearly—without losing yourself in the process. Timestamps: 00:00 – Intro 02:05 – 1. Repeated Exposure to a Secure Person Can Improve a DA’s Core Wounds 08:40 – When the Effort Feels One-Sided 19:30 – 2. A Securely Attached Person Still Has Standards 27:15 – 3. The Secure Person Tends to Foster Healthy Communication 35:56 – 4. Emotional Regulation Improves 44:38 – 5. The DA Learns to Have Healthier Coping Mechanisms 45:32 – Can This Relationship Work Long-Term? 52:14 – Conclusion Meet Your Host: Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a globally respected expert in healing attachment wounds. With a Ph.D. and over a decade of experience, Thais has helped over 70,000 members break free from painful emotional patterns and build secure relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Explore More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Browse the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #dismissiveavoidant #attachmentstyles #secureattachment #relationshipgrowth #emotionalhealing #attachmenttheorypodcast #coachingforrelationships #subconscioushealing #findsecurelove If this episode spoke to you... Please subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with someone navigating a relationship with an avoidant partner. Your support helps us reach and heal more hearts.

Spin to Win! Get exclusive discounts on PDS membership. Limited-time offer—don’t miss out! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/spin-the-wheel?utm_source=&utm_campaign=spin-the-wheel&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Why do avoidants seem hesitant to commit—even when things are going well? In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais reveals the three hidden qualities every dismissive avoidant looks for before committing to a long-term relationship or deep friendship. These traits aren’t always spoken aloud, but they quietly determine whether the relationship feels safe and sustainable. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ Why emotional acceptance is essential to avoidants (and how criticism shuts them down) ✔️ The importance of emotional stability—and how avoidants subtly test for it ✔️ How a strong sense of autonomy and independence is a non-negotiable for commitment ✔️ What not to do if you want to build trust with an avoidant partner ✔️ How to communicate your needs while honoring theirs ✔️ Why understanding these three traits can transform your relationship dynamic If you’ve ever felt confused by an avoidant partner’s pullback or mixed signals, this episode gives you the roadmap to understanding their core needs—and deciding if you're aligned for the long haul. Meet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School, best-selling author, and expert in reprogramming subconscious patterns. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in modalities like CBT, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional lives. Helpful Resources:🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Explore More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #dismissiveavoidant #avoidantattachment #attachmentstyles #howtofindlove #emotionalconnection #avoidantrelationshipadvice #attachmenttheorypodcast #learningtolove #relationshipreadiness #fearofcommitment Love what you heard?Please subscribe, rate, and review the podcast to help others on their healing journey. And share this episode with someone navigating a relationship with an avoidant—this insight could be the breakthrough they’ve been looking for. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Spin to Win! Get exclusive discounts on PDS membership. Limited-time offer—don’t miss out!https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/spin-the-wheel?utm_source=&utm_campaign=spin-the-wheel&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Does your dismissive avoidant partner actually care—or are they just keeping you around? In this emotionally insightful episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais and co-host Mike DiZio break down 6 clear signs that a dismissive avoidant partner has developed real feelings for you. From subtle shifts in communication to the moments they begin to open up and meet your needs, you'll learn what to look for—and what it means. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ How to tell when a dismissive avoidant is thinking about you all the time ✔️ Why they might feel the urge to pull back when things get close—and how that changes when they care ✔️ Signs of emotional vulnerability and gradual opening up ✔️ The unexpected moments of protectiveness that reveal affection ✔️ What it means when they begin accommodating your needs—despite internal resistance ✔️ Why the thought of losing you may be the biggest clue of all This episode isn’t just about recognizing signs—it’s about deciding whether the connection you’re in has long-term potential and whether your needs are truly being met. Timestamps:00:00 – Intro 05:06 – 1. If You're Thinking About the Person All the Time 09:41 – 2. You Might Feel the Need to Retract 18:15 – 3. You Notice Yourself Opening Up Little by Little 27:16 – 4. You Start Feeling Protective Over the Person 30:55 – DA’s and Words of Affirmation 45:34 – 5. You’ll Try to Accommodate Them by Meeting Their Needs 52:26 – Bonus — The Thought of Losing the Other Person Hurts Meet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a globally recognized expert in attachment theory and emotional healing. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications, she’s helped thousands shift subconscious patterns and build lasting relationships. Helpful Resources:🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Explore More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #dismissiveavoidant #attachmentstyles #howtofindlove #avoidantattachment #relationshipadvice #attachmenttheorypodcast #emotionalintimacy #doeshecare #relationshipreadiness #signsoflove Love this episode?Please subscribe, rate, and review the show to help others on their healing journey. 💙 And don’t forget to share it with someone navigating the avoidant love puzzle—you might just give them the clarity they need. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Spin to Win! Get exclusive discounts on PDS membership. Limited-time offer—don’t miss out! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/spin-the-wheel?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=spin-the-wheel&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Do avoidants really fall in love—or are they just emotionally unavailable? In this eye-opening episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais answers one of the most frequently asked questions in attachment theory: Can dismissive and fearful avoidants truly experience love? The answer might surprise you. Through personal stories and client insights, Thais explains how the depth of love an avoidant can feel is directly tied to their ability to be emotionally vulnerable. Learn why some avoidants may only feel infatuation or superficial connection until they’ve done the deeper work—and how healing their attachment style can unlock the potential for lasting, unconditional love. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ Why vulnerability is the gateway to deeper love ✔️ The difference between infatuation and emotional intimacy ✔️ How love evolves across the 6 relationship stages ✔️ What holds avoidants back from deep emotional connection ✔️ How to support your partner (or yourself) in building secure attachment ✔️ Why doing the work changes how love is experienced and expressed Whether you’re dating an avoidant, recovering from a relationship, or healing your own patterns, this episode is your compassionate guide to love through the lens of secure connection. Meet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School, best-selling author, and an expert in healing attachment wounds. With a Ph.D. and over a decade of experience in the field, Thais has helped over 70,000 students worldwide create empowered relationships and emotional freedom. Helpful Resources:🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Explore More Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Check Out the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #attachmentstyles #avoidantattachment #fearfulavoidant #dismissiveavoidant #canavoidantsfallinlove #attachmenttheorypodcast #healingattachmentwounds #learningtolove #howtofindlove #emotionalintimacy Found this helpful?Be sure to subscribe, rate, and leave a review to help others find this resource. And don’t forget to share with someone you know who’s navigating avoidant attachment or exploring real love. