Men in the Arena - Christian Men's Podcast
Men in the Arena - Christian Men's Podcast

The Men in the Arena podcast equips Christian men in the stress bubble of life: married, with kids, building your career and trying to follow God while leading your family well. We'll help you become your best version, equipping you to honor God in your marriage, parenting, work, church and community! Tuesday's podcast is Equipping Men in Ten - a ten-minute, laser-focused teaching from Jim Ramos to help you become your best version of a man. Friday's podcast is a high-octane interview with an expert in the realm of masculinity and Christian manhood, with authors like John Eldredge, Gary Chapman, Gene Getz, Patrick Morley, and Emerson Eggerichs. Jim reads their books and boils down their teachings into a powerful interview to help you learn from their expertise. Your host is bestselling author and speaker Jim Ramos. Jim has authored 9 books, including the bestseller 'Strong Men Dangerous Times: 5 Essentials Every Man Must Possess to Change His World', 'Tell Them: What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters', 'The Field Guide: A Bathroom Book for Men', and the 5-book Strong Men Study Guide men's small group curriculum. Jim's high-energy storytelling and conviction will call you out, build you up, and motivate you to become the man you've always known you could be. The Men in the Arena are calling you into the Arena of manhood. We're calling you out of the faceless, nameless bleachers, and calling you UP to be the best version of you. Because when a man gets it, everyone wins.

Every marriage has defining moments and those sudden realizations can change how you see your spouse, your relationship, and yourself. In this week's expert interview, Jim Ramos talks to bestselling author and marriage expert Emerson Eggerichs.   Emerson shares powerful "lightbulb moments"  and unpacks key shifts in perspective that can strengthen communication and change the direction of your marriage for years to come.   Check out Emerson's new book: 'Lightbulb Moments' ! (tinyurl.com/lightbulb115)   Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage Before It's Too Late. Has Men in the Arena helped you make a change in your life, small or large? We want to hear your impact story! You can start a ministry to father the fatherless in your church! Learn how with our sponsor, Kids Outdoor Zone at https://kidsoutdoorzone.com/arena.
It's (RE)quipping Wednesday! This is a reboot of a past Equipping Men in Ten episode, EP #681 Ever feel like your prayers aren't doing anything? Do you wonder if you're praying the wrong way, or for the wrong things? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos teaches you the prayer method that he credits with growing Men in the Arena from 15 men in a coffee shop to impacting millions of men worldwide: the 5 "P's" of EFFECTIVE prayer. Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage Before It's Too Late. Has Men in the Arena helped you make a change in your life, small or large? We want to hear your impact story! You can start a ministry to father the fatherless in your church! Learn how with our sponsor, Kids Outdoor Zone at https://kidsoutdoorzone.com/arena.
When your adult child walks away from the faith, the heartbreak can be real. So how do you stay connected and continue pointing them toward Jesus without pushing them further away? In this 'Average Joe' conversation, Jim Ramos talks with good friend Kurt Stone. They share practical wisdom and biblical encouragement for parents navigating this difficult season. Learn how to build bridges and faithfully minister to your child while trusting God with the outcome. Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage Before It's Too Late. Has Men in the Arena helped you make a change in your life, small or large? We want to hear your impact story! You can start a ministry to father the fatherless in your church! Learn how with our sponsor, Kids Outdoor Zone at https://kidsoutdoorzone.com/arena.
The world doesn't need more passive men. Jim Ramos delivers a passionate message titled 'To Stand' at the 2026 Man Camp at Washington Family Ranch.  'To Stand' means when it's costly and unpopular.  God is calling men to courage, conviction, and action. This message will challenge you to stop sitting on the sidelines and start living boldly for Christ. Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage Before It's Too Late. Has Men in the Arena helped you make a change in your life, small or large? We want to hear your impact story! You can start a ministry to father the fatherless in your church! Learn how with our sponsor, Kids Outdoor Zone at https://kidsoutdoorzone.com/arena.
It's (RE)quipping Wednesday! This is a reboot of a past Equipping Men in Ten episode, EP #689. Think you're TOUGH? Don't be so sure. There are four areas of toughness, one in which even 80% of Navy Seals are statistically weak. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, author and pastor Jim Ramos outlines the four M's of toughness and helps you determine if there's an area you need to get tough. Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage Before It's Too Late. Has Men in the Arena helped you make a change in your life, small or large? We want to hear your impact story! You can start a ministry to father the fatherless in your church! Learn how with our sponsor, Kids Outdoor Zone at https://kidsoutdoorzone.com/arena.
Almost 100 years ago, a study uncovered a pattern shared by every collapsing civilization: sexual chaos always came first. In this weeks Equipping Men in Ten, Jim Ramos takes a look at the connection between strong societies and men who live with sexual discipline and faithfulness. The Bible's warnings about lust, adultery, and self-control weren't random rules. They were instructions for human flourishing. Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage Before It's Too Late. Has Men in the Arena helped you make a change in your life, small or large? We want to hear your impact story! You can start a ministry to father the fatherless in your church! Learn how with our sponsor, Kids Outdoor Zone at https://kidsoutdoorzone.com/arena.
NFL success can ruin a weak marriage. NFL star and 49er Hall of Famer Brent Jones realized that early. In this intimate episode, Brent and his wife Dana open up about the intentional guardrails, habits, and convictions that helped protect their marriage through the pressure of professional football, and everyday challenges at home. It's the small decisions that shape a strong marriage over time. You'll hear practical wisdom from a couple who fought for connection long before the spotlight ever showed up. Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage Before It's Too Late. Has Men in the Arena helped you make a change in your life, small or large? We want to hear your impact story! You can start a ministry to father the fatherless in your church! Learn how with our sponsor, Kids Outdoor Zone at https://kidsoutdoorzone.com/arena.
It's (RE)quipping Wednesday! This is a reboot of a past Equipping Men in Ten episode, EP #650. If you're listening to this podcast, you're probably a pretty good dad. But there are 5 common mistakes that even GOOD dads make. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos describes the five types of mistaken dad he's seen over and over again in 30 years of ministry, and helps you course-correct if you've fallen into one of the "good Christian dad" errors. Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage Before It's Too Late. Has Men in the Arena helped you make a change in your life, small or large? We want to hear your impact story! You can start a ministry to father the fatherless in your church! Learn how with our sponsor, Kids Outdoor Zone at https://kidsoutdoorzone.com/arena.
What does God actually do in the life of a man? How does He shape us?  In this weeks Equipping Men in Ten, Jim Ramos dives into the theology of manhood and the process God uses to transform men into the likeness of Christ. Not only will you get the practical steps every man must walk through but you can identify where you are in this journey.  Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage Before It's Too Late. Has Men in the Arena helped you make a change in your life, small or large? We want to hear your impact story! You can start a ministry to father the fatherless in your church! Learn how with our sponsor, Kids Outdoor Zone at https://kidsoutdoorzone.com/arena.
Men were built for challenge. From work to competition to everyday life, men come alive when they're pushed to the wall. In this week's message, Jim Ramos unpacks why God wired men this way — and how embracing challenge can make you a stronger husband, better father, and a more dangerous man for good. Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage Before It's Too Late. Has Men in the Arena helped you make a change in your life, small or large? We want to hear your impact story! You can start a ministry to father the fatherless in your church! Learn how with our sponsor, Kids Outdoor Zone at https://kidsoutdoorzone.com/arena.
It's (RE)quipping Wednesday! This is a reboot of a past Equipping Men in Ten episode, EP #644. Men, who do you prioritize in your family? Who is the most important person in your world? Your wife? Your kids? You mother? Does this change if you've been remarried and have kids from your first marriage? In today's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos walks you through what the Bible teaches about where you family priorities should lie, and what it means for your family, step-family, wife (1st, 2nd, or 3rd), and kids. Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage Before It's Too Late. You can start a ministry to father the fatherless in your church! Learn how with our sponsor, Kids Outdoor Zone at https://kidsoutdoorzone.com/arena.
Most marriages don't fall apart overnight — they drift apart quietly. In this weeks Equipping Men in Ten, Jim Ramos breaks down 6 simple but powerful questions every couple should be asking regularly to stay connected, avoid resentment, and stop getting blindsided when things go wrong. If you want a healthier, stronger marriage, start here. This teaching is inspired by our friend Chris Herb from couplesmarriageministry.org Listen to his full interview here!  Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage Before It's Too Late. (https://tinyurl.com/7Guardrails) You can start a ministry to father the fatherless in your church! Learn how with our sponsor, Kids Outdoor Zone at https://kidsoutdoorzone.com/arena.
Your happiness will always fall short if you're chasing the wrong thing. In this week's expert interview, Jim Ramos talks to Tim Ross, author of the book The Missing Peace: How to Be Held Together When You're Falling Apart. Tim talks about the hidden wounds men carry, the pride that keeps us silent, and where healing starts. Check out Tim Ross's book 'The Missing Peace'! (https://tinyurl.com/peace115) Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage Before It's Too Late. (https://tinyurl.com/7Guardrails) You can start a ministry to father the fatherless in your church! Learn how with our sponsor, Kids Outdoor Zone at https://kidsoutdoorzone.com/arena.
It's (RE)quipping Wednesday! This is a reboot of a past Equipping Men in Ten episode, EP #617. You know you SHOULD pray, but do you have trouble blocking out consistent time for prayer? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos shares 5 time-tested, simple ways for you to become a man of prayer. Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage Before It's Too Late. You can start a ministry to father the fatherless in your church! Learn how with our sponsor, Kids Outdoor Zone at https://kidsoutdoorzone.com/arena.
In this 'Average Joe' conversation, Jim Ramos talks with good friend Chris Robinson, who shares how his life changed when he surrendered fully to God's call. They discuss how you can find freedom, joy, and a deeper purpose through Jesus Christ. Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage Before It's Too Late. You can start a ministry to father the fatherless in your church! Learn how with our sponsor, Kids Outdoor Zone at https://kidsoutdoorzone.com/arena.
In this special episode, we look back at Jim's top moments from over 1,000 episodes. From the early  audio-only days to the more recent video shows, we revisit the amazing journey it's been.  God's been faithful every step of the way, keeping  Men in the Arena  standing strong at 1,000 episodes. Check out the full interviews here! James Ramos, Darby Ramos, Colton Ramos Wild Awakening: How a Raging Grizzly Healed My Wounded Heart w/ Greg Matthews EP 305 How to Connect with Your Daughter: 15 Tools for Girl Dads - Part 1 w/ Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield EP 633 Great Husbands Do Radical Things w/ Regi Campbell EP 362 Forgiving the Unforgivable: 7 Steps to Overcome Your Bitterness and Find Freedom w/ Bruce Hebel EP 586 Living the Best Version of Your Marriage w/ Don Minter EP 178 Taming Your Thoughts w/ Max Lucado: 3 Practical Tools to Combat Negative Thinking from a Giant of the Faith EP 890 Is Your Wife Crazy? Love and Respect w/ Emerson Eggerichs EP 203 1 Hour to Fix Your Marriage w/ Drs. Paul and Virginia Friesen EP  736 Overcoming the Invisible Marriage-Killer: How to Fix the Elephant in Your Marriage w/ Jason Karampatsos EP 626   11. BONUS: Quit or Finish Strong? The ONE Deciding Factor EP 612 Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage Before It's Too Late. (https://tinyurl.com/7Guardrails) You can start a ministry to father the fatherless in your church! Learn how with our sponsor, Kids Outdoor Zone at https://kidsoutdoorzone.com/arena.
It's (RE)quipping Wednesday! This is a reboot of a past Equipping Men in Ten episode, EP #749. Are you REALLY saved? Is the prayer you said in middle school enough to get you to heaven? How can you know FOR SURE that you're saved? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos teaches you what the Bible says about how to know if your salvation is for real. Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage Before It's Too Late. You can start a ministry to father the fatherless in your church! Learn how with our sponsor, Kids Outdoor Zone at https://kidsoutdoorzone.com/arena.
Our wives can teach us a lot. Don't let pride block it. In today's Equipping Men in Ten, Jim shares five lessons from years of marriage. Simple truths and hard-earned insight. Your wife sees what you miss. She brings clarity, wisdom, and perspective that shape a stronger life.  Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage Before It's Too Late. (https://tinyurl.com/7Guardrails) You can start a ministry to father the fatherless in your church! Learn how with our sponsor, Kids Outdoor Zone at https://kidsoutdoorzone.com/arena.
Is marriage harder than you expected? Shouldn't love make marriage easy? In this week's expert interview, Jim Ramos is joined by Michelle Lentz, author of the book Hey Beginner Wife, to compare notes about what they would tell their younger, newly-married selves. Michelle reminds us that every husband and wife starts as a beginner. This episode will provides practical advice for how you, the beginner husband, can better understand your beginner wife. Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage Before It's Too Late.
What would you tell your younger self? Are you making decisions today that will matter tomorrow? In this Equipping Men in Ten episode Jim Ramos shares the hard-earned wisdom that only comes from decades of walking with God, leading others, winning battles, and learning from mistakes. Whether you're 18 and just starting out, or 50 and recalibrating for the road ahead, this conversation will challenge you to think deeper, live wiser, and lead stronger.  Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage released in April 2026. Order your copy today at https://tinyurl.com/guardrails115.
When was the last time someone sharpened you? Even if you've followed Christ for decades, you're not above needing a reset. In this powerful episode, Jim sits down with Gary McCusker, the man who led Jim to the Lord. Gary steps back into his life to share some hard earned wisdom and the kind of encouragement every man needs but rarely gets. Because the truth is, your legacy is being written right now. You don't want to just drift across the finish line, you want to charge through it with purpose! Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage released in April 2026. Get your copy today at https://tinyurl.com/guardrails115.
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 992 - Why Self-Improvement is Making You Worse w/ Ryan Wekenman: Escaping the Most Dangerous Lie Christians Borrowed from Culture  Check it out! Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage released in April 2026. Get your copy today at https://tinyurl.com/guardrails115.
When God speaks, do you act or hesitate? Do you obey God or negotiate with Him? In this Equipping Men in Ten episode, Jim Ramos shares 5 leadership tests Jesus gave Peter in Luke 5. We examine 5 pointed tests that Peter had to pass before he could really step into the leader and man he was called to be. If you're serious about becoming the leader of your family, this episode is for you. Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage released in April 2026. Order your copy today at https://tinyurl.com/guardrails115.
Self-Help? Self-Improvement? Self-Image? More like self-righteousness! Even well-intentioned Christian men can slide into a self-centered mentality that focuses on improvement in your own strength. In this week's expert interview, Jim Ramos is joined by bestselling author Ryan Wekenman to help you learn practical ways to combat the "me-first" mentality that is leaking even into Christian circles. It's time to uproot the obsession with self-improvement, self-image, and self-righteousness and put God back in the center of your life. Check out Ryan's new book 'Free Me From Me' (https://tinyurl.com/FreeMe115) Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage released in April 2026. Order your copy today at https://tinyurl.com/guardrails115.
What kind of walls are you building around your family? Are they strong enough to protect what matters most, or are there cracks forming?  In this special series of 'Average Joe' conversations, Jim Ramos closes it out with long time friend Tyler Stoller, a professional in building fortification, to bring this metaphor to life. Together, they unpack what it really means to fortify your house, not just physically, but spiritually, emotionally, and relationally.  Because the truth is, protection isn't passive. If you're not intentionally guarding the hearts in your life, distractions, temptations, and outside noise will find a way in. Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Get your copy today at https://tinyurl.com/guardrails115.
Why do so many believers stop when they reach Revelation? What are we missing by not talking about the Second Coming? In this expert interview, Jim Ramos dives into this topic with New York Times bestselling author John Bevere to unpack his latest book, The King is Coming. He challenges a common blind spot in the Church: we read the Bible but often stop short of fully engaging with what it says about the end times and Christ's return. John addresses why teaching on the Second Coming has been largely absent from the pulpit and what it means for believers today. If you've ever felt unsure, confused, or even uninterested in end-times teaching, this episode will reframe everything. Check out John's book 'The King is Coming' (https://tinyurl.com/Coming115 ) Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage released in April 2026. Get your copy today at https://tinyurl.com/guardrails115.
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 987 The Gifting Trap: Lessons from the Queen of Sheba and Not-So-Wise Solomon – Message at the MAG  Check it out! Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage released in April 2026. Get your copy today at https://tinyurl.com/guardrails115.
Could your generosity be misunderstood? Are you unknowingly opening a door that leads to temptation, for you or for someone else? In this special series of 'Average Joe' conversations, Jim Ramos sits down with Mike Stepper to tackle a subtle but powerful issue: how you give gifts matters more than you think. You never truly know where someone of the opposite sex is emotionally or relationally and a personal gift given "from you" alone can create connection, confusion, or even temptation. We break down a simple but critical shift: send gifts from "us," not "me." Small change. Big protection.  Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Get your copy today at https://tinyurl.com/guardrails115.
Does the way you compliment, give gifts, and make someone feel cross a line? Are your words building your marriage—or quietly putting it at risk? In this week's message, Jim Ramos takes a look at an interesting story in King Solomon's life.  Are your words or gifts building up your marriage…or quietly opening doors you never meant to open? Using the story of King Solomon and the Queen of Sheba, we unpack how unchecked affirmation, attention, and access can lead to compromised boundaries and unintended consequences.  Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Pre-order your copy today at https://tinyurl.com/guardrails115.
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 983 An Olympic Gold Medalist's Guide to Grit w/ Danny O'Shea Check it out! Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Pre-order your copy today at https://tinyurl.com/guardrails115.
Why are men so easily drawn to the female form? When does attraction turn into distraction—or even idolatry? In this special series of 'Average Joe' conversations, Jim Ramos sits down with Barry Myers to have a conversation the Church often avoids: men's tendency to elevate the female body to a place it was never meant to hold. Left unchecked, it can quietly shape our thoughts, habits, and choices even pulling us away from God and from the wives we're called to love and protect.  Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Pre-order your copy today at https://tinyurl.com/guardrails115.
Do your words carry more weight than you think? Are you unintentionally creating emotional connections you never meant to start? In this special series of 'Average Joe' conversations, Jim Ramos sits down with dear friend and Pastor John Palacios as they tackle an often overlooked truth: your words have power over the opposite sex. The way you notice, affirm, and make someone feel can open doors whether you intend to or not. Too many men speak carelessly, not realizing how their words can spark emotional responses that lead to situations they're not prepared for. Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Pre-order your copy today at https://tinyurl.com/guardrails115.
What does it take to endure heartbreak, injuries, and years of near-misses—and still rise to Olympic gold? In this expert interview, Jim Ramos talks with Olympic figure skater Danny O'Shea and he opens up about the long, gritty road to the top. He pulls back the curtain on multiple Olympic cycles filled with partner changes, financial sacrifice, and brutal setbacks—including a concussion, torn bicep, sports hernia, and even skating on a broken foot to help secure U.S. Olympic qualification spots. If you're facing setbacks, chasing a dream, or trying to stay the course when it gets hard, this episode will challenge and inspire you.
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 980 Man's Dominion Mandate: What Does 'Dominion' in Genesis 1:28 Actually Mean? w/ Tristan Johnson Check it out! Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Pre-order your copy today at https://tinyurl.com/guardrails115.
How do you keep your marriage alive when life gets busy and you're stuck in the stress bubble? And what does it look like to give your wife the emotional attention she actually deserves? In this special series of 'Average Joe' conversations, Jim Ramos sits down with Mark McDonnell and has an open conversation about flirting with purpose in marriage. Instead of letting your attention drift toward other women, they challenge men to direct their energy, playfulness, and emotional connection back toward their wives, where it belongs. Whether you've been married for two years or twenty, it's easy to disengage and start looking for affirmation elsewhere. Healthy marriages are built when husbands stay intentional, present, and engaged with the woman they promised their lives to. Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Pre-order your copy today at https://tinyurl.com/guardrails115.
How should men understand leadership, responsibility, the call to dominion, and who is guiding the next generation of men? Pastor Jim Ramos sits down with Tristan Johnson, founder of Elite Men. Tristan shares his journey from chasing professional football dreams to launching a men's ministry in 2007 focused on enriching lives into eternity. They discuss the dominion mandate God gives men and explain how biblical dominion is not about power but about servant leadership in marriage, family, and everyday life.  Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Pre-order your copy today at https://tinyurl.com/guardrails115.
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 977 The Hidden Trap You Might Be Setting for Your Kids: Skandalon - Message at the MAG Check it out! Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Pre-order your copy today at https://tinyurl.com/guardrails115.
How do you maintain integrity when your ministry requires counseling people—often one-on-one? In this special series of 'Average Joe' conversations, Jim Ramos sits down with retired pastor but current ministry leader Wes Smith.  From nearly 80 years of combined ministry experience, they discuss the practical guardrails they've put in place to protect their marriages, their reputations, and the people they serve. This conversation offers practical insight for staying above reproach while still caring for people well. Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Pre-order your copy today at https://tinyurl.com/guardrails115.
Jesus' message is direct: stumbling blocks will arise. But woe to the man who is one. What if you are a stumbling block? In this week's message, Jim Ramos takes a hard look at Jesus' warning in Luke 17:1–3 and Matthew 18 about "stumbling blocks." Jim unpacks how a man's refusal to live by God's design can become the very trigger that wounds families and children. Men, don't set the trap. Clear the path. This message is from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men in McMinnville, Oregon.  Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Pre-order your copy today at https://tinyurl.com/guardrails115.
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 974 with Jonathan Stephenson: Forging Stronger Men Check it out! Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Pre-order your copy today at https://tinyurl.com/guardrails115.
How do you speak about your wife when she's not in the room? Do you honor her — or subtly tear her down?  In this special series of 'Average Joe' conversations, Jim Ramos sits down with longtime friend Dean Yoder to discuss one of the silent killers of marriage: how we frame our spouse. The words you use shape your heart, and when you frame your wife poorly to others, you don't just damage her reputation…You weaken your own foundation. Men, your words matter. The frame you build around your wife will either guard your marriage…or expose it. Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Pre-order your copy today at https://tinyurl.com/guardrails115.
What's forging your character right now? Are you avoiding pressure — or embracing it? This week, Pastor Jim Ramos sits down with Jonathan Stephenson from Warrior Forge Foundation to talk about how adversity shapes a man. Comfort never forged strength. Pressure does. Resistance does. This episode will challenge you to embrace the grind and become the man adversity is trying to build. Mention Men in the Arena for a 25% discount at /www.warriorforge.org. Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Pre-order your copy today at https://tinyurl.com/guardrails115.
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 971 with Brian Smith & Ed Uszynski: Youth Sports Boundaries for Christian Families Check it out! Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Pre-order your copy today at https://tinyurl.com/guardrails115. Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Are you emotionally connected to your wife, or slowly drifting? Are you controlling the temperature of your marriage, or ignoring it? In this special series of 'Average Joe' conversations, Jim Ramos sits down with friend Chris Clay for an extremely practical conversation about building guardrails that protect both your character and your marriage. Drawing from the third guardrail in Jim's upcoming book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage, they discuss what it means to avoid developing an emotional connection with another women, and how to stay emotionally connected to your bride. Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Pre-order your copy today at https://tinyurl.com/guardrails115.
Have youth sports become the center of your family? Are Sundays on the field replacing Sundays with Jesus? In this expert interview, Jim Ramos talks with Brian Smith and Ed Uszynski to expose the truth about today's $40 billion youth sports machine...and how Christian parents are getting pulled into it without even realizing it. Tips from their book Away Game: A Christian Parent's Guide to Navigating Youth Sports will help your family find a healthy balance. Sports can either build your kids and family, or they can burn them out - which one depends on you.  You can pick up Brian and ED's book here! (tinyurl.com/youthsports115) Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Pre-order your copy today at https://tinyurl.com/guardrails115.
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 968, Rick Reynolds: He/She Cheated! Can We Save the Marriage? Affair Recovery with an 84% Success Rate Check it out! Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Pre-order your copy today at https://tinyurl.com/guardrails115.
Are you getting a little too personal with someone who isn't your wife? Emotional affairs don't explode overnight—they bleed out slowly, one conversation at a time. In this special series of 'Average Joe' conversations, Jim Ramos sits down with friend Paco Arenas for an extremely practical conversation about building guardrails that protect both your character and your marriage. Drawing from Jim's upcoming book, Guardrails: 10 Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage, they unpack real-life stories and wisdom from decades of marriage to set clear boundaries every man needs to pursue.  Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Pre-order your copy today at https://tinyurl.com/guardrails115.
Whether you blew it or your wife did, trust is shattered in your marriage. But there is hope! Infidelity doesn't have to mean the end of your marriage. It can actually be the beginning of something new and healthier. In this expert interview, Jim Ramos talks with Rick Reynolds, an affair recovery expert and marriage therapist, who knows the battlefield firsthand. From surviving his own failure, to helping couples rebuild from betrayal, Rick breaks down the brutal reality of infidelity, how to start the hard road back, and provides the hope you're looking for.  Take the Affair Analyzer at affairrecovery.com to get custom next steps for your affair type, and if you sign up for a course or resources, tell them Men in the Arena sent you! Here are the books/resources mentioned in this episode!  The Myth of the Greener Grass (https://tinyurl.com/Greener115) by J. Allan Petersen Run Baby Run (https://tinyurl.com/Run115) by Nicky Cruz Preorder Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage at https://tinyurl.com/guardrails115
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 965, MercyMe: The Father-Son Story That Could Change How You See Your Son w/ MercyMe's Bart and Sam Millard. Check it out! I Can Only Imagine 2 hits theaters February 20th, 2026! Watch the trailer and get tickets at icanonlyimagine.com. Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Sign up to be notified when it's available at https://meninthearena.org/guardrails. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
What does it really mean to live above reproach in a culture that constantly tests your integrity? In this special series of 'Average Joe' conversations, Jim Ramos sits down with long-time friend Kent Mahelona for an extremely practical conversation about building guardrails that protect both your character and your marriage. Drawing from Jim's upcoming book, Guardrails: 10 Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage, they unpack real-life stories and wisdom from decades of marriage to set clear boundaries every man needs to pursue. Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Sign up to be notified when it's available at https://meninthearena.org/guardrails. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! I Can Only Imagine 2 hits theaters February 20th, 2026! Watch the trailer and get tickets aticanonlyimagine.com. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
I Can Only Imagine 2 hits theaters February 20th, 2026! Watch the trailer and get tickets at icanonlyimagine.com. Pain and suffering don't have to break a man—they can forge his story. In this expert interview, Jim Ramos talks to Grammy-nominated 'MercyMe' frontman Bart Millard and his son, Sam. Together, they talk about the upcoming film I Can Only Imagine 2 (releasing February 20) and the real story behind it. Bart opens up about walking his son through serious health struggles while carrying the pressure of leadership, fatherhood, fame, and faith under stress. Bart discusses resilience, responsibility, and what it took to stand firm as a father when life refused to let up. This conversation is also a reminder that it's never too late to make a change to be the best version of the man and father you're called to be.  Watch the trailer and get tickets at icanonlyimagine.com. Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Sign up to be notified when it's available at https://meninthearena.org/guardrails. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 962, Undefeated: Habits That Break the Cycle of Defeat and Build Purpose w/ Shawn Johnson. Check it out! Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Sign up to be notified when it's available at https://meninthearena.org/guardrails. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! I Can Only Imagine 2 hits theaters February 20th, 2026! Watch the trailer and get tickets aticanonlyimagine.com. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
What does your life look like when you're truly living out your identity in Christ? Are you becoming who you were created to be—or just living in the shadows of that calling? In this 'Average Joe' conversation, Jim Ramos sits down with longtime friend and fellow ministry leader Michael Rilee to unpack what your identity in Christ really means. Not what you do. Not who you know. But who you are at your core—and how God actually sees you. I Can Only Imagine 2 hits theaters February 20th, 2026! Watch the trailer and get tickets at icanonlyimagine.com. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
What happens when your faith is tested in real time? How do you stay obedient to God when the pressure is high and the path forward isn't clear? In this expert interview, Jim Ramos has a real and deeply transparent conversation with Shawn Johnson, whose world was turned upside down when he was diagnosed with an incurable degenerative brain disease. Shawn openly shares his journey from denial to hopelessness, all while continuing to serve as a pastor and leader. You'll hear what Shawn had to learn, not just to survive the last few years, but to truly thrive as a whole and complete man and how radical honesty with God ultimately transformed his faith. Check out Shawn's book: Kiss the Fire https://tinyurl.com/KissFire115 Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Sign up to be notified when it's available at https://meninthearena.org/guardrails. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! I Can Only Imagine 2 hits theaters February 20th, 2026! Watch the trailer and get tickets aticanonlyimagine.com. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God(https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 926, Preparing for Your Overnight Success: Cultivating Grit During Building Years w/ Mark Batterson. Check it out! Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Sign up to be notified when it's available at https://meninthearena.org/guardrails. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! I Can Only Imagine 2 hits theaters February 20th, 2026! Watch the trailer and get tickets aticanonlyimagine.com. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
How should a man respond when a child walks into the room? Are you intentional—or distracted—in moments that could shape a life forever? In this Equipping Men in 10 episode, Jim Ramos challenges men to rethink how they engage with children—from toddlers to teenagers. Looking at how Jesus welcomed, valued, and blessed children, Jim unpacks why every interaction matters and how one moment of intentionality can create lifelong impact. You'll learn why children should be treated as whole people, not interruptions and four practical rules every man can live by when engaging kids. Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Sign up to be notified when it's available at https://meninthearena.org/guardrails. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! I Can Only Imagine 2 hits theaters February 20th, 2026! Watch the trailer and get tickets aticanonlyimagine.com. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Are you respected at work—but ignored at home? Do the people who know you best actually respect you? In this weeks message, Jim Ramos unpacks what Scripture says about being a respected man—not a compartmentalized one. Drawing from Job 29 and real-life experience, he challenges men to stop "waffling" between roles and start living as integrated, whole men whose lives are worth imitating. You'll see why respect must be earned, not demanded and how one practical step can identify where you're "waffling" and grow stronger. Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Sign up to be notified when it's available at https://meninthearena.org/guardrails. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! I Can Only Imagine 2 hits theaters February 20th, 2026! Watch the trailer and get tickets aticanonlyimagine.com. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
This is a question from the brotherhood in The Locker Room. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Sign up to be notified when it's available at https://meninthearena.org/guardrails. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! I Can Only Imagine 2 hits theaters February 20th, 2026! Watch the trailer and get tickets aticanonlyimagine.com. Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Would you be nervous to sit down with your grown child and ask what you got right—and where you blew it as a dad? Jim Ramos has shared openly about what he believes he did wrong as a father… but this time, you get to hear it straight from the son who lived it. In this unique series, Jim is bringing in each of his three sons to analyze the good, bad and ugly of his parenting. Today, Jim sits down with his Middle son, Darby Ramos, for a candid, behind-the-scenes look at life growing up in the Ramos home. Together, they dig into the moments that shaped Darby's character, the parenting moves Jim nailed, and the areas where he fell short. Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Sign up to be notified when it's available at https://meninthearena.org/guardrails. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! I Can Only Imagine 2 hits theaters February 20th, 2026! Watch the trailer and get tickets aticanonlyimagine.com. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Men, this episode contains a big curveball and one of the most incredible God moments we've ever experienced in almost 1,000 episodes of the Men in the Arena podcast! Not a dry eye in the house! Don't miss this one. Can one simple "yes" really change the course of someone's entire life?  In this powerful episode, Jim Ramos sits down with Richmond, a former Compassion International sponsor child whose story of loss, hopelessness, and redemption will leave you stunned. As a young boy facing unimaginable hardship, Richmond's life was transformed when one person chose to invest in him. That single "yes" didn't just change his childhood—it launched a life of influence that now impacts pastors, leaders, and entire communities around the world.  Richmond's testimony shows what God can do when we choose to shine our light and trust Him with the results. By the end of this episode, you'll learn how one act of obedience can multiply far beyond your lifetime and what it looks like to invest in the Kingdom in simple, practical ways. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! I Can Only Imagine 2 hits theaters February 20th, 2026! Watch the trailer and get tickets aticanonlyimagine.com. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 953, Why God's Design for Healing Starts With What You EAT w/ Alex Morgan. Check it out! Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Sign up to be notified when it's available at https://meninthearena.org/guardrails. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! We are also sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. This app, combined with diet, has helped Jim get in the best shape of his life! Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Are paid pastors actually more spiritually mature than the men in the pews? Why do so many leaders burn out while everyday laymen quietly endure? What if the men who don't get paid for ministry are often the ones doing it best? In this Equipping Men in 10 episode, Jim Ramos looks back to his late 20s and early 30s in ministry and exposes a pattern he couldn't ignore. This episode isn't about tearing down pastors—it's about learning from the faith, grit, and longevity of everyday men who quietly walk with God year after year. You'll get a freash perspective on why longevity matters more than position in the Kingdom of God and the danger of vocational ministry replacing genuine devotion. Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Sign up to be notified when it's available at https://meninthearena.org/guardrails. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! We are also sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. This app, combined with diet, has helped Jim get in the best shape of his life! Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
What if the food you're eating every day is either helping you heal—or slowly breaking you down? And what if God designed your body with the capacity to heal when you fuel it the right way? In this Expert Interview, Jim Ramos sits down with Alex Morgan, author of Designed to Heal, to unpack the powerful connection between food, lifestyle, and whole-person health. Alex shares the deeply personal story behind the book and how a return to organic, whole foods played a critical role. Together, they dive into alarming health trends in the U.S., the root causes of chronic inflammation, and why modern diets are working against the body instead of with it. You'll walk away with some practical ways to start caring for the body God gave you.  Check out Alex's book: Designed to Heal (https://tinyurl.com/designed115) Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Sign up to be notified when it's available at https://meninthearena.org/guardrails. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! We are also sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. This app, combined with diet, has helped Jim get in the best shape of his life! Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 943, Simple, Battle-Tested Marriage Habits that will Transform Your Relationship w/ Chris Herb. Check it out! Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Sign up to be notified when it's available at https://meninthearena.org/guardrails. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! We are also sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. This app, combined with diet, has helped Jim get in the best shape of his life! Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
*]:pointer-events-auto scroll-mt-[calc(var(--header-height)+min(200px,max(70px,20svh)))]" dir="auto" tabindex="-1" data-turn-id= "66741f4c-548b-4f28-84c0-1892462b9163" data-testid= "conversation-turn-28" data-scroll-anchor="true" data-turn= "assistant"> Has God been working in your life longer than you realize? Have you ever looked back and seen moments that felt guided—even before you knew Christ? In this 'Average Joe' conversation, Pastor Jim Ramos sits down with high school teacher and coach, and friend, Wade Sims. Wade shares how his life seemed led from the very beginning—through opportunities, challenges, and circumstances that only made sense in hindsight. Together, Jim and Wade unpack the tension between God's sovereignty and human responsibility, exploring how God equips men, lays the groundwork for calling, and draws us forward. Many times God's call is already placed on you, and it's your responsibility to live it out with clarity and courage. You'll walk away with a better understanding of why theology matters, but it always leads back to Jesus. Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Sign up to be notified when it's available at https://meninthearena.org/guardrails. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! We are also sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. This app, combined with diet, has helped Jim get in the best shape of his life! Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Shimer teaches you the 6 scientific roots of your porn use, and gives you practical steps for eradicating them from your life for good. Ted Shimer has mentored men since 1991. He is a Dallas Seminary-trained Pastoral Sex Addiction Professional-Supervisor who helps people overcome the bondage of pornography in the context of making disciples.  Ted is the Founder of The Freedom Fight, an online porn addiction recovery program, and the author of the book, The Freedom Fight, The New Drug and the Truths that Set Us Free, which is our topic for today.  Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Sign up to be notified when it's available at https://meninthearena.org/guardrails. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! We are also sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. This app, combined with diet, has helped Jim get in the best shape of his life! Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
What do you picture your marriage looking like in ten years? What about twenty? Will it be better than it is today?  One thing is for sure: it will be different. The good news is there are some things you can start doing now and ensure your marriage makes it long-term and thrives. In this week's interview, author Dr. Kim Kimberling joins Jim Ramos to discuss his book, "Love, Intimacy, and Sex in the Second Half."  Dr. Kim shares his experience from his 54 years of marriage on what we can do to bulletproof our marriages.  Here is the link to Dr. Kim's book: https://tinyurl.com/SecondHalf115 (Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!) Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Sign up to be notified when it's available at https://meninthearena.org/guardrails. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! We are also sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. This app, combined with diet, has helped Jim get in the best shape of his life! Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Every man has a kingdom. Not every king rules well. If you ever feel powerless at work or home, wonder how to become the hero in your life story, or just want to make sure you're wielding the power God has given you well, this episode is for you. In this week's interview, author Michael Thompson joins Jim Ramos to discuss his book, "King Me: Loving and Leading in a Wounding World" and help you reclaim the heroism, power and authority God made you to wield. Here is the link to Michael's book: https://tinyurl.com/kingme115 (Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!) Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Sign up to be notified when it's available at https://meninthearena.org/guardrails. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! We are also sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. This app, combined with diet, has helped Jim get in the best shape of his life! Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Who are you—really? Why did God put you on this earth? In this Equipping Men in 10 episode, Jim Ramos takes men to Moses at the burning bush to answer the two questions every man wrestles with: "Who am I?" and "Why am I here?" Using Scripture and real-world application, Jim introduces two practical frameworks every man can use to clarify his identity and purpose. This episode challenges men to stop drifting, stop guessing, and start walking confidently in the identity and mission God has already given them. You'll walk away knowing how to steward the hand God dealt you so that you can best deal that hand to the world.  Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Sign up to be notified when it's available at https://meninthearena.org/guardrails. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! We are also sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. This app, combined with diet, has helped Jim get in the best shape of his life! Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Are you settling for religion when God is calling you to a relationship? Do you just know about Jesus - or do you actually walk with Him? In this Message at the Mag, Jim Ramos helps men who are tired of shallow faith and spiritual passivity. This isn't about church attendance, religious habits, or moral behavior; it's about a real, daily, relationship with the one true God. You'll get insight into why Men are wired to walk with God side-by-side, not just talk about Him, and why your faith doesn't just affect you—it transforms your family and legacy. Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Sign up to be notified when it's available at https://meninthearena.org/guardrails. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! We are also sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. This app, combined with diet, has helped Jim get in the best shape of his life! Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos. You can join here: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena
Are you drifting through Christmas on autopilot? Is your family surrounded by lights, gifts, and noise, but missing the point?  In this Equipping Men in 10 episode, Jim Ramos delivers 10 simple, actionable ways Christian men can keep Jesus at the center of Christmas. You'll get practical leadership you can implement immediately. You'll walk away with simple ways men can lead without adding stress or pressure and practical tools to refocus your home on Jesus amid the chaos. Note: The documentary that Jim refers to as the "The Star of Bethlehem" is now available to stream on Amazon and Apple TV under the new name "The Earthquake and the Son of God." Check out the podcasts mentioned in the episode! Episode 304 - PT1 Leading your family through the Christmas season Episode 306 - PT2 Leading your family through the Christmas season Episode 405 - Jim Ramos: Eternal Father message Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Sign up to be notified when it's available at https://meninthearena.org/guardrails. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! We are also sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. This app, combined with diet, has helped Jim get in the best shape of his life! Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Are you tired of feeling like your marriage is stuck in neutral? Do you ever wonder why some couples thrive while others just survive?  In this Expert Interview, Jim Ramos sits down with Chris Herb to talk about what actually makes marriages succeed. Chris breaks down the simple, intentional habits that move a marriage from  survival mode to steady and connected. You'll learn how and why your wife is craving your leadership—and what initiating actually looks like. As well as the biggest mistakes men make in marriage and how to fix them fast. Check out Chris's ministry at couplesmarriageministry.org Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Sign up to be notified when it's available at https://meninthearena.org/guardrails. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! We are also sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. This app, combined with diet, has helped Jim get in the best shape of his life! Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 940, Your Brain is Sabotaging Your Marriage w/ Ron Deal: 4 Steps from Neuroscience to Break Your Toxic Patterns. Check it out! Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Sign up to be notified when it's available at https://meninthearena.org/guardrails. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! We are also sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. This app, combined with diet, has helped Jim get in the best shape of his life! Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Are you struggling with how you view and speak about your spouse? Your attitudes and words impact the health of your marriage. In this weeks message from Jim Ramos, discover Guardrail #4 from his upcoming book, Guardrails: 10 Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage — Frame Your Bride Well. Drawing from biblical wisdom in Proverbs 31 and Ephesians 5, Jim highlights the power of positively framing your wife, seeing her as a reflection of yourself, and praising and supporting her in both private and public moments. You'll get practical ways to honor and support your wife daily. And for you single men, learn how to cultivate habits now that will prepare you for a strong, godly marriage. This message is from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men in McMinnville, Oregon. Jim's newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Sign up to be notified when it's available at https://meninthearena.org/guardrails. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! We are also sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. This app, combined with diet, has helped Jim get in the best shape of his life! Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Ever handled a situation with your wife so poorly that you wished you could rewind and do it all over again? What happens when your brain's programming from childhood collide with real-life challenges in your marriage? In this week's expert interview, Jim Ramos brings in expert Ron Deal for insight on how your brain's wiring can lead to assumptions or reactions that sabotage communication. You'll get four practical steps to stop your toxic cycles in their tracks, rebuild trust, and learn how to respond to your wife with wisdom instead of emotion in tough moments. Check our Ron Deal's book 'The Mindful Marriage'. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! We are also sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. This app, combined with diet, has helped Jim get in the best shape of his life! Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos. You can join here: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena
How do you lead others when you feel completely drained yourself? What happens when the Stress Bubble, ministry pressure, and family life all collide—and your tank hits empty? In this 'Average Joe' conversation, Jim Ramos sits down with Nathan Lawler, a mid-30s pastor, husband, and father. Together they discuss the question so many men are afraid to voice: "How can someone lead when they're on empty?"  You'll hear practical wisdom about prioritizing God outside your ministry work, reconnecting deeply with your spouse, and making space for the hobbies and life-giving moments that refill your soul. This is a must-listen for any man navigating the stress bubble and fighting to stay steady for the people he loves. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! We are also sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. This app, combined with diet, has helped Jim get in the best shape of his life! Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Dad, is distance growing between you and your daughter? Was your relationship better when she was a little girl? As she's growing into a young woman, are you struggling to understand her, or concerned that you might not be getting it right? This week, we brought back one of our all-time favorite guests - Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield ("The Dad Whisperer"). She sat down with Jim Ramos for a deep-dive, two-part podcast where she unpacks all 15 of her tools for girl dads from her book 'Dad, Here's What I Really Need from You: A Guide for Connecting with Your Daughter's Heart.' She mentioned that this is the first podcast interview that has ever covered ALL 15 of her practical tools for dads! (They might even help you with your wife, too.) You'll walk away from this podcast with strategies you can implement with the women in your life TODAY.  This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! We are also sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. This app, combined with diet, has helped Jim get in the best shape of his life! Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Are you leading your family toward gratitude—or letting entitlement sneak in unnoticed? What if a few simple, intentional steps could shift the entire atmosphere in your home this Thanksgiving? In this Equipping Men in 10 episode, Jim Ramos shares eight easy, meaningful ways to cultivate gratitude in your family during the Thanksgiving season. Whether you're navigating the stress bubble of life or wanting to build lasting spiritual habits, these simple practices will help you lead your family with purpose, thankfulness, and joy. You'll get simple daily practices that shift your home away from entitlement and learn creative ways to involve your kids in giving thanks and giving back. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! We are also sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. This app, combined with diet, has helped Jim get in the best shape of his life! Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Men, this episode contains a big curveball and one of the most incredible God moments we've ever experienced in almost 1,000 episodes of the Men in the Arena podcast! Not a dry eye in the house! Don't miss this one. Can one simple "yes" really change the course of someone's entire life?  In this powerful episode, Jim Ramos sits down with Richmond, a former Compassion International sponsor child whose story of loss, hopelessness, and redemption will leave you stunned. As a young boy facing unimaginable hardship, Richmond's life was transformed when one person chose to invest in him. That single "yes" didn't just change his childhood—it launched a life of influence that now impacts pastors, leaders, and entire communities around the world.  Richmond's testimony shows what God can do when we choose to shine our light and trust Him with the results. By the end of this episode, you'll learn how one act of obedience can multiply far beyond your lifetime and what it looks like to invest in the Kingdom in simple, practical ways. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! We are also sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. This app, combined with diet, has helped Jim get in the best shape of his life! Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
This is a question from the brotherhood in The Locker Room. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! We are also sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. This app, combined with diet, has helped Jim get in the best shape of his life! Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Would you be nervous to sit down with your grown child and ask what you got right—and where you blew it as a dad? Jim Ramos has shared openly about what he believes he did wrong as a father… but this time, you get to hear it straight from the son who lived it. In this unique series, Jim is bringing in each of his three sons to analyze the good, bad and ugly of his parenting. Today, Jim sits down with his oldest son, James Ramos, for a candid, behind-the-scenes look at life growing up in the Ramos home. Together, they dig into the moments that shaped James' character, the parenting moves Jim nailed, and the areas where he fell short. You'll hear practical insights on how to lead your family with intentionality, teach real-life skills that stick, model respect in marriage, and create the kind of spiritual and relational legacy your kids will thank you for someday. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! We are also sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. This app, combined with diet, has helped Jim get in the best shape of his life! Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Is the grass really greener on the other side? Or is it time to water the lawn God's already given you? In this weeks message from Jim Ramos, discover Guardrail #3 from his upcoming book, Guardrails: 10 Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage — how to stay emotionally connected to your bride and avoid the subtle drift that destroys marriages. Jim unpacks biblical truth from Genesis 2, explains the Hebrew word Dabaq ("to cleave"), and shows what it really means to pursue, protect, and stay bonded to your wife. You'll walk away knowing the difference between connection and attachment — and why it matters AND simple ways to guard your heart from emotional entanglement with others. This message is from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men in McMinnville, Oregon. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! We are also sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. This app, combined with diet, has helped Jim get in the best shape of his life! Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Life is too short to live it without purpose. Wess Stafford has an amazing story and a challenging message for us all! Dr. Wess Stafford, President Emeritus of Compassion International, is an internationally recognized advocate for children in poverty. Wess' life experiences have uniquely prepared him for this role. With earned undergraduate degrees from Moody Bible Institute, Biola University and a master's degree from Wheaton College, as well as a Ph.D. from Michigan State University, Wess often says, "Everything I really need to know to lead a multinational organization I learned from the poor, growing up in an African village." This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! We are also sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. This app, combined with diet, has helped Jim get in the best shape of his life! Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Do your thoughts ever get the best of you? What if you could finally take control of your mind instead of letting it control you? In this Equipping Men in 10 episode, Jim Ramos breaks down three practical ways to tame your thoughts—inspired by Max Lucado's book Tame Your Thoughts. The goal: to help men learn how to stop destructive thinking before it starts, replace lies with truth, and live with more peace and self-control. By the end of this episode, you'll get advice on how to practice "picky thinking" and stop negative thoughts at the gate, as well as how to uproot toxic thoughts and replant them with God's Word. Check out Max's book 'Tame Your Thoughts'! (Http://tinyurl.com/tame115) This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! We are also sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. This app, combined with diet, has helped Jim get in the best shape of his life! Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Can you really trust the story of Christmas? Which parts of the story of Jesus' birth are myth, and which parts can be historically verified? In this week's expert interview, Jim Ramos sits down with best-selling author and former atheist Lee Strobel (The Case for Christ) to talk about his newest book, The Case for Christmas. Together, they unpack what really happened in Bethlehem, why the Christmas story still changes lives today, and how men can lead their families to focus on Christ during the holiday season. By the end of this episode, you'll learn why the story of Jesus' birth is historically reliable and theologically profound and simple ways to point your family to Christ during the holidays Check out Lee's books!  The Case for Christmas: https://tinyurl.com/case4christmas115 The Case for Christ: https://tinyurl.com/caseforchrist115 This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! We are also sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. This app, combined with diet, has helped Jim get in the best shape of his life! Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! We are also sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. This app, combined with diet, has helped Jim get in the best shape of his life! Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
What does true contentment look like for a man of faith? How do you find lasting joy when life changes — from the stress bubble to retirement and beyond? In this 'Average Joe' conversation, Pastor Jim Ramos sits down with longtime friend and Men in the Arena board member Jeff Dyck to talk about joy, purpose, and the secret to lasting contentment. Together, they unpack what it means to know who you are, embrace your calling, and serve others with the gifts God's given you — no matter your season of life. You'll get insight on how to discover and "deal the hand" God's given you and then how that helps you find true joy no matter the circumstance. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! We are also sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. This app, combined with diet, has helped Jim get in the best shape of his life! Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Why does success always take longer than we think? What if your "overnight success" is really years of unseen preparation? In this week's expert interview, Jim Ramos sits down with best-selling author and pastor Mark Batterson to unpack his newest book, Gradually Then Suddenly: How to Dream Bigger, Decide Better, and Build a Lasting Legacy. They talk about the long game of faith, leadership, and perseverance. Some practical takeways you'll get; why success rarely happens overnight - and why that's a gift AND the power of playing the long game in a quick-fix culture. Check out Mark Batterson's new book!  (https://tinyurl.com/Gradually115) This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! We are also sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. This app, combined with diet, has helped Jim get in the best shape of his life! Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
In the Locker Room meeting held the week after the death of Charlie Kirk, Jim Ramos shared his wrestling and thoughts as he considered whether Charlie Kirk could be considered a 'martyr.' Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! We are also sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. This app, combined with diet, has helped Jim get in the best shape of his life! Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Do you ever feel hijacked by your emotions? Why do the same patterns of anger, shame, or withdrawal keep showing up in your relationships? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos unpacks what it means to experience emotional dysregulation—and how to regain peace through the four powerful steps of Restoration Therapy. By the end of this episode, you'll learn why identifying your reactive cycle is key to healing and how to rewrite the story your pain has been telling you. Check our Ron Deal's book! The Mindful Marriage (https://tinyurl.com/Mindful115) This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! We are also sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. This app, combined with diet, has helped Jim get in the best shape of his life! Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Are you stuck in patterns that keep breaking your heart? Have you ever wondered why it's so hard to change, forgive, or finally heal from the past? In this week's expert interview, Jim Ramos sits down with Pastor Jerry Flowers Jr., author of Heart Rehab, to unpack what it really means to heal from the inside out. They dive deep into topics like trauma, purpose, forgiveness, and the "famine of the soul" that keeps men from becoming who God created them to be. You'll learn how to recognize and break destructive patterns in your life and see how forgiveness and community can set you free to live whole. Check out Jerry's book!  (https://tinyurl.com/rehab115) This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! We are also sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. This app, combined with diet, has helped Jim get in the best shape of his life! Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos. You can join here: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena
Would you be nervous to sit down with your grown children to talk about what you got right—and where you missed the mark? Jim Ramos has told you what he thinks he did wrong as a dad, but now you get to hear it straight from the source! In this unique series, Jim is bringing in each of his three sons to analyze the good, bad and ugly of his parenting. In this first conversation, Jim talks to his youngest son, Colton, for a rare, behind-the-scenes look at life in the Ramos home. Together they unpack the things Jim did right in the stress bubble, and where he missed. You'll hear practical insights on how to lead your family with intentionality, teach real-life skills that stick, model respect in marriage, and create the kind of spiritual and relational legacy your kids will thank you for someday. This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Feeling tired, foggy, or past your prime? What if the secret to feeling strong again isn't more medication — but understanding how your body actually works? In this week's expert interview, Jim Ramos sits down with functional medicine expert Dr. Jason Black to unpack the truth about testosterone, inflammation, gut health, and aging well. From energy and sleep to drive and strength, Dr. Black reveals how men can take a proactive approach to health instead of reacting to symptoms. Today, you'll walk away with a clearer understanding of the difference between functional vs. traditional medicine and Practical steps to build lasting strength and vitality This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos. You can join here: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena
Has your relationship hit a rough patch? How do you rebuild intimacy after conflict, hurt, or distance in your marriage? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos unpacks five practical steps to reconnect with your wife after a breakdown in your relationship. Drawing insights from Dr. Carol Tanksley's book 'Sexpectations', Jim shares biblical wisdom and honesty about what it takes to rebuild trust, reopen hearts, and restore closeness in your marriage. You'll learn 5 actionable steps to rebuild intimacy and trust from a biblical perspective. Check out Dr. Carol's Book: Sexpectations: Reframing Your Good and Not-So-Good Stories about God, Love, and Relationships -> https://tinyurl.com/sexpectations115 Check out Carol's interviews here: SEXPECTATIONS: GOD'S DESIGN FOR YOUR SEX LIFE W/ CAROL TANKSLEY EP 730 SEX AND THE SINGLE CHRISTIAN MAN: HONORING GOD WITH YOUR BODY BEFORE (OR AFTER) MARRIAGE W/ DR. CAROL TANKSLEY EP 732 This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with t hese amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
What does it take to build an unbreakable marriage? How can a man set boundaries that protect his integrity, his faith, and his family? In this week's message, Pastor Jim Ramos shares his journey behind writing his new book, Guardrails: 10 Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage — releasing April, 2026. Designed for both married and single men, this book lays out practical, biblical boundaries that prevent moral failure and strengthen relational trust. Today, you'll walk away with Biblical wisdom for staying faithful and accountable along with a framework for living above reproach in every area of life. This message is from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men in McMinnville, Oregon. This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos. You can join here: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena
Have you ever wondered what to say—or not say—to someone who's grieving? How do you walk with someone through tragedy when there are no words that make it better? In this 'Average Joe' conversation, Pastor Jim Ramos sits down with longtime friend and pastor Isaac Kerns, who opens up about losing his teenage son, Ethan, to cancer—and what it really means to "head into the storm" with faith, courage, and community.  You'll walk away with practical ways to support friends and family walking through grief and gain insight on what not to say when someone is hurting. This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
What do you do when your faith feels fragile? How do you respond when life hits you with something that could take you out physically, mentally, or spiritually? And how do you flip from a victim mentality to living with boldness and strength in Christ? In this week's expert interview, Jim Ramos has a powerful conversation with Dylan Mandell, a 22-year-old cancer warrior, athlete, and bold follower of Jesus. They dive into his journey through four battles with cancer, the moment he surrendered fully to Christ, and the lessons he's learned about identity, discipline, and resilience. You'll walk away with practical ways to shift from a victim mindset to a warrior mindset and how to anchor your identity in Christ when the enemy attacks. This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos. You can join here: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena
Have you been lied to about sex in marriage? Are those lies quietly sabotaging your relationship with your wife—or your future marriage? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos tackles seven common lies Christian men believe about sex and marriage and replaces them with biblical truth. Drawing from Dr. Carol Tanksley's book Sexpectations, Jim exposes the myths that weaken marriages. You'll walk away with a truth that shatters cultural lies about sex and intimacy and A clear vision of God's design for marriage and sexual connection. Plus, some practical wisdom to protect your relationship and pursue holiness. Check out Dr. Carol's Book: Sexpectations: Reframing Your Good and Not-So-Good Stories about God, Love, and Relationships (https://tinyurl.com/sexpectations115Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!) This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with t hese amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Is your phone making you weaker? Are you being discipled by your screen instead of by Christ? In this week's expert interview, Jim Ramos is joined by author Brett McCracken who exposes how our scrolling culture is robbing men of strength, focus, and spiritual health. They unpack the dangers of digital addiction, why constant information leaves us powerless, and what it really means to lead and protect your home in a tech-driven world. You'll walk away with practical advice on how to break free from phone addiction and model strength for your kids and simple daily habits to reclaim focus, prayer, and presence. Check out Brett's book 'Scrolling Ourselves to Death' This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos. You can join here: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena
Are you raising kids who will choose you when they leave your home? Are you building a marriage strong enough to thrive after the nest is empty? In this 'Average Joe' conversation, Pastor Jim Ramos sits down with pastor and longtime friend Shaun Strong. They dive into the raw realities of parenting through the "second half of life." They tackle the struggles of letting go, the danger of making your kids the center of your world, and the call to keep Jesus and your marriage first. You'll walk away with a clear vision of how to keep your marriage strong when the kids are gone and practical insights on shifting from "parent" to "advisor" as your kids grow. This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
What are you really chasing in life? Are you investing your time in what truly lasts? In this week's expert interview, Jim Ramos is joined by author John Olinger, who dives into the hard-won lessons of faith, family, and legacy. From Nike boardrooms to life-changing personal loss, John challenges us to define true success, not by trophies or titles, but by the relationships and moments that matter most. This is a wake-up call for every man who refuses to waste his life on the unworthy and is ready to live for what counts. This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos. You can join here: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena
What does it really mean to live a great life? How can men pursue significance without chasing ego or shortcuts? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos explores five key questions every man should ask if he wants to do something lasting for God. If you're ready to think differently, lead with courage, and pursue the kind of legacy that honors God, this episode will encourage and challenge you. This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with t hese amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God(https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Charlie Kirk was a politically polarizing figure, but one thing is certain: he was an outspoken follower of Christ. Regardless of whether you agree with his political stances, Christ-following men can learn from Charlie Kirk's life, and the manner of his death. You'll walk away from this special message ready to speak boldly for what you believe and step courageously into the arena God has called you to.
Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos. You can join here: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena
Are you putting off the life God has called you to live? Are you letting fear, laziness, or comfort keep you stuck on the sidelines? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos goes straight after the silent killer of men's dreams—procrastination. You'll discover the real reasons men delay action and practical steps to crush excuses and start living with courage, discipline, and impact.  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with t hese amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
This is a reboot of episode #695 of the Men in the Arena Podcast. Do you fight with your wife about the same things over and over? Does a fight sometimes derail your intimacy for days or weeks? You're experiencing an Argument Hangover! In this week's expert interview, Jim Ramos is joined by Aaron Freeman, co-author of the book "The Argument Hangover." Aaron shares practical tips for how to shorten that disconnect after a fight, and teaches you how you can fight with your wife in a way that will bring you closer together instead of further apart. This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos. You can join here: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena
Are you tired of taking shortcuts that leave you stuck? Do you have the guts to wait on God's timing, lead your family with strength, and rise to the next level? In this 'Average Joe' conversation, Pastor Jim Ramos sits down with longtime friend Chris Hancock—a man who's battled addiction, built a thriving business, and learned what it means to love his wife and lead with courage. Chris proves that "average" men, when surrendered to God, can live anything but average lives. Whether you're battling in your own "stress bubble" or seeking encouragement to level up your walk with God, this episode will challenge and inspire you to keep climbing. This episode is sponsored by Kids Outdoor Zone, an outdoor ministry for the men in your church. Watch your men come alive as they pass on their outdoor skills to the fatherless children in your church. Get your Outdoor Ministry Guide, and KOZ's World Famous Meat Rub, at kidsoutdoorzone.com/arena. This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Are you settling for comfort—or are you leading your family into adventure?  In this week's expert interview, Jim Ramos is joined by Dan Mathews, who dives into what it means for a man to reject the safety net of "easy" and instead choose quality time, risk, and adventure with the people who matter most. Get ready to be challenged, inspired, and reminded that your family doesn't need more stuff—they need more of YOU, fully alive and fully present. Check out Dan & Samantha's new book: Always Choose Adventure This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos. You can join here: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena
Have you bought into the lie that being a good dad means putting your kids before your wife? What if that "noble" choice is actually sabotaging your family? In this 'Average Joe' conversation, Pastor Jim Ramos sits down with his friend Matt Johnson to challenge one of the most common and destructive mistakes husbands make: reversing God's hierarchy. Matt describes what happened when he shifted from a kids-first to wife-first mentality. This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
This is a reboot of a past episode #734 of the Men in the Arena Podcast. Calling all WILD MEN! You know you're called to be a strong Christian man, so why does the Bible tell you to be "meek?" And why does God keep calling WILD, UNRULY men to his cause? This world wants to break men like you, but God has different plans. This week, Men in the Arena founder Jim Ramos is joined by evangelist Ryan Miller, known on Instagram as "Dude with the Good News" @dudewithgoodnews for a deep dive into what WILD Christian masculine strength really looks like.  This episode is sponsored by Kids Outdoor Zone, an outdoor ministry for the men in your church. Watch your men come alive as they pass on their outdoor skills to the fatherless children in your church. Get your Outdoor Ministry Guide, and KOZ's World Famous Meat Rub, at kidsoutdoorzone.com/arena. This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos. You can join here: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena
What happens when men refuse to step up? What's the cost when fathers walk away from their families, and leaders go silent in the fight? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos exposes the dark side of manhood when males settle for less than God's calling—and lays out the path to redemption. From fatherlessness to cultural collapse, Jim explains why men are the solution, not the problem, and calls you to rise, lead, and restore what's been broken.  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with t hese amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
When was the last time you truly started over? Not just a fresh coat of paint on the old you—but a deep, soul-level reset with God leading the way. In this week's message, Pastor Jim Ramos gives a heartfelt message calling us men to break free from the comfort of routine and step into a fresh, faith-fueled beginning. Living for God was never meant to be safe or predictable—it's an adventure! Embrace it and renew your faith and commit to a new, purposeful life. This message is from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men in McMinnville, Oregon. This episode is sponsored by Kids Outdoor Zone, an outdoor ministry for the men in your church. Watch your men come alive as they pass on their outdoor skills to the fatherless children in your church. Get your Outdoor Ministry Guide, and KOZ's World Famous Meat Rub, at kidsoutdoorzone.com/arena. This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 718: t Stops With YOU: Breaking the Cycle of Childhood Trauma and Sin w/ Patrick Morley. Check it out! This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
When God launches a movement, He starts with men. History proves it—when men rise, everyone wins. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos challenges your church to strategically target men, and gives you 8 ways that you can tell if your church has a heart for men. If your church isn't reaching men, it's failing its mission.  Check out the resource mentioned in this episode: The Men's Ministry Playbook This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Men, how is your thought life? Do you find negative thoughts swirling in your head? Are you stuck in repetitive sins? If you're struggling with either your emotions or your behavior, the culprit is probably your mind. In this week's expert interview, Jim Ramos is joined by Max Lucado, a giant of the faith and one of the men whose work discipled Jim when he first came to Christ. Max shares insight from his new book, Tame Your Thoughts, and provides you with three practical choices that will help you beat the negative thinking once and for all. Check out the books mentioned in this episode:   Second Chances: More Stories of Grace - Max Lucado No Wonder They Call Him the Savior - Max Lucado God Came Near - Max Lucado   Tame Your Thoughts - Max Lucado Cure for the Common Life - Max Lucado   What Happens Next - Max Lucado   Every Thought Captive - Kyle Idleman This episode is sponsored by Kids Outdoor Zone, an outdoor ministry for the men in your church. Watch your men come alive as they pass on their outdoor skills to the fatherless children in your church. Get your Outdoor Ministry Guide, and KOZ's World Famous Meat Rub, at kidsoutdoorzone.com/arena. This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 730: SEXpectations: God's Design for Your Sex Life w/ Carol Tanksley. Check it out! This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Who's standing beside you when life hits hard? Are you charging into battle alone—and losing because of it? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos dives into the undeniable truth that every man needs a brotherhood. Drawing from Acts 2 and the story of Peter, Jim shows how even the boldest men fall when they isolate—but thrive when surrounded by others.  If you're tired of fighting solo and ready to become the man God designed you to be, it's time to lock arms and step into the arena. This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
What makes a man step up and say, "That's all I can stands—I can't stands no more"? What does it really mean to be an enforcer of justice in today's world?  In this week's message, Pastor Jim Ramos lays down a challenge to every man: stop sitting on the sidelines and start enforcing biblical justice. You were made to carry Christ into the chaos, to stand in the gap, to rescue the broken, and to bleed for a cause bigger than yourself. When you enter a room, everyone should feel safer.  This message is from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men in McMinnville, Oregon. This episode is sponsored by Kids Outdoor Zone, an outdoor ministry for the men in your church. Watch your men come alive as they pass on their outdoor skills to the fatherless children in your church. Get your Outdoor Ministry Guide, and KOZ's World Famous Meat Rub, at kidsoutdoorzone.com/arena. This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 742: How Christians Can Do Politics BETTER w/ Curtis Chang. Check it out! This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
What happens to the church, a family, or a nation when men go passive? Are we asking too much of our strong women—or are men asking too little of themselves? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos kicks off a four-part series 'When a Man Gets it". With biblical clarity and truth, you'll see why men are the backbone of the family, the church, and society—and what happens when that backbone fails. Being born male is biology. Becoming a man is a choice. This episode exposes the difference, challenges cultural and church norms, and reaffirms God's original intent: when a man gets it, everyone wins. This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
What kind of man walks through the storm instead of running from it? What does it really take to stand tall when life hits you the hardest? In this week's expert interview, Jim Ramos is joined by Rick Burgess, nationally syndicated radio host, author, and co-founder of The Man Church. Rick shares the unforgettable lessons passed down from his father—lessons forged on the football field, in the face of personal tragedy, and in the quiet strength of unwavering masculinity. From the story behind his book "Men Don't Run in the Rain" to the heartbreaking loss of his son, Rick unpacks what it means to be the kind of man who shows up, stands firm, and never shrinks back when life demands more.  Check out Rick's book: Men Don't Run in the Rain This episode is sponsored by Kids Outdoor Zone, an outdoor ministry for the men in your church. Watch your men come alive as they pass on their outdoor skills to the fatherless children in your church. Get your Outdoor Ministry Guide, and KOZ's World Famous Meat Rub, at kidsoutdoorzone.com/arena. This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 710: King Me: Becoming the Hero in Your Story w/ Michael Thompson This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Is your calendar full but your soul empty? Are you sacrificing your family on the altar of busyness? In this 'Average Joe' conversation on The Men in the Arena Podcast, Pastor Jim Ramos brings in Jacob Duke, a local leader at The McMinnville Area Gathering for men in McMinnville, Oregon. Jacob asks a loaded question: What do you do if you are carrying too much mental weight? Jim dives deep into what it means for men to lead under pressure, avoid burnout, and stay rooted in their most important calling — their family. Learn how to define your capacity, trim the fat, and build a foundation that can withstand life's storms.  This episode is sponsored by Kids Outdoor Zone, an outdoor ministry for the men in your church. Watch your men come alive as they pass on their outdoor skills to the fatherless children in your church. Get your Outdoor Ministry Guide, and KOZ's World Famous Meat Rub, at kidsoutdoorzone.com/arena. This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
This is a reboot of a past episode #624 of the Men in the Arena Podcast. Fighting? Miscommunication? Hurt feelings? Ever feel like you and your wife are speaking completely different languages? That's because you and your wife have different communication styles. This week, author Bill Farrel joined Jim Ramos to discuss his book, 'Men are Like Waffles, Women are Like Spaghetti." He explains why communication seemed so much easier while you were dating, and teaches you to leverage your differences to make a happier, more solid marriage. Understanding how God made men and women to communicate will change your marriage forever.  This episode is sponsored by Kids Outdoor Zone, an outdoor ministry for the men in your church. Watch your men come alive as they pass on their outdoor skills to the fatherless children in your church. Get your Outdoor Ministry Guide, and KOZ's World Famous Meat Rub, at kidsoutdoorzone.com/arena. This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 839: Just 5 Minutes Can Transform Your Ability To HEAR Jesus w/ John Eldredge. This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Are you giving your wife what she truly needs—or just going through the motions? Do you know the four unspoken questions every woman is asking her man? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos lays out what your wife is silently—but desperately—waiting for you to answer. Learn the four core questions your wife is asking that will challenge your excuses, sharpen your perspective, and call you into the kind of manhood your marriage needs. Check out the resources listed in this episode: The Heart of a Warrior  by Michael Thompson This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Are you a man who runs from the storm… or one who charges into it with trust and grit? What kind of man faces the storm—and what kind of Savior still calms it?  In this powerful message from Men in the Arena ManCamp 2025, Jim Ramos challenges men to stop shrinking back and start stepping up when life gets rough. Drawing from Mark 4 and the raw reality of personal trials, this talk explores what it means to trust Jesus in the middle of the storm—when the waves are high, your strength is gone, and all you've got left is faith. This is a challenge for every man to listen to the voice of Jesus, fix his eyes on the cross, and become the kind of man who heads into the storm instead of running from it. https://www.mancampwfr.com - Keep an eye out for info on Man Camp 2026! This episode is sponsored by Kids Outdoor Zone, an outdoor ministry for the men in your church. Watch your men come alive as they pass on their outdoor skills to the fatherless children in your church. Get your Outdoor Ministry Guide, and KOZ's World Famous Meat Rub, at kidsoutdoorzone.com/arena. This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 684, Healing from Porn: Your Ultimate Purity Resource List w/ Sam Black Check it out!  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Feeling like your family is running on fumes in the chaos of life? Wondering how to build a connection when everyone's moving in different directions—especially in a blended family? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos delivers 10 powerful strategies to help you lead your family with strength, clarity, and purpose. This isn't about being a perfect dad or husband—it's about showing up, leading well, and refusing to settle for passive fatherhood.  Check out the resources listed in this episode: Building Love Together in Blended Families This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
This is a reboot of a past episode #614 of the Men in the Arena Podcast. Dad, are you tired of yelling at your kids? Does your child seem to push all your buttons? Do you struggle with how to respond to rebellious or disobedient kids in a way that is loving but also holds the line? In this week's episode, Kirk Martin, host of the Calm Parenting podcast, joins Jim Ramos to teach you how to regain your calm and discipline your kids WITHOUT anger. This episode is sponsored by Kids Outdoor Zone, an outdoor ministry for the men in your church. Watch your men come alive as they pass on their outdoor skills to the fatherless children in your church. Get your Outdoor Ministry Guide, and KOZ's World Famous Meat Rub, at kidsoutdoorzone.com/arena. This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 784, Hidden Miracles You're Missing Every Single Day: Regaining Your Holy Curiosity w/ Mark Batterson Check it out!  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Are you stuck in a marriage that feels like a battleground? Tired of the nagging, the silence, the tension that never seems to end?  In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos unpacks the "Crazy Cycle" that's sabotaging your marriage—and what it really means to be Jesus in the fight. Discover why your wife nags, why you shut down, and how love, respect, and biblical manhood can break the cycle once and for all. If you're ready to stop reacting and start leading like Jesus, this is your wake-up call. Check out the resources listed in this episode! Love & Respect: The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs by Emerson Eggerichs Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena
This is a reboot of a past episode #639 of the Men in the Arena Podcast. The world needs real men, real bad. And there are all sorts of conflicting ideas and messages about what a "real man" is (and is not). This week, radio host and author Brant Hansen joins Jim Ramos to discuss his book The Men We Need: God's Purpose for the Manly Man, the Avid Indoorsman, or Any Man Willing to Show Up and provide you with a specific, actionable picture of what God created you to be as a man - a "Keeper of the Garden" - and what that means for you today. This episode is sponsored by Kids Outdoor Zone, an outdoor ministry for the men in your church. Watch your men come alive as they pass on their outdoor skills to the fatherless children in your church. Get your Outdoor Ministry Guide, and KOZ's World Famous Meat Rub, at kidsoutdoorzone.com/arena. This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 699, Loving Your Wife Through Brokenness (How My Husband Did It) w/ Heidi St. John Check it out!  (https://tinyurl.com/Battle115) his episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Are you tired of waiting for someone else to lead the men in your church? Do you have what it takes to rally a brotherhood and charge into battle for their souls? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos shares a 7-step battle plan to launch a men's group that transforms lives. Whether you've failed before or you're starting from scratch, this is your no-excuses blueprint. From recruiting your co-captain to commissioning your team, you'll get raw truth and practical wisdom to be successful. Check out the resources listed in this episode! Help! I'm Starting a Men's Group (free download) The Men's Ministry Playbook (how-to manual + 50 meetings) The Master Plan of Evangelism (Robert E. Coleman) This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Are you dishing out judgment when you should be offering mercy? Is your version of justice undermining God's grace? In this week's message, Pastor Jim Ramos delves into mercy, grace, judgment, and wrath. If you don't understand these principles, you're fumbling the fundamentals of the Christian life. These aren't just theological buzzwords—they determine how you lead, love, and respond when it counts. It's time to stop defaulting to wrath and judgment, and start choosing the power of grace and mercy. (Check out Weldon Hardenbrook's 'Missing from Action' which was mentioned in this message!)  This episode is sponsored by Kids Outdoor Zone, an outdoor ministry for the men in your church. Watch your men come alive as they pass on their outdoor skills to the fatherless children in your church. Get your Outdoor Ministry Guide, and KOZ's World Famous Meat Rub, at kidsoutdoorzone.com/arena. This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 770, Love Through the Decades: How to Make It Long-Term in Marriage w/ Kim Kimberling. Check it out!  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Today's episode is a special peek behind the curtain of The Locker Room—our bi-monthly Zoom call where men tackle life's toughest questions and connect directly with Jim Ramos on all things relating to Biblical masculinity. We dive into real struggles that Christian men face. Here are three powerful questions from some recent Locker Room sessions with practical, no-fluff wisdom for men who want to lead, fight temptation, and grow strong in Christ. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Jesus calls us men to walk a powerful paradox—bold in truth, but gentle in spirit.  In this week's message, Pastor Jim Ramos breaks down what it looks like to be a tactical, discerning noticer of people without losing the humility and purity that makes the gospel irresistible. You've been sent out like sheep among wolves, not to be passive or polite, but to be cunning, observant, and unwavering in truth. This message is from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men in McMinnville, Oregon. This episode is sponsored by Kids Outdoor Zone, an outdoor ministry for the men in your church. Watch your men come alive as they pass on their outdoor skills to the fatherless children in your church. Get your Outdoor Ministry Guide, and KOZ's World Famous Meat Rub, at kidsoutdoorzone.com/arena. This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 686, Becoming a Serpent Crusher: How to Crush the Enemies of Your Best Version w/ Jeff Voth. Check it out!  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
The "dad bod" is just another lie the world sold you. The Bible instructs us to treat our bodies as a living temple — but for many of us, it's a ticking time bomb. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos discusses why the dad bod is not biblical, not healthy, and not sustainable if you want to lead well, live long, and finish strong. Men, reject the soft lies of comfort culture, embrace discipline, and steward your bodies with purpose. This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
What if the secret to your success as a husband starts with what your wife says—and what you don't say? Your wife's words may be slowly breaking you and she probably doesn't even know it. In this week's expert interview, Jim Ramos is joined by the hosts of FamilyLife Today, Dave and Ann Wilson. They get brutally honest about the real battles that rage inside marriage—especially the ones we don't see. From nearly calling it quits on their 10-year anniversary to learning the secret power of a wife's words, Dave and Ann take us deep into the trenches of married life and what it takes to win there.  Order the Wilson's new book, 'How to Speak Life to Your Husband'. (Using our links to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!) Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 695, Fight Smarter: Fight FOR Your Marriage by Fighting WITH Your Wife (the Right Way) w/ Aaron Freeman. Check it out!  Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
Are you blindly following the wrong leaders? Could you be letting unqualified voices shape your soul? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos exposes the trend of self-proclaimed "coaches" flooding the internet with no real accountability or biblical backbone. Too many men are allowing themselves to be discipled by leaders who wouldn't last five minutes under the biblical qualifications of 1 Timothy 3 and Titus 1 ('Dialed In'). If you want to be a man who leads with strength, integrity, and unwavering faith, you need to know WHO you're letting disciple you. Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
Why are so many young men turning back to Christianity in a culture that's moving in the opposite direction? Is their faith intellectually credible — or is it just blind belief? In this week's expert interview, Jim Ramos is joined by Justin Brierley, host of the groundbreaking Unbelievable? podcast, to dive deep into the raw truth about faith, doubt, and the rising tide of young men reclaiming Christianity. Justin shares his powerful journey from skepticism to conviction that is shaping a new generation of believers. Order Justin's new book, 'Why I'm Still a Christian' and the others mentioned in today's episode. (Using our links to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!) The Surprising Rebirth of Belief in God - Justin Brierley The God Hypothesis - Steven Meyer Heaven - Randy Alcorn Mere Christianity - C.S. Lewis Can We Trust the Gospels - Peter Williams Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 635, How to Connect with Your Daughter: 15 Tools for Girl Dads - Part 2 w/ Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield. Check it out!
Men, are you man enough to face your weaknesses? It takes real courage to confront your weaknesses head-on. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos pulls no punches as he challenges men to confront the areas where they fall short. Drawing from his bestselling book Strong Men Dangerous Times, this episode will push you to stop hiding from your struggles. Men, let's seek wholeness—mind, body, and spirit—and strive towards becoming solid and complete. Pick up Strong Men Dangerous Times (Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!) Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
Men, how do you go from a decision for Jesus to a life as a sold-out, on-fire follower? In this week's expert interview, Jim Ramos is joined by Alex and Stephen Kendrick (better known as 'The Kendrick Brothers'), the filmmakers behind films like 'Courageous,' 'War Room,' 'Facing the Giants,' and 'The Forge.' They discuss their new book, Devoted to Jesus: From First Steps to Fully Surrendered and what it takes for a Christian man to become a true disciple of Jesus. Order the Kendrick's new book 'Devoted to Jesus: From First Steps to Fully Surrendered' -https://tinyurl.com/Devoted115(Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!) Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena  00:00 Introduction and Welcoming the Guests 00:47 Discussing Favorite Movies and Their Impact 02:11 The Journey of Facing the Giants 03:28 The Success of War Room and Courageous 06:12 The Importance of God's Favor and Faithfulness 12:17 Family Legacy and Breaking Chains 24:11 Devoted to Jesus: The Book and Its Impact 27:23 Teaching Young Men to Dig into Scripture 27:50 The Importance of Small Group Discipleship 28:52 Overcoming Temptation and Evil 32:45 The Power of Surrender in Faith 40:30 The Role of Faith in Pleasing God 43:08 Practical Applications of Discipleship 50:19 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 699, Loving Your Wife Through Brokenness (How My Husband Did It) w/ Heidi St. John Check it out!  (https://tinyurl.com/Battle115) Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
Are you living as the man God called you to be—or the one culture expects you to be? In this 'Average Joe' conversation on The Men in the Arena Podcast, Pastor Jim Ramos brings in David Everson, a local leader at The McMinnville Area Gathering for men in McMinnville, Oregon. Jim and David unpack the meaning of true masculinity. Together, they dive deep into the contrast between cultural expectations of manhood and biblical standards for being a man.  If you're tired of the confusion and want clarity on what it means to be a godly man, this conversation is for you. Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
Men, do you believe God still has a plan for you, even after you've blown it? We can all learn from Peter — a man who failed publicly and painfully, yet was restored by Jesus and used powerfully. In this week's message, Pastor Jim Ramos dives into failure, redemption, and the relentless grace of God. Drawing from personal experience, Jim confronts the fact that we all fall short. This isn't about pretending to have it all together. It's about recognizing our flaws, stepping up, and turning to Christ — the only source of real, lasting redemption.  This message is from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men in McMinnville, Oregon. Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 673, A 3-Step Plan to Achieve Your Goals w/ Jon Acuff Check it out!   Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook   This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com   Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena   Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon patreon.com/themeninthearena
Today's episode is a special peek behind the curtain of The Locker Room—our bi-monthly Zoom call where men tackle life's toughest questions and connect directly with Jim Ramos on all things relating to Biblical masculinity. We dive into real struggles that Christian men face. Here are three powerful questions from some recent Locker Room sessions with practical, no-fluff wisdom for men who want to lead, fight temptation, and grow strong in Christ. Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
Men, do you want to develop an unshakable spiritual grit that can stand when everything around you is falling apart? In this week's interview, Jim Ramos talks to Justin Kendrick, author of the book 'How to Quiet a Hurricane: Strategies for Christian Endurance in the Midst of Life's Storms'. Justin brings powerful insight from his book and lays out what it truly means to be a man of faith in the face of adversity.  This conversation is a must for fathers, husbands, and leaders who are done playing it safe and ready to dig deep.  Order Justin's Book 'How to Quiet a Hurricane: Strategies for Christian Endurance in the Midst of Life's Storms' (https://tinyurl.com/storm115 -Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!) Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena 00:25 Discussing the Book: How to Quiet a Hurricane 03:24 Exploring Christian Endurance 06:14 The Weakness Paradox and Paul's Thorn 14:01 The Three Major Temptations 20:20 The Theology of Suffering 26:12 The Illusion of Safety 27:53 The Fear of Safety and Eternal Purpose 28:12 John Patton's Revelation and Overcoming Fear 29:16 Living Courageously with an Eternal Perspective 30:23 Ecclesiastes and the Abundant Life 31:06 Suffering and Redemption 36:36 The Role of Silence in God's Plan 40:19 Fatherhood and Modeling Faith 46:06 Balancing Discipline and Fun in Parenting 49:22 Encouragement for Men to Build Endurance 56:21 Conclusion and Resources for Spiritual Growth
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 697, Become a Better Man: The 4 Pillars of Masculinity w/ Chris Harper Check it out!  Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
Is it possible for one encounter with Jesus to restore a marriage and change generations? If you're struggling in your relationship, praying for your spouse, or just need a reminder of God's ability to turn things around, this testimony will encourage you. In today's conversation on The Men in the Arena Podcast, Pastor Jim Ramos sits down with Adnan Rudan and his wife Kristy for a first-of-its-kind, in-studio Hero Story. Adnan opens up about how surrendering to Jesus flipped the script on his life, saved his marriage, and changed the trajectory of his entire family — with help from Men in the Arena. This testimony is solid proof: no man is too far gone, no marriage too damaged, and no family too broken for God to redeem. Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
Men, you may be trapped in living with a 'poverty spirit'. Do you view money as a tool for God's kingdom — or as something to fear or hoard? In this week's message, Pastor Jim Ramos challenges us to re-evaluate our views on money and giving. Jim stresses the importance of living with a spirit of abundance, generosity, and making the gospel appealing through good deeds. This message is from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men in McMinnville, Oregon. Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 684, Healing from Porn: Your Ultimate Purity Resource List w/ Sam Black Check it out!  Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
There's a blueprint in the Bible for what it means to be a Godly man—have you seen it?  That's right, the Bible doesn't just tell men to lead—it shows us how! In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos discusses what he calls the Proverbs 31 for men, drawn straight from Job Chapter 29.  This episode is a call to action for men who want to walk with purpose, lead with conviction, and reflect Christ in every part of their lives. This message was inspired by 'Missing from Action: A Powerful Historical Response to the Crisis Among American Men' by Weldon Hardenbrook. (Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!) Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
What happens when you believe the lies the world tells you about your identity? Is it possible to walk away from those lies and step fully into freedom through Christ? In this week's interview, Jim Ramos talks to Joshua Broome, author of the book '7 Lies That Will Ruin Your Life'. Joshua Broome's life journey is nothing short of miraculous. From growing up without a father to becoming entangled in the porn industry, Joshua opens up about the darkest seasons of his life and the incredible transformation he experienced through faith in Jesus Christ. Order Joshua's Book '7 Lies That Will Ruin Your Life' (Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!) Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 695, Fight Smarter: Fight FOR Your Marriage by Fighting WITH Your Wife (the Right Way) w/ Aaron Freeman. Check it out!  Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
What does it really take to build a deep, lasting bond with your kids, especially during the teen years? How do you discipline your kids in a way that doesn't drive them away? In this 'Average Joe' conversation on The Men in the Arena Podcast, Pastor Jim Ramos is joined by his friend Sam Gipson. Sam, a high school teacher and men's ministry leader, shares insights into the challenges and rewards of parenting teens. This is a practical, honest conversation for men who want to avoid alienating their kids and want to learn how to set a strong foundation for a positive relationship with your children when they become adults. Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
Men, we have it backwards. What if real power doesn't look like winning—but serving?  In this week's message, Pastor Jim Ramos unpacks one of the greatest paradoxes of the Kingdom of God: If you want to become the greatest, you must become the least. Can you serve the ones who hurt you? Can you love without applause? This is discipleship for grown men. This message comes from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men in McMinnville, Oregon. Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 639, Becoming The Man The World Needs W/ Brant Hansen. Check it out!  Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
Many men confuse being "strong" with being numb. We hurt others by staying broken—and are you ready to truly heal? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos discusses the 7 stages of true healing. We challenge you to own your story, rise from your pain, and pass down hard-earned wisdom through healing to the next generation. For more on this check out Patrick Morley's book 'From Broken Boy to Mended Man: A Positive Plan to Heal Your Childhood Wounds and Break the Cycle' Check out Episode 586 with Bruce Hebel which is mentioned in this episode! Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
Men, our lives are constantly buzzing with noise and distractions. How can we truly connect with Jesus?  In this week's interview, Jim Ramos talks to John Eldredge, author of the influential book 'Wild at Heart' and his newest book "Experience Jesus. Really". John shares wisdom and practical steps on how to experience a deeper relationship with God amidst the chaos of the modern digital world.  Order John's Book 'Experience Jesus. Really'. (Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!) This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 624, Your Wife Doesn't Communicate Like You: How to Leverage Your Communication Styles for a Happier Marriage w/ Bill Farrel. Check it out!  Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
Are you stepping up as a father and mentor in today's world? In this 'Average Joe' conversation on The Men in the Arena Podcast, Pastor Jim Ramos brings back Dale Collver, Men in the Arena's original podcast producer! Dale is a seasoned youth ministry leader and Discipleship Director at The Gate Community Youth Center. Dale shares his journey, the 3 types of dads he sees as he works with teenagers, and how men like you can shape the next generation. It's time to step up—because men, you have what it takes to make a lasting impact on today's youth! Check out the podcast referenced in this episode for parenting guidance and wisdom with Kirk Martin! Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com
Everywhere we turn, society continues to downplay the critical role of fathers. But let's make one thing clear: that's flat-out wrong.   In this week's message, Pastor Jim Ramos brings to light some shocking statistics about the devastating impact fatherlessness is having on our youth. Men, it's time to rise up, take charge, and mentor this generation that's been left without fathers.   This message comes from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men in McMinnville, Oregon. Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 678, Breaking the Porn Cycle: The 7 Pillars of Freedom from Sexual Sin w/ Nick Stumbo. Check it out!  Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
From Rock Bottom to Redemption!  Tune in for a powerful, no-holds-barred episode as Adnan Rudan and his wife Kristy share their incredible journey. Adnan, a dedicated policeman, hit rock bottom—but that's when he found God and Men in the Arena. Facing a shattered marriage and battling inner demons, Adnan turned to faith and found a path to redemption. Surrounded by strong men and fueled by the guidance from this podcast, his transformation is nothing short of extraordinary. From a conflicted husband to a steadfast, loving leader of his home, Adnan's story is a testament to strength, resilience, and the power of redemption. (This is a 10-minute excerpt from a 45-minute interview that will air at a later date. Stay tuned!)  Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
Men, are your thoughts holding you back? Taking control of your thoughts could be the key to unlocking spiritual and personal transformation. In this week's interview, Jim Ramos talks to Kyle Idleman, author of 'Every Thought Captive: Calm the Mental Chaos That Keeps You Stuck, Drains Your Hope, and Holds You Back. Kyle, a prominent pastor and author, dives deep into the power of mental transformation through biblical principles. Discover practical and spiritual strategies to renew your mind and unlock significant transformation in your life.  Pre-order Kyle's Book 'Every Thought Captive' (Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!) This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 800, Becoming a Rescuer: How One Man Rescued Me w/ Rick Magee. Check it out!  Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
What if we let ChatGPT write a book using Jim's past work? Would it align with the principles of Men in the Arena? In this week's engaging 10-minute episode, Jim dives into ChatGPT's take on what "it" thinks he would write his next book, "Guardrails", about. Tune in to see how AI interprets Jim's ideas and the core principles of his work. Discover the books that inspired this unique AI version of "Guardrails". Strong Men Dangerous Times: Five Essentials Every Man Must Possess to Change His World Guts and Manhood: Four Irrefutable Attributes of Courage Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
What's the one verse that drives your life and shapes your faith journey? Men, we need a verse to call our own that challenges us to live purposefully. In this week's message, Pastor Jim Ramos introduces the idea of a 'death verse'—a scripture that will define you when you meet Jesus face to face.  This message is from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men in McMinnville, Oregon. Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 744, Becoming A Gospeler W/ Duck Dynasty's Willie Robertson. Check it out!  Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
Are you ready to heal and step into victory? Becoming your best version takes more than just willpower—it requires the right tools and actionable steps. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos unpacks five transformative steps to go from being broken to mended. With deep biblical wisdom and practical advice, this episode offers a roadmap you need to rise up and become the man you were meant to be. This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook
Can storytelling really shape the future of your family and community?  Storytelling isn't just about preserving history— it can empower your tribe and strengthen your leadership. In this week's message, Pastor Jim Ramos emphasizes the importance of storytelling within familial and tribal contexts, drawing from Job 29 where Job reflects on life before his tragedies. This message brings NEW life to the ancient practice of passing down traditions.  This message is from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men in McMinnville, Oregon.  Get your tickets now for The Unbreakable Boy movie: https://tinyurl.com/unbreakableboy115 This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 674: AMA #5: Avoiding First Responder Burnout. For a related episode check out EP 700: Inner Peace for Peace Officers w/ Paul Lee.
