Inside the NXIVM Cult: Sarah Edmondson's story - Part 1
Inside the NXIVM Cult: Sarah Edmondson's story - Part 1  
Podcast: Reinvention Room with Allison Hare
Published On: Thu Nov 06 2025
Description: If you think you’d never fall for a cult, think again.The NXIVM cult didn’t lure the weak — it attracted smart, curious, ambitious people looking for growth and belonging. People just like us.And right in the middle of it was Sarah Edmondson, a high-ranking member who helped blow it wide open in The New York Times and HBO’s The Vow.In this conversation, we unpack how something that looked like empowerment turned into manipulation — and how the need to belong can become a weapon.Sarah shares what actually happened inside NXIVM, how coercive control disguised itself as “self-improvement,” and the exact moment she realized she was part of something dark.We talk about the psychology that keeps smart people compliant, the power structures that mirrored everyday life, and what breaking free really cost her.It’s part cult exposé, part human study — and all about reclaiming your voice when someone else has tried to own it.What You’ll Learn in This EpisodeHow the NXIVM cult disguised coercive control as personal growthThe psychology of belonging and why smart people get trappedThe moment Sarah Edmondson decided to blow it all openHow language and hierarchy keep people obedient without forceWhat the NXIVM story teaches us about modern cults and powerResources MentionedPodcast: A Little Bit Culty hosted by Sarah Edmondson & Nippy AmesPre-Order new book: A Little Bit CultyThe Vow (HBO docuseries)Scarred by Sarah Edmondson (book)Sarah Edmondson’s website – sarahedmondson.com Quotes (from Sarah Edmondson)“Cults don’t prey on weakness — they prey on hope.” 09:2409:2409:24“I didn’t wake up and think, ‘Oh God, I’m in a cult.’ It was a slow drip of trust and fear.” 15:0215:0215:02“The brand became my evidence. It was the proof we weren’t crazy.” 27:1827:1827:18“I had to reclaim my story before someone else told it for me.” 34:4534:4534:45“Once you understand coercive control, you start seeing it everywhere.” 42:1142:1142:11 Timestamps (Key Moments)0:00 Intro – How NXIVM hooked smart people5:40 Sarah joins NXIVM and finds community12:55 The early red flags everyone missed22:18 The branding and Sarah’s breaking point30:04 The New York Times story that blew it open42:00 The psychology of control and obedience52:33 Outro – Reclaiming power after indoctrination Tips / TakeawaysBelonging is a human need — and that’s what makes it so exploitable.Coercive control often sounds like self-improvement until you question it.Recovery starts with reclaiming your own definition of truth and power. Be sure to rate, review, and follow this podcast on your player and also, connect with me IRL for more goodness and life-changing stuff.Schedule a FREE podcast clarity call with me - Your future audience is out there. Talk to them!Sign up for the free Reinvention Roadmap weekly emailAllisonHare.comFollow me on Instagram, LinkedIn, Facebook, and YouTube.DOWNLOAD the free podcast equipment guide- No guesswork, no google rabbit holes, start recording todayReb3l Dance Fitness - Try it at home! Free month with this link.Personal Brand - need help building yours? Schedule a call with me here and let's discuss.Feedback and Contact:: allison@allisonhare.com