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Spin to Win! Get exclusive discounts on PDS membership. Limited-time offer—don’t miss out! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/spin-the-wheel?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=spin-the-wheel&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Do you often feel intense emotional reactions but can’t always pinpoint why? In this powerful episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais unpacks the 12 core wounds that most commonly affect individuals with a Fearful Avoidant attachment style—alongside the emotions they spark. Whether you identify as a Fearful Avoidant or love someone who does, this deep dive will help you understand, name, and ultimately transform the subconscious beliefs that cause inner turmoil and relational tension. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ Why Fearful Avoidants tend to have the most core wounds of all attachment styles ✔️ How childhood trauma imprints emotional "landmines" in the subconscious ✔️ The top wounds—like I will be betrayed, I am bad, I’m unworthy—and their emotional patterns ✔️ What subconscious emotions are really trying to tell you ✔️ How core wounds like I am unsafe, I am stupid, and I’ll be attacked show up in adult relationships ✔️ The link between shame, hypervigilance, emotional outbursts, and perfectionism This episode offers a clear, compassionate guide to recognizing your pain points so you can finally start to heal them at the root. Meet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leading voice in attachment theory and emotional healing. With a Ph.D. and over a decade of experience, she’s helped over 70,000 students in 120+ countries reprogram their subconscious patterns and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Explore the Learning Love Book: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 More Podcast Episodes: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📚 Dive into our blog: https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool #fearfulavoidant #attachmentstyles #corewounds #emotionalhealing #attachmenttrauma #subconsciousmind #reprogramming #personaldevelopment #howtofindlove #attachmentstylespodcast Enjoying the show?Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review on your favorite podcast platform. Share this episode with someone navigating their healing journey—you never know who might need it. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and FREE lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Sex course with a 7-day free trial!https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast What happens when a dismissive avoidant and a fearful avoidant are in a relationship? This dynamic can be one of the most intense and emotionally turbulent attachment pairings due to conflicting needs, emotional push-pull behaviors, and deep-rooted fears around intimacy and abandonment. In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, we explore the key challenges, patterns, and strategies for building a healthier connection between these two avoidant attachment styles. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:✔️ Why the fearful avoidant switches between anxious and avoidant behaviors in this pairing ✔️ How the dismissive avoidant’s emotional withdrawal triggers the FA’s fears ✔️ The push-pull cycle and why these relationships feel unstable ✔️ How both partners can meet each other’s emotional needs without overwhelming themselves ✔️ Key communication strategies to break the cycle of conflict and emotional shutdown ✔️ How to bring more security into the relationship for lasting connection If you've ever wondered, “Why does this relationship feel so intense yet so distant at the same time?”, this episode will help you understand the dynamic and how to create a healthier balance between independence and connection. Meet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog: https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors:💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! 🛡️ NordVPN – Try NordVPN risk-free at nordvpn.com/gibson with a 30-day money-back guarantee! #attachmentstyles #dismissiveavoidant #fearfulavoidant #relationshipdynamics #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #relationshipadvice Love this episode?If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and FREE lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Sex course with a 7-day free trial!https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast How does no contact affect different attachment styles? No contact can be an effective strategy after a breakup, but how it works depends entirely on your ex’s attachment style. While anxious, dismissive avoidant, and fearful avoidant attachment styles all process breakups differently, understanding their patterns can help you navigate your healing journey—and even recognize signs that they may still be thinking about you. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:✔️ How anxious, avoidant, and fearful avoidant exes respond to no contact ✔️ The timeframes when each attachment style starts processing the breakup ✔️ Why anxious exes reach out quickly, while dismissive avoidants take longer ✔️ Signs your ex is regretting the breakup, missing you, or re-evaluating their decision ✔️ When to extend or break no contact based on their attachment style ✔️ How to use this time to heal and shift into a more secure attachment style If you’ve ever wondered, “Is no contact working?” or “Will my ex reach out?”, this episode will help you understand their attachment-based response and what it means for your relationship dynamics. Meet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog: https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors:💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! 🛡️ NordVPN – Try NordVPN risk-free at nordvpn.com/gibson with a 30-day money-back guarantee! #attachmentstyles #nobreakupcontact #relationshiprecovery #breakupadvice #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #relationshipdynamics Love this episode?If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and FREE lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Sex course with a 7-day free trial!https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Dismissive avoidants can seem emotionally shut down—but there is a way in. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a relationship where the other person won’t open up, especially if they’re dismissive avoidant, this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast is for you. Thais shares the top 3 proven ways to gently support a dismissive avoidant in letting down their emotional walls—without pushing, overgiving, or losing yourself in the process. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:✔️ How asking specific—not general—questions creates space for meaningful sharing ✔️ Why emotional safety and non-judgment are essential to helping a DA open up ✔️ The power of validation, empathy, and simply remembering small details ✔️ How to express your needs without sounding critical or shaming ✔️ The role of acceptance and consistency in building long-term trust ✔️ Why dismissive avoidants often test the waters before becoming emotionally vulnerable If you’ve ever wondered, “What can I do to connect with a dismissive avoidant partner—or know if it’s even worth it?”, this episode will offer clear, actionable tools to deepen emotional intimacy and assess relationship alignment. Meet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog: https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors:📱 MINT Mobile – Cut your wireless bill to $15/month at MINTMOBILE.com/thais 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS #dismissiveavoidant #attachmentstyles #relationshipcommunication #emotionalconnection #datingadvice #selfhealing #attachmenttheory #personaldevelopment Love this episode?If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and FREE lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Sex course with a 7-day free trial!https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Why is the anxious + fearful avoidant dynamic so intense—and so difficult to navigate? This powerful pairing is often filled with deep emotional connection, high sensitivity, and equally high volatility. In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais explores the unique challenges and emotional cycles that define this dynamic—and provides clear guidance on how to move toward emotional security and lasting love. