🎧 Inside the OCD Mind Loop: Valerie Breaks the Silence on Mental Health
🎧 Inside the OCD Mind Loop: Valerie Breaks the Silence on Mental Health  
Podcast: Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads
Published On: Tue May 06 2025
Description: In this powerful episode, Valerie Probstfeld returns to share what it’s really like to live with Obsessive Compulsive Disorder—beyond the clichés. From invisible mental spirals and postpartum anxiety to shame, resilience, and rewiring your thoughts, Valarie brings deep insight and heartfelt storytelling. Whether you live with OCD, support someone who does, or want to understand your mental health better, this conversation will stay with you. We're proud to be your go-to space for mental health conversations. 🏆 2024 People's Choice Podcast Award – Best Health Podcast 🏆 2024 Women In Podcasting Award – Best Mental Health Podcast 🎉 Over 1 million downloads! Have feedback? Please tell us what you think! 👉 https://castfeedback.com/67521f0bde0b101c7b10442a (Voice or written input welcome!) Quote of the Episode: “Thoughts are just thoughts—we give them too much credit.” – Valerie Probstfeld What This Episode Covers: This episode dives into Valerie’s lived experience with OCD—the obsessive thoughts, the quiet compulsions, and the constant mental “loops” that many never see. She opens up about the evolution of her symptoms, her relationship with shame, and the tools she uses today to cope and reclaim control, including mindfulness, gratitude, and naming her thoughts. We also explore the impact of media like Inside Out 2 and Disney’s portrayals of emotions and how writing has helped her reframe the narrative inside her mind. Guest: Valerie Probstfeld Valerie is a nurse practitioner, writer, speaker, and founder of To Mom Is To Love—a platform focused on mental wellness, gratitude, and living authentically. She’s a mom of three and firmly believes in creating mental space through mindfulness, neuroplasticity, and storytelling. Website: https://www.tomomistolove.com/ Podcast: https://www.tomomistolove.com/podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/valerie_probstfeld/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090022943012 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQhKAdlZP8_tq2-zv3CqhrQ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/valerie-probstfeld-23022448/ New Book Available: To Mom Is to Love: Pioneering a New Kind of Motherhood, Paperback will be available on May 9th Key Takeaways: OCD is not just about neatness or cleanliness—it often involves internal, invisible distress. Labeling thoughts as “OCD” helps reduce their power and shame. Emotional awareness in children’s media (like Inside Out 2) is helping normalize mental health conversations. Actionable Tips: Physically break the OCD loop: walk, clean, or move your body. Use the phrase “this is the OCD, not me” to reclaim your thoughts. Counteract negative thinking with gratitude and minor mental resets. Timestamps & Chapters: 00:01:12 – Welcome back, Valarie 00:04:55 – What OCD feels like beyond the stereotypes 00:11:25 – Intrusive thoughts and perfectionism in motherhood 00:25:13 – Real-life OCD loop example: “I thought I hit someone.” 00:28:00 – How medication felt like putting on glasses for the mind 00:36:00 – Disney movies and emotional education 00:47:02 – Healing through journaling and narrative therapy Resources Mentioned: Brain Lock by Dr. Jeffrey M. Schwartz Andrew Huberman’s Podcast (on OCD and neuroplasticity) The Body Keeps the Score by Dr. Bessel van der Kolk John Gottman’s 5:1 Positive-Negative Ratio Pixar’s Inside Out 2 Subscribe, Rate & Review: Enjoy this episode? Please help us keep the conversations going! 👉 https://goesoninourheads.net/add-your-podcast-reviews #MentalHealthPodcast #MentalHealthAwareness #Grex #DirtySkittles #ToMomIsToLove #OCDAwareness #IntrusiveThoughts #NeurodivergentVoices #MindsetMatters #NormalizeOCD #HealingJourney #SelfCompassion #EmotionalWellness #StopTheStigma #TherapyWorks #MentalHealthSupport #AuthenticLiving #PostpartumAnxiety #MentalWellness ***************************************************************************If You Need Support, Reach OutIf you or someone you know is facing mental health challenges, please don’t hesitate to reach out to a crisis hotline in your area. Remember, it’s OK not to be OK—talking to someone can make all the difference.United States: Call or Text 988 — 988lifeline.orgCanada: Call or Text 988 — 988.caWorldwide: Find a HelplineMental Health Resources and Tools: The Help HubStay Connected with G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesOfficial Website: goesoninourheads.netFacebook: @shltthatgoesoninourheadsInstagram: @grex_and_dirtyskittlesLinkedIn: G-Rex and Dirty SkittlesJoin Our Newsletter: Sign Up HereMerch Store: goesoninourheads.shopAudio Editing by NJz Audio Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.