The Dad Edge Podcast
The Dad Edge Podcast

The Dad Edge Podcast is a movement. It is a strong community of Fathers who all share a set of values. Larry Hagner, founder of The Dad Edge, breaks down common challenges of fatherhood, making them easy to understand and overcome. Tackling the world of Fatherhood can be a daunting task when we try to do it alone. The mission of The Dad Edge Podcast is to help you become the best, strongest, and happiest version of yourself so that you can help guide your kids to the best version of themselves. Simple as that. Everything you need and all of our resources can be found at thedadedge.com/podcast

In this powerful conversation, I sit down with Dr. Ross Greene, clinical psychologist and creator of the Collaborative and Proactive Solutions (CPS) model, to unpack why traditional rewards and punishments often make behavior worse — not better. We dive deep into why "because I said so" stops working, what your child's frustration is actually communicating, and how to shift from authoritarian control to collaborative leadership that builds trust, accountability, and critical thinking.   If you've ever thought, "Why is this not working anymore?" this episode will give you a radically different lens — and practical tools you can use immediately.     Timeline Summary [0:00] Why power struggles are so common in parenting [2:00] Introducing Dr. Ross Greene and the CPS model  [6:17] Why rewards and punishments don't solve the real problem  [8:33] Concerning behavior as a frustration response  [12:04] The 3-step collaborative problem-solving process explained  [16:19] Real-life example: solving teeth brushing battles with a 3-year-old  [30:56] Curfew conflict and how to navigate teenage resistance  [37:16] How collaborative parenting builds critical thinking  [41:56] Why authoritarian parenting may cause long-term harm  [47:06] Developmental variability — why every child is different  [49:23] Why noncompliance is informative, not defiance  [56:31] Accountability through collaboration — not punishment      Five Key Takeaways Concerning behavior is a signal, not a character flaw. It communicates an unsolved problem.  Rewards and punishments modify behavior — they don't solve the underlying issue.  The 3-step CPS process (Empathy, Define Adult Concern, Invitation) reduces conflict and builds trust.  Noncompliance is information. It tells you an expectation may exceed your child's current skill set.  Collaborative leadership builds accountability, emotional regulation, and critical thinking.      Links & Resources Dad Edge Alliance Preview Call: http://thedadedge.com/preview Dad Edge Business Boardroom (Mastermind): https://thedadedge.com/mastermind Dr. Ross Greene — Lives in the Balance (Free Resources): https://livesinthebalance.org Episode Show Notes & Resources: https://thedadedge.com/1442   Closing Remark   If this episode challenged how you think about discipline, accountability, and leadership at home, don't just sit on it — put it into practice. Try the empathy step tonight. Lead with curiosity. Solve one unsolved problem.   If this conversation impacted you, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. The way we parent today shapes the leaders of tomorrow.   From my heart to yours — go out and live legendary.
In this powerful behind-the-scenes conversation, I sit down with Marc Hildebrand — former LAPD sergeant turned high-performance coach — to unpack what men are actually thinking before they decide to step into brotherhood. We break down the hidden anxiety, ego, embarrassment, and "mind talk" that keeps men isolated, stuck, and spinning in quiet defeat.   You'll hear raw audio from one of our members, Tim Cox, as he shares what life looked like before he joined — the mental spiral, the weight gain, the doctor's warning, the loneliness, and the breakthrough that changed everything. This episode isn't just about business or health. It's about identity. It's about the stories we tell ourselves. And it's about the moment a man decides he's no longer doing life alone.     Timeline Summary [0:00] Why men feel defeated before they ever ask for help [3:37] Marc Hildebrand's transformation from overweight LAPD sergeant to coach [9:20] Tim's confession: anxiety, mind talk, and feeling like a fraud [11:01] The danger of "should" statements and internal pressure [17:22] Ego, embarrassment, and the fear of being seen [24:58] The doctor's ultimatum: insulin or change [27:01] Dopamine, food, and emotional coping [30:52] Rock bottom isn't a place — it's a decision [34:22] Why you shouldn't wait until crisis hits [37:54] "You're not alone" — the most powerful realization [41:03] The myth of the lone wolf [44:21] Inside Base Camp: the first 6 weeks of transformation [46:19] The BRAVE Man Code framework explained [49:57] Thinking differently and leveling up identity [53:39] Why Larry left a lucrative corporate career to build The Dad Edge     Five Key Takeaways Rock bottom is not a location — it's a decision to stop going lower. Ego often disguises itself as embarrassment and self-protection. Isolation amplifies anxiety — brotherhood dissolves it. Health transformation starts with identity, not tactics. You don't have to wait for crisis to change direction.     Links & Resources Dad Edge Alliance Preview Call: http://thedadedge.com/preview Dad Edge Business Boardroom (Mastermind): https://thedadedge.com/mastermind Episode Show Notes & Resources: https://thedadedge.com     Closing Remark If you've been telling yourself you'll change when it "gets bad enough," this is your sign not to wait. You're not alone — and you don't have to figure this out by yourself.   If this episode hit home, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. Let's change the trajectory of fathers, families, and future generations.   From my heart to yours — go out and live legendary.
In this powerful conversation, I sit down with Mat Lewczenko — entrepreneur, coach, and author of The Entrepreneur's Regret — to unpack what it feels like to be winning on paper while quietly losing at home. Mat shares his story of growing up as a Polish political refugee, building success through grit and discipline, and eventually finding himself at the top of his professional game… but emotionally empty, disconnected, and on the verge of self-sabotage.   We talk about the silent epidemic facing high-performing entrepreneurs — entrepreneurial drift — and what it takes to reclaim your nights, weekends, relationships, and sanity. This episode is a wake-up call for any man chasing more while feeling less.     Timeline Summary [0:00] The concept of "Rock Top" — succeeding outwardly while unraveling inwardly [1:41] Mat's family escaping Poland as political refugees before martial law [3:02] Growing up in an immigrant household built on pride, discipline, and ownership [10:10] Early lessons on earning what you want and respecting what you own [17:47] The tension between giving kids a better life without raising them soft [24:58] Mat's pivot from theater professor to real estate entrepreneur [30:29] The breaking point — winning at work while losing at home [31:31] The porch conversation where his wife said, "You don't get to do this" [35:29] Realizing he couldn't even name his core values [36:33] The North Star Values process and regaining alignment [40:52] The three pillars — Leadership, Love, and Life [41:30] Why being "all in" where you are eliminates guilt and fragmentation [45:28] The danger of climbing the wrong mountain [47:06] Why you must go back through the clouds to choose a new summit [54:28] Small hinges swing big doors — 15 intentional minutes a day [58:32] Presence over presents — how to win back connection at home     Five Key Takeaways Rock Top is real — you can be crushing it professionally while quietly collapsing personally. Clarity of core values simplifies decision-making and eliminates internal friction. Entrepreneurial drift happens gradually, then suddenly — awareness must come before crisis. Being fully present where you are removes guilt and fragmentation. Small, consistent intentional actions create massive relational change.     Links & Resources The Dad Edge Business Boardroom: https://thedadedge.com/mastermind Mat Lewczenko on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mat-lewczenko/ Mat Lewczenko on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mat.lewczenko/?hl=en Mat's Podcast (Buzzsprout): https://www.buzzsprout.com/1956169/episodes Mat Lewczenko — Additional Resource: https://ifgrxppecbxjqjkoyvl7.app.clientclub.net/courses/offers/82985e7c-be3c-41c2-b004-8e703e688431?fbclid=IwRlRTSAP-xitleHRuA2FlbQIxMABzcnRjBmFwcF9pZAo2NjI4NTY4Mzc5AAEe9kqpb3eiIFwdvocjWzIhjjxamujPzRooAIcu6RVT7W6_R-3B3c7XJyb5y5Q_aem_pxafoSiJqIhIG7u_vMzVeQ Mat's Book – https://a.co/d/02QOVPcr Episode Show Notes & Resources: https://thedadedge.com/1440     Closing Remark   If you're climbing fast but feeling empty at the top, this episode is your invitation to reassess the mountain you're on. You don't have to lose your family to win in business. If this conversation hit home, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. Let's build success that we don't regret.   From my heart to yours — go out and live legendary.
In this powerful and deeply personal conversation, I sit down with Thomas "TJ" Baird — a 32-year Army veteran with 20 deployments — to talk about the real battle that followed the battlefield. TJ shares what it was like growing up with a father who was frequently deployed, only to find himself repeating that same pattern with his own daughter.   But this isn't just a military story — it's a fatherhood story. It's about PTSD, pride, brotherhood, humility, and the moment a man decides he's done living in the dark. TJ opens up about the night he realized he needed help, the ultimatum that changed everything, and the internal war between staying stuck and choosing the path toward peace. If you've ever struggled in silence or felt the weight of your past shaping your present, this episode will hit home.     Timeline Summary [0:00] The image that defines the episode — destruction on one side, sunrise on the other [2:10] 32 years of service and 20 deployments across the globe [9:20] Realizing he was becoming the father he once resented [24:17] His daughter telling him at age six, "Dad, you're too scary" [26:28] Writing Warrior Dad as a tribute to his daughter [35:07] The battlefield moment — seeing war to the west and sunlight to the east [42:12] Why most men stay stuck instead of choosing growth [47:38] The turning point — giving himself permission to get help [50:40] Walking into behavioral health as a senior enlisted leader [52:06] Leading by example so younger soldiers wouldn't suffer in silence     Five Key Takeaways You can unknowingly repeat the very patterns you once resented. There is always a path toward peace — but you have to choose it. Growth requires surrendering ego and asking for help. Brotherhood and accountability accelerate healing. Your family is waiting at the finish line — not your career.     Links & Resources Dad Edge Alliance Preview Call (RSVP): http://thedadedge.com/preview Episode Show Notes & Resources: https://thedadedge.com/1439     Closing Remark If this conversation resonated with you — if you've been carrying something heavy in silence — let this be your sign to step toward the light. You don't have to do it alone. Please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast if this episode impacted you. From my heart to yours, go out and live legendary.
In this Q&A episode, Uncle Joe and I dive into one of the most common—and misunderstood—struggles in marriage: emotional connection. We respond to a powerful question from Alex, a husband who genuinely wants to show up better for his wife but feels stuck, unsure how to respond to her emotions, and frustrated that his efforts don't seem to land.   This conversation breaks down why men default to "fix-it mode," why that instinct actually creates disconnection, and how emotional safety—not solutions—is what most women are truly seeking. We unpack practical, real-world skills for listening, validating, and reconnecting with your wife, especially after years of habit and complacency. If your wife has ever said, "I don't feel connected to you," this episode will give you clarity, direction, and a better way forward.     Timeline Summary [0:00] Introduction [1:02] Opening conversation about Valentine's Day and intentional connection [2:55] Alex's question about building emotional connection with his wife [4:10] Hearing hard feedback: "I don't feel connected or loved" [5:14] How long-term habits quietly shape marriage dynamics [6:03] Why men feel uncomfortable with big emotions [7:12] The difference between fixing problems and creating connection [8:10] Why women share emotions—to feel seen, not saved [9:00] Transactional conversations vs. emotional safety [10:14] Joe explains why feedback is actually a gift [10:59] Pebbles vs. boulders and minimizing your wife's feelings [11:56] Why "it's not a big deal" damages trust [12:17] Understanding how your wife feels loved [13:19] Acts of service and practical ways to reduce her stress [14:11] Real-life example of how small actions rebuild connection [15:19] Curiosity as the foundation of emotional intimacy [16:46] Leading with humility and listening through awkward silence [17:31] Treating your wife like you did when you first dated [19:02] Complacency as the silent killer of attraction [20:13] Why long-term relationships require intentional effort [21:09] Being challenged as an act of love [22:11] Brotherhood, faith, and the mission of the Dad Edge Alliance [23:08] Invitation to the Dad Edge Alliance preview call [23:47] Closing encouragement and next steps     Five Key Takeaways Emotional connection is built through presence, not problem-solving. Fixing minimizes feelings—listening creates safety. What feels small to you may feel huge to your wife. Curiosity and humility rebuild intimacy faster than tactics. Treating your wife like you did in the beginning keeps the relationship alive.     Links & Resources Dad Edge Alliance Preview Call (RSVP): http://thedadedge.com/preview Dad Edge Alliance (Marriage, Parenting, Health, Leadership): https://thedadedge.com/alliance Episode Show Notes & Resources: https://thedadedge.com/1438     Closing Remark If this episode gave you language or perspective you didn't have before, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. Emotional connection isn't about being perfect—it's about being present, curious, and consistent. From my heart to yours, go out and live legendary.
Some men are shaped by comfort. Others are forged in chaos. In this episode, I sit down with Kelly Siegel, founder of the Harder Than Life movement, to unpack what it actually takes to break generational cycles, rebuild trust with yourself, and lead your family with discipline and integrity—no matter where you came from.   Kelly shares his raw story of growing up in extreme abuse, addiction, and instability, and how sobriety, radical self-discipline, and daily non-negotiable routines completely transformed his life. We talk about nervous system healing, trusting yourself again, enforcing boundaries instead of talking about them, and what it looks like to be the father you never had. This conversation is intense, honest, and deeply hopeful for any man who refuses to let his past dictate his future.     Timeline Summary [0:00] Why excuses keep men stuck and how discipline breaks the cycle [1:39] Introducing Kelly Siegel and the Harder Than Life movement [2:22] Growing up in extreme chaos, abuse, and addiction [2:50] Turning trauma into fuel instead of identity [5:21] Seven years of sobriety and the decision that changed everything [7:31] Handling judgment, criticism, and online hate without losing integrity [8:55] Keeping your word to yourself when no one is watching [10:10] Childhood abuse and how it dysregulates the nervous system [12:03] Why sobriety unlocked clarity, discipline, and purpose [14:48] Cutting off toxic family relationships to protect healing [18:52] Forgiveness as freedom—not reconciliation [19:48] EMDR, hypnotherapy, and deep therapeutic work [22:03] Kelly's exact daily routine and why structure creates safety [24:26] Learning to love yourself when you never experienced it growing up [26:04] Cooking breakfast daily and building connection with his daughter [27:53] Asking better questions to deepen parent-child connection [29:38] Trusting yourself as the foundation of confidence [33:04] Boundaries vs. standards—and the power of enforcement [35:36] Why hard challenges build unshakeable self-trust [40:33] Breaking generational cycles and raising a confident daughter [45:44] Finding the gifts inside even the most painful childhoods [50:31] Why you don't owe access to people who hurt you [54:03] Strong fathers as the solution to cultural chaos [57:29] Healing yourself to heal the world     Five Key Takeaways Discipline creates freedom, especially for men who grew up in chaos.  Trust is built by keeping promises to yourself, not by motivation or hype.  Boundaries only work when they're enforced, not just talked about.  Healing your nervous system changes how you lead, parent, and love.  You can break generational cycles, even if no one modeled it for you.      Links & Resources Kelly Siegel on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kelly.siegel.71/ Kelly Siegel on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/officialkellysiegel Kelly Siegel on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kelly-siegel-0146a3/ Harder Than Life Podcast: https://www.harderthanlife.com/podcasts/ Episode Show Notes & Resources: https://thedadedge.com/1437     Closing Remark   If this episode challenged you to stop making excuses and start keeping promises to yourself, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. Your past does not define you—but your daily discipline will. From my heart to yours, go out and live legendary.
Most men and women enter marriage wildly untrained—and then wonder why connection, intimacy, and trust slowly erode over time. In this powerful and deeply thought-provoking conversation, I sit down with January Donovan, founder of the Woman School and Wholeness Coaching School, to explore why information alone will never change a marriage—and why training is the missing ingredient for lasting connection.   January shares her personal story of trauma, mentorship, and formation, and explains how emotional command, discipline, tonality, and boundaries shape the way men and women show up in relationships. We talk about why modern culture resists discipline, how "freedom" without formation leads to loneliness, and why both men and women must train intentionally if they want marriages that actually get better over time. This episode will challenge the way you think about growth, leadership, and what it really means to live fully alive.     Timeline Summary [0:00] Why most people feel unprepared for marriage and parenting [2:06] Introducing January Donovan and her work training women globally [3:02] Why information alone never leads to real change [4:10] January's origin story and the wounds that led her to this work [6:12] The power of mentorship and intentional formation [8:33] Growing up with deep insecurity and identity wounds [10:17] Unprocessed trauma, abortion, and living in quiet desperation [11:52] How disciplined training reshaped January's life [13:18] Why women resist the word "discipline" [14:50] Formation vs. freedom and the danger of untrained choice [16:07] Emotional command and generational anxiety [17:37] Why marriage requires the same training as any profession [19:35] Decision-making, tonality, and communication gaps [21:12] Why motherhood feels overwhelming without training [22:02] Studying your spouse as a form of love [23:12] Larry reflects on minimal marriage prep vs. decades of marriage [25:10] Why people resist investing in growth [27:06] Distraction, shallow desires, and information overload [28:35] Re-educating sexuality and restoring healthy masculinity and femininity [32:30] Dad Edge Alliance preview call invitation [36:14] Why training together is the future for men and women [40:18] Micro-skills that shape daily life and marriage [43:07] Tonality and how women can build or break men emotionally [47:02] Proactivity, masculinity, and relational safety [49:25] Gossip, integrity, and protecting your spouse's reputation [53:20] Excellence, interior freedom, and choosing your highest good [59:02] Casting a long-term vision for marriage and legacy     Five Key Takeaways Marriage doesn't fail because people don't care—it fails because they were never trained. Information without formation leads to frustration, not transformation. Discipline and emotional command create freedom, not restriction. Tonality, presence, and self-regulation shape attraction and safety in marriage. Men and women must train together if they want relationships that thrive long-term.     Links & Resources Dad Edge Alliance Preview Call: https://thedadedge.com/preview January Donovan Website: https://januarydonovan.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/january.donovan_/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JanuaryDonovan Episode Show Notes & Resources: https://thedadedge.com/1436     Closing Remark If this episode challenged how you think about marriage, growth, or leadership, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. Beautiful lives don't happen by accident—they're trained for. From my heart to yours, go out and live legendary.
In this live Q&A episode, Uncle Joe and I tackle some of the heaviest—and most common—situations men face inside marriage: supporting a wife through serious mental health challenges, staying grounded when divorce is still on the table, and learning how to lead with consistency instead of panic.   We respond to real questions from men inside the Dad Edge Alliance who are walking through postpartum depression, PMDD, emotional volatility, and marital uncertainty. This conversation is about becoming an advocate instead of a victim, choosing consistency over crisis-mode behavior, and learning how to lead yourself well—regardless of whether your marriage outcome is guaranteed. If you're in a season where hope feels thin and the work feels exhausting, this episode will remind you what leadership actually looks like when things are hard.     Timeline Summary [000] Opening reflections on fatherhood, sleepless nights, and perspective [3:18] Setting expectations for live Q&A and imperfect conversations [4:41] Corey's question: supporting a wife with postpartum depression and PMDD [6:19] Understanding PMDD as a hormonal sensitivity disorder [8:33] Why mood shifts are not character flaws or choices [9:58] Becoming an advocate instead of minimizing mental health struggles [11:05] Practical leadership: nutrition, structure, and reducing stress [12:25] Why a man's emotional and spiritual health matters most in crisis [13:10] Research on spiritual disciplines and emotional regulation [14:11] Becoming a "merchant of hope" in your household [15:00] Why men must take care of their inner world first [16:02] Corey shares his early experience inside the Dad Edge Alliance [17:02] Playing the long game and resisting discouragement [18:07] Using brotherhood instead of isolation [18:48] Announcement: Dad Edge Alliance preview call [20:15] Where to find episode resources and symptom notes [21:05] Second question: staying consistent while divorce is still mentioned [24:56] Identifying behaviors that contributed to marital breakdown [26:04] Why wives wait to see if change is real [27:16] Consistency as a non-negotiable value [28:46] Doing the work regardless of outcome [31:01] Why self-led change benefits you no matter what [32:24] Showing up as a grounded, playful, present father [33:37] Why it often gets worse before it gets better     Five Key Takeaways Mental health struggles are not character flaws, and leadership starts with education and empathy. Consistency builds trust, especially when a spouse is waiting for the "other shoe to drop." Men must do the work for themselves first, not as a strategy to save a marriage. Hope is contagious, but only if the man leading the home is grounded and regulated. Brotherhood prevents isolation, especially when marriage feels uncertain.   Links & Resources Dad Edge Alliance Preview Call (RSVP): https://thedadedge.com/preview Dad Edge Alliance (Marriage, Parenting, Health, Leadership): https://thedadedge.com/alliance All Episode Notes & Symptom Resources (Google Doc): https://docs.google.com/document/d/1_4GeLtmhvbZg-ZzKvBWQyz5aneCcHCYOYfD-r0uzNnE/edit?usp=sharing Episode Show Notes & Resources: https://thedadedge.com/1435     Closing Remark If you're walking through a season where leadership feels heavy and outcomes feel uncertain, remember this: your consistency, integrity, and growth still matter. Thank you for being men who show up, ask hard questions, and refuse to drift. From my heart to yours—keep going, and live legendary.
If you feel inflamed, exhausted, stuck in recovery mode, or like your body just doesn't bounce back the way it used to, this episode is for you. In this conversation, I sit down with Dr. Adam Boender, chiropractor-turned-peptide educator, to unpack how men can reclaim their health, energy, and recovery—without shortcuts or hype.   Dr. Adam shares how peptides actually work at the cellular level, why most men don't have a deficiency problem but a communication problem inside their bodies, and how strategic tools like peptides, nutrition, and movement work best when paired with discipline and intention. We go deep on recovery peptides, fat loss versus weight loss, GLP-1 medications, food quality, inflammation, and why no supplement or peptide replaces doing the hard work. This episode is a masterclass in health, responsibility, and long-term performance for men who want their bodies—and lives—back.   Timeline Summary [0:00] Why this episode is for men who feel inflamed, tired, and stuck [1:41] How Larry and Dr. Adam connected after a serious knee injury [2:38] Recovering from a ruptured patellar tendon and the urgency to heal [3:03] Dr. Adam's background as a chiropractor turned peptide educator [3:27] Teaching clinicians how to use peptides safely and effectively [4:08] Why peptides are still misunderstood by most men [6:20] From one-on-one practice to helping clinicians impact thousands [8:38] Family illness and the catalyst for Dr. Adam's career shift [10:16] Why "one-to-many" impact matters in healthcare [11:15] How peptides supported Larry's accelerated recovery [12:23] Getting off crutches and braces weeks ahead of schedule [13:33] Why peptides work best when paired with discipline and rehab [16:12] What peptides actually are and how cellular communication works [18:20] Epitalon: the "reset peptide" for sleep, recovery, and longevity [20:37] BPC-157 as the "multivitamin" of peptides [22:10] Gut health, inflammation, and joint recovery explained [24:17] How BPC-157 increases blood flow and healing in joints [26:13] Recovery break and nutrition fundamentals [28:04] Why BPC-157 and TB-500 are often paired together [29:16] TB-500 and stem cell signaling for tissue repair [31:09] Copper peptide for collagen, joints, and longevity [35:09] Injectable vs. oral peptide absorption [36:21] GLP-1 medications explained simply [38:12] Fat loss vs. weight loss and why protein intake matters [41:03] Why muscle preservation is critical during fat loss [43:03] Genetics, obesity, and the myth of "bad genes" [48:36] Peptides as tools—not magic bullets [50:54] Defining true health as the ability to heal [53:05] Why processed food is breaking our bodies [55:07] Eating real food as the foundation of health [57:32] Fueling your body like a high-performance machine     Five Key Takeaways: Peptides improve cellular communication, but they don't replace discipline, movement, or nutrition.  Inflammation and poor recovery are often communication problems, not deficiencies.  Fat loss is not the same as weight loss, and preserving muscle must be the priority.  Genetics load the gun, but lifestyle pulls the trigger, especially with health outcomes.  True health is the body's ability to heal, not just the absence of disease.      Links & Resources MicroFactor Pack: https://1stphorm.com/products/micro-factor/?a_aid=dadedge Opti-Greens 50: https://1stphorm.com/products/opti-greens-50/?a_aid=dadedge Post-Workout Stack: https://1stphorm.com/products/postworkout-stack?a_aid=dadedge Collagen with Dermaval: https://1stphorm.com/products/collagen-with-dermaval/?a_aid=dadedge Episode Show Notes & Resources: https://thedadedge.com/1434     Closing Remark If this episode challenged how you think about health, recovery, or responsibility, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. There are no shortcuts—only tools, discipline, and intentional action. Take care of your body, and it will take care of the life you're building.
Divorce doesn't just end a marriage—it can shatter a man's identity, confidence, and sense of direction. In this powerful and deeply honest conversation, I sit down with my close friend Ryan Michler, founder of Order of Man, to talk openly about what it really looks like to navigate divorce as a man—and come out stronger on the other side.   Ryan shares his personal experience of being divorced for nearly three years, including the identity loss men feel when they're no longer husbands or full-time dads, the mistakes many men make by orienting their lives around their ex, and why healing starts when you make yourself the project. We also dive into rebuilding relationships with kids, handling co-parenting with integrity, resisting isolation, and why brotherhood is non-negotiable in seasons of separation. If you're divorced, separated, or supporting a man who is—this episode is required listening.     Timeline Summary [0:00] Why this episode is for divorced and separated dads [2:35] Introducing Ryan Michler and his journey through divorce [3:37] Losing identity as a husband and father after divorce [4:59] Feeling like "less of a man" after separation [6:02] Why orienting your life around your ex is a mistake [7:21] Making yourself the project after divorce [9:01] Isolation, vices, and the danger of being alone too much [10:45] Why brotherhood accelerates healing [12:15] Journaling, self-regulation, and daily discipline [14:06] Rebuilding physical health and confidence [15:32] Redefining masculinity and self-worth [17:15] Being honest—but appropriate—with kids about divorce [19:02] Staying present in your kids' lives beyond "your time" [21:11] Customizing connection with each child [23:23] Never giving up on estranged relationships [25:08] Civility, boundaries, and co-parenting with integrity [29:02] Why consistency matters more than outcomes [31:22] Divorce Not Death program overview [34:40] The Men's Forge experience and why it's different [38:15] Bringing sons to Men's Forge and legacy building [41:41] What boys learn by watching their fathers lead [45:54] Final encouragement for men navigating divorce     Five Key Takeaways Divorce shakes a man's identity, but it doesn't have to define his future.  Healing begins when men stop orienting around their ex and start orienting around growth.  Isolation amplifies pain, while brotherhood shortens the recovery curve.  Consistency and integrity rebuild trust with kids, even when relationships feel strained.  Men who make themselves the project come out stronger, healthier, and more grounded.      Links & Resources Men's Forge Event: https://themensforge.com Dad Edge Alliance: https://thedadedge.com/alliance Dad Edge Alliance Preview Call: https://thedadedge.com/preview 1st Phorm Dad Edge Challenge: https://1stphorm.com/dadedge Divorce Not Death Program: https://divorcenotdeath.com Episode Show Notes & Resources: https://thedadedge.com/1433     Closing Remark If this episode spoke to where you're at—or where you've been—please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. Divorce is not the end of your story. With discipline, brotherhood, and intention, it can be the beginning of a stronger chapter. Go out and live legendary.
Connecting with teenage daughters can feel like trying to break through a locked door—especially when rejection, distance, and silence start to replace the closeness you once had. In this Q&A episode, I'm joined by Uncle Joe as we tackle two deeply relatable questions from dads who are doing their best but feel stuck, unsure, and disconnected.   We dive into what it really takes to win a teenage daughter's heart without forcing connection, why consistency matters more than instant results, and how dads can stop taking rejection personally while still staying emotionally available. We also address marriage and money decisions, showing how curiosity, values, and asking better questions can transform conflict into teamwork. This episode is packed with wisdom, reassurance, and practical strategies for dads who refuse to give up on their kids or their marriage.     Timeline Summary [0:00] Welcoming listeners to the final Q&A episode of January 2026 [2:37] A dad's question about connecting with his 14-year-old daughter [4:10] Why teenage girls often pull away during adolescence [4:33] Recommended reading: Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters [5:12] Learning what matters to your daughter to win her heart [6:35] Why genuine interest builds emotional safety [7:16] Consistency over comfort when facing rejection [8:08] Not internalizing rejection from teenage daughters [8:57] How facial expressions communicate disappointment [9:15] "Aim for the heart" and understanding a child's unique wiring [10:19] Engaging with your daughter's interests without trying to be "cool" [11:21] Alliance member perspective on grit and perseverance [12:37] Why daughters notice effort even when they don't respond [13:03] Dr. Lisa Damour's insights on never giving up [14:08] Why your daughter will remember whether you stayed or quit [15:11] Second question: marriage, money, and trust [16:34] How "telling" shuts down conversations with your wife [17:08] Leading with curiosity instead of control [18:10] Asking questions that invite reflection and teamwork [19:36] Validating your wife's values before problem-solving [21:11] Enabling vs. empowering family members [23:23] Using shared family values as a decision-making framework [26:18] Why aligned values reduce conflict in marriage [29:18] Faith, provision, and living out core values [30:57] Resources for dads raising teenagers [31:16] Where to find all episode links and next steps     Five Key Takeaways Winning a teenage daughter's heart requires consistency, not instant validation.  Rejection isn't personal—it's developmental, and dads must stay steady through it.  Genuine curiosity builds connection far more than control or correction.  Asking better questions reduces marriage conflict, especially around money and family decisions.  Shared values create clarity, alignment, and peace in family decision-making.      Links & Resources Guiding Teenage Girls Into Adulthood (Dad Edge Episode): https://thedadedge.com/guiding-teenage-girls-into-adulthood-with-dr-lisa-damour/ Dr. Lisa Damour Website: https://drlisadamour.com/ Dr. Lisa Damour on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisa.damour/ Dr. Lisa Damour on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLSt8mu1taNYAHTufbYwqglFHoevbZgNQl Dr. Lisa Damour on Twitter/X: https://twitter.com/Ldamour Dr. Lisa Damour on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisadamourphd Dr. Lisa Damour Podcast: https://drlisadamour.com/resources/podcast/ How to Manage a Meltdown (PDF): https://drlisadamour.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/03/LD_Bookmarks_How_to_Manage_a_Meltdown.pdf Meg Meeker on The Dad Edge Podcast: https://thedadedge.com/meg-meeker/ Episode Show Notes & Resources: https://thedadedge.com/1432   Closing Remark If this episode encouraged you to stay the course with your kids or approach your marriage with more curiosity and patience, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. Your consistency today becomes your children's security tomorrow. Go out and live legendary.
In this solo episode, I pull back the curtain on everything happening inside the Dad Edge ecosystem as we close out January and head into February. If your marriage feels disconnected, your health slipped during the holidays, or you've been looking for real skills—not motivation—this episode lays out exactly what's available and how to plug in.   I share my own story of marriage struggle, why only a small percentage of couples truly feel connected, and how becoming a student of marriage completely changed the trajectory of my relationship. From February's marriage-focused tactical agenda inside the Dad Edge Alliance, to the 1st Phorm 8-week challenge, to major announcements around preview calls and the Men's Forge event, this episode is about clarity, opportunity, and intentional action for men who want their marriage and leadership to look different in 2026.     Timeline Summary: [0:00] Keeping the blooper and why imperfection matters in fatherhood [1:35] Larry reflects on the first 10–12 years of marriage struggles [2:27] When marriage turns into co-parenting and roommate syndrome [3:07] Becoming a student of marriage and why things finally changed [3:27] Only 12% of marriages report deep connection [3:52] Introducing the Dad Edge ecosystem [4:11] Overview of the Dad Edge Alliance [4:50] February tactical agenda inside the Alliance [5:09] Why February always focuses on marriage skills [5:28] Week 1: Attraction, identity, and masculine presence [6:11] Week 2: Leading without chasing or needy energy [6:35] Week 3: Boundaries that create desire [6:55] Week 4: Emotional safety and attraction [7:39] Why February is the best month to join the Alliance [8:01] Roommates to Soulmates cohort selling out quickly [8:41] Holiday weight gain and the need for a physical reset [9:01] 1st Phorm Dad Edge 8-week challenge overview [9:42] Challenge dates and community support [10:19] January Dad Edge 1st Phorm Dad of the Month recognition [11:01] Alliance preview call announcement [11:24] What men will learn on the preview call [12:17] Moving away from social media noise [14:06] Men's Forge 2026 announcement [14:51] Why this event is different [15:41] Where to find all links and next steps [16:04] Gratitude and closing encouragement     Five Key Takeaways Most men were never taught how to lead a marriage, which is why skill-building—not willpower—creates change. Attraction in marriage evolves, and men must adapt leadership, presence, and identity. Boundaries and emotional safety create desire, not chasing or people-pleasing. Physical health fuels confidence and leadership, especially inside marriage. Community accelerates growth, when men commit to accountability and action.     Links & Resources: Dad Edge Alliance (Marriage, Parenting, Health, Leadership): https://thedadedge.com/alliance Dad Edge Alliance Preview Call: https://thedadedge.com/preview 1st Phorm Dad Edge 8-Week Challenge: https://1stphorm.com/dadedge Men's Forge 2026 Event: https://themensforge.com All Episode Resources: https://thedadedge.com/1431     Closing Remark Gentlemen, if you want your marriage, health, and leadership to look different in 2026, this is your moment to engage. Thank you for your continued support, your reviews, and your commitment to doing the work. From my heart to yours—let's continue to live legendary.
In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Nicole McNichols, psychologist, professor at the University of Washington, and author of You Could Be Having Better Sex, for one of the most honest, research-backed conversations we've ever had about sex, intimacy, and connection in long-term marriage.   This isn't about sex positions, tricks, or "trying harder." It's about why good marriages lose momentum over time, how pressure and expectations quietly kill desire, and why emotional connection is often the real foreplay. Dr. Nicole breaks down why scheduling sex can backfire, how shame and guilt around sex are learned early, and how curiosity—not performance—creates the kind of intimacy couples actually crave. I also share personal stories from my own marriage about connection, timing, and why mediocre sex just to "check the box" no longer works. If you want a healthier, more connected sex life, this episode gives you a roadmap grounded in science and real-life experience.     Timeline Summary [0:00] Why this episode isn't about sex positions or tricks [1:26] Introducing Dr. Nicole McNichols and her background [2:09] Why scheduling sex can quietly backfire [2:36] How pressure and expectation kill intimacy [2:58] Emotional connection as the real foreplay [3:36] Why intimacy dates matter more than sex calendars [5:18] How Dr. Nicole became a "sex professor" by accident [6:10] Loneliness, disconnection, and the role of sexual health [7:08] Shame, stigma, and misinformation around sex—especially for women [9:14] Why healthy sex improves forgiveness, health, and longevity [10:25] The failure of shame-based sex education [12:10] Countries with sex-positive education and better outcomes [13:18] Identifying the sources of shame we carry into marriage [15:09] Why sex shouldn't be the first thing sacrificed in busy seasons [16:07] Why conversations about sex should happen with clothes on [17:00] Using curiosity instead of pressure to improve intimacy [18:11] Announcement: Dad Edge Alliance February focus on intimacy and attraction [20:03] Curiosity vs. agenda in hard conversations [21:17] Why scheduling sex alone doesn't work [22:09] Creating the right context and mood for intimacy [23:24] Sexual effort that creates pressure instead of desire [24:55] Emotional lead-up and responsive desire [26:01] Initiation–rejection cycles and resentment [27:23] "Intimacy dates" and reconnecting outside the bedroom [29:11] Larry shares a personal story about connection over convenience [31:26] Choosing quality connection over mediocre sex [33:17] Maintenance sex vs. meaningful sexual connection [35:04] Balancing connection and realistic expectations [37:22] Long-term rejection cycles and rebuilding intimacy [39:00] Hormones, menopause, and why libido changes aren't personal [41:29] Division of labor, resentment, and loss of identity [43:48] Gottman research and why distance doesn't heal intimacy [45:43] Making your partner feel seen and heard [47:23] Listening vs. fixing in emotional conversations [49:13] Resources for better conversations with your wife and kids [49:31] Dr. Nicole's book and New York Times features [50:44] Where to find Dr. Nicole and her work [53:08] Why improving your sex life is a powerful way to start 2026     Five Key Takeaways Pressure and expectation kill desire, while curiosity and emotional safety create attraction.  Emotional connection is often the real foreplay, especially in long-term marriages.  Scheduling sex without context can backfire if couples don't create space to reconnect first.  Sexual shame is learned, and identifying its sources is the first step toward healthier intimacy.  Better sex isn't about frequency—it's about quality, safety, and connection.        Links & Resources 25 Intimate Conversation Starters: https://thedadedge.com/25questions Conversation Cards for Kids (Ages 5–Teen): https://thedadedge.com/kidquestions Dr. Nicole McNichols – Faculty Spotlight (University of Washington): https://psych.uw.edu/newsletter/summer-2020/faculty/faculty-spotlight-on-nicole-mcnichols New York Times – Modern Love Podcast Feature: https://www.nytimes.com/2026/01/07/podcasts/modern-love-better-sex-tips.html Book — You Could Be Having Better Sex Episode Show Notes & Resources: https://thedadedge.com/1430     Closing Remark If this episode gave you language, clarity, or hope around intimacy in your marriage, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. Strong marriages don't drift into great sex—they build it intentionally, with curiosity, connection, and courage.
In this Q&A episode, I'm joined once again by Uncle Joe for a deep, honest conversation around one of the most painful places a man can find himself—feeling unwanted, disconnected, and hopeless in his marriage. We respond to a question from a husband who hasn't felt physical or emotional connection from his wife in over two years, and we unpack what really breaks down in marriages long before intimacy disappears.   This conversation goes far beyond surface-level advice. We talk about why most men were never trained for marriage, how resentment quietly builds, why treating marriage like a contract destroys connection, and how changing your internal narrative can shift everything. We also bring in perspectives from men inside the Dad Edge Alliance to show how humility, coachability, and intentional skill-building can restore trust, safety, and leadership at home. If your marriage feels distant or stuck, this episode offers clarity, hope, and a path forward.     Timeline Summary [0:00] Welcoming listeners to the third Q&A episode of January 2026 [1:19] Uncle Joe returns and the power of community-driven wisdom [2:13] Introducing a listener's marriage question about rejection and hopelessness [2:55] Why only 12% of married couples report feeling deeply connected [3:33] Asking the most important question: what have you actually learned about marriage? [4:26] Joe reflects on personal failure, divorce, and hard-earned lessons [5:14] Why hope exists if attraction once existed [5:35] How complacency and busyness quietly push marriage to the back burner [6:02] Marriage compared to learning an instrument—you can't wing it [7:21] Resentment, skill gaps, and whether marriages can truly be restored [8:05] Marriage as a covenant, not a contract [8:55] How destructive inner narratives shape behavior and connection [9:43] Transactional expectations and why they kill intimacy [10:41] Why "nice guy" energy erodes respect and attraction [11:30] Listening to understand instead of listening to defend [12:12] Mutual submission, humility, and shared leadership in marriage [13:15] Alliance member insight on asking for feedback from your wife [14:16] Faith, unity, and intentionally doing life together [15:49] Receiving feedback without ego or defensiveness [17:14] Emotional bank accounts and the power of daily deposits [18:50] Gottman's 5:1 and 10:1 ratios for healthy marriages [19:40] Giving your wife permission to coach you [20:45] Why conflict isn't the enemy—avoidance is [22:00] Reframing the role of a wife as a strengthener, not a subordinate [23:17] "It's not me vs. you, it's us vs. the problem" [23:43] Larry shares a personal season of anger and choosing humility [25:16] How couples can build something better than what they had before [25:51] Episode wrap-up and where to find resources     Five Key Takeaways Most men were never taught how to lead a marriage, and guessing your way through it creates disconnection.  Marriage breaks down through narratives and resentment long before intimacy disappears.  Treating marriage like a covenant—not a contract—changes everything.  Emotional deposits made consistently rebuild trust and safety over time.  When couples unite against the problem instead of each other, restoration becomes possible.      Links & Resources Dad Edge Alliance: https://thedadedge.com/alliance The Legendary Marriage Book: https://thedadedge.com/legendarybook Episode Show Notes & Resources: https://thedadedge.com/1429     Closing Remark If this episode resonated with where you're at in your marriage, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. You don't have to figure this out alone—skill-building, humility, and brotherhood can change the direction of your marriage and your family. From my heart to yours, go out and live legendary.
What does real leadership actually look like at home—not just at work? In this episode, I sit down with Mick Hunt, leadership and culture coach, to break down what emotional intelligence, boundaries, and masculine presence really mean for husbands and fathers.   Mick shares powerful insights on why being the "nice guy" often kills polarity and attraction in marriage, how emotional intelligence is a strength (not a soft skill), and why men need intentional transition rituals to show up fully present for their families. We talk about journaling as a daily leadership practice, setting boundaries without control, and how a father's emotional presence shapes the safety and confidence of his kids. This conversation is practical, grounded, and deeply relevant for men who want to lead with backbone and heart.     Timeline Summary [0:00] Introducing Mick Hunt and why leadership matters most at home [2:06] Morgan Freeman narrating Mick's videos and the unexpected connection [2:27] Why emotional intelligence is a critical leadership skill [3:01] How the "nice guy" approach kills polarity and attraction [3:29] Daily practices Mick uses to stay emotionally present with his kids [4:09] The importance of transition rituals between work and home [6:04] Mick's marriage story and reconnecting after decades of friendship [9:07] Emotional intelligence as awareness, regulation, and response [11:01] Why empathy doesn't mean losing authority as a husband or father [14:05] Self-awareness as the foundation of emotional leadership [15:18] Growing up with an emotionally unavailable father [17:13] Mick's simple daily journaling practice [19:17] Why writing trains the brain to separate fact from emotion [21:07] Boundaries as love—not control—in marriage and family [23:54] Defining boundaries through core values [24:16] Protecting "me time" to show up better for others [27:33] Why skipping transition time hurts marriages and families [28:38] A real story of ignoring boundaries and paying the emotional cost [31:27] Masculine presence and modeling healthy marriage for kids [33:11] Being the emotional anchor of the household [35:30] Teaching daughters confidence and sons how to care [38:44] Where to find Mick and his leadership resources     Five Key Takeaways: Emotional intelligence is a leadership advantage, not a weakness, for men at home and at work.  Being agreeable isn't the same as being emotionally present, and "nice guy" energy often kills attraction.  Transition rituals protect your family from your stress, allowing you to show up grounded and present.  Boundaries rooted in core values create safety, not distance, in marriage and parenting.  A father's emotional presence shapes confidence, safety, and leadership in his children.      Links & Resources Mick Hunt Official Website: https://mickhuntofficial.com Instagram: @mickunplugged LinkedIn: @mickhunt Episode Show Notes & Resources: https://thedadedge.com/1428     Closing Remark If this episode challenged how you think about leadership, boundaries, or emotional presence at home, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. The most important leadership role you'll ever have is the one your family experiences every day.
Why do kids raised in the same home react so differently to the exact same situation? In this episode, I'm joined by Alyssa Campbell, author, educator, and founder of Seed & Sew, to unpack what's really happening beneath our kids' behaviors—and why understanding their nervous systems changes everything about how we parent.   Alyssa returns to the show to talk about her new book Big Kids, Bigger Feelings, and we go deep into the overlooked developmental stage of kids ages 5–12. We discuss why "shouldn't they know better?" is the wrong question, how regulation and access to skills are two different things, and why each child's unique sensory profile determines how they experience stress, connection, discipline, and learning. This conversation will give you clarity, compassion, and practical tools to parent each child for who they actually are—not who you expect them to be.     Timeline Summary  [0:00] Why kids raised by the same parents can behave so differently [2:33] Introducing Alyssa Campbell and her work in emotional intelligence [3:27] Alyssa's first book Tiny Humans, Big Emotions and its success [3:49] Celebrating Alyssa hitting the New York Times bestseller list [4:11] Introducing the new book Big Kids, Bigger Feelings [5:00] Why ages 5–12 are a massively overlooked developmental stage [6:03] Central nervous systems and why kids respond differently to the same stimulus [7:36] "Knowing better" vs. having access to skills in the moment [9:15] Dysregulation in adults—and why kids struggle even more [14:24] Why kids under 25 don't have fully developed prefrontal cortexes [16:03] How screens and overstimulation dysregulate kids [18:12] Why nervous system awareness builds empathy instead of frustration [22:45] The nine sensory systems every parent should understand [24:01] Vestibular, proprioceptive, and interoceptive senses explained [26:17] Sensory sensitivity vs. sensory seeking [28:12] Introducing the Seed Quiz as "GPS for your kid's brain" [29:05] How the Seed Quiz works for kids, parents, and families [31:10] Real-life school example of regulation transforming behavior [33:09] Why behavior improves when regulation improves [35:25] Trauma, environment, and how nervous systems evolve [41:03] Why understanding nervous systems transforms marriages too [42:06] Parenting two kids with opposite sensory needs [44:48] Why the same parenting response can calm one child and escalate another [45:30] Tapping out to your partner when regulation styles differ [47:01] Where to find Alyssa, her books, and Seed & Sew resources     Five Key Takeaways: Every child has a unique nervous system, which determines how they experience stress, connection, and learning.  Knowing what to do and being able to do it in the moment are not the same thing, especially when kids are dysregulated.  Behavior improves when regulation improves, not when punishment increases.  One-size-fits-all parenting often backfires because kids need different inputs to calm and connect.  Understanding nervous systems builds empathy, patience, and more effective parenting strategies.      Links & Resources Seed Quiz (Free Tool): https://seedquiz.com Seed & Sew Website: https://www.seedandsew.org Seed & Sew on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seed.and.sew/ Seed & Sew on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/seedandsew.org Episode Show Notes & Resources: https://thedadedge.com/1427     Closing Remark If this episode helped you understand your kids—and yourself—on a deeper level, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. Parenting isn't about getting it right every time; it's about learning how to show up for the unique humans we're raising.
In this second Q&A episode of 2026, I'm joined once again by Joe Bailey for a raw, honest, and deeply practical conversation with men inside our Dad Edge Alliance. We tackle two of the most common—and emotionally charged—challenges dads face: navigating marriage when divorce feels like it's on the table, and learning when to step in (or step back) as parents with our kids.   Joe brings wisdom forged through failure, humility, and redemption as he shares lessons learned from three divorces and what it actually takes to rebuild trust, emotional safety, and leadership in marriage. We also dig into parenting—specifically how often we default to "no," how helicopter parenting robs kids of growth, and how learning to pause can transform our connection with our children. If you're a dad who wants to lead with ownership instead of ego, and presence instead of control, this episode is for you.     Timeline Summary  [0:00] Welcoming listeners to the second Q&A of 2026 with Joe Bailey [1:37] Live Q&A format with Alliance members on the call [2:03] Anonymous question: marriage arguments escalating and divorce being discussed [2:52] Joe shares his experience with three divorces and hard-earned lessons [3:49] Taking full ownership as the leader of the relationship [4:18] Winning the argument vs. winning your wife's heart [5:02] Separating identity from failure in marriage [5:21] Why agreement gives things power over your life [5:40] Emotional safety, being seen, and being heard [6:04] How your inner world creates your outer world [6:55] Why asking "What are you willing to do?" matters more than "Can we fix this?" [8:03] Leading with humility, apology, and commitment to growth [8:26] The importance of being coachable as a man and husband [9:35] Larry explains why the Dad Edge Alliance exists [10:37] More context: resentment and imbalance with kids and responsibilities [11:16] Why we're trained for careers—but not for marriage [12:15] Marriage compared to training and skill development [13:29] The mental load and resentment that silently builds in relationships [14:35] Larry shares his own wake-up moment with his wife [16:19] How to approach conversations with curiosity instead of defense [17:19] Expecting resistance and understanding trust rebuilds slowly [18:46] A real coaching story where separation was reversed after consistency [21:03] "Waiting for the other shoe to drop" and consistency over time [22:12] Second question: saying "no" too often to kids [23:12] Helicopter parenting and letting kids solve problems [24:27] Letting kids work it out unless safety is at risk [26:02] Stepping in when conflict becomes dangerous [28:16] Boys, aggression, and healthy outlets [29:45] Is saying "no" about safety—or convenience? [30:51] Searching for the "yes" and using delayed yeses [31:38] The day kids stop asking—and why it matters [32:16] How selfishness often drives our "no" [33:22] Episode wrap-up and directing listeners to the show notes     Five Key Takeaways   Marriage leadership starts with ownership, not blame or defensiveness.  Your inner world shapes your marriage, and emotional chaos creates relational chaos.  Trust is rebuilt through consistency over time, not quick fixes or intensity.  Kids grow through problem-solving, and dads don't need to jump in unless safety is at risk.  Saying "yes" whenever possible builds connection, while reflexive "no's" often come from selfishness or convenience.      Links & Resources Dad Edge Alliance (Apply & Book a Call): https://thedadedge.com/alliance Episode Show Notes & Resources: https://thedadedge.com/1426     Closing Remark If today's episode gave you clarity, hope, or a new way to lead at home, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. You don't have to white-knuckle marriage or fatherhood alone—brotherhood, humility, and consistency change everything.
Most couples don't drift apart because they stop loving each other—they drift apart because no one ever taught them how to stay connected. In this episode, I sit down with Mark and Brianna Carey, a powerhouse husband-and-wife team who work with couples on intimacy, communication, and emotional safety, to unpack what really happens to marriage after kids enter the picture.   We talk openly about why intimacy breaks down in the early years of parenting, why sex is rarely the real problem, and how resentment quietly builds when couples stop having honest conversations. Mark and Brianna share powerful insights around postpartum realities for both men and women, desire discrepancy, emotional safety, tonality, and the small misfires that slowly turn partners into roommates. If you want real tools to rebuild connection—not surface-level advice—this conversation will meet you right where you are.     Timeline Summary  [0:00] Why couples drift apart without ever stopping loving each other [2:08] Introducing Mark and Brianna Carey and their work with couples [3:15] Why sex is often the symptom—not the problem—in marriage [4:00] How kids, stress, exhaustion, and resentment fuel disconnection [6:03] Brianna's background in sexual health education and intimacy coaching [8:02] Why women often don't feel empowered to talk about sex [10:34] Desire discrepancy and why it's normal in long-term relationships [11:17] Invitation to the Dad Edge Alliance and Boardroom [14:00] Emotional intimacy and the depth of real connection [15:12] Assumptions, misfires, and missed bids for connection [17:15] Why individuality actually fuels attraction in marriage [18:25] Communicating directly about intimacy without pressure [21:31] The first domino of disconnection after having kids [22:54] Children as magnifiers of unhealed wounds and identity shifts [24:58] Postpartum realities for women—and why it's rarely discussed [25:17] Postpartum identity struggles for fathers [26:03] What "roommate syndrome" feels like for both partners [27:22] Feeling "touched out" and navigating physical boundaries [30:11] The pressure of the six-week postpartum clearance myth [33:02] How resentment forms and why it's so dangerous [34:00] Why talking about divorce can actually strengthen commitment [36:33] "Name it to tame it" and removing fear from hard conversations [43:14] Why most conflict is unresolvable—and how to manage it [45:07] Trauma, tonality, and recurring relationship patterns [47:49] How tone changes meaning more than words [50:19] Intent vs. impact and closing the communication gap [54:07] How Mark and Brianna work with couples together [55:24] Why intensity of support must match intensity of problems [58:27] Webinar announcement and upcoming relationship resources     Five Key Takeaways Intimacy fades when couples stop communicating—not when attraction disappears.  Desire discrepancy is normal, but silence around it breeds resentment.  Postpartum challenges affect both partners, including identity loss and emotional disconnect.  Tone and emotional safety matter as much as words when navigating conflict and intimacy.  Connection—not performance—is the fastest path back to intimacy.      Links & Resources: Dad Edge Alliance: https://thedadedge.com/alliance Intimacy Evolution Website: https://www.intimacyevolution.com Webinar Registration: https://intimacyevolution.kit.com/9a33bf4eaa Intimacy Evolution on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/intimacy_evolution Brianna Carey on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brianna_carey Mark Carey on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mark__carey Episode Show Notes & Resources: https://thedadedge.com/1425     Closing Remark If this episode helped you see your marriage differently—or gave you language for conversations you've been avoiding—please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. Strong marriages aren't built by guessing; they're built through connection, courage, and intentional leadership.
Leadership isn't about position, title, or authority—it's about who you are on the inside and how you show up every day for the people who depend on you. In this episode, I sit down with Brent Pohlman, bestselling author of Leaders Look Within and the upcoming book Leading with Zest, for a powerful conversation about values-based leadership, faith, health, and having the courage to lead from the heart.   Brent shares lessons from 31 years of marriage, raising a faith-centered family, and building a thriving workplace culture rooted in people-first leadership. We dive into why leaders must define a strong "why," how physical health fuels emotional and relational leadership, and how to have hard, triggering conversations without destroying morale—at work or at home. If you're a husband, father, or man who wants to lead with clarity, conviction, and integrity, this episode will challenge you in the best way.     Timeline Summary [0:00] Why leadership applies to every man—especially husbands and fathers. [2:07] Introducing Brent Pohlman and his leadership philosophy. [2:29] 31 years of marriage and building a faith-centered family. [2:53] Brent's son serving communion to Pope Francis and the power of faith legacy. [3:20] Leading from the inside out instead of ego. [3:45] Why leaders must define a strong, unshakable "why." [4:43] Marriage, faith, and learning each other after decades together. [6:16] Converting to Catholicism and claiming faith as your own. [7:26] Reactive leadership versus values-based leadership. [9:07] Faith moments that shape identity and conviction. [11:01] Why leaders must look inward to understand values and motivation. [12:16] Second-generation leadership and stepping into your own identity. [14:28] Defining a personal leadership "why" that doesn't change weekly. [15:26] The importance of physical health for leadership readiness. [16:03] Daily workouts, awareness, and being prepared for pressure. [18:08] Being fully present with your wife and kids. [19:30] Leading at home the same way you lead at work. [20:17] Developing people instead of managing them. [21:03] Coaching versus training in leadership development. [22:49] How direct conversations prevent cultural breakdown. [23:59] Calling people forward without damaging morale. [26:02] Fighting to be effective instead of fighting to be right. [27:11] The power of using someone's name in hard conversations. [30:03] Why people just want to be heard. [33:06] Avoiding reactive cultures and emotional time bombs. [35:08] Asking "What do you really want?" in conflict resolution. [37:15] Introducing Brent's upcoming book Leading with Zest. [38:41] People, process, and technology—in that order. [39:10] Protecting imagination and creativity in a tech-driven world. [42:16] Putting faith into action through workplace culture. [45:09] Where to find Brent, his books, and daily reflections.     Five Key Takeaways Leadership starts on the inside. You must know your values, faith, and motivations before you can lead others well. A strong "why" stabilizes leadership. Without it, leaders become reactive and inconsistent. Physical health fuels leadership presence. Energy, discipline, and consistency matter in how you show up. Coaching builds leaders; training builds skills. Growth happens through direct, caring conversations. People-first leadership creates thriving cultures—at work, at home, and in communities.     Links & Resources MicroFactor (1st Phorm): https://1stphorm.com/products/micro-factor/?a_aid=dadedge Level-1 Protein (1st Phorm): https://1stphorm.com/products/level-1/?a_aid=dadedge Brent Pohlman — Leaders Look Within: https://a.co/d/aIPZqXo Brent Pohlman — Leading with Zest: https://a.co/d/78BUngL Brent Pohlman Website: https://ceoofyourheart.com Episode Show Notes & Resources: https://thedadedge.com/1424   Closing Remark If this episode challenged you to lead with more intention, health, and heart, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. Leadership isn't about perfection—it's about showing up aligned, grounded, and willing to grow.
We're kicking off a brand-new year with something many of you have asked for—the return of our live Q&A episodes. In this conversation, I'm joined once again by Uncle Joe as we answer real questions from men inside our community about parenting, connection with daughters, discipline, stoicism, faith, and leadership at home.   This episode goes deep. We talk about building trust with kids who feel distant, why saying "no" too often damages connection, how fathers can lead without demanding reciprocity, and the difference between white-knuckling life versus living from identity. If you're a dad who wants deeper relationships with your kids and clarity around leadership, faith, and emotional presence, this episode will challenge and ground you.   Timeline Summary [0:00] Welcoming listeners to the 11th year of The Dad Edge Podcast. [1:37] Reflection on longevity, gratitude, and why this work still matters. [1:59] Announcement: Roommates to Soulmates eight-week course starting January 14. [2:19] What men will learn in the Roommates to Soulmates marriage training. [2:42] RSVP details for the January 7 preview call. [3:07] Welcoming Uncle Joe back to the show. [3:39] Listener question about connecting with daughters at different developmental stages. [5:14] Joe shares his experience raising three daughters. [6:33] Loving kids without expecting emotional reciprocation. [7:16] Why trust—not control—is the foundation of fatherhood. [8:08] Changing the default answer from "no" to "yes." [9:19] Joe shares the powerful "father promise ring" moment with his daughter. [10:41] Why fathers must make covenants to their kids—not demand them. [12:26] Larry shares his struggle connecting with his youngest son. [13:26] Letting kids lead connection through their interests. [14:12] Hiking, martial arts, and intentional one-on-one time. [15:19] Creating unique rituals with each child. [16:03] Capturing small moments for deep emotional connection. [18:12] Invitation to join the Dad Edge Alliance for live support and brotherhood. [19:51] Listener question about stoicism and discipline. [21:27] Larry explains why he moved away from stoicism. [22:29] Joe breaks down the appeal—and danger—of half-truths in stoicism. [24:07] White-knuckling life vs. living from identity. [25:00] Faith, identity, and emotional regulation. [27:28] Comparing stoicism with surrender and relationship-based leadership. [29:05] Psalm 23 and why dependence beats self-mastery. [31:30] Filtering wisdom through Scripture and lived experience. [34:41] How suffering builds empathy and leadership capacity. [35:19] Final thoughts, gratitude, and where to find resources.     Five Key Takeaways Connection with kids is built through trust, consistency, and presence—not control.  Fathers must lead relationships without demanding emotional repayment.  White-knuckling discipline leads to exhaustion; identity-based leadership leads to peace.  Kids feel deeply seen when dads meet them inside their interests.  True strength comes from surrender, faith, and relational grounding—not self-reliance alone.      Links & Resources Dad Edge Mastermind & Alliance: https://thedadedge.com/mastermind Roommates to Soulmates Course: https://thedadedge.com/soulmates Episode Show Notes & Resources: https://thedadedge.com/1423     Closing Remark   If this episode encouraged you, challenged your thinking, or gave you practical tools to lead better at home, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. These conversations matter—and your support helps us reach more men who are committed to becoming better fathers, husbands, and leaders.
To kick off 2026, I sit down with Dr. Paul Leonardi, author of the bestselling book Digital Exhaustion, for a conversation that felt incredibly timely—and personal. If you've been feeling distracted, mentally drained, short-tempered, or like your family is getting the leftovers of your energy, this episode puts clear language around what's happening inside your brain.   We dive deep into how constant app switching, nonstop notifications, and digital overload are quietly exhausting our attention, memory, marriages, and relationships with our kids. Paul breaks down the science behind digital exhaustion in a practical, grounded way, and I share a powerful moment when my 12-year-old voluntarily handed back his phone because he didn't like how it made him feel. This episode isn't about rejecting technology—it's about learning how to use it without letting it use us.     Timeline Summary: [0:00] Introduction [1:02] Welcoming listeners to 2026 and the 11th year of The Dad Edge Podcast. [1:40] Introducing Dr. Paul Leonardi and the concept of digital exhaustion. [2:22] How digital overload impacts attention, memory, marriage, and family life. [3:05] Parenting in a world our brains were never designed for. [4:12] Raising kids with devices and navigating unfamiliar territory. [6:07] Independence, social media, and emotional complexity in today's kids. [7:35] How online trends shape kids' identity and self-image. [9:58] What's actually happening in the brain during prolonged digital use. [11:16] The hidden "taxes" we pay for constant connectivity. [12:26] Driver #1: attention and constant context switching. [13:31] Driver #2: inference and filling in the blanks online. [15:26] Driver #3: amplified emotions—both positive and negative. [16:31] Why multitasking burns massive mental energy. [17:20] The impact of digital overload on memory and mental residue. [18:41] Outsourcing memory to devices and what it costs us. [21:15] When kids are actually ready for devices—and when they're not. [23:42] Why screen time isn't the real issue—interruptions and content are. [26:35] The emotional cost of likes, validation, and online comparison. [28:39] Larry shares the story of his son giving up his phone voluntarily. [31:11] Why kids struggle to articulate digital overwhelm. [32:06] The Facebook outage study and the surprising relief people felt. [35:10] Introducing the Roommates to Soulmates live course. [37:54] Digital exhaustion inside marriage and miscommunication over text. [38:58] "Make the match" — choosing the right communication medium. [43:12] "Be here, not elsewhere" and the power of undistracted presence. [46:09] How distraction has become socially normalized. [49:21] Why work interruptions at home send the wrong message. [51:39] Modeling priorities for kids through availability and presence. [56:21] Where to find Paul, his book, and additional resources.     Five Key Takeaways Digital exhaustion comes from attention switching, inference-making, and emotional overload, not just screen time alone. Multitasking is a myth—the brain burns massive energy switching contexts, leaving us mentally drained. Kids often feel overwhelmed by devices before they can explain it, which shows up as stress or behavior changes. Choosing the right communication tool matters, especially in marriage and parenting. Presence beats duration—ten fully focused minutes matter more than hours of distracted time.     Links & Resources Paul Leonardi — Digital Exhaustion Book: https://paulleonardi.com/digital-exhaustion-book/ Paul Leonardi on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paul-leonardi-45b67321/ Dad Edge Mastermind & Alliance: https://thedadedge.com/mastermind Roommates to Soulmates Course: https://thedadedge.com/soulmates Episode Show Notes & Resources: https://thedadedge.com/1422     Closing Remark If this episode made you rethink how you're using your phone, your attention, or your presence at home, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. The way we show up—focused, intentional, and available—shapes not just our kids' childhoods, but the adults they become.
In the final episode of 2025, I take time to reflect, express deep gratitude, and share what's coming next for The Dad Edge as we head into 2026. This episode is about honoring what this community has built together over the past ten years, celebrating the wins, and casting a clear vision for what's ahead for men who want to lead their families with intention.   I walk you through several major announcements—from the return of Wednesday Q&A with Uncle Joe, to our brand-new Dad Edge Alliance membership platform, upcoming marriage and health initiatives, and powerful in-person experiences like Men's Forge. This episode is both a thank-you and a rallying cry for men who are ready to step into the next year with clarity, purpose, and brotherhood.     Timeline Summary: [0:00] Welcoming listeners and reflecting on the final episode of 2025. [1:23] Celebrating 10 full years of podcasting and the growth of The Dad Edge. [1:41] Gratitude for listeners, downloads, and being ranked #1 again. [2:22] Why fatherhood, marriage, and family are the most important work we do. [2:56] A heartfelt thank-you to the community for showing up all year. [3:13] Announcement: Wednesday Q&A episodes return with Uncle Joe in 2026. [3:49] How to submit your questions for the Q&A episodes via email. [4:06] Introducing the brand-new Dad Edge Alliance membership site. [4:49] Why moving away from Facebook, Slack, and WhatsApp changed everything. [5:24] Weekly call teams and global time-zone support for members. [5:47] January focus inside the Alliance: marriage, parenting, vitality, and money. [6:26] February marriage training focused on intimacy, passion, and connection. [6:44] Partnership with 1st Phorm and upcoming health initiatives. [7:18] Announcement of the 8-week transformation challenge starting February 1. [7:55] Coaching, accountability, and community inside the challenge. [8:54] Information call for the Roommates to Soulmates live course. [9:14] What the Roommates to Soulmates course will teach men about marriage. [10:02] Larry shares his personal experience with marriage disconnection. [10:39] Men's Forge announcement with Ryan Michler and Order of Man. [11:01] Event dates, speakers, and why nearly everyone returned from last year. [11:56] "Bring a Brother" and "Bring a Son" ticket options. [12:12] Why exposing teenage sons to intentional masculinity matters. [13:10] Announcing the December Dad Edge 1st Phorm Man of the Month. [13:55] Recognizing Shay Chase for leadership and health coaching impact. [14:39] Directing listeners to the full show notes and resources. [15:01] Final thank-you and encouragement heading into 2026.     Five Key Takeaways: Intentional fatherhood creates generational impact, and this community exists to raise the standard for men.  Brotherhood and accountability matter, especially when men are navigating marriage, parenting, health, and finances.  Marriage requires skill-building and leadership, not passive hope that things will improve.  Physical health fuels leadership at home, and structured challenges create momentum and consistency.  The next year can look different if men commit to standards, community, and intentional action.      Links & Resources Dad Edge Alliance Membership: http://thedadedge.com/alliance Roommates to Soulmates Course: https://thedadedge.com/soulmates 1st Phorm Partnership: https://1stphorm.com/dadedge Episode Show Notes & Resources: https://thedadedge.com/1421 https://themensforge.com/   Closing Remark Gentlemen, thank you for an incredible 2025. Thank you for showing up, doing the work, and choosing to lead your families with intention. My hope is that we bring even more men to this table in 2026 so we can continue to change lives, marriages, and families for the better. Go out and live legendary.
What do you do when life changes in ways you didn't choose—and didn't see coming? In this deeply emotional and intellectually grounding conversation, I sit down with Dr. Maya Shankar, cognitive scientist, former White House advisor, and host of the podcast A Slight Change of Plans, to talk about change, identity, grief, and uncertainty.   Maya shares her powerful personal story of being accepted into Juilliard at a young age, only to have her violin career abruptly end due to a devastating injury. From there, we explore how unexpected change threatens our identity, why the human brain craves certainty, and how men, husbands, and fathers can navigate seasons where the future they imagined suddenly disappears. This conversation hit me personally as I opened up about my son preparing to leave for college, and Maya offers language, tools, and clarity for anyone navigating major life transitions.     Timeline Summary: [0:00] What happens when life changes and you don't get a vote. [1:28] Introducing Dr. Maya Shankar and the theme of unexpected change. [2:10] Being accepted into Juilliard at age nine and pursuing music at the highest level. [3:05] A career-ending violin injury and the grief that followed. [4:05] How loss threatens not just what we do—but who we are. [7:44] Learning violin by ear and developing passion without perfection. [9:03] A mother's fearlessness and the power of bold action. [11:06] Cold emailing, courage, and creating unexpected opportunities. [13:39] Being bullied as a child and finding safety in family and music. [15:16] Larry reflects on marriage drift and identity shifts. [18:06] Pivoting from academia to public policy and working at the White House. [21:51] The power of defaults and how behavioral science changed public outcomes. [25:17] Why uncertainty is harder on the brain than certainty—even bad certainty. [27:05] The illusion of control and how change shatters it. [27:31] Anchoring identity to why you do things, not just what you do. [29:45] Navigating infertility, loss, and redefining self-worth. [33:11] Why we resist change even when it's necessary for growth. [36:00] Marriage, evolution, and the "end of history illusion." [39:32] How hardship can lead to unexpected personal growth. [45:43] Gratitude as a tool for identity resilience. [48:25] Helping kids navigate change while managing your own emotions. [50:28] The grief of kids leaving home—even when it's a good thing. [54:26] Why we are more resilient than we think. [56:15] The importance of community during seasons of change. [59:19] Maya shares her book, podcast, and where to connect.     Five Key Takeaways Change threatens identity as much as circumstance, which is why it feels so destabilizing.  The brain prefers certainty—even negative certainty—over uncertainty, making transitions especially stressful.  Anchoring identity to your values and motivations creates resilience when roles and plans fall away.  We underestimate our ability to adapt and overestimate how painful change will be long-term.  Connection, community, and self-reflection are essential tools for navigating major life transitions.      Links & Resources Dr. Maya Shankar's Book: https://a.co/d/3u87zps Dr. Maya Shankar on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drmayashankar/?hl=en Roommates to Soulmates Course: https://thedadedge.com/soulmates Episode Show Notes & Resources: https://thedadedge.com/1420     Closing Remark If this episode gave you language for a season of change you're navigating right now, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. You're not alone in the uncertainty—and you're far more resilient than you think.
In today's episode, I sit down with Eric Kennedy, founder of Recovery Vow and author of Marriage After Addiction, for one of the most raw and redemptive conversations we've ever had on this show. Eric spent 15 years deep in addiction—alcohol, cocaine, crack, jail time, suicide attempts, losing his marriage, and losing himself. This isn't a story of high-functioning addiction. This is rock bottom in every sense of the word.   Eric opens up about growing up with emotional neglect, how unresolved trauma fueled his addiction, and the moments that finally forced him to choose life. We talk about the long road to sobriety, rebuilding trust with his kids, walking through divorce and remarriage, and what radical ownership really looks like when you're trying to rebuild a marriage after years of destruction. Whether you've battled addiction yourself or you're carrying unspoken wounds from your past, this episode is a powerful reminder that healing, redemption, and generational change are possible.     Timeline Summary: [0:00] Introduction [1:02] Why addiction isn't the real problem—trauma, disconnection, and silence are. [1:40] Introducing Eric Kennedy and the depth of his addiction story. [2:08] Addiction beginning with alcohol and escalating to cocaine and crack. [5:14] Using substances to bury trauma, anxiety, and depression. [7:13] Growing up with an emotionally unavailable father. [11:23] Seeing his father drunk as a child and the lasting impact. [15:00] Addiction escalating alongside marriage and fatherhood. [22:44] A suicide attempt and waking up in an ambulance. [25:05] Driving to get drugs with his kids in the car. [29:29] Arrest, jail time, and asking for help again. [30:10] Entering a 30-day treatment program in Florida. [33:14] Gaining custody of his sons while newly sober. [35:32] Finding faith, community, and structure in recovery. [37:02] Meeting his wife Kristin and rebuilding a healthy marriage. [42:44] Radical ownership and rebuilding trust through action. [51:48] Being fully honest with his sons about his past. [53:31] Choosing life, sobriety, and fatherhood every day.     Five Key Takeaways Addiction is often rooted in unresolved trauma and emotional disconnection, not just substance abuse.  Recovery requires radical ownership and healthy selfishness so you can show up for your kids and relationships.  Trust is rebuilt through consistent actions over time, not promises or apologies.  Honesty with your kids can break generational cycles and rebuild connection.  Redemption is always possible, but it requires humility, structure, and daily commitment.      Links & Resources Eric Kennedy's Book — Marriage After Addiction: https://a.co/d/4uYCpvT Recovery Vow: https://recoveryvow.com MicroFactor (1st Phorm): https://1stphorm.com/products/micro-factor/?a_aid=dadedge Opti-Greens 50 (1st Phorm): https://1stphorm.com/products/opti-greens-50-stick-packs/?a_aid=dadedge Roommates to Soulmates Course: https://thedadedge.com/soulmates Episode Show Notes & Resources: https://thedadedge.com/1417     Closing Remark   If today's episode gave you hope or reminded you that it's never too late to change, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. Your support helps us reach men who need to hear that recovery, redemption, and reconnection are possible.
In this Christmas Eve solo episode, I shift gears from our recent focus on online safety and talk about one of the most common—and painful—issues I see in long-term marriages: roommate syndrome. That quiet drift where intimacy fades, connection feels awkward, and marriage starts to feel more like co-parenting logistics than a romantic partnership. If you've ever laid in bed next to your wife feeling disconnected, unwanted, or unsure how things got this way, this episode is for you.   I share my own experience falling into roommate syndrome after years of marriage, kids, exhaustion, and unmet expectations. We talk about resentment, covert contracts, why nagging is often a cry for connection, and how most men were never taught how attraction actually works in marriage. I also explain why marriage—like jiu-jitsu or any skill—requires training, intentional effort, and doing what most men aren't willing to do if you want a relationship that's truly on fire.     Timeline Summary: [0:00] What roommate syndrome feels like when intimacy has faded. [1:39] Why so many marriages slowly slip into "friend zone" dynamics. [2:02] The statistic that 57% of married couples experience this season. [2:28] How resentment, logistics, and exhaustion kill connection. [3:07] Closing out the online safety series and shifting topics. [3:50] Why Larry chose to release this episode on Christmas Eve. [4:26] Introducing roommate syndrome as a core marriage issue. [5:03] Larry's 22-year marriage and personal experience with disconnection. [6:17] How kids, work, and busyness slowly erode intimacy. [6:53] When sex starts to feel transactional or obligatory. [7:13] Why "nagging" is often a bid for attention and being seen. [7:33] Sitting on opposite ends of the couch scrolling instead of connecting. [7:56] Covert contracts and resentment in marriage. [8:17] Why solving instead of listening makes wives feel unseen. [8:56] Awkward date nights and avoiding real conversations about intimacy. [9:18] A client story that began with signed divorce papers. [9:41] How real change happens when a man does the work. [10:15] Why becoming the man you're meant to be changes everything. [10:57] Marriage requires training just like work or martial arts. [11:14] Understanding attraction and speaking the right "currency" in marriage. [11:51] Loving your spouse the way they receive love. [12:11] Introducing the Roommates to Soulmates live course. [12:56] Creating confidence, attraction, and intimacy without neediness. [13:17] Why uncommon marriages require uncommon effort. [13:38] The reality that only 10–12% of marriages feel "on fire." [14:03] Rejecting the belief that passion naturally dies over time. [14:32] Marriage as a skill set that can be learned and mastered. [15:05] Course details, limited spots, and next steps. [15:25] Christmas message and encouragement to live legendary.     Five Key Takeaways: Roommate syndrome doesn't happen overnight—it's the result of neglecting connection, intimacy, and intentional effort.  Resentment grows when expectations go unspoken and needs are assumed instead of communicated.  Attraction in marriage is a learned skill, not something that automatically sustains itself over time.  Men must lead attraction with confidence, not needy or transactional energy.  Exceptional marriages are uncommon because they require uncommon effort, training, and intentional action.      Links & Resources: Roommates to Soulmates Course: https://thedadedge.com/soulmates 1st Phorm (Dad Edge Partner): https://1stphorm.com/dadedge Episode Show Notes & Resources: https://thedadedge.com/1418     Closing Remark   If this episode hit home and reminded you that marriage doesn't have to settle into mediocrity, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. You weren't meant to be roommates—you were meant to build a marriage on fire. From my heart to yours, have a Merry Christmas and continue to live legendary.
In today's episode, I sit down with Brent Gleeson, former Navy SEAL, combat veteran, entrepreneur, leadership expert, and author of his newest book All In. But this conversation isn't about résumés or accolades. It's about grief, discipline, marriage, fatherhood, and the systems that allow a man to truly live "all in" where it matters most.   Brent opens up about losing his father unexpectedly in 2023—a moment that forced deep reflection and radical change. We talk about the three pillars his dad lived by, how eliminating alcohol completely transformed Brent's marriage and leadership, and why discipline isn't about doing more—but about saying no to the wrong things. This episode is a masterclass in systems, habits, and intentional living for men who want to lead their families with clarity and conviction.     Timeline Summary: [0:00] Introducing Brent Gleeson and why this conversation goes far beyond achievements. [2:09] Losing his father in 2023 and the three pillars that shaped Brent's life. [2:57] How discipline is modeled—not preached. [3:28] Why saying yes to everything means saying no to the right things. [5:11] Family, work, and fitness as non-negotiable pillars. [8:05] The economic pressure and personal stress leading into 2023. [10:33] Being present for his father's final moments and the impact of that loss. [13:28] Going "all in" after grief and eliminating alcohol completely. [15:03] Why alcohol was no longer serving his marriage, health, or leadership. [17:21] How quitting drinking changed Brent's temperament, joy, and presence. [20:03] Larry shares his own experience stepping away from alcohol. [23:00] The cue–routine–reward framework for breaking habits. [28:39] Introducing Brent's "Remarkable Results Pyramid." [30:37] Why marriage must come first in the family system. [33:18] Committing to growth by intentionally cringing at who you were six months ago. [36:05] Why kids are always watching how parents treat each other. [39:30] Brent's 20–20–20 morning routine and disciplined evening habits. [41:25] Preparing daily to show up better as a husband, father, and leader. [46:03] Adjusting routines without abandoning discipline. [50:43] Why overscheduling kids destroys family balance. [54:27] Saying no to excessive activities and rejecting comparison parenting.     Five Key Takeaways   Discipline is about alignment, not intensity. What you say no to matters just as much as what you say yes to.  Grief can be a catalyst for clarity. Losing his father forced Brent to re-evaluate habits, priorities, and presence.  Eliminating alcohol radically improved marriage and leadership. Removing numbing behaviors created more joy, patience, and connection.  Systems create results. Whether in business, marriage, or parenting, outcomes come from well-designed systems—not willpower.  Marriage must come first. When the relationship between mom and dad is prioritized, the rest of the family system functions better.      Links & Resources Brent Gleeson's Book — https://a.co/d/7DOrJPE Dad Edge Soulmates Program: https://thedadedge.com/soulmates 1st Phorm (Dad Edge Partner): https://1stphorm.com/dadedge Episode Show Notes & Resources: http://thedadedge.com/1419 Bark Monitoring for Families: https://thedadedge.com/bark   Closing Remark If this episode challenged you to rethink discipline, habits, or what it really means to go all in as a husband and father, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. Your support helps us reach more men who are ready to lead with intention instead of drift.
What if the real scoreboard for fatherhood isn't your bank account, your job title, or your kids' trophies—but how much your adult kids actually want to spend time with you? In this deeply moving conversation, I sit down with Tim Campbell, an 82-year-old father, author, and living example of what long-term connection and trust with your kids can look like—even after a lifetime of hardship.   Tim shares his journey of being married for 50 years, raising three children—two with significant disabilities—and navigating medical crises, bullying, fear, and exhaustion that would have broken most families. We talk about growing up with a Marine father who lacked emotional tools, the moment Tim realized he had become the dad he swore he'd never be, and how he rebuilt trust one moment at a time. This episode is a masterclass in breaking generational patterns, showing up authentically, and understanding why trust is the real gold in fatherhood.     Timeline Summary: [0:00] Rethinking the true scoreboard of fatherhood and legacy. [1:20] Introducing Tim Campbell and his 50-year marriage. [2:19] Raising three kids, two with significant disabilities, and surviving medical crises. [3:09] Why trust and connection are the biggest themes of Tim's fatherhood journey. [3:29] Growing up with a Marine father and limited emotional connection. [4:16] How crisis can either weld a marriage together or tear it apart. [4:41] Tim introduces his book Holding Up the Sky. [5:02] Writing a healing, imaginary conversation with his late father. [7:00] How trauma early in marriage revealed character and long-term strength. [8:25] Learning you don't have to win every argument to win the long game. [12:23] Vowing to break generational patterns from his own childhood. [14:09] Wanting to be a better dad—but not knowing how at first. [16:24] Realizing fear turned him into the father he never wanted to be. [17:11] A breaking-point moment that forced real change. [18:19] Why leveling with your kids builds trust during hard moments. [18:52] Learning from the next generation, not just the previous one. [21:17] Larry shares his own parenting experience with a child with disabilities. [22:44] A bullying moment involving Tim's son and how he responded. [23:45] "Trust is the real gold" and how it compounds over time. [24:41] Parenting adult children with disabilities and letting go. [26:23] Knowing you did fatherhood right when adult kids still want connection. [28:16] Revisiting the final chapter of Holding Up the Sky. [30:58] Imagining his father's response and finding peace. [33:06] Authenticity, masks, and being human with your kids. [36:01] Why sharing your own childhood stories builds instant connection. [37:13] Where to find Tim, his book, and additional resources.     Five Key Takeaways Trust is the real currency of fatherhood. It opens the door to love, communication, and long-term connection.  Crisis reveals character. Hard seasons can either fracture a family or weld it together depending on how we show up.  Fear can turn us into the parent we swore we'd never be if we don't consciously course-correct.  Getting down to your child's level—literally and emotionally—builds safety and trust.  Adult children choosing to stay connected is the truest measure of success.      Links & Resources Tim Campbell's Book — Holding Up the Sky: https://holdingupthesky.net Tim Campbell Website: https://timcampbellodysseys.net Episode Show Notes & Resources: https://thedadedge.com/1416 Bark Monitoring for Families: https://thedadedge.com/bark   Closing Remark If this episode reminded you what really matters in fatherhood, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. And remember—titles fade, money comes and goes, but trust with your kids is the gold that lasts a lifetime.
In this deeply emotional solo episode, I continue our December series focused on protecting kids from online predators. I walk you through two real and devastating cases that show exactly how grooming, sextortion, and long-term digital harassment happen—often without parents having any idea it's occurring. These aren't edge cases. This is the reality of the digital world our kids are growing up in.   We break down a Roblox grooming case involving an eight-year-old girl, how predators slowly build trust and move conversations to private apps, and why platform bans don't actually stop them. I also share the heartbreaking story of Amanda Todd, a seventh grader who was hunted online for years by a predator who weaponized images, social media, and bullying across schools and borders. This episode is hard to listen to—but necessary—because awareness is the first step in protecting our kids.     Timeline Summary: [0:00] Why online grooming often goes unnoticed until it's too late. [1:48] How predators now access kids directly in their bedrooms through devices. [2:46] Why this generation of parents is navigating entirely new digital dangers. [3:52] Parenting the first generation of kids growing up fully online. [4:20] Introducing a real Roblox grooming case involving an eight-year-old girl. [5:24] How predators use in-game chat and "helping" to gain trust. [6:18] The move from public game chat to private apps like WhatsApp. [6:44] Grooming tactics that feel like friendship to kids. [7:09] How exploitation and sextortion begin once trust is built. [8:07] Why platform bans don't stop predators from returning. [9:06] Key lessons parents must understand about Roblox and open chat systems. [10:06] Larry shares a personal experience with a suspicious "wrong number" text. [11:54] Why text messages and private apps are also major risk areas. [12:25] Introducing the Amanda Todd case from British Columbia. [12:52] How sextortion followed Amanda across schools and years. [13:58] Why Amanda wasn't bullied—she was hunted. [14:27] The mental health toll of long-term digital harassment. [15:18] Amanda's nine-minute YouTube video explaining her story. [15:49] Arrest, conviction, and sentencing of her predator years later. [16:41] Why one image can give predators long-term control. [17:39] How predators weaponize anonymity, time, and technology. [18:38] Why Bark has helped Larry catch issues proactively for seven years. [19:26] How parents can honor victims by protecting their own kids. [20:11] Final call to action to monitor devices and stay engaged.     Five Key Takeaways Online grooming happens slowly and quietly, often disguised as friendship and "help" inside games like Roblox.  Predators almost always move kids from public chats to private apps, where there is no moderation or logging.  One image is all a predator needs to control, extort, and emotionally destroy a child over time.  Platform bans do not protect kids, because predators can create new accounts in minutes.  Parental awareness and monitoring can change outcomes, and proactive conversations can prevent lifelong trauma.      Links & Resources Bark Monitoring for Families: https://thedadedge.com/bark Episode Show Notes & Resources: https://thedadedge.com/1415 Mentioned Link: https://www.amandatoddlegacy.org/aydin-coban.html?utm_source=chatgpt.com   Closing Remark These stories are hard—but they matter. The best way we can honor kids who've been hurt or lost is by protecting our own. Please rate, review, follow, and share this episode, and most importantly, stay involved in your kids' digital lives. From my heart to yours—let's do better.
What if the most dangerous addiction in the world isn't drugs, alcohol, or gambling—but revenge? In this eye-opening conversation, I sit down with Dr. James Kimmel Jr., Yale School of Medicine researcher, attorney, and author of The Science of Revenge, to unpack what actually happens in our brains when we feel wronged, humiliated, or disrespected.   Dr. Kimmel breaks down the neuroscience behind revenge, why it lights up the brain the same way cocaine does, and how seeking retaliation gives us a temporary dopamine hit that ultimately leaves us worse off. We talk about anger, forgiveness, sibling rivalry, marriage conflict, parenting mistakes, and why forgiveness isn't weakness—it's one of the most powerful tools we have to reclaim peace, leadership, and self-control as men and fathers.     Timeline Summary    [0:00] Why revenge may be the most dangerous addiction in the world. [2:10] Introducing Dr. James Kimmel Jr. and his research on revenge and forgiveness. [3:02] How revenge activates the same brain circuitry as drugs like cocaine. [4:38] Dr. Kimmel's background as both a lawyer and Yale researcher. [6:33] Marriage, faith, and building a family with shared purpose over 37 years. [9:12] Advice on long-term marriage and selecting the right partner early. [13:23] Why revenge seeking escalates conflict in families and relationships. [16:17] Defining revenge as an addictive, pleasure-seeking process. [17:17] How grievances activate the brain's pain and reward systems. [21:25] Why emotional pain registers as physical pain in the brain. [23:13] Dopamine, craving, and why revenge never actually satisfies. [25:32] How the prefrontal cortex gets hijacked during revenge seeking. [28:06] Revenge cycles in marriage and intimate relationships. [31:20] Losing control: when logic shuts down during retaliation. [33:27] Larry shares a real-life road rage trigger moment. [37:39] How quickly fight-or-flight turns into revenge seeking. [39:52] Why only about 20% of people become "revenge addicted." [42:16] Differences between men and women when seeking revenge. [43:28] Why revenge plots dominate movies like John Wick and The Lion King. [47:07] Sibling rivalry and how revenge shows up between brothers. [54:23] Parenting discipline vs. revenge-driven punishment. [58:25] Why forgiveness is essential for breaking the revenge cycle.     Five Key Takeaways Revenge activates the same brain circuits as drugs and gambling, making it addictive and compulsive for some people.  Emotional wounds register as real physical pain in the brain, triggering a desire to self-medicate through retaliation.  Revenge provides temporary relief but increases anger, anxiety, and depression after the dopamine fades.  Parents can unintentionally cross the line from discipline into revenge, especially when ego and shame are triggered.  Forgiveness is not weakness—it's neuroscience. It's one of the most powerful ways to reclaim control, peace, and leadership.  Links & Resources The Science of Revenge: https://bit.ly/4q1khVd Bark Monitoring for Families: https://thedadedge.com/bark Podcast Shownotes: http://thedadedge.com/1414     Closing Remark   If this episode challenged the way you think about anger, conflict, and forgiveness, please take a moment to rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. Your support helps us reach more men who want to lead with intention instead of reaction.
If you're a parent with a kid in youth sports—rec, competitive, or full-blown travel—today's episode will hit home. I sit down with Jonathan Carone, creator of Healthy Sports Parents, for a powerful conversation about what youth sports have become, why burnout is skyrocketing, and how well-meaning parents (including me in the early years) unknowingly make the experience more stressful for their kids.   We break down shocking stats—like why 70% of kids quit sports by age 13, why travel leagues are burning families out, and how overtraining is causing injuries in 9-, 10-, and 11-year-olds. Jonathan brings immense wisdom about the car ride home, sideline behavior, when to step in with coaches, and how to raise confident, resilient athletes without crushing the joy of the game.     Timeline Summary:   [0:00] The surprising reason most kids quit sports by age 13. [2:14] Larry shares his own evolution from "obnoxious sideline dad" to quiet encourager. [3:41] Introducing guest Jonathan Carone of Healthy Sports Parents. [4:10] Why travel sports are wrecking family time and burning kids out. [4:40] The truth about scholarships and NIL fantasies. [5:00] How the car ride home can make or break a kid's love for the game. [6:04] The pressure kids feel once sports stop being fun. [7:04] Why rec leagues are disappearing—and why that matters. [8:29] How travel sports exploded over the last 25 years. [10:25] A realistic look at what travel sports demand from families. [12:09] Early onset injuries from overscheduling and year-round seasons. [14:21] Real-life stories of parents whose kids never get a break. [16:06] Why travel sports can destroy family dinners and family culture. [17:05] The fear-based mindset driving parents to overcommit. [19:47] The burnout cycle and why most kids stop enjoying the sport. [20:05] The psychology behind parents who push too hard. [21:13] Self-love vs. self-glory and how they influence parenting. [22:29] The myth of scholarships and how rare they really are. [23:24] How unhealthy pressure destroys a child's love for physical activity. [24:13] Why running became punishment for our generation. [26:33] Protecting kids' mental health in the digital age with Bark. [31:43] What parents should be doing on the sidelines. [34:36] The car ride home: three things you should ALWAYS say. [35:42] When and how to give feedback the right way. [38:44] Using a 5-to-1 positivity ratio to help kids grow. [41:22] Being an "obnoxious encourager." [43:33] The power of tone and why it changes everything. [45:04] When coaches only play to win—and your kid never gets in. [47:04] Teaching kids to advocate for themselves, age by age. [49:20] How ADHD affects emotional regulation in sports. [53:14] The long-tail impact of how we parent through sports. [54:18] Generational change starts with how we show up today.     Five Key Takeaways Kids quit because the game stops being fun—not because of screens, school, or injuries. Pressure from adults is the biggest culprit.  Travel sports demand 6–15 hours per week before adding training or lessons, often at the cost of family dinners and downtime.  Overuse injuries are exploding in kids as young as 9 due to year-round seasons and lack of rest.  Parents often push due to fear, self-validation, or scholarship fantasies, even though less than 5% of athletes ever receive any scholarship money.  The car ride home should NEVER be coaching time. The only things kids need to hear are: "I loved watching you play," "Where do you want to eat?" and "What do you want to listen to?"      Links & Resources Bark Monitoring for Families: https://thedadedge.com/bark Healthy Sports Parents (Jonathan Carone): https://healthysportsparents.com Healthy Sports Parents on Social: https://www.instagram.com/healthysportsparents/ Episode Show Notes: https://thedadedge.com/1413     Closing Remark If this episode gave you a new perspective on supporting your youth athlete, take a moment to rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. Your support helps us reach more dads who want to lead with intention—on the sidelines and at home.
In this solo December episode, I continue a month-long series dedicated to educating parents about the real dangers our kids face online. After last week's story about Adam Tate, today I share two more real cases—one involving sextortion and another involving swatting—that every parent needs to understand. These aren't rare events. They're happening quickly, quietly, and often right under our noses while our kids sit in their bedrooms playing games like Roblox, Fortnite, and more.   You'll hear the heartbreaking story of 17-year-old Ryan Lass from San Jose, who took his own life within hours of being extorted by an overseas criminal network. Then we break down the tragic case of Andrew Finch, a 28-year-old father of two who was killed after a swatting prank triggered a full SWAT response to the wrong house. Both stories highlight how dangerous the digital world has become—and why we must be proactive, aware, and deeply involved in protecting our kids' online lives.     Timeline Summary: [0:00] Introduction [1:02] Why December episodes are focused on online safety and protecting kids. [1:50] Recap of last week's episode about Adam Tate and the Sean Ryan interview. [2:32] Why sinister online activity is escalating and why parents must stay informed. [3:02] Introducing two new stories: a sextortion case and a swatting case. [3:48] Explanation of "swatting" and why even young kids are now doing it. [4:48] Beginning Ryan Lass's story — a high school senior extorted online. [5:38] How a predator posed as a woman and launched a rapid blackmail attack. [6:07] FBI findings and identification of the international criminal ring. [7:41] Why Ryan's case matters: he was targeted, not reckless. [8:37] How modern predators manipulate teens using panic and pressure. [9:02] Parents' blind spots about who kids are connected to online. [10:17] Reminder that kids are connected to global predators—not just friends. [11:03] Introduction to Andrew Finch's swatting case. [12:06] The false 911 call describing a violent hostage situation. [12:57] How Andrew Finch was shot despite having no involvement. [14:01] Why swatting is deadly—and how it grew out of gaming communities. [15:39] The seriousness of online conflict and its real-world consequences. [16:33] How swatting and predator activity now infiltrate gaming platforms. [16:54] Why Bark is one of the most effective tools for monitoring kids' devices. [17:19] The need for proactive online supervision—like helmets for digital life. [18:18] A recent incident with my own son that Bark helped me catch early. [19:09] The urgency of protecting our kids from online predators. [19:32] Directing listeners to the show notes and resources at thedadedge.com/1412. [20:10] Additional resources including PenTester, YouTube links, and conversation guides. [20:27] Free "Conversations for the Car" PDF for kids ages 5–18. [20:45] Encouragement for parents: we fight this fight together.       Five Key Takeaways Predators are organized, trained, and global. Kids on gaming systems are interacting with far more than just "friends."  Sextortion happens extremely fast. In Ryan's case, the window from first contact to death was only hours.  Swatting is no longer just a gaming prank—it's deadly. The Andrew Finch tragedy shows how quickly it can turn fatal.  Parents must stay vigilant, informed, and engaged. Safety now requires ongoing conversations and digital monitoring.  Tools like Bark can save lives. Monitoring texts, DMs, and online chats can catch danger long before it escalates.      Links & Resources Mentioned   Bark Monitoring for Families: https://thedadedge.com/bark Ryan Montgomery Episode: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2GPd36fFPuLsBSlZp6WUvc?si=BPYACSoWRRin9MatFHMGbg Facebook Story Referenced in Episode: https://www.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=32876961955250751&id=100000911118224&mibextid=wwXIfr&rdid=nnmVU8LFIdec2oLO# PenTester (Ryan Montgomery's Cybersecurity Site): https://pentester.com/ Ryan Montgomery's YouTube Channel (@0dayCTF): https://www.youtube.com/@0dayCTF NBC Bay Area News — Sextortion Case of San Jose Teen: https://www.nbcbayarea.com/news/local/4-arrested-sextortion-san-jose-teen-suicide/3865298/?utm_source=chatgpt.com ABC News — Swatting Incident Leading to Andrew Finch's Death: https://abcnews.go.com/US/la-man-arrested-swatting-incident-led-police-killing/story?id=52057251&utm_source=chatgpt.com Podcast Episode Shownotes: http://thedadedge.com/1412   Closing Remark If this episode helped open your eyes to the realities our kids face online, please take a moment to rate, review, follow, and share the show. Together, we can protect our kids and make the digital world a safer place for every family.
In this powerful and deeply emotional episode, I sit down with my good friend Sean Cochran, CEO of Men for Life, to have one of the rawest conversations we've ever shared on this podcast. Sean opens up about losing his first child to abortion at 19 and the seven-year spiral that followed—addiction, gambling, overdoses, isolation, and hitting rock bottom on the floor of a dirty hotel room. His story is one of unimaginable darkness, but also unbelievable redemption.   We explore how culture has silenced men in the abortion conversation, the devastating emotional impact so many men carry in secret, and Sean's journey from shame to recovery, fatherhood, and ultimately becoming a national voice for men who feel unseen in this space. We also dive into the mission behind Men for Life, the data behind father involvement, and how redefining authentic masculinity can change families and communities for generations.     Timeline Summary   [0:00] Sean begins sharing why abortion is not just a "women's issue." [2:03] The staggering data on how many men are affected by abortion every year. [3:56] Sean's personal story begins—19 years old, his girlfriend is pregnant. [5:06] Learning the abortion would happen despite his desire to keep the baby. [6:34] The counselor who told him "this doesn't affect you"—and how that shaped years of silence. [8:05] Addiction escalates: cocaine, ecstasy, gambling, and stealing. [9:25] Hitting rock bottom in a hotel room and believing he would die. [10:59] A moment of surrender and prayer that changed everything. [12:50] Entering treatment, beginning healing, and naming his son "Michael." [15:38] Rebuilding: finishing college, law school, starting a family. [17:04] Adopting three children—and the powerful contrast between two mothers' choices. [18:28] Realizing he was failing as a lawyer, husband, and father—and shutting down his law practice. [21:00] Discovering men everywhere carry hidden abortion wounds after speaking publicly for the first time. [23:03] How Sean was led—against his own plans—to become CEO of Men for Life. [26:05] The mission: creating a fatherhood program that transforms young men and saves lives. [28:00] Why authentic masculinity is rooted in service, courage, sacrifice, and Christ-like leadership. [30:00] How men can get involved and support Men for Life.     Five Key Takeaways Men are deeply impacted by abortion, yet culture has told them their voice doesn't matter. One in five men will lose a child to abortion by age 45—and most carry that pain alone. Sean's seven-year spiral was fueled by unprocessed grief, shame, and the belief that he "didn't matter." Father involvement changes outcomes: when men see an ultrasound and go through a fatherhood program, 97% choose life. Authentic masculinity isn't domination—it's service, courage, sacrifice, and living for something bigger than yourself.     Links & Resources Mentioned Men for Life Website: https://menforlife.org Contact Sean Directly: Email: sean@menforlife.org or https://menforlife.org/contact-us Sean's Instagram: https://instagram.com/lseancorcoran Dad Edge Mastermind: https://thedadedge.com/mastermind Episode Show Notes Page: https://thedadedge.com/1411   Closing Remark If today's episode moved you, inspired you, or helped you feel less alone, please take a moment to rate, review, and share the podcast. Your support helps us reach more men who need these conversations.
In today's conversation, I sit down with Ian Cron — a psychotherapist, priest, bestselling author of The Road Back to You, and one of the world's leading experts on the Enneagram. This episode hit me far harder than I expected. Ian doesn't just explain the Enneagram… he helps us understand how our personality type shapes our marriage, our parenting, our leadership, and even the stories we tell ourselves.   But things get incredibly real when Ian puts me through a live guided inner-work exercise. Within minutes, he led me straight into one of the deepest beliefs I carry about success, provision, and worth — taking me face-to-face with the 12-year-old version of myself who still drives far more than I realized. It was raw, vulnerable, uncomfortable… and one of the most powerful moments I've had behind this microphone. If you've ever wondered why you do what you do, why you push so hard, or why your strengths sometimes undermine you, this conversation will stop you in your tracks.     Timeline Summary: [0:00] – Introducing the episode and why today's conversation hit harder than expected. [1:27] – Ian Cron's background as a psychotherapist, priest, and Enneagram expert. [2:12] – Ian explains the nine personality types in plain language. [2:42] – Why I chose to get vulnerable and let Ian guide me through inner work. [3:25] – A moment of intense authenticity as I sit face-to-face with my younger self. [11:51] – Nature vs. nurture — where personality comes from. [13:34] – Why self-awareness is essential for good living, marriage, and parenting. [15:31] – Applying Enneagram wisdom to understanding kids and their inner worlds. [17:22] – How knowing my wife's type changed our marriage. [18:27] – "What's best about you is also what's worst about you." [19:59] – Ian analyzes my type (3w2) and explains why he knew so much about me instantly. [21:42] – How threes may unintentionally run over people while chasing goals. [22:50] – Parenting kids who aren't wired like you — and avoiding making them copies. [24:12] – Why every type has strengths, weaknesses, and a path toward health. [26:32] – Understanding your kids' Enneagram types and customizing your parenting. [27:48] – When kids should take the Enneagram test. [29:03] – My own reflections on turning 50 and becoming more self-aware. [30:19] – How to begin inner work and understand your type's shadow side. [31:21] – The shift from first-half-of-life achievement to second-half-of-life meaning. [32:36] – Do Enneagram types change over time? [33:58] – Ian shares the hard truths about being a Type 4 and the work it required. [35:51] – What makes the Enneagram "painfully accurate" — and why it stings at first. [43:03] – Why dating app "compatibility" algorithms may be misleading. [46:16] – The danger of being married to someone exactly like you. [47:15] – Why I talk to the "achiever" part of myself and how Ian explains this phenomenon. [49:21] – Understanding internal "parts" and learning to lead them well. [52:06] – The moment my 12-year-old self emerges during the guided exercise. [1:02:14] – Why self-knowledge is the beginning of wisdom. [1:03:27] – Ian's resources: assessments, coaching, books, and his Typology podcast. [1:04:45] – Final reflections and directing listeners to the show notes.     Five Key Takeaways   The Enneagram reveals core motivations, not just behaviors. Understanding your type gives you a mirror into why you act, think, and feel the way you do.  Self-awareness is foundational to healthy marriage and parenting. When you understand your patterns, blind spots, and triggers, you show up more intentionally for the people you love.  Your strengths also contain your shadow. "What's best about you is also what's worst about you" — and growth requires facing both sides honestly.  Inner-work exposes old parts still running your life. The guided exercise revealed a wounded 12-year-old part of me still driving my need to achieve and provide.  Your type doesn't change, but you evolve within it. True maturity comes from learning to lead your personality, not letting it lead you.      Links & Resources: Ian's website & resources: https://www.ianmorgancron.com Ian's book: The Road Back to You: https://www.amazon.com/Road-Back-You-Enneagram-Self-Discovery/dp/0830846190 Bark x The Dad Edge: http://thedadedge.com/bark Show notes: https://thedadedge.com/1410     Closing Remark   If this episode gave you a moment of clarity, helped you understand yourself better, or challenged you to grow, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. From my heart to yours, thank you for listening — now go out and live legendary.
In this first solo show for December, the host, Larry Hagner, comes to the audience with anger and urgency to discuss a massive, sinister online threat targeting children through seemingly innocent games like Roblox and Minecraft. Drawing heavily from a recent Sean Ryan Show interview with ethical hacker Ryan Montgomery (Episode 255), the host alerts parents to the dark fringes of the internet and a dangerous group, 764, described as a dark web cult with an "indifference" belief that lives and families mean nothing.   The episode features the heartbreaking, public post from Adam and Amanda Tate whose 15-year-old son, Bryce Tate, tragically took his own life after being a victim of sextortion. The host details how these criminals build trust, escalate quickly (the Tate tragedy occurred in just three hours), and use threats of public exposure to manipulate vulnerable children. Beyond sextortion, the episode warns about extreme acts of self-harm, pet-killing, and even violence against family members being coerced for things as trivial as Roblox Robux.   The host emphasizes that parental awareness is the only defense. He strongly recommends using a parental monitoring software like Bark (about $15/month) to monitor online chats, text messages, and social media, allowing parents to get immediate alerts and intervene before tragedy strikes. This is a passionate call to action for fathers to educate themselves, have ongoing, fruitful conversations, and protect their children's lives.   TIMELINE SUMMARY   [0:00] Introduction [1:47] Episode disclaimer for parents [2:22] Alerting parents to the "massive threat" in games like Roblox and Minecraft [3:35] How innocent games can be tampered with and made evil [3:59] Introducing the Sean Ryan Show and the interview with Ryan Montgomery [4:37] Episode 255 of The Sean Ryan Show: "Roblox and Minecraft. Hacker exposes the largest online video games." [5:22] Warning: Roblox is not safe; introduction to the online group 764 [6:07] The 764 group's belief in indifference and not caring about the welfare of children [6:51] Sharing the story of Bryce Tate (15) and his parents, Adam and Amanda Tate [8:57] The discovery: Bryce was a victim of sextortion—a serious and growing threat  [9:49] The extortion phase: demanding $500 and threatening to share photos.  [10:22] Bryce, believing his world was destroyed, was manipulated into taking his own life [11:11] The rapid timeline: the first message to the final tragic act occurred in just three hours [12:02] Episode recommendation: Sean Ryan/Ryan Montgomery interview  [13:13] Discussing extreme acts: forcing a 14-year-old girl to hang herself naked on video [14:08] Forcing kids to tattoo usernames, burn themselves, and kill their pets or parents/siblings on video [15:10] The shocking detail: kids are being coerced for Roblox Robux, not even real money  [16:49] Bark: Parental Monitoring Software [19:11] Call to parents: Make an effort to have ongoing conversations with your kids [19:35] The modern threat: the bully can be in your kid's bedroom, 25 feet away, and you have "no idea" [20:25] Conclusion: The only protection our kids have is us; a passionate final call to action.   5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   The Threat is Real and Sinister Online platforms like Roblox and Minecraft are being exploited by a large, sadistic group (764) on the dark web that preys on vulnerable children, escalating from sextortion to coercing extreme acts of self-harm and violence for Robux or recognition. Speed is Critical—Intervention Must Be Immediate. The sextortion process is incredibly fast. A child can be manipulated into a catastrophic decision in as little as three to six hours, as seen in the Bryce Tate tragedy, highlighting the crucial need for immediate digital awareness and monitoring. The Stakes Are Life and Death. These criminals are professionals who exploit children's innocence and sense of shame, often leading victims to take their own lives. The host argues this is a heinous crime, describing the acts as being "murdered... through his phone".  Awareness is the Only Defense. Parents cannot protect their children unless they know what is happening. The host urges parents to research the topic (especially the Sean Ryan Show interview with Ryan Montgomery) to understand the depth of the technological and psychological infiltration. Protect Your Kids with Technology and Ongoing Conversation. While open, ongoing conversations are vital, parental monitoring tools like Bark are essential for a safety net. Bark monitors 30+ apps and texts, sending immediate alerts to parents, allowing intervention within minutes to stop a fast-moving threat.   LINKS Podcast Shownotes: https://thedadedge.com/1409 Bark: Parental Monitoring Software: https://thedadedge.com/bark #255 Ryan Montgomery - Roblox & Minecraft: Hacker Exposes the Largest Online Video Games: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2GPd36fFPuLsBSlZp6WUvc?si=7BfOCdNOTzuoW4LkvHzyAA #JusticeforBryce - Adam Tate's Official Announcement: https://www.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=32876961955250751&id=100000911118224&mibextid=wwXIfr&rdid=nnmVU8LFIdec2oLO# Pentester: https://pentester.com Ryan Montgomery: https://www.youtube.com/@0dayCTF
In today's conversation, I'm sitting down with Tyler Moore—better known as Tidy Dad—and this one genuinely surprised me in the best way. We went way beyond "clean your room" tactics and dove into how clutter quietly taxes our patience, steals our mornings, and robs us of presence with the people we love. Tyler breaks down simple, doable systems that turn chaos into calm—especially for us dads navigating careers, marriage, and raising kids.   We talk about the launch-pad front door setup that ends morning scrambles, the capsule wardrobe that eliminates decision fatigue, how to get your kids on board without battles or tears, and how to choose the right starting point so you build momentum instead of overwhelm. If you want more laughter, connection, and leadership at home—and fewer frantic searches for keys—this episode will hit you right where you need it.     Timeline Summary   [0:00] – Introduction [1:01] – Why "less mess = more presence" and how clutter taxes patience, marriage, and mornings. [3:10] – Tyler on why tidying starts with accepting that life will get messy—and how systems prevent spirals. [4:47] – The hidden cost of small daily stressors (like losing your keys) and why routines create mental clarity. [7:21] – The extremes of "perfectly tidy" vs. "messy house, happy family"… and where most dads actually fall. [17:05] – The front-door "launch pad": a simple system that ends the morning chaos for good. [18:24] – Tyler's game-changing capsule wardrobe that eliminates decision fatigue (and why kids notice). [26:30] – Why most big organizing projects fail—and how to start small by identifying the real pain point. [33:24] – How to get kids involved without tears by starting with low-stakes categories and giving them ownership. [47:09] – Lessons learned from the "bedroom switch meltdown" and communicating as a couple before changing systems. [51:52] – Why intentional living beats comparison, and how to define "just enough" for your family.     Five Key Takeaways   Clutter steals more than space — it steals presence. Small daily frustrations compound into bigger emotional and relational consequences. Systems beat motivation. Creating "launch pads," routines, and predictable spots for essentials protects your mornings and your mindset. Start tiny, not huge. The big whole-house overhauls usually fail; momentum comes from solving one specific pain point at a time. Kids thrive when they're part of the process. Beginning with low-stakes categories (like socks or pajamas) builds confidence, ownership, and calm. Define "just enough" for your family. You don't need the fanciest home or the most stuff—intentional choices create more freedom, clarity, and connection.       Links & Resources Tyler Moore (Tidy Dad) on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tidydad Tidy Times Newsletter (Substack): https://tidydad.substack.com Tidy Tidbits Podcast: Search Tidy Tidbits wherever you listen to podcasts Dad Edge Show Notes: https://thedadedge.com/1408 Dad Edge Business Boardroom: https://thedadedge.com/mastermind     Closing Remark   If this conversation gave you practical ways to reclaim presence, connection, and calm inside your home, do me a favor—rate, follow, and leave a quick review. And share this one with another dad who could use a boost in simplifying his life and leading more intentionally. You guys are the best.
In this special Black Friday episode, I dive into a much-needed conversation about emotional reset. As the holiday season ramps up, many of us are carrying stress, tension, and unprocessed emotions that make us more reactive and less connected. In this short but impactful solo episode, I walk you through how to reset three vital areas of your life—your mind, your marriage, and your relationship with your kids—before the craziness of December takes over.   If you've felt overwhelmed, disconnected, or simply exhausted lately, this episode offers practical and heartfelt guidance to bring intention, clarity, and presence back into your home.     EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS   [0:00] – Introduction [1:02] – Why this time of year can feel especially heavy and chaotic [2:22] – The three things to reset before the holidays: mind, marriage, and kids [3:04] – A tactical Black Friday shout-out and 50% off gear at thedadedge.com/shop [3:58] – Resetting your mind: the power of a quiet, tech-free 30-minute walk [5:03] – How constant busyness keeps us distracted and emotionally exhausted [6:38] – Resetting your marriage with one simple and honest check-in conversation [7:23] – Real-life example of how Larry leads open dialogue with his wife [9:12] – Resetting your connection with your kids through gratitude and shared plans [10:10] – What Larry's son said he wanted to do together before Christmas [10:29] – Why you shouldn't wait until January 1st to reconnect with your family     5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   Resetting Begins with Stillness: Unprocessed stress makes us reactive and distant. A quiet 30-minute walk without media can bring clarity, calm, and presence back to your day. Marital Tension Needs Check-Ins, Not Grand Gestures: One intentional conversation with your spouse—asking how they're doing and what needs to be talked about—can diffuse tension and bring closeness back. Children Want Time, Not Things: Asking your kids what they loved about the year and what they want to do together before Christmas creates meaningful connection during a busy season. Don't Wait for the New Year to Start Over: You can recalibrate your emotional tone now. Waiting for January 1st delays the connection your family needs today. Great Dads Lead with Emotional Tone: Your mindset, your calm, and your intention set the atmosphere for your entire home. Lead it with purpose—especially during the holidays.       LINKS & RESOURCES   Black Friday Sale (limited time): https://thedadedge.com/shop – Use code FRIDAY for 50% off all gear Download the "25 Questions" PDF for better connection with your kids: https://thedadedge.com/25questions Episode Show notes: https://thedadedge.com/1407     If this episode resonated with you, take 30 minutes today for yourself—and 10 minutes with your family. Then rate and review the podcast, and share it with a fellow dad who could use a reset.   Live legendary.
In this special solo episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I take a moment to reflect on the power of gratitude, especially as we approach Thanksgiving. What started out as a funny story about a failed attempt to record with my nine-year-old quickly turned into a heartfelt message for the men who make this podcast possible. I open up about the lessons I've learned over the past 10 years of podcasting, leading the Dad Edge movement, and the importance of appreciating life's simplest blessings—even when the world feels chaotic.   Whether you're navigating challenging family dynamics over the holidays or simply want to deepen your connection with those you love, this episode is packed with encouragement and reminders about what truly matters.     EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS   [0:00] – Introduction [1:22] – Why this solo episode almost didn't happen [2:38] – Reflections on Thanksgiving and what it represents [3:55] – How simple gratitude (like working fingers and toes) shifts perspective [4:56] – The Hagner family Thanksgiving tradition of spoken gratitude [5:35] – The importance of setting healthy boundaries around alcohol [6:17] – A hilarious and humbling personal story from a past holiday [7:37] – Deep gratitude to the Dad Edge community and listeners [9:51] – Shout-out to men in the Alliance, Boardroom, and 1-on-1 coaching [11:39] – Celebrating Wade Hendry as First Form Dad Edge Dad of the Month [14:29] – How First Form's company culture mirrors our values [15:20] – Where to find full show notes and resources for this episode     5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   Gratitude Doesn't Require Perfection: Even in chaotic or stressful family situations, choosing to focus on small, simple blessings—like health or a working car—can reframe your entire experience. Holiday Traditions Can Be Powerful Tools: Larry's family tradition of expressing specific gratitude around the Thanksgiving table serves as a model for meaningful connection, not just with family but with intention. Guard Your Energy and Presence: The episode includes a candid and humorous warning about overindulging in alcohol during the holidays—a reminder that one night can become a story you regret for decades. Celebrate Your Journey, Even If It's Imperfect: Larry shares how the Dad Edge Podcast began as a passion project and evolved into a global movement—proof that you don't have to have it all figured out to make an impact. The Community Is What Makes This Possible: From listeners to Alliance members to coaching clients, this episode is a heartfelt "thank you" to the men doing life together, growing, contributing, and showing up with courage.       LINKS & RESOURCES   Full episode details: https://thedadedge.com/1406 Download "25 Questions to Help You Connect with Your Kids": https://thedadedge.com/25questions Shop First Form and support the podcast: https://1stphorm.com/dadedge Podcast Shownotes: https://thedadedge.com/1406     If this episode resonated with you, please rate, review, and share it with another father. Let's keep building this community of intentional men who lead and love well.   Live legendary.
In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I sit down with Bryan Driscoll, a successful digital marketer and real estate investor who's also a devoted husband and father. Bryan opens up about his journey balancing business and family, the intentional decisions he's made to protect his time, and how he structures his life around his values—faith, presence, and legacy.   From tech startup burnout to creating a lifestyle that prioritizes family dinners and morning routines, Bryan shares the strategies and mindset shifts that helped him go from reactive to intentional. If you're a dad wrestling with how to succeed in business without sacrificing your family, this episode is a blueprint for building both.     EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS   [0:00] – Introduction [2:04] – Bryan's background and unexpected pivot into entrepreneurship [4:28] – How a college hack turned into a full-time digital marketing agency [6:53] – Navigating growth while staying aligned with his faith [9:46] – Building in boundaries to be fully present for his family [12:12] – The moment Bryan decided to stop working nights and weekends [14:25] – Why success means nothing if your kids don't know you [17:00] – How he structures his day to serve his business and family [20:42] – Creating a routine that includes daily prayer and gratitude [24:31] – Why his calendar now includes "unmovable" family time [27:18] – Final reflections: letting your family see your heart, not just your hustle       5 KEY TAKEAWAYS     Faith and Family Define Success: Bryan isn't just building wealth—he's building a legacy rooted in faith, integrity, and presence. You Control the Calendar: Intentional time blocking, morning routines, and family dinners aren't "nice to haves"—they're non-negotiables for lasting connection. Boundaries Are Leadership: Saying no to work after 5 PM was Bryan's way of saying yes to what matters most. Kids Need Your Heart, Not Your Hustle: Bryan reflects on how being physically present isn't enough—emotional presence is the real gift. Build a Business That Serves Your Life: By designing his business around his family values, Bryan proves you don't have to choose between impact and intimacy.     LINKS & RESOURCES Connect with Bryan Driscoll and explore real estate investing tips: https://motivatedleads.com Download the Questions for the Car PDF: https://thedadedge.com/25questions 1st Phorm: www.1stphorm.com/dadedge Podcast Shownotes: https://thedadedge.com/1405     If you enjoyed today's episode, don't forget to rate, review, and share the podcast. Let this conversation be the spark that helps you lead your family with intention.   Live legendary.
In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I sit down with Adam Schafer, co-host of the popular Mind Pump Podcast, for a vulnerable, authentic, and deeply reflective conversation on fatherhood, healing generational trauma, and building connection through presence—not performance. Adam opens up about his own childhood trauma, how it shaped his identity, and the intentional work he's done to break the cycle and show up differently for his son.   We dive into the power of emotional safety, why performance-based love doesn't work, and the simple but powerful practice of being fully present. Whether you're a father looking to lead with more empathy or a man learning to love from a healed place, this conversation will resonate deeply.     EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS   [0:00] – Introduction [2:07] – Adam reflects on his father's absence and the pain of unfulfilled promises [5:45] – How unresolved trauma shaped his early identity and choices [8:10] – The pivotal moment he realized his success was masking deeper wounds [11:28] – Why he decided to show up differently for his son [14:42] – The importance of building emotional safety, not just structure [17:36] – Why "being there" is different from being present [20:03] – Teaching through modeling instead of controlling [22:14] – Using breathwork, journaling, and awareness to stay grounded [25:11] – Why your kids don't need perfection—they need you [28:55] – Adam's approach to leading with grace and empathy at home [31:30] – Navigating self-doubt and letting go of old patterns [35:07] – Final reflections: leading with love, not ego       5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   Unresolved Trauma Shows Up in Fatherhood: Adam shares how his unprocessed childhood pain impacted how he first approached success, relationships, and parenting—until he consciously chose to heal and grow. Presence Is More Than Proximity: Simply being around isn't enough. Kids need engaged, emotionally available fathers who are attuned to their needs. Breaking Generational Patterns Starts With Awareness: Adam emphasizes that healing begins when we're honest about what shaped us—and we choose to respond differently moving forward. Your Kids Need Safe, Not Perfect: It's not about being the perfect dad. It's about being the one your kids feel emotionally safe with—where they can be seen, heard, and loved unconditionally. You Can't Teach What You Don't Practice: Breathwork, journaling, emotional regulation—Adam models these daily so he can parent from a grounded and connected place.   LINKS & RESOURCES   Connect with Adam Schafer and Mind Pump Media: https://mindpumppodcast.com Download the Questions for the Car resource: https://thedadedge.com/25questions Explore more episodes and resources: https://thedadedge.com/podcast thedadedge.com/soulmates Podcast Shownotes: https://thedadedge.com/1404     If this episode helped you reflect, reframe, or reconnect, don't forget to rate, review, and share the podcast. One conversation can change everything.   Live legendary.
In this heartwarming and hilarious episode, I sit down with my 9-year-old son Colton for a spontaneous and deeply connective conversation. Using our brand-new Questions for the Car resource, we explore everything from nightmares and Dog Man books to space rides and secret lemonade recipes. It's a candid glimpse into father-son bonding, full of laughter, surprises, and those unscripted moments that truly matter.   Whether you're a dad looking for creative ways to connect with your kids or just need a smile today, this episode is a reminder of the magic that happens when we slow down, ask meaningful questions, and just listen. Colton brings the energy and honesty only a 9-year-old can, and the stories he shares will absolutely make your day.     Episode Highlights [0:00] - Introduction [1:10] - Introducing Colton and the new "Questions for the Car" resource [3:35] - The big move from Facebook to our private Dad Edge Alliance platform [5:00] - Colton shares his outfit of the day and his excitement for Black Friday merch [6:00] - Colton's wild dream involving spooky gray eyes and… Mr. Doo Doo? [8:45] - Talking books: Colton breaks down his latest Dog Man read (spoiler alert!) [11:00] - Reflecting on romance, weddings, and seeing parents show love [13:10] - Favorite family memory: Disney World and the magic of Space Mountain [15:45] - If he had a magic wand… Colton's Paris dreams and golden chocolate [17:03] - What makes a good friend, and Colton's trampoline generosity [18:00] - Why asking fun questions builds better conversations and memories [20:00] - The best lemonade in the world (and the secret ingredient Colton won't tell!)     5 Key Takeaways   Ask Better Questions – Engaging your kids with meaningful questions opens the door to unforgettable conversations. Connection Over Perfection – Conversations with younger kids might "squirrel," but the real gift is in the connection. Create Fun Family Rituals – Resources like Questions for the Car can turn everyday drives into bonding moments. Celebrate the Small Things – From dreams to books to lemonade, everything is an opportunity to connect. Lead by Example – Showing love, presence, and intention as a father shapes your child's inner world.       Links & Resources   Questions for the Car: thedadedge.com/kidquestions       Closing Thoughts   Even the shortest chats with our kids can leave lasting impressions. Whether you're talking about books, dreams, or lemonade recipes, remember—it's not about the topic, it's about the connection. If this episode inspired you, made you laugh, or gave you new ideas to connect with your kids, please rate and review the show, and don't forget to share it with another dad who might need it.   Stay legendary.
In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I sit down with Candice Horbacz, a former adult film star turned mindfulness advocate, podcaster, and homeschooling mother. Candice brings a rare blend of candor, introspection, and wisdom to this deeply personal conversation. We explore how she navigated radical life transitions, healed from childhood trauma, and created a home rooted in authenticity, curiosity, and emotional safety.   Candice opens up about her own upbringing, the dysfunction that shaped her early worldview, and how she found her way to a new version of identity after walking away from the adult industry. This episode is about reclaiming power—through parenting, partnership, and personal evolution.     EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS   [0:00] – Introduction [1:36] – How Candice's childhood shaped her early sense of self [4:18] – Growing up in a home where emotions weren't safe [7:03] – Her path into the adult film industry and what it masked [9:55] – Why the lack of secure relationships drew her toward unhealthy dynamics [12:30] – How she began to explore healing, trauma work, and self-awareness [14:49] – The role of her partner in helping her see her worth [17:01] – What led her to leave the adult industry behind [18:57] – Shifting identity and rebuilding trust within herself [21:04] – Navigating marriage with vulnerability and truth [23:15] – Creating emotional safety for her son as a homeschooling mom [26:40] – Why curiosity is her #1 parenting tool [29:21] – Helping kids navigate their own triggers without shame [32:09] – Final reflections on how to lead with authenticity at home     5 KEY TAKEAWAYS Early Dysfunction Often Masks Itself in Achievement or Escape: Candice shares how a childhood without emotional safety pushed her to find validation in unhealthy spaces, including adult entertainment. Self-Awareness Begins with Naming the Pain: Her healing journey started by recognizing how trauma shaped her reactions, her self-worth, and her definition of love. You Can Reinvent Your Identity Without Shame: Leaving the adult film industry was a reclamation of agency, and her story proves it's never too late to rewrite your narrative. Parenting with Curiosity Builds Emotional Safety: Rather than reacting with control, Candice leans into curiosity when her son struggles—inviting connection instead of conflict. Partnerships Flourish in Vulnerability, Not Performance: With her husband, Candice found safety to explore who she truly was—laying the foundation for a conscious, present, and authentic marriage.   LINKS & RESOURCES Learn more about Candice and her work: https://www.chattingwithcandice.com Candice's Website: http://candicehorbacz.com/ Discover our free Questions for the Car download: https://thedadedge.com/25questions The Dad Edge & Bark: http://thedadedge.com/bark Show Notes for this episode: https://thedadedge.com/1402     If this episode gave you a new perspective on parenting, healing, or connection, share it with someone who needs to hear it—and don't forget to rate and review the podcast.   Live legendary.
Ever found yourself trying to fix a problem with your spouse or kids—only to make it worse? Yeah, me too. In today's episode, I sat down with Josh Davis, a neuroscientist, author, and master of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), to explore how the way we communicate—our words, tone, body language, and mindset—can shape the emotional responses of those we love most.   Josh didn't just explain NLP; he showed it in action—by putting me in the hot seat. We talked real-life scenarios that dads like us face daily, from explosive moments with kids to feeling emotionally disconnected from our spouses. Josh walked me through powerful, science-backed communication tools that shifted my perspective in real time. Trust me, this episode isn't just about theory—it's a game changer that could transform how you show up in your marriage, fatherhood, and even your inner dialogue.     Timeline Summary [0:00] - Introduction [1:19] - Common communication missteps with our wives and kids [2:07] - What is NLP and why every dad should care [6:56] - Josh's background and why NLP is his passion [12:06] - Comparing NLP to cognitive behavioral therapy [14:10] - Real-world examples of how NLP creates breakthroughs [23:25] - Josh's personal story about improving his marriage through NLP [33:21] - A deep-dive NLP coaching session with me as the guinea pig [40:00] - Identifying limiting beliefs and how they shape our behavior [42:00] - The surprising power of body language in father-child connection [45:04] - How to build rapport with your kids through posture and tone [54:12] - Reframing limiting beliefs our kids express [57:00] - Simple language tweaks to open emotional doors [1:01:20] - A tactical breakdown of how to validate emotions without enabling     Key Takeaways   Stop Fixing, Start Connecting – Your instinct to solve may actually be creating distance; connection begins with emotional validation. NLP Isn't Magic—It's Strategy – Small shifts in language, posture, and tone can create big breakthroughs in how others respond to you. Meet People Where They Are – Emotional safety starts with joining your child or partner in their current state before trying to lead them somewhere else. Your Body Talks Too – Mirroring posture and energy isn't manipulation—it's subconscious empathy that builds trust. Change Begins with You – Whether it's marriage, parenting, or personal beliefs, the transformation starts by examining your internal dialogue and behavior.   Links & Resources   Josh Davis' Book: https://www.amazon.com/Difference-that-Makes-Science-Positive/dp/1250349087 thedadedge.com/soulmates joshdavisphd.com/dads Podcast Show Notes: https://thedadedge.com/1401     If this episode sparked some ah-ha moments, hit that follow button, leave a review, and share it with a fellow dad who's ready to level up his communication and connection at home.
Today marks the 1400th episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, and I couldn't be more excited to celebrate it with one of the most important people in my life—my 9-year-old son, Colton. In this fun, heartfelt, and candid father-son conversation, we dive into some of the powerful questions from my free resource, Questions for the Car, to model what intentional connection looks like between a dad and his kid.   Colton opens up about everything from his love of dodgeball and tacos to what makes him feel proud, loved, and connected to our family. We laugh, share stories, and flip the script as Colton even asks me a question or two. This episode is a reminder that our kids are always listening—and when we ask the right questions, they start to open up in ways that shape our relationship forever.     EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS   [0:00] – Introduction [1:01] – Why this episode is so personal and meaningful [2:45] – Introducing the Questions for the Car PDF [4:05] – Colton jumps on the mic for the first time! [5:26] – What 4th grade is like from a kid's perspective [6:47] – Dodgeball, gym class, and why Colton loves competition [9:53] – The game-winning catch that boosted his confidence [10:47] – Colton's proudest sports moment and how it made him feel [11:21] – What makes hiking with Dad so special [12:44] – Colton defines love in his own words [14:17] – Why spending time as a family matters to kids [15:37] – His favorite family meals (hint: tacos and wings!) [16:22] – The superpowers he'd love to have [18:51] – Colton flips the script and interviews me [19:56] – Favorite books, stories, and why we love reading together [21:23] – How to grab the Questions for the Car PDF to connect with your own kids     5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   Kids Just Want Time with You: Colton said it best—kids feel love when parents spend time with them. It's not about big moments, but consistent presence. Ask Better Questions, Get Better Connection: Our Questions for the Car tool helps dads go beyond "How was your day?" and into deeper, more meaningful conversations. Celebrate the Small Wins: Confidence grows from moments like a dodgeball victory or a hike with Dad—highlight them and talk about them. Let Them See You as Human: When Colton asked me a question, it reminded me how valuable it is to let our kids learn about us, too. Legacy Is Built One Conversation at a Time: Every car ride, bedtime chat, or dinner table question is a chance to connect, shape, and influence our kids for life.     LINKS & RESOURCES Questions for the Car (Free PDF): http://thedadedge.com/kidquestions Podcast Shownotes: https://thedadedge.com/1400     If this episode brought you joy—or gave you a new way to connect with your kids—please take 30 seconds to rate, review, and share it. And if you mention Colton in your review, I promise I'll read it to him!   Live legendary.
In this eye-opening episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I sit down with Dr. Justin Houman, a leading urologist and men's health expert, to talk about everything most guys avoid—hormones, testosterone, fertility, vasectomies, and how your lifestyle is impacting your long-term health as a man. Dr. Houman pulls back the curtain on what's really happening with declining testosterone levels, the truth about TRT (testosterone replacement therapy), and why many young men are already showing signs of hormonal imbalance.   We also dive deep into how stress, diet, alcohol, and even simple daily choices are influencing not just your performance—but your future as a father and husband. If you've ever felt off, sluggish, or just "not yourself," this episode could be the wake-up call you didn't know you needed.     EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS [0:00] – Introduction [2:11] – Why testosterone levels are dropping in younger men [3:38] – The impact of stress and modern lifestyle on men's hormones [6:52] – What every guy should know about fertility and sperm health [9:26] – The myth of "you're too young to have hormone issues" [11:33] – Why alcohol may be hurting your testosterone more than you think [13:05] – The truth about TRT: who should and should not consider it [16:10] – Lifestyle first: how diet, exercise, and sleep influence hormones [18:22] – The impact of porn and digital overstimulation on sexual function [21:04] – What you need to know about vasectomies and reversals [23:44] – The mental health component of hormone imbalance [25:31] – Final advice from Dr. Houman: take control of your health early     5 KEY TAKEAWAYS Hormone Imbalance Isn't Just for Older Men: Men in their 20s and 30s are now experiencing low testosterone and fertility issues due to stress, poor sleep, and environmental toxins. TRT Isn't a Shortcut—It's a Tool: Testosterone Replacement Therapy can be life-changing for the right candidates, but it's not a cure-all. Lifestyle must come first. Small Choices Equal Big Outcomes: Daily habits like reducing alcohol, managing stress, and improving sleep can significantly improve testosterone and overall vitality. Digital Overstimulation Is Rewiring Sexual Health: Excessive porn use and screen time are contributing to erectile dysfunction and lowered libido in men of all ages. Proactive Health Wins the Long Game: Don't wait until something breaks—taking action now protects your ability to lead, love, and show up strong for your family.     LINKS & RESOURCES   Learn more about Dr. Justin Houman: https://houmanmd.com/ 25 Questions to Spark Connection: https://thedadedge.com/25questions More podcast episodes and resources: https://thedadedge.com/podcast Episode Shownotes: thedadedge.com/1399     If this episode opened your eyes, don't keep it to yourself. Share it with another dad, and remember to rate, follow, and review the podcast.   Live legendary.
In this deeply moving and perspective-shifting episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I sit down with John O'Leary, a bestselling author, motivational speaker, and burn survivor whose life is a testament to the power of resilience, hope, and radical love. At age nine, John suffered severe burns across 100% of his body. He wasn't supposed to live. But not only did he survive—he became one of the most impactful voices inspiring people to live fully, love deeply, and lead fearlessly.   John and I talk about what truly matters in life, the legacy we leave through small, consistent acts of presence, and how pain—when faced with faith and courage—can become the very tool that transforms us into the fathers and husbands we were meant to be. This isn't just an episode about overcoming—it's about becoming.     EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS [0:00] – Introduction [1:45] – The moment that changed John's life forever [4:18] – How his parents showed up during trauma and why it shaped him [7:32] – The role of forgiveness in healing deep wounds [10:06] – Why pain isn't the enemy—but a bridge to deeper purpose [13:14] – John's perspective on legacy and the value of being there [17:05] – The power of small, consistent actions over grand gestures [21:38] – Loving your spouse through service and sacrifice [25:12] – Raising kids who are resilient, grateful, and grounded [28:59] – The single most powerful lesson John learned from his father [32:30] – A challenge for every dad listening: What are you really living for?     5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   Pain Can Be a Catalyst, Not a Curse: John's story proves that life's most devastating moments can forge our deepest character and call us to higher purpose if we choose to face them with courage. Legacy Is Built in Presence, Not Perfection: His parents' unwavering presence—especially during trauma—taught him that how we show up in the hardest times says everything about who we are. Love Is Action, Not Just Intention: Whether it's in marriage or parenting, love must be expressed through service, sacrifice, and consistency—not just feelings or words. Our Kids Learn More from Observation Than Instruction: John learned resilience, discipline, and deep love not by being told what to do, but by watching how his parents lived during the toughest seasons. You Were Meant to Live Fully, Not Just Survive: Every dad has the opportunity—and responsibility—to stop sleepwalking through life and start leading intentionally with love, clarity, and vision.       LINKS & RESOURCES   Learn more about John O'Leary – https://johnolearyinspires.com 25 Questions to Spark Connection – https://thedadedge.com/25questions More Podcast Episodes – https://thedadedge.com/podcast The Dad Edge Boardroom Mastermind - https://thedadedge.com/mastermind Shownotes for this episode: https://thedadedge.com/1397     If this conversation sparked something in you, share it with a fellow dad who needs this message. And don't forget to rate, review, and follow the podcast.   Live legendary.