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:✔️ Why this dynamic often begins with fireworks but ends in chaos ✔️ The core wounds of both anxious and fearful avoidant attachment styles ✔️ How triggers like abandonment, betrayal, and feeling trapped play out over time ✔️ Unhealthy coping mechanisms to avoid—and what to do instead ✔️ How to communicate with vulnerability, validate each other, and avoid conflict escalation ✔️ Concrete tools to self-soothe, break codependent cycles, and build trust ✔️ How to maintain connection even when core wounds are activated If you've been in an anxious/fearful avoidant relationship—or are navigating one now—this episode will help you feel seen, supported, and equipped to move toward a healthier relationship foundation. Meet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog: https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors:📱 MINT Mobile – Cut your wireless bill to $15/month at MINTMOBILE.com/thais 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS #attachmentstyles #fearfulavoidant #anxiousattachment #relationshipdynamics #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #emotionaltriggers Love this episode?If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and FREE lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Sex course with a 7-day free trial!https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Dismissive avoidants can be hard to read—but the signs are there. Dismissive avoidants often hide their feelings, leading many to assume they aren’t interested at all. In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais breaks down 7 subtle yet clear signs a dismissive avoidant actually DOES like you, so you can finally stop second-guessing their behavior and understand the true indicators of interest. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:✔️ Why dismissive avoidants may seem distant even when they’re into you ✔️ How consistency is one of the first hidden signs of interest ✔️ Why clearly communicated needs—especially stated in the positive—get results ✔️ How and when dismissive avoidants actually do open up emotionally ✔️ Why they need more space—and how asking for it can be a sign of care ✔️ The real meaning behind “I enjoy spending time with you” ✔️ When they start including you in their inner circle and introducing you to friends If you’ve ever been left wondering, “Do they like me or not?”, this episode will help you confidently read between the lines and understand how avoidants express genuine interest—even if it’s not always in the most obvious way. Meet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog: https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors:📱 MINT Mobile – Cut your wireless bill to $15/month at MINTMOBILE.com/thais 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS #dismissiveavoidant #attachmentstyles #relationshipsigns #datingadvice #avoidantattachment #emotionalconnection #selfhealing #personaldevelopment Love this episode?If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and FREE lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Sex course with a 7-day free trial!https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Are you stuck in a cycle of fear, anxiety, and abandonment triggers? For those with anxious attachment, the fear of abandonment can feel overwhelming, leading to clinginess, overthinking, and emotional distress in relationships. In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais walks you through how to reprogram core wounds at the subconscious level, so you can finally break free from painful emotional patterns and build lasting self-security. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:✔️ The real reason anxious attachment styles fear abandonment ✔️ Why childhood inconsistency creates core wounds of rejection and unworthiness ✔️ The 5-step process to heal emotional triggers and self-soothe effectively ✔️ How to stop relying on external validation and develop emotional independence ✔️ Why subconscious reprogramming is the key to breaking toxic relationship cycles ✔️ The most powerful daily practices to rewire your attachment patterns for good If you've ever felt like you’re constantly chasing love, overanalyzing texts, or struggling with deep-seated fear of rejection, this episode will give you actionable tools to heal, shift your mindset, and feel more secure in yourself and your relationships. Meet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog: https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors:💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! 🛡️ NordVPN – Try NordVPN risk-free at nordvpn.com/gibson with a 30-day money-back guarantee! #attachmentstyles #anxiousattachment #subconsciousreprogramming #relationshippatterns #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #corewounds Love this episode?If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and FREE lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Sex course with a 7-day free trial!https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast What does a relationship look like with a dismissive avoidant partner? Dismissive avoidant attachment styles often struggle with emotional closeness, vulnerability, and expressing needs, which can create unique relationship challenges. Whether you're in a relationship with a dismissive avoidant or you identify with this attachment style yourself, this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast explores why dismissive avoidants behave the way they do—and how to navigate these dynamics in a healthy way. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:✔️ The core childhood experiences that shape dismissive avoidant attachment ✔️ Why dismissive avoidants struggle with emotional connection and communication ✔️ How to support a dismissive avoidant partner without triggering them ✔️ The most effective ways to build trust and closeness over time ✔️ How dismissive avoidants self-soothe—and why they withdraw during conflict ✔️ Key strategies for overcoming avoidance and building a healthier attachment style If you've ever felt frustrated in a relationship with a dismissive avoidant or struggled with opening up, trusting others, and maintaining deep emotional connections, this episode is for you. Meet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog: https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors:💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! 🛡️ NordVPN – Try NordVPN risk-free at nordvpn.com/gibson with a 30-day money-back guarantee! #attachmentstyles #dismissiveavoidant #relationshipadvice #relationshippatterns #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #relationshipgoals Love this episode?If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and FREE lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Sex course with a 7-day free trial! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast What happens when a fearful avoidant reflects on a breakup? Fearful avoidants have complex emotional patterns—they crave connection but fear intimacy, making breakups especially intense. In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais shares three major realizations fearful avoidants often have after a breakup, including the emotional patterns they struggle with, their regrets, and what happens when they gain clarity about their role in relationships. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:✔️ How fearful avoidants reflect on their breakups over time ✔️ The three major relationship patterns they often regret ✔️ Why they feel trapped by their own emotional cycles ✔️ How their subconscious fears of abandonment and engulfment play out post-breakup ✔️ Why they often expect others to fight for them while simultaneously pushing them away ✔️ How self-awareness and healing can shift their relationship patterns for good If you’ve ever wondered, “Does my fearful avoidant ex ever realize what happened?”, this episode will help you understand their post-breakup reflections and what it means for your own healing journey. Meet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog: https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors:💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! 🛡️ NordVPN – Try NordVPN risk-free at nordvpn.com/gibson with a 30-day money-back guarantee! #attachmentstyles #fearfulavoidant #breakupadvice #relationshiprecovery #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #relationshipdynamics Love this episode?If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and FREE lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Sex course with a 7-day free trial! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast How does a fearful avoidant experience the six stages of a relationship? Fearful avoidants go through unique emotional cycles in relationships, often fluctuating between deep connection and emotional withdrawal. In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais breaks down how fearful avoidants move through each stage of a relationship, including the challenges they face and how to navigate these stages for a healthier, more secure connection. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ The 6 stages of a relationship and how fearful avoidants experience each one ✔️ Why they thrive in the dating phase but struggle with commitment ✔️ How fear of engulfment and abandonment plays out in relationships ✔️ Why the power struggle stage is make-or-break for fearful avoidants ✔️ How to move toward stability, deep commitment, and lasting love ✔️ Practical strategies for working through emotional triggers and avoidance If you've ever been in a relationship with a fearful avoidant (or are one yourself), this episode will help you understand their patterns and how to navigate relationships more effectively. Meet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog: https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors:💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! #attachmentstyles #fearfulavoidant #relationshipstages #relationshippatterns #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #relationshipadvice Love this episode?If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and FREE lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Sex course with a 7-day free trial! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Do dismissive avoidants ever regret leaving? Dismissive avoidants are known for suppressing emotions, pulling away from closeness, and avoiding vulnerability—but what happens when they realize they made a mistake after a breakup? In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais breaks down the most common patterns dismissive avoidants go through post-breakup, how they process regret, and whether they will reach out or avoid dealing with their emotions altogether. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:✔️ Why dismissive avoidants take longer to process regret after a breakup ✔️ The key signs a dismissive avoidant is realizing they made a mistake ✔️ Why they often don’t reach out—even when they miss you ✔️ How they suppress emotions to avoid feeling loss and vulnerability ✔️ What happens when they reflect on past relationships in hindsight ✔️ How to handle it if they do reach out (or if they don’t) ✔️ The difference between genuine regret vs. reaching out for comfort If you’ve ever wondered, “Does my dismissive avoidant ex ever think about me?” or “Will they ever realize what they lost?”, this episode will help you understand their post-breakup mindset and what it means for your healing and closure. Meet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog: https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors:💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! 🛡️ NordVPN – Try NordVPN risk-free at nordvpn.com/gibson with a 30-day money-back guarantee! #attachmentstyles #dismissiveavoidant #breakupadvice #relationshiprecovery #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #relationshipdynamics Love this episode?If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and FREE lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Sex course with a 7-day free trial!https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Are your core wounds keeping you stuck in painful relationship patterns? Many of us go through life repeating the same emotional cycles, not realizing that our core wounds and subconscious programming are dictating how we feel, behave, and connect with others. In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais breaks down how to identify, understand, and reprogram your core wounds so you can break free from painful triggers and experience deep, lasting transformation. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:✔️ The science behind core wounds and how they develop ✔️ How your subconscious mind filters reality based on past experiences ✔️ The 5-step method to reprogram painful emotional triggers ✔️ Why fearful avoidants struggle with emotional regulation and self-worth ✔️ How to stop over-personalizing situations and ruminating on negative thoughts ✔️ The most effective daily practices to create new, empowering beliefs If you’ve ever felt stuck in emotional pain, repeating old patterns, or struggling with deep-seated wounds, this episode will give you actionable tools to heal and reprogram your subconscious mind at the root level. Meet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog: https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors:💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! 🛡️ NordVPN – Try NordVPN risk-free at nordvpn.com/gibson with a 30-day money-back guarantee! #attachmentstyles #fearfulavoidant #subconsciousreprogramming #relationshippatterns #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #corewounds Love this episode?If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and FREE lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Sex course with a 7-day free trial!https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Can you win back a fearful avoidant partner? Fearful avoidants crave deep emotional connection but often struggle with trust, vulnerability, and consistency in relationships. If you’re looking to repair a relationship, reconnect, or rekindle love with a fearful avoidant, this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast walks you through the right way to approach reconciliation—without losing yourself in the process. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:✔️ Why fearful avoidants pull away and end relationships ✔️ The biggest mistakes people make when trying to win them back ✔️ How to rebuild trust and emotional connection in a safe way ✔️ The key differences between male and female fearful avoidants ✔️ Why boundaries and self-awareness are essential for reconciliation ✔️ How to set a clear deadline to avoid emotional limbo If you've ever asked yourself, "Can this relationship be repaired?", this episode will help you navigate the complexities of a fearful avoidant’s emotional needs while maintaining your self-respect and well-being. Meet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog: https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors:💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! 🛡️ NordVPN – Try NordVPN risk-free at nordvpn.com/gibson with a 30-day money-back guarantee! #attachmentstyles #fearfulavoidant #relationshiprecovery #relationshiptips #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #relationshipgoals Love this episode?If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and FREE lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Sex course with a 7-day free trial! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Why do dismissive avoidants send confusing texts? If you’ve ever been puzzled by the texting habits of a dismissive avoidant, you’re not alone! From indirect messages to last-minute plans, these texting behaviors can be frustrating and difficult to interpret. In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais breaks down six common avoidant texting patterns, why they happen, and what they really mean—so you can stop feeling confused and start communicating effectively. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ Why dismissive avoidants send vague or indirect texts instead of being clear ✔️ How last-minute texts are often a sign of avoidance, not lack of interest ✔️ Why avoidants ghost for short periods—and what it actually means ✔️ How their fear of commitment and emotional vulnerability shapes their texting behavior ✔️ The most common reasons dismissive avoidants cancel plans indirectly ✔️ How to respond effectively without playing guessing games If you've ever thought, "Why are they so inconsistent?" or "Do they even like me?", this episode will help you understand the avoidant mindset and navigate these texting patterns with clarity. Meet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog: https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors:💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! 🛡️ NordVPN – Try NordVPN risk-free at nordvpn.com/gibson with a 30-day money-back guarantee! #attachmentstyles #dismissiveavoidant #textinghabits #relationshipadvice #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #avoidantbehavior Love this episode?If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and FREE lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Sex course with a 7-day free trial! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Why is vulnerability so difficult—but so necessary—in relationships? Many people, especially those with avoidant attachment styles, struggle to open up and express their emotions. Yet, vulnerability is what transforms infatuation into love, strengthens bonds, and deepens emotional connection. In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais and co-host Mike DiZio explore why vulnerability is challenging, how to communicate it effectively, and why it’s the key to building lasting, fulfilling relationships. If you’ve ever struggled with expressing your emotions, setting boundaries, or feeling safe enough to be your true self in relationships, this episode will give you the tools to overcome fear, deepen intimacy, and create authentic connections. Timestamps:00:00 - Intro 01:48 - Vulnerability in Childhood (Mike's Story) 05:24 - Vulnerability in Childhood (Thais' Story) 10:26 - 7-Day Free Trial 11:16 - Misconceptions About Vulnerability 17:31 - How to Approach a Dismissive Avoidant with Vulnerability 26:54 - Vulnerability Allows You to Be Loved & Fall in Love 33:10 - Rocket Money 35:02 - When You and a Loved One Have Opposing Views 41:01 - If You're Afraid to Share Vulnerably With Others 52:26 - Conclusion Meet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog: https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors:💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! 🛡️ NordVPN – Try NordVPN risk-free at nordvpn.com/gibson with a 30-day money-back guarantee! #attachmentstyles #fearfulavoidant #dismissiveavoidant #vulnerability #relationshipadvice #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and FREE lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Sex course with a 7-day free trial!https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Can you save a relationship with a dismissive avoidant partner? Dismissive avoidant women often struggle with emotional expression, vulnerability, and receiving love, which can create unique challenges in relationships. If you're wondering how to rebuild trust, repair emotional distance, and reconnect, this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast will give you the key strategies to make it work—while ensuring your own needs are met. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:✔️ Why female dismissive avoidants leave relationships and build resentment ✔️ How to rebuild emotional trust and create safety in communication ✔️ The importance of boundaries and expressing your needs clearly ✔️ Why dismissive avoidants struggle to ask for support, connection, and intimacy ✔️ How to approach reconciliation with patience and emotional balance ✔️ The critical mistake most people make when trying to win back a dismissive avoidant If you've ever asked yourself, "Can this relationship be saved?", this episode will help you understand dismissive avoidant needs and take the right steps—without sacrificing your own self-worth. Meet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog: https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors:💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! 🛡️ NordVPN – Try NordVPN risk-free at nordvpn.com/gibson,with a 30-day money-back guarantee! #attachmentstyles #dismissiveavoidant #relationshiprecovery #relationshiptips #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #relationshipgoals Love this episode?If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and FREE lifetime access to our Attachment Styles & Sex course with a 7-day free trial!https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast How do you fulfill your emotional needs without relying on others? Many of us seek love, romance, and emotional connection from external sources, but true fulfillment comes from within. In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais explores how to meet your own emotional needs, so you can build healthier relationships, reduce dependency, and create lasting fulfillment in your life. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:✔️ The role of subconscious needs in shaping our emotions and behaviors ✔️ Why self-connection is the key to attracting healthy relationships ✔️ How to meet your needs for love and connection internally ✔️ The 6 core human needs and how they impact your fulfillment ✔️ Why understanding your needs prevents emotional burnout and relationship struggles ✔️ Practical strategies to feel emotionally fulfilled, even when single If you’ve ever felt lonely, emotionally unfulfilled, or overly dependent on relationships, this episode will help you reclaim your power and build deep self-connection. Meet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog: https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors:💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! 🛡️ NordVPN – Try NordVPN risk-free at nordvpn.com/gibson,with a 30-day money-back guarantee! #attachmentstyles #selflove #emotionalfulfillment #relationshippatterns #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #selfworth Love this episode?If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and more for free for 7 days!https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Are anxious attachment styles more likely to attract narcissists? Many people with anxious attachment find themselves in toxic relationships, wondering if narcissists actively seek them out—and why. In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais breaks down 8 key traits of anxious attachment that may make them vulnerable to narcissistic relationships and, more importantly, how to break free from these patterns and protect yourself. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:✔️ Why people-pleasing makes anxious attachers more vulnerable to manipulation ✔️ How over-empathizing with others while neglecting yourself leads to unhealthy dynamics ✔️ The dangers of self-abandoning your boundaries to maintain connection ✔️ Why anxious attachers filter out red flags and rationalize toxic behavior ✔️ How to rebuild self-worth, set healthy boundaries, and break free from toxic cycles ✔️ The best healing strategies to shift from anxious to secure attachment If you've ever asked yourself, “Why do I keep attracting emotionally unavailable or toxic partners?”, this episode will give you clarity and actionable steps to build healthier relationships. Meet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog: https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors:💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! 