When Obedience Isn’t The Whole Answer for the Christian Parent
When Obedience Isn’t The Whole Answer for the Christian Parent  
Podcast: Connected Families Podcast
Published On: Mon Sep 14 2026
Description: What happens when the parenting approach you were told God requires doesn’t match the child God gave you?  It’s a question a lot of Christian parents inwardly carry, and it’s named out loud in this episode.  Host Stacy Bellward sits down with Certified Parent Coaches Katie Johnson and Lyssa Stoyko to walk through the Connected Families Framework™ layer by layer. You’ll hear one family’s story of real change, plus two role-play scenarios that show what a different response sounds like in an ordinary moment at home.  Stay to the end. This episode closes with a tribute to Jim and Lynne Jackson as they step into their new roles as Founders Emeritus. Key Takeaways: Why obedience-first parenting leaves some families stuck, and where to go from there What’s happening underneath your child’s anger, and how to respond to it What the same hard moment sounds like before and after the Framework, through two role-plays Practical tools from the Coach and Correct levels of the Connected Families Framework Mentioned in this Podcast:  Connected Families Framework Discipline That Connects With Your Child’s Heart online course cf community Upcoming Events with Lyssa Stoyko Leave a Review – Apple Podcasts or Spotify Isaiah 42:3 Philippians 1:6 Ephesians 4:22-24 2 Corinthians 10:5 James 1:27 Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! Guest Bio: Lyssa Stoyko – As a foster and adoptive mom, Bible teacher, and Connected Families Certified Parent Coach, Lyssa Stoyko understands the beauty and complexity of raising children from hard places. She helps parents use a gospel-centered, brain and trauma-informed approach to strengthen connection and grow in grace-filled parenting. Lyssa also hosts the “Moms Take Ten”  podcast, encouraging moms to know God more deeply in the midst of motherhood. She is passionate about helping moms discover that parenting is less about knowing it all and more about knowing Jesus. She lives in Illinois with her husband, three children, and puppy. Want to keep this conversation going? Join us inside the cf community — a faith-anchored, coach-supported space where parents grow together. Reflect on episodes like this one, ask hard questions, and celebrate the small wins alongside parents from around the world. 👉 Join the cf community today Love the podcast? Leave a review to help other parents find shows like this one. This podcast was made possible by members of The Table, whose monthly support creates a ripple effect of change for generations to come. We’d love to have you take a seat at The Table! © 2026 Connected Families Not sure where to start? Many parents begin with Discipline That Connects With Your Child’s Heart, a course that introduces the Connected Families Framework and the foundation for everything that follows. Explore this course