“Women Want Hot Guys” Is Bullsh*t: How Shekar Went from Self-Doubt to Approaching Confidence (Live Coaching)
“Women Want Hot Guys” Is Bullsh*t: How Shekar Went from Self-Doubt to Approaching Confidence (Live Coaching)  
Podcast: How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
Published On: Tue May 19 2026
Description: If you feel you’re just not handsome enough to get a great girlfriend, this episode will change how you think. Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett sits down with his client Shekar, who used to feel like he wasn’t handsome enough to date wonderful women. Then he flew to New York City for Connell’s Wingman Weekend approaching bootcamp. Now he can meet women, get numbers, flirt—and he finally feels worthy!Episode Highlights:4:31: The “Hand of God” Approach That Changed Shekar’s Confidence14:14: Why It’s Not Creepy to Approach Women at the Gym24:45: The Secret to Playful Banter on the Dating Apps36:35: The Surprising Link Between Self-Improvement and Getting a Girlfriend1:03:25: How Much Does Where You Live Impact Your Love Life?STRUGGLING TO FLIRT AND CONNECT WITH BEAUTIFUL WOMEN? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL: DatingTransformation.comGET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)