🛡️ NordVPN – Try NordVPN risk-free at nordvpn.com/gibson,with a 30-day money-back guarantee! #attachmentstyles #anxiousattachment #narcissisticabuse #relationshippatterns #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #toxicrelationships #selfworth Love this episode?If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get personalized courses, live webinars & Q&As, and more for free for 7 days!https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=7-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Feeling disconnected from your fearful avoidant partner? Whether your relationship has lost its spark or you’re trying to rebuild after a breakup, understanding what a fearful avoidant needs to feel safe and connected is key. In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais and co-host Mike DiZio share six powerful strategies to strengthen emotional intimacy and restore trust with a fearful avoidant partner. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:✔️ The 4 C’s of Trust and why they matter for fearful avoidants ✔️ Why open and transparent conversations are crucial for reconnection ✔️ How to introduce novelty back into the relationship to reignite attraction ✔️ Why personal growth together fosters deeper emotional safety ✔️ How depth in conversations makes a fearful avoidant feel truly seen ✔️ The importance of clearing the resentment tank to avoid emotional shutdown If you’ve ever wondered, “How do I reconnect with my fearful avoidant partner?”, this episode will help you understand their emotional needs and build a secure, fulfilling relationship. Timestamps:00:00 - Intro 02:20 - 1 — Having Open and Transparent Conversations 03:58 - 4 C’s of Trust 10:23 - 2 — Introduce Novelty Back Into the Relationship 17:03 - 7-Day Free Trial 17:53 - 3 — Personal Growth 24:27 - 4 — Depth and Depth of Conversations 30:18 - Rocket Money 32:10 - 5 — Reintroduce Fun Into the Relationship 33:42 - 6 — Small Verbal Affirmations 40:13 - 7 — Clearing the Resentment Tank 44:23 - Conclusion Meet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog: https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors:💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! 🛡️ NordVPN – Try NordVPN risk-free at nordvpn.com/gibson,with a 30-day money-back guarantee! #attachmentstyles #fearfulavoidant #relationshipreconnection #relationshiptips #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #relationshipgoals Love this episode?If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Claim your 14-day Free Trial and transform your relationships this Valentine's Day!https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/valentines-day?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=14-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Are you dating a narcissist, or are they just avoidant? One of the most common and confusing questions in relationships is whether someone is truly a narcissist—or if they simply have an insecure attachment style like dismissive or fearful avoidant. In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais unpacks 9 key signs to help you tell the difference and avoid mislabeling your partner (or yourself). What You’ll Learn in This Episode: ✔️ The 9 diagnostic traits of Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) ✔️ Why dismissive avoidants can seem similar—but are NOT narcissists ✔️ How fearful avoidants differ from narcissists in their emotional depth ✔️ The key difference between narcissistic entitlement vs. self-orientation ✔️ Why anxious attachment styles are often mistaken for narcissism ✔️ The biggest red flag that separates an insecure attachment from true narcissism If you’ve ever wondered, “Are they emotionally unavailable or actually manipulative?”, this episode will help you identify the real patterns at play and protect yourself in relationships. Meet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog: https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors:💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! 🛡️ NordVPN – Try NordVPN risk-free at nordvpn.com/gibson,with a 30-day money-back guarantee! #attachmentstyles #narcissisticabuse #dismissiveavoidant #anxiousattachment #relationshippatterns #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #emotionalabuse Love this episode?If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Claim your 14-day Free Trial and transform your relationships this Valentine's Day! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/valentines-day?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=14-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast How do you reconnect with a dismissive avoidant partner? If you've grown apart in your relationship or want to rekindle the spark after a breakup, it’s important to understand how dismissive avoidants connect and what makes them feel safe in relationships. In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais and co-host Mike DiZio break down six key strategies to help you rebuild closeness and strengthen emotional intimacy with a dismissive avoidant partner. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:✔️ How to meet a dismissive avoidant where they are without overstepping boundaries ✔️ The power of acknowledgment and appreciation in rebuilding trust ✔️ Why lightness, humor, and playfulness foster emotional safety ✔️ How to create connection without pressure or emotional overwhelm ✔️ The most meaningful ways to show support and selflessness in a relationship ✔️ Signs that a dismissive avoidant is actually healing and opening up If you've ever wondered, “How do I get my dismissive avoidant partner to engage more?”, this episode will give you practical steps to create a deeper connection—while maintaining your own needs and boundaries. Timestamps:00:00 - Intro 02:01 - 1 — Meeting Them Where They Are 14:27 - 14-Day Free Trial 15:20 - 2 — Acknowledgment and Appreciation 20:47 - 3 — Incorporate Lightness and Humor 28:04 - 4 — Absence of Pressure 35:43 - Rocket Money 37:36 - 5 — Supportiveness 41:03 - 6 — Selflessness 47:09 - Signs of Healing 50:40 - Conclusion Meet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog: https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors:💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! 🛡️ NordVPN – Try NordVPN risk-free at nordvpn.com/gibson,with a 30-day money-back guarantee! #attachmentstyles #dismissiveavoidant #relationshipreconnection #relationshiptips #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #relationshipgoals Love this episode?If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Claim your 14-day Free Trial and transform your relationships this Valentine's Day!https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/valentines-day?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=14-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast What was childhood really like for a fearful avoidant? Fearful avoidant attachment, also known as disorganized attachment, is deeply shaped by unpredictability, chaos, and a lack of emotional safety in early life. In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, we dive into the formative childhood experiences that create fearful avoidant attachment and explore why trust, stability, and emotional regulation feel so difficult in relationships. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:✔️ The 3 major childhood factors that shape a fearful avoidant attachment style ✔️ Why hypervigilance and emotional unpredictability become survival strategies ✔️ How childhood instability, neglect, or parentification impact adult relationships ✔️ The connection between trust issues, fear of abandonment, and emotional dysregulation ✔️ A powerful reparenting exercise to start healing and shifting toward secure attachment If you’ve ever wondered “Why do I struggle to trust people?” or “Why do I push people away when I want connection?”, this episode will help you understand your past and take the first steps toward healing. Meet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog: https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors:💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! 🛡️ NordVPN – Try NordVPN risk-free at nordvpn.com/gibson,with a 30-day money-back guarantee! #attachmentstyles #fearfulavoidant #childhoodtrauma #relationshippatterns #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #emotionalregulation #relationshipgoals Love this episode?If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Claim your 14-day Free Trial and transform your relationships this Valentine's Day! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/valentines-day?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=14-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Can you actually change your attachment style? The short answer: YES! Attachment styles are not set in stone—they’re learned patterns that can be rewired with the right tools. Whether you struggle with anxious, avoidant, or fearful avoidant tendencies, this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast will show you how to reprogram your subconscious mind and create secure, fulfilling relationships. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:✔️ How attachment styles are formed in early childhood ✔️ Why your subconscious mind keeps repeating old relationship patterns ✔️ The top 5 strategies to shift from insecure to secure attachment ✔️ How to heal emotional wounds and rebuild trust in relationships ✔️ Why mindset shifts and daily habits can rewire your attachment style If you’ve ever felt trapped in unhealthy relationship cycles, this episode will give you actionable steps to start healing and create the love you deserve. Meet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog: https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors:💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! #attachmentstyles #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment #relationshippatterns #datingadvice #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #relationshipgoals #findlove Love this episode?If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Claim your 14-day Free Trial and transform your relationships this Valentine's Day! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/valentines-day?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=14-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Are they a dismissive avoidant or a narcissist? Many people struggle to differentiate between dismissive avoidant attachment and narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) because both can involve emotional distance, self-protection, and difficulty with vulnerability. However, these are fundamentally different psychological profiles. In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, we break down the key differences between a dismissive avoidant attachment style and narcissistic personality disorder, explaining how to recognize each and how to navigate relationships with them effectively. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:✔️ The core traits of dismissive avoidant attachment vs. narcissistic personality disorder ✔️ Why dismissive avoidants seem emotionally detached but aren't narcissists ✔️ How narcissists manipulate vs. how dismissive avoidants withdraw ✔️ The role of childhood experiences in shaping each personality type ✔️ How to protect your emotional well-being in relationships with either If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Is my partner emotionally distant or actually narcissistic?”, this episode will help you distinguish between the two and provide tools for healthier connections. Meet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog: https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors:💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! #attachmentstyles #dismissiveavoidant #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #relationshippatterns #datingadvice #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #relationshipgoals #findlove Love this episode?If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Claim your 14-day Free Trial and transform your relationships this Valentine's Day!https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/valentines-day?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=14-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Do you keep picking the wrong partners in love? If you’ve ever wondered why you’re drawn to emotionally unavailable people, partners who don’t commit, or relationships that don’t fulfill you, this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast is for you. Thais walks you through an eye-opening exercise to uncover why you keep choosing the wrong people and what you can do to finally break the cycle and attract healthy love. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:✔️ Why your subconscious mind keeps choosing the same types of people ✔️ How your past wounds and self-relationship mirror your dating patterns ✔️ Why certain partners feel like “home” (even when they’re unhealthy) ✔️ The 3-column exercise to identify patterns and start choosing better partners ✔️ How to reprogram your subconscious and attract secure, emotionally available love If you’ve ever felt like your picker is broken, this episode will help you gain clarity, break toxic cycles, and finally find the fulfilling relationship you deserve. Meet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog: https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors:💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! #attachmentstyles #relationshippatterns #datingadvice #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #subconsciousmind #relationshipgoals #findlove Love this episode?If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Claim your 14-day Free Trial and transform your relationships this Valentine's Day!https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/valentines-day?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=14-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast What is the hardest part of being fearful avoidant or dismissive avoidant? How do you know if your relationship can survive infidelity? Are you truly ready for marriage? How do you manage overwhelm? In this Q&A-style episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais and co-host Mike DiZio answer your biggest relationship and personal growth questions, providing deep insights, real-life experiences, and actionable strategies. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:✔️ The hardest struggles of fearful avoidant (FA) and dismissive avoidant (DA) attachment styles ✔️ Why FA partners feel constantly dysregulated and how they can heal ✔️ Why DA partners struggle with emotional expression & avoid conflict ✔️ Can a relationship survive a major infidelity? The real steps to rebuilding trust ✔️ Signs you’re actually ready for marriage—beyond just commitment ✔️ How to handle overwhelm and burnout, plus expert strategies for emotional balance If you’ve ever struggled with attachment wounds, relationship uncertainty, or emotional exhaustion, this episode is filled with honest insights and powerful tools to help you move forward. Timestamps:00:00 - Intro 01:27 - 1 — What is the Hardest Part About Being Fearful Avoidant? 06:49 - 2 — What is the Hardest Part About Being Dismissive Avoidant? 19:28 - 3 — Can a Relationship Survive a Major Infidelity? 24:47 - 14-Day Free Trial 26:07 - 3 — Can a Relationship Survive a Major Infidelity? (Cont’d) 30:31 - Rocket Money 32:25 - 4 — When is Someone Ready for Marriage? 47:35 - 5 — What do You do When You are Feeling Very Overwhelmed? 56:19 - Conclusion Meet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog: https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors:💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! #attachmentstyles #fearfulavoidant #dismissiveavoidant #infidelityrecovery #marriageready #relationshipadvice #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #relationshipgoals Love this episode?If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Claim your 14-day Free Trial and transform your relationships this Valentine's Day! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/valentines-day?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=14-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Are you in a relationship with a fearful avoidant partner? If your partner seems to pull you in one moment and push you away the next, you might be struggling to understand their behavior. Fearful avoidant attachment—sometimes called anxious-avoidant attachment—is one of the most misunderstood attachment styles. In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, we explore what your fearful avoidant partner wishes you knew, how they experience relationships, and what you can do to create healthy, secure connection. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:✔️ Why fearful avoidants are hypervigilant in relationships ✔️ Why they crave love but fear deep intimacy ✔️ How past trauma shapes their trust issues and push-pull behavior ✔️ What fearful avoidants truly need in a relationship ✔️ How to communicate effectively and avoid emotional triggers If you’ve ever felt confused, hurt, or unsure about your fearful avoidant partner’s actions, this episode is a must-listen! Meet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog: https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors:💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' #attachmentstyles #fearfulavoidant #avoidantattachment #relationshippatterns #datingadvice #attachmenttheory #relationshipgoals #selfhealing #emotionalintimacy #findlove Love this episode?If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Claim your 14-day Free Trial and transform your relationships this Valentine's Day! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/valentines-day?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=14-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Are you dating someone who pulls you in and then suddenly pushes you away? Fearful avoidant attachment, also known as anxious-avoidant, is one of the most complex and emotionally turbulent attachment styles. In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, we uncover what it’s like to date someone with a fearful avoidant attachment style, why they struggle with both intimacy and independence, and how to create a healthier relationship dynamic. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:✔️ Why fearful avoidants crave closeness but fear vulnerability ✔️ The role of trauma and emotional chaos in shaping their attachment style ✔️ Common triggers that cause them to shut down or push people away ✔️ How to communicate effectively without triggering their fears ✔️ Key strategies to build trust and emotional security in your relationship If you’ve ever asked yourself, “Why does my partner want closeness one moment and distance the next?”, this episode will give you deep insights into their behavior and practical tools to navigate these challenges. Meet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog: https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors:💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' #attachmentstyles #fearfulavoidant #avoidantattachment #relationshippatterns #datingadvice #attachmenttheory #relationshipgoals #selfhealing #emotionalintimacy #findlove Love this episode?If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Claim your 14-day Free Trial and transform your relationships this Valentine's Day! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/valentines-day?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=14-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Do you feel misunderstood in your relationships? Anxious attachment styles often get labeled as "too needy" or "too much," but the truth is, they just want to feel secure, valued, and connected. In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, we break down the biggest myths about anxious attachment styles and what they really need from their loved ones. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:✔️ The 5 biggest misconceptions about anxious attachment styles ✔️ Why anxious attachers don’t need constant communication—just consistency ✔️ How certainty and reassurance can transform an anxious attachment’s relationships ✔️ Why they sometimes bring up past conflicts—and how to finally resolve them ✔️ How partners can better support an anxious attacher’s needs without feeling overwhelmed If you’ve ever felt misunderstood, invalidated, or unseen in your relationships, this episode will help you articulate your needs and build healthier, more fulfilling connections. Meet Your Host:Thais Gibson is the co-founder of The Personal Development School, a best-selling author, and a leader in personal development. With a Ph.D. and over 13 certifications in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Somatic Experiencing, and more, Thais has helped thousands transform their relationships and emotional well-being. Helpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog: https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors:💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! #attachmentstyles #anxiousattachment #relationshipneeds #relationshippatterns #datingadvice #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #relationshipgoals Love this episode?If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Claim your 14-day Free Trial and transform your relationships this Valentine's Day!https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/valentines-day?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=14-day-trial&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast Are you dating someone secure—or dismissive avoidant?In the early stages of dating, dismissive avoidants can appear secure, making it tricky to recognize attachment patterns until real feelings are involved. In this episode of The Thais Gibson Podcast, Thais and co-host Mike DiZio break down key differences between secure and dismissive avoidant partners, including early red and green flags to look for in relationships. What You’ll Learn in This Episode:✔️ How dismissive avoidants can mimic secure traits early in dating ✔️ The biggest communication differences between secure and DA partners ✔️ Why dismissive avoidants avoid deep emotional conversations ✔️ How to tell if someone is genuinely interested in a long-term relationship ✔️ Signs that someone may struggle with emotional vulnerability and connection If you’ve ever wondered, “Are they actually secure, or will they pull away later?”, this episode will help you spot the differences and date with clarity. Timestamps:00:00 - Intro 02:22 - 1 — DA’s Speak More Logically 09:45 - 2 — Secure People Are Comfortable Saying What They're Looking For 16:22 - 3 — Secure People Are Comfortable Talking About the Relationship 25:26 - 4 — Secure People Will Want to Resolve Conflict in a Timely Fashion 26:25 - 14-Day Free Trial 26:53 - Secure People Will Want to Resolve Conflict in a Timely Fashion (Cont’d) 31:52 - 5 — Secure's Can Laugh at Themselves 34:39 - Rocket Money 35:58 - 6 — DA’s May Have High Self-Consideration 38:44 - 7 — DA's and Secure's Handle Adversities Differently 41:56 - 8 — A Secure Person Will Introduce You to Family and Friends 49:33 - 9 — Secure People Will Express Unmet Needs 52:15 - Conclusion Helpful Resources:💡 Take the Free Attachment Quiz: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📖 Learning Love Book – The guide to healing attachment wounds: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎙️ More Podcast Episodes: https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read More on Our Blog: https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Follow Us on Social Media:📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ ▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool Podcast Sponsors:💧 AquaTru – Get 20% off any AquaTru purifier today! Visit AquaTru.com and use code 'THAIS' at checkout. 💰 Rocket Money – Cancel unwanted subscriptions and reach your financial goals faster: RocketMoney.com/THAIS 💼 Indeed – Get a $75 sponsored job credit to boost your job’s visibility: Indeed.com/THAIS 🌬️ AirDoctor – Get UP TO $300 off air purifiers: airdoctorpro.com and use promo code 'THAIS' 🧠 Headway – Visit makeheadway.com/thais for fun & easy personal growth! #attachmentstyles #dismissiveavoidant #secureattachment #datingadvice #relationshippatterns #attachmenttheory #selfhealing #personaldevelopment #relationshipgoals Love this episode?If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, rate, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform! Your support helps us continue to provide insightful content to help you on your personal development journey. 💙 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices