The Psychology Behind Infidelity: Why People Cheat w/ Dr. Nicolle Zapien
Podcast: The Psychology of RelationshipsPublished On: Thu Jun 18 2026
Description: Infidelity is one of the most painful experiences in relationships—but the psychology behind why people cheat is often far more complex than betrayal alone. Dr. Nicolle Zapien, licensed psychotherapist and sex therapist, joins Julie & Yue to unpack the emotional, relational, and psychological factors that can lead to infidelity. Together, they explore what cheating reveals about attachment, unmet needs, emotional disconnection, and personal responsibility, along with the difficult question many couples face afterward: can trust truly be rebuilt?In this episode, you’ll learn:The most common psychological drivers behind infidelityWhy some people may be more prone to cheating patternsHow unmet needs and emotional disconnection play a roleWhat rebuilding trust after betrayal actually requiresHow to determine whether reconciliation is possibleTo learn more about Dr. Nicolle Zapien visit https://www.drzapien.com/Want to feel more connected to your partner? Download Brick and get 10% off at https://www.getbrick.app/PORSHOWOur Sponsors:* Omaha Steaks: Try the Burger Perfection Flight at OmahaSteaks.com today. That’s 20 premium steak burgers for just $79.99. Plus, get $35 off with promo code BEEF. * Quince: Download the Quince App for app-exclusive offers and get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/por* Talkiatry: Complete the short assessment and get matched with an in-network psychiatrist in just a few minutes at talkiatry.com/por* The Dare: Go get the book wherever books are sold or through https://www.kensingtonbooks.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
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