When the Fearful Avoidant Falls OUT of LOVE While in A Relationship...
Podcast:The Thais Gibson Podcast Published On: Fri Mar 20 2026 Description: Start Healing Your Attachment Style & Unlock Your Core Needs. Free for 7 Days + Bonus Course for Life! https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/dream-life-free-course?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=dream-life-free-course&utm_medium=organic&utm_content=pod-03-20-26&el=podcast If you identify as Fearful Avoidant and you’ve started feeling emotionally distant, numb, or disconnected in your relationship, this video will help you understand what’s really happening beneath the surface and what to do before you cut and run or shut down completely. Fearful Avoidants often fall out of love while still in the relationship, processing the breakup internally long before it ever ends. In this episode, Thais breaks down the most telling subconscious signs this is happening, why they occur, and how healing; not avoidance, can change the outcome. In This Episode, You’ll Learn: Why stopping conflict is often a bigger red flag than arguing How fantasizing about others points to unmet needs, not necessarily a wrong partner What emotional numbness around closeness really means for Fearful Avoidants How focusing only on your partner’s flaws signals deep deactivation What to do before leaving a relationship so you can walk away with clarity, not regret Timestamps: 00:00 – When the Fearful Avoidant is Falling Out of Love 01:13 – 1. When You No Longer Engage in Conflict 03:54 – 2. If You Fantasize About People Outside of Your Relationship 07:25 – 3. If You Feel Numb Around Closeness 09:36 – Somatic Attachment Healing Course Promo 09:56 – 4. If You’re Focusing on the Negatives in Your Relationship 11:36 – Final Thoughts Meet the Host Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships. Helpful Resources: 🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=attachment-quiz&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 📚 Read the Learning Love Book https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/learning-love?utm_source=podcast&utm_campaign=learning-love&utm_medium=organic&el=podcast 🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes https://attachment.personaldevelopmentschool.com/podcast?page=1 📝 Read the PDS Blog https://blog.personaldevelopmentschool.com/ Let’s Connect on Socials: 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/ 📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool 🎵 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thaisgibson 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thepersonaldevelopmentschool/