297: Disney Isn’t a Must (And Vacations Won’t Fix Your Life)
Podcast: Oh Crap with JamiePublished On: Thu Feb 12 2026
Description: A mom in our community asked a question that I think a lot of parents secretly wrestle with:“Do I have to do Disney? Isn’t it a right of childhood?”In this episode, I break down why the answer is no — and why we need to rethink what vacations are actually for.We talk about:Why time off from labor is a human right — but travel is notThe difference between a vacation and travelingWhy starting young matters if you want good travelersThe mental load moms carry on family tripsWhy kid-centric vacations are often a bustOverstimulation, walking, waiting, and corporate gift shopsWhy kids don’t suddenly become grateful in magical environmentsHow expectations ruin vacationsWhy living for your next trip is a red flagThe connection between social media, boredom, and dissatisfactionWhy real life feels dull when your phone becomes your dopamine sourceHow to create magic in the mundaneYou are going to have the kid you have.You are going to have the spouse you have.You are going to have the life you have — just with more glitz.Vacations don’t fix dissatisfaction.They amplify expectations.If you’re living for your next break, it may be time to rebuild your daily life instead.As always — put your phone down and have a beautiful day.👉 Sign up for my newsletterJamie's InstagramOh Crap! Cafe Parenting CommunityOh Crap! Potty TrainingOh Crap! I Have a ToddlerPaleovalley Protein SticksTherapeeBrick for Phones(Save 10%)
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