Emotional Intelligence is key - MAJ (RET) Cynthia Brasfield - Overcoming all obstacles
Emotional Intelligence is key - MAJ (RET) Cynthia Brasfield - Overcoming all obstacles  
Podcast: Military Retirement Podcast
Published On: Mon Jan 02 2023
Description: CHAPTERS 00:00 - intro 03:47 - Morning Routine 08:40 - First joining the military 19:38 - The last 18 months before retirement - Getting passed over for LTC   24:12 - Why SFL-TAP is critical at 24 months and Finding your Retirement Services Officer (Army Reserve) 25:42 - Breaking down the MEB process, PEBLOs,  IDES, NARSUMs, DA-3947 34:56:30 - Breaking down the PEB - VA disability ratings, DRSAC, DOD vs VA ratings, Tricare for life, CRDP, Early Retirement Reduced Age Policy (ADOS, MOB, etc post 2008) 45:02 - why it is important to answer your phone - Helping a 10 year Veteran finally get his retirement pay 53:24 - Resume writing class was the most important part of SFL-TAP 59:24 - The dire need for teachers out in the civilian world - troops to teachers no longer a thing 01:03:41 - planning as if you are not getting promoted - paying off all the bills 5 years out 01:07:27 - Financial readiness is the key wether new Soldier or retiring 01:12:08 - How to see promotion trends - knowing when you are going to be passed over 01:15:00 - Missing the bond and family unity in the military - and the ability to mentor they youth - helping just one Soldier can make the difference 01:21:41 - Emotional Intelligence - what is it? 01:26:10 - Legacy - Just be yourself 01:27:35 - The importance of mentorship - it could save someones life 01:33:23 - advice to your 16 year old self 01:35:44 - what is one book that had the most impact on your life? 01:41:01 - A personal tragedy and how I made it back to stable ground 01:51:31 - You are shaped by your adversities 01:53:20 - some parting words of wisdom - Get your 20 year letter, Plan for your civilian life, Don’t do stupid crap!, Take advantage of each day!, Be humble, patient, develop emotional intelligence. 02:07:45 - securing a job through indeed   Thanks to the following companies who help make this possible for me: Riverside.fm #riversidefm for their amazing software https://riverside.fm/?utm_campaign=campaign_2&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=rewardful&via=john-mcconnell  Aston Element microphones 🎤#astonelement https://www.astonmics.com/EN/product/mics/element-bundle and  Zoom audio recoding PodTrak P4 portable recording solution for the crispy sound https://zoomcorp.com/en/us/podtrak-recorders/podcast-recorders/podtrak-p4/  Davinci Resolve: https://www.blackmagicdesign.comCapCut: https://www.capcut.comand to all the brave men and women out there still protecting our freedom 🫡  some links may result in commissions for the site