Tony Dungy: Am I Giving My Kids Enough Freedom?
Tony Dungy: Am I Giving My Kids Enough Freedom?  
Podcast: All Pro Dad Podcast
Published On: Mon Apr 07 2025
Description: Do you let your kids play out of your sight? Does the thought of them being off on their own unsupervised send you into a fearful spiral? You’re not alone. Parents around the world are trying to balance offering their kids freedom while still keeping them safe. Ted Lowe, founder of Family First Mark Merrill, and Pro Football Hall of Famer Tony Dungy examine this tricky parenting problem in today’s episode.  Parents have become increasingly more protective in recent generations. That’s put a limit on their kids’ freedom. Dads can’t supervise every moment. We must get comfortable with our kids taking on calculated, age-appropriate risks. That’s how they build maturity.Why This MattersEarning freedom is important to kids, but parents can’t give it away too quickly or too easily. Key Takeaways·       “Stranger danger” fears caused problems: There is a 1 in 720,000 chance of a child getting kidnapped, yet parents are afraid to let kids out of their sight. ·       There’s no one-size-fits-all formula: “Fair is not always equal,” says Dungy. It is something that he learned from his dad. Privileges won’t always look uniform in your home. That doesn’t mean things are “unfair.”·       Your family rules weigh more: Tony put it this way: “Dungys are different. The Dungys don’t look like the Smiths or the Joneses. Just because someone else does or doesn’t do something doesn’t impact us. If people don’t like that, that’s OK.”Important Episode Timestamps00:00 - 00:54 | Introduction & Meet the Guests00:54 - 02:01 | Big Question: Should I Try Free-Range Parenting?02:01 - 06:10 | Growing Up with Freedom: Tony & Mark’s Childhood Stories06:10 - 10:57 | How Parenting Has Changed Over the Generations10:57 - 16:33 | The Challenge of Social Media & Digital Freedom16:33 - 21:24 | Balancing Physical & Emotional Safety21:24 - 26:42 | Setting Boundaries: Fair Isn’t Always Equal26:42 - 30:57 | The Power of Family Identity & Clear Expectations30:57 - 33:18 | Modeling the Right Behavior for Kids33:18 - 34:57 | Pro Move of the WeekAPD Pro Move:Remember to set boundaries in love. All Pro Dad Resources:5 Expectations That Hurt Your SonWe love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us: Ted Lowe on LinkedIn Bobby Lewis on LinkedIn BJ Foster on LinkedIn Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Get All Pro Dad merch! EXTRAS: Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter)Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox.This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store.Get great content for moms at iMOM.com