The Subtext: We Are (Estranged) Family
Podcast: No Small Endeavor with Lee C. CampPublished On: Wed Dec 17 2025
Description: Family estrangement is rising, but the cultural story behind it is far more complex than “cutting off toxic people.” In this episode, Savannah and Lee unpack the social, psychological, and technological shifts that quietly reshaped our expectations of family. and why forgiveness, repair, and humility might be the most countercultural practices left. In this episode, Savannah and Lee dig into the cultural forces behind the surge in family estrangement, from postmodern distrust of authority to therapy-speak, safetyism, digital overwhelm, and the luxury of disconnection. Drawing on Rachel Haack’s Substack newsletter, they explore how concept creep, para-connection, and wealth have shaped our expectations of parents, children, and in-laws, and why privilege can make cutting off family easier than repairing them. Together they reflect on the emotional weight, legitimate complexities, and real pain inside estrangement, before ending with a conversation on forgiveness…not as excusing harm, but as a courageous path towards freedom. Things we mentioned in this episode: Labubu Pendant Blind Box James by Percival Everett Why Everyone’s Cutting Everyone Off: The Cultural Story Behind Family Estrangement David Schnarch's books That All Shall Be Saved: Heaven, Hell, and Universal Salvation by David Bentley Hart The Pastor: A Crisis by Bradley Jersak and Wm. Paul Young Why Concepts Creep to the Left by Jonathan Haidt Follow The Subtext: Instagram | Threads | X | YouTube | TikTok Follow Lee: Instagram | Twitter | Lee's Newsletter Follow Savannah: Instagram | Substack Join our Email List: nosmallendeavor.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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