#270 - Mindset Monday: Questions Men Secretly Ask
#270 - Mindset Monday: Questions Men Secretly Ask  
Podcast: Till The Wheels Fall Off
Published On: Mon Dec 01 2025
Description: Have an episode suggestion? Text us!In this Mindset Monday, Matt sits down with the questions men usually ask in private. These are the messages he gets from guys in crisis who are trying to get sober, repair their marriage, and figure out what it actually means to be a good man.We'll go rapid fire through questions like: • “Why do I have to be the one to change first?” • “If I am sober, why is she still angry?” • “How long is she supposed to stay mad after I apologized?” • “Why do I feel like the bad guy even when I am trying?” • “Do I get to have needs too, or is it all about her healing?” • “How much of her triggers are my responsibility?” • “What is the difference between her boundary and her controlling me?” • “Why does everything still get blamed on my addiction, even when I am sober?”   • “Why does she shut down about sex?”Matt shares the mindset shifts that helped him get and stay sober for nearly 13 years, rebuild his marriage, become a better father, and stop seeing himself as the victim of his own past. If you are a man who is trying to change, or a partner who wants to understand what might be going on in his head, this one will give you language, perspective, and a challenge to rise to.Find video clips and full length video from this episode on YouTube and our other social media pages!On the web:www.twfo.comSupport the Show:Buy Us a Coffee!Online Program: www.independentlystrong.comSoberlink Device:www.soberlink.com/wheelsCheck out our blog:https://twfo.com/blogFollow us on TikTok:https://tiktok.com/@twfo_coupleFollow us on Instagram:https://instagram.com/twfo_couple/Follow us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/TWFOCoupleFollow us on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@twfo_coupleFind Taylor Counseling Group:https://taylorcounselinggroup.com/Donate to Counseling for the Future Foundation:Donate Here