What the Dismissive Avoidant Is REALLY DOING When They Go Missing
What the Dismissive Avoidant Is REALLY DOING When They Go Missing  
Podcast: The Thais Gibson Podcast
Published On: Wed Dec 31 2025
Description: Unlock clarity, healing, and emotional freedom this Boxing Week with Thais Gibson. Start your FREE 7-day trial to the Personal Development School and get the Healing Family Dynamics Course ($250 Value) FREE for life. https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/healing-family-dynamics-flashsale?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=healing-family-dynamics-flashsale&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-12-31-25&el=podcast When a Dismissive Avoidant suddenly pulls away, stops responding, or “goes missing,” it can feel confusing, painful, and deeply personal. But what’s actually happening beneath the surface is far more complex and far less about you than you might think. In this episode, Thais Gibson breaks down the real emotional and nervous-system processes driving dismissive avoidance, including shame responses, fear of vulnerability, and learned patterns around conflict and emotional expression. If you’ve ever been on the receiving end of this behavior, or if you recognize these patterns in yourself, this video offers clarity, compassion, and a powerful path forward. What You’ll Learn in This Episode Why Dismissive Avoidants often withdraw after moments of emotional closeness How vulnerability activates shame and fear around emotional expression The role of unresolved family dynamics and emotional modeling Why conflict feels overwhelming or unworkable for dismissive avoidants How avoidance becomes a strategy for escaping uncomfortable emotions Why healing these patterns creates more freedom, safety, and connection in relationships ⏱️ Timestamps 00:00 – What the Dismissive Avoidant Is REALLY DOING When They Go Missing 00:31 – Dismissive Avoidants and Vulnerability in Relationships 01:29 – Dismissive Avoidants and Conflict in Relationships 02:23 – Dismissive Avoidants Have Core Fears About Their Own Emotions 03:14 – The Shame Response 04:41 – Healing Family Trauma Promo 05:27 – Why Dismissive Avoidants Go Missing 07:07 – Why Dismissive Avoidants Disconnect 08:01 – Why You Should Work On This If You Are A Dismissive Avoidant Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/