The Myth of the "Safe Place" with David Lashley
The Myth of the "Safe Place" with David Lashley  
Podcast: The Secure Family Podcast
Published On: Wed May 27 2026
Description: Eyes Wide Open: Staying Safe in "Safe" Places with David Lashley   Andy Murphy hosts the Secure Family Podcast and interviews David Lashley, a courthouse law enforcement professional and Director of Courthouse Security with 25+ years protecting judges, juries, and victims.    David explains how "safe places" like courthouses, restaurants, churches, and schools can become dangerous when people grow comfortable and complacent, especially in familiar environments or when distracted by phones.   Read David Lashley's book: https://amzn.to/3R2V4h9  Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD.  Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad emails 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 Welcome to Secure Family 02:13 Meet David Lashley 03:21 Courthouse Safety Reality 07:01 Handling a Hallway Incident 11:36 Complacency and Comfort 13:38 Spotting Red Flags 16:00 Building an Exit Plan 20:44 Aware Not Paranoid 23:56 Stay Sharp on Duty 27:04 Avoid Looking Like a Target 30:08 Mindset It Can Happen 32:52 Rapid Fire Takeaways 34:39 Flashlight Self Defense 35:59 Where to Find David 36:56 Final Wrap   The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of The Secure Dad, LLC.   The Secure Dad LLC makes every effort to provide accurate, up-to-date information, but no guarantee is made regarding the completeness, reliability, or accuracy of the content in this podcast or any related materials. Information may change over time, and inadvertent errors or omissions may occur. The Secure Dad LLC is not liable for any losses, injuries, or damages arising from the use of, or reliance on, any information provided.   The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark of The Secure Dad, LLC. This post contains affiliate links. If you use these links to buy something, a commission may be earned. All rights reserved.