Dr. Jessica Zucker—bestselling author of I Had a Miscarriage and Normalize It—joins Chrissy for a raw and honest conversation about the things women are rarely encouraged to say out loud. They talk openly about miscarriage, terminating a pregnancy for medical reasons, postpartum anxiety, body image, and the pressure to seem “fine” while quietly falling apart. Jessica shares her simple UPEND framework to help listeners name what happened, tell their story without shame, and move toward real self-compassion. Listener Advised: This episode includes conversations about pregnancy loss, postpartum grief, anxiety, depression, and terminating a pregnancy for medical reasons. Key takeawaysWhy silence → stigma → shame is a cycle that quietly harms women’s mental health—and how naming the truth disrupts it.What “Normalize It” really means: making space for the full spectrum of women’s experiences (periods, fertility struggles, miscarriage, TFMR, postpartum, menopause) without secrecy or self-blame.The emotional reality of pregnancy loss: why time speeds up in hospitals, and why people often later regret not taking more time, asking more questions, or having more softness.What not to say to someone grieving (no “at least,” no “God has a plan,” no platitudes)—and what actually helps: presence, consistency, and “I don’t know what to say, but I’m here.”How grief can show up as postpartum anxiety/depression, sometimes months later—and why “looking put-together” can still hide real suffering.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Carl Radke—known for years as the “fun one” on Bravo’s Summer House—opens up to Chrissy about what happens when the party persona that kept everything light starts quietly destroying your life. In a raw, funny, and brutally honest conversation, Carl traces the pressure to perform, the role alcohol and cocaine played behind the scenes, and the moment he realized he had to save his own life—even if it meant disappointing everyone. He shares what recovery actually looks like in real life, why it isn’t linear, and how his memoir Cake Eater helped him reclaim “childhood Carl” and build a life that doesn’t require numbing to get through it.Key TakeawaysWhy “being the fun one” can become a survival strategy—and how it turns into a trap when your identity depends on keeping the party going.How sobriety forces an identity rebuild: who you are when alcohol, nightlife, and performance are no longer your personality.What rock bottom can look like when you’re high-functioning and hiding it well, including the ways addiction shows up off-camera.Why recovery isn’t a straight line—and what helped Carl find real support (therapy, AA, sponsors, community, and accountability).How grief, family addiction, and trauma shaped his emotional life, including the impact of losing his brother and the “that’ll never be me” illusion.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Gretchen Rubin shares insights from her new Audible Original, Get It Done: Complete Your Dream Project, reframing procrastination not as laziness but as a mismatch between strategies and personality. She offers listeners a framework for understanding their tendencies and unlocking the right tools to finally move forward on stalled projects. Key TakeawaysProcrastination isn’t laziness — often, we’re simply using the wrong approach for our natural tendencies.Personality matters — knowing your type helps you choose the strategies that will actually stick and motivate you.Small wins build momentum — breaking projects into manageable steps makes daunting tasks feel achievable.Self-awareness is a productivity tool — understanding your triggers and habits can help you avoid the guilt cycle of avoidance and self-blame.The right system brings relief — when your tools match your personality, stalled projects become energizing rather than overwhelming.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What if the reason you're always overwhelmed isn’t because you’re doing life wrong—but because you’re following a plan that was never made for you? In this episode of Self-Conscious, Chrissy sits down with Kendra Adachi, bestselling author of THE PLAN: Manage Your Time Like a Lazy Genius, to dismantle the hustle, perfectionism, and guilt so many women carry when it comes to managing time, energy, and expectations.Chrissy opens up about her own internalized pressure to “do it all,” her fear of being seen as lazy, and how small acts of presence—like saying yes to her kids' invitation to play outside—can feel more meaningful than any perfect plan.Key Takeaways:Start with what matters to you right now—not a fantasy future—and build small, sustainable actions from that place.Let go of the myth of being behind: your life doesn’t need a “catch-up plan,” it needs compassion.Energy, not time, should guide how you plan your day—honor your body and your bandwidth.The five-step Lazy Genius Method (prioritize, essentialize, organize, personalize, systemize) can help you solve real problems without burning out.Small things aren’t just enough—they are the point.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In a deeply vulnerable conversation with therapist and KC Davis, author of Who Deserves Your Love, Chrissy opens up about the emotional complexity of her relationship with her mom: the years of silence, the heartbreaking attempts to reconnect, and the weight of carrying unmet needs into adulthood. It's not about blame—it’s about honesty, grief, and the quiet hope that healing might still be possible.Together, Chrissy and KC explore what it means to love someone who can’t always love you back the way you need—and how to stop losing yourself in the process.Key TakeawaysHow to tell the difference between a hard relationship and an unsafe oneWhat real boundaries look like—and why they’re not about controlWhy “being the good daughter” sometimes means betraying yourselfHow to grieve the parent you wish you had while still showing up for the one you doSimple tools to regulate your nervous system in the middle of emotional overwhelmSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What if the biggest barrier between you and the life you want isn’t discipline or willpower, but how well you understand your own feelings? Dr. Marc Brackett, the director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence, joins Chrissy to explain why emotions are data—not drama—and how learning to recognize, name, and regulate them can completely change your life. In this conversation, he shares tools like the Mood Meter, the Meta-Moment, and the RULER framework to help you respond as your best self, raise emotionally healthy kids, and build relationships rooted in safety, clarity, and compassion.KEY TAKEAWAYS• How learning to accurately name your emotions can shift your decisions, relationships, and daily life.• Why treating emotions as information—not problems—gives you more clarity and control.• How the Mood Meter and Meta-Moment help you pause, regulate, and respond as your best self.• Why most adults never learned emotional skills—and how you can build them at any age.• How offering non-judgment, empathy, and calm to others (and yourself) creates real emotional safety and connection.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Tik Tok storyteller and bestselling author Elyse Myers joins Chrissy to talk about overthinking, anxiety, neurodivergence, and why sharing the most awkward parts of our lives can actually bring us closer to each other. In this conversation, Elise opens up about doing things scared, rewriting old survival patterns, and learning to stay present in the moments she once ran from. If you’ve ever replayed an embarrassing memory on loop or wondered why your brain works the way it does, this episode offers practical tools, gentle humor, and a reminder that you’re not as alone as you think.KEY TAKEAWAYSHow embracing your awkward, anxious moments can turn shame into genuine connection.Why understanding your neurodivergence helps you design a life that actually works for your brain.How doing things scared builds confidence faster than waiting to feel “ready.”Why showing your messy, in-progress creative process makes other people feel seen instead of inadequate.How simplifying routines—from meals to clothes to work habits—can reduce overwhelm and protect your mental health.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Bestselling author Elizabeth Gilbert joins Chrissy Teigen for a raw, unfiltered conversation about codependency, emotional addiction, and the journey behind her new memoir, All the Way to the River. She opens up about love, loss, boundaries, and the spiritual surrender that helped her rebuild her life from the inside out. If you've ever lost yourself in a relationship or struggled to feel “enough,” this episode offers powerful insight, practical tools, and a path back to yourself.Key TakeawaysHow to recognize the early signs of codependency before they quietly reshape your life.Why surrender—not control—creates deeper emotional stability and real inner peace.How to break people-pleasing habits and rebuild a stronger, steadier sense of self.Why emotional sobriety matters and how to sit with hard feelings without acting on them.How Liz’s “Letters From Love” practice can ground you and transform your daily self-talk.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

On this wildly relatable episode of Self-Conscious, clinical psychologist and Good Inside author Dr. Becky Kennedy sits down with Chrissy to talk about what parenting really demands of us—not just as moms and dads, but as humans still healing ourselves.Together, they unpack how parenting is less about fixing behavior and more about building connection—especially when it comes to tantrums, lying, shame, and accountability. Whether you’re raising children, raising yourself, or both—this episode will change the way you see discipline, repair, and love. KEY TAKEAWAYSGood Kids, Bad Behavior: Learn how separating your child’s identity from their actions unlocks healthier discipline, without shame.Reparenting 101: Dr. Becky explains why we parent the way we were parented—and how to break intergenerational cycles by building emotional trust with ourselves first.Lies Aren’t Moral Failures: Reframe lying not as a sign of bad character, but as a protection strategy born of fear or guilt.How to Start the Sex Talk: Chrissy shares how she’s preparing for “the talk,” and Dr. Becky offers a foolproof opener: “If I sound awkward, it’s because I’m the first person in my family to ever talk about this.”The Tool You’ll Use Every Day—A.V.P.: Acknowledge, Validate, Permit. This three-step process helps both adults and kids regulate big feelings, build self-trust, and recover from emotional overload.