Unlearn the Habits of Playing Small: From People-Pleasing to Purpose-Led Leadership with Arivee Vargas
Unlearn the Habits of Playing Small: From People-Pleasing to Purpose-Led Leadership with Arivee Vargas  
Podcast: Owning Her Authority Podcast | For Ascending Women Ready to Boldly Amplify Their Impact
Published On: Mon Feb 09 2026
Description: In this episode, we are joined by Executive Coach and Leadership Strategist Arivee Vargas to help high-achievers transition from fear-based habits to purpose-led leadership. She breaks down the common patterns that keep women playing small—including people-pleasing and perfecting—and introduces a transformative framework designed to foster deep self-trust and personal alignment.Tune in to learn:How to break free from the exhausting internal and external pressure to have it all together and the fear of not being enough.The secrets to identifying the 5P patterns of high performance—Pressure, People-Pleasing, Perfecting, Proving, and Performing—that often stem from a childhood need for compliance.How to replace fear-based habits with a framework built on Purpose, Priorities, Presence, Power, and Permission.Practical ways to use journaling and micro-decisions to honestly name your struggles and start leading a life that feels full and alive.Through honest self-reflection and Arivee’s expert guidance, you will learn how to stop pretending and start leading with sustainable high performance. Free Gift: Boundary ToolkitGrab your FREE Boundary Toolkit: 3 Proven Strategies to protect your time, reclaim your energy, and feel more in control at work and in life. Perfect for anyone done with depletion and ready to lead from a place of clarity and intention.Arivee's Giveaway Contribution: Bestselling Book Your Time To RiseEnter to a win a copy of Arivee's book, Your Time to Rise: Unlearn Limiting Beliefs, Unlock Your Power and Unleash Your Truest Self! Connect with Arivee: Website | Podcast | Instagram---Connect with Kate: mskatehouse.com | the live by design blueprint | @mskatehouse | mastermind | courses | speaking | FREE overcoming overwhelm masterclass