517. Coaching Hotline: Isn't Yelling at My Kids Messing Them Up?
517. Coaching Hotline: Isn't Yelling at My Kids Messing Them Up?  
Podcast: UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone
Published On: Tue Aug 11 2026
Description: Do you ever get stuck in the cycle of losing your temper with your kids, then immediately judging yourself as a terrible parent? This week, I answer a Coaching Hotline question from a listener who is worried that yelling is damaging her children. You'll hear why shame makes it harder to change, how to separate a behavior from your identity, and why seeing this as a skills gap instead of a character flaw gives you the ability to actually grow.Submit your own question here and it might get answered on a future episode: unfuckyourbrain.com/coachinghotlineGet full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://schoolofnewfeministthought.com/517Follow along on Instagram: instagram.com/karaloewentheil/