Are We Really The Average Of The Five People We Spend The Most Time With?
Are We Really The Average Of The Five People We Spend The Most Time With?  
Podcast: Let Me Speak To A Manager
Published On: Sun Aug 03 2025
Description: Ian Mathews and Frank Cava reflect on the importance of networks in achieving success, drawing parallels between their personal experiences and the lives of iconic figures like Hulk Hogan and Dion Sanders. They discuss how the people we surround ourselves with can significantly influence our ambitions, behaviors, and ultimately our success. The conversation emphasizes the need to audit one's network, recognize when to let go of unproductive relationships, and the value of both strong and weak ties in personal and professional growth.Chapters00:00 Remembering Icons: Hulk Hogan and Dion Sanders03:08 The Importance of Network in Success05:46 Surrounding Yourself with the Right People08:47 The Impact of Changing Networks11:50 Building a New Network After Leaving a Job14:39 Social Contagion and Its Effects17:55 The Balance of Ambition and Contentment20:33 Firing Friend Groups for Personal Growth27:57 Navigating Friendships and Networks29:48 The Concept of Enough32:36 Homophily and Its Impact on Relationships34:07 Bringing Value to New Networks36:53 Understanding What Truly Matters41:50 Auditing Your Network48:40 Investing in the Right Networks