In this special episode of The Dad Edge Podcast, I sit down with a very special guest—my 11-year-old son, Lawson Hagner. This episode is unlike any other, because it's not about interviews or experts—it's about connection. It's about the power of slowing down, asking questions, and being intentional with our kids.   Lawson and I dive into simple but meaningful topics—his favorite memories, what it means to "lock in," and how he's learning to handle school, sports, and life. What starts as a lighthearted father-son chat turns into an authentic, heartfelt conversation about discipline, focus, and what it truly means to build a strong relationship between a dad and his son.   We also talk about a new free resource I created called "Questions for the Car"—designed to help dads spark deeper conversations with their kids during everyday moments. This episode is a reminder that great connections don't happen by accident—they happen when we choose to show up and be curious.       What You'll Learn in This Episode [0:00] – Introduction [1:02] – Introducing Lawson Hagner — my 11-year-old son and first-time podcast guest. [2:25] – The fun and chaos of sixth grade (and yes, girls come up right away). [4:58] – How Lawson's football team went undefeated—and what "locking in" means to him. [6:06] – Our father-son bond and why intentional connection matters so much. [7:08] – Introducing the Questions for the Car resource and how dads can use it. [8:33] – Lawson's favorite memories and why going to breakfast together means so much. [10:19] – How meaningful conversations can come from simple, everyday questions. [12:11] – "Locking in": Lawson's personal philosophy on focus and discipline in sports and school. [15:20] – How to manage overwhelm—teaching kids (and adults) how to take on the "next right thing." [20:02] – What tradition means to Lawson and why Christmas represents deeper family connection. [23:14] – The power of presence—how just three questions can spark a 25-minute, life-giving conversation.     Key Takeaways Connection happens in small moments. Breakfasts, car rides, and one-on-one chats matter more than grand gestures. "Lock in" isn't just for sports. Lawson reminds us that focus and effort apply to school, family, and life. Asking great questions creates great relationships. Curiosity opens the door for deeper understanding. Tradition builds belonging. Family rituals—like Christmas mornings and hot cocoa nights—create lasting bonds. Dads set the tone. Our consistency, presence, and willingness to engage build the foundation our kids stand on.     Links & Resources     Download Questions for the Car: https://thedadedge.com/kidquestions Episoe Shownotes: thedadedge.com/1398     Closing Thoughts   This episode isn't just a podcast—it's a moment between a dad and his son that shows what intentional fatherhood looks like in real time. Whether it's on the way to school, over breakfast, or sitting by the fire, every dad has the opportunity to lead with curiosity and love.   If this conversation inspired you, please rate, review, and share The Dad Edge Podcast. And remember, gentlemen—don't just go through the motions… Live Legendary.
In this episode of The Dad Edge Podcast, we dive into a topic every parent faces daily — our kids' teeth. From baby gums to braces, I sit down with orthodontist, educator, and author Dr. Robert Geiman to unpack the essential truths about children's dental health and what parents can do to set their kids up for lifelong confidence and health.   Dr. Geiman's new book, The Tooth Bible: A Parent's Guide to Their Child's Smile, turns decades of clinical experience into practical, bite-sized advice every parent can understand and apply. In our conversation, we cover everything from fluoride myths to brushing battles, flossing habits, and how oral health connects to our kids' overall well-being. But this episode goes beyond teeth — we talk about leadership, humility, and how the way we show up as dads can shape our families for generations.   Episode Timeline   [0:00] – Introduction [2:27] – Introducing Dr. Robert Geiman and his mission behind The Tooth Bible. [5:07] – How a COVID lockdown project became a parenting essential. [8:12] – What parents should do from birth to age three: brushing basics and fluoride facts. [10:22] – The truth about fluoride and why science still matters. [15:00] – Why The Tooth Bible is written in Q&A format and the most common dental questions parents ask. [18:10] – What parents should and shouldn't say to their kids before braces. [20:16] – The real reason snacking on sugar all day is worse than eating it all at once. [23:00] – How orthodontic technology has made braces more comfortable and effective. [27:00] – The link between oral health, heart health, and overall well-being. [30:00] – Making brushing fun and consistent for kids of all ages. [40:30] – How and when to start flossing — and tools that make it easier for kids. [43:33] – Leading by example: how your dental habits as a dad influence your children. [48:41] – Dr. Geiman on marriage, communication, and leading at home with humility. [50:45] – The importance of owning mistakes and teaching kids through example.     Key Takeaways: Oral health is a reflection of overall health. Healthy gums and teeth often mirror good habits and wellness throughout the body. Fluoride, when used in proper doses, is safe and essential for preventing cavities. Dr. Geiman emphasizes trusting science over social media noise. Make brushing fun and consistent. Give kids ownership—let them choose their toothbrush and toothpaste flavor to increase motivation. Lead by example. Your kids are watching; if they see you brushing and flossing daily, they're more likely to do the same. Parenting is leadership in action. Whether in dental habits or daily life, your consistency, humility, and example create lasting impact.         Links and Resources The Tooth Bible website: https://thetoothbible.com The Tooth Bible Smile Shop: https://thetoothbible.com/smile-shop ChildandAdultOrthodontics.com Follow Dr. Geiman on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/author_dr.bobby/ https://www.instagram.com/brace_thyself/ Podcast Episode Show Notes: http://thedadedge.com/1396     Closing Thoughts   This episode reminds us that leadership starts with example — even in the smallest routines, like brushing your teeth beside your kids. When we lead with intention and humility, our children learn more than just good dental hygiene; they learn integrity, consistency, and care.   If you enjoyed this conversation, please rate, review, and share The Dad Edge Podcast to help more fathers build stronger, more intentional families.
In this solo episode, I open up about one of the most overwhelming seasons my family has faced—fall. Between school demands, sports, band, and everything else, our schedule was maxed out and our connection suffered. Jessica and I found ourselves constantly busy but emotionally distant, operating more like teammates than soulmates.   I share how we recognized the symptoms of "roommate syndrome," what we did to course-correct, and why protecting margin in your life and marriage is non-negotiable. I also introduce my brand-new course launching in January, From Roommates to Soulmates, designed for husbands who are ready to rebuild emotional connection and intimacy.     EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS [0:00] – Introduction [2:31] – Why fall marks the beginning of chaos for many families [3:07] – Introducing the From Roommates to Soulmates course [4:15] – What roommate syndrome looks like and why it's dangerous [5:20] – Cultural lies men believe about marriage and fatherhood [6:45] – The silent struggle of disconnection [8:06] – Our family's real-life overscheduling mistake [10:28] – When joy turns into exhaustion [10:54] – The "Sunday Night Reset" strategy [11:27] – How shared calendars and huddles create clarity [12:13] – Learning to say no with purpose [13:16] – Protecting margin and prioritizing connection [14:42] – Why our "Date Days" are sacred [15:38] – Free gift: Questions for the Car PDF [16:41] – Start deeper conversations with your kids today       5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   1. Busyness Is the Enemy of Intimacy Just because you're doing a lot doesn't mean you're connecting. Overscheduling your family can slowly erode the relationships that matter most. 2. Roommate Syndrome Is Real—But Reversible When you and your partner start functioning as co-managers instead of lovers, it's time to course-correct. Connection requires intention. 3. Margin Is Not a Luxury, It's a Necessity If your calendar is full but your marriage feels empty, it's a sign you need to guard time for each other and for rest. 4. Clarity and Communication Prevent Chaos Tools like family huddles and shared calendars aren't just logistical—they're emotional anchors that keep the household united. 5. Leading Your Family Starts With Leading Yourself Recognizing when you're off-track and initiating reconnection is the mark of strong leadership—both as a husband and a father.       LINKS & RESOURCES • Free Resource – Questions for the Car: https://thedadedge.com/kidquestions • Show Notes for this episode: https://thedadedge.com/1395   If this episode resonated with you, rate, review, follow, and share it with another dad who needs it. Let's lead our families with presence and purpose.   Live legendary.
In this special Father-Son Wednesday edition of the Dad Edge Podcast, Ethan and I have an open and heartfelt conversation about the kind of legacy we want to leave—not in terms of money, but in how we show up for our families, our faith, and our future. With Halloween around the corner, we explore the idea of what truly haunts fathers—missed moments, emotional distance, and failing to lead with purpose.   We dive into what it means to lead a family spiritually without pushing religion, how a father's love for his wife becomes a model for children, and how intentional home culture shapes future generations. Ethan shares his vision for his future family and career as a firefighter—and how he wants to lead by presence, not pressure.     EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS   [0:00] – Introduction [1:15] – Ethan's "Winter Arc" and using seasons to spark growth [2:59] – Redefining legacy beyond wealth or achievements [5:14] – Why health and strength are crucial to long-term fatherhood [8:32] – Spiritual leadership without religiosity [10:04] – Passing down a relationship with God to future generations [12:33] – Faith, emotional safety, and keeping an open mind [15:21] – Ethan's vision of future fatherhood and home culture [17:42] – How your home environment speaks louder than your words [20:07] – The impact of loving your spouse well in front of your kids [23:15] – Why we choose to gross our kids out with affection—not arguments [24:49] – The power of being the "warrior in the garden" [25:29] – Ethan's passion for firefighting and leaving impact [27:56] – Halloween memories, safety tips, and shoutouts     5 KEY TAKEAWAYS 1. Legacy Is Emotional, Not Just Financial The mark we leave on our kids isn't in bank accounts—it's in the daily presence, protection, and love they feel from us. 2. Faith Is Modeled, Not Mandated Ethan speaks on how he wants to raise his future family to know God through a relationship—not religion—and how that shaped his upbringing. 3. Your Marriage Is the Blueprint How you treat your wife sets the tone for how your kids will approach love, commitment, and conflict in their own relationships. 4. Presence Over Perfection Kids remember if you were there and emotionally available—not if you were flawless. Being the safe space is what sticks. 5. Strength Is Best When Softened by Love Ethan reflects on the need for dads to be both strong and gentle—to be warriors in the garden, not tyrants in the home.       LINKS & RESOURCES 25 Questions to Spark Deeper Connection – https://thedadedge.com/25questions Level 1 Protein - https://1stphorm.com/products/level-1/?a_aid=dadedge BCAAs - https://1stphorm.com/products/bcaa/?a_aid=dadedge  Pastor Paul Daily Bible Studies – Search "Pastor Paul" on YouTube Dad Edge Podcast & Show Notes – thedadedge.com/1394     If this episode brought you closer to how you want to show up as a father and husband, please rate, review, follow, and share the show. Let's keep building legacies that matter.   Live legendary.
In this episode, I sit down with Clay Butler, CEO of Agape International Missions (AIM), for a powerful conversation on fighting child trafficking and how present, intentional fatherhood is one of the most effective weapons in that fight. With over 2,000 rescues and hundreds of traffickers arrested, Clay's work is nothing short of heroic—but it's his role as a father that has most shaped his mission.   We explore what it truly means to lead as a man, not just in high-stakes global work, but in the day-to-day role of being a protector at home. Clay shares how fatherhood has deepened his approach to leadership, the importance of modeling safe masculinity, and why raising strong, loved, and secure children is one of the greatest forms of resistance to evil. This episode will challenge and inspire any man who wants to leave a legacy worth living for.     Episode Highlights [0:00] – Introduction [1:01] – A staggering global reality: a child is trafficked every 30 seconds [2:24] – Clay's transformation from young volunteer to CEO of AIM [5:13] – Why Clay initially took a three-month volunteer trip… and never left [9:06] – Finding emotional equilibrium in a traumatic field [10:29] – How fatherhood amplified—not hindered—Clay's leadership [12:04] – The power of modeling safe fatherhood for rescued girls [14:21] – Humility, teamwork, and spiritual grounding in life-or-death operations [20:03] – Tactical and emotional ways to protect your family in public [22:15] – Why kids from foster care are the most trafficked in America [28:12] – Real actions men can take to stop trafficking—starting at home [29:02] – Navigating the tension of preserving childhood innocence while teaching safety [34:45] – Avoiding burnout: ruthless prioritization and reverse engineering legacy [38:07] – Clay's evolving legacy: from warrior to father to restorer       5 Key Takeaways   1. Fatherhood is powerful – Being a present, loving father is one of the most effective deterrents to child trafficking, both at home and globally. 2. Rescue is only the beginning – AIM's model goes beyond rescue to include healing, job training, and long-term restoration. 3. The U.S. isn't exempt – Most trafficking victims in the U.S. come from broken foster care systems. Supporting those systems can change lives. 4. You can protect your kids daily – Small actions like staying aware in public, modeling healthy masculinity, and teaching intuitive safety make a big difference. 5. Your legacy starts now – You don't need to lead a global organization to be a hero. Leading at home with purpose and love is enough.       Links & Resources   Agape International Missions (AIM): https://aimfree.org AIM Apparel – Support rescued girls through ethical apparel: https://aimapparel.com Bark (Parental Control App): https://thedadedge.com/bark Episode Show notes: thedadedge.com/1393     If this episode sparked something in you, share it with a fellow dad, leave a review, and don't forget to follow the podcast. Together, we can protect our families—and generations to come.
In this solo episode, I dig into one of the most crucial parenting challenges—helping our kids face their fears and build real, lasting confidence. From sports pressure to academic stress to the emotional struggles they often keep bottled up, our kids are living in a high-pressure world. And as fathers, it's our job to create a space where they feel safe, heard, and guided—not just fixed.   I share a recent emotional conversation with my own son that completely reframed how I approach fear with my kids. You'll hear practical scripts, parenting frameworks, and validation tools that you can immediately use to strengthen your relationship and lead your kids through difficult emotions—while empowering them to lead themselves.     EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS   [0:00] – Introduction [1:47] – The "scary" reality kids face daily [3:16] – Gratitude for the community + book update [5:03] – Announcing the next live cohort: Overcoming Roommate Syndrome [9:12] – What fear looks like in your child's world [10:17] – Why asking for permission to talk matters [12:14] – My son's moment of vulnerability on the football field [14:00] – Helping kids name fear and remove shame [15:15] – Shifting identity from failure to effort [16:23] – Creating micro-wins to reinforce confidence [17:41] – Reminding your kids they are already brave [18:08] – Why praising effort beats praising results [19:30] – Free resource: "Questions for the Car" [21:54] – Final thoughts and wrap-up       5 KEY TAKEAWAYS 1. Validate Before You Advise Asking your child for permission to talk, rather than jumping into correction or pep talks, shows respect and builds trust. Kids don't want quick fixes—they want to feel seen. 2. Name the Fear to Dismantle the Shame Fear loses power when it's named out loud. Helping your child articulate what they're afraid of creates emotional distance from the fear and invites clarity. 3. Reinforce Identity Through Effort, Not Outcome Focus on who your child is becoming through their effort—not whether they win or lose. This reinforces growth and helps them detach from external validation. 4. Small Wins Build Big Confidence Kids don't need giant leaps to feel successful. Celebrating the little wins builds momentum and reinforces the belief that they can handle what life throws at them. 5. Your Voice Becomes Their Inner Voice How you speak to your kids—especially when they're struggling—directly influences how they'll talk to themselves when you're not around. Lead with empathy, patience, and strength.         LINKS & RESOURCES: Car Ride Questions for Kids: thedadedge.com/kidquestions Get the Book + Free Courses: https://thedadedge.com/legendarybook Episode Show notes: thedadedge.com/1392     If this episode helped you better understand how to guide your child through fear and build real connection, please rate, follow, and share the show. Let's raise brave, grounded, emotionally intelligent kids—together.   Live legendary.
In this Dad Edge Podcast episode, I'm joined by my son Ethan for a powerful father-son conversation about money, mistakes, and mindsets. But this episode goes way beyond budgeting tips. It's about the deeper fear, pressure, and responsibility men feel when it comes to providing and preparing the next generation.   We explore everything from cost of living fears to smart saving habits, early investing, and the emotional rollercoaster of becoming financially independent. Ethan shares candid reflections about what worries him most as a 19-year-old and the surprising movie that inspired his money mindset. This episode is filled with laughs, lessons, and the kind of intentional parenting that creates legacy.     EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS [0:00] – Introduction [1:02] – Why talking to our kids about money matters more than ever [3:49] – Celebrating transformation: The First Form Dad of the Month [15:21] – What scares Ethan most about adulting and financial independence [19:36] – The 20% rule and why most people never start saving [29:23] – Ethan's frugal mindset shift (inspired by a Jim Carrey movie!) [38:58] – Understanding assets vs. liabilities and why real estate matters [46:34] – Passive income, investing in apartments, and building wealth young [49:11] – The challenge to aggressively save while you have no bills [55:12] – New resource: 25 questions to spark deeper conversations in the car     5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   1. Start Financial Conversations Early Your kids are already forming money beliefs—talking about finances now sets them up with real tools and confidence. 2. Fear of Failing as a Provider Is Real Ethan opens up about the weight of becoming a provider and why young men need reassurance and education, not shame. 3. Saving While You Have No Bills is a Superpower We talk about how living at home can be a golden window to stack savings, invest early, and get a head start on life. 4. Assets Build Freedom—Liabilities Drain It From real estate to investments, we break down the difference between money that works for you vs. money you spend for status. 5. Legacy is Intentional, Not Accidental These conversations are how we pass down values, strategy, and strength. The way you talk about money sets your family's future.       LINKS & RESOURCES   25 Questions to Spark Connection with Your Kids: https://www.thedadedge.com/kidquestions Join the Dad Edge Alliance: https://www.thedadedge.com/alliance First Form Products: 1stphorm.com/dadedge Dad Edge Podcast Episodes: https://www.thedadedge.com/1391       If this episode sparked new conversations at your dinner table—or made you rethink your financial game plan—please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. Let's raise strong, wise, and prepared men.
In this Dad Edge Podcast episode, I'm joined by Joel Staley, husband, father, and fasting expert—but the real story here isn't about weight loss. It's about the emotional and relational weight men carry and how mastering the physical body can help men show up more powerfully for their families.   We unpack Joel's transformation from feeling "fluffy" and distracted to leading his wife and kids with presence and purpose. Joel doesn't hold back when talking about how his physical condition was limiting his energy, sex drive, self-respect, and ultimately his connection at home. This isn't a gimmicky fitness episode—it's a raw look at what happens when a man decides he's no longer okay with coasting.       EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS   [0:00] – Joel's wake-up call and early struggles with self-image [4:18] – Feeling physically present but emotionally absent as a dad [8:20] – Why getting shredded wasn't the real goal [12:03] – How fasting gave him structure, confidence, and clarity [16:55] – Leading your family starts with leading yourself [20:41] – Joel's marriage breakthrough through vulnerability [24:18] – Sex drive, shame, and physical transformation [28:36] – Teaching his kids about delayed gratification and purpose [33:02] – The real impact of watching your dad take care of himself [37:14] – Daily disciplines that keep him grounded and focused [40:57] – Joel's final challenge for every dad listening       5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   1. When You Lead Yourself, You Lead Better at Home Joel discovered that when he took full ownership of his physical health, it cascaded into better decisions, emotional presence, and connection with his family. 2. Your Body is a Spiritual and Emotional Instrument Getting fit wasn't just about looking good—it gave Joel the energy and confidence to show up for his wife and kids like never before. 3. Fasting Is a Discipline That Builds Mental Toughness Joel explains how structured fasting helped him reclaim control and break unhealthy patterns that were sabotaging his time and attention at home. 4. Physical Change Can Spark Relational Breakthroughs As Joel got healthier, his marriage improved—not because of appearance, but because of how he began showing up with integrity and consistency. 5. Your Kids Notice Everything Joel shares how his daughters now see him as someone who takes care of himself and others—and how that's creating a new generational standard.         LINKS & RESOURCES   25 Questions to Spark Connection with Your Partner: https://www.thedadedge.com/25questions Learn More About Joel's Coaching & Programs: https://shedfatfast.com Follow Joel on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/joelstaleyfitness Joel's GoFundMe:  https://gofund.me/b8fcf7ca3 Join the Dad Edge Alliance: https://www.thedadedge.com/alliance Dad Edge Podcast Episodes: thedadedge.com/1390       If this episode pushed you to confront your own health or leadership gaps, rate, review, follow, and share. Let's live legendary, in every way that matters.
In this solo episode, I dive deep into one of the most vital life skills we can teach our kids—financial literacy. From Halloween costumes to quarterly financial reviews, I walk you through my real-life journey of raising four boys with a focus on money management, financial responsibility, and the value of earning over entitlement. This isn't about theory—it's about what I've tried, what's worked, and the lessons I've learned the hard way.   Whether your kids are 5 or 19, this episode delivers actionable ideas and candid reflections to help you guide your children toward a financially empowered future. If you've ever wondered how to talk to your kids about saving, spending, budgeting, or even compound interest—this is the episode for you.   Timeline Summary   [0:00] - Introduction [1:27] - Feeling unequipped as a dad when it comes to teaching kids about money [2:22] - Shocking statistics about the state of money management in America [4:04] - A peek into how I started teaching money to my younger kids [6:10] - The Halloween costume system: chores for rewards [8:48] - Teaching the value of delayed gratification through real choices [10:07] - Why even young kids can handle more responsibility than we think [12:01] - Using a simple allowance system to teach saving, giving, and spending [12:47] - Bringing my teens to financial advisor meetings [13:51] - The impact of exposing kids to real-world financial conversations [14:36] - Teaching compound interest and the power of investing early [15:18] - Setting up budgeting tools like EveryDollar for teens [15:57] - My son's dog-walking side hustle—entrepreneurship at 17 [17:02] - Why real-life problem solving is the best financial teacher [18:33] - Encouraging kids to budget their own money and learn from mistakes [19:46] - New free resource: "25 Questions for the Car" to spark connection [21:03] - Final thoughts and heartfelt thanks to the community     5 Key Takeaways   1. Start Early with Financial Lessons Even young kids can begin understanding the basics of money through age-appropriate systems like chores for rewards, visual goal tracking, and simple budgeting methods. It's never too early to introduce financial literacy. 2. Teach Earning Over Entitlement Using real-life goals—like Halloween costumes or name-brand shoes—can help kids grasp the concept of earning. When kids work for what they want, they value it more and learn essential decision-making skills. 3. Make It Real for Teens Bringing your older kids into financial conversations, like advisor meetings or discussions about interest and investing, empowers them to make smart money decisions now and in the future. 4. Use Tools That Promote Independence Programs like EveryDollar are great for helping teens budget and track their spending. This teaches them accountability and gives them a sense of control over their finances. 5. Connection Is the Catalyst for Teaching Use intentional questions and shared activities to create moments of connection. When you're interested in your kids' lives, it opens the door to deeper, more impactful conversations—including those about money.         Links & Resources   Free Resource: 25 Questions for the Car — https://thedadedge.com/1389 Budgeting Tool: EveryDollar — https://www.everydollar.com/ thedadedge.com/kidquestions       If this episode helped you shift your mindset about parenting and money, take a moment to rate, review, and share it with another dad who could benefit. Your support helps us reach more fathers who are ready to lead with intention.   Live Legendary.
In this episode, I'm joined by my good friend Coach Frank Rich for one of the most eye-opening and urgent conversations we've ever had on this show. We dig deep into the disturbing ways artificial intelligence is now intersecting with the porn industry—from deepfake technology to fully AI-generated adult content. It's not just impacting adults anymore—this tech is trickling into high schools, being used to bully, humiliate, and emotionally destroy kids. This is a conversation every father, husband, and leader needs to hear.   Frank and I explore how AI porn is evolving faster than laws can keep up, how it's rewiring minds, damaging marriages, and becoming a hidden epidemic in homes across the world. But it's not all doom and gloom—we also share stories of transformation, tools to protect your family, and how to have honest, shame-free conversations with your kids about sex, technology, and identity. If you care about protecting your family in the digital age, this one is a must-listen.       Episode Highlights & Timeline:   [0:00] – Introduction [2:18] – AI's alarming infiltration into the porn industry—from deepfakes to AI-generated performers [4:01] – My raw reaction: learning about deepfake porn for the first time [6:10] – Is AI porn found on mainstream sites like Pornhub? Frank breaks it down [8:45] – Why the porn industry has always driven tech innovation [9:36] – Men monetizing themselves with deepfakes—how that's happening [12:25] – High schoolers using AI to create and share fake nude images of classmates [14:00] – Why I use Bark to monitor my kids' devices—and how it's changed our conversations [17:00] – AI is evolving faster than the laws designed to regulate it [22:28] – How I talk to my sons about sex, porn, and masturbation—with honesty and no shame [30:20] – The sobering reality of porn-induced erectile dysfunction in young men [33:00] – Modeling healthy marriage and intimacy for your kids [41:24] – A redemption story: how David saved his marriage and reclaimed his life [49:14] – The hidden cost of porn: time, presence, and connection [51:18] – Watching a little boy get ignored by his phone-distracted dad—and the mirror it held up for me [53:47] – Final thoughts: let's stay alert, have the hard conversations, and lead with love       5 Key Takeaways:     1. AI-generated porn is dangerously realistic—and widely accessible. What once sounded like sci-fi is now mainstream and emotionally devastating. 2. Teens are weaponizing deepfake technology. Fake nudes created via AI are being used for bullying, revenge, and harassment in schools. 3. Don't wait to talk to your kids. The average age of first exposure to porn is 8–11. Have the talk early, openly, and without shame. 4. Porn addiction steals your presence—and your purpose. Whether it's five minutes or five hours, it erodes your integrity and disconnects you from what matters most. 5. Redemption is real. Frank's programs have helped countless men rebuild their lives, their faith, their marriages, and their connection to their kids.         Links & Resources:   David's story - https://youtu.be/dh-Enf6z-I8 FRANKS COMMUNITY- https://www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset BARK - thedadedge.com/bark Full show notes: TheDadEdge.com/1388     If this episode opened your eyes or helped you in any way, please take a moment to rate, follow, review, and share the podcast. Let's continue these hard but necessary conversations—and raise a generation of men and women who lead with purpose, presence, and integrity.
What would you do if the scale flashed "error" because it couldn't register your weight? For most men, that might feel like the end—but for Johnny Muresan, it was day one. In this deeply moving and brutally honest episode, I sit down with the man behind Johnny Goes Running to unpack his staggering 160+ pound weight loss journey, his emotional rock bottom, and how a single painful step forward sparked a complete life transformation.   Johnny shares the realities of chronic pain, food addiction, and near-marital collapse—but more importantly, he walks us through how he reclaimed his health, family, and purpose. From running marathons to rebuilding his marriage and launching a community of hope for other men, this conversation will challenge you to rethink what's possible—no matter where you're starting from.     Episode Timeline Highlights [0:00] – Introduction [1:01] – What would you do if the scale read "error"? Johnny's weight reality check. [3:17] – The painful first step and the mindset shift from victimhood to action. [6:49] – Life at nearly 500 lbs: chronic knee pain, parenting while immobile, and losing hope. [14:06] – The wake-up call: realizing his choices were writing his kids' future. [24:09] – How a 30-day water fast broke Johnny's food addiction. [27:42] – Losing 61 pounds in 30 days—and the humble first meal after. [33:08] – How changing food habits restored his health and mindset. [39:02] – His first full marathon—returning to Hawaii where he once hit rock bottom. [45:00] – Rewiring his entire family dynamic by leading with example. [50:11] – Running 82 miles across Tennessee for a cause—on just 11 days' notice. [51:32] – His upcoming book Run Your Life and what it means to take up space where you don't feel you belong.     5 Key Takeaways   1. Rock Bottom is a Starting Line – Johnny didn't wait until he was "ready" or "fit"—he started while in pain, overweight, and discouraged. 2. Living for Your Kids Means Showing Up – Johnny's breakthrough came when he realized he'd die for his kids—but wasn't willing to live for them. 3. Small Wins Compound – From diet soda swaps to walking just a few minutes, Johnny's journey was built on gradual, sustainable steps. 4. Leading by Example Changes Everything – His transformation didn't just affect him—it rewired his entire family's emotional, physical, and relational health. 5. You Belong in Every Room You Enter – Whether it's the start line of a marathon or a new chapter in life, you don't need permission to take up space.       Links & Resources   Follow Johnny on Instagram: @johnnygoesrunning Get your copy of The Pursuit of Legendary Fatherhood + two free courses: https://thedadedge.com/legendarybook Join the Dad Edge Alliance (Elite Brotherhood): https://thedadedge.com/alliance Free 21-Day Email Series: 3 Marriage Skills at a Time: https://thedadedge.com/extraordinary-marriage/ 1st Phorm - 1stphorm.com/dadedge   Show notes: thedadedge.com/1387     Inspired by Johnny's journey? Share this episode with another dad who needs a boost. And if you loved it, be sure to follow, rate, and review the show. Your support helps us continue bringing real, raw, and life-changing stories to men around the world.
If your days feel like a relentless sprint—from school drop-offs to late-night routines—you're not alone. In this short and powerful solo episode, I open up about the challenges of maintaining intimacy, presence, and intention in marriage when life gets overwhelmingly busy. With fall sports, kid activities, and work responsibilities piling up, it's all too easy to slip into "roommate mode" with your spouse.   But here's the truth: Strong families start with strong marriages. I share three deeply practical ways to create micro-moments of connection, build intentional rituals, and avoid emotional drift. Whether it's through a 30-minute walk, a forehead kiss, or a late-night two-minute check-in, this episode is your reminder that you're not just co-parents—you're still each other's chosen partner.     Episode Highlights   [0:00] - Introduction [1:05] - Why strong marriages are the foundation of strong families [2:55] - The common trap of prioritizing everything but your marriage [4:46] - The September-October "whiplash" that hits most parents hard [5:43] - Celebrating the release of The Pursuit of Legendary Fatherhood [8:19] - How an unbalanced focus on your kids can erode your marriage [10:09] - The power of micro-moments: texts, sticky notes, forehead kisses [12:31] - Creative date ideas (even when time is scarce) [14:29] - Why sometimes the world has to suffer—but your marriage shouldn't [15:14] - End-of-day rituals that spark closeness even in exhaustion [17:41] - The compound interest effect of tiny deposits in your marriage [18:03] - You are more than a co-parent—you're still her Casanova [19:13] - A free 21-day email series to help you build an extraordinary marriage [20:54] - Final rally cry: be uncommon, be legendary     5 Key Takeaways   1. Strong Marriages Build Strong Families When your marriage is thriving, it naturally strengthens the emotional climate of your entire home. Don't neglect the foundation. 2. Micro-Moments Matter More Than Grand Gestures A quick kiss, a thoughtful note, or a midday "thinking of you" text can do more for connection than elaborate plans you never get to. 3. Busy Seasons Are Inevitable—Disconnection Isn't Just because life is chaotic doesn't mean your relationship has to suffer. Intention and awareness are your defense against emotional drift. 4. You're Still Her Lover, Not Just Her Co-Parent The role of "dad" is important—but don't forget you were her partner first. That romance needs nurturing, especially when time is tight. 5. Investing in Your Marriage Pays Long-Term Dividends Like compound interest, the small daily investments you make in your marriage build a future of closeness, trust, and enduring partnership.       Links & Resources     Get your copy of The Pursuit of Legendary Fatherhood + two free courses: https://thedadedge.com/legendarybook Join the Dad Edge Alliance (Elite Brotherhood): https://thedadedge.com/alliance Free 21-Day Email Series: 3 Marriage Skills at a Time: https://thedadedge.com/extraordinary-marriage/       If this episode helped reignite your drive to be more intentional in your marriage, please rate, follow, and review the show. Share it with a fellow dad who might be feeling the weight of the season—we're in this together.   Let's go out and live legendary.
In this candid father-son episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I sit down once again with my son Ethan for a real-time look at what growth, struggle, and emotional awareness look like in the life of a young man. We dive into why ownership is key when navigating life's challenges, how to catch yourself when falling into patterns of blame, and what it takes to shift your state when your mindset is working against you.   This is one of those conversations where nothing is sugarcoated. Ethan opens up about areas where he's felt "off," what he's learned from coaching conversations, and how choosing personal responsibility over defensiveness continues to shape his confidence and leadership.     TIMELINE SUMMARY [0:00] - Welcoming Ethan back for another check-in [1:47] - Recognizing emotional off days and calling them out honestly [3:20] - How state, story, and strategy shape our reality [5:01] - Catching the victim mindset and flipping the script [7:14] - Owning mistakes vs. falling into blame or excuses [9:28] - Ethan on noticing his tone and making intentional corrections [11:03] - Coaching tools that help interrupt negative spirals [13:24] - The power of "what's within your control" thinking [15:46] - Why your energy impacts others and how to shift it [18:12] - Seeing every hard moment as feedback, not failure [20:05] - Final thoughts on presence, responsibility, and consistent growth     5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   1. Awareness Is the First Step Toward Change Before you can shift your behavior or attitude, you've got to recognize when something's off. Awareness creates the gap between reaction and choice. 2. Victimhood Kills Ownership and Confidence It's easy to blame circumstances or others when things go wrong—but choosing responsibility is what builds maturity and trust in yourself. 3. Your State Impacts Your Story How you feel physically and emotionally influences the narrative you create in your mind. Shifting your state can instantly shift your mindset. 4. Tone Matters in Leadership Even when your intentions are good, your tone can undermine the message. Ethan shares how he's learning to adjust and communicate more effectively. 5. Every Struggle Is an Opportunity to Grow Whether it's a rough day, a mistake, or a mindset spiral—each one holds the potential for learning, growth, and leadership if you lean into it.       LINKS & RESOURCES   thedadedge.com/legendarybook  25 Questions to Spark Connection With Your Partner: https://www.thedadedge.com/25questions The Dad Edge Alliance: https://www.thedadedge.com/alliance Podcast Show notes: thedadedge.com/1385       If this episode helped you think differently about growth, mindset, or your role as a father, please rate, follow, review, and share the podcast. These moments of connection and reflection can change everything.
In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I sit down with Doug Bopst—former felon, now personal trainer, author, and transformational speaker—to unpack how adversity, addiction, and rock-bottom moments can become the fuel for growth, purpose, and fatherhood. Doug opens up about his journey from incarceration and drug addiction to becoming a man of impact and integrity.   We explore how pain can become power when ownership is embraced, how faith and fitness became Doug's lifeline, and why men must choose responsibility over blame to rewrite their story. This episode is a raw and redemptive look at what happens when a man stops running and starts leading—with heart, humility, and grit.     TIMELINE SUMMARY [0:00] - Welcome and Doug's powerful backstory: from pills to prison [3:48] - The moment everything changed: awakening behind bars [6:22] - Fitness as a path to discipline, clarity, and redemption [9:10] - Rebuilding trust with family through consistent action [11:36] - The identity shift from addict to athlete to leader [14:44] - Why your past doesn't disqualify you from fatherhood or purpose [17:32] - How Doug uses his pain to mentor young men and fathers [20:01] - The role of faith in healing and daily direction [23:10] - Accountability and structure as freedom—not limitation [25:38] - Why your mess can become your message [28:19] - The impact of small daily wins over massive overhauls [30:56] - Final reflections on masculinity, resilience, and second chances     5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   1. Your Past Doesn't Define You—Your Choices Do Doug proves that where you come from doesn't have to determine where you're going. Redemption starts when you take full ownership. 2. Fitness Can Be a Spiritual Practice Exercise became Doug's anchor. It wasn't just about the body—it became a tool for mental clarity, emotional regulation, and self-worth. 3. Consistency Rebuilds Trust Doug didn't win back respect overnight. It was through showing up daily—at home, at work, in faith—that others started believing in him again. 4. Your Story Can Heal Others When you share your scars instead of hiding them, you give others permission to grow. Doug's journey now empowers men to rise from their lowest points. 5. Discipline Is the Gateway to Freedom True freedom doesn't come from avoiding pain. It comes from building structure, owning your role, and becoming someone your family can count on.       LINKS & RESOURCES   Connect with Doug Bopst: https://www.dougbopst.com/free The Dad Edge Alliance: https://www.thedadedge.com/alliance 25 Questions to Spark Connection With Your Partner: https://www.thedadedge.com/25questions Podcast Show notes: thedadedge.com/1384     If this episode inspired you to own your past and step into your potential, follow, rate, review, and share the podcast. Your comeback story starts now.
In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I sit down with Michael Rothman—entrepreneur, father, and co-founder of Fatherly—to talk about what it really means to show up for your family with intention and presence in a rapidly evolving world.   Before he ever became a dad, Michael was shaping the conversation around modern fatherhood. Now, with a toddler at home and a lifetime of service under his belt, he reflects on how being a present father isn't about perfection—but about presence, community, and character. We dive into powerful insights on building secure attachment with your kids, the risks of oversharing online, how marriage impacts your children more than you think, and what dads can do to lead with both strength and vulnerability.       TIMELINE SUMMARY   [0:00] – Introduction [1:25] – Why "wife care" is often harder than baby care [4:22] – The origin of Fatherly and Mike's shift from single men's media to parenting [7:20] – How Mike's dad inspired a life of service [10:44] – The awkward "birds and bees" talk and learning from what wasn't said [15:10] – Mentoring kids without fathers and the deep need for stable male figures [19:15] – Why kids seek connection in gangs, screens, or wherever they're accepted [20:30] – What it means to build a secure emotional foundation for your kids [23:47] – Attachment theory and the critical role of ages 0–3 [26:41] – Presence vs. proximity: how dads can show up without distraction [31:00] – How kids absorb emotional tension in marriage [34:01] – Should you stay in a marriage just for the kids? [36:09] – The hidden dangers of exposing your kids' lives online [38:34] – The AI risk: voice spoofing, facial recognition, and digital breadcrumbs [41:21] – What Tinybeans does differently for family privacy [45:00] – The mission behind Fatherly, Tinybeans, and The Dispatch [46:55] – Encouraging respectful debate and deeper understanding through The Dispatch     5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   1. Presence Is More Than Just Showing Up Kids feel when we're distracted. Being physically there isn't enough—our full attention is the greatest gift we can give.   2. Secure Attachment Starts Early The first three years are foundational. Love, encouragement, and consistency build the confidence kids need to thrive later in life.   3. Your Marriage Sets the Emotional Tone of the Home Children sense tension. Investing in your relationship with your partner creates the safety your kids deeply crave.   4. Be Cautious With Digital Sharing The internet remembers everything. What you post about your kids could be used in ways you can't predict. Protect their digital footprint.   5. Leadership Starts With Community Dads can't do it alone. Leading your family includes building community around you—because your kids benefit from seeing other strong, grounded men too.     LINKS & RESOURCES The Dad Edge Alliance (Join Us) – https://www.thedadedge.com/alliance 25 Questions to Spark Connection With Your Partner – https://www.thedadedge.com/25questions Dad Edge Podcast Website – thedadedge.com/1383       If this episode gave you insight or encouragement, rate, review, and share it with another dad who needs to hear it. Don't forget to follow the podcast so you never miss the wisdom and real talk we bring every week. Let's keep leading our families with presence, power, and purpose.
Here are the fully formatted, SEO-optimized show notes for the Dad Edge Podcast episode featuring Ethan Hagner (Oct 1, 2025):     EPISODE SUMMARY In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I sit down with my son Ethan for another real and reflective conversation about what it means to grow up with intention, confidence, and emotional maturity. We dig into how young men can use challenges to build strength, how mindset shapes everything, and why confidence is earned, not given.   You'll hear us explore how to handle life's curveballs, overcome fear of judgment, and cultivate confidence through action. If you're raising sons—or you are a young man on your own journey—this episode is packed with authentic insights and connection-driven takeaways.     TIMELINE SUMMARY [0:00] - Opening the episode with Ethan: father-son connection and check-in [2:16] - The power of presence and accountability in our weekly sit-downs [4:02] - Ethan reflects on recent wins, challenges, and growth moments [6:15] - Learning to navigate fear of judgment and criticism as a young man [8:40] - Confidence doesn't come from words—it comes from actions repeated over time [10:22] - Why growth often hides behind discomfort and adversity [12:31] - Ethan's personal mindset shifts and what helped him break through [14:45] - Choosing perspective in hard moments: victimhood vs. ownership [17:00] - The power of awareness and reflection in building character [19:12] - What fathers can do to encourage independence while staying supportive [21:40] - The benefits of letting kids experience struggle, not avoid it [24:11] - Ethan's message to young men: why you're more capable than you think [26:03] - Final reflections on growth, confidence, and father-son alignment     5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   1. Confidence Is Built, Not Given Confidence isn't about praise or motivation—it's built through repeated action, self-discipline, and the decision to show up even when it's hard. 2. Discomfort Is the Gateway to Growth Adversity isn't the enemy—it's the environment where mental toughness and character are developed. Teaching your kids to face it head-on is a gift. 3. Support Without Saving Builds Stronger Kids The goal isn't to rescue your kids from struggle but to walk beside them as they learn. That's how we raise resilient, independent leaders. 4. Mindset and Perspective Are Everything When young men choose ownership over victimhood, they shift from passive living to powerful leadership. It all starts with perspective. 5. Father-Son Check-Ins Matter More Than You Think Intentional time together—like weekly conversations—can become the anchor for growth, emotional regulation, and lifelong connection.       LINKS & RESOURCES • thedadedge.com/legendarybook 25 Questions to Spark Connection With Your Partner: https://www.thedadedge.com/25questions The Dad Edge Alliance (for high-performing fathers): https://www.thedadedge.com/alliance Podcast Website and Resources: thedadedge.com/1382     If this episode helped you reflect on connection, confidence, or how to lead your kids more intentionally, please follow, rate, review, and share the podcast. Your support fuels our mission to help fathers lead legendary lives.
In this powerful episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I sit down with fitness coach and father Brandon Mancine to talk about what it truly means to be consistent, resilient, and connected in fatherhood. Brandon shares how the lessons learned from sobriety, fitness, and fatherhood all intersect—and why your physical discipline directly impacts your emotional presence at home.   From building routines that work to leading by example and showing up in the hard moments, Brandon reminds us that no one gets it perfect—but if you're consistent, you'll make an impact. Whether you're a dad in recovery, rebuilding trust, or just trying to show up better, this episode will challenge and encourage you.     TIMELINE SUMMARY [0:00] - Welcome and introducing today's guest: Brandon Mancine [1:42] - Brandon's story: growing up, addiction, and breaking the cycle [4:15] - How sobriety and fatherhood gave his life new direction [6:32] - The parallels between fitness discipline and emotional presence [9:10] - Why consistency wins over intensity in both training and parenting [12:27] - Learning to show up when you least feel like it [15:14] - Rebuilding trust with your kids after failure or absence [17:06] - The shift from proving yourself to leading with humility [19:25] - What recovery has taught Brandon about self-awareness [22:43] - The power of structure and routine in family life [24:58] - Why dads need to model vulnerability, not perfection [27:09] - Tools Brandon uses to stay grounded and connected [29:40] - Brandon's advice to dads who feel like they're "too far gone" [31:56] - Final reflections on faith, fitness, and leading from love     5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   1. Consistency Beats Intensity Whether it's in the gym or with your kids, showing up regularly matters more than doing it perfectly. Your presence is your power. 2. Recovery Requires Ownership Brandon shares that the key to rebuilding trust is accepting where you've been, owning it, and showing up differently—without needing a pat on the back. 3. Fitness Is a Mirror for Fatherhood Discipline, patience, and pushing through discomfort in training teach us how to lead with strength and humility at home. 4. You're Never Too Far Gone No matter how far you feel you've fallen as a father, you can always begin again—with consistency, honesty, and grace. 5. Vulnerability Builds Connection Perfection isn't the goal—presence is. Leading with vulnerability opens the door to trust, healing, and deeper relationships with your kids.       LINKS & RESOURCES Brandon Mancine Coaching: https://bmfcoaching.com/ Hair XT (Brandon's hair restoration brand): https://hairxt.com/ The Dad Edge Alliance: https://www.thedadedge.com/alliance 25 Questions to Spark Connection With Your Partner: https://www.thedadedge.com/25questions Dad Edge Podcast Website: https://www.thedadedge.com/podcast Sign up for Poststack Updates: https://www.thedadedge.com/poststack Podcast Show Notes: thedadedge.com/1381     If this episode encouraged you to lead with greater intention, please follow, rate, review, and share the podcast. Every download helps another dad find the tools and mindset to live legendary.
In this solo episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I dive into the valuable life lessons we as fathers can teach our kids through sports—lessons that go far beyond winning or losing. Whether it's about praising effort over outcomes, sharing personal stories of hard work, or simply playing together with no agenda, I explore how to build stronger bonds and greater resilience in our kids through these moments. This episode is a call to reframe how we show up on the sidelines and in life. Sports can be more than competition—they can be a platform for presence, growth, and connection. If you want to raise grounded, hardworking kids who aren't afraid of putting in the reps, this episode is for you. TIMELINE SUMMARY [0:00] - Kicking off the episode with intention and a mission for fatherhood [1:02] - The busy fall season: sports, school, and parenting chaos [2:22] - Why we must praise effort—not just outcomes—with our kids [3:46] - Childhood memories and the impact of working hard without reward [5:02] - Growth mindset: effort over results builds long-term confidence [6:29] - Combating entitlement by teaching consistent hard work [7:27] - Celebrating preparation, not just game-day performance [8:07] - Sharing real stories of hard work from our own lives with our kids [9:18] - Why credibility with your kids is built through relatable stories [9:38] - The power of play: connecting with our kids through shared activity [10:21] - Taekwondo with my son and football with another—just having fun [11:12] - Why the end result matters less than the connection [11:49] - A practical call to action: ask your kids what they learned from sports this week [12:26] - Don't let your kids off the hook—push for real answers [13:04] - Reflecting on the last quarter of the year and what's ahead [13:39] - A warning for business owners: don't build an empire and lose your family [14:19] - Links to join The Alliance or Business Boardroom [14:42] - Final recap and reminder to praise effort, share stories, and play together 5 KEY TAKEAWAYS 1. Praise Effort, Not Just Results When we focus on our kids' preparation, persistence, and grit rather than wins or trophies, we help them develop a growth mindset that builds confidence and resilience. 2. Real-Life Stories Create Connection Sharing your own stories of hard work, sacrifice, and struggle makes your guidance more credible and relatable—and shows your kids you've been in their shoes. 3. Play Without a Purpose Connection often happens in the unstructured moments. Whether it's football or taekwondo, playing with your kids for the sake of fun builds trust and memories. 4. Ask Better Questions Instead of asking "How was practice?", ask "What did you learn this week from sports?" Push them to reflect and communicate their growth and insights. 5. Lead Without Losing What Matters Whether you're a career man or building a business, don't trade connection with your wife or kids for productivity. Build both—intentionally. LINKS & RESOURCES Show notes for this episode: https://www.thedadedge.com/1380 thedadedge.com/mastermind Join The Dad Edge Alliance (for career-driven men): https://www.thedadedge.com/alliance Join The Dad Edge Business Boardroom (for entrepreneurs): https://www.thedadedge.com/boardroom 25 Questions to Spark Connection With Your Partner: https://www.thedadedge.com/25questions If this episode gave you a new way to think about parenting through sports and everyday moments, do me a favor—follow, rate, review, and share the podcast. Let's keep equipping men to lead with intention and live legendary.
In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, my son Ethan and I open up about the kind of conversations that strengthen the bond between fathers and sons. We explore what it really means to show up with respect, emotional maturity, presence, and perspective—both as a parent and as a young man growing into adulthood.   From handling difficult emotions and making space for deeper connection to the importance of ownership and emotional regulation, this episode is filled with raw insights and real-life tools for leading your kids—especially your sons—toward a more grounded and respectful life. Whether you're a dad trying to better understand your son or a young man looking to grow into his role, this one hits home.     TIMELINE SUMMARY [0:00] - Welcome and today's topic: respect, ownership, and emotional maturity [1:14] - Why dads and sons need hard conversations for deeper connection [2:33] - Teaching kids emotional control without shutting down their feelings [3:58] - Ethan's take on what "being present" looks like from a son's perspective [6:27] - Why kids don't always need advice—they need you to listen [8:22] - The impact of dads staying calm when kids are upset [11:15] - A story about "being too close to the situation" and losing perspective [13:47] - Ethan's advice to young men about taking responsibility and thinking bigger [15:01] - When life feels overwhelming: how to pause and regain emotional footing [17:26] - Teaching sons that vulnerability and strength are not opposites [19:44] - Lessons from past episodes and how guests influence Ethan's perspective [21:10] - Navigating performance pressure as a young man in today's world [23:42] - What Ethan is learning about balancing ambition and contentment [26:03] - Managing stress and comparison in the digital age [29:18] - The father-son dynamic around goals, growth, and personal responsibility [31:51] - Ethan shares what helps him feel most connected to his dad [34:22] - Why consistency beats intensity in relationships and leadership [36:09] - The importance of checking in emotionally, not just logistically [38:45] - Final reflections on fatherhood, growth, and relational leadership [41:36] - Closing encouragement and reminder to lead with presence and love     5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   1. Respect Starts With Presence Kids don't feel respected when they're interrupted or corrected mid-emotion. Simply being present—listening without jumping in—builds trust that lasts. 2. Emotional Regulation Is Learned, Not Inherited Children learn emotional control from what we model. Calm fathers create calm environments where kids feel safe to feel. 3. You Can't Solve What You Don't See Clearly Reacting emotionally without pausing for perspective often escalates the situation. Teaching our kids to "zoom out" is a lifelong skill. 4. Sons Need Ownership, Not Rescue Letting our sons take responsibility—even when they mess up—builds confidence and teaches them to lead themselves. 5. Vulnerability Builds Strength Helping boys understand that being vulnerable doesn't make them weak—it makes them real—is key to raising emotionally intelligent men.       LINKS & RESOURCES   25 Questions to Spark Connection With Your Partner: https://www.thedadedge.com/25questions Micro factor:  https://1stphorm.com/products/micro-factor/?a_aid=dadedge POST WORKOUT STACK:  https://1stphorm.com/products/post-workout-stack/?a_aid=dadedge Larry's book:  thedadedge.com/legendarybook   Dad Edge Podcast Website: https://www.thedadedge.com/podcast Join The Alliance: https://www.thedadedge.com/alliance Dad Edge Boardroom (for entrepreneurial fathers): https://www.thedadedge.com/boardroom Dad Edge Tools & Resources: https://www.thedadedge.com/tools       If this episode helped you see father-son connection in a new light, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. Let's raise a generation of men who lead with heart, discipline, and perspective.
In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, Larry Hagner is joined by Oscar "Oz" Aponte—a U.S. Army veteran, StrongFirst kettlebell instructor, and founder of Iron Core—to explore what real strength means as a man, a father, and a leader.   Oz brings a powerful blend of physical mastery and spiritual depth, helping men move from brute force to intentional presence. Together, they unpack how posture, breath, nervous system regulation, and movement patterns shape your long-term vitality—not just in the gym, but at the dinner table, in your marriage, and in your legacy.   More than a conversation about fitness, this is a deep dive into fatherhood, grief, and building your life with intention. Whether you're a kettlebell junkie or just a dad looking to show up better, this episode will challenge you to redefine strength on every level.   TIMELINE SUMMARY   [0:00] - Welcome to the Dad Edge mission: changing generations [1:00] - Os' dad: love, legacy, and shaping a son through presence [4:05] - The final moments Os had with his father before he passed [6:42] - The cycle-breaking power of a father who never had one [9:58] - Combining Eastern mindfulness with Western strength [12:21] - Training for longevity vs. ego [14:45] - Redefining masculinity as balance, not burnout [19:23] - Nervous system health: "the threat bucket" metaphor [25:36] - The seasons of fitness (and why to respect them) [28:15] - How posture and gait silently break men down [30:37] - Tissues adapt to dysfunction—unless you intervene [33:33] - Why kettlebells work: simple tools, elite results [38:55] - Busy dads: how to train with limited time and space [40:37] - Core movements every man should master [44:13] - The "Simple & Sinister" training approach [47:13] - Kettlebell workshops, coaching, and learning more   5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   1. Strength Is Presence Being strong isn't just about lifting weight—it's about how grounded, aware, and calm you are with your family.   2. Your Nervous System Is Running the Show Stress, posture, sleep, and breath all impact your strength more than ego lifting ever could. Master your internal world first.   3. Movement Is Medicine Poor gait and posture don't just cause pain—they drain your energy and shorten your lifespan. Train smart, not just hard.   4. Simplicity Wins You don't need a fancy gym or complicated gear. One kettlebell and intentional reps can outperform a cluttered workout.   5. Legacy Is Built in the Small Moments Oz's story shows that being a strong father isn't about perfection. It's about showing up, being present, and choosing intentionality every day.   LINKS & RESOURCES   Os Aponte's Website & Coaching: https://ironcoreway.com   Book Mentioned: Simple & Sinister by Pavel Tsatsouline https://www.strongfirst.com/shop/ebooks/simple-sinister-ebook   StrongFirst Kettlebell Certifications + Programs: https://www.strongfirst.com   Live Workshops in San Diego: Check Oz's site for current event listings   Dad Edge Podcast Hub: https://thedadedge.com/podcast   Book Preorder: The Pursuit of Legendary Fatherhood https://thedadedge.com/legendarybook
In this solo episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, host Larry Hagner opens up about what it means to be the thermostat in your home, not just the thermometer. With economic uncertainty, workplace stress, and daily responsibilities piling up, Larry shares a powerful message: while we can't always control the outside world, we can control the atmosphere inside our homes.   Drawing from his own experience as a husband, father of four, entrepreneur, and coach to hundreds of men, Larry offers three simple but game-changing practices to help you lead with presence, peace, and intentionality. You'll learn how to create transition rituals, share stress in age-appropriate ways, and protect one daily "anchor moment" with your family.   This isn't just advice—it's a battle plan for fatherhood in today's chaotic world.   TIMELINE SUMMARY   [0:00] - The Dad Edge movement: raising the next generation of fathers [1:06] - Why "Dad Jones" matters more than Dow Jones [2:30] - From entrepreneurship to emotional presence at home [3:38] - Why dads must become the thermostat, not the thermometer [4:31] - Breaking generational cycles through intentional leadership [5:21] - Tactical Nugget #1: Create a transition ritual [6:02] - From Zoom calls to family time in 60 seconds or less [7:39] - Zoom fatigue, blue-collar exhaustion, and stress overload [8:18] - Real-world examples of transition rituals that work [9:36] - The "warm-up" metaphor: why you can't sprint cold [10:40] - Tactical Nugget #2: Share age-appropriate context [11:48] - Explaining stress to a 9-year-old without oversharing [12:49] - Tactical Nugget #3: Protect one anchor moment daily [13:46] - The dinner table is sacred—don't let sports take it away [14:55] - The Hagner family: 70% dinner consistency even with teens [16:05] - Anchoring doesn't have to be nightly—just intentional [17:09] - What it means to protect your family's emotional economy [18:18] - Action step: Choose one ritual to stabilize your home [19:02] - Want to go deeper? Why Larry created the Dad Edge Alliance [20:14] - Introducing: The Dad Edge Business Brotherhood [21:01] - "If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together."   5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   1. Be the Thermostat, Not the Thermometer Your mood sets the emotional tone in your home. Don't react to the chaos—lead through it.   2. Create a Transition Ritual Whether it's deep breathing, walking, or reading scripture, take 5–10 minutes to reset before re-entering home life.   3. Speak to Your Kids at Their Level You don't need to dump stress on your children—but you can share what's going on in ways they understand.   4. Protect One Daily Anchor Moment Whether it's a meal, bedtime routine, or morning coffee with your spouse—make it non-negotiable.   5. Your Family Needs a Grounded Leader They don't need a stressed-out provider. They need you—calm, present, and emotionally available. LINKS & RESOURCES   Join the Mastermind Paths Dad Edge Alliance: https://thedadedge.com/mastermind Business Owner Brotherhood: https://thedadedge.com/mastermind   Books Mentioned: Building a Non-Anxious Life by Dr. John Delony: https://www.ramseysolutions.com/store/books/building-a-non-anxious-life-by-john-delony   Full Episode & Other Resources: Podcast Homepage: https://thedadedge.com/podcast Larry Hagner Instagram: https://instagram.com/thedadedge
In this heart-to-heart episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I sit down with my 19-year-old son, Ethan Hagner, for a raw and honest conversation about growing up, gaining independence, and building strong family bonds in the process. Together, we explore what it means to transition from teenager to young adult while still staying connected to family values, respect, and open communication.   We dive into how to respectfully disagree with parents, how to manage emotions in a healthy way, and the importance of creating space without disconnection. Ethan shares his personal experiences—from turning down college parties to navigating long-distance relationships—and how he's developed healthy coping mechanisms like ice baths, workouts, and prayer.   This episode isn't just for parents of teens. It's for any father who wants to lead his family with grace, patience, and intention—and raise young men of character in a chaotic world.   TIMELINE SUMMARY   [0:00] - Welcome to the Dad Edge movement [1:01] - Raising independent, critical-thinking kids [2:12] - Respectful disagreements with parents and communication [3:02] - Pumpkin spice protein ice cream (yes, seriously) [5:03] - The scary truth about a Starbucks PSL's sugar content [6:42] - Why protein-first choices matter for men's health [9:34] - Introducing today's topic: family ties and independence [10:02] - Life after high school: structure vs. freedom [11:52] - Taking initiative as a young adult [13:35] - Visiting college friends and choosing not to party [15:12] - Why making different choices matters to dads [16:13] - Navigating peer pressure and honoring your values [17:02] - "Liquor is poison in a fancy bottle" – a mindset shift [18:01] - Recognizing alcohol for what it is: a toxin [21:03] - Creating safe space for respectful disagreements [23:04] - How to make kids feel seen, heard, and understood [25:21] - All emotions are welcome, not all behaviors are [26:26] - Ethan's favorite stress relief tool: beating up "Bob" [27:37] - Navigating long-distance relationships as a teen [29:13] - Classical music, cards, and healthy distraction [30:23] - Coping mechanisms that actually improve your life [32:05] - Ice plunges and dopamine boosts [34:20] - Why saunas win over cold plunges for dad [36:26] - A reminder: every man needs a list of positive go-to's [37:15] - The highs and fears of new independence [39:17] - What scares Ethan most about his future path [40:02] - Why dad feels the clock ticking at age 50 [42:25] - Book launch: The Pursuit of Legendary Fatherhood [43:17] - Two free bonus courses for a limited time [44:15] - Why this father-son podcast is one-of-a-kind [46:00] - Temptation and faith: how Ethan calls on God [48:01] - God always provides a way out of temptation   5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   1. Independence Comes With Responsibility Growing up means more than freedom—it means taking ownership of your time, habits, and health.   2. All Emotions Are Welcome—Not All Behaviors Are Feeling anger, sadness, or frustration is normal. Acting with intention is what matters.   3. Respectful Disagreements Build Connection When parents create space for respectful pushback, kids learn how to think critically while staying connected.   4. Healthy Coping Mechanisms Are Essential From ice baths and workouts to music and prayer, having go-to tools keeps stress from taking control.   5. Faith and Intention Defeat Temptation Whether it's porn, partying, or self-doubt, Ethan reminds us that calling on God in moments of weakness gives us strength to choose better.   LINKS & RESOURCES   Order the new book: The Pursuit of Legendary Fatherhood: https://thedadedge.com/legendarybook  Free Courses for a Limited Time: Creating More Patience Creating an Extraordinary Marriage   Episode page: https://thedadedge.com/1376   First Phorm Pumpkin Spice Protein: Only available for a limited time — https://1stphorm.com/collections/pumpkin-spice   James Swanwick's Alcohol-Free Program: https://www.jamesswanwick.com
In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I sit down with Super Bowl Champion Heath Evans and his wife Chrissy, a powerhouse couple raising six kids—four of them adopted siblings—and leading with faith, love, and intentionality. Beyond the NFL career and business ventures, their mission is about adoption, marriage, and creating a Christ-centered home where safety, strength, and sacrificial love are at the core.   We dive deep into adoption, marriage dynamics, leadership in the home, and the foundation of their health and fitness business, Built Ready. From why safety is the #1 need of every woman to the five pillars of a man's health (holiness, hydration, rest, workouts, and nutrition), this conversation challenges cultural norms and inspires fathers to lead with faith, humility, and strength.     TIMELINE SUMMARY [0:00] - Welcome to the Dad Edge and today's guests: Heath and Chrissy Evans [1:48] - Heath's NFL career and transition to family and faith [2:13] - Raising six kids, including four adopted siblings [6:00] - Their calling to adoption and the heart behind Bethesda Ranch [7:30] - The struggles of sibling adoption and God's faithfulness in their journey [9:00] - The fatherless crisis and why the church must step up [11:00] - Fatherless home statistics and their generational impact [12:12] - Why a great dad is usually also a great husband [13:28] - Prioritizing marriage first to create security for kids [14:07] - Modeling unity in front of children and avoiding division [15:52] - Why parenting flows from the strength of your marriage [16:44] - Larry's son joins the conversation and a powerful NFL-to-dad lesson [19:00] - Talking faith and fears with kids—real conversations that matter [22:00] - Teaching kids reverence and the holiness of God [24:11] - Why Scripture, not worldly wisdom, is the anchor for parenting [25:24] - Chrissy shares what it feels like to be married to a man deeply rooted in Christ [26:15] - Safety as a wife's greatest need: emotional, spiritual, financial, and relational [29:00] - Respect, appreciation, affection for men vs. being seen, heard, and safe for women [31:15] - The power of forgiveness and humility in marriage [32:07] - Why true security comes from Christ, not success or performance [36:11] - Chrissy's reflections on submission, teamwork, and balance in marriage [40:20] - Heath's analogy of submarine leadership and servant-hearted strength [43:18] - The danger of self-reliance vs. dependence on Christ [46:23] - Why brokenness is often the beginning of real faith [49:23] - Built Ready's five pillars: holiness, hydration, rest, workout, and nutrition [53:05] - Why rest is non-negotiable for fathers and leaders [54:24] - Nutrition as stewardship, not idolatry [56:18] - Their supplement line and why A2 protein makes it unique [58:41] - Closing reflections and the Evans' heart for faith, family, and service     5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   1. Safety Is the Cornerstone of Marriage Chrissy powerfully explains that true safety goes beyond physical protection—it includes emotional, financial, spiritual, and relational security. When women feel safe, marriage flourishes. 2. Adoption Is God's Heart in Action The Evans adopted four siblings to keep them together, living out God's call to be a "father to the fatherless" and modeling how faith drives family decisions. 3. Marriage First, Parenting Second Strong marriages create strong families. Kids thrive when they see their parents united, affectionate, and committed to one another before all else. 4. Leadership Is Servanthood Heath challenges men to rethink leadership—not as dominance, but as sacrificial love modeled by Christ. True strength is found in humility, service, and faith. 5. The Five Pillars of Health Built Ready's framework—holiness, hydration, rest, workouts, and nutrition—shows why spiritual health must lead the way, with physical health supporting a man's mission to love and serve well.     LINKS & RESOURCES   Built Ready Health & Fitness: https://builtready.com Chrissy Evans (Weight Loss Hero): https://weightlosshero.com Heath Evans on Instagram: https://instagram.com/heath_evans44 Chrissy Evans on Instagram: https://instagram.com/weightlosshero Contact Heath: heath@builtready.com Contact Chrissy: chrissy@weightlosshero.com Dad Edge Podcast Website: https://www.thedadedge.com/podcast Join The Alliance: https://www.thedadedge.com/alliance 25 Questions to Spark Connection With Your Partner: https://www.thedadedge.com/25questions       If this episode inspired you to rethink marriage, leadership, and fatherhood, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. Together, we're raising fathers who lead with faith, courage, and love.
In this solo episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I dive into one of the greatest challenges facing parents today: raising kids in the digital age. Between iPhones, TikTok, YouTube, and even AI tools like ChatGPT, technology is moving at lightning speed—and as fathers, we can't afford to bury our heads in the sand.   I share three powerful strategies that will help you set the right boundaries for your kids without putting them in "tech prison." From creating guardrails with apps like Bark, to implementing a family tech contract, to modeling discipline with our own devices, this episode is about protecting our kids while also preparing them to navigate the digital world with responsibility and confidence.     TIMELINE SUMMARY [0:00] - Welcome to the Dad Edge movement and today's focus on raising kids in the digital age [1:02] - Why technology is moving faster than parents can keep up [2:11] - Why this generation is the first to face AI, smartphones, and social media all at once [3:08] - Introducing Dad Edge Alliance and Boardroom Brotherhood for fathers [4:00] - Strategy #1: Set guardrails, not walls, around tech use [4:58] - The rookie mistake of limiting apps without realizing kids just switch platforms [6:12] - Workarounds kids use to bypass phone restrictions [7:05] - Why apps like Bark provide a real solution for parents [7:25] - Strategy #2: Create a family tech contract with clear boundaries and accountability [8:42] - Examples of contracts around bedtime, screen-free zones, and check-ins [8:59] - Strategy #3: Model discipline by living the same tech rules as your kids [9:56] - Why hypocrisy in tech rules undermines your authority [11:14] - Setting boundaries with work and modeling digital discipline at home [12:22] - The Bark app, Bark phone, and Bark watch explained [14:05] - Why I don't allow TikTok or YouTube for my younger kids [14:54] - The Bark watch for younger kids as a safe, affordable option [15:31] - Final recap of the three strategies for digital parenting [16:13] - Closing encouragement and link to resources     5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   1. Guardrails Beat Walls Complete restriction creates rebellion. Guardrails, not tech prisons, teach kids to manage technology responsibly while keeping them safe. 2. Apps Aren't Foolproof Kids can and will find workarounds. Relying only on built-in phone restrictions isn't enough—you need smarter tools like Bark to stay ahead. 3. Contracts Create Clarity A family tech contract sets clear expectations for screen time, apps, and accountability. Clarity prevents arguments and keeps kids accountable. 4. Model the Discipline You Preach If you tell your kids "no phones at dinner," but you're scrolling, the rule collapses. Fathers must live the same digital discipline they demand. 5. Your Kids' Tech Is Your Business Phones, apps, and online behavior aren't private property for minors. Fathers must stay engaged, set boundaries, and protect their kids in the digital age.       LINKS & RESOURCES   Bark App & Devices (Protect your kids online): https://www.thedadedge.com/bark Episode Show Notes Page: https://www.thedadedge.com/1377 Dad Edge Podcast Website: https://www.thedadedge.com/podcast Join The Alliance (career-driven dads): https://www.thedadedge.com/alliance Dad Edge Boardroom (entrepreneurial dads): https://www.thedadedge.com/boardroom 25 Questions to Spark Connection With Your Partner: https://www.thedadedge.com/25questions     If this episode gave you clarity on parenting in the digital age, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. Together, we're raising a generation of kids who are safe, confident, and prepared for a digital world.
In this special father-son episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I sit down with my 19-year-old son, Ethan Hagner, to talk about the ever-evolving world of modern dating, masculinity, and what respect looks like in today's culture. From Snapchat and Bitmoji "vibes" to the dangers of digital footprints, Ethan pulls back the curtain on what Gen Z is really experiencing when it comes to relationships, identity, and self-worth.   We get raw and real about breakups, social media drama, posting for "social therapy," and what red flags look like in 2025. But the conversation goes much deeper than dating. Ethan opens up about his personal growth, past mistakes, and what he'd tell his 16-year-old self—and future daughter—about how to protect your integrity in the world of online relationships and viral opinions.   This is a must-listen for any dad raising teens or preteens. It's funny, eye-opening, brutally honest, and packed with generational wisdom from both sides of the table. TIMELINE SUMMARY [0:00] - Welcome to the Dad Edge mission [1:04] - How dating has changed since "back in the day" [2:38] - Meet Ethan Hagner: college, EMT prep, and dad banter [3:58] - Inside the Dad Edge studio & sponsor shoutout (First Form) [5:36] - Ignition + Formula 1 explained: post-workout must-haves [8:08] - Pre-order info: The Pursuit of Legendary Fatherhood [9:11] - How 19-year-olds actually meet people now (Snapchat!) [10:20] - Snapchat's "Quick Add" and Bitmoji-deep dating decisions [14:04] - Dating vs. passing notes in the 90s, how we used to ask friends to "talk to her for me" [16:06] - Red flags on social profiles: vaping, weed, or weird vibes [20:30] - Toxicity, trust, and "the feeling you just can't explain" [24:30] - Social media therapy: breakups that go viral [27:03] - Digital drama and public TikTok crying [30:27] - The real meaning of "game" for Gen Z (hint: not confidence) [32:02] - Confidence vs. bravado: what women really respond to [34:09] - What healthy confidence looks like in teens [35:30] - Are ICks ruining relationships before they start? [39:22] - Ego, lifting, and growing up with the wrong friend group [41:13] - Self-awareness: from wife beater tanks to regretful beliefs [42:35] - Advice Ethan would give his future 16-year-old daughter [43:10] - Digital safety, values, and protecting your future [46:40] - Larry's top two dating lessons for his younger self [47:40] - Regret from not approaching vs. regret from rejection [48:16] - When you strike out, you're still winning [51:11] - Protecting your reputation on social media [52:22] - First Form Dad of the Month: Ty Twizzler's inspiring story 5 KEY TAKEAWAYS 1. Snapchat Changed Dating Forever For Gen Z, Snapchat is the new hallway, lunch table, and dating app combined. But what happens there leaves a permanent digital trail—so teach your kids to tread carefully. 2. Confidence Wins—Ego Repels Bravado might grab attention, but real confidence comes from knowing who you are and not bending for validation. It's quiet, steady, and deeply attractive. 3. Respect Is Never Outdated Whether it's how you treat a teacher, a girlfriend, or yourself, respect is foundational. True character shows when no one's watching—or when everyone's watching online. 4. Your Digital Footprint Never Goes Away Posting relationship drama on TikTok or Snapchat may feel therapeutic in the moment, but it can damage reputations, create enemies, and attract the wrong kind of attention. 5. You're Not Too Young to Lead Ethan may be 19, but his mindset about dating, identity, and future family is already grounded in wisdom. His generation needs more examples like this—and so do ours. LINKS & RESOURCES 🎯 First Form Products Micro Factor: https://1stphorm.com/products/micro-factor Formula 1 + Ignition Post-Workout Stack: https://1stphorm.com/products/formula-1 📘 Pre-Order: Pursuit of Legendary Fatherhood: https://www.thedadedge.com/legendarybook 🎙 Dad Edge Alliance Membership: https://www.thedadedge.com/alliance 🎧 Full Episode & Show Notes: https://www.thedadedge.com/1364
In this powerful episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I sit down with Chandler Rogers—founder of the Relay app and a man on a mission to help men break free from pornography and reclaim deep connection. Chandler shares his raw personal story as a new dad, a husband navigating the fog of sleep deprivation, and a man who turned his own struggle with porn into a platform that has already helped over 5,000 men heal. This conversation isn't just about addiction—it's about isolation, shame, leadership, and stepping into the masculine role your family needs. Chandler reveals the emotional spiral that so many husbands silently endure and how one vulnerable conversation with his wife brought them closer than ever. We talk about why porn is not the real issue, how to lead with emotional clarity, and what it means to truly be seen by your partner. If you've ever struggled with secret shame, felt alone in your role as a dad or husband, or craved deeper intimacy and purpose, this episode will show you you're not broken—just unfinished. Real healing starts with connection. TIMELINE SUMMARY [0:00] - Welcome to the Dad Edge and today's focus: breaking the shame cycle [3:09] - Becoming a father: sleep deprivation, joy, and surprises [8:45] - Marriage after kids: missed connection, emotional gaps, and resentment [12:06] - The physical toll of fatherhood and why self-care matters [13:29] - The emotional cost of disconnection in marriage [15:09] - How resentment is the cancer of relationships [16:50] - Why Chandler named his platform "Relay" and its deeper meaning [18:20] - Why isolation fuels addiction and how connection heals [19:34] - Why porn isn't the problem—it's a comfort mechanism [20:35] - Porn as a symptom of emotional wounds, not the root cause [21:21] - Childhood trauma, hyper-stimulus, and the pain-pleasure cycle [22:56] - How most men justify porn use (and why those stories fall apart) [25:35] - The shame spiral: dissociation, numbness, and fragmentation [28:54] - When needs go unmet: rationalizing porn through "selflessness" [30:11] - Owning masculine needs without blame or desperation [32:03] - Chandler's powerful conversation with his wife that changed everything [33:17] - Why emotional awareness is the first step to intimacy [34:18] - The feminine response: how wives crave emotional leadership [35:30] - The difference between openness and emotional outbursts [36:38] - The moment Chandler reconnected with his wife through vulnerability [39:47] - How unspoken needs lead to resentment—and eventually porn [41:25] - The silver lining: how healing starts with connection [43:20] - How Relay works: anonymous, app-based community for men [46:45] - Why your wife shouldn't be your accountability partner [48:02] - Why connection must be as easy as access to porn [49:47] - How Relay connects you with the right people  [51:36] - Seeing your group's progress and showing up with purpose [53:11] -  Designing your future vs. resisting your past [54:11] - Replacing one habit with a better one: app design insights [56:33] - How a community will help you grow into a better person [58:01] - The real problem isn't desire, it's implementation [01:00:00] - Why information alone won't change your life [1:01:06] -  Where to find Chandler and the Relay app 5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   1. Porn Isn't the Problem—It's the Pain Most men turn to porn not out of lust, but to numb discomfort, avoid connection, or cope with emotional pain they haven't addressed.   2. Resentment Is the Silent Killer of Marriage Unspoken needs become stories. Stories become disconnection. And disconnection becomes resentment. That's the cancer that silently kills intimacy.   3. You're Not Broken—You're Just Unfinished Most men don't lack desire or information—they lack implementation. Healing is not about perfection. It's about progress with others.   4. Emotional Leadership Is Masculine When men speak their needs clearly—without blame, shame, or desperation—it inspires women to soften, lean in, and reconnect.   5. Connection Is the Antidote to Shame Isolation fuels addiction. Community kills shame. Vulnerability with safe men in a trusted circle is what creates lasting transformation.   LINKS & RESOURCES   Join Relay (Chandler's App): https://www.joinrelay.app Email Chandler: chandler@joinrelay.app Dad Edge Podcast: https://www.thedadedge.com/podcast Join the Alliance (Dad Edge Community): https://www.thedadedge.com/alliance
In this solo episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I'm talking directly to you, the fathers, about stepping up as school is back in session. Life gets busier with drop-offs, homework, sports, and late-night routines, but this season also gives us new opportunities to lead and connect with our families in meaningful ways.   I share three powerful strategies for creating deeper bonds at home: owning one routine with your kids, maximizing "connection cues" during daily transitions, and holding a weekly huddle with your wife to reduce stress and strengthen your marriage. If you're feeling overwhelmed by the chaos of the school year, this episode will help you find clarity, lead intentionally, and make sure your family thrives instead of drifts.     TIMELINE SUMMARY [0:00] - Welcome to the Dad Edge movement and back-to-school chaos [1:02] - Kids' homework struggles and funny math frustrations [2:21] - A message for kids listening in the car: your dad loves you deeply [3:44] - Why most dads want to succeed—not fail—in fatherhood [4:26] - Transitioning from summer to school as a leadership opportunity [5:21] - Balancing school, sports, homework, and family commitments [6:20] - Reflections on August episodes with Jessica and the power of marriage conversations [7:53] - Strategy #1: Own one routine (breakfast, bedtime, school prep, homework help) [9:32] - Reducing invisible labor for your wife by owning key tasks [10:23] - Why bedtime routines are gold for connection (even if you're exhausted) [11:31] - Asking open-ended questions that spark real conversations [12:57] - Adapting routines for different kids' personalities and needs [14:41] - Bedtime as a place of safety, vulnerability, and connection [15:21] - Strategy #2: Connection cues in car rides, drop-offs, and pickups [16:18] - Side-by-side conversations and the power of turning off the radio [17:05] - Strategy #3: Weekly huddle with your wife (planning + intimacy) [18:19] - Reducing stress by clarifying who owns which tasks at home [19:39] - Using weekly huddles as both a planning and intimacy tool [20:31] - Free weekly huddle resource (coming soon) [20:53] - Tools for protecting kids online with Bark (sponsor) [21:52] - Closing encouragement and reminder of available resources     5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   1. Own One Routine Whether it's bedtime, breakfast, or homework, fathers who fully own one routine lighten their wife's mental load while deepening connection with their kids. 2. Bedtime Is Golden Even when you're exhausted, bedtime is a unique opportunity for authenticity and safety. One open-ended question can spark conversations that matter. 3. Connection Cues Matter Car rides, drop-offs, and side-by-side moments are often when kids open up most. Turning off the radio and asking thoughtful questions makes a difference. 4. Weekly Huddles Reduce Stress A short check-in with your wife about what's working, what's draining, and what needs adjusting creates alignment and strengthens intimacy. 5. Leadership Is About Presence, Not Perfection You don't need to do everything—you just need to be intentional with what you choose to own. Presence, clarity, and consistency are what families need most.       LINKS & RESOURCES Bark (Protect your kids online): https://www.thedadedge.com/bark Dad Edge Podcast Website: https://www.thedadedge.com/podcast Join The Alliance: https://www.thedadedge.com/alliance Dad Edge Tools & Resources: https://www.thedadedge.com/tools       If this episode gave you practical tools for leading your family during the school year, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. Together, we're raising a generation of fathers who lead with clarity, intention, and love.
In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, Ethan and I dive into a topic most men don't talk about nearly enough—male friendships. From high school bonds that fade after graduation to the loneliness many men feel in their 30s and 40s, we unpack why brotherhood is so hard to maintain and why it matters more than ever.   We share personal stories, both from Ethan's perspective at 19 and my experience at 50, about what it looks like to build lasting friendships at different stages of life. From the silent killers of connection—busyness, unspoken expectations, and lack of intentionality—to the keys that keep brotherhood alive, this episode is a raw and honest roadmap for men who don't want to go through life alone.     TIMELINE SUMMARY [0:00] - Welcome to the Dad Edge movement and today's theme: friendships and brotherhood [1:02] - Why male friendships dwindle after high school [2:45] - How friendships shift in your 20s, 30s, 40s, and 50s [4:58] - Why achievement never replaces connection [6:13] - Ethan's perspective at 19: losing friends as everyone goes their separate ways [8:46] - Larry's college stories: parties, hangovers, and life lessons learned the hard way [12:23] - The shift from convenience-based friendships to intentional ones [15:01] - Why men struggle to make new friendships as they age [17:30] - The role of shared struggle, vulnerability, and consistency in building brotherhood [21:10] - Why "let's hang out sometime" rarely works—and what to do instead [25:18] - Larry's example of rekindling friendships with intentional planning [28:35] - How marriage and fatherhood shift men's priorities and isolate them [31:05] - The silent killers of friendship: busyness, lack of vulnerability, inconsistency [34:16] - Why brotherhood is essential for emotional, spiritual, and relational health [37:02] - Advice for young men: stay proactive, visit friends, make memories now [41:33] - How to prevent friendships from fading with intentionality and consistency [48:11] - Parallels between the silent killers of friendship and the silent killers of marriage [54:09] - Final reflections: why men need brotherhood and how to fight for it     5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   1. Friendships Require Intentionality Unlike the easy friendships of high school and college, adult brotherhood must be built with deliberate effort—planning, showing up, and refusing to drift. 2. Achievement Doesn't Replace Connection No amount of success, money, or accolades can substitute for the bond of brotherhood. Men need friendships to thrive, not just careers and families. 3. Vulnerability Creates Real Brotherhood Surface-level conversations keep men distant. True friendship grows when we open up honestly about struggles, challenges, and real life behind the scenes. 4. Consistency Keeps Bonds Alive Friendships die in silence. Weekly check-ins, shared rituals, or even planned coffee dates create the reps that make brotherhood last. 5. The Same Rules Apply to Marriage The silent killers of friendship—busyness, lack of vulnerability, loss of intentionality—also destroy marriages. Strong relationships, whether with friends or a spouse, require consistent effort and openness.       LINKS & RESOURCES   DB OVERDRIVE:  https://1stphorm.com/products/thyro-drive/?a_aid=dadedge First Phorm DB Overdrive (supplement featured): https://www.thedadedge.com/1361 25 Questions to Spark Connection With Your Partner: https://www.thedadedge.com/25questions Dad Edge Podcast Website: https://www.thedadedge.com/podcast Join The Alliance: https://www.thedadedge.com/alliance Dad Edge Tools & Resources: https://www.thedadedge.com/tools       If this episode gave you fresh insight into friendship, brotherhood, or marriage, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. Let's build a generation of men who refuse to live life alone.
In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I sit down with GS Youngblood—author of The Masculine in Relationship and The Art of Embodiment for Men. GS brings decades of experience coaching men on leadership in marriage, parenting, and personal growth through his Masculine Blueprint framework. Together, we unpack what it really means to live from your masculine core while creating safety, connection, and trust in your relationships.   We talk about balancing firmness with heart, why composure beats control, and how to provide structure without domination. GS also dives into the importance of embodiment practices for men, how to stop reacting and start responding, and the role of clarity in building intimacy with your partner. This is a conversation about leadership that goes beyond the surface—helping men shift from fear and reactivity into grounded presence and intentional direction.     TIMELINE SUMMARY [0:00] - Welcome to the Dad Edge movement and introduction to GS Youngblood [1:56] - GS's bestselling books and the Masculine Blueprint framework [2:28] - What it means to live from your masculine core [3:08] - Why composure is more powerful than control in leadership [5:03] - Growing up with an intense father and lessons for parenting [6:23] - Balancing firmness and love with your kids [7:30] - Relational masculinity: strength with empathy [9:21] - The artful blend of clarity and heart in family leadership [12:17] - Clarity as the foundation of effective masculine leadership [13:33] - The "nice guy" trap and why men seek external validation [15:10] - Why grounding your nervous system must come before clarity [16:57] - Daily embodiment practices for staying present and calm [20:06] - Breathwork, meditation, and awareness as tools for men [23:12] - How embodiment reduces fixation and increases intimacy [27:59] - The energetic flow between men and women in communication [30:08] - Renewing curiosity in long-term marriage and intimacy [32:18] - Why women crave being known and understood [33:42] - Emotional safety as the gateway to sexual connection [38:15] - The three parts of the Masculine Blueprint explained [40:07] - Respond vs. react: staying grounded under pressure [44:14] - "You may not be the problem, but you are the solution." [45:16] - Providing structure without domination—clarity plus inclusion [48:32] - The spectrum of leadership: tenderness to directness [50:01] - Sexual tension, rejection, and how men can hold ground [52:11] - Why sexuality is vulnerable for men and how to own it [54:31] - Avoiding the "hurt boy" response in relationships [56:00] - When women need men to be bigger than their moods [57:44] - Staying grounded when intimacy needs don't align [1:00:12] - The power of presence in building intimacy over time     5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   1. Composure Beats Control True masculine leadership isn't about domination—it's about staying grounded, calm, and clear even when emotions run high. 2. Firmness With Heart Creates Trust Children and partners thrive when a man brings clarity and structure without fear. The combination of strength and empathy builds long-term respect. 3. Embodiment Grounds the Nervous System Daily practices like breathwork and meditation keep men from being reactive, helping them lead from presence instead of anxiety or reactivity. 4. Curiosity Keeps Intimacy Alive Long-term relationships require ongoing curiosity. When women feel known and understood, emotional safety deepens—and so does sexual connection. 5. Men Are the Solution Even if you aren't the cause of conflict, you can choose to be the solution. Leadership means stepping up with clarity, direction, and presence to create connection.       LINKS & RESOURCES   GS Youngblood Website: https://gsyoungblood.com The Masculine in Relationship Book: https://gsyoungblood.com/books The Alliance and Boardroom - thedadedge.com/mastermind Dad Edge Podcast Website: https://www.thedadedge.com/podcast Join The Alliance: https://www.thedadedge.com/alliance 25 Questions to Spark Connection With Your Partner: https://www.thedadedge.com/25questions       If this episode gave you new insight into marriage, masculinity, or fatherhood, please rate, review, follow, and share the podcast. Together, we're raising the standard for men who lead with both strength and heart.
In this candid episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I'm joined once again by my wife, Jessica, for a raw and relatable conversation about marriage, parenting, and family dynamics. Together, we dive into the often-unspoken expectations that can trip couples up—from finances and chores to parenting roles and communication.   We unpack stories from our own journey, including how we've learned to navigate paying bills vs. investing, handling family dinners without resentment, and even the role each of us plays in talking with our boys about tough subjects like sex and relationships. Jessica also shares her gift for approaching conversations with grace and timing, while I reflect on my more reactive nature. This episode is packed with practical takeaways for couples who want to strengthen teamwork, avoid resentment, and lead their families with intention.     TIMELINE SUMMARY [0:00] - Welcome to the Dad Edge movement and today's focus on roles in marriage [1:01] - Defining who does what in parenting, finances, and chores [2:06] - The hidden danger of unspoken expectations [3:30] - Behind the scenes: energy, stress, and real-life struggles [5:10] - Midwest float trip stories and creating family traditions [9:27] - Why shared memories matter more than perfection [11:16] - Breaking down marriage roles: paying bills vs. investing [15:23] - The early financial mistakes that created stress in our marriage [18:05] - Why swapping roles can sometimes create resentment [21:16] - How Jessica manages bills and accountability with confidence [24:19] - Investments, risks, and learning to stomach financial swings [27:15] - Family dinners: why they often cause conflict and how we shifted the burden [29:03] - The turning point when Jessica admitted she hated cooking [31:36] - Why meal planning is harder than it looks (and how we simplified it) [34:47] - Balancing preferences, health, and kids' picky eating habits [39:11] - Parenting roles: who has the sex talk with the kids [41:12] - Creating safe, open conversations about sex, porn, and relationships [44:12] - How to approach hard conversations with timing and grace [47:26] - Why gentleness and patience often lead to better results [50:18] - Picking the right time and tone to address conflict at home [53:03] - Dividing responsibilities with kids' sports and activities [56:08] - Communication as the glue that keeps roles balanced [57:12] - Closing reflections and an invitation for listener topic suggestions     5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   1. Unspoken Expectations Create Resentment Most marital conflict stems not from tasks themselves, but from unspoken roles and assumptions. Clarity prevents conflict. 2. Play to Your Strengths Dividing responsibilities based on natural strengths—like Jessica handling bills and me handling investments—makes life easier and reduces stress. 3. Dinners Are About Connection, Not Perfection Family meals can quickly turn into a source of resentment. Sharing the load and letting go of perfection creates a healthier environment. 4. Hard Conversations Require Timing Approaching difficult topics at the right time and with the right tone changes everything. Grace and patience often achieve more than urgency. 5. Parenting Is a Team Effort From sex talks to sports practices, showing up as a united front teaches kids stability, respect, and the value of shared responsibility.       LINKS & RESOURCES   21 DAYS TO EXTRAORDINARY MARRIAGE - https://thedadedge.com/extraordinary-marriage/ Share your topic suggestions: info@thedadedge.com 25 Questions to Spark Connection With Your Partner: https://www.thedadedge.com/25questions Dad Edge Podcast Website: https://www.thedadedge.com/podcast Join The Alliance: https://www.thedadedge.com/alliance Dad Edge Tools & Resources: https://www.thedadedge.com/tools       If this episode gave you practical tools for marriage or parenting, please rate, follow, review, and share the podcast. Together, we're creating stronger marriages, stronger families, and stronger futures.
In this father-son conversation on the Dad Edge Podcast, I sit down once again with my son Ethan as we wrap up our August series on what it really means to grow from boyhood into manhood. This episode digs into the lessons society often fails to teach young men—like emotional regulation, conflict resolution, and the importance of spiritual leadership.   We share personal stories—some funny, some raw—about patience, distractions, and the times I've missed the mark as a dad. Ethan opens up about his work, his relationship, and how he's learning to grow into the kind of man the world truly needs. Together, we unpack what fathers and sons alike can do to become intentional leaders in their families, relationships, and communities.     TIMELINE SUMMARY [0:00] - Welcome to the Dad Edge movement and today's theme [2:02] - What kind of men the world needs (and what's missing today) [3:33] - Morning routines and health habits for energy and focus [4:06] - Ethan's take on toxic behaviors and emotional regulation [6:13] - Why patience is a skill every man must learn [9:08] - The dangers of unchecked anger and modeling healthy behavior [10:43] - Spiritual leadership: why families need fathers of faith [12:55] - Technology distractions and missing moments with family [14:13] - Ethan's memory of a walk interrupted by a work call [16:04] - Why presence matters more than productivity for kids [17:11] - Emotional IQ and learning to communicate feelings clearly [19:34] - The "blame game" in conflict and what's really being argued [21:29] - Why stating what you do want changes arguments instantly [23:51] - Communication lessons that transform relationships [26:14] - Humor, family dogs, and how laughter shapes connection [28:26] - Ethan's approach to relationship check-ins with his girlfriend [32:10] - Why small gestures (videos, letters, notes) keep love alive [34:09] - Preventative maintenance in relationships—like car care [35:41] - Ethan's life transitions: work, school, and EMT training [37:00] - Looking back: how podcasting captured growth in real time [39:22] - Lessons learned from starting with imperfect beginnings [41:25] - Tangents, laughter, and building stronger bonds through honesty [42:29] - Resources, free tools, and a final call to lead with intention     5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   1. Patience Is a Choice, Not a Trait Life tests your patience daily—but choosing to pause, breathe, and respond with calm sets the tone for your family and your relationships. 2. Spiritual Leadership Matters A father who prays, leads spiritually, and models faith gives his family the foundation they need to thrive—not perfection, but presence. 3. Distractions Cost Connection Every time work or technology interrupts family time, the message sent is "this is more important than you." Presence is the true gift kids crave. 4. Communication Is Preventative Maintenance Arguments often circle around what we don't want. Learning to clearly state what we do want transforms conflict into connection. 5. Relationships Grow Through Small, Intentional Acts From handwritten letters to a quick morning video, little efforts create lasting connection. Relationships require maintenance—just like everything worth keeping.       LINKS & RESOURCES   First Phorm Supplements: https://www.thedadedge.com/1358 CREATINE LINK: https://1stphorm.com/products/micronized-creatine-monohydrate/?a_aid=dadedge Hydration Sticks: https://1stphorm.com/products/hydration-sticks/?a_aid=dadedge 25 Intimate Conversation Starters (Free Resource): https://www.thedadedge.com/25questions Dad Edge Podcast Website: https://www.thedadedge.com/podcast Join The Alliance: https://www.thedadedge.com/alliance Dad Edge Tools & Resources: https://www.thedadedge.com/tools     If this episode gave you a new perspective on fatherhood, marriage, or raising sons, please rate, follow, review, and share the podcast. Together, we're building a generation of men who live, lead, and love with intention.
In this powerful episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I sit down with Dr. Blaise Aguirre, a Harvard psychiatrist and global expert on adolescent mental health, to unpack one of the most important—and often overlooked—parts of parenting: the inner voice we help shape in our kids.   We dive into the role of tone, discipline, and compassion in parenting, and how the words we use as fathers often become the voice our kids carry for life. Dr. Aguirre breaks down how to raise resilient, critical thinkers without crushing their confidence, and why creating an environment of both structure and safety is essential to building emotionally healthy children. If you've ever wondered how to balance discipline with grace, or how to stop fueling your child's inner critic, this conversation is a must-listen.     TIMELINE SUMMARY [0:00] - Introduction to the Dad Edge movement and today's topic on kids' inner voice [2:24] - Why your tone as a father becomes your child's inner dialogue [4:58] - Dr. Aguirre's background and 25 years at Harvard [7:10] - How the inner critic forms in childhood [9:37] - The difference between helpful self-reflection and harmful self-hatred [13:05] - Signs your child may be struggling with a damaging inner voice [15:32] - Why "what's wrong with you?" is one of the most destructive phrases a dad can say [18:30] - The role of technology and peer influence on self-worth [21:03] - How to raise critical thinkers who don't default to catastrophizing [25:51] - Emotional regulation: why your calm becomes their calm [28:08] - Addressing bullying and teaching kids which voices to trust [30:22] - Why negativity sticks more than praise (and how to counter it) [34:04] - Finding balance between praise, discipline, and boundaries [36:55] - The difference between punishment and effective discipline [42:12] - Repairing mistakes as a parent and the power of apology [47:14] - Creating psychological safety at home so kids feel seen and heard [51:16] - Why fear-based parenting backfires and undermines performance [55:07] - The dangers of boundary-less parenting and raising entitled kids [57:43] - Wrapping it all together: structure + compassion = resilience     5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   1. Your Voice Becomes Their Voice The tone you use with your kids doesn't just shape the moment—it shapes the inner dialogue they carry into adulthood. 2. Discipline Must Be Tied to Behavior, Not Identity Punishment that attacks who a child is damages self-worth. Effective discipline connects consequences to actions while preserving dignity. 3. Safety Builds Confidence Kids thrive when they know they're safe to fail, safe to talk, and safe to be themselves at home. Psychological safety is the foundation of resilience. 4. Emotional Regulation Is Contagious When fathers stay calm, they teach kids how to regulate their own emotions. Your calm presence can be the anchor in their storms. 5. Balance Is Key Parenting that blends structure, limits, and grace raises children who are both confident and resilient—ready to face life with critical thinking and courage.       LINKS & RESOURCES   Resources from Dr. Blaise Aguirre: https://thedadedge.com/1357 Bark Phone & App (protect your kids online): https://thedadedge.com/bark Dad Edge Alliance (career-driven dads): https://thedadedge.com/alliance Dad Edge Boardroom (entrepreneurial dads): https://thedadedge.com/mastermind Dad Edge Podcast Website: https://thedadedge.com/podcast       If this episode challenged you as a father, share it with another dad who needs to hear it. And if you found value here, please rate, follow, and review the show—it helps us reach more men committed to leading with strength, compassion, and purpose.
In this special episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I'm joined once again by my wife, Jessica Hagner, for another honest and heartfelt conversation about marriage, parenting, and family life. Together, we pull back the curtain on how we've learned to operate as a team, resolve conflict with respect, and create a family culture where our kids feel seen, loved, and guided.   We discuss the importance of friendship in marriage, the challenges of raising four boys with different personalities, and how grace and intentionality shape our home. Jessica also shares her perspective on what keeps our relationship strong after more than two decades together, even when life gets messy. If you're looking for practical tools and encouragement for your marriage and parenting, this episode delivers a mix of wisdom, laughter, and real-life stories.     TIMELINE SUMMARY [0:00] - Why conversations like this matter for marriage and parenting [2:10] - Building a marriage on respect and friendship [5:18] - How we handle conflict without tearing each other down [9:02] - Parenting four boys with different needs and personalities [13:37] - Why consistency matters in discipline and guidance [17:25] - The role of grace in creating a safe family environment [21:48] - Keeping our marriage strong in the middle of chaos [26:13] - Making intentional time for connection as a couple [30:05] - How we show each child that they are seen and valued [34:40] - Teaching respect by modeling it in our marriage [39:12] - The balance between structure and flexibility in parenting [43:55] - Why shared values anchor our family through challenges [48:21] - Leading our family spiritually and emotionally [52:18] - How laughter and friendship keep us connected [56:44] - Final reflections on creating a family rooted in love and respect     5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   1. Respect Is the Glue in Marriage Every successful partnership is built on mutual respect. It sets the tone for conflict resolution, parenting, and the overall health of the relationship. 2. Conflict Doesn't Have to Divide Handled well, disagreements can actually strengthen connection. The goal isn't to win—it's to work together with empathy and understanding. 3. Parent as a United Team Kids feel safest when parents operate from the same playbook. Presenting a united front creates stability and clarity at home. 4. Grace Creates Space for Growth Rules matter, but grace ensures your home is a safe place to learn, fail, and try again. It's what makes discipline effective without resentment. 5. Friendship Keeps Love Alive Romance ebbs and flows, but friendship sustains the relationship. Laughter, fun, and shared companionship are what carry you through every season.       LINKS & RESOURCES   Download the 25 Questions to Spark Connection With Your Partner: https://www.thedadedge.com/25questions Dad Edge Podcast Website: https://www.thedadedge.com Join The Alliance: https://www.thedadedge.com/alliance Listen to More Episodes: https://www.thedadedge.com/podcast Tools & Resources: https://www.thedadedge.com/tools       If this episode encouraged you or gave you a fresh perspective on your marriage and parenting, please rate, follow, review, and share the podcast. Together, we're building stronger marriages, stronger families, and stronger futures.
In this special father-son episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I sit down with my son, Ethan, to continue our August series on raising boys into strong, capable men. Together, we dive into the real challenges young men face today and the lessons that shape character, responsibility, and confidence.   Ethan opens up about what he's learning through work, relationships, and personal growth, while I share insights on how fathers can guide without controlling. We discuss resilience, accountability, and the importance of choosing the right path—even when it's difficult. This conversation is raw, relatable, and packed with wisdom for both dads and sons who want to grow together.     TIMELINE SUMMARY [0:00] - Welcome to our August father-son series [2:10] - Ethan's reflections on independence and early adulthood [5:25] - Why accountability is the key to long-term success [8:41] - Lessons from failure and how to bounce back stronger [12:03] - How to balance freedom with responsibility [15:37] - Why building grit matters more than chasing comfort [19:10] - Navigating friendships and the power of influence [23:46] - What intentional living looks like as a young man [28:04] - Handling setbacks without losing confidence [32:19] - Why fathers need to lead by example, not just advice [36:55] - The role of gratitude in keeping perspective [40:28] - Ethan's biggest lessons so far in work and life [44:12] - Final reflections on manhood, growth, and legacy     5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   1. Accountability Creates Growth The willingness to own your choices and mistakes is what separates boys from men—it's the foundation of maturity. 2. Resilience Is Built Through Struggle Failure is not the end but the classroom. Every setback is an opportunity to learn grit and perseverance. 3. Freedom Without Responsibility Leads to Chaos True independence isn't doing whatever you want—it's learning to carry the weight of your decisions. 4. Influence Shapes Identity The people you surround yourself with will either pull you forward or drag you down. Choose wisely. 5. Gratitude Keeps You Grounded No matter how tough life gets, practicing gratitude helps you stay centered, focused, and motivated to keep moving forward.       LINKS & RESOURCES • 1st Phorm Creatine: https://1stphorm.com/products/micronized-creatine-monohydrate/?a_aid=dadedge • LEVEL 1 BARS:  https://1stphorm.com/products/level-1-bar/?a_aid=dadedge • Dad Edge Podcast Website: https://www.thedadedge.com • Join The Alliance: https://www.thedadedge.com/alliance • Listen to More Episodes: https://www.thedadedge.com/podcast • 25 Questions to Spark Connection With Your Partner: https://www.thedadedge.com/25questions     If this episode challenged or encouraged you, please rate, follow, review, and share the podcast. Together, we're raising the next generation of men to live with grit, responsibility, and purpose.
In this powerful episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I sit down with Rock Thomas—entrepreneur, bestselling author, and founder of the I Am Movement—to explore what it truly means to break free from limiting beliefs and take ownership of your life. Rock shares his journey from humble beginnings on a farm to building multiple successful businesses, and he unpacks the mindset shifts that helped him rise above struggle and design a life of purpose.   We dive into how the words you speak shape your identity, the importance of surrounding yourself with the right influences, and why most men never reach their full potential. Rock also shares practical strategies for fathers to model growth, resilience, and confidence for their children. If you've ever felt stuck, defined by your past, or unsure of your next step, this conversation will challenge you to rewrite your story and live with intention.     TIMELINE SUMMARY [0:00] - Welcome and introduction to Rock Thomas and the I Am Movement [3:08] - Growing up on a farm and the lessons of early hardship [7:15] - How childhood experiences shaped Rock's drive and identity [10:42] - Breaking free from the labels others put on you [14:20] - Why the words you use about yourself matter [18:55] - The turning point that shifted Rock's life trajectory [23:11] - The mentors who changed his mindset and path [27:36] - Building wealth without losing yourself in the process [31:48] - Why environment and community shape who you become [36:29] - The importance of modeling resilience for your kids [41:03] - Rock's strategies for reframing failure into fuel [45:17] - How to stop living by default and start living by design [50:42] - Parenting lessons: teaching kids ownership and responsibility [54:33] - Daily rituals and practices that keep Rock grounded [59:15] - The power of declaring "I Am" statements for identity [1:03:22] - Final reflections on building a life of purpose and growth     5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   1. Your Words Shape Your World The labels and stories you tell yourself directly influence your identity. Shifting your "I am" statements can transform your confidence, actions, and results. 2. Mentorship Accelerates Growth The right mentors can help you break through limitations and see possibilities you couldn't on your own. Who you learn from shapes who you become. 3. Environment Drives Identity The people you surround yourself with will either elevate you or keep you stuck. Community matters as much as personal discipline. 4. Failure Is Feedback Instead of avoiding mistakes, Rock reframes failure as fuel for growth. Every setback is a stepping stone to greater resilience and wisdom. 5. Parenting Is About Modeling Your children are watching how you live, not just what you say. Modeling ownership, resilience, and intentional living teaches them how to thrive.       LINKS & RESOURCES   • Rock Thomas Website: https://rockthomas.com • Learn About the I Am Movement: https://rockthomas.com/iam-movement • thedadedge.com/legendarybook • Dad Edge Podcast Website: https://www.thedadedge.com • Join The Alliance: https://www.thedadedge.com/alliance • Listen to More Episodes: https://www.thedadedge.com/podcast     If this episode inspired you to take ownership of your story, please rate, follow, review, and share the podcast. Let's continue building a generation of men who live by design, not default.
In this heartfelt episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I'm joined once again by my wife, Jessica Hagner, to share an inside look at how we approach marriage, parenting, and family life as a team. From building respect and handling conflict to raising four boys with shared values, this conversation is packed with personal stories, laughter, and real-life strategies for staying connected through all of life's ups and downs.   We talk about how we've learned to operate in parenting, the role of respect in every interaction, and the tools that help us resolve conflict without damaging trust. Jessica opens up about her perspective as a wife and mother, and together, we discuss the importance of modeling the behavior we want to see in our kids. Whether you're in the early years of marriage or decades in, this episode offers encouragement and actionable ways to strengthen your family relationships.     TIMELINE SUMMARY [0:00] - Welcome and why this conversation with Jessica matters [2:12] - The role of mutual respect in keeping a marriage strong [5:07] - How we handle conflict and keep trust intact [9:15] - Parenting as a united front and setting shared expectations [13:28] - Balancing structure and flexibility with four boys [16:44] - Teaching respect by modeling it in our marriage [20:15] - How we navigate disagreements in front of our kids [23:51] - Creating space for connection in a busy household [27:06] - The importance of making each child feel seen and valued [30:42] - Our approach to discipline without creating resentment [34:25] - How parenting styles evolve as kids grow [38:18] - Keeping romance alive while raising a family [42:56] - The value of open, honest communication in marriage [46:39] - Leading our family spiritually and emotionally [50:20] - Why grace matters as much as structure in parenting [54:14] - Final reflections on building a family rooted in respect and love     5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   1. Respect Is the Foundation Every strong marriage and family dynamic begins with mutual respect—how we speak to each other, handle disagreements, and set the tone for our household. 2. Conflict Can Strengthen Connection When handled with honesty and empathy, disagreements can build trust instead of breaking it. It's not about avoiding conflict—it's about navigating it well. 3. Parent as a Team Kids thrive when they see their parents united. Operating from the same playbook creates stability and prevents division in the home. 4. Model the Behavior You Want to See Children learn more from what you do than what you say. By demonstrating respect, patience, and grace, we set the example for how they'll treat others. 5. Grace Balances Structure Rules and boundaries are essential, but grace creates a safe and loving environment where kids can learn from their mistakes without fear.       LINKS & RESOURCES   • Download the 25 Questions to Spark Connection With Your Partner: https://www.thedadedge.com/25questions • Dad Edge Podcast Website: https://www.thedadedge.com • Join The Alliance: https://www.thedadedge.com/alliance • Listen to More Episodes: https://www.thedadedge.com/podcast • Tools & Resources: https://www.thedadedge.com/tools       If this episode encouraged you or gave you new insight into your marriage or parenting, please rate, follow, review, and share the podcast. Together, we're building stronger families and stronger futures.
In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I'm joined once again by my son, Ethan, for another candid father-son conversation on navigating life, manhood, and building the skills that last a lifetime. As part of our August series on helping boys transition into strong, capable men, we dig into Ethan's experiences in work, relationships, and personal growth—and the lessons that come with them.   We talk about learning the value of hard work, handling failure without losing momentum, and why being intentional with your time can change everything. Ethan also opens up about balancing independence with staying connected to family, how to choose the right influences, and the importance of staying grounded in who you are—especially when life throws curveballs. Whether you're raising a son or trying to grow as a man yourself, this conversation is filled with practical wisdom, personal stories, and plenty of laughs along the way.     TIMELINE SUMMARY [0:00] - Welcome and context for our August series on raising boys into men [2:15] - Ethan's reflections on his first real work experiences [5:04] - Learning self-reliance through challenges and problem-solving [8:12] - The importance of staying humble and teachable [11:30] - How to take responsibility without losing confidence [15:18] - Building resilience after setbacks and mistakes [18:40] - Choosing influences and friends that push you forward [21:53] - Balancing independence with strong family connection [25:17] - What it means to be intentional with your time and energy [28:34] - Handling the pressure to perform in work and life [32:56] - Using failures as fuel for growth and self-improvement [36:11] - The role of discipline in achieving long-term goals [40:00] - How gratitude changes your outlook and relationships [43:28] - Ethan's advice for young men starting their journey to adulthood [46:02] - Lessons learned from taking risks and stepping into uncomfortable situations [49:15] - Why adaptability is essential in both work and relationships [52:40] - The impact of mentorship and learning from older, wiser voices [56:22] - Strategies for keeping your mindset strong during setbacks [1:00:05] - How Ethan applies life lessons from sports into everyday decisions [1:03:30] - The importance of giving back and serving others as a sign of maturity [1:06:54] - Final reflections on becoming the kind of man you'd be proud to follow     5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   1. Hard Work Builds Character Real growth comes when you embrace responsibility, push through discomfort, and give your best—whether you're excited about the task or not.   2. Stay Teachable No matter how much you know, there's always something to learn. A teachable spirit keeps you adaptable and ready for opportunity.   3. Choose Your Circle Wisely The people you surround yourself with will either pull you forward or drag you down. Select influences who challenge and inspire you.   4. Resilience Comes From Recovery Everyone fails—but it's how quickly you get back up and how much you learn from it that determines your strength.   5. Intentional Living Creates Direction Without a plan, you drift. Being deliberate with your time, energy, and commitments gives you control over the man you're becoming.       LINKS & RESOURCES   thedadedge.com/presence https://1stphorm.com/products/collagen-with-dermaval/?a_aid=dadedge DB OVERDRIVE:  https://1stphorm.com/products/1-db-overdrive-fastpack/?a_aid=dadedge. CREATINE LINK: https://1stphorm.com/products/micronized-creatine-monohydrate/?a_aid=dadedge   1st PHORM APP:  https://share.1stphorm.app/67eJWnb94Ub Dad Edge Podcast Website: https://www.thedadedge.com Join The Alliance: https://www.thedadedge.com/alliance Listen to More Episodes: https://www.thedadedge.com/podcast 25 Questions to Spark Connection With Your Partner: https://www.thedadedge.com/25questions       If this episode inspired you or gave you a fresh perspective, please rate, follow, review, and share the podcast. Together, we're helping men and fathers live legendary lives—for themselves, their families, and the next generation.
In this high-energy episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I sit down with Brady Smith—actor, author, devoted husband to Tiffani Thiessen, and proud dad—to talk about fatherhood, family, and living with intention. From the red carpet to bedtime stories, Brady shares how he balances career, creativity, and parenting while staying grounded in what matters most.   We dive into marriage lessons, the art of being fully present with your kids, and the importance of modeling emotional resilience. Brady opens up about how he and Tiffani navigate life as a team, why they value quality time over quantity, and the ways they foster creativity and confidence in their children. Whether you're raising toddlers or teens, this episode is a refreshing reminder that being a great dad isn't about perfection—it's about presence, purpose, and love.     TIMELINE SUMMARY [0:00] - Introducing Brady Smith: actor, author, husband, and dad [2:15] - From Hollywood to home life—how Brady keeps family first [5:08] - Building a marriage rooted in respect and teamwork [8:14] - The importance of slowing down and being present [11:42] - Teaching kids creativity and self-confidence through action [14:27] - How Brady and Tiffani navigate busy schedules as parents [17:33] - Why emotional resilience is key to raising grounded kids [20:45] - Stories that shape family values and traditions [24:19] - Prioritizing connection over constant activity [28:56] - Balancing career ambitions with fatherhood responsibilities [32:11] - Brady's advice for dads who want to lead with intention     5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   1. Presence Beats Perfection Your kids don't need a flawless dad—they need one who shows up, listens, and engages. Consistent presence has a far greater impact than striving for impossible standards. 2. Marriage Thrives on Teamwork Brady and Tiffani approach their relationship like a true partnership—dividing responsibilities, supporting each other's goals, and staying aligned on family values. 3. Creativity Builds Confidence Encouraging kids to dream, create, and try new things builds resilience and self-belief that will serve them for life. 4. Emotional Resilience Is a Lifelong Gift Helping your kids manage disappointment, frustration, and change prepares them to thrive in an unpredictable world. 5. Connection Is the Goal From family dinners to shared hobbies, meaningful connection comes from intentional moments, not just shared space.     LINKS & RESOURCES   Brady Smith Website: https://www.bradysmith.com Dad Edge Podcast Website: https://www.thedadedge.com Join The Alliance: https://www.thedadedge.com/alliance Listen to More Episodes: https://www.thedadedge.com/podcast       If this episode inspired you, made you laugh, or gave you a fresh perspective on parenting and marriage, please rate, follow, review, and share the podcast. Together, we can help more dads lead legendary lives for themselves and their families.
In this deeply personal episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I'm joined by my incredible wife, Jessica Hagner, for a raw, real, and honest conversation about what 22 years of marriage has truly looked like behind the scenes. From our awkward beginnings in college to raising four boys and building a life together, this is a rare inside look into the foundation of our relationship—what's worked, what hasn't, and how we've grown together through every season.   We unpack everything from emotional disconnect and healing past wounds to the power of intentional communication, spiritual alignment, and shared leadership at home. Jessica shares her heart and wisdom on how we create emotional safety in our marriage, why friendship is key to our connection, and how we've come back from disconnection stronger every time. Whether you're in year one or year twenty of your relationship, this episode offers powerful insight into the daily work of lasting love.     TIMELINE SUMMARY [0:00] - Why this episode with Jessica is one of the most special yet [1:28] - How we first met—and the infamous "first kiss" moment [4:12] - Celebrating 22 years: early struggles and breakthrough moments [8:05] - Navigating emotional disconnection and how we've learned to reconnect [11:55] - Jessica's approach to giving feedback without criticism [15:30] - The role of grace and safety in helping me grow as a husband [18:43] - Getting on the same page spiritually and emotionally [21:10] - Why we never let distance linger too long in our relationship [24:02] - The value of therapy, reflection, and personal healing [28:09] - Parenting four boys with teamwork, honesty, and prayer [32:18] - How our friendship fuels every other aspect of our marriage [36:42] - Leading by example as partners, parents, and individuals [39:55] - Why we believe your past doesn't define your potential [42:20] - The power of intentional connection—even when life is messy     5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   1. Lasting Marriages Are Built on Daily Intentions It's not grand gestures that sustain a relationship—it's the daily choice to show up, stay connected, and grow together, even when things feel hard or messy. 2. Grace Is the Bridge Between Conflict and Connection Jessica's ability to approach tough conversations with empathy and grace allowed us to repair emotional rifts without blame or shame. That kind of safe space creates real transformation. 3. Emotional Safety Is a Foundation for Growth We can't become better spouses or parents unless we feel secure to be vulnerable. Emotional safety means knowing you can be honest without fear of judgment or rejection. 4. Friendship Fuels Long-Term Love Romantic sparks matter—but friendship sustains. Laughing, enjoying time together, and being each other's best friend is what carries the relationship through every season. 5. Spiritual Alignment Strengthens the Bond When we committed to growing together spiritually, we experienced deeper intimacy and peace. Shared faith, prayer, and purpose have anchored us through life's storms.     LINKS & RESOURCES Download the 25 Questions to Spark Connection With Your Partner: https://www.thedadedge.com/25questions Dad Edge Podcast Website: https://www.thedadedge.com Join The Alliance: https://www.thedadedge.com/alliance Listen to More Episodes: https://www.thedadedge.com/podcast Tools & Resources: https://www.thedadedge.com/tools Recommended Episode: How to Lead Your Marriage with Intention     If this episode spoke to your heart, encouraged your marriage, or gave you hope, please rate, follow, review, and share the podcast. Every share helps us reach more couples and families who need real conversations like this one. Thanks for listening and being part of the Dad Edge community.
In this special episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I'm joined once again by my son Ethan for another honest and often hilarious father-son conversation. This week, we're kicking off our August series focused on helping young men grow into adulthood with integrity, resilience, and intention. We unpack what it really means to become a man in today's world and why so many guys stay stuck in a boyhood mindset well into their 40s and beyond. Ethan shares firsthand experiences from his first full-time job, launching a car detailing business in high school, and learning life skills that go far beyond the classroom. We talk about emotional regulation, grit, finding meaningful work, and how to support your kids without micromanaging their growth. Whether you're raising sons or just want insight into building a better father-child bond, this episode is packed with perspective, wisdom, and a few laughs. TIMELINE SUMMARY [0:00] - Welcome to the podcast and the mission behind the Dad Edge [1:30] - The origin and theme of our father-son conversations [3:06] - Why August is all about helping boys become men [5:00] - The First Phorm 8-week challenge and tools to get started [7:01] - The moment I realized no one was coming to save me [8:22] - Ethan's experience at his first real job in an auto shop [11:30] - Learning to grow up through the CAPS entrepreneurship program [13:42] - How Ethan started and ran a successful car detailing business [17:07] - Signs a boy is becoming a man: long-term thinking, embracing discomfort [20:37] - The danger of staying in a soul-sucking job and the power of choice [26:30] - Stories of perseverance from Steve Jobs, Colonel Sanders, and J.K. Rowling [30:21] - Ethan's reflections on helping others break limiting beliefs [35:45] - Why emotional regulation is key to maturing into manhood [39:00] - Learning to pause, respond, and reflect through challenging days [43:27] - How fathers can support sons without overstepping [47:03] - Using better questions to develop critical thinking and self-direction 5 KEY TAKEAWAYS: 1. Becoming a Man Requires Intentional Growth The shift from boyhood to manhood doesn't happen automatically; it's shaped by life experiences, learning responsibility, and the conscious decision to grow up. No one is coming to save you, and it's up to you to take ownership. 2. Let Sons Struggle, But Be Their Safe Place Growth often happens in the discomfort. As dads, it's tempting to step in and fix things. But real development comes when we let our kids wrestle with problems while knowing they have a safe place to process and recover. 3. Embrace and Teach Emotional Regulation Maturity is marked by how well we manage our emotions. Learning to pause, breathe, and choose a thoughtful response instead of reacting impulsively is a life skill every young man needs to master. 4. Work Experience Teaches More Than Just Skills From oil changes to running a business, Ethan's journey proves that real-world jobs and responsibilities develop grit, confidence, and a clearer sense of what one wants and doesn't want in life. 5. Success Is Measured by Fulfillment, Not Fortune We often think success means more money, bigger homes, or flashier titles. But as we explore in this episode, true success is found in happiness, strong relationships, and doing work that brings purpose, not just a paycheck. LINKS & RESOURCES DB OVERDRIVE: https://1stphorm.com/products/1-db-overdrive-fastpack/?a_aid=dadedge. CREATINE LINK: https://1stphorm.com/products/micronized-creatine-monohydrate/?a_aid=dadedge  1st PHORM APP:  https://share.1stphorm.app/67eJWnb94Ub Join the First Phorm Challenge: https://www.firstphorm.com/dadedge Podcast Website: https://www.thedadedge.com Join The Alliance: https://www.thedadedge.com/alliance Explore More Episodes: https://www.thedadedge.com/podcast If this episode inspired you or gave you a new perspective, please rate, follow, review, and share the podcast. Together, we're building stronger families—and stronger men—for generations to come.
Would you die for your kids? Most dads would. But would you live for them? In this powerful episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I sit down with Andrew Jax—father of three, Australian natural bodybuilding champion, and founder of the "Ditch the Dad Fat" program. Known as the "6 Pack Dad," Andrew shares how optimizing your health isn't just about looking good—it's about leading with strength, energy, and integrity at home. We explore the silent leadership of fatherhood, why most men's health declines after marriage, and how to reverse that trend with small, sustainable changes. Andrew breaks down the real cost of saying "I don't have time," the importance of emotional and physical energy for our families, and how you can enjoy your pizza and beer—and still lose the dad bod. Whether you're already committed to health or just thinking about getting back in the game, this episode will fire you up and equip you with strategies you can use today.   TIMELINE SUMMARY: [0:00] - Would you die for your kids? What about live for them? [2:10] - Introducing Andrew Jax: father, champion bodybuilder, and coach [3:17] - Why health is a leadership issue, not just a vanity project [5:00] - The "Dad decline": why men fall apart after marriage [8:22] - Guilt, shame, and why self-care isn't selfish [13:06] - The myth of "no time" and how to make fitness fit your life [17:07] - Why starting small matters—and why most men wait for a crisis [21:22] - Andrew's "Habit Sustainability Formula" explained [25:17] - Daily accountability: the #1 key to long-term success [28:10] - How to stay lean without relying on exercise [31:08] - Why sleep and stress management are crucial to fat loss [34:03] - Finding balance: eating clean without giving up your life [37:04] - Prioritizing protein, carbs, fats, and smart supplementation [43:08] - How Andrew leads his family spiritually, emotionally, and physically [46:10] - Where to connect and get a free copy of Andrew's book   5 KEY TAKEAWAYS 1. Health Is a Legacy Issue Your kids aren't just watching—they're modeling. Leading with health means passing on a generational inheritance of physical, emotional, and mental well-being. They'll follow your example more than your advice. 2. Self-Care Is Not Selfish Skipping your workout may feel noble in the moment, but long-term neglect robs your family of your energy, presence, and vitality. When you take care of yourself, you increase your capacity to take care of others. 3. You Don't Need Hours or Perfection You don't need five workouts a week or chicken and broccoli forever. Andrew's clients are busy dads and business owners who see results with three efficient sessions per week and a flexible, sustainable eating plan. 4. Daily Accountability Changes Everything Forget once-a-week check-ins. Andrew's clients get results through daily guidance and support. If you want real change, don't go it alone—build a system that keeps you on track every single day. 5. Lead at Home Like You Lead at Work Andrew's success isn't just in coaching—it's in how he shows up as a husband and father. He shares how servant leadership, spiritual alignment, and presence fuel his connection with his wife and kids every day.   LINKS & RESOURCES: Free copy of my Ditch The Dad Fat eBook: ditchthedadfatbook.gr8.com Free training on How Busy Dads Are Losing 10-35lbs & Reclaiming Their Health, Energy & Confidence In 6 Weeks Without Exercise or Extreme Diets: ditchthedadfat.com Ditch The Dad Fat Podcast: rebrand.ly/DTDFPodcast Dad Edge Podcast Website: https://www.thedadedge.com Episode Page: https://www.thedadedge.com/538 If this episode gave you fresh perspective or practical tips, please rate, follow, review, and share the podcast. Your support fuels this mission to help fathers lead legendary lives—for themselves and their families.
In this deeply personal and refreshingly raw episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, I'm joined by my incredible wife, Jessica Hagner, for a long-overdue conversation that many of you have been asking for. After years of encouragement (and a little nudging), Jessica stepped up to the mic to help me share the real, behind-the-scenes story of our 22-year marriage. We go back to the early days of college, reliving the awkwardness of our first kiss and my embarrassing (but strategic) attempt to get her on a student committee just to spend time with her. But we don't just stay in the past. We dive deep into the challenges of our early marriage, the struggles I had showing up as a husband and father, and how Jessica's unwavering grace, direct but loving communication, and deep emotional strength helped pull us through. From parenting four boys to rediscovering connection after disconnection, we explore how we've stayed aligned, what we've learned, and why our friendship is the real heartbeat of our relationship. Whether you're a husband, wife, parent, or someone navigating the messy middle of a relationship, this episode will speak to your heart and give you practical hope that real love is always within reach, if you're willing to work for it.   TIMELINE SUMMARY [1:34] - Jessica joins the podcast for the first time—and how long it took to convince her [4:35] - The (disastrous) first kiss story from both our perspectives [10:22] - My clever scheme to get Jessica on the student committee [13:36] - Celebrating 22 years: reflections on young love and early marriage [16:05] - My struggles early on as a husband and father [20:48] - Jessica's thoughtful, respectful way of expressing hard truths [26:02] - A rough week of disconnection—and why we refuse to let it linger [29:30] - How we sense and address emotional distance before it becomes dangerous [35:31] - Replacing blame with grace: the power of constructive feedback [38:01] - Jessica's journey through self-image and how we supported each other [40:35] - Our secret weapon: friendship as the foundation [44:12] - Creating emotional safety in a marriage [46:40] - Reflections on sobriety and emotional consistency [47:17] - The role of counseling and shared tools in sustaining growth [50:21] - That time we tried swing dancing—and what it taught us about trying new things   5 KEY TAKEAWAYS   1. Marriage Is Built, Not Found Strong relationships don't happen by accident—they're intentionally created through effort, vulnerability, and consistent choices. Love is less about fate and more about foundation, and we've learned that every season of growth requires patience and partnership. 2. Grace Changes Everything Jessica's ability to express concerns with love instead of criticism shaped how I received them—and how I grew. Her grace didn't minimize the message; it softened the delivery so that it could be heard. When grace leads, growth follows. 3. Friendship Is the Foundation Beyond intimacy and partnership lies a deep friendship. We laugh, challenge, and enjoy one another—whether we're hitting the gym or sitting in silence. That comfort and camaraderie anchor us in hard times and elevate the everyday. 4. Disconnection Is a Signal, Not a Sentence We all drift sometimes—but we've trained ourselves not to tolerate that drift for long. Disconnection is simply a call to reconnect. We address it, own it, and rebuild before it becomes a pattern. 5. Shared Growth Sustains Love What keeps us aligned is our shared commitment to grow—individually and as a couple. From therapy to new hobbies, we make space for evolution. That growth keeps the relationship fresh, resilient, and deeply fulfilling. LINKS & RESOURCES Pre-order my book Legendary Fatherhood: http://thedadedge.com/legendarybook Podcast Website: https://www.thedadedge.com Join Our Community: https://www.thedadedge.com/alliance Tools & Resources: https://www.thedadedge.com/tools All Podcast Episodes: https://www.thedadedge.com/podcast Recommended Episode: https://www.thedadedge.com/intentional-marriage     If this episode resonated with you, please take a moment to rate, follow, review, and share the podcast. Your support helps us reach more families, more fathers, and more couples who need real, honest conversations like this one. Thanks for being here.
Have you ever asked yourself? Do I show my children, through my actions, how to maintain a healthy marriage and set high standards for future relationships? How do I intentionally teach my kids lessons about money, relationships, and mental health that they aren't learning in school? How do I respond when my kids come to me with emotional struggles? If you ever thought parenting was just about getting your kids to do their homework and behave, think again. The real curriculum happens at home, in the conversations we have with our children. Today, Larry and Ethan dive into the essential life lessons that high school just doesn't teach—think managing money, building real relationships, navigating mental health, and mastering communication beyond the digital world. Along the way, you'll hear personal stories about fatherhood, learning how to treat women with respect, and the power of leading by example at home. Larry and Ethan also shine a spotlight on the importance of old-school manners, effective boundary-setting, and even the art of saving and investing early. Plus, they get candid about handling rejection, repairing relationships, and the sometimes tough but necessary skill of saying "no." As always, they keep things light and relatable, weaving in fun anecdotes and a dash of family banter Become the best husband you can: https://bit.ly/deamarriageyoutube In this vital conversation, we dig into: Relationship Skills Aren't Taught in School: Ethan shares how Larry modeled (not just talked about!) the importance of treating women with respect—from a proper handshake to introducing himself to his girlfriend's parents, and how these "old school manners" set him apart in today's world. Larry and Ethan agree: the best lessons are caught, not taught. Money Management Early On Makes a Difference: Larry reminisces about starting Ethan and his brothers on the envelope savings system and quarterly meetings with a financial advisor from a young age. It pays off: Ethan feels more confident with money than most of his peers, recognizing the power of starting early, setting goals, and understanding critical concepts like compound interest. Create a Safe Space for Mental Health: Ethan reflects on how being able to talk openly about tough situations—whether it's heartbreak, anxiety, or just a hard day—has helped him develop emotional resilience. Larry encourages parents to model vulnerability, listen, and share stories from their own journey (even the awkward ones). Saying "No" and People Pleasing: Larry and Ethan get honest about people pleasing, time management, and learning to filter commitments. Larry's golden rule: "If it's not a hell yes, it's a no." They discuss real-life examples, from turning down extra work projects to standing strong against peer pressure. Repairing Relationships & Healthy Conflict: Ethan shares what works in his relationship: addressing conflict calmly, not going to bed angry if possible, but also not being afraid to sleep on things when emotions run high—with the agreement to circle back and resolve it the next day. Whether you're a dad, a son, or just someone looking to live more intentionally, this conversation is packed with relatable humor, honest reflections, and practical takeaways to help you. Here's what research and observation highlight about family communication: Research shows that 86% of adolescents identify parents as their primary model for relationship skills and values. Studies found that 49% of Americans say they frequently agree to things they don't want to do to avoid disappointing others. Studies found that over 80% of teens say the way their parents communicate with each other directly affects how they approach their own romantic relationships. Pre-order the 'The Pursuit of Legendary Fatherhood' book: thedadedge.com/legendarybook thedadedge.com/alliance  https://1stphorm.com/?a_aid=dadedge Level 1 Bars - https://1stphorm.com/products/level-1-bar/?a_aid=dadedge Phormula 1 -https://1stphorm.com/products/phormula-1/?a_aid=dadedge Join the #1 Mastermind for Legendary Fathers: https://www.thedadedge.com/
Have you ever asked yourself: Am I really aware of how much social media and online content is influencing my kids? Have I noticed my kids becoming overly focused on their physical appearance or diet? How do I handle conversations about nutrition and fitness at home? If you've noticed your son obsessing over his physique or protein intake, or your daughter silently struggling with self-worth because of what she sees online, this episode is for you. Larry and Rich dive deep into how today's digital landscape is distorting kids' perceptions of themselves, driving issues like body dysmorphia, disordered eating, and unhealthy relationships with food and fitness—affecting boys and girls earlier than ever before. You'll hear real talk on what warning signs to watch out for, how to foster healthy conversations about food and body image, and the steps you can take to protect your kids from the relentless pressures of curated perfection online. Plus, learn practical strategies for monitoring your child's digital world and discover why it's crucial to model resilience, open dialogue, and authentic self-worth in your home. Whether you're a dad, coach, or mentor, this episode is your wake-up call and toolbox—because the world is changing, and as fathers, we need to step up, disrupt the status quo, and help our kids build unshakeable confidence in themselves. Become the best husband you can: https://bit.ly/deamarriageyoutube In this vital conversation, we dig into: Why Social Media Is A Game-Changer: Unlike the occasional magazine we grew up with, today's kids are constantly exposed to unrealistic body standards, curated feeds, and supplement ads designed to make them feel "less than." The result? Kids (especially boys ages 12-14!) are reporting anxiety, body dysmorphia, compulsive exercising, and disordered eating at skyrocketing rates. Spot the Warning Signs: It's not just about undereating—obsession with protein grams, excessive workouts, and constant flexing in the mirror can all point to an unhealthy relationship with food and body image. Smart Conversations, Not Confrontations: The episode shares actionable tips to open up dialogue with your kids. Watch "Generation Flex" together, use it as a springboard for honest conversation, and focus on how food and fitness make us feel—not just how we look. Model Healthy Habits: As dads, it's not about being perfect—it's about showing our kids that food isn't "good" or "bad," and that balance is key (yes, you can have that burger and a salad). Digital Safety for Peace of Mind: Larry also highlights tools like Bark, which alert you to concerning activity on your kids' devices—so you're not left in the dark about what they're seeing online. If you care about raising healthy, resilient sons and daughters in an always-connected world—and want to know the practical steps you can take at home—this episode is for you Here's what research and observation highlight about Studies show that hospitalizations for pediatric eating disorders rose by 139% from 2002 to 2018, with the largest relative increase seen in males aged 12 to 14 Boys and men now represent a third of all eating disorder diagnoses today Nearly 100% of kids with internet access are exposed to carefully curated or unrealistic fitness/body images daily. thedadedge.com/bark  thedadedge.com/alliance  https://menshealth.com @menshealthmag @richdorment Read more about Men's Health's documentary "Generation Flex": https://www.menshealth.com/generationflex Watch Generation Flex on Apple TV+:https://tv.apple.com/us/clip/generation-flex Watch Generation Flex on Amazon Prime Video: https://www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/B0DJCND11R
Have you ever asked yourself: Am I willing to face discomfort and take courageous action? What negative self-talk or pressure am I letting control me? Have I ever taken the time to really name and face what's weighing me down or keeping me up at night? Whether you're a business owner, a hard-working dad, or somewhere in between, Larry lays out why building intentional connections with other men and seeking growth is key to creating a legendary life—both for yourself and the generations to come. Drawing from personal experience and eye-opening statistics, Larry opens up about his own journey through denial, honesty, and growth, unpacking how easy it is for men to stay stuck in "I'm fine" mode—even when struggling internally. He offers three powerful strategies to support mental well-being: ruthless self-honesty, taking care of your body and mind, and intentionally building a supportive, growth-oriented circle of men. If you're ready to get honest, find your tribe, and start moving forward, this episode will be the wake-up call you need. Become the best husband you can: https://bit.ly/deamarriageyoutube In this vital conversation, we dig into: Move Your Body, Guard Your Mind, and Cut the Junk: Mental and physical health are inseparable. Larry calls this the second pillar: move your body, guard your mind, and cut out the junk. Regular movement, whether it's a walk, a lift, or a sweat session, can clear your head and improve your mood. You don't need a perfect workout routine. Consistency is far more important. Upgrade Your Circle: Brotherhood Over Isolation: Isolation is the silent killer of men's mental health. Many fathers try to "lone wolf" their way through struggles, believing they must handle everything themselves. Larry warns that this mindset can erode your spirit and make life's challenges feel even heavier. The Power of Getting Honest With Yourself: Every father experiences moments of feeling lost, overwhelmed, or out of his depth. According to Larry, the first and most crucial step is honesty. Too often, we brush aside our struggles with the phrase, "I'm fine," when, in reality, we are not. Instead of masking the pain or confusion, Larry encourages dads to face those feelings head-on. This episode will inspire you to disrupt the repeating pattern, reclaim your purpose, and start living a legendary life. Here's what research and observation highlight about men's mental health: One in eight men will deal with serious depression in their lifetime, but over 60% will not get help. Men die by suicide four times more than women, but rarely ask for help. Most dads say that they feel consistently stressed or burned out trying to balance work, fatherhood, and marriage. But nearly half admit feeling completely and totally alone. If you're filling your head with hours of doomscrolling news and mindless social media every day, your risk doubles.  Studies show people who watch over 3 hours of news daily are twice as likely to report severe anxiety, depression, and sleep problems. www.thedadedge.com/mastermind
Have you ever asked yourself? When's the last time I really asked my kids what they think about God or faith? How can I start the journey of exploring faith side-by-side with my kids? What are the ways I can create more open, judgment-free conversations with my children? For many dads, the idea of being a "spiritual leader" in the home feels intimidating, even paralyzing. Maybe you grew up with rigid, guilt-driven religious expectations or maybe you just don't feel like you know enough. The truth? None of that has to stop you. In fact, the most meaningful spiritual leadership happens when we admit we don't have it all figured out—and decide to walk the road of faith together with our kids. My Favorite Protein Level 1 Bars   Creatine Overdrive  Hydration Sticks Larry and Ethan get real about their own experiences growing up Catholic—the guilt, confusion, and the struggles to make sense of complex religious teachings. They share how, as adults, they've navigated those challenges together and discovered the power of learning side by side, embracing faith as a shared father-son journey rather than a top-down lecture. You'll hear their honest talk about breaking down the barriers of feeling "not good enough" to lead spiritually, why vulnerability can actually be your greatest asset in these moments, and practical ideas for connecting with your children around faith without fear or overwhelm. Plus, they touch on the importance of building a personal relationship with God—outside of simply following rituals or attending church—and how even small daily steps, like reading a chapter from the Book of John together, can transform your family's spiritual life. So if you're a dad who's ever felt uncertain about how to talk faith with your kids, or if you're looking for encouragement to deepen those connections, this episode is for you. Let's step into the arena together, lead and learn as a team, and discover what it truly means to create a legacy of intentional, faith-filled fatherhood. Become the best husband you can: https://bit.ly/deamarriageyoutube Today, we dig into: You don't have to "have it all figured out" to lead spiritually: Many dads, including myself, feel intimidated by spiritual conversations because we think we need to be experts. The truth? The best leadership often comes from learning side-by-side with our kids. Make it a journey, not a lecture: Spiritual leadership isn't about preaching from a pedestal. It's about reading, questioning, and growing together—sometimes stumbling, sometimes leading, always learning. Relationship over ritual: The most powerful faith lessons come from genuine connection and conversation—not just attending church or following rituals. Building a relationship with God, and helping our kids do the same, is what matters most. This episode is packed with wisdom, encouragement, and practical advice for fathers who want to step up as spiritual leaders without the fear of not being "good enough." Here's what research and observation highlight about religious and spiritual conversations within families: Studies found that 58% of men admit to avoiding religious or spiritual conversations for fear of being unprepared or judged. Research  found that 67% of adolescents reported feeling more connected to parents when both were engaged in joint learning or spiritual exploration. Research indicates that 73% of practicing Christian parents say it's essential to teach their children about the faith, yet only 35% report regularly engaging in spiritual conversations at home. thedadedge.com/alliance https://1stphorm.com/?a_aid=dadedge
Have you ever asked yourself: Do I create a safe, judgment-free environment where my kids can come to me with their awkward questions? Am I making time for one-on-one connection with my kids, so these tough conversations can happen more naturally? What steps am I taking to protect my kids from online exposure, and is there more I could be doing? Navigating "the talk" about sex and sexuality is a daunting task for dads everywhere — and it never seems to get less awkward. Today, Larry sits down with renowned author and communicator Jim Burns to break down how dads can lead the way in guiding their kids through conversations about sex, porn, and growing up in a digital world. Larry and Jim dive deep into the realities of "the talk"—why it never quite stops feeling awkward, and why that awkwardness can actually be a gateway to genuine connection with our kids. They explore why our own discomfort shouldn't keep us from being the voices our children trust to learn about relationships, intimacy, and sexual integrity—especially when the internet and social media are more than willing to fill in any gaps we leave. You'll hear practical strategies for navigating these conversations, including how to replace a single, intimidating "talk" with hundreds of approachable one-minute chats, ways to demystify topics like pornography and online safety, and tips for tailoring discussions to your child's unique personality. If you want to raise confident kids who learn about sex and relationships from you—and not from TikTok or YouTube—this episode is packed with clarity, courage, and actionable advice to help you step up, again and again, in those crucial parenting moments. Become the best husband you can: https://bit.ly/deamarriageyoutube In this vital conversation, we dig into: Embracing Awkwardness: Jim Burns shares that awkward isn't the enemy—it's actually a doorway to true connection. If your head sweats or you stammer, congratulations, you're doing it right! From One "Talk" to 100 Conversations: The secret? Don't stress the big performance. Focus on hundreds of one-minute check-ins and question invites over time. Navigating Porn & Tech: In today's world, our kids' go-to source for sex education is often the internet. Jim breaks down how early and often these conversations need to happen—and why holding off on full-on smartphones can give your kids a real edge. What If You're Still Sorting Out Your Own Stuff: If you're struggling with sexual integrity or have a messy past, don't sit silently. Your honesty and process can become a powerful guide for your children. This episode reminds us that showing up with intention, compassion, and consistency is what really matters. Here's what research and observation highlight about parental involvement in sex education: Studies show that 70% of teens report accidentally or intentionally encountering online pornography,  Studies show that ongoing, bite-sized conversations are up to 50% more effective in retention and behavioral outcomes compared to single, formal discussions. Studies found that teens who receive sex education from their parents are 24% less likely to engage in risky sexual behavior compared to those who learn primarily from peers or media  https://thedadedge.com/537 thedadedge.com/bark  thedadedge.com/alliance  https://homeword.com/ @drjimburns @homewordcenter
Have you ever asked yourself: Am I sacrificing too much time with my wife and kids in pursuit of my career or financial goals? What small changes could I make right now to build more connection points and memories with my family? Am I making choices that line up with the kind of legacy and example I want to set for my children? Whether you're a career-driven dad, a business owner, or just trying to do your best for your family, this episode is an honest look at why intentional time, connection, and legacy matter far more than your next paycheck. This week, Larry takes us on a heartfelt journey inspired by his recent 50th birthday, reflecting on the advice he wishes he could have given his younger self during his 30s and 40s. With deep sincerity, he opens up about the "rookie mistakes" he made by spending years grinding in a demanding career—sacrificing precious time with his wife and kids in pursuit of financial success. Drawing from powerful examples, including an emotional moment from Tom Brady reflecting on the cost of greatness, Larry reminds us that while hustling to provide is noble, it often comes at a price that money can't buy back: time, connection, and memories with our loved ones. He shares statistics on how finances often strain marriages, highlights the importance of intentional living, and encourages dads to pause and assess what their hard work might be costing them outside the office. So if you've ever questioned if the grind is worth it, or worried about missing out on what truly matters, this one's for you.    Become the best husband you can: https://bit.ly/deamarriageyoutube In this vital conversation, we dig into: The Hidden Price of Success: Working 60, 70, or even 80 hours a week is celebrated by many men. Yet, as Larry reveals, this dedication is often worn as a badge of honor. While providing for a family is noble, the cost can be severe. Countless hours spent at work are hours lost with children, spouses, and friends. Larry's own journey included long weeks on the road and executive-level sacrifices in the medical industry. Despite earning a good living, he found himself disconnected and unfulfilled. The Irreplaceable Asset: Time with Family: Time is the one thing every parent has in equal measure—24 hours each day. Although bank accounts and careers differ, the hours we have with loved ones are finite. Larry highlights this by referencing Tom Brady's emotional reflection on his father. Even with record-breaking success and financial security, Brady admitted to sacrificing precious moments with his children. This lesson resonates with many fathers who struggle to strike a healthy balance. Wealth, Marriage, and the Stress Factor: Finances play a leading role in marital stress. In fact, 37% of divorces are linked primarily to money disagreements. Arguments about spending, saving, and debt are rampant in households. Sometimes, financial infidelity—like secret spending—can quietly erode trust. Moreover, differences in money personalities between spouses can further complicate things. One partner may be a saver while the other prefers to spend, creating ongoing tension. Rethinking the Grind: Society tells us we must stick with what we know, even if it costs us happiness. Larry demonstrates that it's possible to shift careers, learn new skills, and pursue passions. He provides examples of his own path, as well as others who made midlife career changes successfully. There are more ways to generate income today than ever before. From real estate to side hustles, passive revenue is accessible for those willing to be creative and disciplined. Practical Advice for Fathers: Larry urges fathers to pause and consider what the grind is truly costing them. Is it worth missing key moments with your children? Instead of only focusing on earning, he recommends open communication with your spouse. Aligning financial goals can ease the burden and reduce the need for endless overtime. Fathers don't have to choose between security and connection. With intention, you can build both. This episode is packed with raw, practical wisdom on finding balance, embracing new opportunities, and living with intentionality. Here's what research and observation highlight about financial issues in relationships: Almost 3 out of 10 couples are secretly spending money that the other person doesn't know about. Money fights show up in nearly 40 to 50% of all marital arguments. 27% of couples or partners admit to secretly spending, and 10% say it will lead directly to divorce thedadedge.com/friday517 thedadedge.com/mastermind Brady on Family vs football
Have you ever asked yourself? Do I give my children room to make decisions and mistakes, or do I try to control outcomes too tightly? How often am I sitting down with my kids and really listening to their perspective instead of just telling them what to do? Am I open about my struggles as a parent and willing to admit when I don't have all the answers? Navigating the relationship between father and son is never straightforward, especially as your child grows into a young adult. On this episode of The Dad Edge Podcast, Larry Hagner welcomes his son Ethan for a candid discussion about the so-called "friendship gap"—that elusive space between being too much of a friend and not enough of a parent. Larry and Ethan get real about their own family dynamics, sharing personal stories of where things clicked—and where they missed the mark. From lecture-based parenting in elementary school to establishing new routines as Ethan enters adulthood, they explore the effects of too much leniency or authority, and the importance of clear communication, shared expectations, and accountability. Whether you're raising toddlers or about to launch your kids into the world, this episode is packed with relatable, actionable insights on fostering a deeper father-child bond—while still preparing your kids for the real world. Stick around for honest reflections, a few laughs, and tips that will help any dad walk the fine line between being a guide, a leader… and a friend. Become the best husband you can: https://bit.ly/deamarriageyoutube Get RIPPED with 1st Phorm 1.  Level 1 bars 2.  Creatine 3. DB Overdrive 4.  Hydration Sticks In this vital conversation, we dig into: Balance Structure and Connection: Avoid leaning too hard into "just being friends" or being purely authoritarian. Kids crave both boundaries and genuine connection. Use Storytelling and Curiosity: When tough conversations arise, share your personal stories and ask thoughtful questions to guide your child's own critical thinking—instead of falling into lecture mode. Create a Supportive Environment: Physical order (like a clean room or set routines) supports mental clarity and well-being; maintain structure even during transitions to help kids thrive. This episode is packed with relatable, actionable insights on fostering a deeper father-child bond—while still preparing your kids for the real world. Here's what research and observation highlight about family emotional connection: children who reported having both warmth and structure from their fathers had a 30% higher chance of reporting positive life satisfaction and emotional regulation in adulthood compared to those who experienced only discipline or only friendship. Studies show that 67% of adolescents report they "completely tune out" or "stop listening" during long lectures from parents, favoring concise, two-way conversations instead. Studies show that 70% of young adults feel unprepared for the practical aspects of adulthood, while 59% of parents report feeling "uncertain" about how to best guide their children through these years 1stphorm.com/dadedge thedadedge.com/alliance  https://www.instagram.com/reel/DKmhchXA95H/?igsh=bHcybXFlNHFwYmhl
Have you ever asked yourself: How do I balance teaching my kids to be tough with also being emotionally available for them? Am I open with my children about my own fears or vulnerabilities, or do I try to hide them? Have I ever allowed my pride to get in the way of seeking help for my kids? Today, Larry Hagner sits down with Super Bowl champion Ricky Watters to explore a legacy that transcends the football field. Ricky—a five-time Pro Bowler and one of the NFL's most dynamic running backs of the 90s—opens up about his journey from being adopted as a baby in Harrisburg's inner city to building his own family's legacy as a father, mentor, and now, author. Ricky shares how his parents, especially his father—a tough yet deeply loving Korean War veteran—shaped him with wisdom, resilience, and unwavering belief. Even though his father's injuries kept him from running drills, he made sure Ricky was always supported, teaching him critical lessons in confidence, leadership, and reading people. Larry and Ricky dive deep into stories about overcoming adversity, finishing what you start, and stepping out of comfort zones. Beyond football, Ricky reveals the heartwarming story of adopting his youngest son, Shane, from Korea, and the deep impact that decision had on their entire family. Whether you're leading a team, raising kids, or simply striving to become a better man, this conversation is filled with wisdom and practical tools to help you live with intention and purpose. Get ready for a powerful, unforgettable episode that will inspire you to lead with love, leave a legacy, and—most importantly—never quit. Become the best husband you can: https://bit.ly/deamarriageyoutube In this vital conversation, we dig into: The Power of Example: Ricky shares the profound influence his adoptive father had on him—an injured Korean War vet who, despite physical limitations, found ways to teach essential life lessons through other men in the community. The takeaway? You don't need to be perfect to be present. "He taught me how to fight, how to lead, and how to read a room, and most of all, how to believe in myself." Breaking the Mold of Fatherhood: While many men were taught to mask their fears, Ricky's dad encouraged open conversations—even about being scared. The result? A relationship built on trust, honesty, and emotional strength. "If I was scared, I could talk to my dad. I could be real with him." The Legacy Continues: Ricky opens up about adopting his youngest son, Shane, from Korea—a full-circle moment born from his own adoption story. He and his wife's journey shows the beauty and challenge of choosing family, and how nurturing love can transform lives. Life Lessons from Sports (And Beyond): From backyard football to the Super Bowl, Ricky reveals that greatness is about more than athletic talent—it's about grit, finishing what you start, and lifting up others along the way. This episode goes far beyond football, exploring the valuable lessons passed on from Ricky's father, the challenges of growing up and raising resilient children, and the importance of finishing what you start. Here's what research and observation highlight about: Evidence suggests that 82% of adults believe their parenting style was influenced by the way they were raised. Studies show that roughly 95% of adopted children develop secure attachments with their adoptive families.  Research estimates that 80% of internationally adopted children benefit from open conversations about their adoption story. thedadedge.com/535 https://thedadedge.com/bark  catwatters.com rickywatters.com @rickywatters  @officialrickywatters @rickywatters https://www.linkedin.com/in/rickywatters/
Free Gift for Dads: Get Larry's Full Presence Training—a free resource to help you stop drifting and show up more fully with your kids. 🎁 Grab it here: https://thedadedge.com/fully-present/ Have you ever asked yourself: What did "good parenting" look like to me back then, and has my definition changed? Am I truly modeling the behaviors and values I want my kids to learn? Have I been intentional about learning parenting skills, or did I just expect to figure it out? Today, Larry opens up about the raw truth of becoming a dad for the first time—from the excitement and overwhelming fear, to the anxiety of not knowing what "good parenting" really looks like, especially if you didn't see it modeled growing up. He shares candid stories of his own uncertainties, the chaos of early family life, and the clumsy trial-and-error approach so many dads experience at first. Through heartfelt anecdotes—including a turning point moment that led him to create the Dad Edge movement—Larry lays out the most important pieces of advice he wishes he could have shared with his younger self. This episode is packed with honest lessons about embracing mistakes, the necessity of learning and sharpening your skills as a parent, and the powerful influence of leading by example. Larry emphasizes that fatherhood is a skill that can be developed, much like any other, and that leaning into mentorship and building connections with your kids is the true foundation of lifelong influence. He also discusses why being present and intentional with your family trumps everything else, and offers a free resource on full presence training to help dads show up more powerfully—right now, not just "someday." Whether you're a brand new dad navigating sleepless nights, an experienced father striving to reconnect with your teens, or simply someone determined not to go through this journey alone, Larry's wisdom will remind you that it's never too late to build meaningful connections and become the leader your family deserves. In this vital conversation, we dig into:  You Don't Have to Know Everything When I first found out I was going to be a dad, I was TERRIFIED. Part of me thought fatherhood would come naturally, but the truth is, like anything else worth mastering, it has to be learned. No one expects you to compete at black belt level in jiu jitsu without years of training—the same goes for being a great dad.  Stop Faking "Having It All Together" For the first six years, I went through the motions, feeling like a fraud. I was scared to admit I didn't know what I was doing, and I was terrified of making mistakes. If I could sit my younger self down, I'd say: Drop the ego and ask for help. Surround yourself with mentors. Start learning right away.  Your Actions Speak Louder Than Words One of my favorite lessons from guest Devin Bandison: "The audio's got to match the video." Telling your kids to be healthy, disciplined, or open-minded means nothing if you're not modeling those traits yourself. Your kids are always watching—become the example you want them to follow.  You Don't Have to Always Lead—Learn Together I promise my kids I'll always be willing to learn something new with them—even if I'm clueless. Whether it's hunting, fixing things, or just tackling a new hobby, the journey of learning beside them matters more than mastering the skill.  Connection Comes Before Influence Without daily connection, there's no real influence. Rituals like asking about the best part of their day or what they enjoy at school build trust, credibility, and authority when those tough conversations need to happen. No matter their age, it's never too late to connect. This episode is packed with insights to help you live with more intention, purpose, and connection as a father. So sit back, tune in, and get ready to take your dad game to the next level! Here's what research and observation highlight about family relationships: Research shows that children are 82% more likely to imitate parental behaviors than to follow spoken advice alone. Studies have found that strong parent-child bonds can increase positive behavioral outcomes in children by up to 72%. Only about 12% of married couples report being in a happy, working relationship, highlighting how uncommon deeply satisfying marriages are. www.thedadedge.com/friday216 www.thedadedge.com/mastermind
Have you ever asked yourself? Am I helping my kids find meaningful ways to spend their time beyond their screens? When was the last time I encouraged or joined my child in an offline activity? Do I ever ask my children to share what they experience online? Today's fathers are raising kids in a world vastly different from their own upbringing. In this episode of The Dad Edge Podcast, Larry Hagner sits down with son Ethan to hash out the stark contrasts between "growing up with TV" and "growing up with a smartphone."   Larry and Ethan dive deep into how social media impacts motivation, mental health, and connection within families, exploring why "doom scrolling" can leave kids feeling depressed and stuck. They discuss generational changes, the pressure to always be connected, the fleeting nature of "streaks" on Snapchat, and—importantly—how open, non-judgmental conversation can bridge the gap between parents and children. With practical insights, plenty of laughs, and a heartfelt wrap-up, this is a must-hear for any dad (or mom) looking for more connection with their kids. So whether you're struggling with technology at home, wondering how to talk to your kids about the pressures they face, or just looking for real-world dad wisdom and relatability, you're in the right place. Become the best husband you can: https://bit.ly/deamarriageyoutube In this vital conversation, we dig into: Understanding the Lure: Social reels are engineered for those instant dopamine hits, but they also make it harder for our kids to generate their own ideas for what to do with their downtime. Pressure Is Real: Not just on girls, but on young men too — from gym culture to physique expectations, today's teens feel the spotlight to "measure up" in ways we never had to. Screen Time Isn't Innocent: Endless scrolling can leave kids (and adults!) feeling drained and blue. Sometimes, all it takes is a thoughtful check-in (with options!) to break the cycle. Modeling Matters: Whether it's respect, discipline, or health, what we do still means more than what we say. Connection Beats Correction: When we bark "put the phone down!" we might be missing the calls for actual connection. Ethan shares, sometimes our kids just want us to start a real conversation, not hand them a to-do list or a lecture. This episode is a must-listen for any parent struggling to bridge the growing digital divide at home. So grab your headphones, and get ready to rethink how you connect with your own kids—one legendary day at a time. Here's what research and observation highlight about psychological and social impacts of smartphone and technology use on teenager and parents Studies show that 78% of teens feel anxious when they're separated from their phones. Studies show that roughly 84% of Parents Say Technology Makes Parenting More Challenging than When They Were Kids. About 52% of Adolescents Report Feeling 'Left Out' if They Don't Have a Smartphone or Social Media. www.thedadedge.com/mastermind www.1stphorm.com/products/1st-phorm-energy
Have you ever asked yourself: "Why does sex feel confusing or frustrating in my long-term relationship?" "How do I deal with mismatched desire or feelings of rejection?" "Is there a way to bring passion back into our marriage beyond tricks or performance?" If sex and intimacy have become a perplexing part of your long-term relationship, get ready for a revolutionary reframe that will change how you approach connection. Today, Larry Hagner sits down with Susan Morgan Taylor, MA, a renowned somatic sex therapist, creator of the transformational Pleasure Keys Retreats, and host of the popular Sex Talk Café Podcast.  She has helped hundreds of couples deepen intimate connection and create mutually satisfying sex and intimacy for the long term, and she's here to challenge the myth that passion is just about performance or "finding the right move." Susan Morgan Taylor reveals that true intimacy begins with presence: showing up, tuning in, and being fully responsible for your own pleasure and desires. She explains that when there's been a "drift" in your marriage, it's critical to slow down, get curious, and ask not just what you want, but who it's for.  So many couples mistakenly go through the motions, assuming they know what pleases the other and settling for mediocre connection. The profound truth? Each partner is wired uniquely—and without ongoing, honest conversation, you can drift miles apart. Become the best husband you can: https://bit.ly/deamarriageyoutube In this revolutionary conversation, we dig into: Presence Over Performance: Why true intimacy starts with showing up, tuning in, and owning your own pleasure, moving beyond tricks or external validation. The Danger of the "Drift": How couples unknowingly settle for mediocre connection by assuming they know what pleases their partner without ongoing, honest conversation. Safety as the Ultimate Aphrodisiac: Why creating an environment where your partner can relax—free from pressure, kids bursting in, or a million distractions—is crucial for their willingness to lean in. Beyond Abs or Grand Gestures: The profound truth that genuine trust and moment-to-moment presence are the real keys to opening both her heart and body. Playful, Spacious, Non-Transactional Connection: How to bring curiosity, experimentation, and ownership back into your intimate relationship, even in uncomfortable moments. If you're ready to become not just a better lover, but a better man, this episode is your playbook for ditching resentment, reigniting real desire, and creating a marriage that's thriving, not just surviving. Here's what research and observation highlight about sexual intimacy in long-term relationships: Couples who prioritize emotional safety and open communication about sex report a 35% higher level of sexual satisfaction. Mismatched desire is a common challenge impacting over 30% of couples, but effective communication strategies can significantly improve outcomes. The consistent practice of mindful presence during intimate moments is linked to a 25% increase in shared pleasure and deeper connection. www.thedadedge.com/534 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.thedadedge.com/25questions Instagram | Facebook | LinkedIn www.pathwaytopleasure.com FREE Pleasure Keys PDF → www.pleasurekeys.com
Have you ever asked yourself: "Do I find myself focusing more on what I don't want in my marriage, rather than sharing what I truly need or hope for?" "Am I recognizing and attempting to meet my wife's deep needs to feel seen, heard, and safe?" "Am I honestly communicating my needs and working with my spouse to understand hers?" One of the most powerful shifts came from understanding that men and women have fundamentally different needs in marriage. Men crave respect, appreciation, and affection. Women need to be seen, heard, and feel safe. If these needs aren't met, resentment can brew silently for years, eroding the relationship from within. Turning 50 is a milestone—it marks not only the passage of time but also a treasure trove of life lessons. On this episode of The Dad Edge Podcast, Larry Hagner shares the advice he wishes he'd had in his early days of marriage and fatherhood. Larry opens up about his fears before marrying his college sweetheart—a perspective shaped by his own experiences growing up around divorce and dysfunctional relationships. For years, he worried marriage would end in resentment, disconnection, or eventual separation. But with 20 years under his belt, Larry has discovered that extraordinary marriages don't happen by accident; they're the result of effort, self-awareness, and learning new relationship skills. If you've ever struggled with self-doubt, felt lost in marriage or fatherhood, or wished for a community of men who just get it, this episode is for you. Stay tuned as Larry kicks off a four-part July series reflecting on marriage, parenting, wealth, health, and perspective—all with the goal of helping you live legendary. Become the best husband you can: https://bit.ly/deamarriageyoutube In this vital conversation, we dig into: Your Marriage Doesn't Have to "Go Dry": Most of us didn't grow up seeing functional relationships. Larry candidly discusses how he almost let the fear of divorce and dysfunction keep him from marrying the woman he truly loved—and why that perspective was dead wrong. The Power of Active Love (from Your Kids' Perspective): This week's episode features a spontaneous cameo from Larry's 11-year-old son, Lawson! He shares—with humor and honesty—how seeing his parents in a loving relationship makes him feel happy and safe at home. It's a heartfelt reminder: how you show up with your spouse is what your kids truly remember. No More Content Zombie Syndrome: We all absorb tons of self-development podcasts and books. But unless we commit to consistently practicing what we learn—and DO the work—the needle doesn't move. Larry talks about the critical difference between knowing what to do and actually doing it. Find Your Corner Men: Whether you're a nine-to-fiver or a business owner, Larry stresses the importance of having men in your corner—mentors ahead of you, peers beside you, and those you can teach. We rise together, and having the right tribe accelerates every area of our lives. Whether you're married, a new dad, or a seasoned father, this episode is packed with relatable stories and actionable advice that could save your marriage and strengthen your home. Here's what research and observation highlight about marriages: Only 12% of people who still are married can actually identify their relationship as working and they're happy. Statistics have shown that when a woman says out loud, "I think we should separate," or "I think we should get divorced," she's been thinking that for a minimum of two years. www.thedadedge.com/friday215 www.thedadedge.com/mastermind
Have you ever asked yourself: When was the last time I stepped outside my comfort zone? How do I make sure I'm intentionally setting a positive example for my kids? Am I encouraging my children to take extra steps? In an era dominated by online interactions and instant applications, it's easy to think that old-fashioned manners and direct communication have become obsolete. But as this episode of The Dad Edge reveals, those little "extra" steps are exactly what set people apart—in job interviews, difficult situations, and life in general Today, Ethan Hagner recounts his journey to land a summer job—not just sending in online applications, but suiting up, showing up in person, introducing himself, and even dropping off a thank-you note after a surprise interview.  As Larry points out, these simple, direct actions are the "gold" from previous generations—habits that build character and open doors Ethan Hagner also teases out how small acts of empathy and presence, learned in everyday family life, are already preparing him for bigger moments—like shadowing firefighters and helping his injured dad. The episode underscores the importance of empathy, remaining calm under pressure, and showing up wholeheartedly—in family crises, career moments, and daily interactions. As Larry puts it, "Control the controllables"—focus on what you can do, and do it with intention. Become the best husband you can: https://bit.ly/deamarriageyoutube In this vital episode, we dig into: Old-School Gold for the Next Generation: Larry reflects on the lost art of face-to-face interactions, handshakes, and eye contact, and how these "little" things are game-changers in both personal and professional life. Ethan chimes in with stories from his own journey, showing just how powerful simple, intentional actions can be. Handling Life's Dark and Difficult Moments: Ethan opens up about shadowing at the local fire department and preparing to face tough situations as a future firefighter. With honest talk about nervousness and empathy, the guys highlight how staying calm, focused, and supportive in chaos is a true superpower. Larry recounts a recent accident and how Ethan's steady approach driving him to the hospital—in the middle of nowhere, no cell signal, potholes galore—proved his grit and composure. Bringing Back Legendary Manners: There's a clear call to action here: Dads, let's teach (and model) the old-school habits that make a difference—shaking hands, making eye contact, showing up, following through, and, yes, even thank you notes. These are the moves that open doors and build relationships for life. This episode offers powerful stories, practical advice, and the reminder to always lead by example. Get ready for insights and encouragement to help you create the legacy you want for your family. www.thedadedge.com/mastermind www.1stphorm.com/products/1st-phorm-energy
Have you ever asked yourself: "Why does it feel like I'm the only one trying to improve our marriage?" "How do I break the destructive patterns I inherited from my own upbringing?" "What if true change in our relationship starts not with her, but with me?" If you're feeling alone in your journey, frustrated that your spouse isn't "on board," or simply tired from the grind of family life, this episode is a powerful beacon of hope. Today, Larry Hagner sits down with Gina Trimmer of Revitalized Womanhood for a raw, honest conversation about what it really takes to build strong marriages and families. The profound takeaway: Lasting change begins when both partners courageously own their personal growth, instead of trying to fix each other. Larry shares his own vulnerable journey—growing up without a consistent father figure, the deep pain it caused, and how that very experience led him to create The Dad Edge community. He speaks candidly about his struggles as a father, the pivotal moment he decided to break destructive generational cycles, and why "doing the work" is a never-ending commitment, not a quick fix. Gina Trimmer bring the invaluable perspective from the women's side, describing the magic that happens when men and women's growth communities work together. They reveal the truth that self-investment sometimes meets unexpected resistance—not just from society, but often from our own partners. But, as Gina Trimmer notes, change is ultimately contagious: When one person genuinely steps up, the other often follows. Become the best husband you can: https://bit.ly/deamarriageyoutube In this vital conversation, we dig into: The "Fix Each Other" Trap: Why trying to change your spouse is a dead end, and how focusing on your own growth ignites mutual transformation. Breaking Generational Cycles: Larry's personal journey of overcoming a fatherless upbringing to build a new legacy of intentional fatherhood. The Contagious Power of Personal Growth: Gina Trimmer reveal how one partner's commitment to self-improvement can inspire profound change in the other, even if there's initial resistance. The Magic of Parallel Growth Communities: How men's and women's self-improvement tribes can work together to strengthen individual partners and, by extension, the marriage itself. The Never-Ending Commitment: Why building a marriage and legacy worth leaving requires consistent investment in your personal development, not a one-time solution. This episode is a powerful reminder that building a marriage and legacy worth leaving requires facing hard truths, investing in your personal growth, and refusing to settle for "just fine." Here's what research and observation highlight about relational growth: Studies show that when one partner actively engages in personal growth, it leads to a 30% increase in the other partner's likelihood of pursuing self-improvement within 12 months. Couples who prioritize shared personal growth report a 25% higher level of marital satisfaction and resilience in facing challenges. Breaking destructive generational patterns through conscious effort can lead to a 40% improvement in family communication and emotional health across generations. www.thedadedge.com/533 www.thedadedge.com/mastermind
Have you ever asked yourself: "Why am I constantly chasing her attention, and feeling like it's never enough?" "What happened to the confident, purposeful man she first fell in love with?" "Can I truly reignite attraction in my marriage by focusing on myself?" If you're tired of needing her approval to feel solid, this episode is your wake-up call to reclaiming your most powerful magnet: self-respect. Welcome back to The Dad Edge Podcast. This is the final episode in our 4-part solo series: The Magnetic Masculinity Series—where we've explored what it actually takes to reignite attraction, connection, and polarity in your marriage. In Week 1, we exposed resentment and how it silently erodes intimacy. Week 2 pulled back the curtain on the emotional load your wife is carrying that most men never see. And in Week 3, we stepped into masculine leadership—how to lead with calm, strength, and presence. Now, in this powerful conclusion, we're bringing it home. Because at the end of the day, this isn't just about her wanting you again—it's about you becoming the man you respect again. Become the best husband you can: https://bit.ly/deamarriageyoutube In this empowering final episode, we dig into: Rediscover the Man She Said "Yes" To: Why most men lose their "edge" not because of marriage, but because they stop leading themselves and how to reclaim that energy, mission, and spark. Live a Mission Bigger Than Her Approval: Understand why you cannot be her emotional project and her sexual partner simultaneously, and how having a purpose-driven life makes you inherently magnetic. Build the Daily Habits That Rebuild Your Self-Respect: Learn that true attraction comes from a quiet swagger earned through daily discipline—investing in your mind, body, and personal growth, because when you respect the man in the mirror, everything changes. This series culminates with a powerful call to action: take one bold step this week to reconnect with yourself, ignite your inner fire, and reclaim the confident, purposeful man you were created to be. Here's what research and observation highlight about self-respect and relationship attraction: Men who report high levels of self-respect and personal purpose are perceived as 40% more attractive by their partners. Engaging in consistent daily habits for personal growth (e.g., fitness, learning) correlates with a 30% increase in self-efficacy and overall life satisfaction. Couples where both partners have strong individual identities and pursue personal missions show 25% higher levels of relationship fulfillment and lower codependency.  This is me when I was 35 years old vs 50 years old → www.tinyurl.com/larry35vs50 www.thedadedge.com/25questions www.thedadedge.com/21days www.thedadedge.com/friday214 www.thedadedge.com/mastermind
Have you ever asked yourself: "If I could talk to my younger self, what vital lessons would I share about fatherhood?" "Is my 'tough guy' exterior actually holding me back from truly connecting with my kids?" "What does it really mean to lead my family with emotional authenticity?" If these questions resonate, get ready for an unfiltered, insight-packed conversation that hits at the very heart of modern fatherhood: modeling emotional openness, prioritizing genuine connection, and reimagining what leadership truly looks like at home. Today, Larry Hagner sits across the table from his son Ethan Hagner. Their deeply touching exchange is a powerful reminder of how universal the struggles of growing up and parenting really are, driven by Larry's determination to provide a steady, affectionate home—a stark contrast to his own chaotic upbringing. Become the best husband and leader you can: www.thedadedge.com/mastermind In this unfiltered, insight-packed conversation, we dig into: Asking for Help as a Strength: Why vulnerability and reaching out for support are ultimate acts of courage, challenging the traditional "tough guy" parenting narrative. Empathy Over Solutions: Ethan shares his journey learning to be a better listener, especially in his relationship with his girlfriend, recognizing that people often want understanding and empathy more than immediate fixes. The Power of Authentic Connection: Larry and Ethan emphasize that genuine presence and open communication are direct drivers of influence in the home, making attempts to motivate or discipline kids far more effective. The "Marriage-First" Household: A candid discussion on the profound difference a strong, loving parental relationship makes in children's development and present-day family life, even if it means "grossing the kids out with love." Don't Hold It In: The crucial message to express pain, stress, and affection openly, allowing your family to see the full, real you for true psychological safety and peace. This episode offers profound wisdom and practical takeaways for any dad looking to build a legacy of emotional health and connection. Here's what research and observation highlight about emotional openness in families: Children raised in homes with high parental emotional openness report a 35% increase in emotional intelligence and resilience. Parental modeling of asking for help is correlated with a 40% higher likelihood of children seeking support when needed, reducing feelings of isolation. Families in which parents prioritize and visibly demonstrate a strong marriage report children with 25% higher levels of emotional security and social adjustment. www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.1stphorm.com/dadedge www.thedadedge.com/mastermind
Have you ever asked yourself: "How do I teach my kids true grit without breaking their spirit?" "Can a 'savage' mentality translate into emotionally intelligent fatherhood?" "What's the secret to staying tough and present, even amidst parenting chaos?" If you're looking for humor, heart, and a whole lot of humble savagery, buckle up for this episode! Today's guest is Bobby Maximus—a former UFC fighter, black belt, savage trainer… and, as it turns out, the unofficial spokesman for $500 Lego sets. This man once trained to take punches to the face, and now spends his time trying to get his teenage son to drink a protein shake. Larry Hagner and Bobby Maximus dive deep into fatherhood, grit, emotional intelligence, and why buying an Avengers Tower Lego set may just be the most elite dad move of all time. Become the best husband and leader you can: https://www.thedadedge.com/mastermind In this powerful conversation, we dig into: Grit Beyond the Octagon: How the resilience and mental toughness of an elite fighter translate into everyday fatherhood and life's challenges. Emotional Intelligence for the Savage: Understanding that true strength isn't about suppressing emotions, but intelligently navigating them in relationships. The Unexpected Power of Shared Hobbies: Why investing time and energy into your kids' interests (like a $500 Lego set) can build deeper connections than you might imagine. Parenting Teens: The New Frontier: Candid talk about the unique struggles and triumphs of raising adolescents, from protein shakes to video game meltdowns. Living a Legacy of Strength and Presence: Why optimizing yourself, both physically and emotionally, is crucial for showing up fully for your family. This episode offers a unique blend of high-performance wisdom and relatable dad struggles, proving that the toughest men often have the biggest hearts. Here's what research and observation highlight about grit and emotional intelligence in fatherhood: Children of fathers who model high levels of grit and perseverance are 35% more likely to achieve long-term success in their own endeavors. Fathers with strong emotional intelligence report a 40% increase in their ability to effectively resolve conflicts with their children and spouse. Engaging in shared hobbies with children for at least 3 hours per week correlates with a 25% stronger father-child bond. www.thedadedge.com/532 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.thedadedge.com/mastermind www.instagram.com/bobbymaximus www.youtube.com/@OfficialBobbyMaximus www.tiktok.com/@bobbymaximus
Have you ever asked yourself: "My wife calls me 'nice,' but why does it feel like a subtle insult?" "Why am I constantly chasing connection, and how do I stop walking on eggshells?" "What does it really mean to lead in my marriage without being controlling?" If you've ever felt like, "I don't even know what happened—she just drifted," this episode is your wake-up call to reclaiming your magnetic masculine presence. Welcome back to The Dad Edge Podcast. This is Week 3 of our 4-part solo series called The Magnetic Masculinity Series—where we're unpacking how to attract your wife back, not through tactics, but by becoming the man she's instinctively drawn to again. In Week 1, we talked about resentment—how it leaks into marriage when we ignore the signs. In Week 2, we revealed the emotional weight she's carrying—the invisible labor that most men never see. And now in Week 3, we're diving into the Masculine Pull: what it truly means to lead with strength, not submission. Because here's the truth: she doesn't want a man who obeys. She wants a man she can trust to lead—not control, not dominate—but lead with clarity, strength, and grounded presence.  Extraordinary marriages start here In this vital episode, we dig into: The Critical Difference Between Pleasing and Pursuing: Understanding why pleasing is approval-seeking and kills attraction, while pursuing is confident, directional, and inviting. Masculine Presence vs. Anxious Attachment: Learn to cultivate a calm, grounded energy that can handle her emotions without needing to fix them, creating safety and desire, rather than asking "Are we okay?" every time she's quiet. Rebuilding Polarity: Why Attraction Dies When Roles Blur: Discover how the charge between masculine and feminine energy gets lost when roles become indistinguishable, and why becoming more stable (not more emotional) is the key to reigniting that spark. This conversation offers the blueprint for becoming the magnetic man your wife is drawn to, leading with a quiet consistency that speaks louder than words. Here's what research and relationship dynamics highlight: Studies suggest that relationships lacking clear polarity or directional leadership often report a 30% decrease in passionate intimacy over time. Men who embody calm, grounded presence are perceived as 40% more attractive and trustworthy by their partners. When a man consistently takes initiative with empathy, couples report a 25% increase in feelings of partnership and mutual respect. www.thedadedge.com/friday213 www.thedadedge.com/mastermind Intimate conversation starters
Have you ever asked yourself: "If I could go back, what advice would I give my younger self?" "How do I teach my kids to face their fears when I still struggle with my own?" "Is true strength about bottling things up, or asking for help?" If these questions resonate, get ready for an honest, funny, and deeply touching exchange that reminds us how universal the struggles of growing up—and parenting—really are. Today, Larry Hagner and his son Ethan Hagner tackle the ultimate hypothetical: what would you say to your younger self? Their conversation unpacks not just advice for growing up, but crucial lessons for fathers navigating the complexities of guiding their children. Ethan Hagner candidly admits to being an anxious and introverted kid. Looking back, he shares how powerfully stepping out of his comfort zone—whether wrestling with social fears, struggling through disliked activities, or simply talking to a childhood crush—shaped the confident young man he's become. Larry, reflecting as a proud dad, shares the immense power of letting your kids see you embrace challenges too, and the vital importance of showing your family how to ask for help when things get tough. Become the best husband and leader you can: www.thedadedge.com/mastermind In this deeply touching conversation, we dig into: The Growth Zone: Ethan's journey from anxiety and introversion to confidence, forged by repeatedly stepping out of his comfort zone. Parental Modeling of Discomfort: Why it's crucial for dads not just to tell their kids to be brave, but to show them how they embrace their own challenges. Vulnerability as Strength: The transformative message that emotional openness isn't weakness, but a critical part of living and growing into your full potential. The Power of Asking for Help: Why leaning on your support network and giving yourself (and others) permission to be human is essential for navigating tough times. Navigating Universal Struggles: Honest reflections on the challenges of growing up and the ongoing journey of self-discovery, from both a father's and son's perspective. Whether you're a parent guiding your children, or someone still figuring it all out, this episode delivers real talk, practical takeaways, and a reminder that every chapter—no matter how daunting—is worth diving into, together. Here's what research and observation highlight about discomfort and growth: Studies show that individuals who regularly engage in activities outside their comfort zone report a 20% increase in self-efficacy and resilience. Children whose parents model vulnerability and the act of asking for help demonstrate 30% higher emotional intelligence and stronger coping skills. A strong social support network is correlated with a 45% reduction in perceived stress levels during challenging life transitions. www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.1stphorm.com/dadedge www.thedadedge.com/mastermind
Have you ever asked yourself: "Am I the only man struggling with sexual performance?" "How do media and p*rn warp my expectations about sex?" "What if stress and anxiety are secretly sabotaging my intimacy?" If these questions echo in your mind, get ready for a candid, judgment-free conversation that pulls back the curtain on men's sexual health and confidence. Today, Larry Hagner sits down with Alex Grendi, a sex coach for men whose expertise is rooted in his own personal battles with performance anxiety and sexual health challenges. Alex Grendi opens up about his journey from New York, his thoughts on modern masculinity, and the profound impact that issues like erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, and performance anxiety can have on men's self-worth and relationships. Alex Grendi brings a unique blend of vulnerability and practical wisdom, diving deep into the often-unspoken pressures men face around sex. He exposes how unrealistic expectations, frequently shaped by media and p*rnography, contribute to these struggles, and how hidden stress and anxiety can subtly sabotage intimacy. Become the best husband and leader you can: https://www.thedadedge.com/mastermind In this eye-opening conversation, we dig into: The Hidden Pressures of Modern Masculinity: How societal expectations, media, and p*rn create unrealistic benchmarks for sexual performance. Beyond Shame: Breaking Free from Performance Anxiety: Alex Grendi's personal journey and insights on overcoming the silent struggles that erode self-worth. The Power of "No": Understanding why learning to say "no" to sex when conditions aren't right is a crucial step toward healthier intimacy and confidence. Reconnecting with Your Body & Nervous System: Practical strategies for regulating your physiological responses to cultivate a truly satisfying sex life. Setting the Foundation for True Sexual Confidence: Moving past quick fixes to build authentic, lasting self-assurance in and out of the bedroom. This episode is a must-listen for any man who's ever struggled in silence or wondered if he's alone in dealing with these challenges. Here's what research and observation highlight about men's sexual health and well-being: Performance anxiety affects up to 25% of men and is a leading psychological cause of erectile dysfunction. Premature ejaculation is the most common male sexual dysfunction, impacting an estimated 20-30% of men globally. Men who address sexual health issues with coaching or therapy report a 40% increase in relationship satisfaction and self-esteem. www.thedadedge.com/531 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.alexgrendi.com www.youtube.com/@alex.grendi www.instagram.com/alex.grendi www.thedadedge.com/bark
Have you ever asked yourself: "I bring home the check, I do chores... why is my wife still overwhelmed and distant?" "What is this 'mental load' she talks about, and why don't I see it?" "How can I truly partner with her, instead of just 'helping'?" If you've ever caught yourself thinking, "But I am helping!" or "She's upset but I have no idea why," this episode will give you the X-ray vision you've been missing. Because what's wearing her out isn't always what's on your radar—it's the things you never even thought about. Here's the truth most men miss: providing financially is one form of leadership—but emotional labor is the currency she's drowning in. And if you don't see it, you're likely part of the reason she feels alone in the mission. This episode is your wake-up call. Become the best husband you can: https://bit.ly/deamarriageyoutube In this vital conversation, we dig into: Invisible Labor vs. Physical Effort: Understand the critical difference. Physical labor is what you see (dishes, yardwork, laundry). Invisible labor is the mental burden she carries: managing the family calendar, remembering RSVPs, planning meals, tracking groceries, anticipating everyone's emotional needs. She's exhausted that she had to remember it in the first place, not just that you didn't do the thing. Why Your Wife Feels Like She's Doing It All (Even When You're Helping): Most men step in reactively, not proactively. When you wait to be told what to do, you're reinforcing her role as the default parent, default planner, default everything. If you've heard or sensed, "I feel like the only adult in this house," this is the root cause. How to Show Leadership at Home (Without Being Controlling): You're not a passive assistant; you're a co-leader. Leadership means taking initiative with empathy. Learn proactive phrases like, "What's something I can fully own without being asked?" or "I'll handle the kids' end-of-year school stuff." The 2-Minute Audit: How to Find What She Resents Without Asking Her Directly: Every week, take two minutes to ask yourself five key questions: What has she had to ask me more than once? What mental task have I seen her doing that I've never offered to take on? If I got sick for a week, what would stop? If she got sick for a week, what would collapse? What do I expect her to "just handle" because I'm used to it? Your attention to what she's carrying is the answer—and the invitation to step up. This episode will challenge you to redefine "helping" and step into true co-leadership at home. Here's what research and observation highlight about emotional labor in relationships: Studies show that women typically take on 60-80% of the invisible labor in households, leading to higher rates of burnout. Marriages where the emotional load is perceived as unequally distributed have a 45% higher risk of marital dissatisfaction. Couples who actively practice shared responsibility for planning and mental tasks report a 30% increase in relationship satisfaction and feelings of partnership.   www.thedadedge.com/friday212 www.thedadedge.com/mastermind
Have you ever asked yourself: "How do I teach my kids accountability when I'm not always perfect myself?" "Does admitting my mistakes actually make me a weaker dad?" "What does it truly take to build unbreakable trust with my children?" If these questions resonate, get ready for a raw and honest conversation that dives deep into one of the most vital lessons dads can teach: extreme ownership. Larry Hagner and his son Ethan Hagner share unfiltered stories from their family's journey—moments of frustration, tough conversations, heartfelt apologies, and the profound vulnerability that comes with admitting when you're wrong. Together, they explore why modeling accountability as a father doesn't diminish your credibility; it fundamentally builds trust and earns lasting respect. Become the best husband and leader you can: www.thedadedge.com/mastermind In this powerful conversation, we dig into: The Counterintuitive Power of Apology: Larry recounts difficult parenting seasons, including struggles with anger and the immense pressure to be a "perfect" dad, and how genuine apologies transformed those moments. A Son's Perspective on Accountability: Ethan offers a candid view on how his father's apologies and moments of ownership directly shaped his own character and understanding of responsibility. Taking Responsibility in Real Life: Ethan shares valuable examples of how he's learned to embrace ownership in his own life, both at home and in the classroom, providing relatable lessons for parents and teens alike. Beyond Perfection: Why the goal of fatherhood isn't about never making mistakes, but about how you respond when you do. Building Unbreakable Trust: The direct link between a father's vulnerability, owning his flaws, and fostering deep, secure trust with his children. This episode delivers authentic wisdom and reassurance, reminding every dad (and future dad) out there that perfection isn't the goal—connection and growth are. Here's what research and observation highlight about parental accountability and child development: Children whose parents model admitting mistakes and apologizing have 40% higher levels of empathy and a stronger sense of personal responsibility. Parental vulnerability and honesty in moments of error significantly increase a child's trust in their parents, leading to 35% more open communication. Adolescents with fathers who consistently practice accountability show a 25% lower likelihood of engaging in risky behaviors. www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.1stphorm.com/dadedge www.thedadedge.com/mastermind
Have you ever asked yourself: "How do I truly lead my kids without falling into controlling behaviors?" "Is it possible to have a strong, lasting marriage while staying emotionally connected?" "How do I find purpose and resilience when life throws its biggest curveballs?" If these questions resonate, get ready for a powerful conversation that will challenge and inspire you to lead with greater intention—at home and beyond. Larry Hagner sits down with Jeremy Stalnecker—a Marine Corps veteran, father of four, pastor, and co-leader of the Mighty Oaks Foundation. Jeremy brings a unique blend of military discipline, spiritual wisdom, and practical fatherhood insights to this crucial discussion on leadership, intention, and trusting in a higher purpose. Jeremy Stalnecker shares powerful insights from his own life: from lessons learned growing up in a faith-filled family, to experiencing a life-altering moment on a bridge in Iraq that solidified his belief in letting go of control and surrendering to a greater plan.  He opens up candidly about navigating marriage for over 26 years, staying emotionally connected without mistaking emotions for weakness, and wisely guiding his adult children without overstepping. Become the best husband and leader you can: https://www.thedadedge.com/mastermind In this essential conversation, we dig into: Leading Without Controlling: The crucial distinction between guiding your children with intention versus attempts at authoritarian control. The Power of Higher Purpose: How a life-altering moment in Iraq cemented Jeremy's belief in letting go of control and trusting faith. Emotional Connection in Long-Term Marriage: Strategies for maintaining intimacy and understanding emotions without equating them to weakness over 26 years. Guiding Adult Children: The wisdom of supporting and influencing grown kids without overstepping boundaries. Finding Resilience Through Trauma: Jeremy Stalnecker's impactful work with the Mighty Oaks Foundation, providing support for veterans and first responders dealing with trauma and PTSD. This episode is packed with raw, candid, and actionable advice that speaks right to the heart of every dad striving to grow, strengthen his marriage, or find unwavering resilience in tough times. Here's what research and observation highlight about purposeful living and strong family dynamics: Individuals who live with a clear sense of purpose report a 25% higher level of overall well-being and life satisfaction. Long-term marriages that prioritize emotional connection over control show a 30% lower divorce rate. Faith-based resilience programs, like those offered by Mighty Oaks, have shown significant positive impacts on veterans' mental health recovery. www.thedadedge.com/530 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.thedadedge.com/boardroom www.jeremystalnecker.com Facebook | Instagram | YouTube
Have you ever asked yourself: "Why does my wife seem so distant, even when we're together?" "Am I feeling more like a roommate than a partner?" "What are the subtle signs our marriage is drifting, before it's too late?" If these questions echo in your mind, today's conversation is a powerful wake-up call to the silent killer of connection. Resentment isn't always loud screaming matches or slammed doors. It's the creeping silence, the growing disinterest, the widening emotional distance. It's when she starts emotionally withdrawing while still going through the motions of life with you.  Most men wait for a blow-up to take action, but by then, she might already be emotionally gone. This episode is about catching the drift long before the disconnect becomes irreversible. Become the best husband you can: https://bit.ly/deamarriageyoutube In this vital conversation, we dig into: The Unseen Buildup: Ignored Emotions, Mental Load, Unspoken Expectations. She's likely been signaling for months, maybe even years. You might have heard the words ("I'm tired," "You never ask me how I'm doing," "It's always me managing everything"), but you didn't feel their weight. She doesn't want you to solve her problems; she wants you to see her. The hidden trap: men often assume "no conflict = no problem," but most women emotionally disconnect long before they ever fight. How Emotional Debt Compounds in Marriage. Every unacknowledged frustration is like putting a charge on a credit card with no payment plan. Eventually, she hits her limit and withdraws love, affection, and energy—not out of spite, but self-preservation. This emotional debt often manifests as phrases like, "I always have to ask," "I can't count on him," or "He doesn't even notice anymore." Just like in finance, emotional debt isn't a crisis—until it is. What She Really Means When She Says, "I'm Fine." This seemingly simple phrase is often code for, "I don't feel safe opening up to you right now." It signals, "You haven't earned the right to hear what's really going on." Most men take it literally, or defensively, rather than responding with curiosity and genuine inquiry. Here's what research and observation highlight about resentment and marital health: Studies show that consistent emotional invalidation is linked to a 30% increase in marital dissatisfaction over time. When a partner perceives an uneven distribution of the mental load, it can lead to a 40% higher likelihood of emotional withdrawal. Ignoring subtle relationship red flags for more than 6 months significantly decreases the chances of successful conflict resolution without intervention. www.thedadedge.com/friday211 www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Have you ever asked yourself: "How do I teach my kids to lead when I'm still figuring it out?" "What does true accountability look like in a family setting?" "How can I have deeply honest conversations with my kids about life's challenges?" If these questions resonate, today's special episode offers a rare, unfiltered look into father-son dynamics and real-world leadership. Larry Hagner kicks off a heartfelt father-son conversation with his son, Ethan. This episode isn't just about parenting; it's a deep dive into the everyday moments that shape our ability to lead, grow, and truly connect. You'll hear about Ethan's journey from a young musician to a drum major, leading dozens of fellow students through the highs and lows of performance and leadership. Become the best husband and leader you can: bit.ly/deamarriageyoutube In this powerful episode, we dig into: Navigating Leadership Nerves & Judgment: Larry and Ethan open up about the pressures of being at the front of the pack, embracing authenticity even when facing scrutiny. The Power of Fun, Empathy, & Accountability: Discover how these core elements create a positive and productive environment, both in the high school band room and at home. Real-Life Lessons from Mistakes: Candid stories of childhood memories, career dreams, and the invaluable wisdom gained from owning up to errors. Building Unbreakable Bonds: How open, real conversations between father and son strengthen relationships beyond surface-level interactions. Strategies for Lifelong Learning: Practical perspectives for continuously improving as dads, leaders, and individuals. This episode sets the stage for a new series of honest conversations between father and son, promising to tackle the good, the tough, and everything in between. Here's what research and observation highlight about father-son dynamics and leadership: Studies show that sons with actively involved fathers are 30% more likely to exhibit strong leadership qualities. Youth participation in structured activities like marching band has been linked to a 25% increase in leadership skills and emotional intelligence. Open communication between fathers and sons can lead to a 20% improvement in conflict resolution skills within the family. Whether you're a dad, a mentor, or a young adult figuring it all out, this episode is packed with relatable moments, laughs, and takeaways you won't want to miss. www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Have you ever asked yourself: "Why am I so tired, even after a full night's sleep?" "Am I really present for my kids, or just physically there?" "Could my low energy be impacting my marriage and family life?" If these questions hit home, get ready for a raw and real conversation that unpacks the silent battles many dads face. What happens when you get three dads, 12 kids, mountains of laundry, and enough Costco bills to bankrupt a small nation... all together on one podcast? Chaos? Yep. Laughter? Absolutely. But beneath the wild potty-training stories and "Dad, look at my squat!" moments, today's conversation hits something way deeper with Matt Salazar, father of five boys, entrepreneur, and co-founder of Gent Health, and his partner, Sonny Howard, a dad of three. A quick note for listeners: Gent Health is currently available to patients only in Texas, but they will be expanding to other states very soon. Matt Salazar opens up about the silent battles of brain fog, low motivation, and the gut-wrenching feeling of being "present, but not really there" for his family. Sonny Howard shares his own wake-up call, discovering dangerously low hormone levels that could have impacted his future and his ability to truly show up at home.  These guys aren't just talking about testosterone and peptides; they're talking about fatherhood, fighting through the fog, and why optimizing your health isn't just about you—it's about your family and your legacy.   In this powerful episode, we dig into: The Hidden Epidemic of Brain Fog & Low Motivation: Understanding why so many modern dads feel wiped out and disconnected. The Gut-Wrenching Reality of Being "Present, But Not There": How physical and mental fatigue can silently erode your family connections. The Personal Health Wake-Up Call: Matt Salazar and Sonny Howard's journeys to uncover underlying issues like hormonal imbalances and their impact on daily life. Beyond Muscles and Materialism: Why prioritizing your health is a crucial act of fatherhood and legacy-building. Optimizing Health for Family Impact: How taking control of your physical and mental well-being allows you to show up stronger for your kids and spouse. Whether you're crushing it in the gym or staring at your kids wondering why you're so wiped out, this episode will hit home.   Here's what research and observation highlight about men's health and its impact on family: Studies indicate that men experiencing low testosterone often report a 30% decrease in energy levels and a 25% increase in symptoms of brain fog. Fathers struggling with chronic fatigue are up to 40% less likely to engage in active play and meaningful conversations with their children. Optimizing male hormonal health has been linked to a 35% improvement in motivation and overall well-being, positively impacting family presence.   www.thedadedge.com/529 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.gent.health www.instagram.com/genthealth
Have you ever asked yourself: "Am I truly supporting my child's unique passions, or just steering them?" "How can I foster real self-confidence and creativity in my kids?" "Is our family calendar too jam-packed to allow for true connection?" If these questions resonate, today's conversation offers a heartwarming and insightful perspective on what children truly need from their fathers. Larry Hagner welcomes the dynamic mother-daughter duo, bestselling author Kelly Corrigan and her daughter, Claire Corrigan Lichty. While not dads themselves, their lived experiences as loving daughters and keen family observers bring a fresh, invaluable perspective to fatherhood that every dad needs to hear. Kelly shares heartfelt stories of her powerful relationship with her father, George Corrigan, whose unwavering support and willingness to let her "lead" fundamentally shaped her self-confidence and creativity. Become the best husband and leader you can: bit.ly/deamarriageyoutube In this candid conversation, we dig into: The profound impact of a father's unwavering support and the courage to "follow your child's lead." The importance of nurturing a child's unique interests and fostering their authentic self, rather than trying to mold them. The surprising magic of simple, unstructured moments and their role in building resilience, joy, and lifelong self-soothing skills. The hidden pitfalls of overscheduling kids and how it can hinder genuine connection and development. Valuable lessons from their new children's book, Marianne The Maker, on helping kids discover and express who they really are. This episode is packed with wisdom, warmth, and actionable takeaways for fathers struggling with busy schedules or simply searching for new ways to deeply support their kids' passions. www.thedadedge.com/friday210 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.mariannethemaker.com/tour www.mariannethemaker.com/about-us
Are You Leading Your Kids or Just Bossing Them Around? The Dad Edge Blueprint for True Leadership Ever feel like you're constantly telling your kids what to do, but it's just not sticking? What if there's a more effective way to guide them, one that fosters trust and connection instead of resentment? Today, Larry Hagner dives deep into the heart of true fatherly leadership. Drawing from powerful training and timeless wisdom shared within The Dad Edge Alliance, Larry unpacks the critical differences between authoritarian parenting (control and commands) and authoritative parenting (clarity, empathy, and presence). He shares real-life stories from dads who are transforming their families by actively listening to their kids, setting consistent boundaries with understanding, and, most importantly, modeling the very behaviors they want to see. Reignite your marriage: https://bit.ly/deamarriageyoutube In this essential episode, you'll learn: The crucial distinction between "ruler" and "leader" in your parenting approach. Understand why authoritarian methods often breed rebellion, while authoritative leadership fosters respect and cooperation. Practical strategies to cultivate deep trust with your children. Learn how open communication, honesty, and following through on promises create an unbreakable bond. Why highlighting effort trumps mere achievement in building resilient and motivated kids. Discover how to praise perseverance and the learning process, fostering a growth mindset. How to create a home environment where your children feel truly seen, heard, and safe. Explore the elements of a psychologically safe space where vulnerability is encouraged. Actionable ways to disrupt the drift of autopilot parenting and become fully present with your kids. Understand the profound benefits of being engaged and attentive in everyday moments. If you're ready to step into your greatest role as a father and lead your family with intention, passion, and purpose, this episode is packed with the gold you've been searching for. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Have you ever asked yourself: "Is money a constant source of stress in our family?" "How do we teach our kids financial smarts without being preachy?" "Are we making the right financial moves for our family's future?" If these questions hit home, today's conversation offers practical wisdom for navigating your family's financial journey. Larry Hagner sits down with Sophia Yudkowsky, a seasoned financial planner, who dives into the emotional side of money, the importance of a shared financial vision, and how to create individualized approaches to money management that work for your unique family. Sophia Yudkowsky also shares her personal journey, including her upcoming transition into motherhood and how her late mother, Abby, profoundly influenced her balanced approach to career and family. Become the best husband and leader you can: bit.ly/deamarriageyoutube In this essential episode, we dig into: Navigating Financial Emotions: How to stay steady during market ups and downs by having clear goals and open communication. Tailored Financial Education: Understanding each child's personality to teach them about money in a way that truly resonates. Avoiding Common Pitfalls: Identifying typical mistakes families make during the wealth-building phase and the importance of a solid long-term plan. Social Media's Financial Impact: How online trends can both inform and mislead your financial decisions. Future-Proofing Education: Debating the value of traditional college versus trade schools and how to prepare for future expenses while instilling financial responsibility. Sophia Yudkowsky's insights are crucial for any family looking to build a healthy relationship with money and secure their financial legacy. This episode is packed with practical advice to make informed decisions that align with your family's unique values and goals. www.thedadedge.com/528 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.mesirow.com/bio/sophia-yudkowsky www.linkedin.com/in/sophia-yudkowsky
What If Obedience Isn't the Same as Respect? We all want to raise good kids — respectful, obedient, and successful. But what if obedience is just compliance… no connection? In this episode, I dive deep into the final chapter of Netflix's Adolescence, and the heartbreaking unraveling of Jamie Miller, a 13-year-old boy whose silent pain led to tragedy. His father, Eddie, never saw it coming. Why? Because the connection was missing, even though he thought he was doing everything "right." I open up about how even committed, hardworking dads like us can miss the quiet red flags our kids are waving. We explore how our need to discipline, protect, and "fix" can sometimes get in the way of the one thing our kids need most: to feel seen and safe. This episode isn't about shame. It's about waking up. Because your influence as a dad doesn't come from authority—it comes from emotional safety. If you've ever believed "my kid is doing fine," this might be the most eye-opening 20 minutes you'll spend all year. I'll also give you a practical framework to help you ask better questions, create deeper emotional connections, and build a relationship your kids will trust—especially when things get tough. Become the best husband and leader you can: www.thedadedge.com/mastermind In this episode, I share: Why "How was your day?" might be the weakest way to check in The 3 fatherhood defaults that kill connection: Distance, Disapproval, and Discipline How to use the CARE method (Curiosity, Affirmation, Repair, Expectation) to reconnect with your child Why our kids confuse disconnection with disinterest—and how to fix it The real reason obedience without emotional connection doesn't build trust Here's what research supports about the power of action and intention: Studies show that couples who engage in regular, small acts of kindness report a 28% increase in relationship satisfaction. Research indicates that setting specific, shared goals increases the likelihood of improved communication and intimacy by 35%. Prioritizing quality time has been shown to reduce feelings of loneliness in relationships by 20%. If you're ready to stop waiting for motivation and start actively building a stronger, more connected marriage, this episode is for you. Let's take that first step together. www.thedadedge.com/friday209 www.1stphorm.com/dadedge www.thedadedge.com/25questions www.thedadedge.com/alliance
What does it really take for your teenager to trust you with everything? Are you creating a home where your wife feels truly safe to open up? Could a father-son conversation reveal the surprising answers? Today I'm bringing you something truly special: a replay of one of the most meaningful live Q&A sessions I've ever recorded. This one goes way back to 2023, and I had my oldest son, Ethan, who was just 17 at the time (he's 19 now) join me, along with 35 awesome guys from The Dad Edge Alliance. What made this conversation so powerful is that it was completely unscripted. Real questions, raw answers, and packed with the kind of gold you can only get from honest, open dialogue. Even though it was a live stream with our members, the themes we dove into are just as crucial today. In this episode, you'll hear us tackle some major challenges that I know resonate with so many of you: Connecting with Your Wife When She's Emotionally Distant: Real strategies for bridging that gap. Creating Psychological Safety in Conversations: How to foster an environment where true communication can thrive. Navigating Discipline Without Losing Connection with Your Kids: Ethan even chimes in with his perspective on this one! The Power of the Experience Cube: We explore this incredible conflict resolution tool (originally taught by ClearLeadership.com) that's a game-changer for tough conversations with your wife, kids, and even at work. But what truly blew me away during this Q&A was hearing, in his own words, what builds trust between Ethan and me. And spoiler alert: it's not about being the perfect dad. It's about something much more real: showing up, owning your mistakes, and spending genuine time together. I'm not going to lie, you might even hear a little emotion in my voice when Ethan starts talking about this–it really hit home the importance of creating that safe space where our kids feel they can tell us anything. So, whether you're a dad wanting to lead your family better, a husband striving for deeper connection, or just a man wanting to improve your relationships, this episode is packed with hard-earned wisdom. Sit back, relax, and get ready for some real talk that still rings true today. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.1stphorm.com/dadedge
Have you ever achieved your biggest dreams, only to find they leave you feeling empty?  What happens when the spotlight fades, and you're left facing the shadows within? Today, Larry Hagner sits down with Michael Gazzo—a platinum DJ, internationally touring musician, and now a transformational coach with a story that's as captivating as his music. From remixing for pop icons like Ariana Grande to rocking global stages, Michael Gazzo seemingly had it all—until he realized external success couldn't fill the void within. Michael Gazzo bravely opens up about the hidden battles behind the fame: the crushing burnout, the allure of the party scene, and the relentless pursuit of validation from the outside world. He shares deeply personal turning points, including a transformative silent meditation retreat in Hong Kong and confronting his deepest fears during days-long darkness retreats.  Through these intense experiences, Michael Gazzo learned the profound power of pausing, looking inward, and finally healing the wounds he'd been running from since childhood. Become the best husband and leader you can: www.thedadedge.com/mastermind In this raw and insightful conversation, we dig into: The honest realities of chasing your dreams and the unexpected emptiness that can follow. The courage it takes to confront long-buried childhood wounds and begin the journey of healing. The transformative power of authentic brotherhood and finding support in unexpected places. Michael Gazzo's perspective on fatherhood and the importance of vulnerability in raising the next generation. Practical insights on creating meaningful and lasting change, both in your own life and for your children. If you're a dad, a dreamer, or anyone on a path of self-discovery seeking purpose beyond achievement, Michael Gazzo's story and wisdom will resonate deeply, offering a powerful reminder that true fulfillment comes from looking within. www.thedadedge.com/527 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.michaelgazzo.com www.instagram.com/michaelvgazzo
Ever look at your kids and see echoes of your own struggles? Today, Larry Hagner dives into a powerful and often uncomfortable truth: the unhealed wounds we carry as fathers can cast unseen shadows on our children. Inspired by the Netflix series "Adolescence," this episode unpacks the subtle yet significant ways our unresolved childhood pain impacts our ability to connect with and truly support our kids. Larry uses the story of Eddie and Jamie from "Adolescence" to illustrate how even well-intentioned dads can unintentionally pass down emotional scars if they haven't actively confronted and healed their own pasts. It's not about blame; it's about awareness and the courage to break free from generational cycles. In this raw and honest episode, you'll learn: The subtle ways your own unhealed childhood experiences can manifest in your parenting. How unresolved pain can create emotional distance and hinder genuine connection with your children. Why repeating the mistakes of our fathers is often an unconscious act rooted in our own unresolved issues. Practical steps you can take to begin confronting and healing your past wounds. The profound impact of emotional presence and intentionality in breaking generational cycles. This episode is a powerful call to action for fathers to step up—not just as providers, but as emotionally aware men who are committed to healing themselves for the sake of their families. It's a guidepost on the journey to living and fathering more intentionally, creating a new legacy for the next generation. www.thedadedge.com/friday208 www.1stphorm.com/dadedge www.thedadedge.com/25questions www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Are you pulling your hair out trying to motivate your kids? Do chores feel like a constant battle in your house? Is homework a never-ending saga of lollygagging and procrastination for you too? If so, then this episode of The Dad Edge is definitely for you. I'm revisiting one of our most popular Q&A sessions because it's packed with the kind of crowdsourced wisdom that can really help us crack the code on kid motivation. This Q&A was originally recorded a couple of years back, but the principles we shared then are still incredibly relevant today. I wanted to bring this one back because I'm getting ready to launch my fifth book, Pursuit of Legendary Fatherhood. It's been a journey getting this book out, and some of the core ideas I've been exploring were definitely in the air during this original Q&A. And hey, if your marriage could use a boost too, check out: www.thedadedge.com/extraordinary-marriage In this deep dive into real-life parenting strategies, you and I, along with the guys from The Dad Edge Alliance, explore: Creating Connection Through Ownership and Structure: Practical ways to foster responsibility in your kids. Modeling Responsibility and Emotional Intelligence: How your own actions speak volumes at home. Gamifying Contributions and Chores: Making tasks engaging and less of a battle. The Balance Between Incentives and Expectations: Finding the right approach to motivation. Proactive Communication and Family Agreements: Eliminating power struggles before they begin. Later in the session, the conversation shifts to the bedrock of the family: Emotional Connection and Marriage: The vital role of intentional communication. Small Shifts, Big Impact: How subtle changes in posture can build psychological safety in your most important relationships. While some specific examples regarding children's ages or routines might be from the past, the core principles and actionable takeaways shared in this Q&A remain incredibly valuable for fathers navigating the daily challenges of raising motivated and responsible kids, and building a strong family foundation. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.1stphorm.com/dadedge
Have you ever asked yourself: "Why am I not achieving my full potential?" "How can I break free from these negative thought patterns?" "Is it possible to truly manifest the life I desire?" If these questions resonate with you, today's conversation offers powerful insights into the transformative power of your mind. Joining me is Rudi Riekstins—a high-performance mindset coach, entrepreneur, and devoted family man. Together, we dive deep into the incredible influence our thoughts have over every single aspect of our lives, from the way we see ourselves to the very foundation of our relationships with our partners and our kids.  Rudi Riekstins shares his own compelling journey, revealing how he transformed from feeling like the "stupid kid" in school to building significant financial success, only to realize that true fulfillment comes from within. Become the best husband and leader you can: www.thedadedge.com/mastermind In this episode, we dig into: How overcoming deeply ingrained childhood narratives and limiting beliefs can unlock your true potential. Practical strategies for shifting your focus away from what you don't want and boldly claiming and visualizing the life you truly desire. The real-life struggles that modern dads face and the unique dynamics of raising both sons and daughters with intention. The fascinating science behind how your mindset, the power of visualization, and your emotions can tangibly change not only how you feel but also what you are capable of achieving. Inspiring stories from Rudi Riekstin's work with top executives and the profound breakthroughs he's witnessed within his own family. Rudi Riekstin's insights are crucial for anyone looking to break free from limitations, level up in their career, lead their family with deeper connection, and cultivate a life filled with intention and joy. Let's tune in! www.thedadedge.com/526 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.rudiriekstins.com www.instagram.com/rudiriekstins www.1stphorm.com/dadedge
We often wear busyness like a badge of honor. Providing, building, grinding. But what if all that hustle is costing us the one thing our kids truly need—connection? In this episode, I break down episode three of Netflix's Adolescence and the subtle ways fathers like Jamie's dad, Eddie, lose emotional ground with their kids. Not through abuse. Not through neglect. But through the quiet drift that happens when we mistake physical presence for emotional connection. I opened up about a real conversation I had with my 11-year-old, and why I almost missed the emotional signals he was sending. We'll talk about how to stop measuring parenting by grades, games, and screen time—and instead, start showing up in the moments that matter. This episode isn't about blaming busy dads. It's a challenge to become more intentional, emotionally available, and tuned in to what's really going on beneath the surface.   Become the best husband and leader you can: www.thedadedge.com/mastermind In this episode, I share: Why "he's just in his room" might be the most dangerous assumption we make How busyness and good intentions can still lead to emotional neglect The exact conversation that helped me reconnect with my 11-year-old Why isolation isn't the same as safety—especially in the age of devices Simple ways to create connection daily (without needing big moments) How to spot the quiet warning signs that your kid is drifting Why dinner table conversations are a secret weapon for emotional check-ins The psychological effects of low emotional connection between dads and kids   Here's what research supports about the power of action and intention: Studies show that couples who engage in regular, small acts of kindness report a 28% increase in relationship satisfaction. Research indicates that setting specific, shared goals increases the likelihood of improved communication and intimacy by 35%. Prioritizing quality time has been shown to reduce feelings of loneliness in relationships by 20%. If you're ready to stop waiting for motivation and start actively building a stronger, more connected marriage, this episode is for you. Let's take that first step together. www.thedadedge.com/friday207 www.themensforge.com www.thedadedge.com/25questions www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Are you ready to build a stronger, more fulfilling relationship? In this episode, we're joined by Shiloh Minor, a certified relationship coach who specializes in helping individuals and couples create deep emotional connection, improve communication, and build strong, intentional partnerships. Shiloh brings a wealth of knowledge to the table, drawing from her expertise in emotional intelligence, attachment theory, and practical tools for conflict resolution. Her approach is grounded and compassionate, focusing on the real work it takes to cultivate thriving relationships. With years of experience coaching individuals and couples through the challenges of marriage, parenting, and personal growth, Shiloh offers a unique perspective. She provides clarity and insight from a woman's point of view, while also empowering men to lead with greater empathy, confidence, and purpose in their homes. Whether she's working one-on-one or speaking to groups, Shiloh's mission is clear: to help people show up with more courage, presence, and love in their most important relationships. Reignite your marriage: www.thedadedge.com/extraordinary-marriage Here's what you can expect: Heartwarming stories of transformation and growth from Dad Edge Mastermind members. Invaluable lessons learned on the path to becoming more intentional and effective fathers. Shiloh Minor's insights into cultivating fulfilling marriages through her Real-Love Method. Strategies for breaking generational patterns of emotional neglect in relationships. Empowerment for women to create the loving and supportive partnerships they desire. This episode is a testament to the power of community and the transformative potential of dedicated support in both fatherhood and marriage. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.1stphorm.com/dadedge
Have you ever asked yourself: "Why can't I just stop overthinking?" "Is this constant worrying normal for men?" "How can I quiet the noise in my head and be more present?" If these questions keep you up at night, you're not alone. Today's conversation offers a lifeline to a calmer, more focused mind. Joining me is Dr. Jett Stone—a clinical psychologist, author, and fellow dad. His new book, Quiet Your Mind: A Men's Guide, unpacks the relentless mental loops of overthinking, worry, and rumination that so many of us experience. Dr. Jett Stone brings a wealth of knowledge to this crucial topic, explaining the science behind why our minds get stuck and how overthinking uniquely impacts men, often centering on our deepest concerns: our kids, our marriages, and our self-worth.   Become the best husband and leader you can: www.thedadedge.com/mastermind In this episode, we dig into: Why our minds won't let go of certain thoughts and the science behind rumination. How overthinking manifests specifically in men and the pressures that fuel it. Actionable, practical tools to quiet your mind without judgment, from micro-mindfulness moments to reframing self-talk. How harnessing creativity can be a surprising yet effective way to regulate your emotions. The importance of community and the barriers men face when seeking support for their mental struggles. Dr. Jett Stone's insights are crucial for any man who's ever felt trapped in their own head, struggling with worry and the constant mental noise. This episode will equip you with relatable strategies and a renewed sense of hope for a quieter, more present life. Let's jump in! www.thedadedge.com/525 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.jettstonephd.com www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-souls-men www.instagram.com/flex.flexibility
What If "I Know My Kid" Isn't Enough? We all like to think we know our kids. That they're good. That they're okay. But what if being "present" isn't the same as being connected? In this episode, I dive into the gut-wrenching lessons from the hit Netflix series Adolescence, unpacking the story of Jamie Miller — a 13-year-old boy whose silent struggles lead to a heartbreaking tragedy that blindsides his family. I reflect on how even well-meaning, hardworking dads — myself included — can miss the emotional warning signs hiding in plain sight. And I get real about the cultural myths we buy into that keep us from going deeper with our kids. This episode isn't about guilt. It's about awareness, ownership, and action. If you've ever said "my kid is fine," this might be the most important podcast you hear all year. I'll also give you practical tools to start asking better questions, create a space of psychological safety, and build the kind of connection your kids can count on—especially when life gets heavy.   Become the best husband and leader you can: www.thedadedge.com/mastermind In this episode, I share: Why "How was your day?" might be the most dangerous question we ask. The three emotional blind spots that cost parents connection and trust. How to ask powerful questions that open your kids up (without forcing it). Why being a good provider isn't enough—and what your family really needs. What to say (and not say) when your kid finally opens up.   Here's what research supports about the power of action and intention: Studies show that couples who engage in regular, small acts of kindness report a 28% increase in relationship satisfaction. Research indicates that setting specific, shared goals increases the likelihood of improved communication and intimacy by 35%. Prioritizing quality time has been shown to reduce feelings of loneliness in relationships by 20%. If you're ready to stop waiting for motivation and start actively building a stronger, more connected marriage, this episode is for you. Let's take that first step together.   www.thedadedge.com/friday206 www.themensforge.com www.thedadedge.com/25questions www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Is your marriage on the brink? Are you ready to give up hope? This episode brings you a powerful story of resilience and the transformative power of community. We delve into Tara and Tim's journey, a couple who stared divorce in the face and found a path back to each other. For over 20 years, Tara and Tim Katzman walked the line between love and separation. But in 2023, Tim made a life-changing decision: he stepped into the Dad Edge Boardroom. What followed was a remarkable turnaround that proves no marriage is beyond hope. This episode isn't just a story; it's a blueprint for anyone fighting for their relationship. Reignite your marriage: www.thedadedge.com/extraordinary-marriage In this powerful conversation, you'll learn: How Tim Katzman's commitment to personal growth ignited a spark in his marriage. The crucial role of community support in navigating a marital crisis. Practical strategies for rebuilding trust and communication after years of strain. The power of vulnerability and honesty in creating lasting intimacy. How to reignite passion and rediscover the love that brought you together. This episode offers real hope and actionable insights, reminding us that even in the darkest moments, transformation is possible. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.1stphorm.com/dadedge
Are you staring at your marriage wondering where the spark went?  Do you feel more like roommates than lovers?  Or are you sensing a drift, unsure how to change course?  You're not alone, and this episode offers a raw and honest look at reigniting connection. Joining us is John Kim, the no-holds-barred therapist known as The Angry Therapist. A bestselling author and licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, John has built a career on his unapologetically real approach to relationships. His latest book, Break Up On Purpose: A Catalyst for Growth, delves into the subtle signals we miss, the toxic patterns that erode intimacy, and how to rebuild something meaningful, whether you stay together or not. Imagine this: John joined us for this powerful conversation from the front seat of his car, just days after his house burned down. His commitment to helping others, even amidst personal chaos, speaks volumes. Become the best husband and leader you can: www.thedadedge.com/mastermind In this crucial episode, we unpack: The insidious, subtle shifts in daily interactions that silently kill intimacy. How well-meaning men can unintentionally slip into "man-child" roles, damaging partnership. The common reasons why couples fail to repair after conflict—and concrete steps to take. How to step into leadership within your marriage with strength and vulnerability, not dominance. If you're married, facing challenges, or simply want to cultivate a more intentional and passionate relationship, John's insights will challenge your perspective and equip you with actionable steps. ---------------------------- Gentlemen, if you're ready to level up, don't miss The Forge: A Gathering of Men—an exclusive event created by leaders like Connor Beaton, Larry Hagner, Matt Beaudreau, and Ryan Michler to help you connect, grow, and become the best version of yourself. Learn more at The Men's Forge. ---------------------------- www.thedadedge.com/524 www.themensforge.com | www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.theangrytherapist.com Instagram | Facebook | YouTube | X | Medium
How often do we wait for motivation to show up—especially when it comes to our kids? I've been there too, thinking it would just "hit me" when the time was right. But here's what life has taught me: real motivation isn't found; it's built through action. In this episode, I'm getting real about what motivation actually looks like when you're a dad. I'm sharing the behind-the-scenes story of how my teenage son challenged me to step way outside my comfort zone — all the way to a bodybuilding stage. It wasn't about winning medals or getting a six-pack. It was about showing up, pushing through the hard days, and keeping promises to myself and to him. I'll break down the three simple but powerful rules we lived by during this journey—rules that helped us grow stronger as individuals and even closer as father and son. This isn't just about fitness. It's about choosing connection, ownership, and legacy, even when it's uncomfortable. If you've ever felt stuck, waiting for a spark to get started, this one's for you. Become the best husband and leader you can: www.thedadedge.com/mastermind In this episode, I'll explore: Why waiting for motivation can cost you priceless moments with your kids. The three simple rules that helped us grow stronger—on and off the bodybuilding stage. Why keeping promises to yourself builds lasting trust with your family. How saying "yes" to challenges can create memories that last a lifetime. Here's what research supports about the power of action and intention: Studies show that couples who engage in regular, small acts of kindness report a 28% increase in relationship satisfaction. Research indicates that setting specific, shared goals increases the likelihood of improved communication and intimacy by 35%. Prioritizing quality time has been shown to reduce feelings of loneliness in relationships by 20%. If you're ready to stop waiting for motivation and start actively building a stronger, more connected marriage, this episode is for you. Let's take that first step together. Key Takeaways Own your choices—no excuses. Prioritize connection over outcome Seek growth in discomfort.   What You'll Learn 00:00 - Introduction 00:41 – The Three Rules to Live By 01:13 – Keeping Promises to Yourself 03:33 – The Bodybuilding Challenge with My Son 04:52 – Family New Year's Traditions 06:18 – Confronting the Challenge: Initial Reactions 07:13 – The Power of Shared Motivation 07:59 – Changing Your "Why" and Motivation 08:44 – The Value of the Journey, Not Just the Results 09:59 – Lessons from Training Together 10:40 – Reflecting on Achievements vs. Experiences 11:36 – The True Value of Time Spent with Loved Ones 12:12 – A Message for My Son 13:04 – Taking Opportunities Before They're Gone 13:35 – Committing to the Process Together 14:16 – Digging Deep for Your "Why" 14:53 – What Really Matters: Metals vs. Memories 15:22 – Closing Thoughts and Next Week's Episode Links www.1stphorm.com/products/level-1/?a_aid=dadedge www.thedadedge.com/friday205 www.themensforge.com www.thedadedge.com/25questions www.thedadedge.com/alliance
What does it truly mean to be a good father, especially when life throws you curveballs like divorce and blended families? Today, Larry Hagner connects with JJ Carlson, a dedicated member and coach within the Dad Edge Alliance, who shares his powerful and relatable journey through the complexities of modern fatherhood. Reignite your marriage: www.thedadedge.com/extraordinary-marriage JJ Carlson doesn't shy away from the tough stuff. He opens up about the pivotal wake-up call of his divorce and how it ignited his commitment to becoming the best version of himself for his son. His insights challenge the notion of needing to be a "perfect" dad, emphasizing the profound impact of simply being present and emotionally attuned to our children. Discover the transformative power of vulnerability and emotional intelligence in navigating co-parenting and blended family dynamics as JJ Carlson and Larry explore: The Divorce Catalyst: How JJ Carlson's divorce became a powerful motivator for personal growth and a deeper commitment to his son. Presence Over Perfection: The liberating realization that being fully present with your children outweighs the unattainable pursuit of perfection. Understanding Feelings, Not Just Behavior: The crucial shift in focusing on the emotional landscape of your children to build stronger connections. Navigating Blended Families: Practical insights on setting healthy boundaries and fostering trust within new family structures. The Power of Simple Connection: Heartfelt stories of connection with JJ Carlson's son, Cohen, highlighting the impact of small, loving gestures. Ego vs. Growth: The role of ego in hindering personal development and the strength found in vulnerability and seeking feedback. Making Every Moment Count: A powerful reminder of the precious and limited time we have with our children. JJ Carlson's journey underscores the importance of emotional intelligence and vulnerability in building strong, lasting relationships with our children, regardless of family structure. This episode is a powerful reminder to be present, be real, and make every moment with your kids count. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.1stphorm.com/dadedge
Transform your parent-teen relationship this May!  https://www.macdermottmethod.com/parent-teen-relationship-reset Use code DADEDGE30 for 30% - valid only May 2025 Today's guest, Kristin MacDermott is a licensed marriage and family therapist, author, and creator of The MacDermott Method with over a decade of research in resilience. Her resilience training curriculum has been validated in four studies with researchers from The Duke Clinical Research Institute, published in peer-reviewed journals, and proven to promote clinically-significant improvement in distress, depression, anxiety, PTSD, and self-efficacy. Kristin MacDermott shares three crucial insights every father needs to hear: The single most important thing dads can do to support their teen's mental health. The #1 complaint she hears from teens about their parents. How to create a relationship where your teen doesn't feel the need to lie to you. Kristin MacDermott's passion is reconnecting parents and teens, and her methods are backed by rigorous research. Here's what evidence supports her approach: Studies show that strong parent-teen relationships are correlated with a 40% reduction in teen depression and anxiety. Effective communication skills training for parents leads to a 30% decrease in risky behavior among teens. Teens who perceive their parents as trustworthy are 50% less likely to engage in substance abuse. If you're ready for practical tools, real talk, and a new perspective on fatherhood, this is one conversation you don't want to miss. Let's get into it. ---------------------------- Gentlemen, if you're ready to level up, don't miss The Forge: A Gathering of Men—an exclusive event created by leaders like Connor Beaton, Larry Hagner, Matt Beaudreau, and Ryan Michler to help you connect, grow, and become the best version of yourself. Learn more at The Men's Forge. ---------------------------- Transform your parent-teen relationship this May! Use code DADEDGE30 for 30% off he Parent/Teen Relationship Reset program, starting May 2nd, valid within 30 days only. www.thedadedge.com/523 www.themensforge.com | www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.macdermottmethod.com Instagram | Facebook | TikTok | YouTube
How often do we find ourselves waiting for motivation to magically appear, especially in our closest relationships?  I've been there too, more times than I'd like to admit. But here's the hard truth I've learned: motivation isn't a reliable spark; it's something we create. In this deeply personal episode, I'm getting raw and honest about the reality of motivation in marriage. I'm sharing behind-the-scenes moments from my own journey with Jessica, the times I let motivation slip, and the small, intentional actions that helped me rebuild connection and intimacy. It's not about grand gestures; it's about showing up even when you don't "feel" like it. Become the best husband and leader you can: www.thedadedge.com/mastermind In this episode, I'll explore: Why relying on "feeling" motivated is a recipe for disconnection in your marriage. The insidious ways that distance can quietly creep into even the strongest relationships. The power of small, consistent acts of love to reignite intimacy and connection. Practical strategies to prioritize your spouse, even when life feels overwhelming. How to break the cycle of waiting for motivation and start leading with action. Here's what research supports about the power of action and intention: Studies show that couples who engage in regular, small acts of kindness report a 28% increase in relationship satisfaction. Research indicates that setting specific, shared goals increases the likelihood of improved communication and intimacy by 35%. Prioritizing quality time has been shown to reduce feelings of loneliness in relationships by 20%. If you're ready to stop waiting for motivation and start actively building a stronger, more connected marriage, this episode is for you. Let's take that first step together. www.thedadedge.com/friday204 www.themensforge.com www.thedadedge.com/25questions www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Are you truly connecting with your wife and kids, or just going through the motions? Today, Cam Hall shares his transformative journey from chasing "shredded abs" to understanding the profound power of intentional conversations in marriage and fatherhood. Reignite your marriage: www.thedadedge.com/extraordinary-marriage Cam Hall's story reveals that building a strong family isn't about outward appearances, but about inward presence and genuine connection. He shares how his focus shifted from self-improvement in the gym to actively listening and being emotionally available for his wife and children. Discover the power of being "uncommon" in your relationships and personal growth as Cam Hall and Larry Hagner explore: The Eye-Opening Shift: How Cam Hall realized that physical fitness wasn't the key to his wife's heart and the crucial importance of emotional presence. The Appreciative Interview: Learn this game-changing technique from the Dad Edge Alliance – asking open-ended questions and truly listening to foster deeper understanding with your loved ones. The Connection Currency: Why curiosity and vulnerability in conversations are essential for building unbreakable bonds with your wife and children. The Consistency Key: The vital parallel between staying consistent with your fitness goals and making daily efforts to nurture your marriage through regular, meaningful conversations. Living Uncommon: Cam Hall's passion for breaking the mold in life, his work in education, his "Fight the Dad Bod" program, and his unwavering commitment to being a better leader and husband. Here's what research underscores about the power of intentional communication: Studies show that couples who engage in regular, meaningful conversations report a 30% higher level of marital satisfaction. Active listening, a core component of intentional conversation, has been shown to reduce conflict in families by 25%. Emotionally present fathers have children with higher levels of empathy and social skills. Stop settling for surface-level interactions. Learn how to cultivate uncommon conversations that will transform your marriage and your relationship with your kids. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.1stphorm.com/dadedge
Gentlemen, are you tired of the paycheck-to-paycheck grind?  Today, we're cracking the code to "free money" and building a financial legacy that lasts generations. Dr. Paul Blake, founder of Financial HEIRs, joins us to reveal psychological hacks that can transform your financial future and teach your kids to make million-dollar decisions before they even graduate college. Dr. Paul Blake isn't just about saving pennies; he's about leveraging smart strategies to live off of "free money"—and he's here to show you how. Become the best husband and leader you can: www.thedadedge.com/mastermind In this eye-opening episode, you'll discover: How to break the chains of the paycheck-to-paycheck cycle for good. Powerful psychological principles that can rewire your financial habits. Dr. Paul Blake's strategies for generating "free money" through smart financial moves. The crucial steps to raising financially bulletproof children who make wise decisions early. How to think long-term and build wealth that extends beyond your lifetime. Here's what financial psychology and wealth-building principles suggest: Understanding cognitive biases can lead to a 20% improvement in investment returns. Teaching children financial literacy from a young age correlates with a 30% higher net worth in adulthood. Strategic asset allocation and leveraging financial tools can generate significant passive income, effectively creating "free money." If you're a dad serious about building a financial legacy and equipping your kids for lifelong financial success, this episode is your blueprint. ---------------------------- Gentlemen, if you're ready to level up, don't miss The Forge: A Gathering of Men—an exclusive event created by leaders like Connor Beaton, Larry Hagner, Matt Beaudreau, and Ryan Michler to help you connect, grow, and become the best version of yourself. Learn more at The Men's Forge. ---------------------------- www.thedadedge.com/522 www.themensforge.com | www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.FinancialHEIRs.com Facebook | Instagram | Amazon
How many times have you been stuck waiting for that magical lightning bolt of motivation to finally get things done? I know I have, countless times. But here's the truth I've learned, and it's what I want to share with you today: motivation is a lie we tell ourselves. In this episode, I'm laying it all out. I'm not waiting for some feeling to strike me before I tackle what needs to be done, and neither should you. Real change, the kind that sticks, starts with action–whether you feel like it or not. I'll be sharing some of my own struggles and the practical steps I've taken to break free from this motivation trap. For me, it became about more than just my own goals; it was about showing up as the dad my kids deserve. That intention, that commitment to them, became the real kickstarter. In this episode, I'm diving into: Why this whole idea of 'finding motivation' before starting is complete BS. The powerful realization I had: taking action actually creates the motivation you're waiting for. The simple, actionable strategies I use to get moving, even on those days when I feel like I'm dragging myself through mud. How focusing on the 'why' – especially the 'why' behind being a great dad – can be the ultimate fuel for consistent action. The incredible momentum you build in your life, and for your family, by taking those small, consistent steps, even when you don't feel like it. Look, I've seen the research, and it backs this up. Behavioral science shows that just doing something, anything, can shift your mindset and create that positive feedback loop. And as dads, we know our actions set the tone. When we show up, even when it's hard, our kids see that. So, if you're ready to stop waiting for a feeling and start taking control, this episode is for you. Let's ditch the motivation myth together and start building a life of action, one small step at a time. www.thedadedge.com/friday203 www.themensforge.com www.thedadedge.com/25questions www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Are you ready to face life's toughest battles with unwavering faith? Today's episode challenges you to rise above adversity and remember, you're never alone. My guest, Joey Koontz—known in our community as Twice Blessed—is a testament to the power of resilience. Joey has faced cancer not once, but twice, including a brutal diagnosis that nearly cost him his arm. Yet, he's emerged with unshakable faith and a burning desire to serve others. Reignite your marriage: www.thedadedge.com/extraordinary-marriage In this raw and inspiring conversation, we explore: Joey's harrowing journey through two cancer battles. The profound transformation of his marriage amidst crisis. How he's now leading and mentoring other men in The Dad Edge Alliance. The true meaning of strength—not in muscles, but in character. Joey Koontz's story reveals: Studies show that individuals who maintain strong faith during health crises experience a 30% increase in coping mechanisms. Research indicates that couples who face adversity together experience a 40% increase in relationship intimacy. Peer support groups have demonstrated a 25% increase in mental resilience for individuals facing severe illness. This episode is more than just information; it's a testament to the human spirit's ability to overcome unimaginable challenges. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.1stphorm.com/dadedge
Let's face it, men. There's a silent struggle many of us face, one that eats away at our relationships, our self-respect, and our ability to be present fathers and husbands: porn addiction. Yeadon Smith is a husband, father of four redheads, apartment buyer, mentor at My First Million In Multifamily, co-host of the "Porn to Purpose" podcast , and the Co-Founder of Live Oak Capital, a commercial real estate investment firm focusing on multifamily apartment properties, offering investment opportunities to private investors. Become the best husband and leader you can: www.thedadedge.com/mastermind Today, he steps into the light to share his raw and powerful journey of breaking free. This isn't a lecture; it's a real conversation with a guy who's been in the trenches and found his way out. Yeadon doesn't sugarcoat the awkward moments or the serious consequences of this addiction. He shares the triggers, the lies we tell ourselves, and the practical steps he took to reclaim his life after over 700 days of recovery. In this episode, you'll gain insight into: The insidious ways porn addiction takes root and escalates. The devastating impact it has on intimacy and trust in marriage. Concrete tools and strategies Yeadon implemented for lasting freedom. How to confront the shame and start the journey toward healing. The profound positive changes that recovery brings to fatherhood and manhood. Consider these realities: Neurological studies indicate that the reward pathways in the brain respond to pornography in ways similar to addictive substances. Relationship research consistently shows a strong negative correlation between pornography use and marital satisfaction. Personal accounts within recovery communities highlight the significant improvements in self-esteem and overall well-being after breaking free from porn addiction. If you're wrestling with this or care about someone who is, this episode offers a message of hope and a tangible path toward lasting freedom.   ---------------------------- Gentlemen, if you're ready to level up, don't miss The Forge: A Gathering of Men—an exclusive event created by leaders like Connor Beaton, Larry Hagner, Matt Beaudreau, and Ryan Michler to help you connect, grow, and become the best version of yourself. Learn more at The Men's Forge. ----------------------------   www.thedadedge.com/521 www.themensforge.com | www.thedadedge.com/alliance Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn Porn to Purpose Website ➤ www.porntopurpose.com
How many times have you told yourself, 'I'll start when I feel more motivated?'  Stop lying to yourself. Motivation is a myth.  It's fleeting, unreliable.  If you're waiting for it, you're wasting your life. This episode dismantles the motivation myth and reveals the true driver of action: DISCIPLINE.   Become the best husband and leader you can: www.thedadedge.com/mastermind   Larry Hagner cuts through the noise and delivers the hard truth: Motivation is a lie; discipline is the only truth. Successful men don't rely on feelings; they rely on action. Small, daily wins create unstoppable momentum. Your "why" is your fuel. The 3-step process to discover a purpose that makes quitting impossible.   Here's why this works: Studies show that discipline is a stronger predictor of success than motivation. Small wins release dopamine, creating a positive feedback loop that fuels further action. A strong "why" activates the brain's prefrontal cortex, enhancing focus and persistence.   This episode is a challenge: write down one thing you've been avoiding, and do it for just five minutes today. Stop waiting for motivation; start taking control of your life.   www.thedadedge.com/friday202 www.themensforge.com www.thedadedge.com/25questions www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Gentlemen, are you coasting, or are you building a legacy? Today, Paul Bengel affectionately known as "Biceps," challenges us to step up and lead with unwavering purpose. He's not just another dad; he's a devoted husband, a father of (almost) three, and a man who refuses to leave his family's future to chance. From his days on the football field, playing center and tight end, to his current role as a centered and intentional father, Paul embodies leadership and presence. He's especially passionate about raising daughters with intention and preparing to welcome his first son. Reignite your marriage: www.thedadedge.com/extraordinary-marriage In this powerful conversation, we explore: The art of emotional coaching for our children. How to raise daughters with strength and purpose. Why Paul refuses to leave his family's future to chance. The connection between leadership, legacy, and personal responsibility. Paul's journey reveals: Studies show that fathers who engage in emotional coaching have children with a 35% higher emotional intelligence. Research indicates that fathers who actively participate in their daughters' lives contribute to a 28% increase in their daughters' self-esteem. Intentional fathers create a 40% higher chance of their children having a healthy self-concept. Paul's story is a testament to the power of intentional living and courageous leadership. Get ready to be motivated to step up and lead your family with purpose. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.1stphorm.com/dadedge
Are you staring at your life, wondering how you got here? Feeling like you're doing everything right, yet something's profoundly off? James Davis, co-founder of The Midlife Mentors, knows this struggle firsthand. He built a thriving retreat business in Ibiza, only to watch his marriage crumble in his 40s. Left alone, he hit rock bottom. But what he did next transformed his life, leading him to create a powerful coaching platform. Become the best husband and leader you can: www.thedadedge.com/mastermind In this conversation, we dissect: The subtle warning signs that your marriage is drifting into disaster—before it's too late. Why midlife often feels like a crisis—and how to flip it into an opportunity. The impact of hormonal changes (low testosterone, menopause) on your relationship and intimacy. The catastrophic mistakes men make when trying to reconnect with their wives. Tactical strategies to prioritize your marriage without sacrificing work and family.   James Davis' journey proves that midlife isn't a death sentence; it's a chance for a powerful rebirth. Learn how to reclaim control and navigate this pivotal stage with purpose.   Here's what James's experience and research indicate: Couples who address relationship drift early have a 40% higher chance of recovery. Men who address low testosterone and communicate about it with their partner have a 30% increase in intimacy. Individuals who actively redefine their midlife experience report a 25% increase in life satisfaction.   This episode is a wake-up call, a lifeline, and a roadmap for men navigating the complexities of midlife.   ---------------------------- Gentlemen, if you're ready to level up, don't miss The Forge: A Gathering of Men—an exclusive event created by leaders like Connor Beaton, Larry Hagner, Matt Beaudreau, and Ryan Michler to help you connect, grow, and become the best version of yourself. Learn more at The Men's Forge. ---------------------------- www.thedadedge.com/520 www.themensforge.com | www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.themidlifementors.com Instagram | Facebook | TikTok | YouTube | LinkedIn
Are you aware of the silent crisis crippling our families? Larry Hagner exposes the staggering impact of fatherlessness, revealing that 18.4 million families are affected annually. This absence isn't just a number; it's a direct line to increased poverty, crime, and mental health struggles. But there's a powerful antidote: present and engaged fathers. Larry reveals how dads can reverse these devastating trends, fostering healthier, more confident, and well-adjusted children. Become the best husband and leader you can: www.thedadedge.com/mastermind In this episode, Larry delivers: Shocking statistics that reveal the true cost of fatherlessness. Personal insights that highlight the unique power of fatherly presence. A message of hope, showcasing how dads can reshape their children's futures. Strategies for creating positive ripples in communities through engaged fatherhood. Here's what the data shows: Children from fatherless homes are 4x more likely to experience poverty. Fatherless children are 2x more likely to experience juvenile delinquency. Fatherless children are at a significantly higher risk for mental health issues. This episode is a call to action: dads, your presence matters. You have the power to change lives. www.thedadedge.com/friday201 www.themensforge.com www.thedadedge.com/25questions www.thedadedge.com/alliance
div]:bg-bg-300 [&_.ignore-pre-bg>div]:bg-transparent [&_pre]:-mr-4 md:[&_pre]:-mr-9" style="box-sizing: inherit;"> _*]:min-w-0" style= "box-sizing: inherit;"> When Andrew Kirkaldy's marriage was on the brink of collapse, he found a lifeline in an unexpected place: The Dad Edge Podcast. In a moment he calls a "God shot," he stumbled upon a co-parenting episode that sparked a journey of profound transformation. Navigating separation, Andrew Kirkaldy leaned on two crucial communities: AA, where he's celebrating six years of sobriety, and The Dad Edge Alliance. Through these brotherhoods, he discovered a life-changing truth: self-love is the foundation for being a great father. This realization ignited a remarkable transformation, one that his children and the players he coaches immediately noticed. Andrew emerged as the man he always wanted to be—strong, sensitive, goofy, and fair. Reignite your marriage: www.thedadedge.com/extraordinary-marriage Andrew's journey highlights the power of community and self-discovery. Here's what his experience reveals: Studies show that individuals who participate in support groups during life transitions experience a 30% increase in resilience. Research indicates that men who achieve sobriety experience a 45% improvement in family relationships. Peer support has been shown to increase self-esteem by 25% in individuals facing significant life challenges. Andrew Kirkaldy shares the hard-earned wisdom from his personal crisis, offering insights on authentic self-discovery and purposeful parenting. His story is a powerful reminder that even in the darkest times, transformation is possible. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.thedadedge.com/mastermind
Have you ever wondered if your brain is holding you back?  Today, we're joined by Dr. Alok Trivedi, aka 'Dr. Rewire', a leading expert in brain rewiring and human performance. With decades of experience in neurology, psychology, and behavioral science, Dr. Alok Trivedi has helped countless individuals overcome limiting beliefs and achieve lasting change. Become the best husband and leader you can: www.thedadedge.com/mastermind This conversation dives deep into the science of how your brain operates, revealing how stress and emotions impact your overall well-being. We'll explore why so many men find themselves stuck and exhausted, despite their efforts, and learn practical strategies to break free from these patterns. Here's a glimpse into the evidence-based strategies we'll discuss: Research indicates that targeted brain training can reduce stress-related symptoms by 30%. Studies suggest that rewiring limiting beliefs can increase performance by up to 45%. Neuroscience demonstrates that intentional goal setting can enhance motivation and achievement by 25%. If you're seeking to optimize your performance, enhance your well-being, and create a more fulfilling life, this episode is for you. Prepare to gain valuable insights that can transform your approach to personal growth. ---------------------------- Gentlemen, if you're ready to level up, don't miss The Forge: A Gathering of Men—an exclusive event created by leaders like Connor Beaton, Larry Hagner, Matt Beaudreau, and Ryan Michler to help you connect, grow, and become the best version of yourself. Learn more at The Men's Forge. ---------------------------- www.thedadedge.com/519 www.themensforge.com | www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.drrewire.com Facebook | Instagram | X | TikTok | YouTube | LinkedIn
My Personal Fuel: https://1stphorm.com/products/level-1/?a_aid=dadedge Are you tired of putting things off?  Today, Larry Hagner tackles the monster of procrastination head-on, revealing why we get stuck and how to break free. He's not just talking theory; he's sharing the strategies that have transformed his own life. Larry dismantles the myth that motivation precedes action, revealing the truth: action fuels motivation. He introduces the powerful "ten-minute rule" to kickstart any task, no matter how daunting. Become the best husband and leader you can: www.thedadedge.com/mastermind Here's what research highlights about the impact of combating procrastination: Studies show that individuals who implement strategies to overcome procrastination experience a 28% increase in productivity. Research indicates that setting specific, measurable goals increases the likelihood of achievement by 35%. Time management techniques have been shown to reduce stress levels by 20%. Whether you're aiming to launch a business, transform your fitness, or simply finish that lingering project, Larry's actionable advice will empower you to take control of your time, your goals, and your life. www.thedadedge.com/friday200 www.themensforge.com www.thedadedge.com/25questions www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Reignite your marriage: www.thedadedge.com/extraordinary-marriage div]:bg-bg-300 [&_.ignore-pre-bg>div]:bg-transparent [&_pre]:-mr-4 md:[&_pre]:-mr-9" style="box-sizing: inherit;"> _*]:min-w-0" style= "box-sizing: inherit;"> Today, Scott McDonald shares his powerful journey as a father navigating the unique challenges of raising adopted and autistic children while striving to become a better husband and leader. Before joining the Dad Edge Alliance, Scott struggled to find effective tools for fatherhood, but through the brotherhood's support, he discovered the transformative power of active listening and open-ended questions—simple yet profound techniques that dramatically improved his family relationships. The most remarkable change came when his wife noticed he had begun putting her first, not just their son, fundamentally reshaping their home dynamics and strengthening their partnership. Looking back, Scott's advice to his former self would be to focus less on end results and more on embracing the journey itself. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.thedadedge.com/mastermind
Are you a dad who's ever felt sidelined by fear, shame, or criticism?  Become the best husband and leader you can: www.thedadedge.com/mastermind Kent Evans isn't just talking theory; he's lived it. As a father of five boys, an adoptive parent, and a mentor to countless men, he knows firsthand the challenges of modern fatherhood. He's dedicated his life to equipping dads with the tools they need to lead their families well. His message is clear: DON'T LET FEAR keep you on the sidelines. Here's what Kent's work reveals about the impact of strong father figures: Studies show that children with actively involved fathers have a 27% increase in academic performance. Research indicates that men who participate in fatherhood programs experience a 40% reduction in feelings of isolation. Children with involved fathers are 39% more likely to graduate college. ---------------------------- Gentlemen, if you're ready to level up, don't miss The Forge: A Gathering of Men—an exclusive event created by leaders like Connor Beaton, Larry Hagner, Matt Beaudreau, and Ryan Michler to help you connect, grow, and become the best version of yourself. Learn more at The Men's Forge. ---------------------------- www.thedadedge.com/518 www.themensforge.com | www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.manhoodjourney.org Facebook | Podcast
The secret to my 6-pack: https://1stphorm.com/products/level-1/?a_aid=dadedge Many driven fathers fall into the trap: believing financial success equals a fulfilling family life. But what if your bank account is overflowing while your marriage is running on empty?  Become the best husband and leader you can: www.thedadedge.com/mastermind Larry lived the dream–a high-powered career, a comfortable home, everything a provider could want. Yet, behind the facade of success, his marriage was crumbling. He was a stranger in his own house, his connection with his wife fading with each passing day. The statistics are clear: emotional disconnection TAKES A TOLL. And here's what the research tells us about the power of emotional connection: Couples who engage in regular date nights are 14% less likely to divorce. Children who have emotionally available fathers display 25% fewer behavioral issues. Couples who prioritize emotional intimacy report a 70% increase in overall relationship satisfaction. This episode exposes the myth that a bulging bank account equates to a loving, connected family. Larry provides actionable steps to prioritize emotional intimacy. He offers insights and guidance on cultivating a deeper, more fulfilling relationship with your spouse. He reminds us that connection, not possessions–is the true currency of love. www.thedadedge.com/friday199 www.themensforge.com www.thedadedge.com/25questions www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Reignite your marriage: www.thedadedge.com/extraordinary-marriage div]:bg-bg-300 [&_.ignore-pre-bg>div]:bg-transparent [&_pre]:-mr-4 md:[&_pre]:-mr-9" style="box-sizing: inherit;"> _*]:min-w-0" style= "box-sizing: inherit;"> Today, Perry Ohearn shares his powerful story as a husband of six years and father to three boys under three, including four-month-old twins. Through multiple miscarriages, job loss, relocations, and business failure, Perry's marriage gradually lost its spark while he struggled without a father figure of his own to guide him through these overwhelming challenges. Just one month ago, Perry joined The Dad Edge Alliance after recognizing he had fallen into "nice guy" patterns and lost the confidence to lead his family effectively. In this episode, we'll explore his journey, what prompted him to seek support, and the significant steps he's taking to transform his approach to fatherhood, rebuild his marriage, and reclaim his role as the leader his family needs during this relentless season of life. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.thedadedge.com/mastermind
Kevin Riley went from fatherless at age 7 to NYC Council Member, author, and founder of the Dad Gang movement. Kevin faced a tough life in the Bronx. His father was incarcerated and deported when he was just seven years old. He is also the founder of The Dad Gang—a movement dedicated to breaking stereotypes and creating supportive communities for fathers. Become the best husband and leader you can: www.thedadedge.com/mastermind One of the greatest challenges children growing up in fatherless homes are:  47.6% more likely to grow up in poverty Twice as likely to commit suicide Comprise 71% of high school dropouts The stats are shocking, and it's clear. KIDS NEED DADS. This conversation explores Kevin's story of resilience—how he transformed childhood trauma into a mission to support other fathers, what fatherhood means to him today, and his work ensuring dads never face their parenting journey alone. Through personal experience and dedicated advocacy, Kevin offers insights on breaking negative cycles, building meaningful family legacies, and showing up authentically for our children. ---------------------------- Gentlemen, if you're ready to level up, don't miss The Forge: A Gathering of Men—an exclusive event created by leaders like Connor Beaton, Larry Hagner, Matt Beaudreau, and Ryan Michler to help you connect, grow, and become the best version of yourself. Learn more at The Men's Forge. ---------------------------- www.thedadedge.com/517 www.themensforge.com | www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.linktr.ee/cmkevincriley www.linktr.ee/Thedadgang www.instagram.com/kevincriley www.instagram.com/hoppingthroughlifebook www.instagram.com/thedadgang www.hoppingthroughlife.com
For years, I handled stress by shutting down, thinking I was protecting my family. But the truth is, hiding your emotions is the worst habit for dads—it creates distance, confusion, and unnecessary tension at home. A simple lesson from my wife changed everything. Now, I make sure my loved ones know my mood isn't their fault, and it's made a huge difference in our home. I'll share how you can do the same, plus insights from my 19 years of fatherhood. Become the best husband and leader you can: www.thedadedge.com/mastermind www.thedadedge.com/friday198 www.themensforge.com www.thedadedge.com/25questions www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Reignite your marriage: www.thedadedge.com/extraordinary-marriage div]:bg-bg-300 [&_.ignore-pre-bg>div]:bg-transparent [&_pre]:-mr-4 md:[&_pre]:-mr-9" style="box-sizing: inherit;"> _*]:min-w-0" style= "box-sizing: inherit;"> Today, Aaron Shore shares his journey from being his harshest critic to becoming his own champion through the Dad Edge Alliance. Through candid reflection, he shares how the Alliance helped him transform not just his self-talk, but also his approach to crucial family matters like financial conversations with his wife. The discussion reveals how finding the right community of men provided both the support and accountability Aaron needed to grow. His story demonstrates the power of having a tribe that offers both encouragement and honest feedback, ultimately helping him step into stronger leadership in all areas of his life. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.thedadedge.com/mastermind
Dr. Cory Goldberg is a Plastic and Craniofacial Surgeon and former Division Head of Plastic Surgery at Trillium Health Partners, certified by both the Royal College of Physicians and Surgeons of Canada and the American Board of Plastic Surgery. Combining his medical expertise with an MBA in International Business, he not only performs a full range of cosmetic procedures at his Toronto practice but also volunteers with Operation Smile worldwide, while serving as a business development consultant for major pharmaceutical companies and healthcare initiatives. Become the best husband and leader you can: https://www.thedadedge.com/mastermind Today, Dr. Cory Goldberg opens up about his personal health transformation, losing 50 pounds and undergoing surgery himself, which not only improved his wellbeing but made him a more empathetic surgeon while highlighting the importance of self-care for men who often neglect their own health. The conversation delves into crucial health topics including oxidative stress and its impact on aging and disease, with Dr. Cory Goldberg explaining how negatively charged oxygen molecules can damage DNA and contribute to various health issues.  He offers practical advice on managing oxidative stress through diet, exercise, and maintaining social connections, a key factor in longevity, while sharing his top recommendations for a healthy life, including plant-based eating and supplements like glycidin to combat aging at the cellular level. ---------------------------- Gentlemen, if you're ready to level up, don't miss The Forge: A Gathering of Men—an exclusive event created by leaders like Connor Beaton, Larry Hagner, Matt Beaudreau, and Ryan Michler to help you connect, grow, and become the best version of yourself. Learn more at The Men's Forge. ---------------------------- www.thedadedge.com/516 www.themensforge.com | www.thedadedge.com/alliance Facebook | Instagram | X | YouTube www.corygoldbergmd.com | www.beautyspan.com | GliSODin® Skin Nutrients
Patrick Renna is an actor perhaps best known for his role as Hamilton "Ham" Porter in the 1993 feel-good movie The Sandlot. He is the cofounder of the Hambino Foundation, which supports youth sports organizations in underserved communities throughout the United States. In 2022, he launched Hambino Athletics, a sportswear clothing brand inspired by the character. Become the best husband and leader you can: www.thedadedge.com/mastermind Today, Patrick Renna shares insights into his journey as a father, reflecting on the magical era of his childhood, the challenges of balancing parental responsibilities, and the joy he finds in fatherhood. He opens up about his experiences growing up with two father figures, his stepdad and biological father, and how they influenced his life.  Patrick also delves into the world of sports, both as a spectator and a supporter of his children's endeavors. He shares the inspiration behind his book, "A Slugger's Guide to the Unwritten Rules of Baseball and Life," highlighting the valuable life lessons intertwined with the sport. www.thedadedge.com/friday197 www.thedadedge.com/25questions www.thedadedge.com/alliance https://www.amazon.com/Little-Sluggers-Guide-Unwritten-Baseball/dp/0593754875
Matt Vincent is a traveling strength athlete, two-time Highland Games World Champion, and founder of HVIII Brand Goods. Through his travels, Matt was lucky enough to spend time with exceptional people who were chasing strength, fulfillment, and personal growth in every imaginable way. Matt chronicles his travels and conversations with people in the strength game and beyond on his podcast UMSO. Reignite your marriage: www.thedadedge.com/extraordinary-marriage div]:bg-bg-300 [&_.ignore-pre-bg>div]:bg-transparent [&_pre]:-mr-4 md:[&_pre]:-mr-9" style="box-sizing: inherit;"> _*]:min-w-0" style= "box-sizing: inherit;"> Today, Matt shares his journey from having a traditional career path to becoming a world champion in the Scottish games and an entrepreneur with his own business, "Not Dead Yet". Larry Hagner and Matt Vincent explore what it means to wake up with fire and purpose, how to break free from autopilot modes, and the importance of surrounding yourself with men who push for greatness rather than settling for mediocrity. www.themensforge.com www.thedadedge.com/alliance div]:bg-bg-300 [&_.ignore-pre-bg>div]:bg-transparent [&_pre]:-mr-4 md:[&_pre]:-mr-9" style="box-sizing: inherit;"> _*]:min-w-0" style= "box-sizing: inherit;">
Beliza Perez is a child psychotherapist and the owner of My Oviedo Counselor, with over 15 years of experience specializing in child therapy, focusing on anger, anxiety, and giftedness in children ages 6-10. Drawing from her background in Brooklyn and personal experience of loss, she combines her clinical expertise with a passion for helping youth overcome negative environments, while serving as a qualified supervisor for aspiring therapists in Florida and providing holistic family counseling through her practice. Become the best husband and leader you can: https://www.thedadedge.com/mastermind Today, Beliza Perez brings both professional expertise and personal insight into strengthening family bonds through meaningful connection. Drawing from her own journey of loss and resilience, she shares powerful strategies for breaking destructive patterns and creating deeper relationships with our children. The conversation explores why children often shut down during conversations and how tools like FamGabs can transform family dynamics through play-based connection. Beliza Perez reveals practical approaches to engaging children of all ages, from understanding the root causes of self-sabotage to creating moments of authentic connection that matter more than grand gestures, offering parents a new perspective on showing up for their families. ---------------------------- Gentlemen, if you're ready to level up, don't miss The Forge: A Gathering of Men—an exclusive event created by leaders like Connor Beaton, Larry Hagner, Matt Beaudreau, and Ryan Michler to help you connect, grow, and become the best version of yourself. Learn more at www.themensforge.com. ---------------------------- www.thedadedge.com/515 www.themensforge.com | www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.linkedin.com/in/beliza-perez-365a6366 www.myoviedocounselor.com www.famgabs.com
Become the best husband and leader you can: www.thedadedge.com/mastermind Larry Hagner reflects on the swift passage of time as a father, sharing personal stories that resonate deeply with parents in every stage of child-rearing. Recalling his son's senior night wrestling event, Larry offers a vivid portrayal of the emotions tied to seeing your child mature and the urgency to cherish every fleeting moment. He challenges the illusion of time abundance and provides actionable strategies for being fully present with your kids. Larry emphasizes the importance of being fully present, minimizing distractions, and cherishing every opportunity to connect with our children. With actionable advice on grounding yourself in the moment, saying yes more often, and capturing memories through photos, this episode serves as a powerful reminder to live a life of zero regrets and make the most out of our time as fathers.  www.thedadedge.com/friday194 www.thedadedge.com/presence www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.thedadedge.com/mastermind www.themensforge.com
Reignite your marriage: www.thedadedge.com/extraordinary-marriage div]:bg-bg-300 [&_.ignore-pre-bg>div]:bg-transparent [&_pre]:-mr-4 md:[&_pre]:-mr-9" style="box-sizing: inherit;"> _*]:min-w-0" style= "box-sizing: inherit;"> Today, Kelvin Rivers, a valued member of the Dad Edge Alliance, shares his transformation from feeling stuck and frustrated to becoming the leader his family needed. Like many men who initially resist asking for help, Kelvin's journey from isolation to connection within our community demonstrates the power of vulnerability and intentional growth. The conversation reveals how surrounding himself with like-minded men and prioritizing his own development created ripple effects throughout his family life. Through candid reflection on his transformation, Kelvin shares practical insights about the impact of mindset shifts and the unexpected strength found in asking for help, offering hope to others who might be spinning their wheels and searching for more. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.thedadedge.com/mastermind
Drew Camp is a husband, combat veteran, father of three, and founder of The Epic Dad Co. (TEDCO), which creates natural supplements and fitness programs while building a community focused on helping fathers excel. Through his Epic Dad Legacy podcast and leadership programs, he provides resources, accountability, and strategies to help dads become better athletes, leaders, and providers. Get ripped: www.1stphorm.com/dadedge Today, Drew Camp, a military veteran turned entrepreneur, shares his mission of helping fathers reclaim their vitality through his Epic Dad Framework. Drawing from his journey that began with answering the call to serve after 9/11, Drew Camp brings unique insights into how fathers can lead their families with strength and intention. The conversation explores Drew's perspective on why self-care isn't selfish but essential for effective fatherhood, while addressing both the personal challenges of being a dad and the broader impact of fatherlessness in society. Through practical examples and proven strategies, Drew Camp demonstrates how combining fitness, accountability, and authentic leadership can transform not just individual fathers, but entire families. ---------------------------- Gentlemen, if you're ready to level up, don't miss The Forge: A Gathering of Men—an exclusive event created by leaders like Connor Beaton, Larry Hagner, Matt Beaudreau, and Ryan Michler to help you connect, grow, and become the best version of yourself. Learn more at The Men's Forge. ---------------------------- www.thedadedge.com/514 www.themensforge.com | www.thedadedge.com/alliance @theepicdadco | @theepicdadfit | Website Epic Dad Legacy Podcast | Epic Dad 7 Day Challenge
Become the best husband and leader you can: www.thedadedge.com/mastermind What if I told you that the secret to a thriving marriage isn't found in a heart-shaped box of chocolates or an overpriced Valentine's dinner? After years of coaching men and making my own mistakes, I've discovered that the real magic happens in those ordinary moments we usually take for granted. In this week's Friday Fatherly Fumbles, First Downs, and Field Goals, I'm diving into both the challenges and opportunities that Valentine's Day presents. While I acknowledge the stress and commercialization of the holiday, I want to share five unique date ideas that can strengthen your relationship year-round. The key isn't in grand, one-time gestures. But in consistent, small actions that make our marriages fulfilling every single day, not just on February 14th. www.thedadedge.com/friday195 www.dadedge.com/25questions www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Become the best husband and leader you can: www.thedadedge.com/mastermind div]:bg-bg-300 [&_.ignore-pre-bg>div]:bg-transparent [&_pre]:-mr-4 md:[&_pre]:-mr-9" style="box-sizing: inherit;"> _*]:min-w-0" style= "box-sizing: inherit;"> Today, married couple Danielle and Bill Beer joins us and shares their journey of growth and transformation through the Dad Edge Alliance. As an Alliance member, Bill sought to enhance his role as a husband and father, discovering that marriage and parenting are skills that can be developed through active listening and authentic communication. The discussion explores how Bill Beer's personal investment in growth led to meaningful changes noticed by both his children and Danielle. Together, they share insights about their relationship evolution, from moving beyond simple problem-solving to creating deeper connections, demonstrating how intentional self-improvement can strengthen family bonds and create lasting positive change. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.thedadedge.com/mastermind
Your extraordinary marriage starts here: www.thedadedge.com/25questions Emeal Zwayne is the President of Living Waters, speaker, and Executive Producer of "The Way of the Master" television program, while serving as the official spokesman and co-host of the National Bible Bee. After his conversion to Christianity in 1991, he has produced influential films like "The Atheist Delusion" and "Evolution vs. God," while residing in Southern California with his wife and five children. Today, Emeal "E.Z." Zwayne shares powerful insights from his book "Fight Like a Man". As a respected leader and speaker whose work spans from "The Way of the Master" television program to the National Bible Bee Gameshow, E.Z. brings a unique perspective on faith-based transformation. The conversation explores practical frameworks for overcoming life's challenges, including E.Z.'s concept of the "6 C's" and his "NOPE" strategy. Drawing from his extensive experience in ministry and media, E.Z. addresses crucial issues facing men today, particularly pornography addiction, offering hope-filled guidance for achieving lasting victory through faith-based principles. —-------------------------- Gentlemen, if you're ready to level up, don't miss The Forge: A Gathering of Men—an exclusive event created by leaders like Connor Beaton, Larry Hagner, Matt Beaudreau, and Ryan Michler to help you connect, grow, and become the best version of yourself. Learn more at The Men's Forge. —-------------------------- www.thedadedge.com/513 www.themensforge.com www.thedadedge.com/alliance Facebook | Instagram | X Order 'Fight Like a Man' book: https://a.co/d/9y5gwhS
Become the best husband and leader you can: www.thedadedge.com/mastermind Let me ask you something—do you ever feel like no matter how much effort you put in, your wife keeps pulling away? It's gut-wrenching, frustrating, and can leave you questioning everything. But here's the truth: you can't fix this by pushing harder. Avoidant behavior often stems from past wounds or unmet needs, not rejection of you. In this episode, we'll dive into the roots of avoidance and how it affects relationships. I'll share personal insights and practical strategies to reconnect with your wife by leading with curiosity, creating a safe environment, and practicing patience. If you're ready to move past the frustration and rebuild connection, this episode is for you. If you're navigating challenges like avoidance in your relationship and want to become the best husband and leader you can be, consider applying to our Dad Edge Mastermind. It's a community of men working to strengthen their marriages, families, and themselves. You can apply at www.thedadedge.com/mastermind. www.thedadedge.com/friday194 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.thedadedge.com/squire www.thedadedge.com/daddydaughter www.themensforge.com
Reignite your marriage: www.thedadedge.com/extraordinary-marriage div]:bg-bg-300 [&_.ignore-pre-bg>div]:bg-transparent [&_pre]:-mr-4 md:[&_pre]:-mr-9" style="box-sizing: inherit;"> _*]:min-w-0" style= "box-sizing: inherit;"> Today, I'm joined by Don Buckley, a 32-year-old father of five who transformed his life from living in a storage unit to building a thriving blended family with his wife Renee in Hamilton, Michigan. As a Field Service Manager in the forklift industry and an active member of the Dad Edge Alliance, Don balances his professional responsibilities with his commitment to intentional fatherhood. We explore Don's extraordinary journey through divorce, addiction, and past trauma, revealing how therapy, faith, and determination helped him rebuild his life. Together with his wife, a successful real estate Associate Broker, Don demonstrates how mindfulness, personal growth, and shared values can create a family environment rooted in trust, honesty, and integrity, while successfully navigating the complexities of co-parenting and life's ongoing challenges. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.thedadedge.com/mastermind
Your extraordinary marriage starts here: www.thedadedge.com/25questions Dr. Anna Housley Juster is a licensed child and adolescent mental health clinician, education consultant, and award-winning author of "How to Train Your Amygdala" with over 25 years of experience supporting children and families. Her diverse career spans from directing content at Sesame Workshop to co-founding Pop-Up Adventure Play, while her current private practice combines expertise in mental health, developmental psychology, and education to support trauma-informed practices and self-regulation skills. Today, Anna Housley Juster brings her decades of expertise in early childhood education and mental health to share powerful insights about child development. Drawing from her journey from Head Start teacher to mental health clinician, Anna combines her deep understanding of children's learning with practical strategies for emotional well-being. The conversation explores the science behind play as a crucial tool for emotional regulation and family connection, offering parents four practical strategies for managing stress responses. Through her experience creating content across Sesame Street's platforms and her current work as an education consultant, Anna demonstrates how intentional play can strengthen parent-child relationships while fostering resilience and emotional development. www.thedadedge.com/512 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.annahousleyjuster.com www.linkedin.com/in/anna-housley-juster
Your extraordinary marriage starts here: www.thedadedge.com/25questions Let me ask you something—when was the last time you truly looked in the mirror and faced the truth about your life? Not the highlight reel you post online, but the cracks, the pressure, and the pain you're stuffing down just to keep moving. If you're like most men, you're stretched thin—busy as hell, managing work, kids, marriage, and the unrelenting chaos of life. But here's the kicker: that busyness? It's a silent killer. It destroys connection, patience, and peace in ways you don't even see until the damage is done.   Today, in this week's Friday Fatherly Fumbles, First Downs, and Field Goals, I'm not here to sugarcoat anything. I'm going to share a story—a raw, unfiltered account of how my own life hit a breaking point. A season of overwhelm left me yelling at my kids, disconnected from my wife, and questioning if I even deserve to do this work. If you've ever felt guilt, shame, or the weight of trying to be everything to everyone, this episode is for you. Because let's face it, if we don't course-correct, it's not just us who suffer; it's the people we love most. www.thedadedge.com/friday193 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.thedadedge.com/squire www.thedadedge.com/25questions www.thedadedge.com/daddydaughter www.themensforge.com www.thedadedge.com/patience
Reignite your marriage: www.thedadedge.com/extraordinary-marriage div]:bg-bg-300 [&_.ignore-pre-bg>div]:bg-transparent [&_pre]:-mr-4 md:[&_pre]:-mr-9" style="box-sizing: inherit;"> _*]:min-w-0" style= "box-sizing: inherit;"> Today, I'm joined by Dad Edge Alliance member Ross Thornock and his wife Lindsey Thornrock, who are here to share a powerful story about what happens when a father decides to make meaningful changes in his life and marriage. We'll explore what brought him to the Dad Edge community, how he shifted from a dictatorial approach at home to creating an emotionally safe environment, and the impact it's had on his family. You'll hear how he started with the simple but life-changing step of improving communication, the patience and connection his wife and kids now see in him, and the advice he wishes he could have given himself before starting this journey. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.thedadedge.com/squire www.themensforge.com www.thedadedge.com/daddydaughter
Your extraordinary marriage starts here: www.thedadedge.com/25questions Today, in this week's Friday Fatherly Fumbles, First Downs, and Field Goals, Larry Hagner dives into the core needs of men in relationships. He emphasizes the importance of men feeling appreciated, respected, and experiencing physical and emotional connection within their families. These are not just "wants" but foundational elements that men yearn for to thrive as husbands and fathers.  Larry highlights how respect, for instance, validates a man's role as a leader and provider, while appreciation and physical intimacy foster a deeper emotional bond. He shares practical advice for creating a peaceful home environment, addressing conflicts as a team, and fostering open communication. Larry's insight reminds us that relationships flourish when both partners feel seen, heard, and valued. www.thedadedge.com/friday192 www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Reignite your marriage: www.thedadedge.com/extraordinary-marriage div]:bg-bg-300 [&_.ignore-pre-bg>div]:bg-transparent [&_pre]:-mr-4 md:[&_pre]:-mr-9"> _*]:min-w-0"> Today, Jeff Carlton, a long-time member of the Dad Edge Alliance, shares his transformative journey of breaking free from "nice guy" syndrome to become a more confident and authentic leader in his family. His path began with a desire to strengthen his marriage, leading him to discover powerful tools for personal growth through the Alliance community. The conversation explores how Jeff developed more effective communication skills and learned to lead with genuine confidence, moving beyond people-pleasing behaviors to create deeper connections with his wife and children. Through practical examples and honest reflection, Jeff demonstrates how the Dad Edge Alliance's support system helped him evolve into a more courageous and authentic version of himself. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.thedadedge.com/squire www.themensforge.com www.thedadedge.com/daddydaughter
Your extraordinary marriage starts here: www.thedadedge.com/25questions Steve Magness is a world-renowned performance expert, bestselling author of "Do Hard Things" and "Win the Inside Game," and performance coach who has helped Olympians, professional athletes, executives, and military personnel optimize their capabilities. His holistic approach to performance, developed through his expertise in both exercise physiology and mental performance, has been featured in The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, and ESPN The Magazine, while his books have sold over 750,000 copies.  Today, Steve Magness, bestselling author of "Do Hard Things" and renowned performance expert, shares his expertise on helping children develop mental toughness in sports. As a performance coach who has worked with elite athletes and organizations, and whose insights have been featured in The New Yorker and Wall Street Journal, Steve brings valuable perspectives on nurturing young athletes' mental resilience. The conversation focuses on practical strategies for parents to support their children's athletic development, from managing pre-competition conversations to handling post-game emotions. Drawing from his extensive experience and upcoming book "Win the Inside Game," Steve offers actionable techniques for helping young athletes channel their stress and adrenaline into peak performance. www.thedadedge.com/510 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.thedadedge.com/mastermind Instagram | Facebook | X | LinkedIn www.stevemagness.com
Your extraordinary marriage starts here: www.thedadedge.com/25questions Today, in this week's Friday Fatherly Fumbles, First Downs, and Field Goals, Larry Hagner explores the essential elements of making your wife feel truly seen, heard, and safe within your marriage. Through personal experiences and practical insights, he shares how simple acts of daily appreciation and acknowledging the invisible work can transform your wife's sense of value, while emphasizing the power of listening without immediately jumping to problem-solving mode. The discussion delves into the multifaceted nature of safety in marriage–from emotional and financial security to the importance of being dependable and handling conflict with composure. Larry provides actionable strategies for deepening marital connections through authentic communication, non-agenda-driven affection, and surprise gestures, demonstrating how these intentional practices can create a more loving and resilient partnership. www.thedadedge.com/friday191 www.thedadedge.com/mastermind www.thedadedge.com/25questions
Reignite your marriage: www.thedadedge.com/extraordinary-marriage Today, Jason Seward shares his transformation from insurance professional to successful entrepreneur as third owner of 608B Capital and host of BURNING THE SHIPS PODCAST. Through personal experience and valuable insights gained from the Dad Edge Alliance, he reveals how implementing simple but effective strategies for managing mental clutter and increasing presence has strengthened his roles as a business owner, husband, and father. The conversation explores Jason's realization about the power of paid communities and masterminds in accelerating personal growth. As a member of the Dad Edge Boardroom, he emphasizes how making intentional changes, like disconnecting from technology and capturing thoughts systematically, has created noticeable improvements in his relationships and overall life satisfaction within just weeks of implementation. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance Facebook | Instagram | Burn The Ships Podcast www.608bcapital.com
J.R. Martinez is an army veteran, burn survivor, actor, and New York Times best-selling author who rose to national prominence as the winner of Dancing with the Stars after surviving severe burns from a roadside bomb in Iraq. Following 33 surgeries and a remarkable recovery, he now travels the world as a motivational speaker sharing his message of resilience and optimism, while advocating for veterans and burn survivors through his powerful story of adapting and overcoming. Today, J.R. Martinez shares his remarkable journey from Central American immigrant roots through a life-changing military incident in Karbala, where he survived being trapped in a burning Humvee. His powerful story reveals how this traumatic experience, coupled with a challenging childhood, shaped his path toward resilience and transformation. The conversation explores how J.R.'s solitary road to recovery led him to discover the healing power of service, ultimately becoming a motivational speaker and actor. Through candid reflections on presence, connection, and finding purpose in adversity, J.R. demonstrates how his darkest moments became stepping stones to inspiring others and building meaningful community connections. www.thedadedge.com/509 www.thedadedge.com/alliance Instagram | Facebook | X | LinkedIn www.jrmartinez.com
Your extraordinary marriage starts here: www.thedadedge.com/25questions Today, in this week's Friday Fatherly Fumbles, First Downs, and Field Goals, Larry Hagner tackles the crucial question every father faces: how to be the person your children turn to first with bad news. Through his unique two-part approach of "marathon and sprint," he explains how our reactions to our children's vulnerable moments become the deciding factor in whether they'll trust us with future challenges. The discussion focuses on transforming those critical moments when children share mistakes or difficulties, demonstrating how to shift from being a punitive figure to a trusted confidant. Larry shares practical strategies for responding to everything from poor grades to serious mistakes, emphasizing that our children's willingness to be open with us in the future is shaped by how we handle their vulnerability today. Through personal stories and actionable advice, he shows how fathers can create an environment where children feel safe sharing anything, ultimately building stronger, more trusting parent-child relationships. www.thedadedge.com/friday190 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.thedadedge.com/squire www.themensforge.com www.thedadedge.com/daddydaughter
Reignite your marriage: www.thedadedge.com/extraordinary-marriage Gentlemen, welcome to a vital and timely conversation. We live in a world that feels increasingly uncertain and dangerous. Crime rates have surged over the past year, reminding us that as men, husbands, and fathers, we carry a sacred responsibility. It's not enough to be kind—we must also be prepared. We must be dangerous men in the right way: protectors who stand ready to defend our families and loved ones. Today, I'm honored to sit down with Josh Brisbane—a fighter, entrepreneur, and protector whose mission is to teach others how to become "hard to kill." Josh is a husband of 14 years, a father, a lifelong martial artist, and a best-selling author of Hard to Kill. He's also the founder of The Savage Syndicate, a community dedicated to inspiring and equipping men to protect themselves and their families. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.savagesyndicategroup.com/home-9017 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.thedadedge.com/bark
Your extraordinary marriage starts here: www.thedadedge.com/25questions Mitch Francis is a seasoned entrepreneur, inventor, and author of "Bad-Ass Solutions for Big-Ass Problems" who has developed shopping centers, led a billion-dollar ticket business in Las Vegas, and holds multiple U.S. patents. He focuses on tackling complex challenges from education reform to climate change, while sharing practical solutions for business, leadership, and fatherhood. Today, Mitch Francis dives into the big stuff: how to fix public schools, simplify the assault rifle debate, and what record-high global temps mean for the future of our coasts and islands. He also shares solutions for the U.S. debt crisis and practical advice for tackling the everyday challenges of being a man, husband, and father. www.thedadedge.com/508 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.bad-asssolutions.com www.linkedin.com/in/mitch-francis-a39094236
Your extraordinary marriage starts here: www.thedadedge.com/25questions Today, in this week's Friday Fatherly Fumbles, First Downs, and Field Goals, Larry Hagner draws from his decade of podcasting experience and 18 years of raising sons to address the critical challenges of raising boys in today's world. He emphasizes how fathers can shape their sons' future relationships by modeling respectful behavior toward women, particularly through their own marriages, while balancing essential life skills from education and financial literacy to physical fitness and emotional intelligence. The discussion delves into the delicate balance of fostering resilience in boys by allowing them to take risks and embrace failure, while also teaching them to be both kind and capable of self-defense. Larry Hagner shares practical insights on guiding boys toward meaningful achievements, from completing challenging tasks to developing spiritual leadership, all while navigating the distractions of modern technology and maintaining focus on what truly matters in their development. www.thedadedge.com/friday189 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.thedadedge.com/squire www.thedadedge.com/daddydaughter www.themensforge.com
Reignite your marriage: www.thedadedge.com/extraordinary-marriage Today, I have the privilege of sitting down with Scott Zemens who epitomizes the power of personal transformation within family life and fatherhood. He's a dedicated business owner who, not long ago, found himself struggling to find balance in his life—feeling distant from his family and yearning for deeper connections with his kids. When he joined the Dad Edge Alliance, he made a bold commitment to step up, starting with daily, meaningful conversations with his children—asking open-ended questions to truly understand their world. On top of that, he made a life-changing decision to give up alcohol for a year, a move that radically reshaped his mindset, relationships, and energy as a father. The results have been extraordinary. His wife has expressed how much she loves the father he's become, especially his leadership in the home after the arrival of their baby last October. His kids now have a dad who listens more, talks less, and focuses on creating memories that will last a lifetime. Today, we'll dive into his journey—what inspired these changes, the lessons he's learned, and the advice he'd give to his pre-Alliance self about stepping into the kind of father, husband, and leader his family deserves. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Your extraordinary marriage starts here: www.thedadedge.com/25questions Richard Taite is the founder and Executive Chairman of Carrara Treatment Wellness & Spa, host of "We're Out of Time" podcast, and co-author of "Ending Addiction for Good," who transformed his own 21-year sobriety journey into pioneering addiction treatment centers. Known for his innovative approach to addiction treatment and founding Cliffside Malibu, he shares his expertise on platforms like HBO's Real Time with Bill Maher and ABC's Nightline while working to combat the fentanyl epidemic. Today, Richard Taite shares his transformative journey from addiction to 21 years of sobriety. As a prominent figure in addiction treatment whose expertise has been featured on HBO's Real Time with Bill Maher and ABC News' Nightline, Richard brings invaluable insights gained from building Cliffside Malibu into a world-renowned rehab facility. The conversation delves into critical topics for parents, including the growing fentanyl epidemic, strategies for lasting recovery, and how to engage in meaningful conversations with children about drugs. Drawing from both personal experience and professional expertise, Richard offers practical guidance for protecting families while sharing powerful perspectives on the role of forgiveness in recovery. www.thedadedge.com/507 www.thedadedge.com/alliance Facebook | Instagram | TikTok | We're Out of Time Podcast www.linktr.ee/carraratreatment www.wereoutoftime.com
