Porn Nerds Break It Down: Fantasy vs. Reality in Adult Entertainment | Sexuality
Porn Nerds Break It Down: Fantasy vs. Reality in Adult Entertainment | Sexuality  
Podcast: Please Me! A Sexuality Podcast
Published On: Wed Jun 25 2025
Description: In this candid and thought-provoking episode of Please Me Podcast, Eve sits down with Kels and Tess, creators of the Porn Nerds podcast miniseries and founders of Squirm, for an honest conversation about sexuality, porn, pleasure, and the importance of communication in sexual wellness. Together, they challenge the idea that porn should serve as sexual education and explore healthier, more effective ways to build confidence, curiosity, and connection in intimate relationships. Kels and Tess share how porn can be a source of inspiration and fantasy while highlighting the importance of understanding the difference between entertainment and real-life intimacy. The conversation also dives into shame, stigma, desire, boundaries, and the role communication plays in creating fulfilling sexual experiences. From discussing fantasies with a partner to navigating relationship dynamics, including non-monogamous relationships, this episode offers practical tools for anyone looking to deepen connection and improve communication around sex. Whether you're single, partnered, or simply curious about how media shapes our understanding of sexuality, this episode provides a thoughtful and empowering perspective on pleasure, consent, and authentic connection. What You'll Learn • Why porn is not a substitute for comprehensive sexual education • How to communicate desires, fantasies, and boundaries with confidence • The role of fantasy in solo and partnered pleasure • How watching porn together can spark meaningful conversations • Why desire should be explored rather than judged • Strategies for navigating boundaries in relationships and non-monogamy • How Squirm helps normalize open conversations about sex Connect With the Guests Kels & Tess Founders of Squirm Website: https://www.squirm.fm Resources from Eve The Sexual Longevity Protocol: https://pleaseme.online/the-sexual-longevity-protocol/ 30-Day Self-Pleasure & Body Reconnection Practices (Free): https://pleaseme.online/the-30-day-self-pleasure-body-reconnection-practices/ Connect With Eve Website: https://pleaseme.online Substack: https://pleaseme.substack.com Patreon (Ad-Free + Bonus Content): https://patreon.com/PleaseMePodcast Be a Guest: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/beaguestonpleasemepodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices