How to Love Your Stepchildren Well with Ron Deal
Podcast: Connected Families PodcastPublished On: Tue May 20 2025
Description: In this bonus episode, Jim Jackson and Ron Deal discuss the unique challenges and opportunities of blended families through the lens of the Connected Families Framework. Ron, a bestselling author and host of the Family Life Blended podcast, shares his 30+ years of expertise in step-family dynamics. The conversation explores how step-parents can build emotional safety with children who may be resistant to new relationships. Ron emphasizes that safety must precede love, explaining that children often bristle against a step-parent’s affection due to grief, loyalty conflicts, or simply not being ready for that relationship. Key insights include: The importance of “pacing” with children at their readiness level How step-parents can acknowledge their role without trying to replace biological parents Practical approaches to discipline and household rules when facing resistance Building respectful relationships with biological parents in the other household Mentioned in this podcast: Galatians 6:1 Romans 12 The Smart Step Family – Ron’s comprehensive book on blended family dynamics Building Love Together in Blended Families – Ron co-authored with Gary Chapman, integrating love languages with step-family principles FamilyLife Blended Podcast The Smart Step Family video curriculum – Email blended@familylife.org for free online access The Mindful Marriage Certificate in Blended Family Ministry – online training through FamilyLife Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting! Share encouragement with other parents–leave a review where you listen most. *This podcast was made possible by members of The Table, whose monthly support creates a ripple effect of change for generations to come. We’d love to have you take a seat at The Table!* Guest Bio: Ron is the bestselling author of more than a dozen books and resources, a licensed marriage and family therapist, podcast host, and a Senior Director for the ministry of FamilyLife®. In addition, Ron is one of the most widely read and referenced authors on blended families. His latest #1 Amazon bestselling book, The Mindful Marriage, coauthored with his wife Nan and Terry and Sharon Hargrave brings the proven principles of Restoration Therapy to a mass audience. The Deals live in Little Rock, Arkansas. Learn more at RonDeal.org. © 2025 Connected Families
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