Negotiating for Pleasure: How to Speak Up, Sync Up, and Level Up Your Sex Life | Sexual Health
Negotiating for Pleasure: How to Speak Up, Sync Up, and Level Up Your Sex Life | Sexual Health  
Podcast: Please Me! Podcast with Eve
Published On: Wed Nov 05 2025
Description: In this episode of Please Me!, Eve sits down with Dr. Jen Kennedy, leading sexologist, couples therapist, and founder of pleasureproject.com, for an honest conversation about sexual dissatisfaction, low libido, and intimacy in long-term relationships. Together they unpack how anxiety, stress, and emotional disconnection can lower desire—and how partners can rebuild passion through vulnerability, open communication, and sexual confidence. Learn why “low libido” is often misunderstood, how self-care and emotional safety influence arousal, and practical ways to handle mismatched timing with empathy, curiosity, and consent. Dr. Jen also shares insights from her signature course Pleasure Circle and joins Eve for a realistic role-play demo that models how to talk about sex, navigate discomfort, and negotiate for mutual pleasure without shame or defensiveness. This episode is a must-listen for anyone exploring sexual wellness, relationship communication, desire discrepancies, or erotic connection in the context of modern intimacy. Connect with Guests Guest: Dr. Jen Kennedy — pleasureproject.comListen to her previous episode: Curiosity in the Bedroom: Enhance Skills with Sensate Focus, Toys & Masturbation | Sex Education https://open.spotify.com/episode/2DgXqdxhaAeWRzhs1t7v7j?si=96Nm5PhlSlae34hOsQlEeA Use code: please me for 10% off Dr Kennedy's course Connect with Eve 15-Minute Discovery Call with Eve: https://calendly.com/pleasemebyevecreations/discovery-call Book a Coaching or Pelvic Health PT Session: https://calendly.com/pleasemebyevecreations/physical-therapy-acoustic-wave-dry-needling-appt Join Patreon for early releases & ad-free episodes: patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Please Me! Website: pleaseme.online Join Eve’s Substack Newsletter — Your Weekly Turn-On: Eve Hall | Substack Subscribe to Eve’s Column — Big Clit Energy™: A Please Me! Series in ASN Lifestyle Magazine: asnlifestylemagazine | ASNLifestyleMagazine – United States Partners & Resources Shameless Care: shamelesscare.com – Use code PLEASEME for $15 off testing or medication Give Back Support Earthquake Relief in North Cebu, Philippines: Donate via World Vision Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices