Ep. 64 This Widow’s Suicide Story Will Both Break You + Heal You | Melissa Methven on Love, Loss, and Light
Podcast: Heidi’s Lane with Heidi PowellPublished On: Mon Jun 16 2025
Description: This conversation wrecked me in the best way. In this episode, I sit down with Melissa Methven, a mother, author, breathwork facilitator, and widow who lost her husband to suicide. Melissa shares the raw truth behind her picture-perfect life and how grief shattered and ultimately awakened her. We talk about finding purpose after loss, raising children through trauma, and the painful yet beautiful path of healing. Her courage to speak what most people hide is something I’ll never forget. If you've ever felt broken or silenced by grief, this is the episode your heart needs.Watch the full episode on YouTube here or head to https://www.youtube.com/@RealHeidiPowellResources mentioned in this episode:Melissa’s book: The Truth Behind the Smiles: https://amzn.to/4j07QFF Melissa’s podcast: Not Alone with Melissa Sue MethvenTV segment about Melissa’s story: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7MZIqKP1U4o Here are the key moments from the episode:0:41 Meeting Melissa and Watching Her Rise6:05 Her Husband’s Death by Suicide9:17 The Day Everything Changed13:12 The Hidden Pain Behind a “Perfect” Life15:04 Suppressing Her Voice and the Toll on Her Health20:02 Telling the Kids Their Dad Was Gone26:00 Leaving Alaska to Start Fresh33:12 Calling Her Pain a Gift39:03 The Weight of Regret and Guilt45:02 Why Telling the Truth Matters54:15 Giving Her Kids Tools She Never Had1:02:13 Living a Life of PurposeConnect with Heidi: Website: https://heidipowell.net/ Email: podcast@heidipowell.netInstagram: @realheidipowellFacebook: Heidi PowellYouTube: @RealHeidiPowell Train with Heidi on her Show Up App: https://www.showupfit.app/ Connect with Melissa Methven:Website: https://www.melissagratitude.life/ Instagram: @melissa_gratitudeFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/tremblaymel Tiktok: @melissa_gratitudeAbout Melissa Methven: Mélissa-Sue Methven was born in Quebec City and raised in Vancouver, BC. In her early 20s, she became a flight attendant, flying globally on commercial and private jets, including trips with celebrities and a U.S. president. In 2006, she moved to Wasilla, Alaska, to be with her husband, Scott, and later became a dental hygienist. After Scott’s passing in 2022, Mélissa, now a widowed mother of two, has devoted her life to helping others navigate grief, reclaim their voice, and live with purpose. Her work is rooted in healing, truth-telling, and empowering others to rise from their deepest pain.
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