Men, are you genuinely listening to those around you, or are you simply waiting for your turn to talk? Becoming the best version of yourself in Christ includes learning to be the best listener, so you can truly support and minister to your loved ones through every season of life. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos reveals the 5 secrets every man should know to master the art of listening. Whether you're struggling to connect with your spouse, children, or friends, these practical strategies will help you become a better listener and a more effective communicator. Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook  Get your tickets now for The Unbreakable Boy movie: https://tinyurl.com/unbreakableboy115 This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
Men, are you ready to step up and protect your wife and daughters, while standing strong against the world's distorted messages? God calls us to be protectors, leaders, and to walk boldly in His truth! In this week's interview, Jim Ramos talks to Cynthia Garrett, author of 'The Naked Truth: Reclaiming Sexual Freedom in a Culture of Lies'. Cynthia is a dynamic and influential voice in today's cultural conversation and shares her compelling life story, and the importance of a God-centered approach to relationships. She challenges us men to rise to the occasion, honor women, and reclaim a biblical understanding of sexuality.  Check out Cynthia's Book The Naked Truth (Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!) Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook  Get your tickets now for The Unbreakable Boy movie: https://tinyurl.com/unbreakableboy115 This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
Do you need self-discipline? Jesus is the ultimate disciplined man! In this equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you about becoming a Disciplined man like Jesus, and what the Bible says self-discipline in the life of a godly Christian man looks like, pulling from Titus and 1 Timothy. The Dialed In man of God is a disciplined man. If that's not you yet, this episode will help. In this series, recorded in South Africa on a safari, Jim Ramos introduces you to the 20 qualities of a man of God pulled from Titus and 1 Timothy, as laid out in his new book, 'Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God' releasing September 3, 2024 with David C Cook publishing. Each episode will walk you through one quality. Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook  Get your tickets now for The Unbreakable Boy movie: https://tinyurl.com/unbreakableboy115 This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
Want to build a men's group that lasts? There is a proven strategy for recruiting and retaining men for a thriving ministry. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos discusses the ingrediants for successful recruitment in men's ministry. Men, your next step in building an impactful men's ministry starts here! Pick up the Men's Ministry Playbook to learn more! Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
Guys, are you ready to take back control of the sex education your kids receive? It's been an ever-growing trend to let outside influences shape our children's understanding of sexuality.  In this week's interview, Jim Ramos talks to Rodney Wright, author of 'How to Talk to Your Kids About Sex'. Rodney is a seasoned veteran with Pure Desire Ministries and shares his wisdom on how to guide your kids through these sensitive topics with confidence and clarity. Men, this isn't just a conversation, it's a call to action to break the silence in our faith communities - it's more important than ever! Check out Rodney's Book https://tinyurl.com/HowtoTalk115 (Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!) Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook  Get your tickets now for The Unbreakable Boy movie: https://tinyurl.com/unbreakableboy115 This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 872: 5 Leadership Secrets Jesus Used That Dads Need to Know: Leading Your Kids How Christ Led the Twelve w/ Barrett Johnson. Get your tickets now for The Unbreakable Boy movie: https://tinyurl.com/unbreakableboy115 This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook
What "weeds" do you find yourself continuously battling in your life? How do they affect your spiritual growth? What practical steps can you take today to start rooting out sin and planting seeds of love, joy, and peace?   In this week's message, Pastor Jim Ramos dives into the critical steps of identifying and removing the "weeds" that stop us from living a life full of purpose and growth. Using wisdom from Galatians 5 and the Parable of the Sower in Matthew 13, he discusses how to aggressively root out sin and intentionally plant seeds that lead to a fruitful, God-honoring life. This message is from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men in McMinnville, Oregon. You can come out to see Jim Ramos in person checking his speaking calendar at menintherena.org, or bring him to speak at your next event.  Get your tickets now for The Unbreakable Boy movie: https://tinyurl.com/unbreakableboy115 This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook      I
Dads, we all aspire to leave a lasting legacy behind but the stress bubble can beat us down over time. Are you getting the support and encouragment you need to stay in the fight?  In this week's interview, Jim Ramos talks to Jeff Springer, author of '#Dad Prep' and founder of Suit Up Ministries. Jeff delves deep into the importance of strong male role models, the critical role of fathers and mentors, and how playing the long game can transform lives and communities. Men, don't miss this empowering episode designed to inspire and equip us for the monumental role they play in shaping the next generation. Check out Jeff's Book https://tinyurl.com/dadprep115 (Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!) Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook  Get your tickets now for The Unbreakable Boy movie: https://tinyurl.com/unbreakableboy115 This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
Christian men are called to gentleness, NOT weakness. If gentle is not weak, then what is it? In this equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you about becoming a Gentle man like Jesus, and what the Bible says gentleness in the life of a godly Christian man looks like, pulling from Titus and 1 Timothy. The Dialed In man of God is a gentle man. If that's not you yet, this episode will help. In this series, recorded in South Africa on a safari, Jim Ramos introduces you to the 20 qualities of a man of God pulled from Titus and 1 Timothy, as laid out in his new book, 'Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God' releasing September 3, 2024 with David C Cook publishing. Each episode will walk you through one quality. You can order your copy of the book on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.  Get your tickets now for The Unbreakable Boy movie: https://tinyurl.com/unbreakableboy115 This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena
Radical, all-out faith and forgiveness is rare—especially in the midst of a high-stakes military mission. In this week's interview, Jim Ramos talks to Lt Col Stuart "Scar" Sullivan, a former B-2 stealth bomber pilot turned passionate faith leader. They explore Scar's incredible journey, including his powerful military experiences and the life-changing moment that led him to fully embrace Christ.  Men, if you're finding it hard to forgive and find true peace this episode is for you. Check out www.commitallin.org to find out more about All In Ministries, and the powerful message of his book, Operation No Coincidences.  Get your tickets now for The Unbreakable Boy movie: https://tinyurl.com/unbreakableboy115 This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook
Do you struggle with your wife's sexual past? Find yourself dwelling on thoughts of her with other men, or resentful that she didn't save herself for you? God's grace can transform your relationship, even when facing your partner's past mistakes. In this week's interview, Jim Ramos talks to Pastor Richard De La Mora about his journey of love and redemption with his wife, Brittany, a former adult film star. Brother, if God can provide healing and redemption for them, He has it in store for you, too! Check out Richard's Book https://tinyurl.com/bodycount115 (Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!) Get your tickets now for The Unbreakable Boy movie: https://tinyurl.com/unbreakableboy115 This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 483: Just A Minute With A Child W/ Wess Stafford EP 483
What does it mean to be a father who stands strong yet flexible in the face of life's challenges?  It can be difficult to be present and supportive, no matter their age, and foster strong, lasting relationships with your children. Today, Pastor Jim Ramos gives practical and biblical advice on how to stay "connected" to your children and family, no matter what life throws at you.  This message is from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men in McMinnville, Oregon. You can come out to see Jim Ramos in person by checking his speaking calendar at menintherena.org, or you can bring him to speak at your next event.  Check out the Trailer for The Unbreakable Boy movie: https://tinyurl.com/unbreakable115  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook
How does the emotional toll of abortion affect men, and why is it often overlooked? In a society that often ignores male grief, what can men do to break the silence and find healing?  In this week's interview, Jim Ramos talks to Gregory Mayo at the National Conference for Ministries to Men in Kansas City. Gregory, a credentialed speaker and founder of the 'Almost Daddy' ministry, shares his personal experiences with the emotional consequences of abortion for men. It's time to address the grief and experience true emotional freedom and healing. Check out Greg's book 'Almost Daddy' (Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!) Check out the Trailer for The Unbreakable Boy movie: https://tinyurl.com/unbreakable115  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 734, WILD Obedience: What Real Biblical Masculine Strength Looks Like w/ Ryan Miller. Check out the Trailer for The Unbreakable Boy movie: https://tinyurl.com/unbreakable115  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook
Ever wonder why so many men's ministries are failing to ignite change? Could it be that we're missing the mark by not truly understanding the needs of the men we serve? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos discusses ways to enhance your ministry's impact. He gives real-life examples that can spark genuine change.  Don't miss these practical tips to level up your ministry! Check out the Trailer for The Unbreakable Boy movie: https://tinyurl.com/unbreakable115  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook
How can you stay dangerous, no matter your age? It takes work ethic, grit, and the ability to be comfortable with discomfort. In this week's interview, Jim Ramos interviews MTNTOUGH founder Dustin Diefenderfer, an expert on mental toughness. Through raw, real-life stories from his journey in fitness, business, and spirituality, Dustin show why these elements are non-negotiable for living a life of purpose and impact. Stay dangerous, stay ready. Check out the Trailer for The Unbreakable Boy movie: https://tinyurl.com/unbreakable115  This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God tinyurl.com/dialedinbook
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 614, Calm Parenting: Discipline Without Anger w/ Kirk Martin.
This week, Pastor Jim Ramos sits down with Glen Dry from Man to Man Discipleship. Glen is a powerhouse in ministry, having launched impactful programs like Steak Night and Sportsman's Church. In this episode, he breaks down his bold and transformative approach that's been bringing men back into fellowship and solidifying their faith alongside other strong men. Visit www.mantomandiscipleship.org for more information. Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. HERE Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. HERE This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com
Men, we're called to lead, protect, and provide. But what do we do when things don't go as planned? What's our true role in God's eyes? In this week's message, Pastor Jim Ramos takes us deep into the historical context of households during the Apostle Paul's time, exploring the powerful Greek terms for 'children' in the Bible. It's time to take a hard look at our roles as protectors and providers—and strengthen them for the sake of our families. This is our duty. Let's own it. This message is from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men in McMinnville, Oregon. You can come out to see Jim Ramos in person checking his speaking calendar at menintherena.org, or bring him to speak at your next event.  Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. HERE Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. HERE This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com
A man of God seeks justice. Our world has perverted what justice looks like, but our God is the God of justice. In this equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you about becoming a Just man like Jesus, and what the Bible says justice in the life of a godly Christian man looks like, pulling from Titus and 1 Timothy. The Dialed In man of God is a just man. If that's not you yet, this episode will help. In this series, recorded in South Africa on a safari, Jim Ramos introduces you to the 20 qualities of a man of God pulled from Titus and 1 Timothy, as laid out in his new book, 'Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God' releasing September 3, 2024 with David C Cook publishing. Each episode will walk you through one quality. You can order your copy of the book on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.  Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. HERE Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. HERE This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com
The world tells you to level up by chasing power, status, and self-interest. But that's not the path the Bible lays out. If you want to become the best version of yourself, there are some core values that will get you there—not the empty hustle the world promotes. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos lays down the blueprint for leveling up your life—from a Division 2 mindset to a Division 1 way of living. Jim breaks down nine critical principles and weaves in biblical wisdom to ground these lessons in a deeper, spiritual context. This isn't just about being a better man; it's about becoming the best version of yourself—mind, body, and spirit. Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. HERE Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. HERE This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com
Have you ever wondered how to reach your full potential as a man of God? The journey to becoming a fully realized man of God can feel daunting and overwhelming, but it has to start somewhere.  In this week's unique interview, Patrick Morley interviews Jim Ramos about his USA Today bestselling book "Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God." Patrick Morley, a men's ministry giant (of 'Man in the Mirror' fame), dives in with insightful questions to unpack Jim's life-changing book. Join us in this exciting episode as they delve into some of the 20 key characteristics that define a man functioning at full capacity. You can order your copy of the book on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.  Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. HERE Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. HERE This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 471, Imperfect Parenting and How to Be Good at It w/ Dave Wilson. Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. HERE Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. HERE This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com
Are you feeling like your talents or gifts are being wasted during this season of life?  Does it feel like you're stuck living in the shadow of what you thought your life would look like? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos dives into the power of "obscurity"—a critical but often overlooked season in a man's life. Drawing on biblical figures like Moses, Jesus, and Paul, Jim explores how periods of hiddenness shape character, strengthen faith and build patience. Men, don't quit when the spotlight's off—your best is being built in the shadows. Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. HERE Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. HERE This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com
Men are born to RESCUE and LEAD. It's in our DNA. But too many boys grow up without a father figure to instill this core virtue. If you're ready to step up, take charge, and lead a mission that truly matters, this episode is where you start. In this week's interview, Jim Ramos interviews Rick Magee, COO of KOZ (Kids Outdoor Zone). KOZ is a powerful ministry for men, offering training and a solid curriculum to reach fatherless/fathered boys in their community.  Check out kidsoutdoorzone.com to learn how KOZ is reshaping futures. Find out how YOU can make a real impact. Time to answer the call, men! Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. HERE Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. HERE This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com
This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 435 Keeping Your Wife Your Best Friend w/ Clarence Schuler.  Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. HERE Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. HERE This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com
Are you a faithful man? You can become one. In this equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you about becoming a Faithful man like Jesus, and what the Bible says faithfulness in the life of a godly Christian man looks like, pulling from Titus and 1 Timothy. The Dialed In man of God is a faithful man. If that's not you yet, this episode will help. In this series, recorded in South Africa on a safari, Jim Ramos introduces you to the 20 qualities of a man of God pulled from Titus and 1 Timothy, as laid out in his new book, 'Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God' releasing September 3, 2024 with David C Cook publishing. Each episode will walk you through one quality. You can order your copy of the book on Amazon or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.  Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. HERE Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. HERE This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com
Life is too short to live it without purpose. Wess Stafford has an amazing story and a challenging message for us all! Dr. Wess Stafford, President Emeritus of Compassion International, is an internationally recognized advocate for children in poverty. Wess' life experiences have uniquely prepared him for this role. With earned undergraduate degrees from Moody Bible Institute, Biola University and a master's degree from Wheaton College, as well as a Ph.D. from Michigan State University, Wess often says, "Everything I really need to know to lead a multinational organization I learned from the poor, growing up in an African village." Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. HERE Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. HERE This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com
This is a reboot of a past episode #239 of the Men in the Arena Podcast. Paul Coughlin is an expert witness regarding bullying and the law, and is a FoxNews analyst and contributor. He is a popular speaker who has appeared on Good Morning America, Nightline, C-Span, The LA Times, The New York Times, Newsweek and other media outlets. In his ground-breaking book, No More Christian Nice Guy, Paul explains why being a "nice guy" is disastrous to everyone involved. Instead, Paul shows how the abundant life that God has for us is found through a more assertive orientation toward life, growing faith, saving marriage, bolstering careers, and in some cases even saving life itself. Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. HERE Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. HERE This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30! MTNTOUGH.com
This is a reboot of a past episode #239 of the Men in the Arena Podcast. Dr. Jason Karampatsos is the lead pastor of New Life Assembly of God in Janesville, Wisconsin, the co-founder of the City of Refuge Counseling Network and the author of The Elephant in the Marriage. As an ordained minister and a licensed counselor with a Ph.D. in pastoral counseling, he helps men navigate both spiritual and mental health challenges.  He writes extensively on the impact of perspectives and perceptions upon everyday realities and especially upon marriages. He is an active speaker for men's conferences, marriage retreats and workshops and speaks to pastors and churches across the country on how to thrive in their relationships.  Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. HERE Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. HERE
This is a reboot of a past episode #502 of the Men in the Arena Podcast. The Star of Bethlehem documentary is no longer free on YouTube, but it is available to stream at bethlehemstar.com. Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. HERE Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. HERE
Ever wondered what it truly means to live above reproach? Are you living a life worthy of being called a leader? In this message, Jim shares a powerful story and biblical truths to push you to examine your life and confront the areas where you need to rise up. It's time to step up and live with integrity, no loose ends, no excuses. (This message is from the NCMM National Conference for Men's Ministry Leaders held in Kansas City. Visit ncmm.org for information on the 2025 conference.) Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. HERE Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. HERE
Marriages are breaking down at an alarming rate. What are you doing to safeguard your own? Are you letting the culture erode your relationship?  In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos takes on one of the most pressing issues men face today: divorce. You'll get armed with 10 critical guardrails every man should have in place to keep his marriage rock-solid—and even a bonus guardrail for singles. Whether you're married or still single, don't miss this episode—your marriage and future may depend on it. Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. HERE Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. HERE
Death Ground. Alexander the Great famously burned his ships to eliminate his troops' option of retreat, compelling them to fight with everything they had.  Today, Pastor Jim Ramos challenges us to read a common passage with a new perspective. This message calls Christians to stop living in fear of failure and instead, adopt a long-term, sacrificial perspective that leads to real, flourishing faith. This message is from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men in McMinnville, Oregon. You can come out to see Jim Ramos in person checking his speaking calendar at menintherena.org, or bring him to speak at your next event.  Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. HERE Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. HERE
Can you teach others about God? How about those in your household, your wife and kids? If you can't articulate your faith, that's a miss, brother! In this equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you about becoming a teacher like Jesus, and what the Bible says about what exactly the godly man needs to be able to do, pulling from Titus and 1 Timothy. The Dialed In man of God is able and ready to teach others. He doesn't have to know everything, but he needs to be ready and willing to teach. If that's not you yet, this episode will help. In this series, recorded in South Africa on a safari, Jim Ramos introduces you to the 20 qualities of a man of God pulled from Titus and 1 Timothy, as laid out in his new book, 'Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God' releasing September 3, 2024 with David C Cook publishing. Each episode will walk you through one quality. You can order your copy of the book on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.
Many men are walking around claiming they've met Jesus, yet their lives look no different. When you've truly encountered Jesus, your life won't stay the same. Just like getting hit by a freight train changes EVERYTHING, an encounter with the resurrected Christ should leave a mark. In this week's interview, Jim Ramos interviews Joby Martin, author of "Run Over By the Grace Train: How the Unstoppable Love of God Transforms Everything" and founder of The Church of Eleven22 in Jacksonville, FL. Pastor Joby will challenge you to live with real power and purpose and break down what real grace and forgiveness look like. Here are the links to Joby's book discussed in this episode: https://tinyurl.com/Grace115 - Run Over By the Grace Train (Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!) Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. HERE Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. HERE
Do you ever wonder if you're hearing God's voice or if it's just your own thoughts? You're not alone, many men struggle with this question.  In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos shares six powerful ways to distinguish between God's Holy whisper and the noise in your own mind. You'll get practical steps to gain clarity and guidance in your relationship with God. Want access to an ad-free, early-release version of the podcast? Get it with Arena Access on Patreon. HERE Have questions you wish you could ask Jim about life, marriage, men's ministry, or manhood? Join his monthly live Zoom Q&A by joining The Locker Room on Patreon. HERE
Do you struggle to lead the people around you? God calls all men to be leaders. In this equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you about becoming the leader Jesus has called you to be and what the Bible says about Godly leadership. The Dialed In man of God is a Leader. Using Paul's teaching, Jim explains how, as a leader, we are called to build "walls" around our loved ones to protect them. No matter what personality type, leadership style, or temperament, God has called all men to lead. It's time to do something. Anything. Just lead. In this series, recorded in South Africa on a safari, Jim Ramos introduces you to the 20 qualities of a man of God pulled from Titus and 1 Timothy, as laid out in his new book, 'Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God' releasing September 3, 2024 with David C Cook publishing. Each episode will walk you through one quality. You can order your copy of the book on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.
Great dads show up, lead, and stay in the fight. But even the strongest man can hit a breaking point and feel like walking away. In this week's interview, Jim Ramos interviews Kent Evans, author of "Don't Bench Yourself: How to Stay in the Game Even When You Want to Quit." Kent dives into why so many men pull themselves out of the game and, more importantly, how to avoid it. Men, stay in the game, stay strong, and reclaim your role as the leader your family needs.  Here are the links to Kent's book discussed in this episode: https://tinyurl.com/offthebench115 - Don't Bench Yourself (Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!)
Are you just a man who talks about integrity, or are you truly living it? It isn't easy. It means stepping up when it's uncomfortable and choosing courage over convenience.  In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos breaks down the seven key practices for living a life of unshakable character, straight from his bestselling book Dialed In.  If you're ready to level up and own your character, this episode is a must-listen.   You can order your copy of 'Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God' on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.
Life is stressful. When you're grinding it out in the stress bubble, it's easy to miss how miraculous God is. It's time, men, to rediscover our sense of wonder, meaning, and faith. From the facts of DNA to the deeper significance of life's design, there are hidden miracles we can draw inspiration from every single day. In this week's interview, Jim Ramos interviews Mark Batterson, author of "A Million Little Miracles." In this episode, Mark dives into how cultivating a "holy curiosity" can transform the mundane into the miraculous and open your eyes to the wonders all around you. Here are the links to Mark's book discussed in this episode: https://tinyurl.com/million115 - A Million Little Miracles (Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!)
Do you sacrifice for the people around you? There's nothing more Christlike than sacrifice. Do you sacrifice your desires, dreams, and hopes for the sake of those you love? In this equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you about becoming a Sacrificial man like Jesus, and what the Bible says about what exactly the godly man sacrifices, pulling from Titus and 1 Timothy. The Dialed In man of God is Sacrificial. He sacrifices specific things in his life in the service of others and God. If that's not you yet, this episode will help. In this series, recorded in South Africa on a safari, Jim Ramos introduces you to the 20 qualities of a man of God pulled from Titus and 1 Timothy, as laid out in his new book, 'Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God' releasing September 3, 2024 with David C Cook publishing. Each episode will walk you through one quality. You can order your copy of the book on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.  [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
No way to get around it, brother: you are called to lead your family. But the practical blueprint for success already exists! Jesus showed you exactly what to do in the 5 ways he led the twelve disciples. Discover what it means to lead your family like Jesus did and learn how to do it with strength, grace, and intentionality.  In this week's interview, Jim Ramos is joined by Barrett Johnson, author of "Disciple Them Like Jesus: Leading Your Kids the Way Christ Led the Twelve." You'll walk away with a practical, 5-step plan and the confidence that you are building a legacy that will stand strong. Here are the links to Barrett's books discussed in this episode:  https://tinyurl.com/disciple115 - Disciple Them like Jesus https://tinyurl.com/MeetMe115 - Meet Me in the Middle (Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!) [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
In today's increasingly divided culture, it can be easy to keep faith separated from politics. Taking a political stand while staying rooted in biblical principles can feel nearly impossible. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos shares 3 guiding principles he's implemented to make his political decisions. We can find security and peace knowing that even though our culture and leaders change, the truth of the gospel never does.  [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks of free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
Many resources aimed at men often miss the mark when it comes to fostering true spiritual, mental, and physical resilience against life's challenges. We need to be prepared to confront spiritual and cultural darkness as we strive to follow Jesus. In this week's interview, Jim Ramos interviews Kyle Thompson, founder of Undaunted.Life Kyle covers many topics for the rugged Christian who is eager to deepen his faith and grow as a man.
Are you a respected man? Do the people around you respect you? In this equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you about becoming a Respected man like Jesus, and what the Bible says about the respect earned by and displayed by the goldy man, pulling from Titus and 1 Timothy. The Dialed In man of God is Respected. He does certain things to gain the respect of those around him. If that's not you yet, this episode will help. In this series, recorded in South Africa on a safari, Jim Ramos introduces you to the 20 qualities of a man of God pulled from Titus and 1 Timothy, as laid out in his new book, 'Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God' releasing September 3, 2024 with David C Cook publishing. Each episode will walk you through one quality. You can order your copy of the book on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.  [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
Are you just a fan of Jesus or a true follower? Being a true follower is tough. It requires us to give our unconditional commitment. It's a willingness to break free from our comfort zones. It's a call to leave behind excuses and fully embrace becoming God's man. This message from Jim Ramos was given at the Men in the Arena's 2024 Man Camp held at Young Life's Washington Family Ranch. You can come to see Jim Ramos in person at Man Camp 2025.  Check out menintherena.org  for more information and to register.  Man Camp 2025 will be held May 2nd - 4th at Young Life's Washington Family Ranch in Oregon. [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks of free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app. ]
Are you unknowingly wounding your kids? Is your parenting style setting your kids up for success or struggle? In this important video, Jim Ramos explores 7 things smart dads should never do when it comes to parenting. Every child wrestles with questions like "Do I have what it takes?" and "Am I good enough?" As fathers, we must provide the support and guidance to answer these questions positively. Jim will discuss practical strategies for new dads or seasoned parents alike.  [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks of free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
You're a normal guy, not a pastor. But one relationship you have might end up reaching thousands of people for Christ. It all starts with you. Meet Gary McCusker, Jim Ramos's spiritual father. Gary has a remarkable ability to connect with people on a personal level. Yet this ability is rooted in principles we can all learn and implement.  Four decades ago, Gary believed that Jim had the potential for transformation and redemption. Today, Gary's investment in Jim is making a difference in thousands of men. You'll walk away from this episode with a better idea of how normal guys like you can leave a spiritual legacy like Gary's by investing in the people you see every day.   [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks of free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
A Christian man is called to be Devout. This doesn't mean becoming a pastor or priest, but it does mean specific things for your daily behavior and habits. In this equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you about becoming Devout like Jesus, and what the Bible says about the devotion displayed by the godly man, pulling from Titus and 1 Timothy. The Dialed In man of God is Devout. He does certain things RELIGIOUSLY. If that's not you yet, this episode will help. In this series, recorded in South Africa on a safari, Jim Ramos introduces you to the 20 qualities of a man of God pulled from Titus and 1 Timothy, as laid out in his new book, 'Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God' releasing September 3, 2024 with David C Cook publishing. Each episode will walk you through one quality. You can order your copy of the book on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.  [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
We all want to build stronger connections.  But as men, sometimes it feels like we lack the tools that seem to come so naturally to women when it comes to relational communication. In this week's interview, Jim Ramos interviews Greg Smalley, author of "Men's Relational Toolbox." He shares practical tips and insight on how we can immediately improve those relationships that mean the most to us.  Here is the link to Greg's book: https://tinyurl.com/toolbox115 (Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!)
Could you use some everyday, practical ways to connect, engage, and encourage your child? Even though being a dad is one of the most rewarding roles in life, this world is overrun by examples of absent and unengaged dads. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos teaches five proven ways you can unconditionally bless your children. Whether you're a new dad or a seasoned pro, these practical strategies will inspire you to be the best father you can be! [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks of free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
We are all trying to find ways to nudge our kids towards Christ.  It's an uphill battle because of the influence of secular media and video games that are so prevalent in our culture.  What if there was a way to let your kids explore and enjoy screen time but in a safe, Godly environment?  In this week's interview, Jim Ramos talks to the CEO and founder of TruPlay, Brent Dusing. TruPlay is a gaming platform created to bring high-quality, fun, and biblically sound entertainment to audiences worldwide. Brent discusses how TruPlay was founded and how it's bringing safe, quality games to this next generation.  You can download the TruPlay Games app on your iOS or Android device or check them out at www.truplaygames.com. [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
A good Christian man is NOT a NICE GUY. In fact, NICE GUYS are ruining this world. In this equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you about the difference between a nice guy and a good man like Jesus, why you should be a good man, not a nice guy, and what the Bible says about the kind of good Christian men should strive for, pulling from Titus and 1 Timothy. The Dialed In man of God is a good man. But he is NOT a Christian nice guy. If that's not you yet, this episode will help. In this series, recorded in South Africa on a safari, Jim Ramos introduces you to the 20 qualities of a man of God pulled from Titus and 1 Timothy, as laid out in his new USA Today bestselling book, 'Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God' released September 3, 2024 with David C Cook publishing. Each episode will walk you through one quality. You can order your copy of the book on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.  [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
What do you picture your marriage looking like in ten years? What about twenty? Will it be better than it is today?  One thing is for sure: it will be different. The good news is there are some things you can start doing now and ensure your marriage makes it long-term and thrives. In this week's interview, author Dr. Kim Kimberling joins Jim Ramos to discuss his book, "Love, Intimacy, and Sex in the Second Half."  Dr. Kim shares his experience from his 54 years of marriage on what we can do to bulletproof our marriages.  Here is the link to Dr. Kim's book: https://tinyurl.com/SecondHalf115 (Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!) [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks of free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
Are you a generous man? There's an easy way to tell. In this equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you how to know if you're a generous man like Jesus, and what the Bible says about generosity, pulling from Titus and 1 Timothy. The Dialed In man of God is a generous man with his wealth, time, and talents. If that's not you yet, this episode will help. In this series, recorded in South Africa on a safari, Jim Ramos introduces you to the 20 qualities of a man of God pulled from Titus and 1 Timothy, as laid out in his new USA Today Best Seller, 'Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God' released September 3, 2024 with David C Cook publishing. Each episode will walk you through one quality. You can order your copy of the book on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.  [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
Are you called to be a leader of men? Are you currently serving in a leadership position? It can be lonely at the top, pushing against the cultural norms and bureaucracy of the church to reach men.  In this week's interview, Jim Ramos interviews Scott Haima, Executive Director of the National Coalition of Ministries to Men (NCMM). He shares the importance of men's leaders collaborating, encouraging, and becoming a resource to other men in the trenches.  To attend the 2024 NCMM National Conference, visit https://ncmm.org. [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks of free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
Note: Jim accidentally says the wrong Greek word in this episode, "Xenophilia" which means 'the love for, attraction to, or appreciation of foreign people, manners, customs, or cultures' - the actual word outlined in the book is 'Philoxenia' which combines filo, which means "love", and xenos, which means "stranger" and covers the concept of hospitality. Christian men, you're called by God to be "hospitable," but our culture defines the word wrong! Hospitality actually means something totally different in the Bible. In this equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you about becoming a Hospitable man like Jesus, and what the Bible says about hospitality, pulling from Titus and 1 Timothy. The Dialed In man of God is a hospitable man. He welcomes a very specific type of person into his home. If you don't know what type of person yet, this episode will help. In this series, recorded in South Africa on a safari, Jim Ramos introduces you to the 20 qualities of a man of God pulled from Titus and 1 Timothy, as laid out in his new book, 'Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God' releasing September 3, 2024 with David C Cook publishing. Each episode will walk you through one quality. You can order your copy of the book on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.  [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
Are you tired of witnessing a decline in moral values and a departure from a God-centered culture? What can you do TODAY to counter this trend and push back?  In this week's interview, author Joe Oden joins Jim Ramos to discuss his book, "Prayer That Ignites Revival: The Catalyst to Every Spiritual Awakening".  Joe shares why we can be hopeful and sheds light on why revival and awakening could be right around the corner. Here is the link to Joe's book: https://tinyurl.com/ignites115 (Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!) [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks of free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
A Christian man is called to be a Protector. Protecting the weak and helpless in in the job description for the man of God. In this equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you about becoming a Protector like Jesus, and what the Bible says about violence and protecting others, pulling from Titus and 1 Timothy. The Dialed In man of God is a protector. He doesn't shy from conflict, but rather enters into it in order to protect the weak and powerless. If that's not you yet, this episode will help. In this series, recorded in South Africa on a safari, Jim Ramos introduces you to the 20 qualities of a man of God pulled from Titus and 1 Timothy, as laid out in his new book, 'Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God' releasing September 3, 2024 with David C Cook publishing. Each episode will walk you through one quality. You can order your copy of the book on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.  [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
Do you feel tethered to your past failures, hurts, and insecurities? Men, we are called to show grit and push past our shortcomings to let the world feel the full force of who we are in Christ.  In this message in the "Take Courage" series from the MAG, Pastor Jim Ramos shares how we can develop grit and ensure we can endure life's hardships and finish strong. This message is from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men, which meets weekly most Wednesday nights at Grange Hall in McMinnville, Oregon. You can come out to see Jim Ramos in person checking his speaking schedule at menintherena.org, or bring him to speak at your next event. (Note: Jim's speaking calendar is filling up fast due to the Sept 3 release of his new book, "Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God" with David C Cook publishing.) You can order your copy of the book on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin. [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
It's Dialed In's official release day! Join pastor Jim Ramos as he celebrates a major milestone -  the official launch of his first traditionally-published book. Learn about the journey to get here and how God has shown up in unexpected ways. We're praying that He will use this book to impact millions of men! If you haven't ordered your copy yet, now's the time - every order this week counts towards our bestseller list status! Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God -> tinyurl.com/dialedinbook [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks of free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
There are 3 types of men in conflict: peacefaker, peacebreaker, and peacemaker. You know Christian men are called to be peacemakers, but how do you do that without being a doormat? In this equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you becoming a vigilant man and what the Bible says about vigilance, pulling from Titus and 1 Timothy. The Dialed In man of God is a peacemaker. He doesn't shy from conflict, but rather enters into it in order to bring peace. If that's not you yet, this episode will help. In this series, recorded in South Africa on a safari, Jim Ramos introduces you to the 20 qualities of a man of God pulled from Titus and 1 Timothy, as laid out in his new book, 'Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God' releasing September 3, 2024 with David C Cook publishing. Each episode will walk you through one quality. You can order your copy of the book on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.  [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
STAY VIGILANT! Men, are you staying vigilant? What does vigilance look like for the godly Christian man? In this equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you to become a vigilant man and what the Bible says about vigilance, pulling from Titus and 1 Timothy. The Dialed In man of God is a vigilant man. He keeps his head on a swivel for himself and those he loves. If that's not you yet, this episode will help. In this series, recorded in South Africa on a safari, Jim Ramos introduces you to the 20 qualities of a man of God pulled from Titus and 1 Timothy, as laid out in his new book, 'Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God' releasing September 3, 2024 with David C Cook publishing. Each episode will walk you through one quality. You can order your copy of the book on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.  [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
Brother, you've heard "everything in moderation," but is there an area where this isn't true for you? Does something have control of you instead of the other way around? In this equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you to become a moderate man and what the Bible says about moderation, pulling from Titus and 1 Timothy. The Dialed In man of God is a moderate man. His only master is Jesus, and nothing else masters him. If that's not you yet, this episode will help. In this series, recorded in South Africa on a safari, Jim Ramos introduces you to the 20 qualities of a man of God pulled from Titus and 1 Timothy, as laid out in his new book, 'Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God' releasing September 3, 2024 with David C Cook publishing. Each episode will walk you through one quality. You can order your copy of the book on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.  [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
Brother, do you lose your cool? Are you becoming a calm man, or is your temper and anger out of control? In this equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you what the Bible says about how the man of God deals with his emotions, pulling from Titus and 1 Timothy. The Dialed In man of God is a calm man. He is an emotional rock. If that's not you yet, this episode will help. In this series, recorded in South Africa on a safari, Jim Ramos introduces you to the 20 qualities of a man of God pulled from Titus and 1 Timothy, as laid out in his new book, 'Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God' releasing September 3, 2024 with David C Cook publishing. Each episode will walk you through one quality. You can order your copy of the book on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.  [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks of free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
Christian man, are you the missionary, or the mission field? You might be surprised at the answer. In this equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you what the Bible says about the man of God's role as a witness to others, pulling from Titus and 1 Timothy. The Dialed In man of God is a witness. He is a missionary, and doesn't defer that job to his pastor or church. In this series, recorded in South Africa on a safari, Jim Ramos introduces you to the 20 qualities of a man of God pulled from Titus and 1 Timothy, as laid out in his new book, 'Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God' releasing September 3, 2024 with David C Cook publishing. Each episode will walk you through one quality. You can order your copy of the book on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.  [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
Christian man, are you a servant like Jesus? In this equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you what the Bible says about the a man of God's role as a servant to the ones he loves (and the ones he doesn't), pulling from Titus and 1 Timothy. The Dialed In man of God is a servant. Brother, it's time to put on the servant's towel. In this series, recorded in South Africa on a safari, Jim Ramos introduces you to the 20 qualities of a man of God pulled from Titus and 1 Timothy, as laid out in his new book, 'Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God' releasing September 3, 2024 with David C Cook publishing. Each episode will walk you through one quality. You can order your copy of the book on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.  [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
Christian man, are you living above reproach? In this equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you what the Bible says about your integrity as a man of God, pulling from Titus and Timothy. The Dialed In man of God is a blameless man. He has no dark corners, no hidden secrets. In this series, recorded in South Africa on a safari, Jim Ramos introduces you to the 20 qualities of a man of God pulled from Titus and Timothy, as laid out in his new book, 'Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God' releasing September 3, 2024 with David C Cook publishing. Each episode will walk you through one quality. You can pre-order your copy of the book on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.  [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
In this series, recorded in South Africa on a safari, Jim Ramos will introduce you to the 20 qualities of a man of God laid out in his new book, 'Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God' releasing September 3, 2024 with David C Cook publishing. Each upcoming episode will walk you through one quality.   You can pre-order your copy of the book on Amazon at https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook or learn more at meninthearena.org/dialedin.  [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
Are you a soft and weak dad, or a SOLID one? The opposite of soft is not hard - it's SOLID. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos outlines 5 tips for how you can take your fatherhood from weak and soft to SOLID and STRONG.   Pre-Order Jim Ramos' new book 'Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God' on Amazon: https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook [Honor God with your fitness! Our podcast sponsor is the MTNTOUGH fitness app. Use code 'Arena30' at MTNTough.com for 6 weeks free access.]
Is the woman you're dating "The One?" How can a man know? In this week's 10-min equipping episode, Jim Ramos helps you decide if the one you're with is the soul mate God has for you.  Pre-Order Jim Ramos' new book 'Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God' on Amazon: https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook [Honor God with your fitness! Our podcast sponsor is the MTNTOUGH fitness app. Use code 'Arena30' at MTNTough.com for 6 weeks free access.]
How should Christian men choose who to date? Christian dating can be tricky. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos gives you 5 things to look for in the women you date. If you choose a Christian girlfriend and date her using these 5 guidelines, you'll end up with a woman who is wife material.
How can a dad raise strong, confident, godly kids? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos gives you 7 pro tips for dads. Implement these 7 things in your home and parenting, and you'll raise children that grow into strong, confident adults. For more on how to become the man God made you to be, pre-order Jim Ramos' new book on Amazon, 'Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God' on Amazon: https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook [Honor God with your fitness! Our podcast sponsor is the MTNTOUGH fitness app. Use code 'Arena30' at MTNTough.com for 6 weeks free access.]
So you've given your life to Jesus - what do you do next? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos walks you through 5 simple things you should do now that you're a Christian. [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
Are you REALLY saved? Is the prayer you said in middle school enough to get you to heaven? How can you know FOR SURE that you're saved?  In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos teaches you what the Bible says about how to know if your salvation is for real. [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
Do you struggle to say YES to the things God places on your heart? It's a struggle for many of us, including Jonah in the Bible. Today, Pastor Jim Ramos teaches from the story of Jonah and the power of saying YES to God's will and the dangers of saying NO. This message is from The MAG, The McMinville Area Gathering for men in McMinnville, Oregon. You can come out to see Jim Ramos in person checking his speaking calendar at menintherena.org, or bring him to speak at your next event.  [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
You know you should be the spiritual leader, but where do you start? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos teaches Christian men how to get started on spiritual leadership, even if you haven't been setting a great example up to this point. [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
When is it OK for Christians to get divorced? What does the Bible say about divorce? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos walks you through the 2 biblical grounds for divorce.   [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
Should Christians tithe, or was that just for Jews? What does the Bible REALLY teach about tithing? The verses you usually hear about tithing might not mean that at all! In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos teaches you what the Bible does and doesn't say about tithing, and gives you his interpretation of what this means practically for the Christian man. You'll walk away with a better idea of whether the "tithe" applies to you and what you should do about it.   [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
Do you hesitate to share your faith in Christ? Worry that you're not qualified? Wonder how to do it without sounding weird? In this week's interview, Jim Ramos is joined by Duck Dynasty's Willie Robertson to talk about his new book,Gospeler: Turning Darkness into Light One Conversation at a Time. He shares why many Christians never move to the stage of sharing their faith, and how you can get started. You'll walk away with practical, simple ways to start conversations and make sure you're a "Gospeler" for Christ.  Willie Robertson's Book: Gospeler: Turning Darkness into Light One Conversation at a Time ->tinyurl.com/gospeler115 (Using our link to check out the book supports our ministry – thanks! [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks of free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
Is it a SIN for a Christian man to smoke pot? Now that marijuana is legal in many states, does that make it OK? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos explores whether the Bible has anything to say about weed and its place in the life of a Christian man. [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks of free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
Have you lost a relationship over politics? Most of us have. The Church has slowly been divided based on partisan beliefs, and God is calling you to bridge the gap. The intersection of faith and politics doesn't have to be messy. Thankfully, the Gospel shows us a better way. In this week's interview, Jim Ramos is joined by Curtis Chang, theologian and faculty member of Duke Divinity School. He dives into his newest book "The After Party: Toward Better Christian Politics" which helps Christians navigate political conversations and rebuild relationships.  Curtis's book: The After Party: Toward Better Christian Politics [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks of free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
Christians are sexist!" "The Bible is misogynistic!" We've all heard the accusations: many atheists and deconstructing Christians assert that the Bible endorses the oppression of women. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos responds to the accusation that the Bible is a work that subjugates women and endorses sexism, and teaches you how you might be reading certain passages wrong. [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
How do your children KNOW when they have crossed into adulthood? There is an entire generation of young people who crave significance in a world of confusion, violence, and immorality.  How can you help your children find their way to become Godly adults? In this week's interview, Jim Ramos is joined by Chuck Stecker, an expert in intergenerational ministry. He presents the lost art of "Rite of Passage", and tells you why it needs to be reinstituted and how you as a father can implement it. Prepare for a rite of passage ceremony recipe for your son or daughter. Check out Chuck's book, Men of Honor, Women of Virtue: Raising Kids to Keep the Faith  https://tinyurl.com/MENofHonor740 (Using our link to check out the book supports our ministry – thanks!) [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks of free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
Are your kids part of the 48% of children today who won't reach 18 years of age with both parents still in the home? If so, or even if your family is still intact, this episode will help you SHOW UP as a dad. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos teaches you how to be so consistent that your presence builds a firm foundation in your kids' hearts. You'll walk away from this episode with 5 boots-on-the-ground tactics to stay engaged with your kids.  [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
Are you married? Your wife is greater than your kids. Remarried? Still true! The Bible shows us that your wife is greater than your kids, even in the tricky situation of remarriage. In this message at the MAG, Pastor Jim Ramos lays out the biblical case for this counter-cultural assertion, WIFE > KIDS.   This message is from The MAG, The McMinville Area Gathering for men, which meets weekly most Wednesday nights at Grange Hall in McMinnville, Oregon. You can come out to see Jim Ramos in person checking his speaking calendar at menintherena.org, or bring him to speak at your next event.    [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
We all want to be successful leaders and fathers in our homes. But how do we properly assess where we're at and what areas we can improve? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos breaks down the 5 levels of leadership a dad can obtain. Jim asks you to get real with yourself to make an honest assessment of your level of leadership and consider how you can move up to be a level 5 leader in your home. [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
Need a full-service revamp of your marriage? Today, Jim Ramos is joined by power couple, Drs. Paul and Virginia Friesen, as they help you avoid marriage pitfalls, offer tangible advice, and encourage you as you battle for your relationship with your wife. This unique husband-and-wife episode offers fascinating insight from a women's perspective. You'll walk away with tangible steps and tools to make sure you come out victorious in your marriage.   The last time Paul and Virginia appeared on our podcast, it was the one and only time Jim's wife Shanna has come on the pod with him! It was raw and powerful. Listen to that audio episode here. Check out Paul and Virgina's book, The Marriage App: Unlocking the Irony of Intimacy  https://tinyurl.com/marriageapp115 (Using our link to check out the book supports our ministry – thanks!) [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
Are you a know-it-all? Do you have trouble taking criticism? Pretty sure you don't need direction from others? Find yourself judging the way others do things? Having a TEACHABLE spirit is vital when you're living out your best version of life in Christ. Even so, many of us walk around with a "know-it-all" attitude. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos teaches you 6 secrets a "know-it-all" attitude reveals about your heart and how it plays into your "Season of Manhood" (see "Seasons of Manhood" Part 1 and Part 2 ) [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
Calling all WILD MEN! You know you're called to be a strong Christian man, so why does the Bible tell you to be "meek?" And why does God keep calling WILD, UNRULY men to his cause? This world wants to break men like you, but God has different plans. This week, Men in the Arena founder Jim Ramos is joined by evangelist Ryan Miller, known on Instagram as "Dude with the Good News" @dudewithgoodnews for a deep dive into what WILD Christian masculine strength really looks like.  [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
Men, are you stuck in the daily grind? Wondering if you're getting anywhere? Often we can't see the forest for the trees. How do you zoom out to see the bigger picture in the Stress Bubble? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, pastor Jim Ramos teaches you the activity that he did once 25 years ago which still impacts his life today. In fact, the ministry of Men in the Arena is a direct result of it! Men, it's time to write your own obituary! You'll walk away from this episode with Jim's 10 hints and a step-by-step action plan for how to look to the end of your life in order to change your life right away. If you do this activity once, it will help you live a life of meaningful achievement and purpose starting today. Read 26-year-old Jim Ramos' PROPHETIC obituary. Send us your obituary – we want to see it!   [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
How should a single Christian man approach sex? What does honoring God look like when single, dating, or divorced? In this second episode in our two-part series on "SEXpectations," Jim Ramos is joined by Carol Tanksley, MD DMin, to discuss biblical principles for how to honor God in your sex life during all seasons. The first episode focused on married sex. This week's interview focuses on sex and the single, dating, and engaged Christian man. Dr. Carol's Book: Sexpectations: Reframing Your Good and Not-So-Good Stories about God, Love, and Relationships   (Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!) [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
No men's ministry at your church? You can start one! Today, Jim Ramos, pastor and founder of Men in the Arena, will walk you through his newest resource. Born of thirty years of starting transformational small groups, The Men's Ministry Playbook contains his proven strategy to help you launch and grow a men's ministry at your local church. For our free resources designed just for men's ministry leaders, check out meninthearena.org/mensministr [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks of free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
Are you disappointed by your sex life? Many Christian men in otherwise happy Christian marriages are not getting the sex they hoped for. There are hidden motivations, lies, and expectations that may be manipulating your views on sex! In this two part series on "SEXpectations," Jim Ramos is joined by Carol Tanksley, MD DMin, to discuss biblical principles for how to honor God in your sex life during all seasons. This first episode focuses on married sex. Next week's interview will focus on sex and the single, dating, and engaged Christian man. Dr. Carol's Book:  Sexpectations: Reframing Your Good and Not-So-Good Stories about God, Love, and Relationships -> https://tinyurl.com/sexpectations115 (Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!) [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
Most church men's ministries are set up wrong! If you're wondering why your church's men's ministry is dead in the water, or if you're are about to start a men's ministry and want to avoid the most common mistake, today's 10-minute equipping episode will teach you what to do to get a vital, growing ministry to men. Pastor Jim Ramos breaks down step-by-step, proven ways to get your men's ministry off the ground, including what NOT to do. He'll walk you through the 5 purposes of the Church, the Bullzeye model for men's ministry, and the 5 guys who you need in your core ministry team.   Help! I'm Starting a Men's Group (free download) The Men's Ministry Playbook: A Proven Strategy to Impact Men( [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
Starting a men's group can be daunting, and even for those who want to, it can be a struggle to find resources and a game plan to get one off the ground. Today, Men in the Arena's Director of Outreach Jay Penton joins Jim Ramos to break down the process he uses to help men start small groups at their churches. You'll walk away from this episode with practical steps to start a men's group. Men's Ministry Playbook - meninthearena.org/playbook Help! I'm Starting a Men's Group - meninthearena.org/pages/help-im-starting-a-mens-group Men's Ministry Resources - meninthearena.org/pages/mens-ministry-resources [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
There are ignorant voices in the world calling masculinity toxic. True masculinity is a blessing to the world, and there are some loads that God designed only men to carry. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos shows you how to use the weight of who you are to be a blessing to your world. When a man gets it—everyone wins. [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
What's the difference between a Male and a Man? A Man shows up. A Man follows through. In this week's interview, Jim Ramos is joined by TJ Greaney, the founder of Kids Outdoor Zone, the nation's fastest growing hunting, fishing and outdoor ministry, to discuss how God can use the men of the Church to reach today's young males and help them become men. You'll walk away from this episode with practical, tangible ways that you can help the next generation of men. [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
Ever feel like the season of life you're in will never end? Are you in the stress bubble trying to keep up with all the pressures of life? In Part 2 of his series "Seasons of a Man's Life", Pastor Jim Ramos shares the final 2 seasons of manhood ("fall" and "winter"), and how each season is vital in creating a complete life that's well lived.  [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
There are so many voices telling you how to parent, how do you sift through the worldly advice and get to the true spirit of fatherhood? In this week's interview, Jim Ramos is joined by Larry Hagner from Dad.Edge to discuss the roots of healthy, godly parenting. He offers practical advice to get you on track to make a lasting, positive impact on your kid's life.  Larry's Book: The Spirit of Fatherhood -https://tinyurl.com/spirit115 [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
Ever feel like the season of life you're in will never end? Are you in the stress bubble trying to keep up with all the pressures of life? In Part 1 of his series "Seasons of a Man's Life", Pastor Jim Ramos shares the first 2 seasons of manhood ("spring" and "summer"), and how each season is vital in creating a complete life that's well lived.  [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
Have you been hurt at church? One of the biggest barriers to men going to church is the people IN the church! In this week's interview, Pastor Jim Ramos is joined by Wendell Morton to teach you practical ways to deal with the wounds you've received from 'church people.' How do you stay in church even when it's filled by sinners? How do you forgive and release the bitterness that makes you reluctant to go on Sunday, or has even driven you away from the church altogether? You'll walk away from this epsisode with strategies to overcome hurt and release the only prisoner of unforginessness: you. [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
Did you know courage is a character trait developed over time? Like weightlifting, men have to practice, struggle and persevere to build the "muscles" of courage until it becomes who we are. The good news: God wired men to be courageous. Like a cattle brand, God has stamped the desire to be courageous into men. But it's up to you to make that choice. In this final message in the "Take Courage" series from the MAG, Pastor Jim Ramos shares how we can make sure our character is SOLID and not easily swayed by the worldly pressures men face. This message is from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men, which meets weekly most Wednesday nights at Grange Hall in McMinnville, Oregon. You can come out to see Jim Ramos in person checking his speaking schedule at menintherena.org, or bring him to speak at your next event. (Note: Jim's speaking calendar is filling up fast due to the Sept 3 release of his new book, "Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God" with David C Cook publishing. If you'd like to bring him to your church to speak or run a workshop for you men, reach out soon!) [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
You hurt for the victims of sex trafficking, but what can you DO about it? There's a way you can help survivors of sex trafficking without leaving your home. In this week's unique and powerful interview, Jim Ramos is joined by sisters Shannon Sloan and Amanda Kozlowski to talk about their ministry, the Free Bird Initiative. They share powerful stories of rescue and redemption and teach you how you can honor your own wife while helping empower sex trafficking survivors. Free Bird Initiative: freebirdinitiative.org Ring True: ringtrueco.com https://ringtrueco.com/product/subscriptions/ring-of-the-month/ GHOST: Genesee Human Oppression Strike Team:https://www.gcsomichigan.com/ghost (online safety training for parents) [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
Congrats brother, you've married a strong Christian woman. But, what does she NEED from you? In her core, what does she need and want from you on a daily basis? In today's 10-minute equipping episode, pastor Jim Ramos teaches you the 4 core desires of every woman and the practical ways you can meet those needs. Jim pulls from Michael Thompson's (ep. 710) book KING ME(https://tinyurl.com/kingme115), taking his principles and breaking them down so you'll be able to take action starting today! Michael's book: https://tinyurl.com/kingme11 [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
"I'm fine" says every man…but it's not true. We live in a broken world and every man brings brokenness to the table. How do we sift through our brokenness to find healing? How do we break the cycle of childhood trauma and generational sin? And how do we forgive those that contributed to our brokenness? This week, Jim Ramos is joined again by men's ministry giant Patrick Morley (of 'Man in the Mirror' fame, listen to our interview about that book here), to discuss his new book, 'From Broken Boy to Mended Man: A Positive Plan to Heal Your Childhood Wounds and Break the Cycle.' This episode will help you identify your areas that are broken, create an actionable plan for healing them, and deal with the scars from past brokenness.  Patrick's Books: From Broken Boy to Mended Man - https://tinyurl.com/wounded115 (using our link helps support the ministry, thanks!) Man in the Mirror - https://tinyurl.com/mirror115 [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
One of the biggest questions men ask is, "what does a spiritual leader look like and how do I become one in my home?" In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos reviews 3 practical ways men can lead by example using 1st Timothy 4:15. You'll walk away from this episode knowing how to start your journey to become the spiritual leader in your home. [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at  for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
Strength and courage. Can you have one without the other? These words are used over and over and commonly paired up in the Bible. In this message, Jim teaches the importance of why these words are often paired together, and what it means when you only have one of the two. This episode will challenge you to look in the mirror, face your fears, and tap into your strength as you strive to live a courageous life. This message is from The MAG, The McMinville Area Gathering for men, which meets weekly most Wednesday nights at Grange Hall in McMinnville, Oregon. You can come out to see Jim Ramos in person checking his speaking calendar at menintherena.org, or bring him to speak at your next event.  [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
Want to meet Jim Ramos in person? In this week's equipping episode, Jim Ramos tells you about 3 upcoming in-person events on both coasts where you can come out and meet him. mancampwfr.com meninthearena.org/meetjim [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
Divorcing Christian? Chances are you—or someone you're close to—has dealt with the pain of divorce. Today Jim Ramos is joined by Dale Brown to walk you through 9 critical steps for healing from divorce. These are personal practices that will help you survive, heal, and thrive. Dale gives practical advice to anyone dealing with the aftermath of divorce and will teach you how to lean into God and other godly men, and use the pain you're feeling now for good later.  Here's the link to Dale Brown's book, 'Daily Survival Guide for Divorced Men: Surviving & Thriving Beyond Your Divorce Days 1-9' https://tinyurl.com/divorce115 (using our link to check out the book supports our ministry – thanks!)  [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
Are you believing LIES about God? You might be surprised. The enemy tells Christians these 7 lies about God and his nature to try to keep us away from Him. Thankfully God's Word can dispel them. You may be hindered from living your best life in Christ because of common lies many men believe. In today's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos lists 6 lies you may believe about God (found in Michael Thompson's book, "King Me"), adds in a bonus 7th, and teaches you how to dispel them with the Biblical truth.
Do you feel unseen in your daily life? Do you question where God has you and how he's using you? You may be in your season of obscurity. You're in good company – even Jesus had a season of obscurity! In this week's interview, Former Seattle Police Officer Jeremy Wade joined Jim Ramos to share his journey and how he questioned where God had him serving. They unpack how to know if you're in a season of obscurity, how you can survive and thrive while in it, and how to break out of it as you say 'yes' to God's will. Jeremy served with the Seattle Police Department for 13 years where he was awarded the Medal of Valor and Officer of the Year. He also served as the executive director of the Seattle Police Chaplains Association. He is the founder of Mission First Alliance, a gospel-focusedfirst responder alliance. [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
How can a coward get courage? It's not a commandment, it's not a mosaic law, it's not a fruit of the spirit and it's not a Spiritual gift. So what is courage? Today at the MAG, Pastor Jim Ramos covers the first attribute of courage and also addresses mythes about courage that keep men from living courageous lives. Your step out of cowardice and into a courage starts here. This message is from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men, which meets weekly most Wednesday nights at Grange Hall in McMinnville, Oregon. You can come out to see Jim Ramos in person by checking his speaking schedule at menintherena.org, or bring him to speak at your next event. (Note: Jim's speaking calendar is filling up fast due to the Sept 3 release of his new book, "Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God" with David C Cook publishing. If you'd like to bring him to your church to speak or run a workshop for you men, reach out soon!) [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app. ]
Every man has a kingdom. Not every king rules well. If you ever feel powerless at work or home, wonder how to become the hero in your life story, or just want to make sure you're wielding the power God has given you well, this episode is for you. In this week's interview, author Michael Thompson joins Jim Ramos to discuss his book, "King Me: Loving and Leading in a Wounding World" and help you reclaim the heroism, power and authority God made you to wield. Here is the link to Michael's book: https://tinyurl.com/kingme115 (Using our link to check out the book helps support our ministry - thanks!) [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
You work hard, but are you working the right way? Will you be done working when you're retired? What place should work have in the life of a Christian man? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos walks you through a brief theology of work, teaching you what the Bible says about the work you're doing to provide for your family, and helps you identify ways you might be viewing work wrong. [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
Did you know that the Bible talks about your wife's "big O"? It does! What does a Christian man look like in the bedroom? In this week's message, pastor Jim Ramos and the guys from The MAG talk about what the Bible has to say about your O, hers, and how to have the bedroom intimacy that every man dreams of. Here is the link to the book referenced frequently during the message: The Great Sex Rescue by Sheila Gregory -> http://tinyurl.com/sexrescue115 This message is from The MAG, The McMinville Area Gathering for men, which meets weekly most Wednesday nights at Grange Hall in McMinnville, Oregon. You can come out to see Jim Ramos in person checking his speaking schedule at menintherena.org, or bring him to speak at your next event. (Note: Jim's speaking calendar is filling up fast due to the Sept 3 release of his new book, "Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God" with David C Cook publishing. If you'd like to bring him to your church to speak or run a workshop for you men, reach out soon!) [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
Are you one of the millions of men who are making Jim's biggest marriage mistake? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos shares his biggest marriage mistake. This topic consistently goes viral on our social media channels, with millions of wives chiming in to saying their husband is making this very mistake. Listen up, men. Your wife might have been one of them!  [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app.]
In this message, Pastor Jim Ramos opens up his Sex Box, teaching you the lies our culture tells us about sex and what married sex is supposed to look like. This message is from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men, which meets weekly most Wednesday nights at Grange Hall in McMinnville, Oregon. You can come out to see Jim Ramos in person by checking his speaking schedule at menintherena.org, or bring him to speak at your next event. (Note: Jim's speaking calendar is filling up fast due to the Sept 3 release of his new book, "Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God" with David C Cook publishing. If you'd like to bring him to your church to speak or run a workshop for you men, reach out soon!) [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app. ]
The Dad Type Quiz is live! Take it at meninthearena.org/dadtype What type of Dad are you? We've discovered there are 8 basic types of dad, with their own strengths, issues, and challenges. Your career type and phase of fatherhood changes the issues you face as a dad. In this week's equipping episode, Jim Ramos outlines how we came up with the 8 different Dad Types, helps you identify which one you are, and outlines some of the challenges your particular type faces.  This episode pairs well with the Dad Type Quiz at meninthearena.org/dadtype. Take the quiz to learn your type, get a customized result based on your fatherhood phase and career, and get resources tailored to where you are in your fatherhood journey.  [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app. mtntough.com]
Have you ever written your wife a love letter? Every man should be able to write a love letter to his wife. In this week's interview and in preparation for Valentine's Day, Jim Ramos' friend Kevin Brewer joined him to teach you how to write a letter or note that your wife will treasure forever, even if you're not a writer.    Step 1: Make a list. Jot down and start making a list : 1. Start with showing you're thinking of her. Can be basic stuff and could include physical attraction. 2. 1 or 2 things your wife does that you're proud of. 3. How has God used her in your life (bonus if you include Scripture) 4. Her character traits or qualities as a women  5. Past memories, current situation and what you see in future.   Step 2: Take a break. Take a break - be fresh. Walk away to process.   Step 3: Write your letter. Come back - Sit down and start putting together the letter. Try using a nice piece of paper.   Tips: "Write a love letter without using the word love." Find other words the explain your feelings - "love" can be overused. Put anything down. It doesn't have to be deep, just something to trigger emotion and feeling. It doesn't have to be long. The main thing is to show you're thinking of her. Even if you're not a writer - that's to your advantage because it shows your sacrifice.   [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app. mtntough.com]
Have you ever noticed that men are often "blindsided" by divorce? Too many men seem to be losing their wive's hearts without realizing it until it's too late. If you want to avoid that fate, this week's 10-minute equipping episode is for you. In this episode, Jim Ramos teaches you the 9-part "Couple's Meeting" framework outlined in Aaron and Jocelyn Freeman's excellent book, "The Argument Hangover." [Check out the book here: https://tinyurl.com/argument115] Watch our interview with Aaron Freeman here. [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app. mtntough.com]
Do you define yourself by your career? Is your self-worth shaped by your achievements? As men, culture tempts us to find our value in what we do and how much we can produce. In this week's interview, Jim Ramos is joined by former NFL quarterback Jeff Kemp to discuss how we can rise above the production expectation and find our worth in the right things.  Here's Jeff's Book: (checking out the book through our link supports Men in the Arena - thanks!) http://tinyurl.com/receive115 [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app. mtntough.com]
Have you noticed married Christians calling their spouse their "partner?" Many modern Christians are using this antibiblical word to describe their husband or wife. In this 10-minute equipping episode, pastor Jim Ramos teaches you why this word should never be used and how to correct others when they do. [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app. mtntough.com]
You're a man, and you know God has called you to lead. The problem is, you don't know what that looks like in realtime. In this week's interview, Jim Ramos was joined by Jeremy Stalnecker, the co--founder of the Might Oaks Foundation. You'll walk away from this episode with simple but profound leadership techniques to help you take those you love from where they are to where they need to be. Here are the links to the books we talked about today: Leadership by Design - http://tinyurl.com/leadership115 March or Die -  http://tinyurl.com/marchordie115  [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app. mtntough.com]
Are you overweight? Exhausted? Busy? Out of shape? This is your episode! In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos shares his "one word" for 2024 and the 5 health rules he has committed to live by this year. In addition to the 5 heath rules, a big part of Jim's fitness this year is his commitment to do the MTNTOUGH fitness program. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app. mtntough.com
Are you a LEO or first responder? Do you see people at their worst? Maybe you find yourself resenting the very people you're suppose to be helping? This week, Jim Ramos was joined by Paul Lee, the Executive Director of the FCPO (Fellowship of Christian Peace Officers), for a powerful conversation about how peace officers and first responders can find peace in the midst of the storm. [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app. mtntough.com]
This is a reboot of a past episode #61 of the Men in the Arena Podcast.
This is a reboot of a past episode #514 of the Men in the Arena Podcast.
This is a reboot of a past episode #410 of the Men in the Arena Podcast.
This is a reboot of a past episode #338 of the Men in the Arena Podcast.
This is a reboot of a past episode #602 of the Men in the Arena Podcast
This is a reboot of a past episode #502 of the Men in the Arena Podcast.
[Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app. mtntough.com] You're VERY aware of your wife's broken areas, but it's not always clear what to do about them. It helps to hear how another guy did it right! In this unique episode, we get a refreshing female perspective on how one husband tackled the problem of his wife's brokenness. This week, podcaster Heidi St. John joined Jim Ramos to give you practical tips and examples of what her husband did to love her through her brokenness and small steps he took—that you can adopt—which added up over time to help her heal and create a thriving marriage.
[Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app. mtntough.com] In this 30-min message given by Jim Ramos at a local gathering of Christian men, Jim discusses 3 types of Christian men. Jim challenges us to look in the mirror, recognize which type of man we are, and consider how we need to change to protect those in our circle. This message was given at The MAG (the McMinnville Arena Gathering for Christian men) in McMinnville, Oregon.
What does it take to level up as a man? This week Jim Ramos is joined by BetterMan CEO Chris Harper to explore his 4 Pillars of Masculinity. [Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app. mtntough.com]
[Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app. mtntough.com] In this 30-min message given by Jim Ramos at a local gathering of Christian men, he teaches you what "No Pain, No Gain" means for the Christian man. This message was given at The MAG (the McMinnville Arena Gathering for Christian men) in McMinnville, Oregon.
[Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app. mtntough.com] Do you fight with your wife about the same things over and over? Does a fight sometimes derail your intimacy for days or weeks? You're experiencing an Argument Hangover! In this week's expert interview, Jim Ramos is joined by Aaron Freeman, co-author of the book "The Argument Hangover." Aaron shares practical tips for how to shorten that disconnect after a fight, and teaches you how you can fight with your wife in a way that will bring you closer together instead of further apart.
[Honor God through your fitness. Use code 'ARENA30' at mtntough.com for 6 weeks free access to the MTNTOUGH fitness app. mtntough.com] In this 30-min message given by Jim Ramos at a local gathering of Christian men, he teaches you what it means to become a WALL around the women in your life. The message draws from Deuteronomy 22:8 - "When you build a new house, build a low wall around the edge of the roof so you will not be guilty if someone falls off the roof." In it, he also includes his 10 Marriage-Saving Guardrails to protect your marriage from infidelity - a list of 10 rules/things you should NEVER do with the opposite sex. This message was given at The MAG (the McMinnville Arena Gathering for Christian men) in McMinnville, Oregon.
Every man asks the same question over and over in his mind: "Do I have what it takes?" In other words, am I TOUGH ENOUGH? In this week's interview, Jim Ramos is joined by MTNTOUGH founder Dustin Diefenderfer, an expert on mental toughness. They unpack one myth about toughness that you may believe, and teach you how to get more mentally and physically tough.  Men in the Arena is now sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab! Enter code ARENA30 at mtntough.com to get 6 weeks of free access to the app: MTNTOUGH Here's the book mentioned in the podcast: The Comfort Crisis by Michael Easter Dustin founded MTNTOUGH to help individuals become more mentally tough, believing this is the key for them to reach their specific personal and professional goals. "Ever since I was young, I noticed certain people had something others didn't. I wanted to know how they got it... and how to help other people get it. That's why I built MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab. To be the best in the world at mental toughness...Ultimately, so our customers can have a better life." Dustin's areas of expertise include ultra running, mountain and hunting conditioning. Dustin has completed numerous ultra marathons and marathons, running 12 marathons in one year to support his work in Africa. He has spent his entire life pursuing his passions in the mountains of the Western United States. "Hunting has always been my passion and backcountry hunting has tested my mental toughness like nothing else, and without a doubt has made me a better man."
The man of God carries a unique load. Six, in fact! In this 10-minute equipping episode, pastor Jim Ramos teaches you six things a godly man carries to His world that help those in it win. When a man gets it—everyone wins!
Are your kids in public school? In this week's interview, author and former principal Tony Rorie joined Jim Ramos to discuss how to train children in the principles of chivalry, honor, moral excellence, and courageous leadership in the context of public school.
Men and women are different. This shouldn't be a controversial statement, but it is! In this episode, pastor Jim Ramos unpacks five things he's discovered about how, generally speaking, GOD (not culture) made men and women INHERENTLY different.
Are you struggling with God's calling on your life? Is God asking you to do something way outside your comfort zone? In this week's interview, Hearts and Souls ministry founder Kirk Milhoan joins Jim Ramos to discuss the radical outcomes you'll see, and the doors that will open, when you say "yes" to God.
Think you're TOUGH? Don't be so sure. There are four areas of toughness, one in which even 80% of Navy Seals are statistically weak. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, author and pastor Jim Ramos outlines the four M's of toughness and helps you determine if there's an area you need to get tough.
Find yourself yelling at your kids? Or repeating your own dad's angry parenting patterns, the very ones you swore you'd never use? You know you shouldn't yell, but how else can you win power struggles and get through to your defiant kid? In this week's interview, Kirk Martin, host of the Calm Parenting podcast, joined Jim Ramos for another power-packed, tactical episode to equip you to become the calm dad you know your kids deserve.
There are two types of Christian men. Which one are you? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, pastor Jim Ramos identifies the difference between a "Christian" and a real follower of Jesus. You'll wall away from this episode knowing which type of Christian YOU are, and what to do about it.
Are you CRUSHING IT living as the man God made you to be? Or are there areas where you've been CRUSHED by the enemy? This week, Jeff Voth joined Jim Ramos to discuss his book, Serpent Crusher: A Plan to Become a Better Man By Crushing the Things that Crush You. They discuss what a Serpent Crusher looks like, areas where men tend to be crushed in life, and how you can get out of the shape you've been crushed into and into the manly, masculine shape for which you were created. Serpent Crusher Book on Amazon (using this link to check out the book helps support our ministry): https://tinyurl.com/serpent115
This is part two in this series contrasting Christian and non-Christian marriage. Did you know that two Christian spouses don't necessarily add up to a Christian marriage? Divorce is an epidemic in the Church because Christians are approaching marriage like functional athiests. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, pastor Jim Ramos teaches you about the Bible's Love Triangle and gives you seven ways that a Biblical marriage differs from a worldly one. You'll walk away from this episode with a clear idea of the ways that you and your wife may be approaching your marriage wrong, and how to get back on track.
Are you ready for sexual integrity? This week Sam Black joined Jim Ramos to discuss his book, The Healing Church: What Churches Get Wrong About Pornography and How to Fix It. You'll walk away from this episode with a list of the resources you need to find your healing once and for all.
Did you know that two Christian spouses don't necessarily add up to a Christian marriage? Divorce is an epidemic in the Church because Christians are approaching marriage like functional athiests. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, pastor Jim Ramos teaches you about the Bible's Love Triangle and gives you seven ways that a Biblical marriage differs from a worldly one. You'll walk away from this episode with a clear idea of the ways that you and your wife may be approaching your marriage wrong, and how to get back on track.
Are you a Christ FOLLOWER? You sure 'bout that? In this Sunday Sermon given by pastor Jim Ramos at Redeemer's Church in Reedley, CA, Jim walks you through the time Jesus was approached by three different fans, what He told them they needed to do to become true followers, and how you can become more than a fan of Jesus.
Ever feel like your prayers aren't doing anything? Do you wonder if you're praying the wrong way, or for the wrong things? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos teaches you the prayer method that he credits with growing Men in the Arena from 15 men in a coffee shop to impacting millions of men worldwide: the 5 "P's" of EFFECTIVE prayer.
If you're gonna be a good dad, you need these 7 things in your tool belt! This week, Dr. Ken Canfield joined Jim Ramos to discuss his bestselling book (more than 100,000 sold) The 7 Secrets of Effective Fathers.
Ever wonder why men tend to die before women? There are practical reasons and spiritual ones. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos explores the mantle of manhood and the story of Zuriel, the Mason, the Warrior and the Moving Man. You'll end this episode better equipped to the carry the load in your own life.
Are you stuck in a cycle of sexual sin? It's time to break free! In this week's interview, Jim Ramos is joined by Nick Stumbo, co-host of the Pure Desire podcast, to discuss his book, "Setting Us Free." They walk you through the seven pillars of sexual freedom and how to break the cycle once and for all. Setting Us Free on Amazon
In this Ask Me Anything episode, pastor Jim Ramos answers the following questions submitted by followers on social media: 1. "How do I respond as a Christian to gender dysphoria/transgenderism/gender identity issues?" 2. "You talk about all the journals you have written over the years. What is your process for journaling?"
In this Ask Me Anything episode, Jim Ramos answers these three questions submitted by followers on Men in the Arena's social media: "Should a husband say 'I love you' even if you are struggling  with loving her or even if you aren't there? Would that be a lie?" -opsymops on IG "I just want to know what you think about being a warfighter and a Christian, and if pilots/soldiers should feel convicted in this regard?" - Will G on Instagram "Hey Jim, do you have a favorite father son devo or book study to do together? Son is 18."
In this AMA episode, Jim Ramos answers three questions submitted by our social media audience: 1. "Is a Christian man commenting on or following sexy/thirst trap type social media accounts infidelity?" 2. "What if my 'Christian' boyfriend or fiance is doing a lot of 'non-Christian' things?" 3. "I saved myself for marriage, but my spouse didn't. How do I move past that?"
In this AMA episode, pastor Jim Ramos answers three questions submitted by followers on social media: "With the way marriage screws over the husband if a divorce happens and the wife can take half his assets and his kids, is it really worth the risk?" - FAQ "What is the bare minimum required to qualify as 'married?' Don't want to get the government involved." - FAQ "What's your favorite Bible verse and person in the Bible?" - lyjt493 on Instagram
In this AMA episode, Jim Ramos answers these two questions submitted by followers on our social media: "I am a police officer and am in the Coast Guard reserve. I have spent my entire adult life in service to my community and/or country. I feel my calling is to protect people but am starting to feel burnout. What do you recommend I do?" - Jed emailed to info@meninthearena.org "I've been married 18 yrs, for 8 years he hasn't talked to me, touched me, we sleep in the same bed but it's like roommates. As a Christian I feel conflicted as it says we shouldn't divorce. Is there any guidance you can provide as to what is the best way a Christian can go about this situation?" - Ila L. on Instagram
Men, you know you have potential, but how do you reach it? How do you choose which goal to pursue, and once you do, how do you get there? In this week's interview, Jim Ramos is joined by bestselling author Jon Acuff to discuss his new book, All it Takes is a Goal. They discuss the three zones that high-performing men bounce between and a 3-step plan for busting you out of your rut so you can achieve what God made you for. https://tinyurl.com/goal115
In this AMA episode, Jim answers this question submitted by a follower: "How do you pick a church? I want to know how Jim Ramos would pick a random town in a random state, move there, and pick a church. What are the things you look for that are reasons to stay, reasons to leave? I believe youll be blown away at how many people take notes on your answer and use it when hunting down a church." - Jacob D.
In this AMA episode, Jim answers 3 questions submitted by followers on social media: "How should I handle my ex-wife bashing me to our kids?" "How can I lead my kids into a real, deep and authentic relationship with God?" "How can I prepare for the 'Stress Bubble of Life' and how can I thrive in the mist of it?"
In this AMA episode, Jim answers 4 questions submitted by followers on social media: "How do I find my spouse? I've been praying and waiting." - Guboyz89 on Instagram "When should a young person know they are ready for marriage?" - Andrea D. on Facebook "If men are usually not as far along spiritually as women at the beginning of the relationship, how can a woman know if a man has the potential to be a good husband?" - TikTok "How long should a couple be engaged? Do you think you and Shanna got married too fast?" - Facebook
Jim kicks off an AMA series to answer listener questions. This week he answers: "When you were called into the ministry (like I believe I am being called into right now) how did you truly know? When did you know it was your calling from God to be in ministry?" - Logan W. on Facebook "Why do you make videos in the woods like you just buried a body and you're running from the cops?" - Ro E. on Facebook
Men, what is your unique purpose? What did God put YOU - specifically - on the planet to accomplish? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, pastor Jim Ramos outlines what does and doesn't constitute a "real" life's calling, describes common misconceptions of what makes a life's calling, and gives you 3 questions you can ask yourself to test and discover what God's calling on your life may be.
You've heard it takes two to tango - but it can only take ONE to change a marriage. Do you feel like you don't know who your wife is anymore? Is there a wall between you and your wife and you're not sure how to get through it? In this 10-minute equipping episode, Jim teaches you 10 proven ways to reconnect and draw close to the woman God gave you. When a man gets it, everyone wins. The principles from this episode were drawn from Jason Karampatsos' excellent book The Elephant in the Marriage. (https://tinyurl.com/elephant115)
It might seem expensive to prepare your family for emergencies, but you can do it without breaking the bank. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos outlines how a Christian man can prep without blowing his family's budget.
In the last episode, Jim Ramos taught you the first 5 items on the "List of Lists" a.k.a. the '9 B's of Preparedness' for when the electricity, internet and online connectivity are gone. In this 10-minute equipping episode, he outlines B's 5-9.  Here are the books mentioned in the episode: One Second After -> https://tinyurl.com/onesecond115 By William Forstchen World Made by Hand: A Novel -> https://tinyurl.com/worldmade115 By James Howard Kunstler Patriots: A Novel of Survival in the Coming Collapse -> https://tinyurl.com/patriot115 By James Wesley Rawles How to Survive the End of the World as We Know It: Tactics, Techniques, and Technologies for Uncertain Times -> https://tinyurl.com/howtosurvive115 Dare to Prepare - 6th Edition 2020 Printing -> https://tinyurl.com/dareto115 By Holly Drennan Deyo
Christian man, if the electricity went out and didn't come back on, what would you do? The outage of electricity and internet represent a major danger in an increasingly internet-reliant world. If this happened, would you be ready, or panicking with everyone else? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you the 9 B's of Preparedness a.k.a. "The List of Lists."
As anticipated, we received some pushback on Jim's 10-minute equipping episode on how Christians can deal with anxiety (episode 659). He addresses some of the concerns raised, and elaborates on the point, while preaching at Yamhill Christian Church in this bonus audio-only episode.
Christian man, are you prepared to lead your family through the worst? If the pandemic taught us anything, it's that hard times WILL come - it's just a matter of when. As a leader, you bring peace to your family and set yourself up to help others when you are prepared. This week, Jim Ramos unpacks how to start prepping using the Survival Rule of 3s.
Should a Christian man be a prepper? Does prepping indicate a lack of faith in God? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, pastor Jim Ramos gives his take on prepping and looks at what the Bible says on the subject. Here's the book Jim mentions in the podcast: One Second After, by William Forstchen (Using this link to check out the book helps support Men in the Arena. Thanks!) This is the start of a 4-episode series on prepping. Follow the podcast in your podcast app so you see the rest of the series right away as they drop.
Is it ever okay for Christians to use physical force? This can be a touchy subject in Christian circles. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, we dive in to see what the Bible says about using physical violence and force. How do we balance the tension between the God we read about in the Old Testament vs. the God we read about in the New Testament?Pastor Jim Ramos continues to process what the Bible says as we ask the question, is there GOOD violence?
Brother, do you need courage? Is God calling you to a place you've never been, or to something you're not sure you can do? Several times in his life, pastor Jim Ramos was deathly afraid of the next step God was calling him to take. Each time, he did a comprehensive study of 'courage' as it shows up in the Bible. He discovered 4 attributes of courage that will help you make the courageous move today. (Years later, that comprehensive study became his book Guts and Manhood: Four Irrefutable Attributes of Courage. You can listen to it on Audible here.) Book referenced in the episode: No More Christian Nice Guy by Paul Caughlin (using this link supports Men in the Arena)
What is courage, and how do you get it? It may not be what you think. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, pastor Jim Ramos debunks many of the views we're taught about courage that aren't biblical. We look at examples of courage from the Bible that are typically interpreted wrong or viewed incorrectly, and debunk common courage myths. You'll walk away from this episode ready to take the courageous path in your own life.
Man, are you in the Stress Bubble? There are multiple pressures that combine to create the "Stress Bubble" season of a man's life. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos describes 4 dangers that can happen when a man is in the Stress Bubble and how you can become your best version even while battling through this hard season of life. Here's the YouTube video where you can see Jim's balloon illustration: https://youtu.be/XvXZ7adtdKk
Society tells us that anxiety is a diagnosis we carry with us. But what does God say about it? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, pastor Jim Ramos looks at how God handles anxiety in Scripture and teaches you 4 steps for tackling your anxiety that are grounded in the Word of God.
Brother, are you ALL IN on your marriage? Are you sure? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos outlines a common mistake that married men make, and one step you can take to ensure that your marriage thrives.  This episode pulls from principles outlined in Reggie Campbell's excellent little book, What Radical Husbands Do. (This is an affiliate link, so if you decide to purchase the book, use this link - it helps support Men in the Arena.)
When it comes to finishing strong, you can't get much better than Caleb in the Bible. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, pastor Jim Ramos pulls from the life of Caleb in Numbers 13 and Joshua 14 to give you four battle cries of a man who is finishing life strong.
Is your young adult child rebelling, or threatening to leave the faith altogether? Even kids raised in a solid Christian homes can end up doing stupid stuff that doesn't match Christian values. If that's you (or you're worried it will be the moment your kids reach college), there's hope. There are choices you can make that increase the likelihood of your young adult child coming back to the Church. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Men in the Arena founder and pastor Jim Ramos gives you 7 steps you can take to love your child back into a relationship with God.
Are you a step-dad, or about to be? How does a dad navigate a second marriage with a blended family successfully? How can you avoid the traps and set yourself up for success? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos walks you through the 7 principles outlined in blended-family expert Ron Deal's excellent book, The Smart Step Dad: Steps to Help You Succeed. For more on Ron's book and step-parenting, listen to Ron's three interviews on the Men in the Arena podcast.
Christian, where is your heart headed? Are you slipping into the danger zone? In this week's 10 minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos gives you 3 red flags for the Christian heart. These three "H's" 🚩🚩🚩 will help you figure out if your heart is headed towards trouble.
Wondering what your next step is for unlocking your best version and living it over a lifetime? This week, Jay Penton, Men in the Arena's new Director of Outreach, joined Jim Ramos to share how he can help you achieve your best version. Join a Team Men in the Arena's free Resources for Active Military, First Responders, and Men in Developing Nations
Have you ever considered leading men? Odds are that most of the men you know don't have a men's small group, but a consistent group of guys to lock shields with is a game-changer in a man's life. This week, Jim Ramos walks you through the 7 steps needed to launch a team.
Is your marriage stuck in a rut? Do you feel like you're just going through the motions? If your marriage is spinning its wheels but can't seem to get traction, this episode is for you. This week, Rich Millentree, host of the Growing in Marriage podcast, joined Jim Ramos to help you and your wife take the small steps that will get you big traction and headed in the right direction!
Sponsor: Juniper Mountain Trading Post coffee. Use code "ARENA" at junipermountaintradingpost.com for 10% off your order.  If you're listening to this podcast, you're probably a pretty good dad. But there are 5 common mistakes that even GOOD dads make. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos describes the five types of mistaken dad he's seen over and over again in 30 years of ministry, and helps you course-correct if you've fallen into one of the "good Christian dad" errors. Are you the: Rubberband Dad? Bulldozer Dad? Kids-First Dad? Working Dad? Religious Dad? Find out in today's episode.
When a BOMB drops on your life, how do you get through it? Death of a spouse, cancer diagnosis, divorce papers, mental illness - none of us gets through this life unscarred. The question is, when the INEVITABLE crisis comes, who will you lean on? And as a dad, how do you walk your kids through life's hardest circumstances? This week, Jay Holland, the host of the Let's Parent on Purpose podcast, joined Jim Ramos to talk about his journey through crisis with his kids and what got him through it. Here's the book with the brotherhood accountability questions referenced in the podcast: Character That Counts by Rod Handley. [If one of your buddies or someone at your church is going through grief, this series of 4 tiny books is designed to help you support him through the process: Journeying Through Grief by Kenneth C. Haugk. Our Men in the Arena board chair keeps a set of these on hand at all times to hand out.]
How much TV do you watch each night? If you're a typical American, it might add up to more than you think. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos takes a look at television's place in the life of a Christian man. Some of the ideas in this episode are related to our audio-only interviews with Matt Friedman (Kill the Flatscreen and Discipleship and Your Kids) about his book, Discipleship in the Home.
Financial worries keeping you up at night? A Christian man doesn't have to be a poor man! Ryan Arzner joined Jim Ramos to help you achieve financial freedom in the stress bubble. Resources: The Rat Race Rich Dad CASHFLOW Board Game Tax Free Wealth by Tom Wheelright Rich Dad Poor Dad: What the Rich Teach Their Kids About Money That the Poor and Middle Class Do Not! by Robert T. Kiyosaki Rich Dad's CASHFLOW Quadrant: Rich Dad's Guide to Financial Freedom by Robert T. Kiyosaki .
In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos outlines his top 17 books for men, along with why they are must-reads for every man. His list includes 2 Bibles, 3 biographical adventures, 6 fiction, and 6 nonfiction. Add these books to your reading list. Here are direct links to his top 17 books for men: BIBLES: The Bible: New Living Translation Filament - complete with all-important ! at John 19:30. The Chosen Blended Harmony of the Gospels BIOGRAPHICAL ADVENTURES: Undaunted Courage by Steven Ambrose Endurance by Alfred Lansing River of Doubt by Candice Millard FICTION One Second After by William Forstchen Old Man and the Sea by Earnest Hemingway The Greatest Salesman in the World by Og Mandino Call of the Wild (White Fang) by Jack London This Present (Piercing the...) Darkness by Frank Peretti Lord of the Rings by JRR Tolkein NON-FICTION: Forgiving Forward: Unleashing the Forgiveness Revolution by Bruce Hebel Wild at Heart by John Eldredge What Radical Husbands Do by Regi Campbell Developing the Leader Within You by John Maxwell How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie Strong Men Dangerous Times: Five Essentials Every Man Must Possess to Change His World by Jim Ramos (Now available in Audiobook format! You can finally listen to SMDT in your car!) (Using these links to check out the books helps support Men in the Arena - thanks!)
Do you believe Jesus is the ultimate man? If so, then His life must hold the keys to how men like YOU should live. This week, author Josh Khachadourian joined Jim Ramos to discuss his book, The Standard: Discovering Jesus as the Standard for Masculinity. They explore how Jesus controlled conversations; how He managed His team; practiced self-mastery; and the ancient disciplines, actions, and methods He employed (that you can adopt) to influence those around you.
Men, who do you prioritize in your family? Who is the most important person in your world? Your wife? Your kids? You mother? Does this change if you've been remarried and have kids from your first marriage? In today's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos walks you through what the Bible teaches about where you family priorities should lie, and what it means for your family, step-family, wife (1st, 2nd, or 3rd), and kids.
The second episode in a 2-part series.   Everybody makes assumptions. There are assumptions behind the things we read, watch, and hear. The question is not if you assume, but rather how you assume and if your assumptions are true. As Christian men raising families in a fallen world, we need to equip ourselves - and our kids - with the ability to discern what is real and true among all the false narratives in our culture. This week, David Richardson, the founder of the Assumptions Institute, joined Jim Ramos to discuss his book 'Transparent: How to See Through the Powerful Assumptions That Control You'. By the end of this two-part series, you'll be better able to discern the assumptions behind any message you hear and equip your kids to encounter the world's agendas without being misled and manipulated by them.
The average wedding today costs almost $30,000! And half of the time, that $30K investment is flushed down the toilet in divorce. However, there are wedding planning choices that you can make to reduce the chance of your marriage dissolving and that wedding investment being wasted. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos offers you a new way to look at marriage and your wedding day.
Everybody makes assumptions. There are assumptions behind the things we read, watch, and hear. The question is not if you assume, but rather how you assume and if your assumptions are true. As Christian men raising families in a fallen world, we need to equip ourselves - and our kids - with the ability to discern what is real and true among all the false narratives in our culture. This week, David Richardson, the founder of the Assumptions Institute, joined Jim Ramos to discuss his book 'Transparent: How to See Through The Powerful Assumptions That Control You.' By the end of this two-part series, you'll be better able to discern the assumptions behind any message you hear and equip your kids to encounter the world's agendas without being misled and manipulated by them.
Men, do you know that you have a unique role in fostering beauty and femininity in the women in your life? It's a job that only a man can do. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you 5 things you can say to call out the femininity in your wife, your daughters, and your granddaughters.
The world needs real men, real bad. And there are all sorts of conflicting ideas and messages about what a "real man" is (and is not). This week, radio host and author Brant Hansen joins Jim Ramos to discuss his book The Men We Need: God's Purpose for the Manly Man, the Avid Indoorsman, or Any Man Willing to Show Up and provide you with a specific, actionable picture of what God created you to be as a man - a "Keeper of the Garden" - and what that means for you today.
When you look at your wife, what do you see? Is she still the glowing bride you married, or does she look worn out, tired, and joyless? In this week's 10-minute Equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you to ask this important question and what to do about it.
This week's episode comes with a special giveaway! Our guest, Trent Fisher of Born and Raised Outdoors, is offering our listeners the chance to win one of 2 free "Cat Road Shuffle" elk call kits, valued at $174.89 each! Enter to win at https://meninthearena.org/bro.   Do you like your work, love it, or dread going back to it? If you are dragging yourself in on Monday, maybe it's time for a new path. This week, Trent Fisher of Born and Raised Outdoors joined Jim Ramos to talk about why it's important to enjoy your work and how to transition into a career you love.
You love your bride, but do you accept her? In today's 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos walks you through ONE thing you can do to change the course of your marriage now.   The month of April is when our ministry raises most of our operating budget. We are looking for financial partners! If this podcast has impacted you over the past year, please consider giving back by making a recurring or one time gift at meninthearena.org/donate.
In part 2 of our series, Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield joins Jim Ramos to cover tools 5-15 in her Fathering Toolbox.  Dad, is distance growing between you and your daughter? Was your relationship better when she was a little girl? As she's growing into a young woman, are you struggling to understand her, or concerned that you might not be getting it right? This week, we brought back one of our all-time favorite guests - Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield ("The Dad Whisperer"). She sat down with Jim Ramos for a deep-dive, two-part podcast where she unpacks all 15 of her tools for girl dads from her book 'Dad, Here's What I Really Need from You: A Guide for Connecting with Your Daughter's Heart.' She mentioned that this is the first podcast interview that has ever covered ALL 15 of her practical tools for dads! (They might even help you with your wife, too.) You'll walk away from this podcast with strategies you can implement with the women in your life TODAY.
Is there something about your wife that really bugs you or frustrates you? It may be a sign of something deeper going on. In this 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos unpacks one way that you can change the course of your marriage.
Men, are you making the mistake of being NICE? Many men in the church mistake goodness with niceness. In this reboot episode, Jim was joined by Paul Coughlin, author of the book No More Christian Nice Guy: When Being Nice--Instead of Good--Hurts Men, Women and Children to teach you the difference between the two.
Dad, is distance growing between you and your daughter? Was your relationship better when she was a little girl? As she's growing into a young woman, are you struggling to understand her, or concerned that you might not be getting it right? This week, we brought back one of our all-time favorite guests - Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield ("The Dad Whisperer"). She sat down with Jim Ramos for a deep-dive, two-part podcast where she unpacks all 15 of her tools for girl dads from her book 'Dad, Here's What I Really Need from You: A Guide for Connecting with Your Daughter's Heart.' She mentioned that this is the first podcast interview that has ever covered ALL 15 of her practical tools for dads! (They might even help you with your wife, too.) You'll walk away from this podcast with strategies you can implement with the women in your life TODAY.
Single guys, how do you know the woman you're with is THE ONE? How do you find your soul mate? And should you date a woman who doesn't believe the same things you do? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos gives you 4 questions you should ask yourself before you choose to marry the girl you are dating.
Today we're rebooting one of Jim's favorite episodes, his interview with Regi Campbell, the author of a small but mighty book, 'What Radical Husbands Do.'
Has your hobby gotten out of control? How do you know if it has? What are the signs when you are out of balance? How do you protect your children and your marriage from your passions? This week, author Shane Sunn joined Jim Ramos to discuss his book, 'Moon and Sunn: Memoir of a Fishing Legend and His Son' and help you consider whether your pastimes are causing harm in your life and family, and if so, what to do about it.
Why do so many marriages fail? How should a Christian man treat his wife to help his marriage thrive? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you the principles of the "Eight-Cow Wife" and the "Five Star Man" to help you understand how you as a Christian man should treat your wife.
This is the first of six installments in our "OG ("Original Gangster" aka "Old Guy") Series. In it, we'll take a deep dive into each of the six expectations of "older men" (aka Elder Statesmen) listed in Titus 2:2, "Older men are to be temperate, dignified, sensible, sound in faith, (sound) in love, (and sound) in perseverance." This week, Jim Ramos will teach you about the STABILITY of the OG.
Are you stuck in thinking 'do good, get good, do bad, get bad?' Performance- and works-based religion are in the heart of every Christian man. In this classic episode, co-author of 'The Shack' Wayne Jacobsen joined Jim Ramos to discuss how you can avoid the trap of performance-based religion in your own life.
Are you concerned about your kids' screentime? You know this stuff is addictive, but how should you manage the use of phones, video games, computers, and TV in a way that makes sense in a digital world? There are a lot of opinions out there on how much technology is too much. Some are too extreme, some are too lax. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos offers the best guidelines he has found for managing the tech in your home.   (The steps in this episode came from our interview with past expert guest, Jasper Hall, president of pureHOPE.)
In this classic episode of the Men in the Arena podcast, Gene Getz joined Jim Ramos to discuss his classic book, Measure of a Man. How do you measure up?
Has your "happily ever after turned into struggling to keep your marriage alive? You might have begun your marriage with an incomplete picture of each other that is silently, invisibly destroying your relationship. This week, Jason Karampatsos joins Jim Ramos to discuss his book, "The Elephant in the Marriage." This episode will help you discover what is trampling your marital satisfaction and how to fix it. (Jason's previous two appearances on the Men in the Arena podcast are in episodes 239 and 240.)
Are you a great dad? How do you know? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos gives you a 10-item checklist to help you know if you're average, mediocre dad or an excellent one.
In this bonus recording of Jim Ramos speaking at a local gathering for men in McMinnville, Oregon, he outlines his new theme for the year - "Clean the Cup" - and what it means to the Godly man.
Fighting? Miscommunication? Hurt feelings? Ever feel like you and your wife are speaking completely different languages? That's because you and your wife have different communication styles. This week, author Bill Farrel joined Jim Ramos to discuss his book, 'Men are Like Waffles, Women are Like Spaghetti." He explains why communication seemed so much easier while you were dating, and teaches you to leverage your differences to make a happier, more solid marriage. Understanding how God made men and women to communicate will change your marriage forever.
Christian men, there are 7 specific habits that Godly men build into their lives. Are they built into yours? On this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos shares what a Godly man does, and helps you identify whether you have a blind spot that is holding you back in your faith.
In this bonus episode, Jim Ramos asks WHO ARE YOU? God has a unique design for each man. Here's how to figure out yours. We will be look at the story of Moses in Exodus 3-4 to answer the three most important questions a man can ask: Who am I?  What was I made for?  What am I going to do about it? The McMinnville Area Gathering (MAG) is a weekly Men in the Arena gathering held in McMinnville, Oregon. Each week, Jim Ramos speaks to this local gathering of men in his community, and we share his teaching with you.
When Dustin Newman was 22, a devastating motorcycle accident tore off half his leg and ruined his left arm. The doctors said he'd never do a normal, full push-up again. In 2022, he joined the Men in the Arena push-up challenge and did 65,000! This week, Dustin joined Jim Ramos to dig deeper into his inspiring story of overcoming the odds with God's help. You'll walk away from this episode inspired and ready to push through the challenges and tough circumstances you are facing today.
Too close at the urinal? MANLAW VIOLATION. Looking another guy in the eye while eating a banana? MAN CARD REVOKED! In this week's equipping episode, Jim Ramos walks you through his hilarious new free book, "MANLAWS: 101 Ways to Get Your Man Card Revoked (and Rules to Live By)." If you've ever submitted a Man Law to us, you'll want to check this book out - maybe yours made it into the book! Get your copy for free, it's now available at meninthearena.org.
In this classic episode from 2018 (back when the podcast was the "Man Card" podcast), author Emerson Eggerichs joined Jim Ramos to discuss his foundational book for marriage, "Love and Respect." He describes the "crazy cycle," where a marriage begins spiraling out of control, and teaches you to stop the cycle in its tracks. https://loveandrespect.com
Do you have the Godly man's greatest asset? While Godly men should love others, there is actually a more foundational trait that comes before it. In this week's extended teaching, pastor Jim Ramos teaches you what to look for in yourself and other men. If you're looking at a Godly man, this will be the first clue.
In this classic episode from 2020, Jim Ramos was joined by author Gary Chapman, author of "The 5 Love Languages" to discuss his book for young men, "Choose Greatness: 11 Wise Decisions that Brave Young Men Make." This episode is a great opportunity for you young men to learn from one of the giants of Christian ministry.
What is a Godly man? There are 5 things Godly men do that set them apart from the rest. If you are a follower of Christ, God has an assignment for you. He created you for a specific mission that you are uniquely designed for. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you the 5 identifying traits of a Godly man and how to uncover the purpose God has laid out just for you.
Dad, you have just 18 summers to create a lasting connection with your children! Do you feel distant from one of your kids right now? Are you mistaking physical proximity for quality time? This week, author Jim Sheils joined Jim Ramos to teach you a simple, 3-step method to create connections with your kids that will last a lifetime. Get Your Copy Now! of Jim's Newest Free Book Download! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
You know you SHOULD pray, but do you have trouble blocking out consistent time for prayer? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos shares 5 time-tested, simple ways for you to become a man of prayer. Get Your Copy Now! of Jim's Newest Free Book Download! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
In this classic episode from 2017 (back when we used to be called the "Man Card" podcast and the ministry was called "The Great Hunt for God") Jim Ramos was joined by author John Eldredge to discuss his groundbreaking book, Wild at Heart. Before this interview started, John saw the rack on the wall over Jim's shoulder and asked, "who killed the baby buck?"   Get Your Copy Now! of Jim's Newest Free Book Download! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Is your family addicted to screens? Are you feeling the pressure to get your kid a smart phone? This week, Brad Huddleston, author of Digital Cocaine joined Jim Ramos for a second time to make a case for a drastic reduction in your family's screen time and to help you decide if your family needs a digital detox.   Get Your Copy Now! of Jim's Newest Free Book Download! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Do you struggle to be in the Word most days of the week? Do wish you knew the Word of God better than anyone in your family? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos teaches you personal, time-tested steps to help you become a "Man of One Book."  Get Your Copy Now! of Jim's Newest Free Book Download! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Why is it so difficult for you to stay true to your word? Weak men communicate weakly. Their communication is soft and non-committal. They text first, then email, and use face-to-face or a phone call as a last resort. They make phone calls but leave no messages. They say "maybe" instead of "no."  They say, "I'll try" knowing they will not. They say "Yes" knowing they will never follow through because they are too cowardly to say what they mean, when what they mean is, "No." We used to live in a world where a man's word and a handshake meant something. Now we need contracts and lawsuits to get weak males to follow through. The man of God is different. The man of God is a man of his word—or he should be. It is time to go old school. It is time to return to the words and example of Jesus who said what he meant, meant what he said, and did what he said he would do. Get Your Copy Now! of Jim's Newest Free Book Download! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Dad, are you tired of yelling at your kids? Does your child seem to push all your buttons? Do you struggle with how to respond to rebellious or disobedient kids in a way that is loving but also holds the line? In this week's episode, Kirk Martin, host of the Calm Parenting podcast, joins Jim Ramos to teach you how to regain your calm and discipline your kids WITHOUT anger. This episode is sponsored by Kids Outdoor Zone, an outdoor ministry for the men in your church. Watch your men come alive as they pass on their outdoor skills to the fatherless children in your church. Get your Outdoor Ministry Guide, and KOZ's World Famous Meat Rub, at kidsoutdoorzone.com/arena. This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Sharing community with these amazing men is one of the most enjoyable things I do. - Jim Ramos https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)
Have you made changes in your life? Changes that are so significant that your loved ones are starting to notice? Has God used the ministry of Men in the Arena to change your world? If that's you, we want to hear your story. This year, Men in the Arena is tackling a new Hero Story challenge, and we need your help to hit our goal! Get Your Copy Now! of Jim's Newest Free Book Download! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
On vacation recently, I (Jim) was asked if I were a "Christian." I strategically responded, "No, I am not but I do love and follow Jesus."  Why did I choose those words? Because I have found that as Americans we (it may be global, but my experience is limited) throw around the word "Christian" without recognizing its significance. Here, the word Christian is nearly synonymous with a politically conservative, gun-owning, blue-jeans-wearing, homeowner, rural American. These could not be further the actual truth of this radical word. The word Christian means "Christ-one" or someone who is one with Jesus. To follow Jesus is a life-changing, plan-wrecking, purpose-giving, heart-altering event, and a lifelong process. To water it down to an in-the-moment decision that somehow transcends life into eternity is manipulative at best, deceptive at worst, and contrary to everything the Bible teaches about salvation. Nowhere in Scripture did Jesus ever call his followers to make decisions for Christ. He called them to make disciples of Christ. Matthew 28;16-20 Get Your Copy Now! of Jim's Newest Free Book Download! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
What separates those who quit from those who finish? Knowledge? Giftedness? Raw strength? We looked at the 41 guys who finished our 65,000 Push-Up Challenge and found their characteristics in common. This week, 12 of those finishers, including Rod Handley - the guy whose push-up journey after his cancer diagnosis inspired the challenge in the first place (EP 505)- joined Jim Ramos to identify what kept them going to the finish line.   Get Your Copy Now! of Jim's Newest Free Book Download! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Are your New Year's Resolutions abandoned already? Ever struggle to set goals you will actually achieve? Do you know how to work with God to decide on your goals? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos outlines the lessons he's learned over four decades of goal-setting, both from successes and failures. He outlines some ideas he's taught before, and also some new techniques he has used in recent years when a goal requires forming a new habit.   Get Your Copy Now! of Jim's Newest Free Book Download! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
You've been taught 'hospitality' all wrong! When Jim Ramos discovered what it truly meant 2 years ago, it wrecked him. He realized that over 30 years of ministry, he hadn't been getting hospitality right, and even taught it to his kids wrong. In this episode, we hope you get a clearer picture of what hospitality really is and isn't. This will change what you do TODAY. The MAG is a weekly gathering of men in McMinnville, OR. This episode is from the Full Capacity Man Series.
Are you wondering where buzz words like "privilege," feeling "safe," "antiracism," and replacing wife with "partner" come from? These come from a worldview called "Intersectionality." This week, Elmo Winters joined Jim Ramos to make a case for why this worldview is antithetical to biblical Christianity. Get Your Copy Now! of Jim's Newest Free Book Download! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
In part Five of our series 'Why You Can Trust the Bible,' pastor Jim Ramos will share why you should trust the Bible. Get Your Copy Now! of Jim's Newest Free Book Download! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
When should a Christian man fight, and when should he turn the other cheek? You've been taught the meaning of "turn the other cheek" wrong. By the end of this episode, you'll be able to answer these two questions: What does it look like for a Christian man to protect others? In what ways do you protect those you love, the weak, and the powerless? The MAG is a weekly gathering of men in McMinnville, OR. This episode is from the Full Capacity Man Series.  Get Your Copy Now! of Jim's Newest Free Book Download! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Does following Jesus make you a weaker, softer man? Ever heard men say that they won't receive Jesus because it'll make them 'less of a man?' Maybe you've hesitated to go all-in for the same reason. This week, author Brian VanCleave joined Jim Ramos to discuss his book, 'Jesus, A Man's-Man.' By the end of this episode, you'll understand why Jesus makes you more of a man than you could imagine, and how to ignite the man's-man within you. Get Your Copy Now! of Jim's Newest Free Book Download! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Looking for a way to pull your family together in 2023? Want to challenge yourself like never before? Is your body begging you to do something to reclaim lost ground? This week, Jim Ramos introduces our 2023 fitness challenge, the Coast-to-Coast Team Challenge. By the end of this episode, you'll know how to use this challenge to achieve both your fitness and family leadership goals. Get Your Copy Now! of Jim's Newest Free Book Download! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
This interview went off the rails, in the best possible way! In this episode, Les Parrott joined Jim Ramos to talk about a book, but instead they ended up discussing his new tool called "Better Love" and how you can assess your marriage's strengths and weaknesses. By the end of this episode, you'll have a better idea of where your marriage is at. Get Your Copy Now! of Jim's Newest Free Book Download! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Are your goals SMART? Specific Measurable Attainable  Realistic Time Sensitive In order to reach your goals these are very important things to consider.  Get Your Copy Now! of Jim's Newest Free Book Download! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Do you know the difference between a fan and a follower? Our world defines 'follower' wrong. In this episode, Men in the Arena founder Jim Ramos explains the difference between a fan and a follower, gives you some tests to figure out which you are, and brings some very special guests on to the show to illustrate what being part of the Men in the Arena Army looks like. If you have supported Men in the Arena in any way over the past year - through prayer, virtual teams, merch, donations, hero story submissions, etc. you don't want to miss this episode. Get Your Copy Now! of Jim's Newest Free Book Download! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Jim gives you some practical things you can do this Christmas to keep Christ in Christmas. You can also find some great ideas from past Christmas episodes. Check out Episodes 304, 306, and 405. The Bethlehem Star on Youtube. Boots on the Ground:  What do you do to bring your family closer to Jesus on Christmas?  Get Your Copy Now! of Jim's latest free download. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Do you have what it takes to finish strong? Ever wondered why so many men today finish wrong and so few finish life well? We even see it in the Bible! If you want to be one of the few men who finish life with an exclamation point instead of a whimper, you'll need 7 critical traits. This week, Bill Newton joined Jim Ramos to discuss his book, 'ENDURE: A Christian Man's Guide to Finishing Strong.' This episode will help you diagnose if you're on the right path, teach you the 7 characteristics that separate strong finishers from wrong finishers, and help you get what you'll need to be a man who runs his race well all the way to the finish line. https://billnewton.us/  Get Your Copy Now! of Jim's Newest Free Book Download! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Are you tired of your family's Christmas being all about gifts and spending money and not about Christ? Do you get to the end of the season and realize that, despite your good intentions, it was still all about the STUFF? This equipping episode is your Christmas solution. In it, we lay out 12 practical ideas for how you can draw your family closer to Christ. By the end of this episode, you'll know what to do differently this year! Get Your Copy Now! of Jim's Newest Free Book Download! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Are you a man whose partner had an abortion and you're struggling to heal? Are you on the fence about whether life begins at conception? Or do you wonder if, as a man, you have the right to have an opinion about this at all? This week, Victoria Robinson joined Jim Ramos to talk about her book, They Lied to Us, Too, which describes the impact that abortion has on millions of "Forgotten Fathers." They discuss the scientific and Scriptural evidence for life at conception, startling statistics that show God at work in unwanted pregnancies, and what you should do as a man if the abortion has already happened. Abortionpillreversal.com  1-877-558-0333 Care-net.org/findapregnancycenter 1-877-791-5475 Reach out to Victoria at Reassemblelife.com  https://youtu.be/JqW6MtgwePw
In part four of our series 'Why You Can Trust the Bible,' pastor Jim Ramos will show you how both external and internal evidence makes the Bible the most RELIABLE literary work ever written. Get Your Copy Now! of Jim's Newest Free Book Download! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Are you a dad raised by a single mom? Are you a dad raised by a father who was there but not really there? Are you a dad raised by a father who wasn't a Christian? Thousands of Christian men are raising families but have no idea what they're doing. If that's you, this week, Kent Evans joins Jim Ramos to help you solve that. They talk about his book, "Bring the Hammer," and Kent introduces you to 10 new tools for your fatherhood tool belt. By the end of this episode, you'll be a better dad. Get Your Copy Now! of Jim's Newest Free Book Download! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
The Uniqueness of the Bible Get Your Copy Now! of Jim's Newest Free Book Download! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Jim Ramos preaches on "The Hospitable Man" from Titus 1:7-8 and 1 Timothy 3:2. What you thought was hospitality may be blown up by what the scripture actually means.  Get Your Copy Now! of Jim's Newest Free Book Download! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
If the Bible was written by mere men, then how can you call it the inspired Word of God? In Part 2 of his series on trusting the Bible, Jim Ramos explains why you can trust that the Bible is from Him, and can trust how the church fathers determined what made it into the Bible. Get Your Copy Now! of Jim's Newest Free Book Download! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Christian man, at what point will you say 'this is the hill I will die on?' It's time for us to rise up, men! It's time for the men of God to stop being silent! If you're sick and tired of being sick and tired, you are going to love this podcast episode. This week, Vice Admiral William "Dean" Lee joined Jim Ramos to help you prepare your mind to "throw your stars down" and be ready to sacrifice it all. Get Your Copy Now! of Jim's Newest Free Book Download! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
How do you know that we can trust the Bible? How do you know the Bible is true? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, the first in a series, pastor Jim Ramos walks you through 4 claims the Bible makes about itself and how they can help you trust the Bible.    Get Your Copy Now! of Jim's Newest Free Book Download! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Jim Ramos is speaking at Hemiston Nazarene Church from Psalm 46:10. Jim share how he listens to the voice of God. When was the last time you went into a quiet place to hear from God?  How to hear from God Heart of a Champion, Are you all in for Jesus? Pencil of a Sharp Shooter, Carry and notepad and pen or pencil. Eyes of a Hunter,  Look for God in the midst of life. Ears of the Preyed upon. Listen for God's voice. Get Your Copy Now! of Jim's Newest Free Book Download! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
What does it mean to be a strong man in a culture that demonizes masculinity? This week strongman, strength coach and fitness YouTuber Elliot Hulse joins Jim Ramos to teach you to harness three areas of masculine focus to impact your world.   https://www.elliotthulse.com/home Get Your Copy Now! of Jim's Newest Free Book Download! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Christian man, DON'T call your wife your "partner." This week, Jim Ramos explains why the trend of married men calling their wives their "partner" is actually detrimental to Christian marriages, and explains in detail the difference between a marriage contract and the Biblical Covenant of marriage.  Get Your Copy Now! of Jim's Newest Free Book Download! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Did you grow up without a father? Maybe your parents were divorced at an early age, and you only had part-time access to your dad. Maybe your "dad" was little more than a sperm donor who dipped out when he was unwilling to accept his fathering responsibility. Maybe your parents are still married, but you grew up with a father who was consumed with work.  He was physically present but never really there. In this episode, Joe Martin joined us to teach you how to overcome these setbacks to become a great father. Joe grew up fatherless in the "hood." He shares his candid journey, hard lessons learned, and how you can reap the rewards of great fathering. Get Your Copy Now! of Jim's Newest Free Book Download! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Christian man, are you TIRED? Are you stressed? We don't call that 20-year period where you're raising your family The Stress Bubble for nothing. You're not alone - Jesus was tired, too. But he showed up. This week, Jim Ramos walks you through a time when Jesus was tired, and what He did. He outlines three ways that you can show up like Jesus. Get Your Copy Now! of Jim's Newest Free Book Download! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Are you going through tough times? Has life knocked you down and you're struggling to get up? Or, maybe you're wondering if you have what it takes if bad things come your way. In this week's interview, Jim was joined by Chris Norton, a young man who was literally knocked down and was physically unable to get up. His story is so inspiring that Netflix produced a documentary about his journey to get back up again. His story will equip and motivate you to get back on your feet. Get Your Copy Now! of Jim's Newest Free Book Download! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Dad, which phase of fatherhood are you in? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Men in the Arena founder Jim Ramos walks you through the 4 different phases of fatherhood. Each phase has different challenges, benefits, and goals. By the end of this episode, you'll know which type of Father you currently are and what your goal should be for this season as Dad. Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
On this episode, Jim Ramos was interviewed by Dad.Work Podcast. Jim talks about how dads can become strong men in dangerous times, including the four phases of fatherhood, the ascent, peak, and descent of the masculine journey, what kids need from their fathers, and so much more. This interview fired up Curt Storring and Jim imparted great wisdom. https://dad.work/jim-ramos/
Are you finding an addictive behavior hard to kick once and for all? Do you have a negative mental script that you end up replaying over and over? Ted Shimer, the author of Freedom Fight, returned to dig deeper into one of the toughest roots of addiction - shame - and to teach you four key ways to eradicate the shame that is keeping you stuck. After you listen to our interview head over to the Freedom Fight website for your free thirty-day trial. thefreedomfight.org/30day.       Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
You've heard the Lord's Prayer countless times, but did you know it provides a step-by-step outline for your daily prayers? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, pastor and Men in the Arena founder Jim Ramos walks you through how to use the Lord's Prayer as a model for your own prayers, explaining how Jesus' words should impact what you pray today. Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
We know that we're supposed to forgive, but what if someone has wronged you so deeply that you don't know where to start? Are you ready to find freedom from the bitterness that's been dragging you down? In this week's interview, Dr. Bruce Hebel joined us to teach you how to forgive using his 7 Protocols of Forgiveness. You've heard it before: "Bitterness is the poison we drink hoping someone else dies." You've been drinking poison, brother, but this episode is your 7-step antidote. Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
If we want to know how to effectively pray, we should go straight to the Pro, right? Jesus did more than give us The Lord's Prayer, he also spoke and modeled four ways to pray that made His prayers more effective. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, author and pastor Jim Ramos walks you through 4 prayer tips drawn straight from the words and actions of Jesus Christ. By the end of this episode, you'll know how to pray more like the Pro. Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
The man who fails to plan is planning to fail, right? But what if your plans are actually getting in the way of what God wants you to achieve at work and with your family? Dr. Roger Parrott joined us to teach you Opportunity Leadership - a new model of leadership that puts traditional planning on its head, but will actually equip you to achieve your mission as a husband, father, and Godly man by 'capturing change instead of creating it.' Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Did you know that prayer is NOT talking to God? We tend to think that prayer is just an inner monologue directed at the Almighty, but that couldn't be further from the truth. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, author and pastor Jim Ramos teaches you what prayer is and isn't, and a simple 5-step process you can use to connect with God at a deeper level.   Psalm 46:10's 5-step process for prayer: #1: Be still and know that I am God #2: Be still and know that I am #3: Be still and know #4: Be still #4: Be https://youtu.be/_nOGxRXItk0 Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Are you ready for a reboot in your life? There are multiple times in life when a man needs to reboot, recalibrate, or pivot. The loss of a job. A terrifying health prognosis. A moral or ethical failure. The man who refuses to pivot is the man of mediocrity. In this episode, Frank Rich joined us to teach you how to walk through 7 steps over 90 days to get back to the man God made you to be. Frank Rich is a former bodybuilder, entrepreneur, podcast host of the Superhuman Life, and men's health and recovery coach. He is the founder of Rebuilt Recovery, helping men recover from the habits and failures that are holding them back to rebuild their lives.  Boots on the Ground: Buy a journal and start the journey of writing down your thoughts from the day. Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Have you ever wondered if that's God speaking to you or just indigestion? Ever worry that maybe the internal voice you're hearing in prayer is not God's voice at all, but rather your own desires? People talk about receiving messages from God, but when He's not sky-writing in the clouds, how do you know it's from Him? In this week's Equipping Men in Ten, author and pastor Jim Ramos teaches you 4 Biblical tests to tell if what you're hearing is from God or not. He also gives you 4 questions you can ask yourself to make sure that the messages you receive aren't just your own will or negative outside influence. By the end of this 10 minute equipping episode, you'll be able to confidently hear and discern the voice of God in your own life. Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
God created you for more than just going to work and going home. The quest for SIGNIFICANCE and living a life that matters is one of the greatest unspoken needs of men. Today, Jim was joined by Aaron Walker, founder of the Iron Sharpens Iron Mastermind Group. They discuss how you can live the significant, meaningful life that God designed just for you.    Aaron Walker's mission is to help men transform their lives by uncovering what they truly want in life and setting their goals to achieve success and significance on their journey. He is a serial entrepreneur with over a dozen business start-ups and over 43 years in his community. Aaron is also the founder of View from the Top and the Mastermind Group: Iron Sharpens Iron. "We coach men to look outward so they can not only be successful but also significant."   Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Are you a prayer warrior? Are your prayers powerful and effective? In this first episode in a series equipping you to pray like a warrior, Jim Ramos will teach you the four things you need to have in place in order to hear from God clearly. These four things are PREREQUISITES for the strong Christian man who hears God. Do you have them? Four Prerequisites to Hearing the Voice of God Heart of a Champion  Are you ALL IN for Jesus? Does he have all you. Has he wrecked your plans for His?  Eyes of a Hunter  Drive with me for 5 minutes and you will be scared. I am always looking for wild game. Shanna is as good as me now out of necessity. God is all over the place if we would take the time to hunt for Him.  Pencil of a Sharpshooter  If I don't have my notepad and pen, I have a Fraternity Dude named Siri. He is always taking my notes and sending emails as God speaks to my heart.   Ears of the Hunted  Big ears & Eyes to the side. Are you  aware? Is your head always in the game? You're alert as if your soul depended on it? Look around. No rush. What do you smell? What do you feel? What do you see? What are you touching? In THIS moment what is God saying to you through these things? Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Welcome to our best porn podcast. Ever. Ted Shimer wrote the best book Jim has read so far on porn addiction and how to get free, and the interview didn't disappoint. Here, Shimer teaches you the 6 scientific roots of your porn use, and gives you practical steps for eradicating them from your life for good. 500+ podcast episodes make for a lot of books and interviews about porn, but this one is Jim's favorite, HANDS DOWN. Ted Shimer has mentored men since 1991. He is a Dallas Seminary-trained Pastoral Sex Addiction Professional-Supervisor who helps people overcome the bondage of pornography in the context of making disciples.  Ted is the Founder of The Freedom Fight, an online porn addiction recovery program, and the author of the book, The Freedom Fight, The New Drug and the Truths that Set Us Free, which is our topic for today.  Boots on the Ground: Go back and review the six roots that lead a person into porn and identify which ones mostly affect you. Lock down the smartphones in the hands of your kids! Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
In life, we get to choose whether we are going to sit back and watch or get into the game. We want to challenge you, men, to get into the fight. Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
In a disconnected age, how does a family connect? Mirthell Mitchell, founder of the 7-million-follower Onyx family brand, shared with us how God brought him to a place to connect with his kids in a new (old?) way that just takes 15 minutes each day. Mirthell also told an AMAZING story of how his own father responded to his teenage rebellion (drugs, partying, wrecking a car) in a way that ended up turning his life around. We discussed how the Holy Spirit can guide and inspire us to parent each child differently. If you have a rebellious teen, this is a can't-miss conversation. Mirthell is the founder of the Onyx brand (and family), which is an African-American family of entertainers and entrepreneurs with over seven million followers across social media. Before going into the entertainment industry, he was a pastor and a Family Therapist and still has a passion for bringing families together. He has a YouTube Original show called Onyx Family Dinner among many other things. He has partnered with the likes of people like Dr. Oz, Matthew McConaughey, and was invited as guest on the 2021 Presidential Inauguration program. "Let's get our Boots on the Ground": Start doing one meal a week together as a family. Eventually, your goal is to do one meal a day during weekdays. https://www.onyxfamily.com  Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Top Ten Podcasts in Each of the Five Essentials Finishing Strong                                    Book/Organization Brett Clemmer (Ep 233)        No Man Left Behind             Clair Hoover (Ep 417)             NCMM                                    Jim Whitmore (Ep 449)         NCMM                                    Patrick Morely (Ep 366)        Christian Man                           Bud Lindstrand (Ep 219)       MODA                                     Jack Deere (Ep 247)             Even in our Darkness            Gene Getz (Ep 253)              Life Essentials Bible              Gene Getz (Ep 255)              Measure of a Man                  Jerry Boykin (Ep 318)           Never Surrender                   Ron Deal (Ep 350)                 Smart Stepdad Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Top Ten Podcasts in Each of the Five Essentials  Leading Courageously                      Book                My favorite episode came from here  1. Bill Farrel (Ep 201)                             Red Hot Monogamy 2. Jason Karampatsos (Ep 239)          Elephant in the Room      3. Gary Chapman (Ep 344)                   5 Love Languages            4. Don Minter (Ep 178)                           31 Days       5. Willard Harley (Ep 128)                      His Needs Her Needs 6. Michelle Watson Canfield (Ep 443) Let's Talk 7. Wess Stafford (Ep 48)                       Too Small to Ignore, Just a Minute 8. Emerson Eggerichs (Ep 361)             Love and Respect 9. Regi Campbell (Ep 293)                     Radical Husbands 10. Paul and Virginia Friesen (Ep 421)  Interview w/Jim & Shanna www.meninthearena.org  Men in the Arena Books and Swag  Support the Podcast
You go into work with a plan, why not use the same strategies to achieve happiness at home? Entrepreneur David Henzel joined us to teach you to apply 6 business principles to your family life to maximize your effectiveness in your marriage and parenting. David Henzel is the CEO of Upcoach and an entrepreneur for over 20 years. His passion is to help individuals and their organizations reach their full potential. Aside from Upcoach (Coaching Delivery System), he has a small portfolio of companies and his passion project Managing Happiness (Peak Performance Group Coaching for entrepreneurs.) https://www.managinghappiness.com/  https://www.davidhenzel.com/  "Let's get our Boots on the Ground": What's next? What action step will you take because of today? What will you do because of what you heard? Here it is. Sit down with your wife and identify ONE area of your marriage that needs immediate attention. Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Top Ten Podcasts in Each of the Five Essentials Pursuing God Passionately Book 10. Seth Barnes (Ep 184)                  World Race 9. Jeff Deyo (Ep 269)                        Awakening Pure Worship 8. Michael Thompson (Ep 195,197) Heart of a Warrior 7. Robert Lewis (Ep 342)                  Raising a Modern Day 6. Greg Matthews (Ep 305)              Wild Awakenings 5. Kenny Joyner (Ep 445,447)          Without a Father 4. Bill Perkins (Ep 227)                      Jesus Story 3. Wayne Jacobsen (Ep 265)           The God Journey/Shack 2. Justin Overlander (Ep 441)           The Chosen 1. Rick Robinson (Ep 479)                  His Story   www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Most men live an average or below-average life. What does it take to live above average? You will love this episode with Robert Owen! Robert Hamilton Owens is a man of many hats. He's been and done a lot – mountain climbing, radio and TV personality, keynote speaker, minister, Ironman, philanthropist, triathlete, Special Ops Pararescue man, and father of five – to name a few. But of all the pursuits he's undertaken, there's one title that best describes this literal force of nature: Robert is The Fittest and Mentally Toughest 66-Year-Old in the World. Period. Robert was born and raised in Orange County, California without ever having met his parents. Adopted by a California judge, Robert was raised as a special-needs child who was unable to play kickball with his classmate due to the corrective shoes he was required to wear through sixth grade. Boots on the Ground:  What are your 3 take-aways from this podcast? What are you going to do with it? Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Jim lists his Top 10 Podcasts in Each of the Five Essentials of Manhood Fighting Apathy                               Book                          10. Kenny Luck (EP 164)               Dangerous Good 9. Paul Cole (Ep 338)                  Just a Bartender 8. Stephen Mansfield (Ep 130)   God and Guinness 7. Elmo Winters (Ep 374)             Overcoming Racism 6. Clarence Shuler (Ep 435)        Keeping your wife   5. Paul Friesen (Ep 297)               Lovin' Your Wife Like Christ When You Ain't No Jesus.   4. Todd Wilson   (Ep 380)            Family Man Ministry 3. Paul Coughlin   (Ep 316)           No More Christian Nice Guy 2. Brad Huddleston (Ep 453)       Digital Cocaine 1. Allen Schwartz (Ep 281)            Leadville 100  Join Our Program. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Dave Wilson joined us to talk through his biggest mistakes as a dad:  TOP FIVE PARENTING MISTAKES Mistake #1: I left my soul at the office Mistake #2: I was nicer to the mailman than to my kids Mistake #3: I forgot the Bullseye  Mistake #4: I neglected my marriage Mistake #5: I didn't hug enough He also walked us through what fatherhood looks like in its different seasons: The Four Stages of Parenting: 1. Discipline stage (ages one to five) 2. Training stage (ages five to twelve) 3. Coaching stage (ages twelve to eighteen) 4. Friendship stage (ages eighteen plus) For the past twenty-five years, Dave Wilson and his wife Ann have been featured speakers at Family Life's Weekend to Remember®, and have also hosted their own marriage conferences across the country.  Dave and Ann host a radio show for Family Life with featured guests on marriage/relationships/money and parenting.    Dave has served as the Detroit Lions Chaplain for thirty-three years. They have three grown sons, three daughters-in-law, and four grandchildren. Dave and his wife co-authored the book, No Perfect Parents: Ditch Expectations, Embrace Reality which is our topic for today's discussion.  https://www.familylife.com/podcast/familylife-today/  Boots on the Ground: Listen to Family Life Today.  Join Our Program. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast https://youtu.be/eaJPlmp6XA0
Jim lists his Top Ten Podcasts in Each of the Five Essentials of Manhood Protecting integrity - The Trailhead              10. Sam Black  (Ep 334)              Covenant Eyes            9. Joe Martin    (EP 261)              Real Men Connect                  8. Matt Loehr   (EP 263)              Whose Got your back            7. Bill Hendricks (EP 352)            Men of Influence                    6. Rod Handley (EP 394, 396)    Character that Counts            5. Tom Wilson (EP 411)                Five Essential to Engage        4. Bill Perkins (EP 88, 227)          6 Rules, Battles, Jesus Story                        3. Rick Johnson (EP 301)             Power of a Man                       2. Earl Wilson  (Ep 126)                Restoring the Fallen               1. John Eldredge (EP 94)             Wild at Heart      www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Brad Huddleston joined us with some alarming statistics regarding screentime and our kids' use of technology, what it does to their brains, and what to do about it. Brad Huddleston is an internationally respected speaker, consultant, teacher and author on the important issues such as technology and culture. He has worked with universities, schools, churches and law enforcement, and spoken to hundreds of thousands around the world on both the advantages of well-used technology tools and the dangers of the growing trend toward technology addiction. Brad has an on-going collaboration with the Bureau of Market Research (BMR) and its Neuroscience Division at the University of South Africa. Brad has a degree in Computer Science and a Diploma of Biblical Studies and is a credentialed minister in the Acts 2 Alliance (A2A) movement in Australia. He's also a frequent guest on radio and television and author of Digital Cocaine: A Journey Toward iBalance and The Dark Side of Technology: Restoring Balance in the Digital Age. Brad and his wife, Beth, live in the beautiful Shenandoah Valley in Virginia (USA). https://bradhuddleston.com/ Join Our Program. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
If there is a creator and He created you, don't you think he has a plan for your life? And in order for you to know what that plan is shouldn't you pursue the one who made you? What are some ways you pursue God?  Join Our Program. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
In one of Jim's favorite marriage episodes, Clarence Shuler joined us to teach you how to make your wife your best friend. Dr. Clarence Shuler was filmed as a marriage expert for one session of Oprah's "Love Goals" reality show in 2020. He & his wife Brenda are members of FamilyLife's Weekend to Remember Marriage Getaway Speaker Team. He serves on the Fatherhood CoMission Board. Clarence partners with Gary Chapman and speaks at The Five Love Languages and Date Night events. He has authored 10 books including our book for today, Making your Wife your Best Friend.  "Conflict is not about winning. It's about understanding." "If couples prays together, they have a 1 in 10000 chance of divorcing." "How I treat the gift (my wife) is a reflection of my worship for God." Boots on the Ground Ask yourself this question, and your wife. Are you a pleasure to be married to? Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Youtube Version
This summer our Equipping in Ten episodes are interviews with some of our Men in the Arena National Team Captains. We have asked them to write a blog to go with their interview as well. Joe Bradley and his wife, Debbie, have been married for twenty-six years, have two grown children, and are now living life somewhere beyond the 'stress bubble' years and those of retirement.  A Colorado native, he is an avid outdoorsman, finding himself closest to God when the only roof overhead is an aspen canopy or the milky way. A police officer for nearly thirty years, Joe hopes to spend whatever time remains empty nesting with his beloved wife, hunting with close friends, fly fishing, and pouring into the life and faith of others. Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast https://youtu.be/jkF0gQxEtro
Former NFL Wide Receiver Eric Boles joined us to help you identify roadblocks at work and home and how to get past them. Eric Boles is the CEO and Founder of The Game Changers, Inc., a noted global expert in talent development and peak performance. Eric greatest impact and focus is on people. His perspectives on managing and leading change, transforming culture and overcoming complacency are laced with practical tools and principles that can be applied to a man's personal life. Eric learned many of his principles of peak performance, team dynamics and leadership from his experience as a Wide Receiver with the National Football League. Eric is the author of a book entitled "Moving to Great...Unleashing Your Best in Life and Work."  Which is our focus of today's episode. Boots on the Ground  Write down each of the questions in the 4 quarters and answer them honestly and Ask your wife if you were honest Who Am I? How Did I get Here?  Where Am I Going?  How Do I Get There?  Thegamechangersinc.com Ericboles.com  This Episode on Youtube Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
This summer our Equipping in Ten episodes are interviews with some of our Men in the Arena National Team Captains. We have asked them to write a blog to go with their interview as well. Dale Collver is the Operations Manager and Podcast Producer for Men in the Arena. He also worked with me for 8 years in youth ministry.  Dale lives in McMinnville Oregon with Heather, his wife of 26 years. They have 3 adult daughters, Hayley, Hannah, and Hayden, and one adopted son Noah who is 8 years old. Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
This is a special episode with Jim and Shanna Ramos, and Dr's Paul and Virginia Friesen. You do not want to miss this one! Dr's. Paul and Virginia Friesen have been involved in Family Ministries for more than 40 years through family camps, church staff positions, speaking, consulting, and writing. In 2003, they founded Home Improvement Ministries (www.HIMweb.org), a non-profit organization dedicated to equipping individuals and churches to better encourage marriages and families in living out God's design for healthy relationships. As the lead resource couple at Home Improvement Ministries, the Friesen's regularly speak at marriage, men's, and women's conferences in the US and internationally, as well as local family and parenting seminars, and have an ongoing ministry with professional athletes.  Paul and Virginia both have Doctorates in Marriage and Family Therapy from Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary. Between them they have authored more than fifteen books and curriculums on parenting and marriage, including Letters to My Daughters, In Our Image, Raising a Trailblazer, Before You Save the Date, The Marriage App, and most recently, Lovin' Your Wife Like Christ When You Ain't No Jesus.  Paul and Virginia were married in 1976 and are the parents of three young adult women, two of whom are now married to wonderful, Godly men. Their middle daughter is living fully for Christ as a single woman and trusting God for His best. Paul and Virginia's greatest joy in life is knowing that their children are "walking in the truth." The Marriage App  Boots on the Ground Sit down with your wife and ask each other for forgiveness. Also, take notes on these applications and do them.  Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
This summer our Equipping in Ten episodes are interviews with some of our Men in the Arena National Team Captains. We have asked them to write a blog to go with their interview as well. Garrett Schooley lives on the central coast of California with his wife Michelle, and 3 children Isaac (14), James (10), and Ruby (8). They are licensed foster parents. He is an elder at his church in Morro Bay. He works as a foreman for a landscape company in San Luis Obispo.  Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
In this podcast episode we hear from the semi-retired founder and CEO of Robinson Nursery Incorporated, Rick Robinson.  Rick shares about his philosophies for giving, and to whom. What does good stewardship look like and what he believes God's Word tells him to do with his resources is also discussed. It's no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain what he cannot lose. -Jim Elliot Boots on the Ground: Take a step of faith in your stewardship journey by giving 10 percent. Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
This summer our Equipping in Ten episodes are interviews with some of our Men in the Arena National Team Captains. We have asked them to write a blog to go with their interview as well.  Kai is a former U.S. Marine Corps infantry officer and federal law enforcement officer. He still works for the government in the field of training and education. He and his wife Sheri have been married for over 20 years. They live on Saint Simons Island in Georgia. Kai serves on the Men in the Arena Board of Directors Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Ron L. Deal is one of the most widely read and viewed experts on blended families in the country. He is founder of Smart Stepfamilies™, Director of FamilyLife Blended® for FamilyLife®, the author of over a dozen books and video resources on stepfamily living including the bestselling books Building Love Together in Blended Families with Dr. Gary Chapman His podcast FamilyLife Blended with Ron Deal and his one-minute radio feature are heard around the world and his work has been quoted/referenced by multiple news outlets such as the New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, CNBC.com, and USA Today. www.familylife.com www.familylifeblended.com www.smartstepfamilies.com Use this LINK to access A Guide To Building Love With The Five P's of Stepparenting. Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
This summer our Equipping in Ten episodes are interviews with some of our Men in the Arena National Team Captains. We have asked them to write a blog to go with their interview as well.  Sam Roberts Jr. is a Men in the Arena National Team Captain. He lives in Baker City Oregon with his wife of nine years, Bethany, 5-year-old daughter Avery, and 2-year-old son Levi. Sam is a diesel mechanic, worship leader, and outdoorsman. He loves to serve the church, camping, fishing, hunting, and boating. His unwavering faith journey started as a young child and has been guided by many great men whom he is thankful for. His single sentence testimony is "God is always faithful." Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
This special Father's Day episode is from Jim Ramos at Yamhill Christian Church. What is that ONE WORD? It is mind-boggling how many men are caught off guard by that ONE WORD. That ONE WORD  has stopped men in their tracks.  That ONE WORD has caused some of the most successful leaders I know to scratch their heads in dismay. That one word has paralyzed some of the most action-oriented leaders I know.  When we hear that WORD "Leader" we lose our minds! What does it mean to be a leader of my family? So far, we have spent every week on one dude…YOU. Now we are turning up the heat because it isn't about you. It is also about those GOD HAS COMMISSIONED YOU TO CARE FOR.  That ONE WORD—LEADER— has led to much confusion and it's been that way for two millennia. Look at the pastoral Epistles for example. Paul spent more time in the Pastorals describing THAT ONE WORD than any of the other nineteen qualities, most of which being one-word descriptions. Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
This summer our Equipping in Ten episodes are interviews with some of our Men in the Arena National Team Captains. We have asked them to write a blog to go with their interview as well.  If you do not get the weekly equipping email, go to https://meninthearena.org/pages/weekly-equipping-blast and sign up today.  Jeff is currently serving Men in the Arena on the Board of Directors and is one of its National Team Captains where he leads a virtual team of men from around the country. Jeff is also an elder at Yamhill Christian Church, Yamhill, Oregon.  Jeff retired in February 2021 from 35 years in the steel industry with the last 16 years as President of Cascade Steel Rolling Mills, a company of Schnitzer Steel where he oversaw 400 employees.  Jeff received his BS and MS in Metallurgical Engineering from the Colorado School of Mines.  Jeff has been married to his fabulous bride, Julie, for the last 34 years and is a proud father of three adult children. Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
When you see a child what happens in your soul? For Wess Stafford he knows that one moment, one word can launch them into greatness. So, Wess doesn't miss a chance to make a mark for Jesus in a child's heart.  Dr. Wess Stafford is President Emeritus of Compassion International, one of the world's largest Christian child development organizations, partnering with more than 60 denominations and 7,000 local churches and serving over 2 million children in 26 countries. Wess has worked both overseas and in leadership positions at ministry headquarters for four decades and served as President and CEO of Compassion International for 20 years.  Wess is an internationally recognized advocate for children in poverty, speaking up for those who cannot speak for themselves.   He earned undergraduate degrees from Moody Bible Institute and Biola University, and a master's degree from Wheaton College, as well as a Ph.D. from Michigan State University.  The author of Too Small to Ignore: Why the Least of These Matters Most and Just a Minute: In the Heart of a Child, One Moment Can Last Forever. Get your copy of Just a Minute: In the Heart of a Child, One Moment ... Can Last Forever. https://www.amazon.com/Just-Minute-Heart-Moment-Forever/dp/0802409660
This summer our Equipping in Ten episodes are interviews with some of our Men in the Arena National Team Captains. We have asked them to write a blog to go with their interview as well.    If you do not get the weekly equipping email, go to https://meninthearena.org/pages/weekly-equipping-blast and sign up today.    Fred Workman is a 57-year-old medical doctor, specializing in Hospital Medicine. He is one of our volunteer Men in the Arena National Team Captains. Fred is married to his amazing bride for 32 years and has three grown children. Fred is a self-proclaimed "men's group junkie with a passion to encourage and mentor men to fight for their spiritual mission."  Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
This summer we will be reposting a few of our favorite interviews. Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield immediately stuck out for us. Every dad needs to hear this episode. In January 2010 Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield founded The Abba Project where she leads dads of daughters ages 13 to 30 to dial in with more intention and consistency to their heart space. She leads a local group in Portland, Oregon annually every year from September through May. (you can read more under The Abba Project) Dr. Michelle has coached offspring Abba Project groups in Virginia and Washington State, with more to come. Dr. Michelle has written a book for dads of daughters titled, Dad, Here's What I Really Need from You: A Guide for Connecting with Your Daughter's Heart  and it's also available in audiobook form in her own voice on Audible here. Her second book, "Let's Talk, Conversation Starters for Dads and Daughters" is filled with scripts for dads to equip them to strategically lead their daughters into conversations that matter, with a focus on greater depth that will allow her to know herself better! Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield hosts a radio program called The Dad Whisperer where her purpose is to provide practical resources for dads, especially those with daughters. (available here, iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and Google Podcasts) http://www.drmichellewatson.com/ Boots on the Ground  For every daughter you have, sit down with them and ask them to talk, and ask to hear their heart.  Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
There are three very specific things the Bible requires of a man who is the spiritual leader in his home. He must Protect, Provide and Preside, but it cannot stop there.  Jim will unpack how the Full Capacity Man steps into his leadership role in his family.  Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Named the 2022 Man of the Year by Men in the Arena, Mike Goins will be 76 next month and is an avid snow skier, road biker, and golfer. This guy has lived a noteworthy life worth learning from and imitating.  Mike spent his career as the CFO of four Universities retiring in 2011. Since then, Mike served as a volunteer with CASA, Friendsview Retirement Community, Young Life, his local Church, and Men in the Arena where he has served as Board Chair and Treasurer. He also leads two Men in the Arena teams—one local and one virtual.  When he isn't volunteering he is an avid snow skier, recently teaching his granddaughters how to ski.  He rides thousands of miles annually with his bike club and is a regular on the golf course that butts up to his backyard.  He is a mentor and father figure to me and many others. For embodying what it means to live as your best version Mike Goins was selected as the Men in the Arena Man of the year for 2022.  Boots on the Ground: Which habit do you need to work on?  Spend major time with your kids Diet Exercise Rest: Sleep, day off, vacation Quiet time with God Serving others Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Ask me anything and we will answer to the best of our ability in this series of Equipping Men in Ten episodes. This week Jim answers this question; What is Truth?   Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
In this episode, Caitlin, our digital marketing team member, shares what she has noticed about our tribe of men and their struggles as she has helped us take our social media to the next level. We get a woman's inside perspective of Men in the Arena.    Caitlin is a Digital Marketing Consultant based in California. She has degrees in marketing and web and information technology, and has spent the last 14 years helping ministries with their marketing from home while homeschooling her four kids. Caitlin has known Jim for 27 years, ever since he was her high school youth pastor (she witnessed Jim's infamous "dumping-trophies-onto-the-ground" sermon illustration) and he spoke at her wedding. She influences much of Men in the Arena's digital presence, including the website, social media strategy, and advertising.    Boots on the Ground: Start praying 2 Corinthians 12:9-10 for your life, and marriage.  Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Ask me anything and we will answer to the best of our ability in this series of Equipping Men in Ten episodes. This week Jim answers this question; How Do You Do Self-Care to Stay Balanced? Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
What are you doing with your dreams? Are you even dreaming? In this episode, Nicky Billou will challenge you to take your dreams and get active in going after them! Nicky Billou is the Founder of the Sovereign Man Movement. Host of the Sovereign Man Podcast, and the Thought Leader Revolution Podcast. Helped save 60+ marriages from divorce. Author of 7 books, including Finish Line Thinking: How To Think & Win Like A Champion, and The Thought Leader's Journey, which is our subject today. Boots on the Ground: Send out a probe. Answer the three questions we discussed and start doing something now as you transition. Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Ask me anything and we will answer to the best of our ability in this series of Equipping Men in Ten episodes. This week Jim answers this question; How could a woman better equip her husband to ensure a successful and awesome marriage? Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
There was a 6-year period when Joshua was one of the most successful adult film stars in the world making over 1,000 films at a rate of 20-25 a month. He became famous, rich, and traveled the world, but soon discovered that none of those things filled the emptiness in his heart.  He quit the industry in 2012 and gave his life to Jesus soon after due to the influence of his bride, Hope. The redemption story of what God did in his life is one that men everyone needs to hear. Joshua is currently a pastor at the Good News Baptist Church in Cedar Rapids, Iowa, and travels around the country preaching his faith.  https://www.joshuabroome.me Boots on the Ground Men, it is vital that we protect all our devices against porn. Get Covenant Eyes on all your devices. Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Ask me anything and we will answer to the best of our ability in this series of Equipping Men in Ten episodes. This week Jim answers the question, should Christians get tattoos?  Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Willy was born in Uganda, lost both parents when he was young. Willy was raised by family and community members and was supported through Compassion International as a little boy. As an orphan child, he was hungry for God to change his community and when he got an opportunity to go to school as an adult, Willy started Give Hope Ministries International, an orphanage school and ministry in Busia, Uganda where they now have 479 children in the program! Boots on the Ground: Go to www.ghmi.org and subscribe to their newsletter. Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Ask me anything and we will answer to the best of our ability in this series of Equipping Men in Ten episodes. This week Jim answers this tough question. How Often Should a Married Couple Have Sex? Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
God is with you. He wants you to win and He created you for more than you can imagine. Are you paralyzed by the fear of the unknown? Kenny Luck is the Lead Pastor of Ministries at Crossline Church in Laguna Hills, California. He is an ECPA Platinum award-winning author of 24 books covering marriage, family, and men's issues. Kenny has been a featured guest on FOX News and is the driving force behind the Every Man Global LIVESTREAM and podcasts heard around the world. In 2022 he will be touring with Jesus Culture and Hillsong United in 4 cities for the Dangerous Good City Transformation Tour in partnership with A-21 and Capital Records to reach men, raise awareness, and reduce demand in the fight against sexual slavery. Kenny has been married to his wife Chrissy for thirty-three years (in a row). They have raised three wonderful millennials (Cara, Ryan, and Jenna) and live in Southern California.  everymanministries.com  Boots on the Ground: Take Risks because God's Got you! Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Ask me anything and we will answer to the best of our ability in this series of Equipping Men in Ten episodes. This week Jim answers this tough question. What do you do when you are trying to save your marriage and your wife isn't receptive to any of your ideas?   Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Are you a well-rounded man? Are you a master at one thing in your life? You may need to bring some men around you that will help you learn other skills that will help you become better at other critical things in life.   Morgan Snyder is the founder of BecomeGoodSoil, the comprehensive apprenticeship track of Wild at Heart where he serves on the Executive Leadership team. Morgan has worked alongside John and Stasi Eldredge at Wild at Heart for more than two decades.      He is the author of Becoming a King: The path to Restoring the Heart of Man, which is our subject for today. https://becomegoodsoil.com/knife   becomingaking.com Boots on the Ground: Start carrying a pocket knife. Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Ask me anything and we will answer to the best of our ability in this series of Equipping Men in Ten episodes. This week Jim answers: Is Masturbation a Sin?  Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Is there evidence in your life that says you love Jesus? Does He overflow from you onto others?  Philippe Prosper is also a former professional martial artist and international Kung Fu champion. He is the Christian Business Men's Connection Area Director in Washington DC, where he disciples businessmen and influential artists.  He is passionate about making Christ famous both in the marketplace and the entertainment arena sharing Christ with the likes of Shaquille O'Neal, Nick Canon, and many more.  Boots on the Ground Ask God to put an opportunity in your path to share what is in your heart for Jesus.  Philippe@grandmasterstudio.com rapisamartialart.com  Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
How should a man deal with heartbreak in a marriage relationship that ended in divorce?  The ex is now with someone new but still is hopeful to get back. Thanks. - Roberto B. Common pitfalls to avoid in leading a men's ministry. - The Marksmen 1.   Doing it without physical and verbal support from your pastor 2.   Not doing it because Church leadership is not behind it 3.   Making it event-driven instead of discipleship driven Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
We have all picked up problematic coping mechanisms as we grow into adults. Dr. Eddie helps us to identify them and work through them.  Dr. Eddie Capparucci is a licensed Christian counselor, certified in treating Problematic Sexual Behaviors and the creator of the Inner Child Model for treating sex addictions. He is the author of several books, including Overcoming Relational Blind Spots, which is our subject for today. Boots on the Ground: Sit down with your wife hold her hand and just ask her about her day. Do not try to pursue sex. Just connect with her.    Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
In this Episode Jim will answers these questions: Where do you get honor women from? Tik Tok [In response to physical health affecting spiritual health reel] Hey brother, do you have any scriptures you can share on this topic?- Ben B. [Go to church Reel] Any tips on what to look for when looking for a new church? I am skeptical of all of them but at the same time feel like a homeless Christian.- bmaxwell5 Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
In this interview, Steven Mansfield will share from his book, Men on Fire, about the fires his book is designed to ignite in your soul. The tending of the fire afterward belongs to you.          The Fire of Heritage          The Fire of Battle          The Fire of Destiny          The Fire of Friendship          The Fire of Love          The Fire of Legacy          The Fire of God Author of Mansfield's Book of Manly Men, Building Your Band of Brothers (both also available in Spanish), and Men on Fire. Founder and President of GreatMan Global, teaching men worldwide the philosophy, art, and skills of manly excellence and equipping them to combat toxic masculinity wherever it may be found. Boots on the Ground: What's next? What action step will you take because of today? What will you do because of what you heard? Here it is. Which Fire needs your immediate attention? Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
In this Episode Jim will answers these questions: How do you figure out what to write for your books? – midatlanticmortgageguy How do you tell the difference between God's leading and your own will? – SPG      -Bible      -Godly Counsel      _is it something I would not choose or say      -Fruit…will it bless people      -Will it help or challenge be What a dad should teach his firstborn son. – Jennajayyyy Check out my REELS on IG Son of blessing Most mistakes Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Joel Van Der Loon shares about his experience of being alone in the wild and what it taught him.  Joel's experience in the outdoors began from childhood growing up in South Africa and Tanzania, East Africa - in particular, living off the grid on an isolated stretch of tropical coastline of wild bush, hosting an array of animal species. I spent 12 years traveling the world through 40 countries and crossing oceans as a professional crew member, exploring some of the world's most remote locations by sea. I have hiked, camped, and paddled in just about every type of ecosystem and trained in desert, alpine, jungle, and temperate survival methods. I have put myself into testing conditions with little more than a knife, water bottle, and the clothes on my back. I believe that there is no substitute for teaching from a position of real-life experience. Joel started training people in 2015 in San Diego- California on the Los Coyotes Indian reservation. He taught folks from all walks of life including military, fire-fighters, boy scouts, school kids, celebrities, physically disabled, and contestants of survival shows. He was a participant on Episode 3 of Discovery channels Bushcraft Build-Off and History channels Alone season 7. Joel and his family moved up to Central Oregon in 2018. He still returns to Africa yearly to learn from the Hadza Bushmen. Participant on History channels Alone and Discovery channels Bushcraft Build Off. Wilderness survival and Connection to nature. Learning from our hunter-gatherer ancestors. The importance of spending time alone in nature with our creator. Boots on the Ground Take a full afternoon in the wilderness and reflect and find gratitude for what God has given you. Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Ask me anything and we will answer to the best of our ability in this series of Equipping Men in Ten episodes. This week Jim answers: Q: How to Discuss LGBTQ With Your Kids   Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Do you want to be the best dad and man you can be? Do you want to live a legendary life? Larry Hagner shares what he does that will help you on this journey.   Larry Hagner is the creator of The Dad Edge Podcast. Featured as one of the top dad podcasts on iTunes, the show has received over 5 million downloads. Larry is the author of 2 bestselling books. He has featured some of the most elite humans on the planet. He lives in St. Louis with his wife Jessica and their four boys. Larry Hagner is the creator of The Dad Edge Podcast. Featured as one of the top dad podcasts on iTunes, the show has received over 5 million downloads. Larry is the author of 2 bestselling books. He has featured some of the most elite humans on the planet. He lives in St. Louis with his wife Jessica and their four boys. https://thedadedge.com/ Boots on the Ground Think about a struggle you have. Answer this question: What is the cost of doing nothing about this thing? Then, takes steps towards fixing that thing. Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Ask me anything and we will answer to the best of our ability in this series of Equipping Men in Ten episodes. This week Jim answers: Q: How do you constructively deal with unbelief in your grown children? Q: Sinless perfection. Just your thoughts and understanding on the subject. Q: What are some practical skills you think every grown man should have? What are some good ways to learn/grow those skills? Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Why are we continually telling guys to get a mentor or to be in a small group with other men? We will tackle this with Dean Brenton in this Episode. Dean Brenton is the President of Impactus | Promise Keepers Canada. Dean has been an active part of denominational, national, and parachurch committees, initiatives and events as well as international and local mission projects. He previously served for 13 years as the Executive Director of Ministry Development and Strategic Initiatives/Executive Director of Church Ministries for the Pentecostal Assemblies of Newfoundland and Labrador (PAONL). He also served as a Part-Time Instructor with Tyndale University (Toronto, ON) and Queen's College (St. John's, NL).   For more than twenty-five years, Impactus | Promise Keepers Canada has been at the forefront of calling men to follow Jesus Christ, and to be men who will have a godly impact in their families, workplaces, churches, and communities. Our vision is to see every man become, grow and live as a disciple of Jesus Christ. We do this by providing leadership resources to churches and men's ministry leaders to disciple their men, and by providing resources like articles, videos, podcasts and events direct to men. Boots on the Ground  Identify an area in your life that lacks consistency and it has cost you your best version. Pursue that thing until it becomes routine in your life.  Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
The Full Capacity Man Review Chapter 1: The Blameless Man Chapter 2— The Servant  Chapter 3—The Witness  Chapter 4—The Calm Man Chapter 5—The Moderate Man Chapter 6—The Vigilant Man Chapter 7—The Peacemaker Chapter 8—The Protector Chapter 9—The Hospitable Man Chapter 10—The Generous Man Chapter 11—The Good Man Chapter 12: The Devout Man  Chapter 13— The Respected Man Chapter 14—The Sacrificial Man Chapter 15—The Leader Chapter 16— The Teacher Chapter 17—The Faithful Man Chapter 18—The Just Man Chapter 19—The Gentle Man Chapter 20—The Wise Man Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
What is your hill to die on? Alan Smyth co-authored Men! Fight for Me: The Role of Authentic Masculinity in Ending Sexual Exploitation and Trafficking Currently, Alan serves as the Executive Director for Saving Innocence, an anti-human trafficking, community-based organization focused on child victims of sex trafficking.  Based in Los Angeles, Alan has responsibility over Direct Services and Business Operations. His main focus includes budgeting and resource development, strategic partnerships, staff development, and client services. You can learn more about Saving Innocence at www.savinginnocence.org. "Fight For Me"  are words he heard directly from a survivor of sex trafficking. Alan's unique view into this tragedy has given him a backstage pass to this horrific exploitation of children. Co-authored by Jessica Midkiff, herself a survivor of child trafficking, this book speaks directly to the hearts of men and our responsibility to step up and take leadership in the remedy. Nefarious: Merchant of Souls https://youtu.be/MFaDHgXPbUg Boots on the Ground: Research Saving Innocence and get involved!   Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
In 1 Timothy 3:2 Paul uses a unique word translated in many ways, one of which is prudent—"An overseer, then, must be…prudent." Wikipedia explains prudence as, "The ability to govern and discipline oneself by the use of reason. It is classically considered to be a virtue, and one of the four cardinal virtues." It is showing care and thought for the future. Merriam-Webster says, "The prudent are marked by wisdom. They are shrewd in the management of practical affairs. Discreet."   Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Alok Naskar has worked as a bible teacher and counselor since 1989 in India. While doing this he has furthered his education by getting his Ph.D. in 2008. Alok is surrounded by People of the Hindu faith who worship over 33 million gods. Through his ministry, he has been able to share the gospel with hundreds of people in his country. He has seen numerous miraculous healings that ultimately lead people to faith in Jesus as well.  http://www.CAREsociety.in/ +91 70886 96110 ucare2003@protonmail.com    Boots on the Ground Find an organization from around the world and get involved with them. Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
The Full Capacity Man is a gentle man. An overseer, then, must be…gentle.                      —1 Timothy 3:2-3 (Titus 3:2)  "All who are truly godly and are real disciples of Christ have a gentle spirit in them." Puritan leader Jonathan Edwards called gentleness." —Jonathon Edwards (1703-1758) American revivalist Preacher It's the strong hand, not the weak one, that must learn to be gentle. —Gary Thomas Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
This episode was recorded live in Greenville, Mississippi at the First Baptist Church, men's Wild Game Night.  Jim shares how God starts with men to do great things and you are that man that God wants to use.  Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
I have noticed something in guys that attend the church that I want to address. Since our target is men in the stress bubble of 28-55 years old this will be very helpful. Biblically speaking every Christian is a minister and every minister has a ministry. Here is the problem I want to address. It is the man who does not serve others because, as he puts it, his family is his ministry. THIS IS ADMIRABLE and THIS STATEMENT PUTS HIM IN AN ELITE CLASS OF MEN. But here is the lie.  God has called ALL MEN are ministers to the family. This is a biblical mandate to love, lead and serve the family unit. The Biblical Mandate is DIFFERENT from your Personal Mission. Your mission is what things God has wired your to-do and placed on your heart Based on your SHAPE. Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Jerry Schemmel is a survivor of United Airlines flight 232 that crashed landed on July 19, 1989.  Jerry grew up in Madison, SD, with his six siblings. He attended Washburn University in Topeka, KS where he played on the baseball team. After receiving his undergraduate degree in Communications in 1982, Jerry went to law school at Washburn University School of Law and earned his Juris Doctor in 1985. He has been both an assistant baseball coach and head coach, at the college level. He spent 10 seasons as a radio broadcaster for the Colorado Rockies, after 18 seasons in the same role with the Denver Nuggets. Jerry Schemmel wrote two books. First, Chosen To Live, from 1996 that chronicles his experience from surviving the crash of Flight 232. And The Extravagant Gift, as an outreach book.  Everybody has their own plane crash. -Jerry Schemmel Boots on the Ground: Where are you headed towards a plane crash? Chart a new course for your life and trust God in 2022. Link to the crash video. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ocpFuJ2wbhU Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
The Full Capacity Man must be a Just man! Jim Ramos explains what a just man looks like in this episode. For the overseer must be…just. —Titus 1:7-8 "Justice is truth in action." —Benjamin Disraeli   "I believe the current concept of social justice is incompatible with biblical Christianity." ― Voddie T. Baucham,       Fault Lines Masters, grant to your slaves justice and fairness, knowing that you too have a Master in heaven. —Colossians 4:1 Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Jim Ramos is speaking at Maranatha Church in Wyoming Minnesota on how you can make 2022 the best year of your life. Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Bonus Episode! Arena Men, as you know, we are always telling you that you need to be in your Bible daily. Reading and studying the Word of God is a must if you want to be a man functioning at Full Capacity. So we've dropped this bonus episode to introduce you to another tool you can add to your tool belt. This podcast is called The Chapter a Day Audio Bible. In it, Pastor John Stange reads a chapter of the Bible to you, with a prayer at the end. It's quick, easy, and great way to get your Bible in during your morning commute. No more excuses, guys -  if you don't have time to read your Bible in the morning, you definitely have time to listen to it!  Here's an example episode. Check it out. This bonus episode comes to you from John Stange and he is covering Genesis Chapter 1.  DesireJesus.com is a ministry of John Stange. If you'd like to say "thank you" for the content John is creating, click here to buy him a coffee. John is a follower of Jesus, husband to Andrea, and father to four great kids. He holds degrees in Bible, Education, and Counseling, is a certified speaker, trainer and coach with the John Maxwell Team, and serves as the Lead Pastor of Core Creek Community Church in Langhorne, PA.   John is an adjunct professor at Cairn University, where he teaches courses on church planting, theology, and counseling.  He also serves as the Director of the National Mission Board which is a ministry that is focused on church planting and church health. John hosts three podcasts, "The Chapter-A-Day Audio Bible," "Daily Devotions with Pastor John," and "Dwell on These Things." At present, his shows have been downloaded over 7 million times by listeners throughout the world. All three podcasts can be freely accessed via your favorite podcast app or by clicking here. John's books are focused on spiritual growth, leadership, marriage and the practical and applicational aspects of following Jesus.  He recently signed with Penguin Random House to publish his latest book "Dwell on These Things" which is a 31-day-challenge to talk to yourself like God talks to you.
In this episode, Jim Ramos shares what it looks like to be a faithful man.  Guardrail #1 Never develop an emotional connection to another woman. Proverbs 29:3 and 5:3-4 Guardrail #2 Never be alone with a woman behind closed doors or alone in public. Proverbs 8:11-12 Guardrail #3 Never engage in negative talk about your marriage or wife with another woman. Proverbs 24:3 and 30:20 Guardrail #4 Never compliment a woman unless your wife is present or somehow woven into the compliment. Proverbs 17:24 Example: ―Your hair looks nice that color. My wife dyes her hair too but I love her no matter what color her hair is. Guardrail #5 Never have longstanding counseling relationships with another woman. Proverbs 2:16 and 14:8 Guardrail #6 Never make physical contact with a sensual area of another woman even if it's just a hug. Proverbs 5:20 and 6:26 Example: Front hug as opposed to a side hug. Guardrail #7 Never make foul, rude, or sexual comments. Proverbs 10:23, 10:31, and 7:5 Guardrail #8 Never give a gift or card to another woman that is only from you. Proverbs 12:26 Example: Sign the gift or card from you and your wife, or from ―us‖. Guardrail #9 Never have non-business related communication with another woman (text, instant message, social media, phone calls, etc.) Proverbs 1:20 and 2:6 Guardrail #10 Never assume your wife is living by your standards. Be engaged. Proverbs 2:11-13, 4:5, and 5:1 Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
In this episode, Jim interviews Chad Gunderson, the producer of The Chosen. Chad explains why Jesus is portrayed the way he is in this series. The Jesus in The Chosen relates to the rest of humanity. He is a man that men want to follow. You will love this episode!   Chad Gundersen's producing career began over 25 years ago while in college at the University of North Texas. While there, Chad co-founded Night & Day Films in 2000 and made numerous award-winning commercials, music videos, and short films.  Going out on his own in 2006, Chad started Gundersen Entertainment where he worked alongside studios like 20th Century Fox, Lionsgate, and Sony to produce multiple life-changing films. Some of his more notable projects include Like Dandelion Dust starring Academy Award Winner Mira Sorvino and Barry Pepper, The Trial starring Matthew Modine, Hoovey starring Patrick Warburton, and Lauren Holly, as well as the children's animated series, Owlegories.  In 2015, along with producer Chris Juen, Chad started Out of Order Studios, where they have produced numerous TV shows, animated projects, and feature films, including the ground-breaking TV series, The Chosen. Boots on the Ground: Watch Season One of The Chosen Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
In this episode, Jim Ramos shares the three causes that are very important to us.  Missionaries Military (oversees active) Men in Underdeveloped Nations Strategic partnership: We believe in forming strategic partnerships with diverse, Christ-centered people, and organizations around the world, who will ultimately put Jesus on display. (Matthew 6:10, John 13:34-35, 1 Corinthians 3:2-7, and Philippians 1:13-18)   By "diverse" we are not talking about America. We are talking on a global level. Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Gary Greeno is a pastor, motivational speaker, educator of 30+ years, author, and former basketball coach. His passion is to help people find and live out their purpose while living out the Godly legacy they truly want to leave. Today we will be discussing his book, The Legacy Game Plan: 4 Keys to Living Intentionally Jim and Gary discuss in detail the 4 Part Game Plan for Living Out A Godly Legacy.  First, Fortify Your Foundation by, Choose Christ Daily Keep The Past in The Past Get Around Godly People It's a Slow Process Second, Feed Your Faith Third, Fix Your Focus Fourth, Finish Strong Boots on the Ground: Set a fitness goal this year with micro-goals. Join me in doing 65,000 pushups this year. Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
In this episode, Jim Ramos shares what we at Men in the Arena believe and why it is important. Christ-centered: We unapologetically trust Jesus Christ to protect, grow, and bless Men in the Arena. We will stand up, speak up, and show up for Jesus even to the point of ridicule, persecution, and death. (Luke 1:37, 1 Corinthians 3:7, 2 Timothy 3:12, and Hebrews 10:39) Biblically-based: We believe the Bible is the infallible word of God that provides moral absolutes. Everything we speak, write, or represent, will be Biblically accurate to the best of our abilities and interpretation of Scripture. (Psalm 119:9-10, 2 Timothy 3:16-17, Hebrews 4:12, and 2 Peter 1:20-21) Strategic partnership: We believe in forming strategic partnerships with diverse, Christ-centered people, and organizations around the world, who will ultimately put Jesus on display. (Matthew 6:10, John 13:34-35, 1 Corinthians 3:2-7, and Philippians 1:13-18) Organizational Integrity: We believe in impeccable organizational integrity. We will be transparent in our financial dealings, ministry reporting, and verbal interactions. (Job 27:5, Proverbs 10:9, Matthew 22:16, and 1 Timothy 3:1-6) Morally Pure:  We believe in living a life that glorifies Jesus, guards those we love, and protects the organization.(Proverbs 5:18-20, Acts 1:8, 1 Timothy 3:1-6, 2 Timothy 2:22, and Hebrews 13:4) Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
God wants to help you rid yourself of the things that slow you down. He wants to chisel and hone you into the creation he has intended you to be. Jim Ramos interview Chris Widener on his book, The Angel Inside. Chris Widener has been named one of the top 50 speakers in the world and is a member of the motivational speakers Hall of Fame. From his childhood filled with drama, 28 homes in 11 different schools being shipped afterward with relatives twice, to becoming one of the most well-known motivational speakers, Chris Widener will inspire you. He is the author of 22 books that have been translated into 14 languages. Boots on the Ground: Pray and ask God to show you who he wants you to become in 2022. When he reveals this to you, pick up the hammer and chisel and start chipping away at your life until you become that man.  Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Top Books for Men                                                Listed Alphabetically by Author's last name                          9. The Measure of a Man by Gene Getz Why? Gene's is the first book to define the biblical qualities every godly man must strive for. His book, written over 50 years ago has sold over a million copies to date. Episode #: 255 10. The Elephant in the Marriage by Jason Karampatsos Why? Find out what brings satisfaction in the marriage by reading this ground-breaking work. You may be shocked.  Episode #: 239 11. Ten Things Great Dads Do by Rick Johnson Why? Rick is one of the least know best authors to speak to men in decades. IN his book, Rick whittles fathering down to ten great fathering principles.  Episode #: 154, 156 12. Raising a Modern Day Night by Robert Lewis Why? Every father raising sons needs to read this book. Lewis helps dads navigate through rite of passage ceremonies with their sons.  Episode #: 342 13. Six Rules Every Man Must Break by Bill Perkins Why? This was the first book about manhood I ever read and it was a game changer as I broke free from extra biblical rules and church expectations that drove my life.   Episode #: 88 14. The Jesus Story by White Horse Publishing (Bill Perkins) Why? Not specifically for men, this is a blended version of the Gospels with no chapter or verse refences. It is a game changer that every man must own. Episode #: 227 15. Strong Men Dangerous Times: Five Essentials Every Man Must Possess to Change His world by Jim Ramos Why? What did you expect? This Amazon #1 bestseller is the first book I've read that clearly defines what a man is and does. You'll walk away knowing what it takes to live as a man.    Episode #:  426 (428, 430, 432, 434) 16. Just a Minute by Wess Stafford Why? This book changed how I acted around little children. Often ignored, now whenever a child enters the room I act as though I was standing on holy ground because of this great book written by the greatest man I ever met. Just a minute can change a child! Episode #: 483 Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Top Books for Men                                                Listed Alphabetically by Author's last name                          What Radical Husbands Do by Regi Campbell Why?  This book is short, easy to read, and offers memorable and practical advice for being a better husband. It me the first time I read it but how clear, honest and succinct this book is. Episode #: 362 Let's Talk: Conversation Starters for Dads and Daughters by Michelle Canfield Why?  Michelle, aka The Dad Whisperer, is a woman who teaches men who to talk to their daughters. All her resources are exceptional. Episode #: 433 Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman Why?  Over 14 million copies have been sold., This is a classic book every man should own so he can love his wife to the best of his ability. Episode #: 344 No More Christian Nice Guy by Paul Coughlin Why?  This was a monumental work for the majority of Christian men who think being a good man is synonymous with being nice. It is not. Episode #: 316 The Smart Stepdad by Ron Deal Why?  With divorce rates at over 50% Deal helps dads with stepchildren avoid the pitfalls that can ruin a second marriage. Being a child of divorce myself, I cannot stress who important this book is Episode #: 423 Love and Respect by Emmerson Eggerichs Why?  Selling millions of copies this is a must-read book for husbands who want to avoid the "crazy cycle," learn to speak their wife's language and live their best marriage. Episode #: 203 Wild at Heart by John Eldredge                            Why?  Twenty years later and men are still talking about it. Eldredge lists the three core passions of every man. Those passions resonated with my soul, and they will with yours too. Episode #: 94 Red Hot Monogamy by Bill and Pam Farrel Why?  Did you know monogamous Christian couples report having the most satisfying sex life? Find out how yours can be numbered among them in the no holds barred book for couples Episode #: 201 Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Inspiration for our 65k Push-Up Challenge! This interview will be a huge inspiration for you on your push-up journey. Rod Handley inspired our challenge! Rod had Stage 4 cancer, and was so weak that he couldn't do a single push-up, but then decided he was going to do 200 per day, 6 days per week. By the end of the year, he was cranking out 200 strict push-ups! This is a must-listen. Rod Handley is the Founder & President of Character that Counts, a ministry established in 2000. Rod speaks all across the nation to men, women and teenagers about character, integrity and accountability issues. He has written over 30 books including "Character Counts: Who's Counting Yours?" which details the "why's" and "how's" of accountability. For over 35 years, Rod has shared at hundreds of men's events, conferences and retreats all across the nation. From 1986-1999, he served on the staff of the Fellowship of Christian Athletes, including 11 years as the COO/CFO. He has also spoken at hundreds of chapel services for a number of NFL, NBA and MLB teams, including serving as team chaplain for the Kansas City Royals (1995-2009) and the Seattle SuperSonics (1986-89). Rod and his wife Janna live in Lee's Summit, MO and they have four children. Here's How the 65k Push-Up Challenge Will Work: Record your reps on the calendar here! At the end of each month, we'll send you an email asking for your check-in. Simply reply to that email with a pic of that month's calendar.  If you hit the 65,000 push-up goal before midnight December 31, 2022, you have officially slayed this challenge. At the end of the year, you'll send photos of your completed calendar. We'll send you a certificate of completion and some commemorative merch (still figuring that part out, but we've got some cool ideas). FAQs and Housekeeping Stuff: Q: Do they have to be strict push-ups? A: No. They can be strict, knee, wall, box, incline - I don't care what you do as long as you do it. The guy who inspired this challenge started out unable to do a single push-up and by the end he was knocking out 200 a day. Challenge yourself and improve. Q: Do I need to videotape myself to prove I did them? A: Nah, honor system. You'll send us photos of your calendar for accountability more than anything. If you give me your word of honor that you did them, I'll believe you. Q: I did 64,999 push-ups because [insert excuse here]. Can I still get my certificate, merch, etc.? A: No participation trophies. Q: What inspired this challenge? Where did the number 65,000 come from? A: This challenge was inspired by my friend Rod Handley from Character that Counts. He was recovering from a rare form of cancer and decided to do 200 push-ups per day, 6 days per week and came up with that 65k goal. At first he couldn't do a single push-up, but by the end of the year he was cranking out 200 a day. If he can do it, so can you! Next Monday, I'll be interviewing Rod about his experience with this push-up challenge on the Men in the Arena podcast. That'll be really motivating and inspiring on your push-up journey, so make sure to listen to that episode. Q: How many emails am I going to be getting here?A: For the challenge, you'll get one each month for your check-in. Maybe also an occasional one if I think of something inspirational to say to you about it, but it's not going to be frequent. You'll also automatically start receiving our Weekly Equipping Blast each Friday. It's designed to equip you to be a better man, so I'd encourage you to check it out, but if you don't want it you can manage your email preferences to only receive emails about the 65k Push-Up Challenge. We won't share your email or identity with anyone. When you post videos or pics to social media about your progress, use the hashtag #65kpushupchallenge and tag us @themeninthearena so we can reshare and hype you up! If you have friends that want to start late, tell them to hit us up. The more the merrier. If you're not familiar with Men in the Arena, check out our website to learn more about us. If you have any questions I haven't addressed here, feel free to email us at info@meninthearena.org or DM me on our Men in the Arena socials. Let's get after it! Pushing-Up to Become His Best Version, Jim Ramos Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Sathiya Sam helps men overcome sexual temptations with his 5 principles. Sathiya Sam is a coach and speaker that helps men live with confidence and integrity. A recovered addict himself, Sathiya is the creator of DeepClean – a research-based and Bible-backed system for overcoming porn addiction. DeepClean has helped everyone from college students to medical doctors regain control of their lives and walk in greater levels of freedom. He is married to his lovely wife Shaloma and based out of Toronto, Canada. Website - www.sathiyasam.com  Free Recovery Guide - www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com  The Last Relapse (Book) - www.sathiyasam.com/books  Unleash The Man Within Podcast - www.sathiyasam.com/podcast  Facebook - www.facebook.com/sathiyamesam  Instagram - www.instagram.com/sathiyamesam  Boots on the Ground Get Covenant Eyes on all your devices. Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
The full capacity man knows the Bible, he shows that the Bible is in him, and he apposes false teachings.   An overseer, then, must be…able to teach. —1 Timothy 3:2  For the overseer must be…holding fast the faithful word, which is in accordance with the teaching, so that he will be able both to exhort in sound doctrine and to refute those who contradict. —Titus 1:7 and 9  Be diligent to present yourself approved to God as a workman who does not need to be ashamed, accurately handling the word of truth. —2 Timothy 2:15 "A thorough knowledge of the Bible is worth more than a college education."   —Theodore Roosevelt "A Bible that's falling apart usually belongs to someone who isn't."      —Charles Spurgeon (1834-1892) Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Jim gives you some practical things you can do this Christmas to keep Christ in Christmas. You can also find some great ideas from past Christmas episodes. Check out Episodes 304, 306, and 405. The Bethlehem Star on Youtube. Boots on the Ground:  What do you do to bring your family closer to Jesus on Christmas?  Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Men, you are called to be the leaders in your home. You are also the spiritual leader. This should not cause you fear because you are not sure what to do. It should, however, cause you to do something. Anything. Just lead.  "A leader is one who sees more than others see, who sees farther than others see, and who sees before others see." -Leroy Eims Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Thank you for for helping us get to Episode 500! Because of our listeners we have been able to reach men in 126 countries and help them take a step closer to becoming their best version in Christ.  In this episode we take a stroll back to some of the good, bad, and ugly episodes. We look at how we have progressed and share how God has had his hand on us.  Links to great podcasts: Paul and Virginia Friesen  LT General Jerry Boykin Wess Stafford Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Bob Thomason shares how he stays close to Jesus, loves his wife, and lives faithfully for Christ. He does this by keeping the things that he did in the beginning. Bob has a true belief that Jesus is the restorer and there is always a second chance.    Do you love your wife, if, or do you love her, because? -Bob Thomason There is no stronger man than one humbly submitted to Christ.  -Bob Thomason  If you want to know who you are you have to know the God who made you.  -Bob Thomason Boots on the Ground Ask yourself this question, Do you take a shower before you take a bath? This is as great time to recommit yourself to Jesus. Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
The sacrificial man lays his life down for others. He fights for the great kingdom causes in this world. He willingly serves others when it is not convenient. This man is a Full capacity Man.   THINK OF YOURSELF, LESS For the overseer must not (be) self-willed. —Titus 1:7 Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
In this episode you will get life wisdom from the winningest coach in college football.  "Discipline is not what you do to a person but what you do for a person." -Ad Rutschman  Adolf "Ad" Rutschman (born October 30, 1931) is an American football coach, former baseball coach, and college athletics administrator. He was a head football coach for 24 seasons, head baseball coach for 13 seasons, and served as athletic director for 25 years at Linfield College. He is the first athletic director emeritus in the history of the college. He also served as head coach of football and baseball at his alma mater, Hillsboro High School. The 5-step formula for success: Set the goal in writing Make a plan Check the plan (Do you believe it?) Put the plan in action Stick with the plan (Don't deviate)  Mail a check for $18 to Team Rutschman at 2142 NW Pine Hurst Dr. McMinnville Or 97128 for a copy of Winning with Class. Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Are you a servant to others? Are you compelled to serve because the living Spirit lives in you? The Christian man is a servant. "Beware of the false prophets, who come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly are ravenous wolves. You will know them by their fruits. Grapes are not gathered from thorn bushes, nor figs from thistles, are they? So every good tree bears good fruit, but the bad tree bears bad fruit. A good tree cannot bear bad fruit, nor can a bad tree bear good fruit. Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire. So then, you will know them by their fruits." —Matthew 7:15-20- NASB It is a trustworthy statement: if any man aspiresto the office of overseer, it is a fine work he desires to do.—1 Timothy 3:1 I have given you an example to follow. Do as I have done to you.—John 13:15 (NLT) Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
A devout man has certain characteristics that set him apart from other men who call themselves "Christians." How are you doing in these areas.  For the overseer must be…devout. —Titus 1:7-8 Paul, a bond-servant of Christ Jesus, called as an apostle, set apart for the gospel of God. —Romans 1:1 Devoted to consistent church attendance.  Devoted to a pure and holy life of Biblical obedience.  Devoted to separation for Christian service.  Devoted to W.A.L.K.I.N.G. with God. Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
In this episode Rich Gorecki talks about men and their need for authentic relationships with other men. Who do you have in your inner circle? Rich Gorecki is a self-professed "regular kind of guy" who writes from his own struggles with work-life balance that teetered on depression and his experiences with friendships. Rich's concept of "GodBuddies" led to his personal blog and recent book about a man's need for deeper, more authentic friendships based on raising boys, the cultural issues for men, participating in Bible studies and study retreats, and speaking on the topic of friendships. Rich is an elder at his local Presbyterian Church, trained Stephen Minister, and leader of its men's group. He is a former Assistant Scoutmaster, coached his kids' teams, and volunteered with various local organizations. Rich lives in the western suburbs of Chicago and is married to his high school sweetheart, Cyndi, with whom they raised three boys into young adult men.  Boots on the Ground Identify who functions as your Paul, Barnabas and Timothy? Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
In this episode Jim challenges fathers to do some sort of rite of passage with his kids. How will they know they entered manhood? It is up to fathers to usher them into this stage in their lives. It is also important to bring other men around them to share what manhood looks like.  Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Brian Tome shares what the five marks of a man are. By this definition, are you a man? At the end of the podcast we will ask you to identify what areas you need to work on.  Brian Tome is the founding and senior pastor of Crossroads Church, 2017's fastest-growing church in America. Brian has authored four books including his best-seller, The Five Marks of a Man. He also hosts The Aggressive Life podcast. As an entrepreneur, Brian has opened several other non-profits and started Man Camp, a primitive weekend camping experience that has helped tens of thousands of men reclaim the code of manhood. An avid adventure motorcyclist, Brian rides tens of thousands of miles and camps more than 30 nights a year. Brian has also released an adventure ride TV show called Phantom Lake. He is married with three children and lives in Cincinnati, Ohio. Boots on the Ground: Identify which of the fives areas you are the weakest. Are you a man of vision, are you a man who takes a minority position, are you a team player, are you willing to work hard, and are you a protector. Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
The good man is not always a nice man. The Good man does good things, spends time with good people, and his actions are good. Men, stop being a nice man and be a good man.  Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Most men live an average or below-average life. What does it take to live above average? You will love this episode with Robert Owen! Robert Hamilton Owens is a man of many hats. He's been and done a lot – mountain climbing, radio and TV personality, keynote speaker, minister, Ironman, philanthropist, triathlete, Special Ops Pararescue man, and father of five – to name a few. But of all the pursuits he's undertaken, there's one title that best describes this literal force of nature: Robert is The Fittest and Mentally Toughest 66-Year-Old in the World. Period. Robert was born and raised in Orange County, California without ever having met his parents. Adopted by a California judge, Robert was raised as a special-needs child who was unable to play kickball with his classmate due to the corrective shoes he was required to wear through sixth grade. Boots on the Ground:  What are your 3 take-aways from this podcast? What are you going to do with it? Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
A full capacity man is a generous man. He knows that he can not out give God. With the riches God has given you, are you generous with them? Jim shares from his book Full Capacity Man, how a generous man lives. An overseer must be…free from the love of money. —1 Timothy 3:2-3 Since an overseer manages God's household, he must be blameless—…not pursuing dishonest gain.               —Titus 1:7 (NIV) Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Episode 436 called "You are Soft" was our most responded to podcast—good and bad. After listening to it recently, I still stand on what I said, "WE ARE SOFT." Soft equals weak. SO, when I say soft, I mean we are weak. Which is why I wrote the book, "STRONG Men Dangerous Times" People think Jesus was a pastor, I think he was more of a coach. Listen as Jim unpacks these thoughts.  Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Are you the Peacefaker, Peacebreaker, or Peacemaker? In this episode from Jim's book the Full Capacity Man, Jim explains what each one is and what a full capacity man should be.  An overseer, then, must be…peaceable. —1 Timothy 3:2-3 Now the overseer is…not quarrelsome. —1 Timothy 3:2-3 (NIV)  "Peacemakers see conflict as an opportunity to solve problems in a way that not only benefits everyone involved but also honors God. They use conflict to glorify God, serve others, and become more like Christ." —Ken Sande and Kevin Johnson Resolving Everyday Conflict   Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
What can happen in your life if you are driven by godly values? Dive into this podcast with Ryan Chamberlin and see what his values have driven him to create for you and me. Ryan Chamberlin is an author, speaker, and leadership influencer. For 25 years he worked with thousands of entrepreneurs, assisting them in growing their influence and profitability. Ryan has authored 4 books on value-driven success including one with the late relationship expert Gary Smalley titled 'The Rich You Formula.'   In 2020 he ran for U.S. Congress in the most competitive race in Florida. And in January of 2021, he co-founded the True Patriot Network which recently launched a value-driven social media platform called TPN. Ryan has worked with Success Magazine, is a TEDX speaker, and frequently is asked to share at national conferences.  Join True Patriot Network Now! www.gettpn.net/arena  Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
In this Equipping in Ten Episode Jim challenges our way of thinking when we seek to understand what it means to be a hospitable man. Can you say that you are that man?  For the overseer must be…hospitable. —Titus 1:7-8 (1 Timothy 3:2) "If a man be gracious and courteous to strangers, it shows he is a citizen of the world."                      — Francis Bacon (1561-1626) Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for by this some have entertained angels without knowing it. —Hebrews 13:2 Share with the Lord's people who are in need. Practice hospitality. —Romans 12:13 (NIV)   "When you open your home to strangers, you are opening your home to the Lord Jesus." —Ray Pritchard Man of Honor  Above all, keep fervent in your love for one another, because love covers a multitude of sins. Be hospitable to one another without complaint.  —1 Peter 4:8-9 Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
When you see a child what happens in your soul? For Wess Stafford he knows that one moment, one word can launch them into greatness. So, Wess doesn't miss a chance to make a mark for Jesus in a child's heart.  Dr. Wess Stafford is President Emeritus of Compassion International, one of the world's largest Christian child development organizations, partnering with more than 60 denominations and 7,000 local churches and serving over 2 million children in 26 countries. Wess has worked both overseas and in leadership positions at ministry headquarters for four decades and served as President and CEO of Compassion International for 20 years.  Wess is an internationally recognized advocate for children in poverty, speaking up for those who cannot speak for themselves.   He earned undergraduate degrees from Moody Bible Institute and Biola University, and a master's degree from Wheaton College, as well as a Ph.D. from Michigan State University.  The author of Too Small to Ignore: Why the Least of These Matters Most and Just a Minute: In the Heart of a Child, One Moment Can Last Forever. Boots on the Ground:  Get your copy of Just a Minute: In the Heart of a Child, One Moment ... Can Last Forever. Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
In this Equipping in Ten episode Jim talks about what it means to be that man who is the protector.  -Never Pick a Fight. Finish It. Now the overseer is… not violent. —1 Timothy 3:2-3 (NIV) An overseer…must (not) be…pugnacious. —1 Timothy 3:2-3 "There is one fairly good reason for fighting—and that is, if the other man starts it…When you can be perfectly certain that the other man started them, then is the time when you might have a sort of duty to stop them." ― T.H. White The Once and Future King "Though God hates bullying, too many Christians don't." —Paul Coughlin, Free Us from Bullying "The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing. —Edmund Burke (1729-1797) "Never violate a woman, nor harm a child. Do not lie, cheat or steal. These things are for lesser men. Protect the weak against the evil strong."  — David Gemmell (1948-2006)  White Wolf Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
In this episode, Jim shares from his newest book, Tell Them: What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters. This is a free download for a limited time.  In this book, Jim shares 200 things that dads should share with their kids. Each page is one day with a challenge and a scripture. It is filled with practical conversation-starters that will help you set your kids up for greater success in knowing who they are in Christ.  Get Your Copy Now! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
In this episode Jim share about what it looks like to be a vigilant man. A man who is aware of his surroundings is a vigilant man.  A bishop then must be…vigilant. —1 Timothy 3:2  King James Version "Conquer yourself and you have conquered the world."             —St. Augustine "The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I came that they may have life, and have it abundantly."             —Jesus, John 10:10 www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
In this podcast episode we hear from the semi-retired founder and CEO of Robinson Nursery Incorporated, Rick Robinson.  Rick shares about his philosophies for giving, and to whom. What does good stewardship look like and what he believes God's Word tells him to do with his resources is also discussed. It's no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain what he cannot lose. -Jim Elliot Boots on the Ground: Take a step of faith in your stewardship journey by giving 10 percent. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
In this episode Jim share about what it looks like to be a moderate man. He shares about what areas in our lives we need to be moderate in and why? There are some areas that most people don't talk about that Jim talks about here.  How are you doing to be a moderate man?   Can you answer what is your why? Do you have the ability to say NO to all things? Can you name the acceptable sin in our culture?   For the overseer must not (be)…addicted to wine… but sober-minded  —Titus 1:7-8 (NKJV) An overseer, then, must be…prudent…not addicted to wine. — 1 Timothy 3:2-3 (NASB) "Complete abstinence is easier than perfect moderation." —St. Augustine (354-430 A.D.) www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Rex Tignor from Manupministries.net shares about LEGACY.  Men, what kind of legacy will you leave behind? You know, it's never too late to start over. L- Let it Go E- Example G- Grow Everyday A- Accessible C- Create Memories Y- You – Be the Best You Use Code Manup2021 for a free Download of Boot Camp for Men at Manupministrie.net Rex is the Founder of ManUp Ministries (2006), and works closely with Iron Sharpens Iron Men's Conferences. Rex is a Men in the Arena National Team Captain launching an Eastern Time Zone team in October. Rex is passionate about helping men get out of the rut and he loves helping churches launch ministries to men. Boots on the Ground: Here it is. Write down 50 things you want to say to your kids. These are words you want to leave them with them. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
The Calm Man sets the tone around him. A hot tempered man sets everyone else on pins and needles. Which are you?  For the overseer must…not (be) quick-tempered. —Titus 1:7 Keep calm and carry on." —Great Britain Poster, 1939 "Stay calm. EXHALE. Squeeze. Follow through." —Taped about my bow grip Don't sin by letting anger control you. Don't let the sun go down while you are still angry. — Ephesians 4:26, "Anyone can hold the helm when the sea is calm." —Publilius Syrus This you know, my beloved brethren. But everyone must be quick to hear, slow to speak and slow to anger; for the anger of man does not achieve the righteousness of God. — James 1:19-20  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
What do you do when life knocks you down? UFC fighter Matt Hughes joined us to tell his story of perseverance despite difficult circumstances. Matt Hughes is widely considered among the greatest fighters in the history of MMA. He is a two-time UFC Welterweight Champion, UFC Hall of Fame inductee, and NJCAA Hall of Fame inductee. Matt ended his UFC career 45-9. During his tenures in the Ultimate Fighting Championship, Hughes put together two separate six-fight winning streaks, defeated all the available opposition in the welterweight division, and defended the belt a then-record seven times. In May 2010, Hughes became the eighth inductee into the UFC Hall of Fame. During his reign, Hughes was considered the #1 pound-for-pound mixed martial artist in the world. He was also regarded by many as one of the greatest welterweight fighters of all time, as well as one of the greatest pound-for-pound fighters in the sport's history. In 2008, Hughes published his autobiography, 'Made in America,' which made the New York Times bestseller list.  I love this part, "Hughes has no nickname, although because of his successes against Gracie Brazilian jiu-jitsu practitioners such as Royce Gracie, Renzo Gracie, Ricardo Almeida, and Matt Serra, people often refer to him as "the Gracie Killer". Link to Matt's Highlight Finishes https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hd3wEsGzHfs  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
What do people in your community say about your witness? Do your actions show that you are a "Christian?" An overseer, then…must have a good reputation with those outside the Church so that he will not fall into reproach and the snare of the devil.                            —1 Timothy 3:7 "In the midst of a world screaming for answers, Christians are stuttering."                                      —Howard Hendricks You shall not take vengeance, nor bear any grudge against the sons of your people, but you shall love your neighbor as yourself; I am the Lord.                  —Leviticus 19:18 "No one will receive Christ through you who will not receive you first."                                                —Joseph Aldrich, Gentle Persuasion The second is this, 'You shall love your neighbor as yourself.' There is no other commandment greater than these."    —Mark 12:31 www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Jim is speaking at Yamhill Christian Church sharing how he listens to the voice of God. When was the last time you went into a quiet place to hear from God?  How to hear from God Heart of a Champion, Are you all in for Jesus? Pencil of a Sharp Shooter, Carry and notepad and pen or pencil. Eyes of a Hunter,  Look for God in the midst of life. Ears of the Preyed upon. Listen for God's voice. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
The Full Capacity Man Is a respected man. What does this look like? This episode touches on Jim's newest book that is coming soon, The Full Capacity Man. The Greatest Gift a Man can Give  An overseer, then, must be…respectable. —1 Timothy 3:2 "I firmly believe that respect is a lot more important, and a lot greater, than popularity."                                                                                                       — Julius "Dr. J" Erving NBA Star "This is the same word, kosmios, that is translated 'modesty'—literally, 'with modesty' in 1 Timothy 2:9. The basic meaning of the word is 'orderly'. But Greek writers used it as a source of 'respectable' or 'honorable.'"                                    —Ralph Earle Expositor's Bible Commentary   Likewise, I want women to adorn themselves with proper clothing, modestly and discreetly, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly garments. —1 Timothy 2:9 "I'm not concerned with your liking or disliking me... All I ask is that you respect me as a human being." —Jackie Robinson 1st African American Major League Baseball Player www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
How do we father well despite - and through - our mistakes? Author Dave Wilson joined us to discuss parenting wins and fails, and his book No Perfect Parents: Ditch Expectations, Embrace Reality.  For the past twenty-five years, Dave and his wife Ann have been featured speakers at Family Life's Weekend to Remember®, and have also hosted their own marriage conferences across the country.  Dave & Ann host a radio show for Family Life with featured guests on marriage/relationships/money and parenting.   Dave has served as the Detroit Lions Chaplain for thirty-three years. They have three grown sons, three daughters-in-law, and four grandchildren. Dave and his wife co-authored the book, No Perfect Parents: Ditch Expectations, Embrace Reality which is our topic for today's discussion.  The Four Stages of Parenting: 1. Discipline stage (ages one to five) 2. Training stage (ages five to twelve) 3. Coaching stage (ages twelve to eighteen) 4. Friendship stage (ages eighteen plus) TOP FIVE PARENTING MISTAKES Mistake #1: I left my soul at the office Mistake #2: I was nicer to the mailman than to my kids Mistake #3: I forgot the Bullseye  Mistake #4: I neglected my marriage Mistake #5: I didn't hug enough Boots on the Ground: Listen to Family Life Today.  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
The Full Capacity Man lives above reproach. What does this look like? This episode touches on Jim's newest book that is coming soon, The Full Capacity Man. Are you blameless and unrebukeable? The Full Capacity Man works to attain this in his life.  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Doug Pollock is an author, a speaker, a YMCA chaplain, and an affiliate of Athletes in Action whose focus is to help Christ followers worldwide increase the quantity and the quality of their spiritual conversations in practical, doable, and authentic ways. Over the years Doug's ministry endeavors have taken him to 42 different countries and throughout most of the United States to share God's never-changing message with an ever-changing world. Currently, his "God Space" book and workshop keep him busy speaking in faith communities worldwide. We will take a look at what these phrases mean.  Jesus Glasses Stepping Out and Entering In Information to Transformation God's teeter-totter Spiritual appetizers "If we're going to create God Space for others, it has to start inside us. It takes safe people to create safe places." The Ten Killers of Spiritual Conversations Killer 1: An Unbelieving Heart Killer 2: Pre-Conversation History Killer 3: Awkward Transitions Killer 4: Our Language, Not Theirs Killer 5: Disrespect Killer 6: Agendas Killer 7: Control Killer 8: Judgement Killer 9: Combativeness Killer 10: It's All About Me Boots on the Ground: The next time you eat out I want you to PRAY for your waiter of waitress. https://www.godsgps.com/ www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Guys do you meet the qualifications of an elder? Do you know what they are? Men, YOU are designed to carry the full weight of manhood. God has designed you to live as a full capacity man. This series of Equipping in Ten are to introduce Jim's newest book The Full Capacity Man. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Troy Mangum is an author, speaker, podcaster (The Kindling Fire) and men's advocate. Creator of Hocoka Men- (an initiation experience for young men). A Lumbee Indian Tribal member. Troy lives in Raleigh NC with wife Kathy. He has two sons, two daughters and one son-in-law. A former YWAM missionary, hardcore punk singer, substance abuse counselor, busker, long boarder, exotic fruit farmer, vert skater, singer-songwriter, software engineering manager, traveling hitchhiker and seminary dropout. As fathers we mess up. We need to own these mess ups and find healing and move forward to find freedom.  The Fatherhood Faceplants book on Amazon: https://amzn.to/3kMfHfl    Troy's personal website: troymangum.com www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Are there any areas in your life that can get you snot-bubbled? Many men live a life without regard to any consequences of their poor choices until they get taken out by them.  Do you have secrets in life that if revealed can take you out or hurt your integrity? Get them out into the light and deal with them like men.  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Top Ten Podcasts in Each of the Five Essentials Finishing Strong                                    Book/Organization 10. Brett Clemmer (Ep 233)      No Man Left Behind             9.   Clair Hoover (Ep 417)          NCMM                                    8.   Jim Whitmore (Ep 449)       NCMM                                    7.   Patrick Morely (Ep 366)       Christian Man                           6.   Bud Lindstrand (Ep 219)      MODA                                     5.   Jack Deere (Ep 247)            Even in our Darkness            4.   Gene Getz (Ep 253)             Life Essentials Bible              3.   Gene Getz (Ep 255)             Measure of a Man                  2.   Jerry Boykin (Ep 318)          Never Surrender                   1.   Ron Deal (Ep 350)                Smart Stepdad www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
If done right a man's greatest years are his final years, when he can enjoy the benefits of wisdom gained over a lifetime ascent up the mountain of God. It's in his twilight that a man's voice ech-oes most powerfully to the younger generations. Proverbs 17:6 reminds us of the truth that, "Children's children are a crown to the aged, and parents are the pride of their children."  If you've passed the baton, take it back. Finish your life strong.  Life is more than the hike out of a scorching canyon and noon. It's about those moments at the truck over an ice cold drink with someone you love—after that we learn the joy of a life well lived. There are finishes and there are strong finishes. They are not the same. Sometimes a finish is a wrong finish. A divorce is a wrong finish. A suicide is a wrong finish. Getting fired from your job for reasons you could have avoided is a wrong finish. To live selfishly in retirement, refusing to impact others with your experiences, wisdom, and expertise is a wrong finish. It may be the most tragic finish of them all.  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast   Commit yourself at all costs to finishing strong.
Top Ten Podcasts in Each of the Five Essentials  Leading Courageously                      Book                My favorite episode came from here  1. Bill Farrel (Ep 201)                          Red Hot Monogamy 2. Jason Karampatsos (Ep 239) Elephant in the Room      3. Gary Chapman (Ep 344)                5 Love Languages                4. Don Minter (Ep 178)                        31 Days       5. Willard Harley (Ep 128)                    His Needs Her Needs 6. Michelle Watson Canfield (Ep 443) Let's Talk 7. Wess Stafford (Ep 48)          Too Small to Ignore, Just a Minute 8. Emerson Eggerichs (Ep 361)          Love and Respect 9. Regi Campbell (Ep 293)                  Radical Husbands 10. Paul and Virginia Friesen (Ep 421) Interview w/Jim & Shanna www.meninthearena.org  Men in the Arena Books and Swag  Support the Podcast
If there is a creator and He created you, don't you think he has a plan for your life? And in order for you to know what that plan is shouldn't you pursue the one who made you? What are some ways you pursue God?  Join Our Program. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Top Ten Podcasts in Each of the Five Essentials Pursuing God Passionately Book 10. Seth Barnes (Ep 184)                  World Race 9. Jeff Deyo (Ep 269)                        Awakening Pure Worship 8. Michael Thompson (Ep 195,197) Heart of a Warrior 7. Robert Lewis (Ep 342)                  Raising a Modern Day 6. Greg Matthews (Ep 305)              Wild Awakenings 5. Kenny Joyner (Ep 445,447)          Without a Father 4. Bill Perkins (Ep 227)                      Jesus Story 3. Wayne Jacobsen (Ep 265)           The God Journey/Shack 2. Justin Overlander (Ep 441)           The Chosen 1. Rick Robinson (Ep 479)                  His Story   www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Fighting Apathy is one of the greatest battles that a man must win each day. Do not become indifferent to the things in this world that matter. Do the hard things so you can reap a reward. The Climb is our study guide that goes with this episode. Go to our website and sign up for one of our virtual teams that will launch this fall. Join Our Program. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Top Ten Podcasts in Each of the Five Essentials Fighting Apathy                               Book                          10. Kenny Luck (EP 164) Dangerous Good 9. Paul Cole (Ep 338)                  Just a Bartender 8. Stephen Mansfield (Ep 130)   God and Guinness 7. Elmo Winters (Ep 374)             Overcoming Racism 6. Clarence Shuler (Ep 435)        Keeping your wife   5. Paul Friesen (Ep 297)               Lovin' Your Wife Like Christ When You Ain't No Jesus.   4. Todd Wilson   (Ep 380)            Family Man Ministry 3. Paul Coughlin   (Ep 316)           No More Christian Nice Guy 2. Brad Huddleston (Ep 453)       Digital Cocaine 1. Allen Schwartz (Ep 281)            Leadville 100  Boots on the Ground: Listen to Family Life Today.  Join Our Program. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Protecting integrity should be seen as an important habit for men. Jim and Dale talk about what it is and why it is so important. Enjoy this episode. Leave a review and share the podcast with other men. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Top Ten Podcasts in Each of the Five Essentials Protecting integrity - The Trailhead              10. Sam Black  (Ep 334)              Covenant Eyes            9. Joe Martin    (EP 261)              Real Men Connect                  8. Matt Loehr   (EP 263)              Whose Got your back            7. Bill Hendricks (EP 352)            Men of Influence                    6. Rod Handley (EP 394, 396)    Character that Counts            5. Tom Wilson (EP 411)                 Five Essential to Engage        4. BILL PERKINS (EP 88, 227)      6 RULES, BATTLES, JESUS STORY                         3. Rick Johnson (EP 301)              Power of a Man                       2. Earl Wilson  (Ep 126)                 Restoring the Fallen               1. John Eldredge (EP 94)              Wild at Heart      www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Are you a Good Guy or a Nice Guy? Jim shares about something he has been challenged with in living out his faith. This one habit he has started to form has the potential to change him, his family and those he comes in contact with. We hope this episode challenges you to add this one thing into your life and see how it changes your world around you.  "You are either a missionary or a mission field."- Shanna Ramos www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Eric Boles is the CEO and Founder of The Game Changers, Inc., a noted global expert in talent development and peak performance. Eric greatest impact and focus is on people. His perspectives on managing and leading change, transforming culture and overcoming complacency are laced with practical tools and principles that can be applied to a man's personal life. Eric learned many of his principles of peak performance, team dynamics and leadership from his experience as a Wide Receiver with the National Football League. . Eric is the author of a book entitled "Moving to Great...Unleashing Your Best in Life and Work."  Which is our focus of today's episode. Boots on the Ground  Write down each of the questions in the 4 quarters and answer them honestly and Ask your wife if you were honest Who Am I? How Did I get Here?  Where Am I Going?  How Do I Get There?  Thegamechangersinc.com Ericboles.com  This Episode on Youtube www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Jim Ramos shares his method of reads books, how he gets the most out of the book and when to put a book down when it does not speak to you. This podcast is packed with practical ways to get the most out of a book.  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
If you are a dad you need to listen to this episode! Your kids probably already have an addiction to something and you may not even realize it! Brad Huddleston is an internationally respected speaker, consultant, teacher and author on the important issues such as technology and culture. He has worked with universities, schools, churches and law enforcement, and spoken to hundreds of thousands around the world on both the advantages of well-used technology tools and the dangers of the growing trend toward technology addiction. Brad has an on-going collaboration with the Bureau of Market Research (BMR) and its Neuroscience Division at the University of South Africa. Brad has a degree in Computer Science and a Diploma of Biblical Studies and is a credentialed minister in the Acts 2 Alliance (A2A) movement in Australia. He's also a frequent guest on radio and television and author of Digital Cocaine: A Journey Toward iBalance and The Dark Side of Technology: Restoring Balance in the Digital Age. Brad and his wife, Beth, live in the beautiful Shenandoah Valley in Virginia (USA). Covenant Eyes Link www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
There are plenty of good habits that men in the stress bubble should have. Here is one that we believe you need to have to stay sharp and to lead well. Remember, "Leaders are Learners". www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
This Equipping Episode is taken from Jim's newest book, STRONG MEN DANGEROUS TIMES, Five Essentials Every Man Must Possess to Change His World. This chapter is Tip of the Spear, Lead by Example.  Guys, are you at least doing something to lead?  "You have to go out. You don't have to come back." ~Unofficial Coast Guard motto www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Jim Whitmore shares about his "unique" relationship with his father and how he was still able to honor him. His father was married 15 times, and walked out of Death Row in the State Texas! His story should challenge all men in the area of honoring our parents.   Jim Whitmore has worked at FamilyLife for 23 years and currently serves as the Event Producer for FamilyLife events, like the Love Like You Mean it Marriage Cruise, FamilyLife Donor Events, Blended and Blessed, and the Summit on Stepfamilies Livestream. Jim currently serve as the President of the National Coalition of Ministries to Men, leading the Men's ministry at his church.  He is passionate about reaching young men to experience God in a real, personal and practical way.   The Tribute and the Promise Boots on the Ground: Write a tribute letter to your dad. And share it with us. Tribute (Blessing) Letter From NCMM President Jim Whitmore to His Father Edited: May 27, 2021   Dad, you never let me tell you how much I appreciate you and need you in my life. I guess it's your tough outer skin that hides on the softest hearts I have ever known.  So, in the presence of my friends and family I would like to take the time to honor you publicly and to thank you. I am so very glad that I didn't have the typical father; I don't know that I would have become the man that I am.   You were no Ward Cleaver that's for sure. But I know that no father could love a son more than you did.  Ever since I can remember you have told me you love me more than life itself and I have never doubted that. So much of who I am is because of the experience you gave me. I took the best of your qualities and made them a part of who I am and learned from your mistakes, and there were plenty of them as well. We don't always see eye to eye, but you have at least respected my values and beliefs even when they clashed with yours. I can never express my gratitude for the experiences you have given me. You showed me the world through your eyes, our trips around the world expanded my horizons. You always wanted me to see the real side of life but more important than that, you wanted me to experience them. You have never sugar coated or hid the truth and for that I am eternally grateful. So many of my greatest gifts have come from you. You gave me the gift of speech, the ability to be comfortable in any environment, and the confidence to look any man in the eye and consider him my equal. You have taught me to fear no one, except God. You weren't the model Dad, but you were my friend. I always knew that I could tell you the truth about anything and you loved me with all your heart. You gave me a liberal education and made me student of life. What a precious gift. I confess before my friends and family you were the perfect father for me, you were my greatest fan, confidant, and supporter. You loved me and always affirmed me. Dad I love you. I accept you for who you are and thanks for always being there and giving me more than a last name and I will always be there for you. Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
This equipping episode is inspired by our interview with Michelle Watson Canfield. This is the T.A.L.K. method to use with your daughter.  Time: Carve It Out Affection: She Will Get It Somewhere Listen: Your Greatest Gift Kindness: If It is Broken, DON'T Fix It www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Kenneth Joyner is the director and co-founder of Boys With A Purpose, a nonprofit After-school Mentoring Organization for young boys. The organization has been serving the Charleston, South Carolina area since 2016. Growing  up without his father sparked a passion to help young men develop their gifts and to ultimately find their life's purpose. The passion started in 1998 when he led a youth group at his church in Baltimore, Md. Boys to Men was the beginning of a lifelong mission to help build and develop strong young men. In 2016 this journey led him to Memminger Elementary School where he helped to start the organization he now runs.  Kenneth structured his book Without A Father: From Fear To Faith, around twenty core principles of being a father figure, which isn't necessarily about being the biological father (although it can be), but it's about playing the role of a father figure. These principles will be called W.O.W for Words of Wisdom.  W.O.W #9 Love Beyond Your Pain. W.O.W #10 Don't Worship Money. W.O.W #11 Transform Your Thinking. W.O.W #12 Be Responsible. W.O.W #13 Be Present. W.O.W #14 Finish What You Start. W.O.W #15 Failure Produces Success W.O.W #16 Do you - Discover Your Purpose. W.O.W #17 Know and Develop Your Self-Worth.    W.O.W #18 Walk by Faith.   W.O.W #19 Play Until You Win.    W.O.W #20 Leave a Legacy.   W.O.W #21 Live in Truth and Obedience.    Boots on the Ground: Get the Book and Get the Equipping Blast https://www.boyswithapurposesc.org    www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Inspired by our interview with Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield: What are 5 things a dad whisperer does?   #1 HE LIKES HIS DAUGHTERS AND ENJOYS BEING WITH THEM #2 HE LETS THEM LEAP, LAUGH AND LOVE BEACUSE HE LETS THEM BE WHO THEY ARE #3 HE LISTENS TO HIS DAUGHTER #4 HE SETS LIMITS #5 HIS DAUGHTERS FOLLOW HIS LEAD IN HONORING HIS FAITH IN JESUS www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Kenneth Joyner is the director and co-founder of Boys With A Purpose, a nonprofit After-school Mentoring Organization for young boys. The organization has been serving the Charleston, South Carolina area since 2016. Growing  up without his father sparked a passion to help young men develop their gifts and to ultimately find their life's purpose. The passion started in 1998 when he led a youth group at his church in Baltimore, Md. Boys to Men was the beginning of a lifelong mission to help build and develop strong young men. In 2016 this journey led him to Memminger Elementary School where he helped to start the organization he now runs.  Kenneth structured his book Without A Father: From Fear To Faith, around twenty core principles of being a father figure, which isn't necessarily about being the biological father (although it can be), but it's about playing the role of a father figure. These principles will be called W.O.W for Words of Wisdom.  W.O.W #1 Know Who You Are.  W.O.W #2 Learn to Forgive.  W.O.W #3 Be Humble.  W.O.W #4 Learn How to Die.  W.O.W #5 Embrace Wisdom.  W.O.W #6 Let Life Teach You.  W.O.W #7 Learn to Love Knowledge.  W.O.W #8 Friends Equal Future.  Boots on the Ground: Pick one of these principles above and teach it to a young boy this week.   www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
You are not meant to be anonymous. God has placed you in the time place you are in to be a light for Him. So pray this prayer. God put me on display so that I can bring you glory. No more hiding in the pews at your church. Get into the arena! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
In January 2010 Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield founded The Abba Project where she leads dads of daughters ages 13 to 30 to dial in with more intention and consistency to their heart space. She leads a local group in Portland, Oregon annually every year from September through May. (you can read more under The Abba Project) Dr. Michelle has coached offspring Abba Project groups in Virginia and Washington State, with more to come. Dr. Michelle has written a book for dads of daughters titled, Dad, Here's What I Really Need from You: A Guide for Connecting with Your Daughter's Heart  and it's also available in audiobook form in her own voice on Audible here. Her second book, "Let's Talk, Conversation Starters for Dads and Daughters" is filled with scripts for dads to equip them to strategically lead their daughters into conversations that matter, with a focus on greater depth that will allow her to know herself better! Dr. Michelle Watson Canfield hosts a radio program called The Dad Whisperer where her purpose is to provide practical resources for dads, especially those with daughters. (available here, iTunes, Spotify, Stitcher, and Google Podcasts) http://www.drmichellewatson.com/ Boots on the Ground  For every daughter you have sit down with them and ask them to talk and ask to hear their heart.  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Persecution of Christians is very prevalent around the world. In America we really don't experience it. But the day is coming. How soft are we when it comes to our faith? We may need to pray for persecution. Are you ready? www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Justen Overlander is the associate producer of The Chosen, the first-ever multi-season show about Jesus and His followers. The global success of The Chosen has allowed Justen to reach and remind people that Jesus meets you where you're at. As a former teacher and coach, Justen is passionate about bringing the best out of everyone and reminding them that nothing can separate them from the love of God. Boots on the Ground: Download The Chosen app on your device and watch it with your family.  "Wow, we were amazed by the pilot episode of The Chosen. Our family would absolutely love to see a TV series about the life of Jesus created. We'd binge watch the whole season all at once... we're praying for the success of this project." -The Robertsons (Stars of "Duck Dynasty") www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
… Accepting your wife Our first year of marriage was hell and you can read about it in my book Strong Men, Dangerous Times. We were married 9 months after dating and really didn't know each other the way we probably should have. I discovered that it was easier to love her than to accept her. I needed to accept who she was.   I had to accept I had no power to change Shanna, but I could change my attitude towards her and try to win her. We win our wives when we accept, love and serve them. Boots on the Ground Without using physical features, make a list of what you love about your wife. Then take her on a date and share this list with her.  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Dan Wobschall has been in sexual addiction ministry since 2012 and joined the team at Be Broken Ministries in 2015 where he currently serves as Director Gateway to Freedom. Dan is the currently Executive Director for BoldPath Life Strategies. He is a sexual addiction recovery coach for men, has been a contributor to the Covenant Eyes blogging team, and worked with them at a few Covenant Eyes events. This article from Covenant Eyes includes a self-assessment.  Self-Assessment - "Am I a Sex Addict?"   Private Sex Addiction Self-Assessment    www.bebroken.com Dan@Bebroken.com Gateway to Freedom workshop   Boots on the Ground: Take the assessment above. How do you score?     www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Why it is Bad???? The Bible GEN 2:24 For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother, and be joined to his wife; and they shall become one flesh. 1 COR 7: 1Now concerning the things about which you wrote, it is good for a man not to touch a woman. 2 But because of immoralities, each man is to have his own wife, and each woman is to have her own husband. 3 The husband must fulfill his duty to his wife, and likewise also the wife to her husband. HEB 13:4 Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the marriage bed is to be undefiled; for fornicators and adulterers God will judge 1 Cor 6:18 Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body. 19 Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; 20 you were bought at a price. Therefore, honor God with your bodies.   Testing the relationship creates a cracked broken relationship foundation because it is a relationship that based on a test and not commitment   Marriage and children will never be convenient. If your marriage is based on this myth you will struggle.   It dishonors the woman you are called to protect by parading her around.   Statistics prove that it is a BAD idea with 70% of cohabitator divorcing over the already high 50%. Again, the Bible proves itself over the world's wisdom   Psychology Today The new study is by Michael Rosenfeld and Katharina Roesler. Their findings suggest that there remains an increased risk for divorce for those living together prior to marriage and that prior studies suggesting the effect went away had a bias toward analyzing shorter versus longer-term effects. They found that living together before marriage was associated with lower odds of divorce in the first year of marriage, but increased odds of divorce in all other years tested, and this finding held across decades of data. SOLUTION "IF you are claiming to follow Jesus" If you do not, then do what you want. Get married asap Move out asap Keep doing what you are doing and pay for it. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
In this episode we will hear from Jim Ramos speaking At Boones Chapel in Prattville, Alabama. Every so often we will feature Jim speaking live at one of his event. At the end of this episode go to www.meninthearena.org and pick up Jim's newest Book, Strong Man Dangerous times. Five Essentials Every Man Must Possess to Change His World.   Jim speaks on Grit. Men, never give up. They don't throw in the towel. They don't hide and defer. They get in the arena and fight each day and finish well.  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Have you ever been called soft? Or maybe, you think you are so hardcore with no flaws. We all have something we need to work on. What is yours? A man in the arena allows other men to speak into their lives and help them identify their weaknesses.  www.bvoam.com  Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Dr. Clarence Schuler was filmed as a marriage expert for one session of Oprah's "Love Goals" reality show in 2020. He & his wife Brenda are members of FamilyLife's Weekend to Remember Marriage Getaway Speaker Team. He serves on the Fatherhood CoMission Board. Clarence partners with Gary Chapman and speaks at The Five Love Languages and Date Night events. He has authored 10 books including our book for today, Making your Wife your Best Friend.  "Conflict is not about winning. It's about understanding." "If couples prays together, they have a 1 in 10000 chance of divorcing." "How I treat the gift (my wife) is a reflection of my worship for God." Boots on the Ground Ask yourself this question, and your wife. Are you a pleasure to be married to? www.bvoam.com  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
The TRAIL'S END is FINISHING STRONG because it is the functional as well as foundational component of manhood. Why do so many men finish wrong and so few finish strong?   Men in the Arena. Men in the Stress Bubble raising kids right now, listen up! Do you want to finish strong? GOOD!          Here is how. Finish every day strong (6:00 -9:00), compounded over time, will equal a strong LIFE finish. Without these four things, a man is in SERIOUS danger of finishing wrong. This is so important guys! REPUTABLE         (1 Timothy 3:7) There is nothing in my private life that could cause embarrassment to me or my family if it became public. Those who know me best, respect me the most. WISE                           (1 Timothy 3:2 and Titus 1:8) People often come to me for advice. I seek the advice from people I trust before making and big decision. TACTFUL                   (1 Timothy 3:3, and Titus 1:7) I try to make peace when a conflict begins, rather than welcoming a fight. I am not considered to be argumentative. BALANCED                (1 Timothy 3:2)         I rarely overcommit myself. I regularly make time to regroup, reflect, and refresh. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Kent Evans is the Executive Director and co-founder of Manhood Journey, a ministry that helps fathers become disciple-makers. After a twenty-year career as a business leader, he embarked on biblical Fatherhood ministry projects. He's appeared on television, radio, web outlets and podcasts. He's spoken at parenting and men's events. His first book, Wise Guys: Unlocking Hidden Wisdom from the Men Around You, was written to help men learn how to find mentors and wise counsel. Learn more at https://manhoodjourney.org/ or https://fatheronpurpose.org/  THE TOOLS TOOL #1: TRUST GOD "If you're headed down the path of being a godly dad, you won't get too far without something guiding your direction. You're gonna need a true north. Trusting God is the first tool you need in your pack." TOOL #2: KNOW SCRIPTURE TOOL #3: PRAY FERVENTLY "The more you trust God and the more you know His Word, the more you realize you need Him. You can't do this alone. You need help. Reliance on God requires communication with God. It's a two-way transmission that never stops." TOOL #4: BUILD RELATIONSHIPS "You're not built to go through this life alone. Forces are waging war against you. For you to have the tool of building relationships, you'll need to head these relationship killers off at the pass— PRIDE: Self-focus is so subtle you often don't see it until it's too late CULTURE: You're told real men keep silent–if you talk, you're the odd-man-out COMPETITION: You compete all the time and it's exhausting." TOOL #5: SERVE OTHERS "When we serve out of duty, we're doing it begrudgingly. We do it because we have to. When we're serving from a place of devotion, we're serving because we care about the other person. We do it because we choose to. When we serve from a heart of delight, we're actually, looking forward to serving. We do it because we get to." TOOL #6: STEWARD RESOURCES "The Godly dad understands everything he has is not his own. His money, time, family, possessions, influence. These are all gifts that must be stewarded well." TOOL #7: MAKE DISCIPLES "The Godly dad makes disciples. There are two places where you should be discipling others." www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
The DESCENT is LEADING COURAGEOUSLY because it is the functional as well as foundational component of manhood. Every year more people die on the DESCENT than the climb. SERVANT (1 Timothy 3:1, and Acts 20:28) I find true joy in serving others. My family would say that I am a willing servant. TEACHER (1 Timothy 3:2 and Titus 1:9) I regularly share my Christian beliefs. I often share with others what I have learned in the Bible. LEADER           (1 Timothy 3:4 and Titus 1:6) I consistently lead by Joshua 24:15, "As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord." My wife trusts my spiritual leadership.  SELFLESS (Titus 1:7) I live by C.S. Lewis' quote that, "Humility is not thinking less of yourself. It is thinking of yourself less." I am willing to listen and adjust if someone's idea is better than mine. Head on over to the website at www.meninthearena.org and grab your FREE Electronic version of Guts and Manhood! www.bvoam.com  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Patrick is the founder and Executive Director of Ironman Outdoors, a men's ministry whose mission is to "Connect Men to Christ in the Outdoors." Patrick and his army of volunteer pro staffers lead over 40 weekend hunting and fishing retreats for men each year. From humble beginnings in his Sunday School class, the ministry has grown to 14 states and offers life changing weekends for men each year. Patrick and his wife Sheron have 4 children and reside in Blythewood, SC. Our ministry reaches men for Christ through our "manhood discussions." We create a Bass Pro Shop atmosphere where men feel safe taking off their camo! Boots on the Ground: Go to BVOAM Measure where you are as a man to see where you need to take your face paint off. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
The summit is PURSUING GOD PASSIONATELY because it is apex of masculinity It is the summit of manhood. PURSUING GOD PASSIONATELY HOSPITABLE   (1 Timothy 3:2 and Titus 1:8) I come alive when I can bless someone with a gift or help them in a time of need. I love to make people feel welcome. GENEROUS       (1 Timothy 3:3 and Titus 1:7) I give at least 10% my income to the causes I care about. I am known as a generous man. GOOD                (Titus 1:8) I long for the things that please God. I do not allow anything into my mind that would hinder me from becoming God's best version of me. DEVOUT            (Titus 1:8) I strive to find victory in my life over sin. My life looks different than those who do not follow Christ.   www.bvoam.com  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Thane Marcus Ringler is a former professional golfer turned speaker, writer, and development coach living in Denver, CO with his wife Evan. Thane is the host of The Up & Comers Show, a podcast all about the process of becoming and living with intentionality, while sharing stories from other inspiring up and comers along the way. Today we are talking about his short ebook called, Catalysts For Hope: Unlocking Energy, Optimism, And Your Full Potential, which is today's topic for the show. thanemarcus.com  Boots on the Ground Hit Thane up on his website. And go listen to EP 415 The Two Most Important Questions a Man Needs To Answer, and Jim will help you craft your own purpose statement. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Fighting Apathy -  FAITHFUL (1 Timothy 3:2) 1. I follow strict moral boundaries to ensure my fidelity.  2. My wife would say that I consider her the most important person to me. MODERATE (1 Timothy 3:3; Titus 1:7) 1. There is no food, drink, or foreign substance that has mastery over me.  2. I am not overweight for my age, body type, and height.  PEACEMAKER (1 Timothy 3:3) 1. People tell me that I am a team player who works well with others.  2. When I have a problem with someone, I go to them instead of ignoring it. DISCIPLINED (1 Timothy 3:6) 1. I exercise at least 3-4 times a week.  2. I do not engage in gossip or negative talk.  www.bvoam.com  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum
Joe Rigney is assistant professor of theology and literature at Bethlehem College & Seminary in Minneapolis, Minnesota. He is also a pastor at Cities Church in St. Paul and the author of: 5 Books including our book for today— More Than a Battle: How to Experience Victory, Freedom, and Healing from Lust. He lives in Minneapolis with his wife and three sons. Boots on the Ground: Women, have a conversation without being threatened about lust with your husband. Men, get into a group of men who will push you because they want you to win.  www.bvoam.com  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
PROTECTING INTEGRITY A. RESPECTED     (1 Timothy 3:2) I have been told that I am a role model. I am known as a man of my word. B. PATIENT                    (Titus 1:7) Those closest to me would say I am a great listener. I model thinking before speaking. C. GENTLE                     (1 Timothy 3:3)   I am careful not to inflict guilt or shame upon someone when they make a mistake. I am sensitive to the feelings of others. D. FAIR                           (Titus 1:8) I judge a person by their character more than their color, religion, appearance. I am known as a someone who is fair. www.bvoam.com  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum
Greg Stoughton was born with ectrodactyly, a rare genetic condition causing him to miss a few fingers and toes at birth, with some of those have being fused. Yet, Greg is an overcomer! Greg Stoughton has served in full time ministry for over three decades with Cru—formerly Campus Crusade for Christ—with Athletes in Action. Throughout Greg's 30-years in ministry, a passion to reach and equip men is evidenced in many roles. Greg authored a book about his faith and life journey, Born Wrong, Made Right: Thinking Differently to Unleash Your Potential. It's our focus of today's conversation. greg.stoughton@cru.org  Boots on the Ground: Take a piece of pare and draw a straight line and make a timeline of your life thus far. Write down you highlights and lowlights. Then identify where God was in your life. www.bvoam.com  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Jim Ramos Reveals his Life Work that we believe will be live changing for 1000's of men around the world. With the help of God's word Jim helps men to identify what a godly man looks like and for men to identify where they are at on their journey.  www.bvoam.com  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum
Did you know that more and more families have a step situation in them today. In this Podcast Ron Deal helps dads win in step parenting through the day to day conflicts that arise.  Ron L. Deal is one of the most widely read and viewed experts on blended families in the country. He is founder of Smart Stepfamilies, Director of FamilyLife Blended, the author of over a dozen books and video resources on stepfamily living including the Smart Stepdad which we will be talking about today. His podcast FamilyLife Blended with Ron Deal and his one-minute radio feature are heard around the world and his work has been quoted/referenced by multiple news outlets such as the New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, CNBC.com, and USA Today. smartstepfamilies.com www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum
1 Corinthians 13:11 When I was a child, I spoke and thought and reasoned as a child. But when I grew up, I put away childish things. When we step into manhood we think Her first. When we act like a male AKA, a boy we think of ourselves first. If you want to have more satisfaction in the arena of sex, then put her first.  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum
This is a special episode with Jim and Shanna Ramos, and Dr's Paul and Virginia Friesen. You do not want to miss this one! Dr's. Paul and Virginia Friesen have been involved in Family Ministries for more than 40 years through family camps, church staff positions, speaking, consulting, and writing. In 2003, they founded Home Improvement Ministries (www.HIMweb.org), a non-profit organization dedicated to equipping individuals and churches to better encourage marriages and families in living out God's design for healthy relationships. As the lead resource couple at Home Improvement Ministries, the Friesen's regularly speak at marriage, men's, and women's conferences in the US and internationally, as well as local family and parenting seminars, and have an ongoing ministry with professional athletes.  Paul and Virginia both have Doctorates in Marriage and Family Therapy from Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary. Between them they have authored more than fifteen books and curriculums on parenting and marriage, including Letters to My Daughters, In Our Image, Raising a Trailblazer, Before You Save the Date, The Marriage App, and most recently, Lovin' Your Wife Like Christ When You Ain't No Jesus.  Paul and Virginia were married in 1976 and are the parents of three young adult women, two of whom are now married to wonderful, Godly men. Their middle daughter is living fully for Christ as a single woman and trusting God for His best. Paul and Virginia's greatest joy in life is knowing that their children are "walking in the truth." The Marriage App is available to you for 50% off during the month of March with code: Arena at check out.  Boots on the Ground Sit down with your wife and ask each other for forgiveness. Also, take notes on these applications and do them.  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum
Jim Ramos answers the question, Why your wife wants to control you. Wether it is conscious or subconscious she has a natural propensity to do this and it has been happening since the beginning of time. Why is this?  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us
We live in a world that has fallen so far from biblical truth regarding sex, and many in Church have bought the lie. I regularly battle "Christian" men and their anti-biblical views of cohabitation, homosexuality, divorce, and sex outside of marriage. Dr. Sean McDowell is a gifted communicator with a passion for equipping the church, and in particular young people, to make the case for the Christian faith. In addition to his role as Associate Professor in the Christian Apologetics program at Talbot School of Theology, Biola University, Sean travels throughout the United States and abroad, speaking at camps, churches, schools, universities, and conferences. Sean is the co-host for the Think Biblically podcast, which is one of the most popular podcasts on faith and cultural engagement. He has written, co-written, or edited more than twenty books and has a leading apologetics blog at seanmcdowell.org. In April 2000, Sean married his high school sweetheart, Stephanie. They have three children and live in San Juan Capistrano, California. https://seanmcdowell.org/item/chasing-love   www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us
Do you pray with your spouse? Is this something you never do or maybe just when you are in crisis? We would like to encourage you to make this an ongoing habit in your marriage and you will be surprised at how God moves in your relationship.  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us
In this episode we interview Clair Hoover with NCMM, National Coalition of Ministries to Men. Clair shares about that gut shot that every man gets. Are you ready for the gut shot when it comes? Because it will come. Clair is a business owner specializing in commercial real estate development and management and has a calling to challenge and encourage men as Christ followers.   Clair has a background in the marketplace with an emphasis in Accounting and Information Technologies and a degree from Millersville University. For the past 14 years, he has also led the Men's Ministry Leadership team at his home church and has had the opportunity to minister to and encourage over 10,000 men.  Clair is currently serving as the Executive Director for the National Coalition of Ministries to Men. Clair has a passion for encouraging men at all points in their journey to become all God designed them to be.   Clair and his bride Bonnie reside with their two sons in Manheim, Pennsylvania. "Boots on the Ground" What's next? What action step will you take because of today? What will you do because of what you heard? Here it is. Guys if you are not involved with at least another guy in a Bible Study you have been gut shot already. Get plugged in and join or start one. Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
A more fulfilled life comes with having a mentor/ confidant. Where do you find this guy? Why do so many guys lack this person in their life? We would love to hear from you on this.   www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us
Have you ever been asked what your mission in life is? What are you here for? Or do you have a vision for your life? Guys we have to answer these questions. You knowing this will help you to live your life with direction. It is a tragedy to live your life aimless, with no vision. Don't be that guy. Live out your purpose.  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us
How are you goals coming along that you set for the year. Jim shares some things that have worked for him in the past when it comes to achieving his goals in hopes that they will help you on your journey.  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us
Dan Meers is a man on a mission. Living his life to brighten the day of others is what he is committed to. Being a mascot for Jesus is a big deal to Dan! Dan Meers has been KC Wolf, the mascot of the Kansas City Chiefs, for more than 30 years.  In 2006 he was selected as the first NFL mascot inducted into the Mascot Hall of Fame.  Dan travels throughout the United States and the world entertaining thousands of people both in and out of costume.  He has performed in over 30 states and ten different countries. He is in high demand not only as a mascot but also as a humorous and motivational speaker to audiences of all ages.  His enthusiasm, optimism and love for life are contagious and make Dan an inspiration to all those he meets. Be it young or old, executive or blue collar, his audiences walk away with a smile and a renewed spirit to live life to the fullest. Whether you're a Kansas City Chiefs fan or not, you'll enjoy Dan Meers as he shares his unique wit and wisdom about life. Wolves Can't Fly – Faith, Family and Fur Mascot on a Mission – Living a Life of Influence  www.danmeers.org  Tyranny of the Urgent by Charles Hummel Boots on the Ground: Men, get Into a group now. You need to be in some sort of group with other men.  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us
We all worship something, and the way we spend our money and resources shows what we love and worship. Are you a generous person, giving to kingdom causes? Or are you building wealth for your comfort?  What does the way you spend and invest in say where your heart is?  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us
Tom Wilson has been in ministry for over 50 years.  30 plus years with Young Life. The last 15 he has been working with National Young Life, mentoring and leading "leaders",   Tom spent 10 years as CEO of Leadership Network------ working with the top innovative churches in the country, and CEO of Halftime with Bob Buford.  Bob wrote  the book "Halftime, help men move from Success to Significance. During those 10 years, Tom had the opportunity to help coach men who wanted to do something "that mattered" during their second half of life. During this time, he has taught Men's Fraternity for five years with several hundred men.  Now Tom is the CEO of BetterMan, helping build this new ministry and rolling out the new curriculum that Robert Lewis wrote. In this episode you will learn what can make your life more fulfilled. What will help you be a better husband and father as well. https://betterman.com  Boots on the Ground: Get a confidant. Get an older guy in your life that you can confide in. Who will walk with you. Who will meet with you once a week to help you become your best version.  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us
Are your goals SMART? Specific Measurable Attainable  Realistic Time Sensitive In order to reach your goals these are very important things to consider.  Link to Jim's Message https://meninthearena.org/sermons www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us
Scotty Kessler is the Director of The Robert Coleman School of Discipleship and The Wes Neal School Of Sports Ministry at Faith International University and Seminary in Tacoma (WA) (https://faithseminary.edu/) where he is also an adjunct professor in both programs. Scotty is also a consultant on initiatives related to advancing the Kingdom of God through prayer, discipleship and the integration of sport and faith. He has over 35 years of Head and Assistant Football Coaching and Consulting experience, having coached primarily at the college level with stops in Illinois, Tennessee, Texas, California, Florida and Washington State. Scotty received a Doctor of Humane Letters (honoris causa) from Faith International University and Seminary for his body of work and intensive approach to leadership and character development, spanning over three decades, equipping (discipling) men who disciple other men He lives in Omaha (NE) with his wife Tammy and daughter Rylee. Additionally, he has two adult sons, Taylor and Reid Roelofs Scotty has written multiple documents on making disciples, prayer and the integration of sport and faith, including YouTube seminary/university video course content/teachings of the previous subjects on the website - https://scottykessler.com/ Boots on the Ground: Find a FATC guy. And Start discipling him. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us
God has done some amazing things in and through the ministries of Men in the Arena. We are beyond excited about what He has accomplished and what we know He will do in 2021. Listen to what is ahead for all of us in The Arena! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us
This is our second part of our interview with Jack Alan Levine. Jack has authored nine books, including My Addict Your Addict, and his newest books Addiction and Recovery Handbook to be released in January.           He is the creator of the online video program "Free for Life At Last" for those struggling with addiction and their families and speaks frequently at churches and men's conferences on "Overcoming Addiction" He currently serves as Executive Pastor at his church. Jack's Website https://www.jackalanlevine.com/shop Promo Code NOW at checkout.  Boots on the Ground:  If you have identified an addictive behavior in your life, get in a group now.  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us
The episode is from a message Jim Ramos gave to the men at our weekly Arena Men's Gathering.  Bro-lationships are so important and Jim unpacks what they should look like. Are your bro-lationships unhealthy and co-dependent? Or are you and your bro's sharpening each other? Are you calling each other out and upward? Do you need a small group? We have teams of men meeting around the country on virtual teams. Reach out and let us know. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us
Jim Ramos preaches at Yamhill Community Church. What is in a name? In Jesus Name? This Christmas do you celebrate the Jesus in the Bible? The Messiah. The only uncreated one.   www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us
In this episode Jim shares how he built his garage gym to stay fit during the pandemic. Jim shares what to look for and what to avoid. Follow @themeninthearena on instagram to see pictures of Jim's garage gym. Reach out if you want more info.  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us
Jack Alan Levine has authored nine books, including My Addict Your Addict, and his newest books Addiction and Recovery Handbook to be released in January.           He is the creator of the online video program "Free for Life At Last" for those struggling with addiction and their families and speaks frequently at churches and men's conferences on "Overcoming Addiction" He currently serves as Executive Pastor at his church. Jack's Website
When asked what is the manliest thing a guy can do, what comes to mind?  In this equipping episode we want to challenge you to think differently. When you think of confession what does this cause you to think of? What does it look like?  This is the last few days to get your free download of the Field Guide, so get it now!   www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us
Many of us have experienced being in a season of obscurity. Maybe we are in it right now. What is God doing in us in this season? You are challenged to think about the fact that he is activating your anointing.  Dr. Scott Silverii is a son of the Living God. Thankful for the gift of his wife, Leah, they share seven kids, a French bulldog named Bacon and a micro-mini goldendoodle named Biscuit. A highly decorated, twenty-five year law enforcement career promptly ended in retirement when God called Scott out of public service and into HIS service. The "Chief" admits that leading people to Christ is more exciting than the twelve years he spent undercover, sixteen years in SWAT, and five years as chief of police combined. Scott has earned a Master of Public Administration and a Ph.D. in Cultural Anthropology. Education and experience allow for a deeper understanding in ministering to the wounded, as he worked to break free from his own past pain and abuse. In 2016, Scott was led to plant a church. Exclusive to online ministry, Five Stones Church.Online was born out of the calling to combat the negative influences reigning over social media. Scott's alpha manhood model for heroes is defined by, "Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be courageous; be strong. Do everything in love." (1 Corinthians 16:13-14) Scott and Leah love the Lord and the passion He's placed on their hearts for ministering to people. An experienced speaker, mentor and confidential accountability partner, Scott is available for workshops, conferences and churches. He and Leah operate a nonprofit Christian publishing house that helps people share their stories with the world. Contact Five Stones Press for more information. Five Stones Church Online - https://www.facebook.com/FiveStonesChurchOnline ScottSilverii.com  Boots on the Ground: Ask God to show you what season your'e in. If you are in a season of obscurity hang in there and let God work in you.  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us
When asked what is the manliest thing a guy can do, what comes to mind?  In this equipping episode we want to challenge you to think differently. When you think of confession what does this cause you to think of? What does it look like?  This is the last week to get your free download of the Field Guide, so get it now.  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us
So, it Thanksgiving 2020. It's been a tough year. For many people it's been harder than any other year. How do you lead your family on Thanksgiving Day? As the leader you must lead. You still have things to be thankful for. Lets celebrate those things with our families. What you do and how you do it is so important. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us
Chad Zueck has been in full time vocational ministry for 15 years (a Lead Pastor for 10 yrs), and has been working in men's ministry for 18 years. Chad was not raised in a Christian home and after his parents divorced at age 4, his upbringing was very challenging. This fueled insecurity and frustration through the teenage years. Three days after high graduation, Chad joined the US Navy. Marla and Chad got married shortly after enlisting. Chad gave his life to Christ at 21 and began to be fathered by God. Chad got connected to a PK group at his church and grew a bunch in a short time. Chad learned how to be a father by being fathered by God. This sent him on a journey of Spirit filled self-discovery. Chad has been healed of many wounds and he is on a mission to help men find healing for their wounds. Chad has developed some material that will be in an ebook. It is called the "Six Bulletproof Ways to Become a Better Man." Also, he has a podcast called, "New Kind of Man" that spurred out of Luke 2:52 and Ephesians 4:22-24. Instagram: @anewkindofman @chadzueck Boots on the Ground: Follow Chad on Instagram ad when his book comes out, get it. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us
In this episode Jim shares the 10 questions that Rod Handley uses with his accountability groups. This episode is inspired by EP 394 and EP 396. Question #1 "Have you spent daily time in Scriptures and in prayer?" Question #2 "Have you had any flirtatious or lustful attitudes, tempting thoughts, or exposed yourself to any explicit materials which would not glorify God?" Question #3 "Have you been completely above reproach in your financial dealings?"  Question #4 "Have you spent quality relationship time with family and friends?" Question #5 "Have you done your 100% best in your job, school, etc.?" Question #6  "Have you told any half-truths or outright lies, putting yourself in a better light to those around you?" Question #7 "Have you shared the Gospel with an unbeliever this week?" Question #8 "Have you taken care of your body through daily 1) physical exercise and 2) proper eating and 3) sleeping habits?" Question #9 "Have you allowed any person or circumstance to rob you of your joy?" Question #10 "Have you lied to us on any of your answers today?" www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us
This episode is part 2 of the two part interview with Rod Handley. Rod Handley is the Founder & President of Character that Counts, a ministry established in 2000. Rod speaks all across the nation to men, women and teenagers about character, integrity and accountability issues. He has written over 30 books including "Character Counts: Who's Counting Yours?" which details the "why's" and "how's" of accountability. For over 35 years, Rod has shared at hundreds of men's events, conferences and retreats all across the nation. From 1986-1999, he served on the staff of the Fellowship of Christian Athletes, including 11 years as the COO/CFO. He has also spoken at hundreds of chapel services for a number of NFL, NBA and MLB teams, including serving as team chaplain for the Kansas City Royals (1995-2009) and the Seattle SuperSonics (1986-89). Rod and his wife Janna live in Lee's Summit, MO and they have four children (ages 19-26).   www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us.
