What's the Hardest Phase of Parenting?
What's the Hardest Phase of Parenting?  
Podcast: All Pro Dad Podcast
Published On: Mon Jun 02 2025
Description: Diapers are hard. Terrible twos are no picnic. Middle and high school? Prepare for battle, Dad. It seems like every phase of parenting presents its own unique challenges. In this episode of the All Pro Dad Podcast, host Ted Lowe is joined by BJ Foster and Bobby Lewis to talk about the hardest age to parent. If your kids are little, you may be wondering if parenting ever gets easier. It depends on the kids and depends on their age. The truth is, no matter how tough today feels, your role as a dad is important during every age and stage of your child’s life. So, show up and give it your all, even on the hardest days.  Why This MattersEvery season is hard. Embrace today’s challenges because your children need you. Key TakeawaysIt All Goes FastStages Don’t Last ForeverFind People To Help YouRemember the 3 Ls: Kids are Limited, then Learning, then LeavingImportant Episode Timestamps 00:00 – 00:55 | Introduction & Big Question of the Week00:55 – 03:16 | The Hardest Phase? The One You’re In03:16 – 05:11 | The "Dark Ages" of 0–405:11 – 07:12 | The Teen Years: Logic, Emotions & Everything In Between07:12 – 09:02 | Finding Joy in the Middle of the Hard09:02 – 12:00 | Letter to the Dad Who’s Struggling12:00 – 14:11 | The 3 L's of Childhood: Limited, Learning, Leaving14:11 – 16:53 | Don’t Do It Alone: Finding Support in Tough Seasons16:53 – 20:26 | Survival Tips: Self-Care, Small Wins & Staying PresentAPD Pro Move:Remember that you’re doing better than you think. All Pro Dad Resources:8 Tips For Traveling With Toddlers and Preschoolers5 Lies We Believe About Our Teens3 Ways to Raise Adults In TrainingListen Again:Episode 65: Are Your Expectations Crushing Your Teens?Episode 55: Problems Middle Schoolers Run IntoWe love feedback, but can't reply without your email address. Message us your thoughts and contact info!Connect with Us: Ted Lowe on LinkedIn Bobby Lewis on LinkedIn BJ Foster on LinkedIn Subscribe on Apple Podcasts Get All Pro Dad merch! EXTRAS: Follow us: Instagram | Facebook | X (Twitter)Join 200,000+ other dads by subscribing to the All Pro Dad Play of the Day. Get daily fatherhood ideas, insight, and inspiration straight to your inbox.This episode's blog can also be viewed here on AllProDad.com. Like the All Pro Dad gear and mugs? Get your own in the All Pro Dad store.Get great content for moms at iMOM.com