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Chrissy sits down with Jonathan Haidt to unpack The Anxious Generation—how the mid-aughts, smartphone/social-media surge “rewired” childhood, replacing play, sleep, and face-to-face friendship with dopamine-driven scrolling and an epidemic of anxiety. He lays out exactly what parents, schools, and communities can do right now to restore a healthy, play-based childhood.Five Key Takeaways:The Great Rewiring — How smartphones, cameras, and infinite feeds rewired childhood and attention.Girls vs. Boys — How social media drives anxiety and self-harm in girls and boys differentlyFour Rules — No smartphones before high school, no social media before 16, phone-free schools, and more free play.Home Habits — Ban phones from the table and bedrooms; swap TikTok scrolling for shared long-form stories.The Parent Playbook — Band with other parents, try summer camp resets, and reclaim evenings/mornings from screens.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Chrissy sits down with Dr. Gabor Maté to discuss his groundbreaking work, The Myth of Normal, exploring how our culture of hustle, disconnection, and suppressed emotions creates trauma and illness. Together, they discuss why addiction, shame, and mental health struggles are not personal failings but natural responses to abnormal circumstances—and how healing begins with authenticity, compassion, and awareness. Five Key Takeaways:The “Myth of Normal”: Many things we consider normal in society—like emotional suppression or constant productivity—are actually unhealthy, while behaviors we label “abnormal” (like addiction) are often natural responses to pain.Trauma Defined: Trauma isn’t just the event itself but the unhealed wound and the inner changes it causes, shaping how we see ourselves and the world.Addiction as Coping: Addiction should be understood not as an identity but as a coping strategy—a way to soothe or escape unbearable emotional pain.The Five A’s of Healing: Authenticity, Agency, Anger (healthy boundaries), Acceptance, and Awareness are essential pillars of recovery and self-healing.Compassion Over Shame: Healing requires learning to extend the compassion we freely offer others to ourselves, breaking cycles of self-judgment rooted in childhood wounds.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

When pregnancy veers off the script, what do you do next—and how do you reclaim your power? Chrissy talks to economist and parenting data expert Emily Oster discussing her bestseller The Unexpected: Navigating Pregnancy During and After Complications, translating the hardest parts of miscarriage, stillbirth, preeclampsia, hyperemesis, and postpartum mental health into clear questions, better conversations with your care team, and compassionate next steps. Five Key TakeawaysName it to navigate it: Understanding what actually happened (not just the label) is the first step toward clarity, closure, and planning.Ask the four questions: What happened? Why did it happen to me? Could it happen again (and how likely)? What can we do to lower the risk or prepare?Recurrence isn’t one-size-fits-all: Some complications (e.g., gestational diabetes, postpartum depression) have higher repeat risk; others (like many abruptions) are less likely to recur—plan accordingly.Advocacy is a skill: Decide the communication style you want (all the numbers vs. big-picture), switch providers if you don’t feel heard, and bring your true self to appointments.Postpartum is medical, not moral: Screening for depression/anxiety (for birthing and non-birthing partners), pelvic recovery, lactation after loss, and body-image grief deserve proactive care—not silence or shame.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Susan Cain, creator of the Audible Original A Quiet Life in Seven Steps, explores with Chrissy why our culture overvalues loudness—and what we gain when we embrace the power of quiet. Together, they unpack introversion, sensitivity, and how honoring your natural temperament can unlock creativity, deeper happiness, and true self-acceptance. Key TakeawaysWhy society rewards extroversion, and the hidden strengths introverts bring to relationships, leadership, and creativity.The “battery test” for understanding whether you recharge with solitude or stimulation.How quiet living isn’t weakness—it’s a path to originality, awe, and emotional depth.Tools for designing your day around your natural energy cycles, instead of fighting them.The freedom that comes with giving yourself permission to live in alignment with your true temperament.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Matt Ritter and Aaron Karo, creators of the new Audible Original “The Buddy System,” help Chrissy and husband John Legend navigate the crisis of male loneliness; unpacking why men struggle with friendship, and how building rituals can literally save lives. With humor and heart, they explore why male friendships matter for health, happiness, and stronger relationships.Key TakeawaysThe rituals that help friendships endure across decades.Why male loneliness is a hidden public health crisis linked to depression, substance abuse, and even early death.How women can support partners in maintaining male friendships without carrying the whole emotional load.Simple frameworks like “TCS” (Text, Call, See) to keep friendships alive.Why vulnerability—saying “thank you” or even “I love you, man”—is real strength, not weakness.