You Trained Them to Treat You This Way
Podcast: Beyond This.....Published On: Tue Jun 23 2026
Description: Send us Fan MailIf you've ever looked at your life and wondered how you became the person who does everything for everyone — this episode is for you.In this deeply personal and unflinching episode, Matilda explores the hidden architecture of people-pleasing: how it gets installed in childhood, how it quietly transfers into our adult relationships, and why so many women in their fifties arrive at a moment of reckoning that looks like a crisis but is actually the first honest conversation they've had with themselves in decades.This isn’t a man-blaming episode, or a marriage-blaming episode. It’s an invitation to look at the model of love you were handed before you were old enough to question it — and to ask, honestly, whether you want to keep building on it.A full guided meditation — “Putting The Ledger Down” — is included at the end to help you move this from your head into your body, where it can actually do something. Live Event BendigoAre You Listening Workshop - connect with your guidesZoom Mediumship DemonstrationMatilda's WebsiteSocial Media LinksPatreonSupport the showSupport the show
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