You've heard it said that the woman is the weaker counterpart to a man. What does this mean? Today this is an inflammatory statement to most if the world. Jim talks about the awesome characteristics of a woman and how we are to treat her.  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us
This episode is part 1 of the two part interview with Rod Handley. Rod Handley is the Founder & President of Character that Counts, a ministry established in 2000. Rod speaks all across the nation to men, women and teenagers about character, integrity and accountability issues. He has written over 30 books including "Character Counts: Who's Counting Yours?" which details the "why's" and "how's" of accountability. For over 35 years, Rod has shared at hundreds of men's events, conferences and retreats all across the nation. From 1986-1999, he served on the staff of the Fellowship of Christian Athletes, including 11 years as the COO/CFO. He has also spoken at hundreds of chapel services for a number of NFL, NBA and MLB teams, including serving as team chaplain for the Kansas City Royals (1995-2009) and the Seattle SuperSonics (1986-89). Rod and his wife Janna live in Lee's Summit, MO and they have four children (ages 19-26).   www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us.
Some are terrified to lead a group of men. We want to help take that fear away. We believe you can do it. We have created this episode to help you become a leader of men.  https://meninthearena.org/new-team-launch-steps www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us.
Aaron Sullivan is an Average Joe from Bennington, VT who has overcome mass tragedy and adversity. From the death of his family and obesity he has endured and with courage has overcome.  His goal is to reach the young men that are lost and either being the person to listen to them or getting them connected with an older/seasoned man that can listen and guide them. Aaron was born into a hurting family.  His parents had dealt with the loss of their first-born son and one of their only supports within a few months of each other.  He played sports in school but stopped mid-high school when his friends convinced him to check out the computer classes and that skill set took off.  Even attended the Skills USA competition for the classes. Now he am a happily married to his best friend, which is a funny story.  And the Lord blessed them with the children they have prayed for.  Aaron prayed for a son to carry on the Sullivan name and Stacie prayed for a little girl. From Aaron: I am no expert in any areas, I know I joked around when I was younger being a jack of all trades, but a master of none. I tend to learn or take in knowledge to have tools that I may need for any given moment. If anything, I can bring to the podcast is an example of hope and the Lord's grace.   Due to the fire, I had tried to fill the void with everything and anything, BUT God's grace was there and protected me against my poor choices. And when you feel like you are so far from Him, He has this way of being right there even when all you expect is His back facing you, but He is there with arms wide open for you. Boots on the Ground Moment: Grab a battle buddy and have him expose the areas in your life so that these things do not consume you. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us.
5 Steps to becoming your best version Go to meninthearena.org Pick up one of our free resources Buy on of our resources for small groups Join or start a small group with your buddies. Virtual or in person. Reach out at info@meninthearena.org if you need help. Tell us your story. info@meninthearena.org  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us.
Best Selling Author and Keynote Speaker Jon Gordon's best-selling books and talks have inspired readers and audiences around the world. His principles have been put to the test by numerous Fortune 500 companies, professional and college sports teams, school districts, hospitals, and non-profits. He is the author of 15 books including 5 best-sellers: The Energy Bus, The Carpenter, Training Camp, You Win in the Locker Room First and The Power of Positive Leadership. Jon and his tips have been featured on The Today Show, CNN, CNBC, The Golf Channel, Fox and Friends and in numerous magazines and newspapers. His clients include The Los Angeles Dodgers, The Atlanta Falcons, Campbell Soup, Dell, Publix, Southwest Airlines, LA Clippers, Miami Heat, Pittsburgh Pirates, BB&T Bank, Clemson Football, Northwestern Mutual, Bayer, West Point Academy and more. Jon is a graduate of Cornell University and holds a Masters in Teaching from Emory University. He and his training/consulting company are passionate about developing positive leaders, organizations and teams. Connect with Jon on Twitter, Facebook, LinkedIn, Instagram and Youtube. https://www.jongordon.com/  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us.
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Pat Combs spent 8 years playing professional baseball for the Philadelphia Phillies (1st Round selection, 1988) and Milwaukee Brewers. As a collegiate athlete, Pat represented his country as a baseball player for Team USA. Pat was an All-American and Academic All-American at Baylor University, where he was later inducted into the Baylor Athletic Hall of Fame. Currently, Pat is a behavioral analytics consultant for numerous professional athletes, MLB & NFL teams, and corporate leaders. He is also the Chairman of Combs Capital Partners, a wealth management firm. He's a broadcast color analyst for Fox Sports college baseball and serves on multiple corporate and non-profit boards. He and his wife, Christina, have 3 sons: Carson, Conner & Casey and a daughter-in-law, Sarah Rose. Pat continues to mentor & coach young men through select summer baseball leagues and at his church in Southlake, Texas. More Than The Score: How Parents and Coaches Can Cultivate Virtue in Youth Athletes Boots on the Ground The Flip Flippin. Ask your wife to rank your marriage 1-10, And Go tell it to one of your bros who you trust and has the guts to call you out. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us.
How does a man measure if he is actually his best version? Well we have thought about this and came up with a method to do just that. Listen to this 3 part series on Assessing your best version of a man to see what is coming your way real soon. The BVOM will be a great tool for all men! These are attributes 11-20 That a man should be or do. Tactful   Peacemaker Gentle Generous  Leader Respected Goodness Fair Devout Disciplined www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us.
Scott Haima's life work has been intergenerational, masculine, discipleship.  This passion was developed as early as age 10 when his Dad started a Royal Rangers Outpost in Trenton, Michigan.  Scott was very active in this until 1999, when he became active in Christian Service Brigade (CSB). Professionally Scott took a few paths before full-time ministry.  He served in the United States Air Force.  A second path led to finance positions at Price Waterhouse-Coopers, Buffalo Sabres, and Merchants Insurance Group. In 1999, a third path developed.  He was asked to serve on the Board of Directors for CSB Ministries in 2009 then felt the call to accept the full-time position of Regional in 2010.  In 2015 Scott was selected as President of CSB Ministries. Scott has three sons and one daughter.  Still active at his local church, speaks regularly at men's breakfasts, events, and Iron Sharpens Iron men's conferences, and is working on becoming an Adirondack 46er.  It is his fervent prayer to see godly men take responsibility to serve, lead, and disciple each generation. https://www.facebook.com/CSBMinistries Boots on the Ground Challenge you to get into an accountability group of 2-5 other guys.
How does a man measure if he is actually his best version? Well we have thought about this and came up with a method to do just that. Listen to this 3 part series on Assessing your best version of a man to see what is coming your way real soon. The BVOM will be a great tool for all men! Servant Fidelity Reputable Hospitable Balanced Prudent Teacher Moderation Selfless Patient www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us.
Josh Cowger is a husband, father, hunter, and the owner of Cowger Electric, a small electrical shop based in Newberg Oregon.  He has 2 sons ages 8 and 10.  His hobbies include hunting, Brazilian jiujitsu, coaching youth sports, and photography. He has been a self-employed for 8 years and an electrician for 16. Josh's wife would describe him as someone who doesn't need another hobby, but he wouldn't always describe himself as someone who always had hobbies. Things changed for Josh in 2015, he had testicular cancer, and that gave him a perspective change. Josh was 35, he had a list of things that were interests, things that he always said he would do when he got in better shape, and had more time. Then Josh realized that he had been saying the same thing since he was 24. So, he made a change.  In this episode Josh shares about the time a cougar changed his life.  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us.
How does a man measure if he is actually his best version? Well we have thought about this and came up with a method to do just that. Listen to this 3 part series on Assessing your best version of a man to see what is coming your way real soon. The BVOM will be a great tool for all men! www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us.
Rick Aldred was born in Springfield, MO, and he graduated from Missouri State University. In 2010, he received his commission as a 2LT in the US Army. Rick spent the next 8 years on active duty, deploying to Iraq, Afghanistan, as well as numerous training exercises in Europe. During his time in Europe, Rick began a series of emotional and physical affairs with multiple women. He eventually confessed his sin to his wife in October of 2016, 1 month after their first "miracle" baby was born. Rick was given the ultimatum to leave the military or his wife was going to leave.  This began a long road of recovery and reconciliation, and, through it all, Rick discovered a desire to help others through his own brokenness. He will graduate from Midwestern Baptist Theological Seminary in May of 2021 with his M.A. in Counseling.  Boots on the Ground     Give your wife full access to your devices. Be transparent about all areas of your life.    www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us
Technology was made to help us but it can also hinder our families and especially our kids. In this episode we will give you 5 tools to help you tech proof your home and help your kids to thrive. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us.
TODD WILSON, is a dad, grand dad, writer, conference speaker, and former pastor. Todd's humor and down to earth realness have made him a favorite speaker at homeschool conventions, retreats, and churches across the country…each year speaking to thousands of dads and moms. As founder of Familyman Ministries, his passion and mission are to remind dads and moms of what's most important through a weekly e-mail for dads, seminars, and books and products that encourage parents. Todd, and his wife Debbie, presently homeschool three of their eight children (FIVE have graduated…FOUR are Married) in northern Indiana and travel America in the Familyman Mobile RV. You can read more at www.familymanweb.com Boots on the Ground: When your kid/kids come to you and ask you to do something with them, just say "SURE." www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us.
1. You are a homeschool dad. You are the ultimate teacher. 2. Don't give up on your kids. Don't give up on fathering. 3. Just say SURE! 4. Smile at your kids. Make sure they know you like them. They know you love them, but do they know you like them? www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us.
This interview with Jay Penton is a Regular Joe Episode. Jay is 52 and lives in Prattville, AL with his wife Dana. They have 2 children. Delaney who is 21, a special needs adult who helps mom at home and Joey who is 19 and attends the University of Alabama-Huntsville. Jay has been in law enforcement most of his adult life. He joined the Army as a MP in 1989. Was part of the US invasion of Panama and the first Gulf War. In 1996 left active duty and joined the National Guard and retired after a total of 22 years in the military. In 1997, Jay became an Alabama State Trooper and is still there. Jay became a Christian at the age of 8, but wandered as a young adult. After marrying his wife God moved on his life and drew him back to Him. Now, after wading around in the mud for so many years he now gets to pull other guys out of the mud with His strength. He has been a member of Boones Chapel Baptist Church since 2006. Jay was ordained as a deacon in 2009 and was called to men's ministry in 2013. Jay serves as the Men's Pastor at Boones Chapel. Boots on the Ground Create a crisis, Find the people you love and ask them where you need to grow. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us.
Do you regularly make the easy decisions for the soft and easy life? In this episode Jim will challenge you to make the tough decisions. The ones that most men won't choose. The ones that cause you to have discipline.  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us.
Jay Payleitner spent a decade in major market advertising.  (Chicago, Michigan Avenue) But God called him into Christian media.  And he became a busy freelance radio producer for Josh McDowell Radio, Today's Father, Jesus Freaks Radio for Voice of the Martyrs, Project Angel Tree with Chuck Colson, and others. He speaks at marriage conferences, men's retreats, and Iron Sharpens Iron events in 20 states. Jay has written more than 25 books and sold more than a half million copies including the bestselling 52 Things Kids Need from a Dad, What If God Wrote Your Bucket List? and The Jesus Dare.  Jay's books have been translated into more than ten languages.   Jay and his high school sweetheart, Rita, live in the Chicago area where they raised five great kids, loved on ten foster babies, and just welcomed grandchild #7. The Prayer of Agur Boots on the Ground: Read Proverbs 30 and write a prayer for your life. Leave us a positive review. Find us on social media and engage in a conversation about this podcast.  Men in the Arena on Facebook www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us. Instagram
Jim Ramos unpacks 3 things that men believe about courage. 1. Courage is not a spiritual gift. 2. Courage is not a fruit of the spirit. 3 Courage is not one of the Ten Commandments. Leave us a positive review. Find us on social media and engage in a conversation about this podcast.  Men in the Arena on Facebook www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us. Instagram
Elmo Winters is the Founder/Executive Director of the KINGDOM Group International, Inc., an organization dedicated to racial healing, unity and reconciliation utilizing the life changing Gospel of Christ. The KINGDOM Group hosts events to bring diverse groups together for dialogue and relationship building.  Reverend Winters has been in ministry for over 42 years as a Church Planter, Pastor, Bible Institute Instructor and Hospice Chaplain.  Additionally, he has served as a short-term Missionary to Kenya, Mexico, and Russia, where he trained pastors and ministry leaders.  Working with EndPoint Ministries of Nairobi, Reverend Winters continues to assist with church/school planting in the south eastern region of Kenya.  Having earned a Masters in Business Administration (MBA), he provides business consulting to non-profit organizations, ministries, and small businesses. Winters serves on the boards of Gulf South Men of Louisiana, the National Coalition of Ministries to Men (NCMM), the Louisiana Lagniappe Country Walk to Emmaus (LCWE) and the Mercy Education Foundation of Liberia, Africa. Elmo Winters is married to the lovely Therese Winters and reside in Baton Rouge, LA.  They are proud parents of five children and nine grandchildren. Boots on the Ground: Walk across the room to someone who is different than you and look them in the eyes and shake their hand. Start to see people with the eyes of Christ.  KINGDOM GROUP WEBSITE Order OVERCOMING RACIAL AND CULTURAL BARRIERS To Disciple Men www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us.
Kent Evans with Manhood Journey joins us again to break down the 3 steps that each man should do to become their best version.  Climb Down - Humility - Admit you need help. Determine the Gaps - What are some areas you need to grow as a man? Spot Helpers -  You need guys around you that can help you identify your week spots. www.manhoodjourney.org  www.fatheronpurpose.org  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us.
Kent Evans is the Executive Director and co-founder of Manhood Journey, a ministry that helps fathers become disciple-makers. After a twenty-year career as a business leader, he embarked on biblical Fatherhood ministry projects. He's appeared on television, radio, web outlets and podcasts. He's spoken at parenting and men's events. His first book, Wise Guys: Unlocking Hidden Wisdom from the Men Around You, was written to help men learn how to find mentors and wise counsel. Learn more at manhoodjourney.org or fatheronpurpose.org. Kent's life has been radically affected by godly mentors and his lovely wife, April. They have been married twenty-five years and have five sons and one daughter-in-law. He lives in Louisville, Kentucky, USA. You can find him on social media @manhoodjourney www.manhoodjourney.org www.fatheronpurpose.org Boots on the Ground: When was the last time you observed another man's expertise and asked him to help you with that skill? Seek out this guys and ask. Have coffee or lunch together.   www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us.
We believe many are confused what courage look likes. Jim Ramos gives us Four things that we should know. Courage is a personal choice. Courage is a character trait over time. Courage is a call to action. Courage is a sign of strength. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us.
Joe Myall has been married three times and has four biological children, 3 sons and 1 daughter, as well as two stepsons. He has 13 grandchildren, with number 14 due in November. Joe's first marriage ended in divorce in 1989 after 19 years for a multitude of reasons, most of which can be boiled down to one statement- "He was not the man God wanted him to be." Joe married Robyn in 1990. Although he had made an intellectual decision to accept Christ as Savior in 1968, it was 1998 before Joe truly had a conversion experience. That fall, Joe decided he was tired of having to always be right, being judgmental of others and he turned his life over to God. In 2002, Joe was diagnosed with Non-Hodgkins Lymphoma, went through chemotherapy and is now 17 years post-chemo.          In 2006, Joe and Robyn "retired" and moved 1000 miles from the Central Coast area of California, about mid-way between LA and SF, to western Washington across the Puget Sound from Seattle. Robyn had worked as a psychiatric RN and Joe had been in law enforcement. Eventually, Robyn went to work part time for the local mental health agency and Joe worked with the county drug court program for a few years.          Between 2006 and early 2019, Joe was involved in several ministries in his church and his community, including working with the youth pastors, men's ministry and as a chaplain with the local fire district.          In the Spring of 2015, Robyn became ill and was diagnosed with stage-4 metastatic cancer of unknown origin, with a prognosis of 2-3 months to live. Robyn declined any diagnostic tests or treatment, opting for quality over quantity of life. God gave Joe and Robyn 2.5 more years together, before she began experiencing extreme pain in August of 2017. In September, Robyn was diagnosed with Acute Lymphoblastic Lymphoma with weeks to live. She passed away at home with Joe, her sons and a daughter in-law by her side. Boots on the Ground Sit down with your wife face to face. Look her in the eye and tell her you love her. And share with her why you are thankful for her. Grief Share- 13 week programmed study Experiencing Grief by Norm Wright Shattered Dreams by Larry Crab www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us.
So many spend a great deal of money and attention on the wedding, but when it comes to the marriage they fail to invest financially or put in the work to make it great. As a parent, what will you be willing to do to help your kids' marriage succeed? Pay for an expensive wedding or invest in their marriage? www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us.
Marsh Bull is a technical type guy working with computers for 5 decades. His focus until turning 51 was on my career & getting ahead in the corporate world. He believed he was a good man, working hard to take care of his family. Focusing on his career, he had allowed his home life to crumble. He was working 14 hours a day for IBM when his brokenness finally caught up with him. It was Sat. October 21, 1995 when he pulled off the road and shouted a one-word prayer, "Help."   Instantly a sensation of total love permeated his entire body. It felt like a warm molasses covering him from head to toe. At the time, He didn't understand it was the Holy Spirit entering his body. This is what defines Marsh, his life before Christ & his life after Christ. He was probably like you if you don't know Christ!  Boots on the Ground: Head on over to Marsh Bull's website and pick up some of his free resources, grab some guys and start a group.  Website: https://www.mensgroup.org/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mensgroupfoundation/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/c-b-1983119/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/mensgrouptopics/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mensdiscussiontopics/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/mensgrouptopics Tumblr: https://www.tumblr.com/blog/mensgrouptopics www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us.
Men, it so important for our daughters to hear from us that they are beautiful. They need to be hugged by us and told they are loved. If we don't do it some hormonal boy will fill in the gap.  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast Contact us.
For decades Patrick Morley has been regarded as one of America's most respected authorities on the unique challenges and opportunities facing men. Through his speaking and writing, he is a tireless advocate for men, encouraging and inspiring them to change their lives in Christ. "The ministry of Man in the Mirror exists," says Patrick Morley, "in answer to the prayers of all those wives, mothers, and grandmothers who have for decades been praying for the men in their lives." Patrick Morley graduated with honors from the University of Central Florida. He has earned a PhD in management, completed postgraduate studies at the Harvard Business School and Oxford University, and graduated from Reformed Theological Seminary. He lives in Winter Park, Florida, with his wife, Patsy. They have two married children and five grandchildren. www.christianmanbook.com  www.maninthemirror.org  Boots on the Ground. Got to website download the free coaching guide. and Buy the book The Christian Man. Read it. Daily prayer of a Husband. Father, I said til death do us part. I want to meet it. Help me to love you more than her and her more than anything or anyone else, help me bring her into your presence today. Make us one like you are three in one. I want to hear her, cherish her, and serve her so she would love you more and we can bring you glory.   Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Do your kids know you love them? Do they know that you are proud of them? This episode is short, but could be the most impactful thing for your kids if you can learn from it.  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum
Intimacy anorexia is relationship disorder that is marked by a lack of intimacy in a relationship. It occurs when someone in a relationship actively withholds emotional, spiritual and sexual intimacy from their spouse or partner. This lack of intimacy harms the marriage, damages the relationship causing pain and loneliness and impacts the spouse or partner significantly. Dr. Douglas Weiss coined the term "intimacy anorexia" when he started seeing a separate, yet related aspect of sexual anorexia in his private psychological counseling practice. He was able to link these cases of sexual anorexia into a broader spectrum of related issues and noted that people engaging in this type of withholding behavior did it for other reasons that those typically associated with sexual anorexia. So, what is your grade? No marriage is perfect. But with hard work it can become better each day. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum
The late Regi Campbell authored the book,  What Radical Husbands Do: 12 Steps to Win and Keep Your Wife's Heart, This is one of the greatest books on marriage! It is short but packed full of great principles. True manhood, masculinity, mentoring,  marriage success. and men's ministry tips can be found in this episode. Regi Campbell was an experienced investor and entrepreneur by trade, having been involved in the founding of 15 companies. He wrote four books and spoke on mentoring, marriage, and marketplace ministry. His real passion was mentoring younger men. In 2007, Regi founded Radical Mentoring to help encourage and equip mentors and churches to build disciple-makers through intentional small group mentoring.  Boots on the Ground Moment: Make a list of the top 5 things that your wife loves. Start loving those things with her. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum Contact us.
Emerson Eggrichs author of Love & Respect has gieven us a recipe to disarm our angry wife. www.loveandrespect.com What phrase can you say to disarm your angry wife? As men, we have tried many and failed miserably. We wish to give you the tools to respectfully stop the crazy cycle. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum
5 Simple Ways to Strengthen Your Marriage . . . When You're Stuck at Home Together By Dr. Gary Chapman Let Sheltering in Place Together be an Opportunity to Renew Your Relationship The COVID-19 pandemic has affected all facets of life. The health crisis has overwhelmed medical workers, business closings have exacerbated financial stress, and—perhaps most unexpectedly—sheltering in place has placed married couples in endless, unprecedented proximity. Whether this has been challenging or delightful for you and your spouse, let this time be an opportunity to renew your love. Learn how to do so in 5 Simple Ways to Strengthen Your Marriage… When You're Stuck at Home Together by Dr. Gary Chapman, author of The New York Times bestseller The 5 Love Languages®. This guide will help enrich your time stuck together. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum
There are certain things that separate men from women. Jim calls these 5 things characteristics the Manhood Pentagon. What are are these and how do they contribute to our masculinity?  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum
Learning how to parent by using the art of questioning and not lecturing. Join us with Hal Perkins as he shows us how to ask the right questions to our children. Hal and Debbi have given 40 years in studying and strategically applying the principles of making disciples that Jesus modeled and commanded of His followers. Both formally and informally, they relationally discipled their four children (now all in full-time Christian ministry) and those in their churches willing to invest time in their own relationship with Jesus and then to help others. HeartWalk Foundations In 1969 Hal was dramatically called into professional ministry. He and Debbi began their first full time pastoral role in June 1 of 1970 and concluded 40 years of pastoral ministry on June 30, 2010. They have been married 41 years. At marriage, Hal was a math teacher and coach. Debbi finished college to become an elementary teacher. During their 40 years of professional ministry, Hal and Debbi served five Nazarene churches as senior pastor. Debbi taught in both public and Christian schools, served as administrative assistant to the Lieutenant Governor of Oklahoma, and ministered as a chaplain in 10 corporations. https://discipledbyjesus.org If Jesus Were a Parent  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum
Men are made to carry heavy loads. What does that mean? What different things are men required to carry to be a Man? www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum
Jody Burkeen is the Lead Pastor / Elder for Ignite Church. Jody is an author, speaker and a lover of the word of God. In 2010 he founded Man Up God's Way, a national men's ministry that is challenging men to step up for the kingdom of God. The MAN UP! ministry was birthed out of a desire to change the way Christian men do Christianity. Jody's self-described "Damascus Road Transformation" led him on a journey to search the scripture to find what he had been missing his whole life, which was Jesus Christ. did. The MAN UP! Gods Way ministry is Jody's hope that he can challenge men to live a separated life. "All men have only five problems: sex, women, work, kids and money. That's how simplistic we are. So somewhere out there, there is an accountability partner for you. You just have to want it. We will continue to have these problems until we lay them at the feet of Jesus. Get someone to help you. Begin the process together." -Jody Burkeen Boots on the Ground: Head over to www.ManUpGodsWay.org  and pick up a copy of Jody's book, Man Up God's Way and go to the back of the book and take the 30 day challenge.   www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum
Do you know your loved one's love language?  Check out the quiz online. We encourage you to take it and have your spouse and kids take it. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum
Bill Hendricks is President of The Giftedness Center, a Dallas-based consulting firm specializing in organizational effectiveness and individual career guidance. He is the author or coauthor of twenty books, including Your Work Matters to God, Living by the Book, and The Power of Uniqueness. He has written for numerous publications and shares his thoughts regularly at www.BillHendricks.net.   Bill holds an undergraduate degree in English from Harvard University, a master of science in mass communications from Boston University, and a master of arts in biblical studies from Dallas Theological Seminary. He is the proud father of three grown daughters by his late wife, Nancy, and is now married to Lynn Turpin Hendricks.   Specialization or Expertise: author of Men of Influence: The Transforming Impact of Godly Mentors, coauthored with his father, the late Dr. Howard Hendricks. www.thegiftednesscenter.com  Boots on the Ground:  Ask yourself this question: If it were not for blank, I would not be who I am today. Call them and thank them. If you don't have one, find a mentor. And you also need to find someone to mentor. Enter to win Men of Influence at www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum
This Equipping in Ten breaks down some practical steps that you can do to create a climate of connection in your blended family. Jim takes some nuggets from Ron Deal's book Building Love Together in Blended Families. Jim also shares what his family did when he was in the growing up in his blended family. Enter to win your Free Copy of Building Love Together in Blended Families. Use this LINK to access A Guide To Building Love With The Five P's of Stepparenting. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum
Ron L. Deal is one of the most widely read and viewed experts on blended families in the country. He is founder of Smart Stepfamilies™, Director of FamilyLife Blended® for FamilyLife®, the author of over a dozen books and video resources on stepfamily living including the bestselling books Building Love Together in Blended Families with Dr. Gary Chapman His podcast FamilyLife Blended with Ron Deal and his one-minute radio feature are heard around the world and his work has been quoted/referenced by multiple news outlets such as the New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, CNBC.com, and USA Today. www.familylife.com www.familylifeblended.com www.smartstepfamilies.com Get Your Copy Now! of Tell Them, What Great Fathers Tell Their Sons and Daughters www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast
Ron L. Deal is one of the most widely read and viewed experts on blended families in the country. He is founder of Smart Stepfamilies™, Director of FamilyLife Blended® for FamilyLife®, the author of over a dozen books and video resources on stepfamily living including the bestselling books Building Love Together in Blended Families with Dr. Gary Chapman His podcast FamilyLife Blended with Ron Deal and his one-minute radio feature are heard around the world and his work has been quoted/referenced by multiple news outlets such as the New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, CNBC.com, and USA Today. The 5 P's 1. Partnering- With your spouse 2. Pursue- The kids hearts, pursue a relationship with the kids. 3. Pace- Your Pursuit 4. Patience- Tell yourself that it's ok to take time building a relationship. 5. Persistence- Keep on Bonus P – Prayer Use this LINK to access A Guide To Building Love With The Five P's of Stepparenting. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum
This is the first of a half dozen strategic times a year we interview what we call our "Average Joes Arena Heroes". We also highlight these guys on our weekly E-Blast through our WAMGI (When a man Gets It) story. These are guys like you and me who are in the arena fighting for those people and causes they love. Don't get me wrong, our experts and authors are WILL continue to be our bread and butter but it's the Average Joe who is the local hero of the Men in the Arena organization. George Sielski is 73 from Jamestown, NY. George has been married to Annette for 54 years in July. George is retired and drives a bus two days a week doing medial transportation. He has been a Gideon for 20 years. He is a Deacon in his church, runs a Virtual Men in the Arena Team as well as helping lead the MITA forum on Face book as an Arena Coach.           Quotes:    "The Lord will put things in my way. It's up to me to say yes or no." "Loyalty is a rare commodity nowadays." "If you are messed up in your marriage you need to take a look at that. If you are looking at her you have a problem." "There is a special crown in heaven for the people that work with little kids." "You don't know how things will affect you later in life when you are young." "You are what you eat, That's a fact." "Spend as much time planning your marriage as you do your wedding." "If you don't want your prayers hindered, do right by your wife." "I know He is proud of me when I take care of my wife." "You are going to run into storms. Your vows are going to be the only thing that keeps you there." "Are you thinking about cheating? You think its greener on the other side? Let me tell you something. The devil fertilizes it with a lot of manure." Boots on the Ground If you are lacking Grit, get around Men who will challenge you to be a man of Grit. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum
In Mark Batterson's book, Play the Man, he writes about the 7 virtues a man should have to become the man God created him to be. Jim Ramos breaks each one down in this short equipping podcast. 1. Tough Love 2. Childlike Wonder 3. Will Power 4. Raw Passion 5. True Grit 6. Clear Vision 7. Moral Courage www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum
We believe that too many men these days lack Grit. If things get hard some males bail. If the "Feeling" of love dwindles they bail. "Men are made for pressure" - Brian Doyle In this episode we challenge men to have Grit. Boots on the Ground If you are lacking Grit, get around Men who will challenge you to be a man of Grit. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum
In this episode Jim shares about those areas in our lives that we may need to build some grit into. For some it may be our diet. For some it might be purity or thought life. Only you know what that is for you. Jim wants to encourage you to build some grit where you may be lacking.  www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum
Gary Chapman has a passion for helping people form lasting relationships. He is known around the world as a marriage counselor, director of marriage seminars, and his nationally-syndicated radio programs air nationally on Moody Radio Network and over 400 affiliate stations. He has authored many books including Five Love Languages that has sold over 12 MILLION copies. He is also the co-author of CHOOSE GREATNESS: 11 Wise decisions that Brave Young Men Make Quotes:  -"Our definition of a "great life" is taking what you have and using it to enrich the lives of others." -"However, you will only reach your full potential if you choose greatness".  -"We are now looking back on our own lives and realize that many of our most important decisions were made when we were teenagers." -"Life was never meant to be lived alone. As young men, we need the wisdom of our fathers and mothers. Otherwise, we may make decisions based solely upon our feelings rather than upon facts." -"It Is not a sign of weakness to seek help. It is a sign of strength"  -"But what else is involved in respecting women, and why should we?"  -"We want you to be a man who respects all women in public and in private." - "In every generation there are young men who grow up to make the world a better place, and others who leave behind a trail of pain because of their poor decisions" Choose Greatness   "Let's get our Boots on the Ground": What's next? What action step will you take because of today? What will you do because of what you heard? Here it is! Compare the 5 Love Languages and discover which on matches. Your wife the best. Take the test. www.5lovelanguages.com   www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum
During uncertain times we may find ourselves scared or fearful. Jim Ramos shares what our response to fear should look like. What has caused you fear recently and where is your focus? www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum
Robert Lewis - Founder, BetterMan Few have had as significant an impact on discipling men in the past forty years than Robert Lewis. As a pastor, speaker, and author, Robert's passion for leading men to grow in biblical manhood led him to produce the Men's Fraternity film series in 1995. This three-year men's curriculum quickly spread into churches, businesses, colleges, and even correctional facilities across the United States and later to over 20 countries. Today, Men's Fraternity and its follow up series, 33, have impacted millions of men worldwide.   Author of numerous books including best selling The Church of Irresistible Influence, Raising a Modern-Day Knight, and Rocking the Roles: Building a Win-Win Marriage, Robert is known for helping men build their lives on practical biblical truth that gets real-life results.   Now, in authoring the "BetterMan" curriculum, Robert offers a new way for men, especially younger men, to get their hands around God's timeless design for authentic manhood.   "Without a vision men turn toxic!" Boots on the Ground Get involved with some virtual men's group. Betterman.com or Men in the Arena. And, Get involved in your churches men's ministry. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum
This episode is from our Covid-19 series which we have been producing Live on Facebook each day at 4pm PST. To find all of these video messages follow this link. With all the distractions in this world what is causing you not to focus on Jesus so you can find your joy and peace? www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum
Chad Hennings joins us and shares about his service to our country flying the A10 Thunderbolt in combat to playing in the NFL and winning 3 Super Bowls with the Dallas Cowboys, to starting Wingmen ministries and being a part of Promise Keepers. Boots on the Ground  Get into some kind of virtual group. Find some sort of online men's small group. Let us know if you need help. www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum
In this episode Jim shares some practical advice from scripture on staying CALM in the midst of the storms of life. Especially in the midst of Covid-19. What does it look like to stay CALM? www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum
Paul Cole shares from his book Just a Bartender, Unexpected People Change Their World. Paul Louis Cole is President of the Christian Men's Network Worldwide and Founding Pastor of C3 Church in Dallas, Texas.  CMN is active in 138 nations, connecting over 86,000 leaders.  Paul is married to Judi Cole, a wonderful leader and talented designer.  Paul writes, speaks and travels extensively encouraging and advancing the men's movement around the world.  He and Judi started Hope C3 Church in 1999 and in 2011 transitioned into full-time mens ministry as his son Brandon and wife Meredith accepted the role as Lead Pastors of C3 Church DFW. Paul and Judi are proud grandparents of the wonderful Reese Holsinger, Dylan Holsinger, and Cameron Holsinger, daughters and son of Pastor Niles and Lindsay Cole Holsinger.  Niles is associate pastor at Gateway Church, Grand Prairie. They have two sons, creator and pastor Brandon Cole, married to Meredith, and noted musician and coach Bryce Cole.  Brandon is the Lead Pastor at C3 Church with his wife Meredith.  Bryce, now living in Nashville, is a songwriter and a High School basketball coach. Paul's sisters are Lois Crase and Joann Webster.  Lois is an attorney and she and her husband Mark live in the Fort Worth area.  Joann Webster is the CMN Vice President and publisher of Resolute Books. She and her husband Richard live in Satellite Beach, Florida. Paul has been a business owner, global marketing consultant and award winning television/film producer for over 30 years… and he has a lifetime membership at Starbucks. You can read his blog at paullouiscole.com. Boots on the Ground Find a quiet place. Carve out time to sit and listen to God. Find out who you are in Jesus.    www.meninthearena.org Men in the Arena Books and Swag Support the Podcast The online Men in the Arena forum