“Endogenous Alignment” by Gordon Seidoh Worley
Podcast: LessWrong (30+ Karma)Published On: Sun Jul 19 2026
Description: Starting when children are fairly young, usually around 1 year of age, we adults begin the work of aligning them to our values. We teach them to say “please”, not to hit, to ask for what they want instead of screaming, and much else. We do this primarily via exogenous methods, using a combination of punishments and rewards, that molds their behavior by encouraging good behaviors and discouraging bad ones. Such operant conditioning works because children have many instinctive behaviors that make them alignable. They want their parents to love them, for their friends to like them, and for almost anyone to help them if they feel they can be trusted. And so combined with exogenous alignment efforts by teachers and peers that continue through the school years, children generally reach adulthood having been “civilized”. We mostly don’t try to align adults via exogenous means. Yes, we police the behavior of other adults in various ways, and some cultures do this more than others, but generally by adulthood we expect people to be at least aligned and need only nudges to stay within the bounds of acceptable behavior. Adults who stray too far typically don’t receive additional training to [...] --- First published: July 18th, 2026 Source: https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/xWZpwPPp5nR9rZq3x/endogenous-alignment --- Narrated by TYPE III AUDIO.
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