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this raw and revelatory episode of Self-Conscious, we talk about the kind of depression that hides behind a perfect Instagram feed. High-functioning depression doesn't leave you sobbing in bed—it shows up in overachievement, relentless busyness, and emotional numbness. Chrissy sits down with psychiatrist and author Dr. Judith Joseph for a conversation that starts in the mind and ends in the body—with tears, breakthroughs, and healing. In one of the most vulnerable interviews she’s ever done, Chrissy shares a gut-wrenching admission about childhood trauma that changed the course of her life, why she doesn’t trust her own emotions, and what it’s like to raise kids while still healing herself. This isn’t just a discussion—it’s a reckoning. Together, Chrissy and Dr. Judith unpack the science, psychology, and strategies for finally naming the pain and finding your way back to joy.KEY TAKEAWAYS:Discover the difference between "Big T" and "little t" trauma—and why the small stuff that "shouldn't" hurt still does.Learn the five V's of healing: Validation, Venting, Values, Vitals, and Vision—along with real tools for daily emotional clarity.Reconnect with joy.This episode contains discussions about trauma, including sexual abuse and emotional neglect. Listener discretion is advised.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Chrissy sits down with Oliver Burkeman, author of Meditations for Mortals to explore why the obsession with “finally getting everything done” is a trap. Burkeman explains how embracing imperfection and accepting our limits can help us stop chasing control, start finishing things imperfectly, and actually live with more presence and ease. Five Key Takeaways:The Finish Line Myth: The to-do list will never be empty—your job isn’t to “catch up,” but to choose the next thing that matters.Imperf-Perfectionism: Starting and finishing something—messy or not—is better than waiting until it’s perfect.Small, Realistic Goals: Swap “do it perfectly” for “do it regularly” (like 20 minutes of writing or one load of laundry).Three Good Hours: Most of us only have three focused hours a day—use them for what matters most, and let the rest be messy.Celebrate Done, Not Perfect: Keep a “done list,” make small decisions to move forward, and see problems as part of real life—not signs of failure.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What does it really mean to live—and thrive—with ADHD in a world built for neurotypical brains? Chrissy talks with Dr. Alok Kanojia—aka Dr. K—a Harvard-trained psychiatrist, former monk, gamer, and meditation teacher, about his Audible Original 30 Days to Thrive with ADHD, where he shows listeners not just how to cope but how to turn the unique traits of ADHD into strengths that fuel resilience, creativity, and success. Five Key TakeawaysWhy ADHD is both over diagnosed and underdiagnosed, and how it can look very different in boys versus girls.The surprising truth about stimulant medication versus therapy—and why skill-building often works better long-term.How hyperfocus, impulsivity, and distraction are two sides of the same coin, and how to work with them instead of against them.Why many people struggle with self-esteem, shame, and addiction alongside ADHD, and how that shapes adult life.A practical exercise called “urge surfing” that helps you ride out cravings and impulses without giving in.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Why do we keep tripping ourselves up right when things are going well—and how do we stop? Chrissy chats with bestselling author Brianna Wiest to unpack The Mountain Is You: Transforming Self-Sabotage into Self-Mastery, reframing “self-sabotage” as a safety strategy and teaching simple, repeatable practices to build emotional resilience and move forward one small step at a time.Five Key TakeawaysSelf-sabotage = self-protection: many “bad habits” are coping strategies designed to keep us safe and comfortable.Micro-shifts beat breakthroughs: tiny, consistent changes recondition your nervous system better than all-at-once overhauls.Practice the pause: inserting even a 1–2 second gap between feeling and action is the “golden window” to choose differently.Mind your upper limit: notice when feeling good triggers an unconscious pull back to the familiar—and expand your tolerance for good.Future-self navigation: use the “highest-potential/90-year-old self” exercise to make clear, values-aligned decisions when you don’t feel ready.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Johann Hari, author of The Magic Pill, chats with Chrissy about the rise of new weight loss drugs like Ozempic and what they reveal about our culture, our food, and our bodies. Together, they explore the science, the stigma, and the deeper emotional truths around eating, health, and self-acceptance.Key TakeawaysHow weight loss drugs like Ozempic, Wegovy, and Mounjaro actually work on appetite, the gut, and the brain.Why obesity rates have skyrocketed in recent decades, and the role processed foods play in undermining our natural fullness signals.The profound psychological impacts of these drugs—from freedom from obsessive food thoughts to potential risks for eating disorders.How shame, cultural judgment, and outdated ideas about “willpower” distort the way we see weight, health, and body image.Practical tools for shifting toward body appreciation and self-compassion, including body functionality practices and loving-kindness meditation.