Why Transitions Break Us and Heal Us | Kari Cardinale
Why Transitions Break Us and Heal Us | Kari Cardinale  
Podcast: The Midlife Chrysalis
Published On: Mon Dec 29 2025
Description: Midlife can feel confusing, even when life looks good from the outside. Careers change, relationships shift, and the way we see ourselves starts to evolve, leaving many people feeling stuck in between what was and what’s next.In this episode, Kari Cardinale, Chief Content Officer and partner at Modern Elder Academy, explains why these moments aren’t breakdowns but transitions, and why learning to navigate them is an essential life skill. Through her work on Transitional Intelligence, Kari shares what’s really happening during midlife change and how to move through it with greater clarity and confidence.You’ll learn:• Why most midlife “crises” are actually misunderstood transitions• The three stages of change: endings, the messy middle, and new beginnings• Why the messy middle feels so hard — and why it matters• How rituals, community, and small “glimmers” guide what comes next If you’re feeling stuck or sensing a shift in your life, this episode will help you understand where you are and how to move forward.👉 Navigating Transitions online course from Modern Elder Academy offers a supportive, step-by-step way to work through change with clarity and confidence, starting March 2: https://www.meawisdom.com/navigating-transitions-online/Timestamps:01:20 What is transitional intelligence03:58 The three stages of transition06:02 Voluntary and involuntary change08:02 Why transitions take longer than we expect11:50 The role of ritual in midlife15:54 The messy middle and uncertainty17:53 Glimmers and new beginnings21:44 Growth mindset in midlife24:28 Kari’s personal transition story28:37 The birth of Modern Elder Academy31:36 Love and relationships in midlife34:48 What truly gets better with age37:23 Building community and belonging42:31 Wisdom bumper sticker Learn more about MEA at ⁠https://www.meawisdom.com/#KariCardinale #MidlifeTransitions #MidlifeChange #MessyMiddle #LifeTransitions #PersonalGrowth #MidlifeWisdom #ModernElder #TransitionalIntelligence #EmotionalIntelligence #MidlifePurpose #NewBeginnings #GrowthMindset #MidlifeJourney #InnerWork