EP 623: The Unsexy Truth About Finding Love: She Didn’t Get Lucky, She Got Secure
EP 623: The Unsexy Truth About Finding Love: She Didn’t Get Lucky, She Got Secure  
Podcast: Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice
Published On: Mon Feb 02 2026
Description: In today’s episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on one of the biggest myths in modern dating, the idea that healthy love is about luck, timing, or manifesting the “right” person. It’s not glamorous, it’s not viral, and it’s definitely not sexy… but it is real. Secure, lasting love is built through intention, healing, and becoming emotionally available from the inside out. If you’re tired of repeating the same patterns, attracting unavailable partners, or wondering why it hasn’t “just worked” yet, this episode is for you.Inside the episode:Why love isn’t random or about luck, it’s patterned, and how secure attachment (not manifestation alone) is what actually changes your resultsThe role past relational trauma plays in sabotaging connection, and why releasing it is non-negotiable for healthy loveHow shifting your identity, standards, and dating approach creates calm, depth, and real emotional safety instead of chaos and chemistryIf you’re ready to go deeper and start your journey toward secure love, you can explore the Empowered. Secure. Loved. offers here: 👉Click here to apply🔗 Additional Episode Links:Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz → https://drmorgancoaching.com/quizFollow me on IG → @drmorgancoachingGrab my book: Grab my best selling book Love Magnet