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Chrissy sits down with spiritual writer, teacher, and wellness guide Lalah Delia to explore how energy—the invisible yet deeply felt force shaping our lives—can be understood, protected, and elevated. Delia, author of Vibrate Higher Daily and Audible Original meditations Cleanse From Your Day, Emotional Reset, and Meditation for an Empowered, Confident You, offers a clear, grounded path to identifying what drains us, what restores us, and how to intentionally tune our lives to a more empowering frequency.Chrissy opens up about her lifelong habit of saying yes when she means no, and the energetic aftermath that follows.Key Takeaways:Your body offers real-time biofeedback—tune in to how places, people, and decisions make you feel before your mind rationalizes them.The concept of “vibrating higher” is about small, daily choices that protect your nervous system and reflect your truth—not perfection or performance.Saying no is not selfish—it’s energy hygiene, and a form of spiritual self-respect.A visual “Tree of Life” exercise helps identify which relationships and habits support you (green leaves) and which ones drain you (red flags).Reframing FOMO into LOMO—Love of Missing Out—can create space for rest, peace, and authentic alignment.For more listening, check out:Cleanse From Your DayEmotional ResetMeditation for an Empowered, Confident YouVibrate Higher DailySee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What if the reason you're always overwhelmed isn’t because you’re doing life wrong—but because you’re following a plan that was never made for you? In this episode of Self-Conscious, Chrissy sits down with Kendra Adachi, bestselling author of THE PLAN: Manage Your Time Like a Lazy Genius, to dismantle the hustle, perfectionism, and guilt so many women carry when it comes to managing time, energy, and expectations.Chrissy opens up about her own internalized pressure to “do it all,” her fear of being seen as lazy, and how small acts of presence—like saying yes to her kids' invitation to play outside—can feel more meaningful than any perfect plan.Key Takeaways:Start with what matters to you right now—not a fantasy future—and build small, sustainable actions from that place.Let go of the myth of being behind: your life doesn’t need a “catch-up plan,” it needs compassion.Energy, not time, should guide how you plan your day—honor your body and your bandwidth.The five-step Lazy Genius Method (prioritize, essentialize, organize, personalize, systemize) can help you solve real problems without burning out.Small things aren’t just enough—they are the point.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Chrissy is joined by Gabby Bernstein, the New York Times bestselling author of Super Attractor, to discuss how manifestation can change your life. Gabby explains how aligning your thoughts, emotions, and energy with the universe can help you attract abundance and joy. She dives into practical tools for raising your emotional and energetic frequency to create the life you truly want. Chrissy and Gabby explore how manifestation isn't just a mystical concept but a practical tool for anyone seeking fulfillment.Super Attractor is now available on Audible and Amazon. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode, Holly Whitaker, bestselling author of Quit Like a Woman, joins Chrissy to help rethink our relationship with alcohol. Drawing from her Audible Original 30 Days to a New Relationship with Alcohol, Whitaker introduces a compassionate approach that meets listeners wherever they are on their sobriety journey—without pushing for total abstinence. Together, they dive deep into the emotional and spiritual roots of addiction, offering empowering strategies to break free from dependency and reclaim personal freedom.30 Days to a New Relationship with Alcohol is now available on Audible and Amazon.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Chrissy chats with Mel Robbins, bestselling author, podcast host and motivational speaker, to discuss her Let Them Theory, which encourages individuals to stop trying to control others and focus on their own responses. Robbins shares strategies for setting boundaries, reducing stress, and reclaiming power in relationships by letting people be who they are.The Let Them Theory is now available on Audible and Amazon.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

What if there were a blueprint for understanding your energy, your purpose, and the way you’re wired to make decisions? In this episode of Self-Conscious, Chrissy dives into the world of Human Design with Erin Claire Jones, author of How Do You Choose?. Part astrology, part personality map, Human Design blends ancient wisdom and modern science to reveal how you're built to move through the world—with more clarity, energy, and ease. Erin walks Chrissy through her own chart, uncovering why decision-making feels so fraught, why burnout happens even when you love what you do, and how knowing your ""type"" can unlock a powerful sense of permission. Key Takeaways:1. How to look up your Human Design type and what each of the five core types reveals about your energy and purpose.2. Why some people are wired to make fast, instinctive decisions—and others (like Chrissy) need time to feel into the right choice.3. The power of asking yes/no questions to access your gut instincts and avoid decision fatigue.4. How understanding your ""authority"" and ""strategy"" can help you stop second-guessing yourself and start trusting your inner signals.5. Why syncing with your natural energy cycles—rather than forcing constant output—leads to more aligned, satisfying work and relationships.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Is your relentless ambition actually a trauma response? In this emotional and eye-opening episode of Self-Conscious, Chrissy sits down with executive coach and author Amina AlTai to unpack the hidden forces that drive us to chase success — even when it’s hurting us. Amina, author of The Ambition Trap, introduces a powerful framework that helps us understand the difference between painful ambition, which is rooted in fear, people-pleasing, and inherited wounds, and purposeful ambition, which flows from alignment, joy, and self-worth.Chrissy opens up about her own relationship with ambition, shame, and comparison—and why saying no still feels like failure. This conversation will meet you where you are—and help you find your way back to yourself.In this episode, you’ll learn:How to identify the five core wounds that drive painful ambition—and the self-sabotaging patterns they create.A five-part framework to assess whether an opportunity truly aligns with your values, gifts, and needs.Why saying no isn’t a failure—it’s a form of nervous system regulation and self-respect.How to tell the difference between hustle that’s healing and hustle that’s harming you.A guided exercise to reconnect with your younger self and begin rewriting the story of what you deserve.For more listening:Get Amina AlTai’s The Ambition Trap on AudibleSubscribe to Audible for access to best-selling audiobooks, podcasts, exclusive Originals, and more.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jefferson Fisher, a Texas trial lawyer, viral communication coach, and author of The Next Conversation, joins Self-Conscious to break down how to have hard conversations without spiraling. Whether it’s with your partner, your parent, or your boss, Jefferson offers a step-by-step framework to help you speak clearly, stay grounded, and protect your relationships in the process.Chrissy brings her own real-world struggles with confrontation into the mix, making this episode feel like a vulnerable, high-impact workshop in real time.Key Takeaways:Use a three-step formula—state the topic, define the goal, and ask for buy-in—to structure any difficult conversation.Avoid triggering phrases like “we need to talk” and instead open with direct, neutral language.Practice Jefferson’s “conversational breath” to reset your nervous system before you respond.Lowering your voice in tense moments invites the other person to meet you in calm, not conflict.When things escalate, pause and ask intentional questions like “Can you say that again?” to shift the power dynamic.For more listening:Get Jefferson Fisher’s The Next ConversationSubscribe to Audible for access to best-selling audiobooks, podcasts, exclusive Originals, and more.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This week on Self-Conscious, Chrissy sits down with bestselling author Chris Guillebeau to talk about a problem that almost everyone feels—but few people know how to name: time anxiety. In his new book, of the same name, Guillebeau explores the emotional side of our relationship with time—why we constantly feel behind, guilty for resting, and stressed by the pressure to make every second count. This conversation will help you reclaim your time—not by doing more, but by thinking about it differently.KEY TAKEAWAYSWhat time anxiety is and why it affects so many of usHow to spot your own “internal time rules”Why productivity culture leaves us feeling emptySee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In a deeply vulnerable conversation with therapist and KC Davis, author of Who Deserves Your Love, Chrissy opens up about the emotional complexity of her relationship with her mom: the years of silence, the heartbreaking attempts to reconnect, and the weight of carrying unmet needs into adulthood. It's not about blame—it’s about honesty, grief, and the quiet hope that healing might still be possible.Together, Chrissy and KC explore what it means to love someone who can’t always love you back the way you need - and how to stop losing yourself in the process. Key Takeaways- How to tell the difference between a hard relationship and an unsafe one- What real boundaries look like—and why they’re not about control- Why “being the good daughter” sometimes means betraying yourself- How to grieve the parent you wish you had while still showing up for the one you do- Simple tools to regulate your nervous system in the middle of emotional overwhelmSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

