Podcast:The PedsDocTalk Podcast: Child Health, Development & Parenting—From a Pediatrician Mom Published On: Mon Aug 17 2026 Description: Today I'm revisiting a favorite conversation with board-certified psychiatrist and bestselling author Dr. Pooja Lakshmin. We look at the difference between "faux self-care" and "real-self care" and how boundaries and self compassion are part of the internal process. If you feel like you're drowning under the mental load of parenting this episode offers a dose of clarity and empowerment. It's an eye-opening reminder that well-being isn't about another product or goal... it's about aligning your choices with your values. We discuss: Why the wellness industry encourages a to-do list instead of addressing issues The difference between self-care methods and self-care principles How unrealistic expectations lead to shame and comparison The role of setting firm boundaries and silencing your inner critic Why practicing self-care can lead to changes that benefit entire communities. Want more? Listen to the full, original episode. Our podcasts are also now on YouTube. If you prefer a video podcast with closed captioning, check us out there and subscribe to PedsDocTalk. Get trusted pediatric advice, relatable parenting insights, and evidence-based tips delivered straight to your inbox—join thousands of parents who rely on the PDT newsletter to stay informed, supported, and confident. Join the newsletter! Shop Dr. Mona’s favorite products: https://shopmy.us/shop/pedsdoctalk (paid link) And don’t forget to follow @pedsdoctalkpodcast on Instagram—our new space just for parents looking for real talk and real support. We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on the PedsDocTalk Podcast Sponsorships page of the website. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices