Ep. 150: Why You Can Know What to Do and Still Not Do It?!
Ep. 150: Why You Can Know What to Do and Still Not Do It?!  
Podcast: The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}
Published On: Tue Sep 12 2023
Description: You’ve probably wondered how you can know the neuroscience of behavior and have a toolbox full of tools…and still struggle to actually USE those tools.Most parents have the thought “If I know what to do, why aren’t I actually doing it???”It’s not because you’re a bad parent.It’s because you’re dysregulated, have a sensitized stress response system, and probably have some implicit memories that leave you vulnerable to being triggered.In this episode you’ll learn:How very little of our behavior comes from conscious thoughtWhy your sensitized stress response system leaves you vulnerableWhy regulated, connected parents who feel safe parent the way they want toResources mentioned in this podcast:Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors released September 21. CLICK HERE to choose from a variety of pre-order bonuses, including a signed copy or 20% off.When Parenting is Traumatic {EP 95}Beginning of the memory series: Trauma, Memory, & Behavior Part 1 {EP 90}Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/knowwhattodoLet's hang out this summer at two different trainings for professionals!Therapy with Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors- June 1 & 2 in Syracuse, NY RobynGobbel.com/NYPresence in Practice- July 15, 16, & 17 in Rockford, MI (outside Grand Rapids) RobynGobbel.com/Michigan2026 :::Grab a copy of USA Today Best Selling book Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors robyngobbel.com/bookJoin us in The Club for more support! robyngobbel.com/TheClubSign up on the waiting list for the 2027 Cohorts of the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Immersion Program for Professionals robyngobbel.com/ImmersionFollow Me On:FacebookInstagramOver on my website you can find:Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)LOTS & LOTS of FREE ResourcesOngoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The ClubYear-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: The Baffling Behavior Training Institute’s (BBTI) Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With)