Why Relapse Happens & How to Prevent It — Science-Backed, Real Recovery Experience
Podcast:Recovering Out Loud Published On: Wed Dec 03 2025 Description: Most people think relapse is a single moment — but it’s not.In this video, I break down the three phases of relapse (emotional → mental → physical) and explain why relapse actually starts weeks or months before the first drink or drug. Using my own experience — eight years sober before relapsing, multiple rehabs, and now working in addiction counseling — plus the science behind cravings and dopamine, this video gives you a clear roadmap for understanding relapse and preventing it before it begins.You’ll learn:✅ The early emotional warning signs most people ignore✅ How stress, boredom, overconfidence, and isolation create relapse conditions✅ Why cravings feel so powerful and why your brain seeks the “quick fix”✅ How to identify your patterns, triggers, and red flags✅ Simple but powerful tools to interrupt cravings in real time✅ How to build a relapse prevention plan that actually works✅ Why relapse is not failure — and how to turn it into growthWhether you're new to recovery, coming back, or supporting someone you love, this is one of the clearest explanations of relapse you’ll find. No shame. No judgment. Just honesty, science, and practical tools.0:00 How relapse actually worksEmotional relapse signs (poor sleep, irritability, isolation)Mental relapse & “addict brain” bargainingWhy dopamine memories trigger cravingsPhysical relapse: the result, not the beginningMy story: relapsing after 8 years soberScience of cravings & stress responseTools to interrupt urges instantlyPattern recognition & relapse journalingWhy connection is the antidote to addictionThe dangers of overconfidence in recoveryShame, avoidance, and emotional overloadBuilding a simple relapse prevention planrelapse preventionstages of relapseemotional relapse signsaddiction recovery toolshow relapse happensmental relapse warning signssobriety motivationstaying sober during holidaysrelapse triggersaddiction psychologyrelapse after long-term sobrietyIf this video helps you, please subscribe, rate, and share the podcast — it supports the channel, the message, and the people who need these tools the most. You’re not alone. You’re worth recovery.