On this wildly relatable episode of Self-Conscious, clinical psychologist and Good Inside author Dr. Becky Kennedy sits down with Chrissy to talk about what parenting really demands of us—not just as moms and dads, but as humans still healing ourselves.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Daniel Pink challenges conventional wisdom around regret, explaining why it can be a powerful force for personal growth. Drawing on insights from his book The Power of Regret, Pink explains how confronting and understanding our regrets can lead to better decision-making and a more fulfilling life. Chrissy and Daniel discuss how to transform regret from a source of pain into a tool for improvement.The Power of Regret is now available on Audible and Amazon. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Chrissy is joined by Gabby Bernstein, the New York Times bestselling author of Super Attractor, to discuss how manifestation can change your life. Gabby explains how aligning your thoughts, emotions, and energy with the universe can help you attract abundance and joy. She dives into practical tools for raising your emotional and energetic frequency to create the life you truly want. Chrissy and Gabby explore how manifestation isn't just a mystical concept but a practical tool for anyone seeking fulfillment.Super Attractor is now available on Audible and Amazon. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Chrissy meets Joseph Nguyen, author of Don’t Believe Everything You Think, to explore how our thoughts shape our reality. Nguyen shares practical techniques to break free from limiting beliefs and mental traps, helping listeners cultivate mental clarity and inner peace.Don't Believe Everything You Think is now available on Audible and Amazon.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sex educator Emily Nagoski joins Chrissy to discuss the complexities of long-term intimacy, drawn from her book Come Together. Emily reveals that the secret to sustaining a healthy sexual relationship isn’t about frequency but about sexual satisfaction. She emphasizes how pleasure, not frequency, should be the focus in relationships. Chrissy and Emily explore how couples can reconnect and foster a deeper intimacy by focusing on what truly matters—authentic pleasure and connection.Come Together is now available on Audible and Amazon. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Astrologist Valerie Tejeda joins Chrissy to discuss how astrology can help individuals find happiness in her Audible Original Happiness By the Signs. Tejeda blends astrological wisdom with practical advice, guiding listeners to discover personalized pathways to joy and emotional well-being based on their zodiac signs.Happiness by the Signs is now available on Audible and Amazon.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode, Holly Whitaker, bestselling author of Quit Like a Woman, joins Chrissy to help rethink our relationship with alcohol. Drawing from her Audible Original 30 Days to a New Relationship with Alcohol, Whitaker introduces a compassionate approach that meets listeners wherever they are on their sobriety journey—without pushing for total abstinence. Together, they dive deep into the emotional and spiritual roots of addiction, offering empowering strategies to break free from dependency and reclaim personal freedom.30 Days to a New Relationship with Alcohol is now available on Audible and Amazon.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Chrissy is joined by Rachel Rodgers, the entrepreneur and bestselling author of We Should All Be Millionaires, about the steps to financial empowerment. Rachel offers practical advice from her Audible Original Plan Your Year Like a Millionaire, teaching listeners how to set goals, manage time, and adopt a wealth-building mindset. Rodgers also highlights the importance of overcoming systemic barriers to financial success, especially for marginalized communities.Plan Your Year Like a Millionaire is now available on Audible and Amazon.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dr. Peter Attia, longevity expert and author of the bestselling Outlive, joins Chrissy to discuss how to live not just longer but better. Attia explains how we can extend our "health span"—the years we remain healthy and active— by adopting proactive strategies around exercise, nutrition, sleep, and emotional well-being. Chrissy and Peter explore how personalized, preventative care can revolutionize the way we age.Outlive is now available on Audible and Amazon.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Journalist and author Michael Easter joins Chrissy to discuss how embracing discomfort can improve your physical, mental, and spiritual health. In his Audible Original, Embrace Discomfort, Easter challenges modern convenience and explores how practices like fasting, exercise, and facing fears can help us grow stronger and more resilient.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Breathwork expert Eddie Stern joins Chrissy to discuss the transformative power of breath in his Audible Original Healing Through Breathing. Drawing from ancient traditions and modern science, Stern explains how controlled breathing techniques can reduce stress, improve mental clarity, and enhance overall well-being. Chrissy and Eddie guide listeners through simple yet powerful breathing exercises that can be easily integrated into daily life.Healing Through Breathing is now available on Audible and Amazon. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist Charles Duhigg joins Chrissy to break down the art of communication in his book Super Communicators. In a world where effective communication is key, Duhigg shares insights on how anyone can improve their conversation skills and build stronger connections. From active listening to asking deep questions, Duhigg reveals strategies for becoming a better communicator in any setting—whether at work or in personal relationships.Supercommunicators is now available on Audible and Amazon.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Productivity expert Chris Bailey sits down with Chrissy to share how meditation can improve focus and productivity. Drawing from his Audible Original How to Train Your Mind, Bailey explains how meditation can detox the brain from constant distractions, helping us work smarter and achieve more in less time while Chrissy and Bailey discuss practical ways to incorporate meditation into daily routines.How to Train Your Mind is now available on Audible and Amazon.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Bestselling author and podcast phenomenon Glennon Doyle joins Chrissy to share her journey of self-discovery and empowerment, as detailed in her memoir Untamed. Doyle discusses breaking free from societal expectations, setting boundaries, and reclaiming her authentic self. Chrissy and Glennon explore how women can trust their inner voices and rewrite their life’s narrative. Doyle is also the author of several other books including We Can Do Hard Things: Answers to Life's 20 Questions, releasing May 2025.Untamed is now available on Audible and Amazon. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Bestselling author, therapist and popular wellness expert Nedra Glover Tawwab joins Chrissy to explore the art of setting healthy boundaries. Based on her Audible Original 30 Days to Better Boundaries, Nedra offers practical daily exercises to help listeners establish limits, prevent burnout, and improve relationships; teaching Chrissy that she is allowed to set boundaries for herself and have the space and peace of mind she desires.30 Days to Better Boundaries is now available on Audible and Amazon. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Chrissy welcomes Dr. Matthew Walker, the renowned University of California Berkeley neuroscientist and sleep expert, to explore the science of sleep. In this episode, Dr. Walker shares critical insights from his groundbreaking book Why We Sleep. He explains why sleep is not just a state of rest but an essential function that affects every aspect of our mental, physical, and emotional health. Walker reveals how prioritizing sleep can boost memory, mood, and overall well-being, offering actionable tips for improving sleep quality.Why We Sleep is now available on Audible and Amazon.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Chrissy meets Adam Grant, University of Pennsylvania organizational psychologist and bestselling author of Hidden Potential, about unlocking the potential in all of us. Grant challenges the myth that success is only for the naturally gifted, showing that anyone can cultivate greatness through persistence, mentorship, and opportunity. Together, Chrissy and Adam discuss how to harness your potential and push beyond limitations to achieve greater things in life.Hidden Potential is now available on Audible and Amazon.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Chrissy chats with Mel Robbins, bestselling author, podcast host and motivational speaker, to discuss her Let Them Theory, which encourages individuals to stop trying to control others and focus on their own responses. Robbins shares strategies for setting boundaries, reducing stress, and reclaiming power in relationships by letting people be who they are.The Let Them Theory is now available on Audible and Amazon.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Illuminating conversation. Bold introspection. A safe space where the twists and turns of personal growth are embraced and shared openly, one conversation at a timeJoin inquisitive host Chrissy Teigen in her new well-being podcast from Audible as she explores the cutting edge of personal development with some of the world's leading experts and thinkers. Featuring authors of groundbreaking Audible Originals, exclusives, and bestselling audiobooks, Self-Conscious with Chrissy Teigen provides an inspiring and engaging environment for listeners to expand their self-awareness and gain the insights and practical tools they need to lead healthier, happier, and more productive lives.Each week, Chrissy dives deep with her guests, who span a wide range of expertise and lived experience. Demystify the concept of manifestation with Gabby Bernstein, tap into your hidden potential with Adam Grant, grasp Nedra Glover Tawwab's profound lessons on boundary setting, and understand the freeing power of Mel Robbins’ call to let go of what others think of you as each conversation introduces bold concepts and ushers in new ways of understanding ourselves. Whether you're new to the world of well-being or a lifelong traveler, Self-Conscious with Chrissy Teigen is the must-listen next stop on your journey.Listen to Self-Conscious with Chrissy Teigen on Audible and explore thousands of titles including bestsellers, new releases, podcasts, and exclusive Audible Originals.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.