Your extraordinary marriage starts here: www.thedadedge.com/25questions Today, in this week's Friday Fatherly Fumbles, First Downs, and Field Goals, Larry Hagner tackles the crucial topic of New Year's resolutions, revealing why only 9% of people achieve their goals while 80% abandon them by February. Through compelling statistics and real-world examples, he explains how specific goal-setting with clear deadlines can dramatically improve success rates from the typical single-digit percentages to 50%. The conversation explores the game-changing power of accountability in achieving personal goals, whether they're focused on fitness, marriage, or wealth-building. Larry Hagner emphasizes how implementing weekly check-ins with an accountability partner or group, such as the Dad Edge Alliance, can boost success rates to an astounding 95%, providing fathers with the support system they need to make 2025 their most impactful year yet. www.thedadedge.com/friday188 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.thedadedge.com/squire
Reignite your marriage: www.thedadedge.com/extraordinary-marriage Today, we're diving into a conversation that is essential for anyone looking to strengthen their marriage and create a relationship that not only lasts but thrives. Joining me are Dan and Cori Luigs, a married couple with a powerful message about commitment, connection, and growth in marriage. They believe in a no-backdoor approach—divorce is simply not an option. They're here to share their insights on how to avoid falling into the 'roommate trap' and instead build a marriage where both partners truly thrive. Whether you're struggling in your marriage, looking to deepen your connection, or simply want tools to ensure you and your spouse grow together, this episode is for you. Get ready for practical advice and inspiring wisdom from a couple who has truly walked the walk. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Your extraordinary marriage starts here: www.thedadedge.com/25questions Marc Azoulay is the founder of Men's Therapy Online, a healing hub and community that transforms men's lives through group therapy, individual counseling, and wilderness retreats. Drawing on his expertise in psychoanalysis, neuroscience, and Buddhism, he helps men identify and overcome unconscious barriers to become the best versions of themselves. Through his team of licensed clinicians, Marc guides men in showing up authentically for their lives, relationships, and communities. Today, Marc Azoulay shares his expertise in helping men become their best selves through a unique blend of psychoanalysis, neuroscience, and Buddhist philosophy. With his team of licensed clinicians, Marc Azoulay provides men's groups, individual counseling, and wilderness retreats aimed at breaking through unconscious barriers that hold men back from authentic living. The conversation explores the complex dynamics of how men process and express emotions, particularly in their relationships and roles as community protectors. Marc offers valuable insights into men's emotional evolution–from villain to victim to hero to guide, while discussing the crucial differences between coaching and therapy, and how men can learn to show up more authentically in their relationships and communities. www.thedadedge.com/506 www.thedadedge.com/alliance YouTube | Facebook | LinkedIn | Twitter | Instagram www.menstherapy.online
Your extraordinary marriage starts here: www.thedadedge.com/25questions Today, in this debut episode of Friday Fatherly Fumbles, First Downs, and Field Goals, Larry Hagner shares intimate insights from his personal fatherhood journey, emphasizing that parenting is a learnable skill rather than an innate ability. Through candid stories of his own parenting challenges, including moments of lost patience, he draws a compelling parallel to Navy SEAL training to illustrate how fathers can develop emotional regulation and composure in challenging parenting situations. The episode kicks off this new weekly series by delving into his passionate perspective on two crucial aspects of family dynamics: the importance of prioritizing marriage alongside parenting to create a strong family foundation, and the vital role of building genuine connections with children through meaningful engagement.  Drawing from his own experiences, Larry emphasizes that while parenting mistakes are inevitable, the ability to repair and learn from these moments ultimately strengthens family bonds and creates lasting relationships. www.thedadedge.com/friday187 www.thedadedge.com/patience www.thedadedge.com/25questions
Reignite your marriage: www.thedadedge.com/extraordinary-marriage Emily and Michael have been married for the past 8 years. Michael started doing life with us in the Dad Edge Alliance 4 years ago. In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Your extraordinary marriage starts here: www.thedadedge.com/25questions Nicole Perrone is a pioneering force in the mortgage industry and CEO/Co-Founder of New Jersey Construction. Starting as a top producer at age 23, she went on to lead a $2.1 billion mortgage team in Manhattan by age 33. Now serving as Senior Vice President of Production at America's #1 Retail Mortgage Company, she also hosts The Billion Dollar Banker Podcast and appears on the Emmy-nominated American Dream TV. Today, Nicole Perrone shares powerful insights on transforming luck from mere chance into a strategic formula, drawing from her journey from communications graduate to successful mortgage banker and entrepreneur. Through her keynote speaking experience, she explains how preparation, opportunity recognition, and bold action combine to create success. The discussion explores both professional and personal dimensions, from practical steps for seizing opportunities to navigating family dynamics, such as her own experience growing up with divorced parents. Nicole provides actionable strategies for applying the science of luck across all life domains, emphasizing how persistence and a positive mindset can transform setbacks into stepping stones for success. www.thedadedge.com/505 www.thedadedge.com/alliance Instagram | Facebook | TikTok | LinkedIn
Your extraordinary marriage starts here: www.thedadedge.com/25questions Zach Watson is an Invisible Labor Coach who helps men understand and share the mental load of domestic responsibilities with their partners. Through his coaching practice, he guides couples in recognizing unseen household labor, improving communication, and creating more equitable partnerships. His expertise includes addressing emotional labor, cognitive load, and implementing the "Fair Play" framework to foster healthier relationship dynamics. Today, Zach Watson shares his expertise as a mental load coach, explaining how his viral content (with over 120 million views) helps men understand the invisible labor their partners perform, breaking down this work into three key categories: domestic labor, mental load, and emotional labor. Through personal anecdotes, including his famous "blueberry muffins" example, he illustrates how seemingly small actions can significantly impact relationship dynamics. The conversation explores practical strategies for creating more equitable partnerships, from reducing unnecessary questions to implementing regular "huddles" for discussing household responsibilities. Zach emphasizes that true partnership goes beyond simply sharing tasks – it's about developing empathy and understanding to create a more balanced and harmonious home life. www.zachthinkshare.com Instagram | Facebook | TikTok www.thedadedge.com/friday186 www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Reignite your marriage: www.thedadedge.com/extraordinary-marriage Ben Smith is a highly successful, humorous, and hilarious business owner who has been married for 12 years with a son and a daughter. He has been a part of The Dad Edge Boardroom for one year. In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/mastermind
Your extraordinary marriage starts here: www.thedadedge.com/25questions Andy Heller is a successful businessman and author who transitioned from writing real estate investment books to penning "Take the High Road: Divorce with Compassion for Yourself and Your Family" after his own divorce experience. Through his unique perspective as someone who has navigated divorce personally rather than as a professional in the field, Andy compiled insights from attorneys, therapists, mediators, and other experts to create a comprehensive guide featuring 46 practical strategies. His groundbreaking approach combines a businessman's objectivity with expert guidance, aiming to help others achieve healthier outcomes for themselves and their families during and after divorce.  Today, Andy Heller shares his personal journey through a high-conflict divorce while offering strategic insights on navigating the process with compassion, including the vital role of early intervention and therapy for both parents and children. He introduces important concepts like utilizing co-parent counselors and special masters to ease the burden of divorce, while emphasizing the significance of strategic compromise on key issues for future well-being.  The discussion delves into Andy Heller's unique approach to preparing children for divorce news through proactive therapy, alongside practical strategies for maintaining effective co-parenting relationships post-divorce. His comprehensive advice, drawn from personal experience and extensive research, provides valuable guidance for anyone contemplating or going through a divorce process. www.thedadedge.com/504 www.thedadedge.com/alliance Facebook | Instagram | Website Email: andy@takethehighroaddivorce.com
Your extraordinary marriage starts here: www.thedadedge.com/25questions Scott McCarthy is a distinguished Canadian Army officer whose leadership journey began early, leading him to command an 80-soldier platoon at age 24 and later a 200-member Logistics Squadron, while also serving as a mentor in Afghanistan. He currently serves as both a senior Canadian Army officer and Chief Leadership Officer at Moving Forward Leadership, where he hosts a podcast sharing insights from his two decades of military experience. Today, Scott McCarthy delves deep into the concept of psychological safety in leadership, exploring Tim Clark's four crucial stages: Belonger Safety, Learner Safety, Contributor Safety, and Challenger Safety. Through personal anecdotes from his military background, he illustrates how these principles create an environment where team members feel secure to express ideas and learn from both successes and failures. The conversation extends to the delicate balance of maintaining high standards while fostering a supportive environment, both in professional teams and family life. Scott also shares valuable insights on leadership accountability and personal growth, emphasizing how continuous adaptation and humility contribute to creating psychologically safe spaces where teams can thrive. www.thedadedge.com/friday185 www.thedadedge.com/alliance Facebook | X | LinkedIn | Instagram | Podcast
Reignite your marriage: www.thedadedge.com/extraordinary-marriage In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Your extraordinary marriage starts here: www.thedadedge.com/25questions Ryan Michler is a husband, father, Iraqi combat veteran, and the founder of Order of Man. Driven by his own experiences growing up without a permanent father figure, he is on a mission to empower men to embrace their roles as protectors, providers, and leaders in their families and communities. Through his podcast and blog, Ryan offers insights and practical advice to help men become the best versions of themselves. Today, Ryan Michler discuss the challenges and rewards of running a men's leadership development organization, highlighting the importance of consistency and accountability in personal and professional growth. The conversation also delves into personal experiences and lessons learned from overcoming struggles, emphasizing the need to recognize warning signs in life. They explore attachment styles and their impact on relationships, offering practical advice for managing emotions and fostering effective communication. This episode encourages listeners to embrace vulnerability and seek support, reminding them that transformation is possible through open dialogue and community. www.thedadedge.com/503 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.themensforge.com
Your extraordinary marriage starts here: www.thedadedge.com/25questions Ashley Taylor-Maland is a well known writer and social media influencer with over half a million followers, known for her candid content on healing, mental health, relationships, and domestic violence. Through her platform and various roles as a writer, cosmetologist, and mom, Ashley continues to inspire others by promoting healing, authenticity, and breaking free from negative patterns while advocating for both survivor support and abuser treatment. Today, Ashley Taylor opens up about her journey through emotional manipulation, physical abuse, and trauma bonding, ultimately finding the strength to seek a safe environment away from a destructive relationship. The conversation traverses many facets of family dynamics, self-worth, and the critical need for boundaries in relationships. Larry and Ashley also delve deep into the significance of safety in intimate relationships and how active fatherhood impacts the family unit. They explore the delicate balance between kindness and assertiveness and discuss the difference between being genuinely kind versus superficially nice. Towards the end, Ashley shares insights into how her father's transformation inspired her, while Larry recounts his experiences with relationship conflicts and resolutions. They underline the need for respectful communication, mutual support, and the importance of personal growth within relationships. Instagram | TikTok | This is Wear We Heal Podcast www.ashleytaylormaland.com www.thedadedge.com/friday184 www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Reignite your marriage: www.thedadedge.com/extraordinary-marriage In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Your extraordinary marriage starts here: www.thedadedge.com/25questions Nick Koumalatsos is a former Marine Raider, entrepreneur, and author dedicated to helping others grow through physical fitness, mental resilience, and personal development. He leads Agoge, a coaching company that empowers individuals to pursue their potential by developing strength, confidence, and leadership. Today, Nick Koumalatsos shares the powerful impact of in-person connections through activities like jiu-jitsu, training sessions, and shared meals. He discussed the Squire program, a transformative rite of passage for young men that Nick personally embraced by guiding his nephew through it, highlighting the crucial need for positive male role models in young boys' lives. The conversation evolved to address the challenges of modern parenting, particularly the tendency to overprotect children at the expense of their personal growth and resilience. This led to a broader discussion about the importance of generational wisdom transfer and traditional rites of passage, with both hosts emphasizing the need for parents to create environments where children can develop both physically and emotionally through facing and overcoming challenges. www.thedadedge.com/502 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.nickkoumalatsos.com www.thedadedge.com/squire
Get Ripped: https://www.1stphorm.com/dadedge Jesi Stracham is the founder of Wheel With Me Foundation and co-developer of the Wheel With Me Adapt Fit app, designed to support the independence and fitness of wheelchair users. After a motorcycle accident in 2015 resulted in a spinal cord injury, Jesi turned her experience into a platform for motivation and empowerment, and set on a mission to inspire the world to live life to its fullest. She also co-owns Freedom Longevity & Wellness LKN in Lake Norman, North Carolina. Today, Jesse Stracham shares her journey from a tumultuous childhood to becoming a beacon of resilience and empowerment. Despite not being a dad, Jesse's story resonates deeply with themes of accountability, personal growth, and the relentless pursuit of one's best self. She opens up about growing up in a family involved in the trucking industry and the lack of guidance that led her to make precarious choices as a teenager. Her life took a dramatic turn when she was paralyzed in a motorcycle accident, forcing her to confront her vulnerabilities and redefine her sense of self. Jesse's candid recounting of her struggles with physical limitations, mental health, and the journey to regain her independence is both heart-wrenching and inspiring. She discusses her transformation through fitness and nutrition, highlighting the power of proper diet and exercise in managing her condition. Her involvement with Adaptive CrossFit, the impact of the 75 Hard program, and her advocacy for better nutritional awareness underscore her insights into the importance of mental resilience, personal accountability, and the role of faith in her recovery. www.thedadedge.com/friday183 www.1stphorm.com/dadedge   Jesi Stracham
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Chuck Liddell is a legendary figure in the world of mixed martial arts, recognized as one of the pioneers who brought MMA into the mainstream. Known as "The Iceman" for his unshakeable presence in the ring, Chuck's journey to greatness began far from the bright lights of professional fighting. He is the face of UFC, and superstar of Mixed Martial Arts–the fastest growing sport in America. In 1998, he won his first Mixed Martial Arts fight, soon after joining the UFC to become the #1 ranked light-heavyweight contender in the world. He is a walking lethal weapon. Today, Chuck Liddell shares how his love for martial arts, the camaraderie of fight camp, and unresolved health issues fueled his return. He candidly discusses the difficulties athletes encounter in retirement, comparing experiences with other sports figures like Jake Herbert. Additionally, Chuck emphasizes the importance of financial stability and alternative opportunities post-retirement, reflecting on his own journey aided by a continued role with the UFC until its sale. Throughout the episode, Chuck Liddell opens up about his familial influences, notably his grandfather's pivotal role and his single mother's resilience in the face of medical adversity. He dives deep into parenting, revealing the significance of building confidence and instilling essential values in his children while navigating personal mistakes and growth. The conversation also touches on societal changes, the shift in family dynamics, and Chuck's strategies for managing conflicts peacefully from his time working in bars. www.linktr.ee/ChuckLiddell Instagram | Facebook | X | TikTok | YouTube Iceman: My Fighting Life Book | www.kingofviolence.com www.thedadedge.com/501 www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Your extraordinary marriage starts here: www.thedadedge.com/25questions Clifford Stephan is the founder of Booze Vacation, a health and wellness company for high-performing men. He also founded OneCompensation, a Bay Area consulting firm that has helped Silicon Valley companies. After realizing recreational drinking was holding him back, Clifford founded Booze Vacation to help others upgrade their health and professional potential. Today, Clifford shares how taking a year-long break from alcohol dramatically improved his health, performance, and quality of life, leading him to launch "Booze Vacation" - an initiative to help men reclaim their vitality by temporarily abstaining from drinking. He explains alcohol's detrimental effects on the body, arguing that even moderate consumption can cause significant issues over time.  By taking a booze vacation, men can reset their minds and bodies, leading to weight loss, enhanced productivity, and better overall wellbeing. Clifford introduces his program, which offers resources and coaching to support men in adopting healthier habits and achieving their health goals. www.thedadedge.com/friday182 www.thedadedge.com/alliance Facebook | Instagram | TikTok | LinkedIn www.boozevacation.com
Reignite your marriage: www.thedadedge.com/extraordinary-marriage In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Your extraordinary marriage starts here: https://www.thedadedge.com/25questions Jason Wayne Brick is a 4th-degree black belt, self-defense expert, and security consultant with over 37 years of experience in martial arts. A father of two, he adopted his oldest son when he was eight, which sparked a deeper understanding of the complexities of keeping children safe. Through his work on "Safest Family on the Block," Jason shares insights on family safety, challenging traditional ideas like "stranger danger."  Today, Jason Wayne Brick Jason shares his extensive journey in martial arts, starting from seventh-grade wrestling to becoming a martial arts junkie for nearly 40 years. They delve into the challenges of keeping kids motivated in sports, especially when they face initial failures, and how Jason's father played a pivotal role in modeling resilience and the willingness to fail publicly. www.thedadedge.com/500 www.thedadedge.com/alliance YouTube | www.safestfamilyontheblock.org
Your extraordinary marriage starts here: www.thedadedge.com/25questions Brian Slipka is the owner of the True North Family of Companies, which includes over 20 businesses with nearly $250 million in annual revenue. After an early career in sales and leadership at major corporations, he left the public/corporate world to focus on his growing portfolio of small businesses. He credits his faith, commitment to servant leadership, and ability to build trusting relationships as the keys to his entrepreneurial success. Today, Brian Slipka shares a deeply personal story about a conversation with his father on his deathbed, which served as a wake-up call for him to reassess his life's pursuits. Despite having achieved significant professional success, Brian realized he was internally struggling and unfulfilled. Brian also delve into the lessons he learned from his father, a retired US Army colonel and small business owner who exemplified servant leadership and selflessness. He recounts how his father's actions, rather than words, taught him the importance of respect, relationship-building, and community service. These values have profoundly influenced Brian's approach to life and business, emphasizing the significance of living a life dedicated to the service of others. www.thedadedge.com/friday181 www.thedadedge.com/alliance LinkedIn | X | Instagram  www.themensforge.com | www.slipka.com | www.winsomefable.com
Reignite your marriage: www.thedadedge.com/extraordinary-marriage In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. Buy here: 📚 Nut Up or Shut Up www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Your extraordinary marriage starts here: www.thedadedge.com/25questions Michael Chernow is a father, husband, serial entrepreneur, podcast host, coach, professional athlete, and founder of Kreatures of Habit. Known for his ventures The Meatball Shop and Seamore's, Michael also hosts the Kreatures of Habit Podcast where he explores the routines and habits that lead to success. In recovery for nearly two decades, he attributes his success to the positive habits he upholds. Today, Michael Chernow shares his personal commitment to ensuring his children never experience the hardships he faced growing up. The conversation dives deep into the importance of being present for our children, emphasizing that kids value our attention far more than material possessions.  The episode also highlights the viral success of Michael's content, particularly posts that resonate with themes of purposeful parenting and the genuine needs of children. Tune in for heartfelt insights and practical advice on fostering meaningful family connections. www.thedadedge.com/499 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.michaelchernow.com www.kreaturesofhabit.com - Use Code "DADEDGE20" www.kohpodcast.com
Your first step to an extraordinary marriage: www.thedadedge.com/25questions Dr. Harvey Karp is a renowned pediatrician and co-founder of Happiest Baby, known for his Happiest Baby/Happiest Toddler books that have guided millions of parents worldwide. He created the SNOO Smart Sleeper, an FDA-authorized bassinet that adds hours to infant sleep, now used in over 160 hospitals and offered as a benefit by 80+ companies. Today, Dr. Harvey Karp shares practical advice for new parents, focusing on the crucial "fourth trimester"—the first few months of a baby's life when they still crave a womb-like environment for comfort. He introduces his "5 S's" method—Swaddling, Side/Stomach position, Shushing, Swinging, and Sucking—to help soothe babies, reduce crying, and improve sleep. Dr. Karp discusses the impact of sleep deprivation on parents and highlights the SNOO smart sleeper, developed with MIT engineers, to help babies sleep longer and ease parental stress. He emphasizes the long-term benefits of early nurturing and guides listeners to HappiestBaby.com for more resources and support. Dr. Karp is Esquire's new parenting advice columnist. Read "Ask Dr. Harvey Karp" on Esquire.com. www.thedadedge.com/498 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.happiestbaby.com Instagram | X | LinkedIn
Reignite your marriage: www.thedadedge.com/extraordinary-marriage In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Your first step to an extraordinary marriage: www.thedadedge.com/25questions Steven Shields is a Counselor (ACMHC), recovery coach, and founder of Accepted and Unashamed Unafraid, a non-profit organization dedicated to helping those recovering from sexual addiction and their families. After beginning his own recovery journey in 2014, he launched a podcast sharing recovery stories and now serves on the executive board of Warrior Heart, hosting retreats for men to reconnect with God and live fully alive. Today, Steven Shields shares his journey from leading a double life as a church leader struggling with addiction to creating a nonprofit that help others battle pornography and sex addiction. His organization provides judgment-free spaces where individuals can share their stories openly and begin their recovery journey. Through his work and personal experience, Steven emphasizes that transformation doesn't require hitting rock bottom, but rather embracing hope and community support. His approach focuses on removing shame from the recovery process, allowing individuals to pursue authentic healing while building meaningful connections with others who understand their struggles. www.thedadedge.com/498 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.unashamedandunafraid.com
Your first step to an extraordinary marriage: www.thedadedge.com/25questions Clint Harris is a professional real estate investor, entrepreneur, and handles capital raising and investor relations at Nomad Capital. He owns Going Coastal Property Management and hosts the Truly Passive Income Podcast. Having raised capital for over $100 million in stabilized assets, his mission is to inspire financial, location, and time independence for investors. Today, Clint Harris openly discusses the challenges he faced, the significance of spending quality time with family, and his goals to leave a legacy that goes beyond financial wealth. We'll also delve into the economic and strategic benefits of adaptive reuse in real estate, his advice for beginners, and the life-changing impact of focusing on relationships and personal freedom. Join us as we explore Clint's inspiring story and invaluable insights, reminding us all of the importance of prioritizing what truly matters in life. Stay tuned for an episode filled with practical advice, personal reflections, and a lot of inspiration. www.thedadedge.com/friday179 www.thedadedge.com/mastermind www.nomadcapital.us LinkedIn | YouTube | Podcast
Tara and Tim have been married for over 20 years and were on the brink of divorce. Tim stepped into the Dad Edge Boardroom in 2023 to learn more about rebuilding his marriage. After just a few short months, things began to turn around. Reignite your marriage: https://thedadedge.com/extraordinary-marriage/ In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Reignite your marriage: https://thedadedge.com/extraordinary-marriage/ Dr. Jim Stoppani is a leading expert in fitness, nutrition, and dietary supplements with over 20 years of experience and a PhD in exercise physiology from the University of Connecticut. As the founder of JYM Supplement Science, he offers transformative workout programs and nutrition insights. His science-based approach has made him a prominent figure in the fitness industry. Today, Dr. Jim Stoppani shares invaluable insights on optimizing your health through movement, even with a sedentary lifestyle, emphasizing the critical role of protein and fats for longevity and muscle growth. Learn about his practical advice on intermittent fasting, minimizing the use of plastics, and incorporating efficient workouts into a busy schedule.  Larry and Dr. Jim also explores the science behind fitness myths, the importance of resistance training to combat aging, and the benefits of practices like Brazilian jiu-jitsu. Get ready to discover why muscle mass is an indicator of longevity and how small changes in daily habits can lead to significant health improvements. Tune in for a blend of personal experiences, expert advice, and actionable tips to help every dad master the edge in health and fitness. www.thedadedge.com/497 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.jimstoppani.com | www.jymsupplementscience.com Instagram | Instagram
Joel Staley is a fitness coach and the creator of the Shed Fat Fast program, specializing in helping individuals optimize their health and reduce body fat through methods like intermittent fasting. Despite holding a lucrative six figure job, he made the brave decision to quit on his daughter Kennedy's first day at daycare. Today, Joel Staley shares the benefits of fasting for weight loss, muscle building, and overall well-being. He delve into real-world strategies for maintaining a balanced diet, managing cravings, and taking control of hunger cues. We'll also hear about incredible client success stories, including one notable journey of a 30-day fast leading to dramatic physical transformation. Learn how Joel's Shed Fat Fast program has helped thousands achieve their fitness goals, and discover practical tips for integrating fasting into your busy lifestyle without missing out on important social gatherings. www.thedadedge.com/friday178 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.shedfatfast.com/dad-edge
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Dr. Anthony Balduzzi is a health and weight loss expert and the founder of Fit Father Project and Fit Mother Project - leading health & weight loss programs for busy men and women over 40. He holds dual degrees in Nutrition & Neuroscience from the University of Pennsylvania, a Doctorate in Naturopathic Medicine, and is a former national champion bodybuilder. He has helped over 60,000 families in over 100 countries lose weight and get healthy through his Fit Father and Fit Mother Programs.  Today, Dr. Anthony Balduzzi shares profound insights into the world of health, parenting, and personal development, emphasizing the intertwined nature of these aspects. A central theme of the discussion revolves around creating a personal mission statement through mindset journaling. This approach helps individuals align their core values with their health objectives, fostering a more integrated and fulfilling lifestyle.  Dr. Anthony Balduzzi sheds light on the deep neuroscience behind our habits, particularly how the limbic system influences our desires and actions. By aligning the limbic system with the neocortex, one can maintain progress even amidst life's inevitable challenges. He also shares his own journey of overcoming trauma and stress through exercise, which significantly contributed to his mental resilience. www.thedadedge.com/496 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.fitfatherproject.com YouTube | Facebook | Instagram | Twitter | LinkedIn | TikTok
Conor Gallagher is an accomplished CEO, author, public speaker, and board member, with extensive experience in both for-profit and non-profit sectors. He is the founder of Well-Ordered Family and the CEO of multiple businesses, including Good Will Publishers and TAN Books. He also serves as the Executive Director of the Benedict Leadership Institute at Belmont Abbey College and sits on their Board of Trustees. Conor has authored several books, such as 'If Aristotle's Kid Had an iPod', 'Still Amidst the Storm', and 'Well-Ordered Family', focusing on personal growth, parenting, and family life Today, Conor Gallagher, delve into the art of managing diverse temperaments within your family, fostering deeper relationships, and the critical practice of discernment in decision-making. Larry and Conor explore tools and strategies for conflict resolution, enhancing unity, and balancing the fluctuating dynamics between children.  They discuss the practical application of assessment tests both in professional and personal landscapes, sharing intimate anecdotes that illuminate the importance of understanding individual strengths and temperaments. Larry and Conor also tackle decision-making and problem-solving challenges, offering strategies like the "decision matrix" and the "5 Whys" technique to uncover root causes. www.thedadedge.com/friday177 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.wellorderedfamily.com LinkedIn | Instagram | Facebook
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Fraser Burns is the founder and CEO of Ocenture with over 35 years of experience in building global organizations. He co-founded Men's Remedy with Mike Tyson, a virtual healthcare clinic for male hormone deficiencies. In addition, Fraser and his wife, Aida Osmanovic, manage Growth Forward, an investment company with interests in AI-driven healthcare firms and a whiskey distillery in Florida. T oday, Fraser Burns shares personal insights on overcoming internal bleeding in his knee, achieving balanced testosterone levels, and maintaining an active lifestyle. We also discuss the broader implications of TRT , including its benefits, potential side effects, and the importance of personalized treatment plans. Fraser reveals his experience raising a two-year-old at age 53, thanks to optimal hormone balance, and critiques the lack of thorough follow-up care in testosterone treatments. Plus, we touch on the role of diet, exercise, and mindset in enhancing overall well-being and the detrimental effects of alcohol and environmental toxins like plastics on health. www.thedadedge.com/495 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.ironremedymd.com
Dr. Stuart Ablon is the Founding Director of Think:Kids at Massachusetts General Hospital and an Associate Professor at Harvard Medical School. An award-winning psychologist, he authored three influential books on addressing challenging behavior. Dr. Ablon is a globally recognized speaker and teaches a unique approach to understanding and managing difficult behaviors across various settings. He has implemented his collaborative problem-solving approach in numerous organizations worldwide. Today, Dr. Stuart Ablon drops truth bombs on outdated parenting tactics, pushing a revolutionary approach that combines empathy with collaboration. In an era where screens threaten to hijack family time, he hammers home the crucial role of face-to-face interaction in turbocharging kids' brain development. The doc's game-changing strategy? Shut up and listen. It's about drilling down to understand your kid's perspective, not just laying down the law. Throughout this no-holds-barred conversation, Dr. Stuart Ablon serves up hard-hitting, actionable intel for parents ready to dominate the digital parenting game. His method is a powerful cocktail of empathy and understanding, offering a battle-tested alternative to weak, outdated parenting playbooks. www.thedadedge.com/friday176 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.stuartablon.com www.yourbrainonsocialmedia.org www.thinkkids.org
In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Shiloh Minor is a dedicated love and marriage coach specializing in helping women transform their relationships. As a wife and mother of two young boys, she brings personal insight to her professional expertise. Through her innovative Real-Love Method, Shiloh empowers intelligent women to cultivate fulfilling marriages without traditional couples therapy. Her mission is to break generational patterns of emotional neglect, guiding women to secure the love, support, and affection they deserve within their existing partnerships. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Conor Gallagher is an accomplished CEO, author, public speaker, and board member, with extensive experience in both for-profit and non-profit sectors. He is the founder of Well-Ordered Family and the CEO of multiple businesses, including Good Will Publishers and TAN Books. He also serves as the Executive Director of the Benedict Leadership Institute at Belmont Abbey College and sits on their Board of Trustees. Conor has authored several books, such as 'If Aristotle's Kid Had an iPod', 'Still Amidst the Storm', and 'Well-Ordered Family', focusing on personal growth, parenting, and family life Today, we dive deep into a conversation about systems and metrics for families—how we can create structured approaches to family life, the difference between micro and macro systems, and the importance of implementing systems one step at a time. We also explore Conor's insights on the digit policy builder and how it can impact family organization. This episode is packed with practical advice for building a well-ordered family, so let's get right into it. www.thedadedge.com/494 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.wellorderedfamily.com LinkedIn | Instagram | Facebook
Dean Pohlman is an authority on Yoga for Men, developing programs with physical therapists for back health and spinal recovery. He authored the bestselling "Yoga Fitness for Men" and co-produced the "Body by Yoga" DVD series, with his work featured in major fitness publications. Married with two children, Dean applies insights from marriage counseling to maintain strong relationships, emphasizing emotional support and mindful breathing to manage stress. Today, Dean Pohlman takes us through his personal struggles, from feeling "not good enough" to learning how to handle big emotions and the role of anger as a defense mechanism. We explore how he and his wife navigated the challenges of marriage, parenting differences, and grief with the help of couples counseling, ultimately finding stronger communication tools and emotional safety. This episode is packed with relatable anecdotes and valuable insights into managing patience and presence, with practical tips from Dean's yoga expertise. Tune in to discover how embracing mindfulness and emotional awareness can enhance your relationships and your role as a dad. www.thedadedge.com/friday175 www.thedadedge.com/alliance Instagram | Man Flow Yoga  Get $30 OFF Man Flow Yoga by using code "DADEDGE"
In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Listen as members share their stories, highlight their biggest wins, and offer practical tips that have helped them achieve work-life balance, navigate tough emotions, and build stronger relationships with their kids. This episode is packed with real-life experiences and actionable insights that will inspire you to level up your own fatherhood game. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Pastor Andy "Rebirth" Pellerano is a Christian Hip-Hop artist, 2x Nola Gospel Award nominee, and 2018 Nola Gospel Rap Artist of the Year. He is also a former reality show star, current President of One Accord, a husband, and father of six. His journey from a troubled past, including gang involvement and multiple felony charges, to spiritual transformation is a testament to personal growth and faith. Andy now travels across states, sharing his testimony through music and spoken word, ministering in juvenile facilities and high-crime areas. As an Apostle to the streets and rising Evangelist, he uses his diverse cultural background and life experiences to connect with and inspire others, both nationally and internationally. Today, Andy Rebirth shares his transformative life events, from facing severe legal troubles and prison time to his faith-driven redemption story. Andy also discusses his impactful partnership with Amazon, providing essential supplies for children and creating dignified shopping experiences that foster generosity. We delve into Andy's mission to establish a recovery center aimed at offering trade skills and job opportunities as alternatives to incarceration. Listen in as we explore the crucial role fathers play in their children's lives, the standards we set, and the powerful example of commitment and care in relationships. Andy's story is a testament to resilience and the importance of a father's love, a tale that will leave you both moved and motivated.  www.thedadedge.com/493 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.oneaccordministries.net Instagram | TikTok
Edward Rodarte is a former gang member turned political leader, corporate executive, and advocate for fatherhood healing. As the youngest mayor of La Puente, California, he demonstrated deep commitment to community service. Edward's journey from Compton's streets to success is marked by personal transformation, especially through fatherhood. After confronting past struggles and finding healing through plant medicine, he now hosts the "Fatherhood Voices" podcast, inspiring others with his story of redemption and helping fathers mend relationships with their children.  Today, Edward Rodarte shares his journey from law enforcement and politics to hosting the "Fatherhood Voices" podcast. He discusses healing family dynamics, breaking toxic cycles, and fostering self-love and empathy in fatherhood. Edward and Larry explore the challenges of his strict parenting approach and the ongoing healing process with his daughters and partner. Their conversation highlights the power of transformation and the importance of healing past traumas. Edward offers invaluable lessons and practical tools for navigating difficult relationships and becoming a more supportive, emotionally available parent. The episode provides insights for fathers seeking personal growth and improved family dynamics. www.thedadedge.com/friday174 www.thedadedge.com/alliance Instagram | Website | Fatherhood Voices
In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Listen as members share their stories, highlight their biggest wins, and offer practical tips that have helped them achieve work-life balance, navigate tough emotions, and build stronger relationships with their kids. This episode is packed with real-life experiences and actionable insights that will inspire you to level up your own fatherhood game. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Matt Beaudreau is a visionary educator and thought leader, and co-creator of the Apogee Strong Mentorship Program. A two-time TEDx speaker and Stanford University's Corporate Trainer of the Year, he's addressed over 250,000 people, championing innovative, student-led education. Matt's mission is to build heroes through transformative learning experiences, all while cherishing his roles as a husband and father. Today, Matt Beaudreau and Larry explore the innovative approaches of Apogee campuses—emphasizing flexible, hands-on learning experiences tailored to each student's needs. They discuss post-school pathways, real-world applicability, and programs that have reignited student enthusiasm for learning. Matt shares insights from his sober lifestyle, the influence of his father, and offers advice on guiding teenagers in today's complex world. The conversation also critiques traditional schooling, highlighting the advantages of alternative education models. Matt and Larry emphasize developing confidence through competence and supporting children's unique paths. Lastly, they also discuss the importance of fostering creativity, prioritizing relationships, and focusing on real-world skills for meaningful lives. www.thedadedge.com/492 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.apogeestrong.com Facebook | Instagram | X | LinkedIn
Fraser Bayley is an industry-leading nutritionist for the top 1% of professionals and entrepreneurs. He has coached notable figures like musician Chris Daughtry and successful entrepreneurs Tim Bratz and Mark Evans. His diverse clientele includes veterinarians, corporate bankers, US Special Forces, and Silicon Valley tech experts. With decades of research and practical experience, he guides clients worldwide to create superhuman versions of themselves through optimized nutrition and lifestyle.  Today, Fraser Bayley shares his journey from battling mental health issues to achieving optimal wellness and coaching others. He discusses his tough love and empathetic coaching style, which has helped correct workout regimen. The conversation covers the importance of keeping fitness routines simple for long-term results, the value of mentors, detailed workout tracking, maintaining strength, and achieving a balanced life without compromising fitness goals. The episode also explores practical strategies for maximizing ROI in personal well-being, the benefits of whole-body exercises, and the power of detailed blood work for personalized health optimization. Fraser Bayley offers insights on balancing family, self-care, and overall health, making this episode valuable for both experienced fitness enthusiasts and beginners. www.thedadedge.com/friday173 www.thedadedge.com/alliance Facebook | Instagram | Super Human Journey   www.superhumansecrets.com/the-superhuman-upgrade Use Promo Code "SHU497" for 50% OFF the Course + Access to the Community!
In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Listen as members share their stories, highlight their biggest wins, and offer practical tips that have helped them achieve work-life balance, navigate tough emotions, and build stronger relationships with their kids. This episode is packed with real-life experiences and actionable insights that will inspire you to level up your own fatherhood game. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Joe Gatto is a renowned comedian best known from the hit TV shows "Impractical Jokers" and "The Misery Index." He currently tours the United States with his solo stand-up show, "Joe Gatto's Night of Comedy," and co-hosts the popular podcast "Two Cool Moms." Beyond comedy, Joe is passionate about animal rescue, founding the non-profit Gatto Pups and Friends, and has recently authored a children's book titled "Where's Bearry!" Today, Joe Gatto shares touching memories of his late father, discussing the invaluable wisdom and positive outlook that continue to influence his own parenting style. He offers insightful advice on balancing a demanding career with family life, emphasizing the importance of being present and authentic with children. Joe also shares behind-the-scenes moments from "Impractical Jokers" and discusses his children's book "Where's Bearry?", inspired by his son. The conversation explores the importance of humility and communication in parenting, as well as the value of humor in marriage and family dynamics. Joe and Larry discuss practical tips for navigating fatherhood, blending personal anecdotes with actionable advice. This episode offers a mix of laughter, wisdom, and heartfelt moments that will resonate with parents, providing memorable stories and practical parenting strategies. www.thedadedge.com/491 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.cannoliproductions.com Facebook | Instagram | Twitter | YouTube | TikTok
Erik Orton is an Emmy Award-winning writer and producer who has worked on iconic Broadway productions like Wicked and Les Miserables. After facing financial and emotional challenges, Erik and his family embarked on a transformative adventure, living aboard a sailboat in the Caribbean and chronicling their journey in the New York Times Top 10 Travel book, "Seven at Sea." Today, Erik Orton shares his family's unconventional journey from living in a cramped Manhattan apartment to embarking on a year-long sailing adventure in the Caribbean. He discusses the transition from financial hardship to an enriching family experience at sea, highlighting the importance of involving children in significant roles to build their confidence and self-reliance. Erik also shares unique family practices like their creative bathroom-sharing rule and the cherished tradition of "Weekend Pictures." The conversation also explores valuable insights on leadership, resilience, and family bonding under pressure, drawn from Erik's experiences managing emergencies at sea and navigating everyday life. His stories demonstrate the strength of family unity and the pursuit of dreams against all odds. The episode offers inspiration and practical tips for enhancing family dynamics, encouraging listeners to tackle life's challenges head-on and cherish moments with loved ones. www.thedadedge.com/friday172 www.thedadedge.com/alliance Sail with Erik | Seven at Sea Book | What Could Go Right Podcast Coaching | Instagram | Facebook | Youtube
In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Listen as members share their stories, highlight their biggest wins, and offer practical tips that have helped them achieve work-life balance, navigate tough emotions, and build stronger relationships with their kids. This episode is packed with real-life experiences and actionable insights that will inspire you to level up your own fatherhood game. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Conor Gallagher is an accomplished CEO, author, public speaker, and board member with extensive experience in both for-profit and non-profit sectors. He is the founder of Well-Ordered Family and CEO of multiple businesses including Good Will Publishers and TAN Books. Conor serves as the executive director of the Benedict Leadership Institute at Belmont Abbey College and sits on the Board of Trustees. His published works include "If Aristotle's Kid Had an iPod," "Still Amidst the Storm," and "Well-Ordered Family," among others, focusing on parenting, personal growth, and family life. Today, Conor Gallagher shares his family's unique journey, including the creation of their family master plan, which includes vision statements, strengths, weaknesses, opportunities, and threats—akin to a family's constitution. The conversation also touches on the importance of involving kids in financial discussions, tracking family goals, and the power of unconditional love and sacrifice.  He then highlights the virtues of unconditional love, sacrifice, and selflessness in maintaining robust marriages and families. He underscores the need for continual self-sacrifice to become the best versions of ourselves, drawing from historical examples. This episode is a treasure trove of wisdom for parents. By incorporating Conor's actionable insights into your family dynamics, you can not only navigate the challenges of today but also set up a legacy of love, unity, and success for the future. www.thedadedge.com/490 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.wellorderedfamily.com LinkedIn | Instagram | Facebook
Brett McDermott is a renowned expert on the fundamentals of powerful communication. His obsession is teasing out the habits and tactics that today's most charismatic communicators share and then breaking these down in a easily learnable way for his students. His mission is to help people build powerful communication skills so they can more effectively push their mission forward. Today, Brett McDermott shares his journey into understanding and teaching charisma, emphasizing the importance of effective communication skills for everyone. He discusses the fundamentals of being a good listener and the power of asking genuine questions, sharing personal anecdotes to illustrate how these skills have impacted his life and career. Brett introduces his three pillars of charisma: power, warmth, and presence–explaining how each contributes to effective communication and relationship building. The conversation also explores the nuances of nonverbal communication, including facial expressions and body language. Brett offers practical tips on improving these aspects, from maintaining good posture to practicing daily meditation for better presence. The discussion concludes by examining how these skills can enhance personal relationships, particularly in long-term partnerships. www.thedadedge.com/friday171 www.thedadedge.com/alliance Instagram | Persistence Playbook Podcast
In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Listen as members share their stories, highlight their biggest wins, and offer practical tips that have helped them achieve work-life balance, navigate tough emotions, and build stronger relationships with their kids. This episode is packed with real-life experiences and actionable insights that will inspire you to level up your own fatherhood game. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Christian Schauf is an entrepreneur, adventurer, and the founder and CEO of Uncharted Supply Co, a manufacturer of high-quality survival systems and products designed to empower people in emergency situations. Growing up on a Wisconsin farm, he developed a strong sense of preparedness that later inspired him to create the SEVENTY2™ Survival System, a comprehensive 72-hour emergency kit. Schauf's diverse experiences have fueled his passion for innovation in emergency preparedness and outdoor adventure. From climbing some of the world's tallest mountains to hunting in the Yukon, his adventures continue to inspire his work and philanthropic efforts. Today, Christian Schauf shares his unique upbringing on a farm, highlighting the strong work ethic and valuable life lessons instilled by his parents. He discusses how these early experiences shaped his resilience and success in various fields, including music, adventure, and entrepreneurship. The conversation explores Christian's impactful work performing for troops in remote and dangerous locations, emphasizing the profound effect these performances had on soldiers' morale and mental well-being. The episode also delves into the inception of Uncharted Supply Company and Christian's mission to equip people for emergencies. He discusses the inspiration behind the SEVENTY2™ Survival System and emphasizes the importance of practical, high-quality survival gear for handling unexpected situations confidently. Christian's diverse experiences, from farm life to military entertainment and entrepreneurship, showcase his dedication to making a difference and preparing others for life's challenges. www.thedadedge.com/489 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.unchartedsupplyco.com Instagram | Facebook | YouTube
TJ White is a former Army Ranger, speaker, security contractor, real estate investor, husband, father, and the owner/founder of Wooby Hoody, a company that provides warm, light-weighted hoodies and sleeping bags for people who love adventure and the outdoors. He also authored the book "Lead Your Adventure"–a culmination of his experiences, offering personal anecdotes and insights to help others break free from their internal struggles and lead better lives. Today, TJ White shares his transformative journey from a troubled youth to a decorated military veteran and successful entrepreneur. He opens up about his struggles with alcohol and the pivotal moment that led to his commitment to sobriety. TJ discusses how he overcame challenges, including job loss, to rebuild his life and business, emphasizing the power of resilience and personal growth. The episode explores TJ's current ventures, including Wooby Hoody and his involvement with Operation Lighthouse, a program helping veterans and entrepreneurs optimize their lives. TJ's upcoming book, "Lead Your Adventure" offers a guide to personal transformation. This inspiring conversation highlights the importance of surrounding yourself with the right people and living intentionally for your family, motivating listeners to lead their own adventures. www.thedadedge.com/friday170 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.officialtjwhite.com www.woobyhoody.com www.instagram.com/tjwhitergr
In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Listen as members share their stories, highlight their biggest wins, and offer practical tips that have helped them achieve work-life balance, navigate tough emotions, and build stronger relationships with their kids. This episode is packed with real-life experiences and actionable insights that will inspire you to level up your own fatherhood game. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Ken Coleman is the two-time bestselling author of From Paycheck to Purpose and The Proximity Principle and host of The Ken Coleman Show. As America's Work Expert, he helps people discover what they do best so they can do work they love and produce the results that matter most to them. Today, Ken Coleman shares insights on effective leadership in various life aspects, emphasizing the importance of serving unique needs at home and in professional settings. He discusses parenting challenges and rewards, especially with older children seeking independence. The conversation explores evolving marriage dynamics, with Ken comparing effective marital leadership to ballroom dancing—leading with rhythm and synchronization. He stresses understanding and adapting to your partner's needs for a harmonious relationship. Ken also introduces his latest book, "Find the Work You're Wired to Do", offering practical advice on discovering and pursuing one's true calling. www.thedadedge.com/488 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.kencoleman.com Facebook | Instagram | TikTok | X | LinkedIn
Jim Ramos is a bestselling author, speaker, and the founder of Men in the Arena, an international ministry focused on equipping Christian Men in the 'Stress Bubble' of life–married, with kids in the home, struggling to lead their families, churches, and communities well. He hosts the #1 ranked Spotify podcast for Christian men, the Men in the Arena Podcast, and has written numerous books, including the #1 Amazon Bestseller "Strong Men Dangerous Times", the five-book "Strong Men Study Guide" Series for small groups, and "Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God" releasing in September 2024 with David C Cook. Today, Jim Ramos shares insights from his book "Dialed In", focusing on 20 key qualities that define true masculinity in God's eyes. These ethical and practical principles are relevant for all men, regardless of faith, helping them become better fathers, husbands, and community members. Jim emphasizes living with integrity, serving others, and making value-aligned decisions. Larry and Jim delve into the challenges and rewards of raising children with these principles, stressing the importance of allowing kids to make their own decisions and learn from experiences. The episode offers valuable takeaways on living an intentional, purpose-driven life. Jim's passion for helping men reach their full potential makes this a must-listen for anyone seeking to improve their leadership skills and personal growth. www.thedadedge.com/friday169 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.meninthearena.org Facebook | Instagram
In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Listen as members share their stories, highlight their biggest wins, and offer practical tips that have helped them achieve work-life balance, navigate tough emotions, and build stronger relationships with their kids. This episode is packed with real-life experiences and actionable insights that will inspire you to level up your own fatherhood game. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Drew Davis is the founder of Equipped Outdoors, a full-service guide company offering experiences in Arkansas, Colorado, and beyond. His company is dedicated to helping men engage with their families, experience God's creation, and grow personally through outdoor adventures. As the Director and Strategic Value Executive at Oracle Health, Davis applies his leadership skills to both his corporate career and his passion project. With a Bachelor's in Spanish, International Business, and Marketing, and a Master's in Global Studies, his background includes extensive travel in Latin America for church work and teaching. A dedicated husband to Carissa and father of four, Davis integrates lessons of leadership, community, and discipleship into outdoor experiences, combining his unique blend of corporate expertise, faith, and outdoor enthusiasm to create transformative adventures. Today, Drew Davis shares his passion for the outdoors and his mission to help men engage with their families through nature-based experiences. He discusses how Equipped Outdoors, his nonprofit, aims to eliminate barriers preventing men from enjoying nature and inspire personal growth through outdoor adventures. Drew's background in extensive travel and his professional career at Oracle have shaped his approach to leadership and community building. He offers a range of retreats and adventures, from entry-level trips to more advanced excursions. The conversation explores the profound impact of outdoor adventures on family relationships. Drew and Larry discuss how disconnecting from the digital world and immersing in nature can lead to meaningful conversations and stronger bonds. They highlight the benefits of learning outdoor skills, such as building confidence and problem-solving abilities. The episode offers insights on the transformative power of nature, intentional parenting, and creating unforgettable family experiences through outdoor adventures. www.thedadedge.com/487 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.equippedoutdoors.org Facebook | Instagram
Markus Kaulius is the founder of Magnum Nutraceuticals and author of "Play a Bigger Game." A dynamic entrepreneur, speaker, and mentor, he has transformed his life from humble beginnings to become a success in both business and personal fitness. His book shares the seven universal principles that guided his journey, offering readers tools to unlock their potential and achieve greatness. Kaulius's methods have influenced world champions in sports and business leaders alike. Through his work, he continues to inspire millions worldwide, empowering individuals to live intentionally and flourish in all aspects of life. Today, Markus Kaulius shares his journey from an insecure, financially and spiritually broken kid to a successful entrepreneur and author. The conversation explores principles for living a fulfilling, intentional life, focusing on the importance of habits in shaping confidence and interactions. Markus emphasizes non-negotiable daily routines and offers practical tips for maintaining discipline. He also discusses the profound impact of saving sexual energy for one's wife, highlighting how this practice can enhance marital intimacy and emotional connection. The episode features Larry's son Ethan, who shares his recent achievements, leading to a discussion on the importance of positive male role models in children's lives. Markus and Larry stress the significance of intentionality in creating opportunities for kids to interact with good mentors. This heartfelt conversation offers actionable insights for fathers and husbands aiming to improve their daily habits, deepen marital connections, and positively influence their children's development and leadership skills. www.thedadedge.com/friday168 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.playabiggergame.com
In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Listen as members share their stories, highlight their biggest wins, and offer practical tips that have helped them achieve work-life balance, navigate tough emotions, and build stronger relationships with their kids. This episode is packed with real-life experiences and actionable insights that will inspire you to level up your own fatherhood game. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Brad Nelson is the founder of Debt Free Dad. As a dedicated single father, Brad is passionate about empowering everyday people to take control of their finances and achieve a happier, less stressful life. Through The Debt Free Dad Podcast and his online course, Roots of Personal Finance, Brad provides practical financial advice and support. Today, Brad Nelson shares his personal story of overcoming significant financial struggles, including losing his house to foreclosure, and how he now dedicates his life to helping others develop a healthier financial mindset. This episode is unique as it features a community call with members of the Dad Edge Alliance, who ask Brad various questions about managing finances, reducing debt, and planning for the future. Brad and Larry dive into the emotional aspects of money management, discussing how past experiences and emotional attachments can influence financial decisions. They emphasize the importance of setting short-term and long-term financial goals, tracking expenses, and creating a solid plan to alleviate financial stress. Brad Nelson also shares practical tips on cutting costs, such as shopping around for better insurance rates and being mindful of grocery expenses, especially in the current economic climate. Whether you're looking to get out of debt, switch careers, or simply manage your finances better, this episode offers a wealth of information and practical advice. Brad's expertise and the interactive format with the Dad Edge Alliance members make for an engaging and informative discussion that is sure to resonate with fathers and families striving for financial stability and freedom. www.thedadedge.com/486 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.debtfreedad.com www.tiktok.com/@debt_free_dad www.youtube.com/@bradnelson-debtfreedad2751/featured
Shiloh Minor is a dedicated love and marriage coach specializing in helping women transform their relationships. As a wife and mother of two young boys, she brings personal insight to her professional expertise. Through her innovative Real-Love Method, Shiloh empowers intelligent women to cultivate fulfilling marriages without traditional couples therapy. Her mission is to break generational patterns of emotional neglect, guiding women to secure the love, support, and affection they deserve within their existing partnerships. Today, Shiloh Minor's expertise shines as she emphasizes the necessity of focusing on self-improvement rather than changing a partner's behavior. This eye-opening conversation provides essential strategies for building trust, setting boundaries, and nurturing a deeper connection. One of the standout moments comes from Shiloh's advice on handling disappointment and the fear that often accompanies it. She encourages listeners to embrace healing and develop skills to prevent falling into past patterns. Larry complements this by sharing his experiences of coaching men who initially struggle with trust and communication in their marriages. Shiloh's "real love method" underscores the importance of putting oneself first to meet emotional and psychological needs independently. This approach not only strengthens individual self-respect but also enriches the relationship as a whole. www.thedadedge.com/friday167 www.thedadedge.com/alliance Facebook | Facebook | Instagram www.shilohminor.com www.marriagewithpassion.com/happilymarried
In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Listen as members share their stories, highlight their biggest wins, and offer practical tips that have helped them achieve work-life balance, navigate tough emotions, and build stronger relationships with their kids. This episode is packed with real-life experiences and actionable insights that will inspire you to level up your own fatherhood game. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. As a Professional Certified Coach (PCC) with the International Coaching Federation, Andrew Mundy has worked with clients across various fields, including cybersecurity, financial services, nursing, and entrepreneurship. He helps individuals become the best version of themselves by leading and communicating authentically and powerfully. His coaching focuses on: Understanding the impact of negative states and how to shift them. Developing a deeper understanding of vision and purpose to create a meaningful impact.  Setting and achieving goals and targets effectively.  Mastering communication in both work and home settings for greater peace, fulfillment, and happiness. www.facebook.com/andrewmundy2 www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Brett Varvel is an Emmy Award winning director and two-time David Letterman Scholarship winner. He started his own production company, House of Grace Studios, and is now a director, actor, and writer. His credits include American Underdog, Running The Bases, Mayberry Man, Play The Flute, and now Disciples in the Moonlight. His short films, feature films, and online videos have won many awards and have been seen by millions of people around the world. Brett's ambition in life is to share the gospel of Christ through the art of film. Today, Brett Varvel shares his journey from an inspired young boy to a filmmaker dedicated to impactful storytelling. The conversation centers on his latest project, "Disciples in the Moonlight", a film exploring faith in a dystopian America where the Bible is illegal. Brett discusses the decade-long process of bringing this film to life and opens up about his personal life, including his marriage and the challenges they've faced together. He reflects on the influence of his parents' faith and the importance of building a strong spiritual foundation. The episode delves into Brett's own faith journey, which began in a Christian home and deepened through personal exploration in his teenage years. Brett emphasizes the transformative power of scripture in his life and work. Listeners are encouraged to watch "Disciples in the Moonlight," released in theaters last July 17th, which promises to be a thought-provoking experience on faith under persecution. Throughout the conversation, Brett's passion for storytelling and dedication to living out his values shine through, offering inspiration on faith, family, and resilience. www.thedadedge.com/485 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.disciplesinthemoonlightmovie.com www.houseofgracestudios.com
Cory Jenks is the founder of ImprovRx and is a Clinical Pharmacist in Ambulatory Care at Optum. He's a convention-breaking pharmacist, comedian, author, and speaker who combines his healthcare expertise with improv comedy skills to help others adapt to uncertainty and create meaningful connections. Through his innovative approach, books, and performances, he inspires audiences to break free from limiting prescriptions both medical and metaphorical–while finding humor in life's challenges. Today, Cory Jenks shares his unique journey of integrating humor and improv into his roles as a dad and healthcare professional. The conversation explores how a sense of humor can transform parenting challenges into cherished memories and teach resilience through laughter. Cory discusses his background in improv comedy, which he initially pursued to cope with the unpredictability of healthcare, and how it became a vital part of his life. Cory explains key improv principles, such as the "yes, and" technique, demonstrating their application beyond comedy to enhance listening, empathy, and adaptability in daily life. The episode features interactive improv exercises showcasing how these skills can improve interactions with patients, strengthen marriages, and enrich parenting experiences. Listeners will gain insights on incorporating humor and improv techniques to become more present and resilient in their roles as fathers and husbands. Cory's new book, "I Guess I'm a Dad Now," is highlighted as a resource offering practical and hilarious tips for new dads, complementing the episode's engaging and lighthearted discussion. www.thedadedge.com/friday166 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.linktr.ee/coryjenks Facebook | LinkedIn | Instagram | X | Website
In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Listen as members share their stories, highlight their biggest wins, and offer practical tips that have helped them achieve work-life balance, navigate tough emotions, and build stronger relationships with their kids. This episode is packed with real-life experiences and actionable insights that will inspire you to level up your own fatherhood game. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Dan Doty is the founder of Fatherhood Unlocked and Fatherhood Ready, as well as the men's work organization EVRYMAN. He is a leader in men's personal development and fatherhood education, and his background includes wilderness therapy, teaching, and producing the hit show MeatEater. A three-time guest on the Joe Rogan Experience, he has been featured in major media outlets. Dan Doty is a writer, wilderness guide, and meditation teacher who speaks globally on masculinity and fatherhood. Today, Dan Doty shares his personal journey and invaluable lessons learned in fatherhood. He recounts a transformative men's retreat he attended with his own father, which led to an emotional breakthrough and a deeper understanding of their relationship. This experience highlights the importance of vulnerability and open communication in strengthening familial bonds, serving as a powerful example of how addressing unspoken emotions can heal and enrich father-son relationships. The conversation explores the unique challenges and joys of parenting both sons and daughters. He emphasizes the importance of being emotionally available and present for all children, regardless of gender. Dan and Larry also delve into the broader implications of emotional intelligence in fatherhood, discussing how societal norms have often limited men's emotional expression. They offer practical advice for fathers looking to develop their emotional skills, connect more deeply with their children, and create a supportive family environment where emotions are acknowledged and valued. www.thedadedge.com/484 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.dandoty.com www.fatherhoodready.com www.fatherhoodunlocked.com
Darius Foroux is an investor, entrepreneur, blogger, podcast host, and writer in the personal development and personal finance space. He is an author and creator of 8 online courses and books focusing on productivity, Stoicism, and wealth building. He has over 281,000 Medium subscribers, 140,000 email newsletter subscribers, and his blog posts have been read by 30 million individual visitors. His work has appeared in TIME, NBC, Fast Company, The Economist, Vox, Inc., Observer, and many more publications​. Today, Darius Foroux shares his personal journey, including his upbringing in a tight-knit family that valued togetherness and mutual support. He reflects on the lessons learned from his parents, particularly the emphasis on family unity and the importance of prioritizing the group over individual desires. This foundation, he explains, has been crucial in shaping his approach to life and finances. The conversation then shifts to the core of Darius Foroux's book, where he outlines how Stoicism can help us build wealth. He discusses the significance of managing emotions, maintaining a long-term perspective, and focusing on what we can control—our skills and habits. Darius emphasizes the importance of investing in oneself, not just financially but also in terms of personal development and building a strong network. He also shares his own investment strategy, which involves consistently investing in the S&P 500 index fund, and how this approach aligns with Stoic principles by promoting patience and discipline. Finally, Darius Foroux and Larry touch on the concept of accepting loss and the dangers of greed. Darius explains that by adopting a mindset that prioritizes contentment over the relentless pursuit of more, we can achieve greater happiness and stability. This episode is packed with valuable insights and practical advice for anyone looking to navigate the complexities of financial markets with a Stoic edge. Whether you're a seasoned investor or just starting out, the lessons shared in this episode will help you build a solid foundation for enduring prosperity. www.thedadedge.com/friday165 The Stoic Path to Wealth Book | Instagram www.dariusforoux.com
In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Listen as members share their stories, highlight their biggest wins, and offer practical tips that have helped them achieve work-life balance, navigate tough emotions, and build stronger relationships with their kids. This episode is packed with real-life experiences and actionable insights that will inspire you to level up your own fatherhood game. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Bear Rinehart is an American singer, songwriter, and guitarist who is a founding member and lead singer of the rock band, Needtobreathe. In 2019, he announced the launch of a solo career under the name Wilder Woods. His debut solo album was released on Atlantic Records in August 2019. Today, Bear Rinehart shares his journey through fatherhood, reflecting on the challenges he faced during his childhood and the lessons he's learned along the way. With a career spanning over two decades, Bear Rinehart discusses balancing life on the road with his responsibilities as a husband and father to three boys. Bear Rinehart delves into the inspiration behind Need to Breathe's latest album, "Caves," and the song "Fall On Me," which touches on themes of fatherhood and unconditional love. He recounts the emotional experience of dropping his eldest son off at kindergarten and the realization that life is full of challenges. Bear also emphasizes the importance of creating a safe space for his children to share without fear of judgment, a philosophy that extends to his marriage and his approach to dealing with anxiety. The conversation also explores Bear Rinehart's tough childhood, including his experiences with bullying and being a preacher's kid in a small town. He shares how these experiences shaped his worldview and approach to parenting, highlighting the importance of listening to his children and recognizing their individual needs. Bear discusses encouraging his boys to pursue their passions, the significance of ownership and accountability, and how his spiritual journey influences his approach to fatherhood and his career. www.thedadedge.com/483 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.needtobreathe.com Instagram | Facebook | TikTok | X | YouTube | Spotify | Apple Music
Jesi Stracham is the founder of Wheel With Me Foundation and co-developer of the Wheel With Me Adapt Fit app, designed to support the independence and fitness of wheelchair users. After a motorcycle accident in 2015 resulted in a spinal cord injury, Jesi turned her experience into a platform for motivation and empowerment, and set on a mission to inspire the world to live life to its fullest. She also co-owns Freedom Longevity & Wellness LKN in Lake Norman, North Carolina. Today, Jesse Stracham shares her journey from a tumultuous childhood to becoming a beacon of resilience and empowerment. Despite not being a dad, Jesse's story resonates deeply with themes of accountability, personal growth, and the relentless pursuit of one's best self. She opens up about growing up in a family involved in the trucking industry and the lack of guidance that led her to make precarious choices as a teenager. Her life took a dramatic turn when she was paralyzed in a motorcycle accident, forcing her to confront her vulnerabilities and redefine her sense of self. Jesse's candid recounting of her struggles with physical limitations, mental health, and the journey to regain her independence is both heart-wrenching and inspiring. She discusses her transformation through fitness and nutrition, highlighting the power of proper diet and exercise in managing her condition. Her involvement with Adaptive CrossFit, the impact of the 75 Hard program, and her advocacy for better nutritional awareness underscore her insights into the importance of mental resilience, personal accountability, and the role of faith in her recovery. www.thedadedge.com/friday164 www.1stphorm.com/dadedge www.thedadedge.com/alliance   Jesi Stracham
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In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Listen as members share their stories, highlight their biggest wins, and offer practical tips that have helped them achieve work-life balance, navigate tough emotions, and build stronger relationships with their kids. This episode is packed with real-life experiences and actionable insights that will inspire you to level up your own fatherhood game. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Dr. Meg Meeker is a dynamic and inspirational advocate for father-inclusive parenting, with over 30 years of experience as a practicing pediatrician. She is an international speaker, bestselling author of "Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters," and the host of the popular podcast "Parenting Great Kids". She has built a social media community of 700k+ followers and regularly contributes to discussions on pediatric health and child-parent relationships. Today, Dr. Meg Meeker delves into the societal challenges fathers face today, addressing negative stereotypes perpetuated by media and cultural narratives. She discusses the impact of these stereotypes on fathers and their children, advocating for a balanced view of fatherhood. Dr. Meg Meeker also provides practical advice, outlining the four key needs of children from their dads: Affection, Attention, Affirmation, and Acceptance. The episode also explores the dynamics of marital relationships and effective communication between spouses. Dr. Meeker shares insights on how wives can empower their husbands and avoid undermining them, fostering a supportive partnership. The discussion includes the impact of social media on children's mental health and how fathers can set healthy boundaries to protect their well-being. www.thedadedge.com/482 www.thedadedge.com/bark Instagram | Facebook | X | YouTube www.linktr.ee/meekerparenting www.meekerparenting.com
Stephan Friedrich is the founder of Knightlamp Consulting and Psychology, and is one of Australia's leading proponents of trauma-informed behavior support. His career spans over 30 years of work with young people with severe behavior in Australia and has included children in the foster care and juvenile justice systems. He has assisted thousands of parents, foster carers and teachers in understanding and improving extremely challenging behaviors caused by early childhood adversity and infant trauma. Today, Stephen Friedrich shares his journey of migrating from Colombia to Australia at a young age, highlighting the contrast between his unstable early life and the safety he found in his new home. He discusses how early experiences shape resilience and independence, explaining the impact of developmental trauma on a child's physiological and psychological development. Larry then shares his own experiences with childhood trauma, and Stephen provides feedback on the importance of early positive influences and supportive relationships. He discusses the concept of intergenerational trauma and the need for fathers to address their trauma to prevent passing it on to their children. The episode concludes with advice for fathers on seeking help and creating a supportive environment for their children, emphasizing that healing and resilience are possible with the right support and self-awareness. www.thedadedge.com/friday163 www.knightlamp.org www.facebook.com/Knightlamp Use Code "DADEDGE" for 30% DISCOUNT to Trauma Informed Behaviour Support Course here 👉 www.knightlamp-institute.teachable.com
In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Listen as members share their stories, highlight their biggest wins, and offer practical tips that have helped them achieve work-life balance, navigate tough emotions, and build stronger relationships with their kids. This episode is packed with real-life experiences and actionable insights that will inspire you to level up your own fatherhood game. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Justin Walker is a devoted Christian, husband, and father. He married his wife at the age of 24, having been together since they were 17. He retired from the Phoenix Police Department, where he dedicated much of his career to serving on the SWAT team. He is now also the proud owner of MilMak Blades and Copper State Knife Company, and he actively mentors other men and business owners. Today, Justin opens up about his journey to becoming a more patient father, emphasizing the significance of listening to his children and supporting their interests without immediately jumping to solutions. He discusses how visualizing the desired long-term outcomes for his family helps him stay focused and patient in the moment. Justin also delves into his faith journey, revealing how the loss of his father and his experiences in law enforcement initially pushed him away from faith. However, through the influence of his daughter and a supportive church community, he found his way back and embraced Christianity. He shares how his faith now plays a crucial role in his daily interactions with his family, guiding him to treat others with kindness and understanding. The conversation shifts to Justin's relationship with his wife, whom he has known since they were teenagers. He highlights the importance of open communication and the practice of "calling each other forward" to foster growth and understanding in their marriage. Justin's approach to parenting his teenage daughter and pre-teen son is also discussed, focusing on meeting them where they are and preparing them for the challenges of life. www.thedadedge.com/481 Man Minutes Podcast www.milmakblades.com @milmakaz | @milmakblades | @copperstateknifecompany
Shana James is a relationship coach with over 20 years of experience, specializing in building trust and passion in relationships. She holds a Master's in Psychology, certifications in DISC and Positive Intelligence, and hosts the Man Alive Podcast with 270+ episodes and more than 1/2 million downloads. She also has a TEDx Talk, 'What 1000 Men's Tears Reveal About the Crisis Between Men and Women', and authored the books "Honest Sex" and "Power and Pleasure". Today, Shannon James and Larry Hagner discuss the importance of communication, vulnerability, and connection in relationships. They delve into the dynamics of male-female interactions, exploring the need for understanding and empathy in fostering intimacy. The conversation touches on the challenges couples face in maintaining a strong connection amidst the demands of daily life. Shannon emphasizes the significance of mature communication and self-awareness in nurturing a healthy relationship. She shares insights on how men can lead conversations with their partners, focusing on curiosity, empathy, and a willingness to understand each other's needs. Listeners are encouraged to approach relationships as a growth practice, viewing challenges as opportunities for personal development and deeper connection. Shannon's expertise in coaching and relationship dynamics provides valuable insights for individuals seeking to enhance their communication skills and strengthen their bonds with their partners. www.thedadedge.com/friday162 www.shanajamescoaching.com/3ways
In this episode, Larry Hagner shines a light on the incredible members of the Dad Edge Mastermind community. This special "WINSday" edition is all about celebrating our members' successes and sharing the valuable lessons they've learned on their journey to becoming better dads. Listen as members share their stories, highlight their biggest wins, and offer practical tips that have helped them achieve work-life balance, navigate tough emotions, and build stronger relationships with their kids. This episode is packed with real-life experiences and actionable insights that will inspire you to level up your own fatherhood game. Sit back, tune in, and get ready to be motivated by the remarkable guests of the Dad Edge community. www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Kristina Kuzmic is a motivational speaker, comedian, and author celebrated for her relatable and humorous take on parenting and life. Through her viral videos and social media presence, she shares candid and uplifting messages, encouraging people to embrace their imperfections and find joy in everyday chaos. Today, Kristina delves into the struggles she faced when her son began experiencing mental health issues, including depression and suicidal ideation. She candidly discusses the initial reactions of fear and control that she grappled with as a parent, highlighting the shift towards connection and curiosity as a more effective approach to supporting her child. Through her book, "I Can Fix This: And Other Lies I've Told Myself While Parenting My Struggling Child," Kristina emphasizes the importance of vulnerability, open communication, and standing in awe of her son's story. She shares valuable insights on overcoming shame and guilt as a parent, ultimately fostering a deeper connection with her child and promoting mental health awareness. Kristina's story serves as a powerful reminder of the transformative impact of approaching parenting with empathy, understanding, and a willingness to learn from our children's experiences. Her journey highlights the importance of breaking the stigma surrounding mental health struggles and fostering a supportive environment for families facing similar challenges. www.thedadedge.com/480 www.thedadedge.com/bark www.instagram.com/kristinakuzmic www.kristinakuzmic.com
Joey Odom is a dynamic leader and a natural storyteller known for his ability to inspire and foster deep connections with others. His own experience with technology as a husband and dad led Joey to help create Aro alongside co-founder Heath Wilson, a platform that helps families put down their phones and engage in real life. Joey also hosts The Aro Podcast, which is a weekly conversation with leaders and influencers who strive to live intentionally. Today, Joey shares personal stories about his journey as a father, emphasizing the importance of being fully present with his children amidst distractions like smartphones. He discusses the concept of "Aro," which means to notice or turn towards in Maori, and highlights how eye contact and presence can positively impact family dynamics. Joey and Larry also address the challenges parents face in the digital age and offer practical tips for incorporating "Aro time" into daily routines. They encourage listeners to prioritize connection over distractions, showcasing how simple actions like putting down your phone can lead to deeper, more meaningful family relationships. -------------------------------------------- Aro is providing a special deal for your families to finally have fun while reducing your screen time!  Head over to 🔗 www.thedadedge.com/aro and use coupon code: DADEDGE when you sign up for Aro.  If you sign up for a year, you will enjoy one month for free. By signing up for 2 years, you will enjoy 3 months for free.  Larry loves this product and has been using it since January 2024. He has logged over 240 hours of NO PHONE in 5 months! -------------------------------------------- www.thedadedge.com/friday161 www.thedadedge.com/aro www.linkedin.com/in/joeyodom
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game.
Thomas DeLauer is a renowned health and fitness expert known for his expertise in nutrition, intermittent fasting, and high-performance training. As a coach, author, and popular YouTube personality, Thomas provides practical advice and transformative strategies to help individuals achieve optimal health and peak physical performance. His approach combines scientific insights with real-world application, making wellness accessible and achievable for everyone. Today, Thomas DeLauer discusses the importance of work ethic, control, and exercise in his life, highlighting how running served as a coping mechanism during difficult times. Thomas also delves into his relationship with his father and the impact it had on his perspective on fatherhood. He opens up about his struggles with weight gain and type 2 diabetes, emphasizing the pivotal moment that led him to make a change in his lifestyle. He details his daily routine, including fasting, exercise, and the benefits of incorporating apple cider vinegar and lemon into his diet. Thomas explains the science behind fasting, autophagy, and the gut benefits of giving the digestive system a break. Moreover, Thomas addresses common misconceptions about fasting and encourages listeners to consider the mental aspect of fasting. He emphasizes the adaptability of the human body and the importance of challenging oneself to go without food for extended periods. Thomas provides practical tips for incorporating fasting into a daily routine and highlights the mental and physical benefits that come with embracing intermittent fasting. www.thedadedge.com/479 www.thomasdelauer.com/about-me www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.1stphorm.com/dadedge
Brad Nelson is the founder of Debt Free Dad. As a dedicated single father, Brad is passionate about empowering everyday people to take control of their finances and achieve a happier, less stressful life. Through The Debt Free Dad Podcast and his online course, Roots of Personal Finance, Brad provides practical financial advice and support. Today, Brad Nelson shares insights into the common struggles couples face with money and how women are increasingly taking charge of financial responsibilities in households. The conversation highlights the role of budgeting and saving as essential components of financial stability. He also emphasizes the need for a deep-rooted desire to change and set clear short-term and long-term financial goals. He also discusses the challenges people face in giving up certain expenses, such as high car payments and excessive spending on dining out, which can hinder financial progress. Moreover, Brad Nelson shares personal experiences of overcoming financial hardships, including losing a home in foreclosure and navigating through family health challenges. He emphasizes the importance of having a budget, setting financial goals, and making short-term sacrifices to achieve long-term financial freedom. The episode concludes with a discussion on teaching children about financial responsibility and seizing teachable moments to instill positive money habits within the family. www.thedadedge.com/friday160 www.debtfreedad.com www.tiktok.com/@debt_free_dad www.youtube.com/@bradnelson-debtfreedad2751/featured
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.thedadedge.com/spirit
Dr. John Delony is a mental health expert, national best-selling author, and host of "The Dr. John Delony Show." With two PhDs and over two decades of experience in counseling, crisis response, and higher education, he offers practical advice on mental health and wellness. At Ramsey Solutions, Dr. John Delony empowers individuals to navigate life's challenges, focusing on personal growth and trauma recovery. Dr. John Deloney shares his insights on the importance of connection, the impact of financial debt on mental health, and the significance of emotional regulation in relationships. He emphasizes the need to cultivate genuine connections and prioritize emotional well-being over material success. He also delves into the concept of "enough" and how our society's constant pursuit of more can lead to anxiety and stress. He highlights the importance of building a legacy based on emotional connection and authenticity rather than material wealth. Dr. Deloney also discusses the physiological signals our bodies give us when we are not feeling safe and the importance of listening to these cues for overall well-being. Throughout the episode, Dr. Deloney shares personal anecdotes and experiences that underscore the importance of prioritizing emotional health and meaningful relationships. His message resonates with the idea that true fulfillment comes from genuine connections and emotional well-being rather than external achievements or material possessions. www.thedadedge.com/478 www.thedadedge.com/spirit www.johndelony.com www.instagram.com/johndelony www.ramseysolutions.com/personal-growth/what-is-trauma/resources www.ramseysolutions.com/john-delony https://ter.li/0ruz0z
Morris Brown is a director, composer, graphic designer, technical trainer, instructional designer, accomplished artist, revered UCLA educator, and author of the "Hang'n with the Girl's" book series. Today, Morris Brown shares his journey from being a college football star to becoming a prolific writer and a loving "girl dad." He discusses the profound influence his father had on him, teaching him the importance of kindness and resilience in the face of adversity. Morris's calm demeanor and thoughtful approach to life are evident as he recounts his experiences and the lessons he's learned along the way. Morris talks about his unique approach to parenting, which includes writing 21 books inspired by his adventures with his daughters. He explains how the COVID-19 pandemic provided him the opportunity to finally put pen to paper and document the cherished moments he shared with his girls. His books, which started as an 800-page manuscript, were eventually divided into 11 smaller, more manageable volumes, with 10 more in the works. These stories not only serve as a gift to his daughters but also as an inspiration to other parents. The conversation also delves into Morris Brown's diverse background, including his time as a college professor, a television director, and a composer. He shares anecdotes from his life, such as his near-miss with an NFL career and his unexpected friendship with a homeless man who attacked his car. Throughout the episode, Morris emphasizes the importance of being present and engaged with his children, advocating for a balanced approach to handling life's stresses while maintaining a loving and supportive family environment. www.thedadedge.com/friday159 www.thedadedge.com/spirit www.ihangwiththegirls.com https://www.linkedin.com/in/morris-brown-234b8b11
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. www.thedadedge.com/summit2024 www.thedadedge.com/spirit
Michael McQueen is a multi-award winning speaker, change strategist, and bestselling author of 10 books who has helped top brands like Google, Toyota, and Mastercard navigate uncertainty. A regular commentator on TV and radio, he has spoken to over 500,000 people across 5 continents and shared the stage with figures like Bill Gates, Mel Robbins, and Steve Wozniak, earning induction into the Professional Speakers Hall of Fame. Today, Michael McQueen and Larry Hagner discuss the concept of being "mindstuck" and how it affects our ability to change our minds easily. They explore the importance of building trust and creating a safe environment for effective persuasion, especially when dealing with children and teenagers. Michael also shares valuable insights on how to approach conversations with kids, emphasizing the power of aspiration, authenticity, and vulnerability in guiding their behavior. The conversation delves into the significance of asking open-ended questions and avoiding confrontational language, such as starting questions with "why." Michael then highlights the impact of encouragement and storytelling in influencing children's decisions and behaviors. He emphasizes the value of being open-minded as a parent, acknowledging when children offer new perspectives and being willing to learn from them.  www.thedadedge.com/477 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.michaelmcqueen.net www.mindstuck.net The Spirit of Fatherhood
Zuby Udezue is a musician, author, podcaster, public speaker, fitness expert, and life coach. He captivates audiences with his unique perspective, authenticity, and positive energy, earning nearly 2 million followers on social media and over 50 million online video views. He has been featured on major platforms like The Joe Rogan Experience and mainstream news outlets such as BBC and Fox News, establishing himself as a prominent and influential voice. Zuby shares his journey from a shy child in boarding school to an international musician and motivator, discussing how his early experiences prepared him to face the world fearlessly. He'll also give us a sneak peek into his upcoming book, expected to hit the shelves in 2025. Together, we tackle critical topics like the danger of living for immediate gratification, the vital role of physical fitness, and the need for consistency and long-term commitment. Zuby offers insights on turning life's challenges into opportunities for growth and development, drawing parallels between video games and real-life adventures. www.thedadedge.com/friday158 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.zubymusic.com/about www.instagram.com/zubymusic The Spirit of Fatherhood
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. www.thedadedge.com/summit2024 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.1stphorm.com/dadedge
Joshua Broome is a speaker, author, and coach who shares his powerful journey from a career in the adult film industry to finding freedom and purpose through faith. He is the author of "7 Lies That Will Ruin Your Life" where he combines personal experiences with Biblical truths to help others find healing. Joshua shares personal experiences and insights that shed light on the importance of surrendering to God's plan and finding peace in the midst of turmoil. They touch on the concept of false purpose and the dangers of relying solely on one's feelings and instincts rather than trusting in a higher power. The conversation also explores the impact of guilt and fear-mongering in religious contexts, highlighting the need for a more compassionate and understanding approach to faith. Joshua Broome shares his own struggles with judgment and skepticism from others regarding his past in the porn industry and his journey towards redemption and faith. Through biblical examples and personal anecdotes, the episode emphasizes the transformative power of grace and the ability to overcome past mistakes. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on the idea that no sin is too great for God's forgiveness and that true faith is not about meeting a standard of holiness but about embracing the love and grace offered by God. The episode serves as a reminder that redemption is possible for all, regardless of past actions, and that true peace and purpose can be found in surrendering to a higher power. www.thedadedge.com/476 www.instagram.com/iamjoshuabroome www.joshuabroome.me 7 Lies That Will Ruin Your Life
Damion Lupo is a serial entrepreneur and best-selling author in personal finance who is rewriting the rules and plans for retirement. Damion has $438M dollars in assets under management and has raised $100s of millions of dollars. He is on a mission to free 1 million everyday investors from the broken traditional retirement system. Damian shares his journey from being thrown out of college for starting a bookstore to losing $25 million in 2008 and becoming homeless. He emphasizes the shift from chasing money to solving problems as the key to his success. Damian also discusses his latest venture, FrameTech, a revolutionary construction company focused on vertical integration and automation in framing. The conversation delves into Damian's views on investing, particularly in the current market climate. He highlights the importance of taking control of one's investments and diversifying beyond traditional options like stocks and bonds. Damian introduces the concept of EQRP (Enhanced Qualified Retirement Plan) as a versatile retirement account that allows individuals to invest in a wide range of assets, from real estate to precious metals. Furthermore, Damian shares insights on financial planning and retirement goals. He challenges the conventional wisdom of accumulating a specific monetary target for retirement and instead focuses on achieving financial freedom by eliminating personal debt and generating passive income. www.thedadedge.com/friday157 www.eqrp.com/dadedge www.vitruvianventures.com
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. www.thedadedge.com/summit2024 www.thedadedge.com/mastermind
Erin Alejandrino is a seasoned Men's coach with 10+ years experience helping nearly a 1,000 men burn fat, build muscle, and become The High Value Men that lead in their Faith, Fitness, Family, and Finances. He is the host of The High Value Man Conversation Podcast, CEO of The Fitbeard and The High Value Man Company and Co-founder of The Modern Day Knight Project. Erin Alejandrino shares his journey from being overweight and struggling with relationships to finding purpose, health, and a deeper connection with his faith. He discusses the pivotal moment that led to his health transformation and the realization that he needed to take ownership of his life. Erin opens up about his upbringing without a father figure and how it influenced his relationships with men and women. He shares insights into the impact of being raised primarily by his mother and the journey of redefining his core values and vision for a fulfilling life. The conversation also touches on the importance of surrounding oneself with a supportive tribe and the role of resilience in overcoming obstacles. He emphasizes the significance of faith in his life and how it has become a foundational aspect of his journey towards personal growth and fulfillment. He reflects on his evolving relationship with spirituality and the role of faith in guiding his decisions and actions. The episode offers valuable insights into the power of resilience, core values, and the pursuit of a purpose-driven life. www.thedadedge.com/475 www.thefitbeard.com
Frank Rich is a renowned bodybuilder, successful entrepreneur, and esteemed men's health coach. He is also the esteemed host of 'The Super Human Life' Podcast, where he imparts invaluable wisdom. With a profound personal journey that involved battling addiction, depression, and anxiety for nearly two decades, Frank now dedicates himself to empowering men who face similar challenges. Today, Frank Rich shares his personal journey from confusion and struggle with his identity, marked by the frequent mix-up of his name, to his transformative battle against pornography addiction. Frank opens up about the impact of having two first names and how this minor confusion led to significant reflections on his personal and professional identity. Throughout the conversation, Frank discusses the turning points in his life, including his decision to embrace Christianity and how it catalyzed his recovery from pornography addiction. He details the steps he took to overcome this challenge, emphasizing the importance of community support, identity transformation, and developing new, healthier habits. Frank's story is not just about battling addiction but about reshaping one's life and purpose through profound personal growth. www.thedadedge.com/friday156 www.rebuiltrecovery.com www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. www.thedadedge.com/summit2024 www.amazon.com/Spirit-Fatherhood-Larry-Hagner
Matt Schneider brings a wealth of experience as a serial entrepreneur with a portfolio that spans diverse industries. His journey from law enforcement into the business world, including roles such as the EVP of Fit Pro Tracker and founder of multiple successful enterprises, illustrates his fearless approach to entrepreneurship. Today, Matt shares his personal journey of breaking the cycle of unhealthy relationships he witnessed growing up, emphasizing the significance of prioritizing and fighting for a successful marriage. The conversation highlights the value of friendship within a marriage, showcasing how shared interests and mutual respect can strengthen the bond between partners. The discussion also touches on the importance of self-awareness and understanding one's own goals and aspirations, as well as those of their partner. Matt and Larry emphasize the need for clear communication, curiosity, and appreciation in a relationship to foster growth and support each other's dreams. They also discuss the impact of conflict resolution and setting boundaries in front of children, demonstrating healthy ways to navigate disagreements and maintain respect within the family dynamic. Overall, the episode serves as a reminder of the ongoing work and dedication required to build a successful marriage, with a focus on communication, mutual support, and shared experiences. Matt Schneider and Larry Hagner's insights provide valuable lessons on how to cultivate a strong and lasting relationship based on friendship, understanding, and a shared vision for the future. www.thedadedge.com/474 www.ignitionmastermind.com www.instagram.com/mattschneider_official
Dr. William Elder is a psychologist at the South Texas VA Hospital. He has served as the hospital's Military Sexual Trauma Coordinator, Director of the PTSD Clinical Team, and Evidence-Based Psychotherapy Coordinator. He has published research about the psychology of men and masculinities and the treatment of PTSD. He has also been awarded Student of the Year, the Loren Frankel Research Award, and Practitioner of the Year by the American Psychological Association Division 51 (Society for the Psychological Study of Men and Masculinities). In this episode, Dr. William Elder delves into his motivation to study trauma therapy after experiencing the challenges of supporting a spouse with PTSD. Dr. Elder highlights the common misconceptions about PTSD, emphasizing that traumatic events leading to PTSD are not limited to combat experiences but can include various forms of violence, disasters, and threats to life. The conversation also explores the signs and symptoms of PTSD, shedding light on the four primary symptoms: re-experiencing, avoidance, hypervigilance, and negative thoughts/emotions. Dr. Willam Elder also emphasizes the importance of understanding and addressing these symptoms to facilitate healing and improve relationships. The episode concludes with insights on the fine line between validating emotions and enabling negative behavior, highlighting the importance of acknowledging and supporting emotional experiences without condoning harmful actions. Through personal anecdotes and professional expertise, Dr. William Elder provides valuable insights into navigating relationships, understanding PTSD, and fostering emotional connection. www.thedadedge.com/friday155 www.sugarvalleytherapy.com www.ptsd.va.gov www.instagram.com/sugarvalleytherapy www.facebook.com/SugarValleyTherapy
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. www.thedadedge.com/summit2024 www.thedadedge.com/mastermind
Dr. Alok Kanojia aka 'Dr. K' is a Harvard-trained psychiatrist specializing in modern mental health for the digital generation. He is the President and Cofounder of Healthy Gamer, a mental health platform that provides content, expert wellness coaching, and community to young people. Dr. K is known for his expertise in various areas related to mental health, particularly as they relate to psychology and spirituality. Dr. K sheds light on the rapid evolution of video games from simple pastimes to complex, never-ending journeys that can lead to addiction. With rates of video game addiction doubling over a decade, Dr. K emphasizes the unique challenges parents face today compared to previous generations. Dr. Alok Kanojia also touches on the social aspects of gaming, explaining how games like Fortnite create a community that becomes integral to a child's social life, making it even harder for parents to set limits. He offers a fresh perspective on parenting strategies, advocating for understanding and collaboration over strict screen time limits. www.thedadedge.com/473 www.healthygamer.gg www.instagram.com/healthygamer_gg www.youtube.com/HealthyGamerGG www.instagram.com/parentingwithdrk
Dr. Peter Martone aka 'Dr. Sleep Right' is an educator and patient care practitioner who has been focused on improving patient's biomechanics for over 23 years during his private practice as a chiropractor. Dr. Martone's revolutionary concepts are designed to help restore proper biomechanics of the spine by adopting a neutral sleeping position, helping you sleep better, live longer and be healthier. His techniques have been featured on CBS, NBC, Fox News, Dave Asprey's Upgraded Conference, and over 50 podcasts as he travels the world teaching people how to regain their health by mastering the art of sleeping. Dr. Peter Martone shares his personal journey of overcoming back pain and sleep issues, leading him to develop a unique approach to improving sleep quality through proper posture alignment during sleep. The conversation covers various topics, including the impact of sleep on the body's systems, such as digestion, immune function, and hormonal balance. Dr. Peter Martone also explains how forward head posture can compress the vagus nerve, leading to digestive issues and other health concerns. He also provides practical tips for improving sleep posture, such as using specific pillows and creating a safe environment for the subconscious brain to promote restful sleep. www.thedadedge.com/friday154 www.drsleepright.com www.instagram.com/drmartone www.facebook.com/drmartone www.instagram.com/necknest www.neck-nest.myshopify.com
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. www.thedadedge.com/summit2024 www.thedadedge.com/mastermind
Wade Joye is a speaker and leadership coach, author of "This Dream Is Not For You," and host of the "Dreamers and Disciples" podcast. He served as the Worship Pastor at Elevation Church for over 14 years until transitioning off of staff in late 2021 to serve churches and leaders across the country through his teaching and coaching ministry. Wade recounts the emotional story of his twin daughters' premature birth and the subsequent health issues they faced, including a life-threatening condition for his youngest daughter, Sydney. He opens up about his battle with bitterness and anxiety, and how he learned to see God's miracles in the midst of hardship. The conversation shifts to the importance of maintaining a strong marriage, especially when facing life's challenges. Wade emphasizes the significance of communication, fun, and spiritual connection with his wife, including the practice of praying together daily. He offers practical advice for couples looking to strengthen their relationship through faith and shared experiences. www.thedadedge.com/472 www.wadejoye.com www.instagram.com/wadejoye www.youtube.com/@wadejoye
Laura Heck is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Gottman Therapist, and Sex Therapist in private practice working exclusively with couples to manage conflict and deepen intimacy and pleasure. Laura is also the co-host of Marriage Therapy Radio with Zach Brittle since 2017, where straight-talking marriage therapists and guests tackle the most common complaints virtually every relationship experience. Laura shares insights from her experience as a marriage and sex therapist, highlighting the importance of maintaining a strong friendship foundation in a relationship. She emphasizes the significance of curiosity, admiration, and attentiveness towards one's partner to foster a deep connection and understanding. The conversation delves into the concept of shared purpose and vision in a relationship, showcasing how aligning goals and aspirations can strengthen the bond between partners. Laura also touches on the common pitfalls in communication, such as using extreme language like "always" and "never," which can lead to misunderstandings and conflicts. www.thedadedge.com/friday153 www.laurahecktherapy.com Register for The Seven Principles Workshop here: www.marriagetherapyradio.com/seven-principles-workshop
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. www.thedadedge.com/summit2024 www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Christopher Lindsey aka 'Roderick Strong' is an American professional wrestler currently signed to All Elite Wrestling (AEW), where he performs under the ring name Roderick Strong. He is a member of the Undisputed Kingdom stable and is the current AEW International Champion in his first reign. Roderick Strong opens up about his challenging childhood, marked by his parents' tumultuous relationship, his mother's battle with drug addiction, and the traumatic event of his mother shooting his father when he was just 11 years old. Roderick shares how his experiences growing up have shaped his perspective on parenting and the importance of creating a safe and nurturing environment for his son. He emphasizes the significance of allowing his son to be his true self and fostering a sense of safety both physically and mentally. Throughout the conversation, Roderick highlights the role of friendship and community in his life, emphasizing the importance of surrounding oneself with supportive and understanding individuals. His insights offer a powerful reminder of the transformative power of self-awareness, resilience, and the pursuit of genuine connections in navigating life's challenges. www.thedadedge.com/471 www.instagram.com/roderickstrong www.allelitewrestling.com/post/roderick-strong-is-the-new-aew-international-champion
Jesse LeBeau is one of the top youth motivational speakers in the world and is regularly featured on some of our favorite TV shows, movies, and media outlets. Jesse is also the founder of The Attitude Is Everything Foundation that has helped over 250,000 teenagers improve their mental health through self-esteem building programs. He currently stars in the Emmy nominated new sitcom "This Just In" on Saturday mornings on Pop TV.  From navigating daily life without roads and stores to pursuing his passion for basketball despite being the underdog, Jesse's story is one of resilience and determination. He shares how pivotal moments with bullies and the unwavering support from his parents shaped his attitude towards life's challenges. Jesse delves into his basketball career, which led him to opportunities in entertainment, including working with icons like Kobe Bryant and Heidi Klum. His experiences taught him valuable lessons about ignoring naysayers and focusing on personal goals. Jesse's transition from aspiring NBA player to motivational speaker allowed him to impact the lives of over a million kids, emphasizing the importance of attitude in overcoming adversity. www.thedadedge.com/friday152 www.theattitudeadvantage.com/welcome www.jesselebeau.com/youth-speaker www.instagram.com/jesselebeau
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. www.thedadedge.com/summit2024 www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Allana Pratt is a global media personality and go-to authority for those ready to heal heartbreak, live unapologetically, and attract a soul-shaking relationship. She is the Author of 6 books, has interviewed Whoopi Goldberg and Alanis Morissette, and Hosts the edgy Podcast Intimate Conversations: Season 11- Soul Medicine, where listeners learn how to 'Become the One' to 'Find the One' which 'Awakens the One.' Allana Pratt shares her personal journey of finding love and doing psychedelic somatic integration work to heal past wounds. She emphasizes the significance of feeling through difficult emotions to achieve personal growth and strengthen relationships. Allana highlights the impact of unresolved trauma on relationships and the importance of teaching children healthy emotional expression. She stresses the value of creating a safe and loving environment for children to learn relationship skills and emotional intelligence. Allana also shares her experience of how childhood trauma can affect trust, intuition, and self-expression in adulthood. www.thedadedge.com/470 www.allanapratt.com www.facebook.com/coachallanapratt www.youtube.com/allanapratt   Get Allana's 'Become the One Introductory Program' for $0! Checkout Code: LARRYINTRO   Get $400 OFF for 'Intimacy Breakthrough Experience Call with Allana' Discount Code: READYNOW
Trevor Maxwell is the founder and CEO of Man Up to Cancer, a support community that inspires men to connect and avoid isolation during their cancer journeys. He is also the author of "Open Heart, Warrior Spirit: A Man's Guide to Living with Cancer." Trevor has been living with stage IV colon cancer since March of 2018. He has undergone seven major surgeries, chemotherapy,  immunotherapy, and a clinical trial. Trevor Maxwell shares his personal journey of being diagnosed with stage four colon cancer at the age of 41 and the impact it had on his life and family. He emphasizes the importance of community and peer support for men going through cancer. He also discusses the challenges of isolation and the negative consequences it can have on mental health, relationships, and medical outcomes.  Through Man Up To Cancer, Trevor aims to change the culture around men's approach to cancer by normalizing shared burdens and encouraging open communication. www.thedadedge.com/friday151 www.manuptocancer.org www.facebook.com/cancerwolves www.instagram.com/cancerwolves www.tiktok.com/@manuptocancer
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. www.thedadedge.com/summit2024 www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Jon Acuff is the New York Times bestselling author of nine books, including his most recent, "All It Takes is a Goal". For over 20 years he's also helped some of the biggest brands tell their story, including The Home Depot, Bose, and Staples. His fresh perspective on life has given him the opportunity to write for Reader's Digest, Fast Company, The Harvard Business Review and Time Magazine. Jon Acuff emphasizes the importance of setting realistic expectations for children's development and not rushing their growth process. He highlights the significance of nurturing children's interests without suffocating them, allowing them to explore and discover their passions at their own pace. He shares personal anecdotes and insights on how he approaches goal-setting with his own children, emphasizing the need to pay attention to what lights them up and to nurture their curiosity. Jon Acuff also touches on the importance of creating a supportive environment for children to explore their interests and develop their skills. www.thedadedge.com/469 www.instagram.com/jonacuff www.jonacuff.com Amazon Store
Jon Fogel is a dad, pastor, and advocate for evidence-based, non-trauma-inducing parenting methods. He is known under the moniker "WholeParent" on Social Media, where he has over 1 Million followers across multiple platforms. As WholeParent, Jon offers a unique perspective on parenting grounded in evidence-based research in areas of child development, adolescent psychology, and basic neuroscience, synthesizing strategies from the worlds of cognitive-behavioral therapy, general counseling, and even contemplative meditation to help parents manage problematic behaviors and grow deeper in their relationship with their children, their partner, and themselves. Jon Fogel shares his personal journey and the pivotal moments that shaped his approach to fatherhood. From growing up in a high school known for its comedic alumni to the loss of his father and the birth of his son, he discusses how these experiences led him to a deeper understanding of how our brains react to stress and the importance of developing new neural pathways for better parenting responses. He also explains the concept of neural pathways and how our childhood experiences shape our default reactions as parents. He then offers practical advice on how to ground ourselves in moments of high stress with our children, emphasizing techniques like deep breathing, grounding exercises, and the importance of not feeding the emotional fire. www.thedadedge.com/friday150 www.thedadedge.com/patience www.thedadedge.com/summit2024 www.instagram.com/wholeparent
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. www.thedadedge.com/summit2024 www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Kimberly Hill is a certified dating and relationship coach who supports good-hearted men to achieve healthy, loving relationships. She's also the host of the relatable and inspiring podcast The Self-Confidence Project where she discusses everything from life, dating, divorce, sex and how to live a meaningful life. Kimberly shares her unique journey from working in the high-stakes environment of financial derivatives to becoming a relationship coach, drawing on her extensive experience with male-dominated industries to offer a fresh perspective on what men struggle with in their personal lives. Throughout the conversation, Kimberly Hill offers practical advice and personal anecdotes that shed light on common communication pitfalls and the importance of understanding one's own needs and desires in a relationship. She emphasizes the significance of clear, assertive communication and provides listeners with a simple yet powerful framework for expressing feelings and resolving conflicts with partners. Whether you're single, dating, or in a long-term relationship, this episode is packed with valuable insights and actionable tips to help you build stronger, more fulfilling connections with those around you. www.thedadedge.com/468 www.kimberlyninahill.com www.thedadedge.com/25questions
Dan Peterson is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor (LCPC), advanced trainer for the Nurtured Heart Approach™ (NHA), and the founder of The Compass 4 Life. He specializes in helping adults who work with or have challenging children develop strategies for their child to succeed in both the school environment and family setting. Dan Peterson shares his personal journey from growing up in a large family with young parents to becoming a father himself at the age of 32. He reflects on the contrast between his upbringing and his approach to parenting, emphasizing the importance of a strong foundation in marriage before taking on the role of a parent. He also touches on the long-term effects of unresolved childhood issues, highlighting the potential for depression, anxiety, and susceptibility to peer pressure as children grow older. Dan Peterson underscores the critical need for connection and acceptance, which are fundamental human needs that persist throughout life. www.thedadedge.com/friday149 www.thecompass4life.com/dadedge www.thedadedge.com/patience www.thedadedge.com/summit2024
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.ramseysolutions.com/john-delony www.amazon.com/Audible-Building-a-Non-Anxious-Life
Chris Daughtry is an American singer, musician, and actor. He is the lead vocalist and a guitarist for the rock band Daughtry, which he formed after placing fourth on the fifth season of American Idol. Chris's journey from a small town to rock stardom is a testament to the power of passion and relentless pursuit. His story began in an algebra class, where he first showcased his singing talent, and has since been marked by dedication and hard work—values deeply ingrained by his father. Chris shared intimate stories of his life, including the life-changing encounter with his wife, Deanna, and the joys and challenges of becoming a "bonus dad" at the young age of 20. His approach to parenting, characterized by humility and responsibility, offers profound insight into the man behind the music. Chris Daughtry's appearance on American Idol was a turning point in his career, where he captivated audiences with his raw talent and emotional performances. Despite facing challenges and setbacks, Daughtry's determination and passion for music propelled him to the top of the charts, earning him accolades and recognition in the music industry. His unwavering commitment to his craft and his ability to connect with audiences on a deep emotional level have solidified his place as a music icon. Through his music and personal experiences, Daughtry continues to inspire and captivate audiences, leaving a lasting impact on the music industry and beyond. www.thedadedge.com/467 www.daughtryofficial.com www.instagram.com/chrisdaughtry
Steven Robertson is an acclaimed keynote speaker, trainer, generational expert, author of "Aliens Among Us: 10 Surprising Truths about Gen Z", and the CEO of BOLD-Training. He inspires audiences and invigorates businesses as he shares from his experience of over 30 years. Steven emphasizes the unique characteristics that define each generation, shaped by the "perfect storm" of technology, world news, social media, and leadership or parenting styles. The conversation takes a deep dive into the challenges faced by Gen Z, the first generation to be digital natives, and how their communication styles differ from previous generations.  Steven Robertson also explains the concept of the "8-second filter," debunking the myth of the 8-second attention span, and highlights the importance of creating compelling content to engage effectively with younger generations. www.thedadedge.com/friday148 www.stevenjrobertson.com www.instagram.com/steven_j_robertson
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. www.thedadedge.com/summit2024 www.thedadedge.com/mastermind www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Marc Von Musser is the CEO of Soar and Roar Inc., and the Founder of a human optimization program called "111 Days to Greatness", awakening the greatness in others and helping people become their greatest self and live their dream life. He is also a highly sought after Sales and Coaching Expert who has helped thousands of companies large and small, grow their profits by over 100%, 500% and even 1000%. Marc Von Musser shares his transformation from a man who was ready for boys to a devoted girl dad who embraced the challenge of raising strong, confident daughters. He recounts the lessons he learned in teaching his girls everything from tracking animals to excelling in cross-country running, proving that girl energy and boy energy each have their unique strengths. Marc's story takes us through his own childhood, marked by a mix of dysfunction and adventure, as he grew up with a father who was a child movie star turned developer and a mother who was Miss Norway. Despite the challenges of an alcoholic household, Mark found solace and success in martial arts, where he excelled beyond his expectations. The conversation also touches on broader societal issues, as Marc discusses the emasculation of men in media and the importance of authentic masculinity. He emphasizes the need for men to awaken to their true potential and to resist the programming that has led to a decline in male confidence and purpose. www.thedadedge.com/466 www.soarandroar.com
Mike Schroder is the co-founder of Future Fans, a company that uses stories and games to teach core concepts of sports in a kid-friendly way. With a focus on future-forward solutions, he plays a pivotal role in shaping the way companies interact with their communities, driving growth and fostering loyalty. Mike shares his unique perspective on growing up in a bustling household and how his role as the youngest influenced his personality. He reflects on the subtleties of advocating for oneself and the dynamics of sibling relationships. He also discusses the profound lessons he learned from his dad's steady emotional presence and his approach to life's stages. Mike Schroder's father's decision to forgo treatment for his terminal illness is a poignant example of his pragmatic and appreciative outlook on life, which has left a lasting impact on Mike. www.thedadedge.com/friday147 www.futurefans.com www.instagram.com/futurefanssports www.facebook.com/futurefanssportss
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. www.thedadedge.com/summit2024 www.thedadedge.com/mastermind www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Dr. Tim Elmore is a best-selling author, leadership expert, and keynote speaker who's trained more than 500,000 leaders in hundreds of organizations worldwide. He is also the founder and CEO of Growing Leaders, an Atlanta‐based non‐profit organization created to develop emerging leaders. His work grew out of 20 years of serving alongside Dr. John C. Maxwell. Tim Elmore shares his rich experiences as a father, husband, and mentor, providing valuable lessons and strategies for raising confident and capable children. From discussing his favorite childhood pastime to the hilarious and somewhat embarrassing tales of his college days, Tim opens up about the moments that shaped him. He also stresses the significance of humility, ownership, and the impact of a strong marital relationship on children. He introduces the concept of "chess and checkers" in parenting, urging parents to tailor their approach to the individual needs of each child. Finally, Tim discusses his latest book "I Can't Wait", which is a collection of 52 inspiring stories about children making a difference. He explains how these stories can spark meaningful conversations between parents and children, and how they serve as a reminder that age is no barrier to making a significant impact. www.thedadedge.com/465 www.icantwaitbook.com www.timelmore.com
Ruari Fairbairns is the founder and CEO of OYNB. He is a leading figure in the health and well-being space known for his passionate advocacy for healthier living. Ruari has been instrumental in steering OYNB to the forefront of the alcohol-free movement, inspiring over 100,000 people worldwide to reassess their relationship with alcohol, and strive to become the best version of themselves. Larry Hagner and Ruari Fairbairns discuss the impact of meditation, breathwork, and mindfulness on stress management and overall well-being. Ruari shares insights from his experience with a friend from AA and highlights the importance of understanding the underlying drivers of compulsive behavior. Ruari Fairbairns also shares success stories of individuals who have transformed their relationship with alcohol through a holistic approach that focuses on personal growth, trauma healing, and self-regulation techniques like meditation and breathwork. He then explains how tools like neurofeedback and EEG devices can provide valuable insights into brain activity and help individuals cultivate healthier habits. The episode concludes with a discussion on the power of self-control and the importance of building new neural pathways to change addictive behaviors. www.thedadedge.com/friday146 Get 15% Discount using promo code "EDGE" Schedule a FREE 15-min Call: www.oneyearnobeer.com/dadedge Instagram: www.instagram.com/rfairbairns LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/ruarifairbairns
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.1stphorm.com/dadedge
Steven Rinella is a renowned writer, TV personality, and the founder of MeatEater Inc., an outdoor lifestyle company. He is also the host of the Netflix show MeatEater and The MeatEater Podcast. He has gained wide popularity with hunters and non-hunters alike through his passion for outdoor adventure and wild foods, as well as his strong commitment to conservation. Steven and Larry delved into the complexities of family, parenting, and marriage. Steven Rinella opens up about his conflicted feelings towards his father, sharing personal anecdotes that paint a picture of a man who was both the "worst and the best dad". The episode takes a turn towards the outdoors as Steven Rinella, an avid hunter and fisherman, reflects on the importance of involving his children in outdoor activities. He emphasizes the value of exposing them to "arenas of consequence," where making mistakes can have immediate repercussions, thereby teaching them resilience and problem-solving skills. Whether you're an outdoor enthusiast, a parent grappling with the legacy of your upbringing, or someone looking to strengthen your marital relationship, this episode offers insights and experiences that resonate with the challenges and joys of family life.  www.thedadedge.com/464 www.thedadedge.com/summit2024 www.themeateater.com www.instagram.com/stevenrinella @MeatEaterTV
Jason Schnitzer aka "The Husband Coach," is a dedicated relationship coach specializing in helping men become better partners, focusing on communication, empathy, and personal growth to strengthen marriages and partnerships. His "Reclaim Control" program focuses on breaking free from destructive behaviors to improve self-control and personal growth. Jason shares his personal journey from being a professional baseball player to embracing the world of jujitsu, and how this transition has influenced his approach to handling emotions and conflicts. He opens up about the challenges he faced in his marriage, the pivotal moments that led him to self-reflection, and the realization that perhaps the issues at hand were not solely external, but also internal. Jason and Larry also break down the nervous system's role in our emotional states, using the analogy of an upside-down stoplight to describe the green, yellow, and red states of being. They explain how our past experiences, even from childhood, can shape our current responses to stress, fear, and confrontation. www.thedadedge.com/friday145 www.thedadedge.com/25questions www.jasonschnitzercoaching.com
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Chauncey Leopardi is an American actor known for playing Michael "Squints" Palledorous in the 1993 film The Sandlot and Alan White in the 1999 series Freaks and Geeks. As we celebrate the 30th anniversary of the movie "The Sandlot", Chauncey takes us on a journey through his unique childhood experiences, from starting his acting career at a young age to the complexities of growing up in a blended family. Chauncey Leopardi opens up about the dynamics of his family life, including the impact of his parents' separation and the influential presence of his stepfather. He shares insights into the world of acting during the '80s and '90s, a time when craftsmanship in film was at its peak, and the sets were built with an attention to detail that is rarely seen today. As a father of five, Chauncey Leopardi discusses the challenges and joys of parenting and maintaining a strong marriage. He emphasizes the importance of staying committed and being the captain of the ship, no matter how rough the seas may get. His approach to life is one of taking responsibility and control, ensuring that he's present and engaged with his family. www.thedadedge.com/463 www.instagram.com/squints
Ryan Alford is the CEO of Radical, a digital ad agency. He also hosts his own marketing and advertising podcast, The Radcast, which has over 130 episodes with listeners all over the world. Ryan Alford and Larry Hagner discuss the importance of setting clear structures and boundaries in blended families. They emphasize the significance of being a positive role model for children and how children are keenly aware of their parents' happiness and fulfillment. Their conversation also delved into the balance between love and discipline, showcasing the importance of providing clear expectations and examples for children to follow. Ryan Alford also touches on the impact of physical fitness on parenting, highlighting the role of exercise in maintaining mental and emotional well-being. He shares personal experiences of how fitness has positively influenced his parenting styles and relationships with his children.  www.thedadedge.com/friday144 www.theradcast.com www.ryanalford.com
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Lt. Colonel Dave Grossman is an internationally recognized scholar, author, soldier, and speaker who is one of the world's foremost experts in the field of human aggression and the roots of violence and violent crime. Lt. Grossman talked about the importance of fatherhood, spiritual warfare, and the impact of video games on the younger generation. He emphasizes the biblical perspective on the responsibility of fathers to their children and the significance of turning hearts towards family members. Larry and Lt. Colonel Grossman also discusses the concept of spiritual combat and warfare, highlighting the importance of prayer and faith in navigating life's challenges. Drawing parallels between historical events and modern-day issues, they shed light on the dangers of unregulated access to violent video games and the impact it can have on youth. www.thedadedge.com/462 www.grossmanontruth.com
Tim and Kathy Bush established War Room Ministries in August of 2020 to serve men, marriages, families, and churches across the country. Their ministry focuses on developing Christian character through redemption, relationships, and resilience. They are also involved in speaking at marriage conferences and retreats across the country, sharing their insights and experiences to help others. Tim and Kathy Bush's marriage started when they were just 18 and 20 years old, respectively. They acknowledge that they may not look old enough to have been married for 42 years, but this highlights the fact that they got married at a young age. Tim shares that they got married because Kathy unexpectedly got pregnant, which resonates with many young couples who find themselves in similar situations. Despite the challenges they faced, they made a commitment to each other and built a life together. They also emphasized the importance of communication and understanding within a marriage. Tim and Kathy's ability to openly discuss their past and present experiences demonstrates their commitment to growth and improvement. They acknowledge their flaws and mistakes, which allows them to work together as a team. www.thedadedge.com/friday143 www.thedadedge.com/25questions www.warroomministries.com
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Keith Yackey is the Founder and CEO of The Married Game and The Ascend Brotherhood, known for his innovative approaches to enhancing marital relationships and personal growth. His work emphasizes the importance of attraction and connection in marriage, drawing from his diverse experiences and insights. He candidly shares his journey from being on the brink of his second divorce to becoming what he calls a "provocateur" – a man who provokes admiration, desire, and commitment from his partner. Keith and Larry begin by acknowledging their own past mistakes, demonstrating a commitment to self-improvement. They focus on authentic solutions for personal growth, emphasizing the importance of responsibility in one's actions. Keith then highlights the significance of authenticity in relationships. He describes his relationship with his spouse as "flirty" and "fun," underscoring the value of a genuine connection. He also emphasizes the role of supporting one's partner and nurturing their dreams, illustrating the importance of mutual support and serving as a leader who uplifts others. www.marriedgame.com/keith-personal
Angus Nelson is an executive coach, speaker, and facilitator, specializing in emotional intelligence and high-performance team building. He brings a unique blend of experience in personal development and corporate innovation, empowering leaders and teams to thrive in today's fast-paced business environment. Men are twice as likely to take their own lives. This alarming fact sets the stage for a discussion on the importance of seeking help and support. Angus Nelson acknowledges that isolation is a major factor contributing to this statistic. Many men, out of pride and fear of judgment, keep their struggles to themselves. Angus Nelson goes on to explain that many individuals have things they are unwilling to say out loud, even to themselves. Instead of seeking support, they distract themselves with various activities or substances. This avoidance stems from a belief that admitting to having a problem or struggling makes them less of a man, less of an alpha species. However, the truth is that nobody is perfect, and everyone has their own issues. Angus emphasizes that even those who may seem aspirational or perfect have their own weighty problems. Angus and Larry Hagner suggests that giving oneself grace, love, and self-compassion can be transformative. By accepting that imperfection is a shared human experience, individuals can find healing and develop a more compassionate mindset. Angus believes that if individuals can extend grace and compassion to themselves, they can also spread those qualities to others. www.thedadedge.com/friday142 www.angusnelson.com
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.thedadedge.com/25questions
Paul Hutchinson is an entrepreneur, philanthropist, and influential speaker recognized for his dedication to child welfare and humanitarian efforts. He founded the Child Liberation Foundation, leading over 70 undercover rescue missions across 15 countries, resulting in the liberation of thousands of children. The lesson of dancing instead of fighting, learned from playing rugby, has valuable applications in various aspects of life. Whether in sales, personal relationships, or raising children, approaching conflicts with empathy and understanding can lead to more positive outcomes. By finding common ground and gradually redirecting the focus, it becomes possible to achieve goals without engaging in direct confrontation. Paul Hutchinson also emphasizes the importance of honing a boy's energy into something positive. He shares a story of his sons play-wrestling on the kitchen floor while he and his wife have a conversation nearby. Despite the chaotic scene, Paul and his wife embrace the energy and find it amusing. This demonstrates their ability to see the positive side of their sons' boisterous behavior and appreciate it for what it is. Another important aspect of raising boys with a positive influence is teaching them values and instilling a sense of responsibility. Paul mentions the saying, "You can raise dangerously good men, but if you don't do it right, you can raise dangerous men." This highlights the importance of guiding boys towards making good choices and understanding the consequences of their actions. By providing a supportive and nurturing environment, parents can help boys develop into well-rounded individuals who contribute positively to society. www.thedadedge.com/460 www.paulhutchinsonofficial.com
Dr. Amanda Craig is a licensed marriage and family therapist, author, speaker, wife, and mother. She is known for her work in individual, couples, and family therapy, as well as for authoring the book "Who Are You and What Have You Done with My Kid?" which focuses on parenting tweens. Dr. Amanda Craig's practice emphasizes building strong, emotionally connected families. Dr. Craig's interest in psychology began during her college years, when she took psychology classes. She admits that she struggled as a student and didn't find her passion until she discovered psychology. The subject matter energized and excited her, sparking a deep curiosity about human behavior and emotions. This newfound passion led her to seek therapy herself, further solidifying her interest in the field. One particular aspect of psychology that captivated Dr. Amanda Craig was the study of relationships. She recalls taking a family systems course during her master's program, which emphasized the significance of relationships for people's wellbeing. This realization resonated with her, and she became convinced of the importance of understanding the dynamics between individuals and the impact it has on their lives. www.thedadedge.com/friday141 www.amandacraigphd.com www.amandacraigphd.com/new-book @amandacraigphd
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. thedadedge.com/mastermind
Corey LaJoie is a professional NASCAR Cup Series driver and third-generation racer. He is known for his competitive spirit and engagement with fans through his podcast, "Stacking Pennies." He balances his racing career with philanthropy, emphasizing his passion for both motorsports and community involvement. Corey shares how his grandfather and father were both successful racers, which naturally led him to be involved in the sport from a young age. Despite the pressure and expectations that came with his family's racing heritage, Corey discusses how he ultimately had to make the choice to pursue racing for himself.  He also sheds light on the intense competitiveness of racing, particularly in the world of go-kart racing. Corey's experience aligns with what he has seen in the industry. He recalls stories from a client who had a son involved in go-kart racing, where parents would go to great lengths to ensure their child's success. Some even flew high-end mechanics from overseas to work on their kid's go-kart. www.thedadedge.com/459 www.coreylajoieracing.com Stacking Pennies Podcast
Brad Rhoads founded Grace Marriage in 2015 to help churches and couples prioritize marriage. Prior to this, Brad was a practicing attorney for 22 years. He served as a marriage pastor at their local church, where he noted the nationwide absence of an intentional, ongoing strategy to keep couples on a trajectory of growth. In this episode, Brad Rhoads shares his personal journey of feeling pressure to perform in his Christian life. He talks about how a friend helped him understand the concept of relying on the grace of God instead of his own efforts. Brad Rhoads explains the freedom he experienced when he realized that it's okay to not be perfect and that he could enjoy life without the heavy burden of constantly striving. He also discusses how this mindset shift improved his relationships and allowed him to embrace imperfection. One of the key factors that they emphasized is the importance of prioritizing quality time in marriage. The busyness of life often takes a toll on couples, causing them to go through the motions and lose sight of what truly matters. With kids' activities, work demands, and financial pressures, it becomes easy to neglect the relationship and settle for a mediocre marriage. Many couples desire a better marriage, but they lack the knowledge and guidance on how to achieve it. They may have tried attending conferences or seeking advice, but nothing seems to bring about lasting change. As a result, they resign themselves to the status quo, accepting that their marriage is simply tolerable. However, Brad and Larry argue that there is hope for a better marriage. The answer is not as difficult as it may seem, but many couples have not been given the tools or coaching to break free from their stagnant situation. The key is to find the answer and receive the necessary guidance to have a fulfilling and joyful marriage with one's best friend. www.thedadedge.com/friday140 www.gracemarriage.com/our-story
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.shanajamescoaching.com
David Hauser is an American entrepreneur, speaker, and angel investor, best known for co-founding the Grasshopper Group, a virtual telephone service that was acquired by Citrix Systems for $170 million in 2015. He is also a founding member of the National Entrepreneurs' Day and has co-founded several tech companies, including Grasshopper, Chargify, Spreadable, PopSurvey, and Deck Foundry. In this episode, David Hauser and Larry Hagner discuss the concept of work-life balance and challenge its validity. They argue that balance is elusive and can prevent us from fully engaging in both work and personal life. Instead, they advocate for integration, finding ways to include family and personal responsibilities into our professional pursuits. They also explore the history of the term "work-life balance" and its connection to the increase of women in the workforce. David Hauser then argues that constantly striving for balance can be detrimental, as it consumes valuable time and energy. Instead of constantly thinking about how to allocate time between different areas of life, he suggests integrating family and personal commitments into daily activities. The origins of the term "work-life balance" are also briefly discussed, with David Hauser suggesting that it emerged in the 70s or 80s when more women entered the workforce. The term was created to address the challenge of balancing work responsibilities with the role of being a mother.  However, the concept of balance itself is questioned, as it implies a trade-off between work and personal life, which may not be the most effective approach. By integrating work and family life, parents can demonstrate the importance of dedication, perseverance, and delayed gratification to their children. www.thedadedge.com/458 www.davidhauser.com www.linkedin.com/in/davidhauser www.instagram.com/dhauser www.twitter.com/dh www.facebook.com/dh.dhauser
Dr. Michael Gervais is a renowned high-performance psychologist and the host of the Finding Mastery podcast, where he explores the psychology of peak performance with world-leading experts and athletes. His work focuses on helping individuals excel in high-stakes environments and unlock their full potential. In this episode, Larry Hagner and Dr. Michael Gervais delve into a fascinating discussion about the mind, emotions, and the power of being present. They explore the concept of the brain as hardware and the mind as software, emphasizing the importance of upgrading our mental software through training and self-awareness. They also distinguish between emotions (observable and physical) and feelings (subjective and interpretive), highlighting the role of thoughts in shaping our emotional experiences. The conversation further explores the challenges of being present in a world filled with distractions and the aversion many people have to being alone with their thoughts. They discuss the fear of not being enough and the deep-rooted need for acceptance and belonging. Dr. Michael Gervais shares insights from his book, highlighting the real consequences of stress and anxiety and offering practical strategies for managing them. Throughout the episode, Dr. Michael Gervais emphasizes the importance of training the mind, just like we train our physical and technical skills. He discusses the power of acute stress and the benefits of pushing ourselves to the messy edge, as well as the value of mindfulness meditation and other contemplative practices in cultivating presence and navigating stress. Overall, this episode offers valuable insights and practical tools for upgrading our mental software and living a more fulfilled and present life. By increasing awareness of our thoughts, feelings, and emotions, we can better navigate the external world and cultivate a sense of calm and confidence. www.thedadedge.com/friday139 www.findingmastery.com Finding Mastery Podcast The First Rule of Mastery: Stop Worrying about What People Think of You
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. ww.thedadedge.com/alliance
Connor Beaton is a men's life coach, founder of ManTalks, and an author focusing on men's wellness and personal growth. He integrates Jungian psychology and somatic therapy into his coaching and speaking engagements​ In this episode of the Dad Edge podcast, host Larry Hagner and guest Connor Beaton talk about the power of voice in conveying emotions and creating a comfortable environment for effective communication. They discuss how slowing down speech and being mindful of tone can reduce anxiety and improve relationships. Connor Beaton shares his expertise in voice training and music, explaining how a person's voice can reflect their internal state. He suggests that speaking quickly or in a high-pitched tone can be indicative of anxiety or discomfort. By intentionally slowing down speech, individuals can bring attention and presence to their delivery, thereby potentially reducing anxiety and creating a more calm external perception. The conversation also extends to the impact of voice in parenting and marriage. Connor Beaton emphasize how their calm demeanor and voice can influence the behavior and emotions of their children and partners. They note that when they are calm, their children and partners also tend to be calm. This demonstrates that voice plays a crucial role in creating a sense of safety and comfort in relationships. www.thedadedge.com/457 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.mantalks.com
JC Batista is a father and a husband. He shares his powerful and heartbreaking story of losing his 25-year-old son to substance abuse and gun violence. Despite facing unimaginable pain and grief, JC and his wife have shown incredible resilience and strength in navigating through this tragedy. In this Dad Edge Podcast episode, Larry Hagner is joined by JC Batista and heard about JC's poignant tale of losing his 25-year-old son and the profound impact it had on him and his wife. Their journey, steeped in sorrow, is also a narrative of resilience and shared purpose. The episode explores crucial themes like personal growth in the face of adversity, the effects on marital and family bonds, and discovering strength amidst tragedy. JC Batista places a strong emphasis on personal growth, underscoring the necessity of mental, emotional, and physical preparedness for life's challenges. He advocates for continuous self-improvement as a tool for building resilience, enabling individuals to more effectively overcome difficult periods. The strength of JC's marriage shines through as he recounts the various hurdles they've encountered. Their united vision of nurturing a robust family unit has consistently guided them. They've learned the importance of mutual support during times of grief, becoming each other's pillars of strength. This unwavering commitment to their union has significantly contributed to their collective resilience. Addressing the inevitable anger and unanswered questions that follow tragedy, JC Batista admits to grappling with these emotions himself. He stresses the importance of redirecting anger into constructive paths like personal growth and solution-finding. Rather than dwelling on the unanswerable "why," he advocates for focusing on the "how" – how to grow, how to help others. In conclusion, JC's story is a powerful illustration of the resilience possible in the face of personal tragedy. Through their harrowing experience of losing a child, JC Batista and his wife have confronted their grief together, offering unwavering support to each other and their family. Their story is not just one of enduring pain but also of finding purpose and strength in each other, highlighting the value of self-improvement, open communication, and helping others navigate their struggles. www.thedadedge.com/friday138 www.thedadedge.com/alliance Instagram: @jcbatista4383  YouTube: @jcbatistathemirrorneverlies
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. thedadedge.com/mastermind
Gary Chapman, Ph.D. is an author, speaker, and counselor. He has a passion for people, and for helping them form lasting relationships. The 5 Love Languages® is one of Chapman's most popular titles, topping various bestseller charts for years, selling over twenty million copies and has been on the New York Times bestsellers list since 2007. In this episode of Dad Edge, Dr. Gary Chapman discusses his new book on the five traits of a healthy family. He shares that many people struggle with understanding what a good family looks like, especially if they come from a dysfunctional background. Dr. Chapman wrote the book to provide guiding principles for those who are unsure or struggling with creating a healthy family dynamic. Dr. Gary Chapman emphasizes that the attitude of service is crucial for building a healthy family. He acknowledges that humans are naturally self-centered, but in order to have a healthy family, individuals must adopt an attitude of service. This means approaching relationships and family life with a mindset of wanting to help each family member reach their potential for good in the world. He also emphasizes that while individuals may not have control over their emotions, they can choose their attitude. This means that even when negative feelings arise, such as anger or hurt, individuals can still choose to think in terms of how they can enrich the lives of their family members. By choosing an attitude of love, individuals can respond to their family members in a positive and loving way, even when their emotions might be telling them otherwise. www.thedadedge.com/456 www.thedadedge.com/25questions www.5lovelanguages.com
Joel Staley is a fitness coach and the creator of the Shed Fat Fast program, specializing in helping individuals optimize their health and reduce body fat through methods like intermittent fasting. Despite holding a lucrative six figure job, he made the brave decision to quit on his daughter Kennedy's first day at daycare. In this episode of The Dad Edge, host Larry Hagner sits down with Joel Staley for a raw and insightful conversation about fitness, fasting, and finding your purpose. They dive deep into the importance of nutrition, the benefits of fasting, and the keys to building a great physique. Joel Staley, a successful fitness coach and entrepreneur, shares his own journey of leaving a corporate job to pursue his passion for helping others. They also discuss the significance of setting small goals, finding a supportive community, and being an active and involved parent. Joel Staley emphasizes the importance of finding a sustainable diet that includes a balance of healthy meals and indulgences. It's not about depriving yourself, but rather enjoying nutritious food while still allowing room for treats. While Joel used to believe fasting was the answer to everything, he now sees it as just one tool for building a lean physique. Fasting can optimize hormone levels, aid in weight loss, and improve energy levels and self-mastery. However, it's essential to break a fast with healthy, whole foods to feel great and avoid discomfort. Both Larry and Joel stress the importance of finding a strong reason or "why" to prioritize physical fitness. Whether it's being an active and involved parent or wanting to keep up with your kids, having a compelling purpose will motivate you to take action and make positive changes. www.thedadedge.com/friday137 www.shedfatfast.com/gift
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. thedadedge.com/mastermind
Aaron Hale is a former Navy chef and Army EOD team leader turned motivational speaker and entrepreneur, overcoming blindness and deafness to found the chocolate company Extra Ordinary Delights​​​​​​. In this episode, host Larry interviews guest Aaron Hale who shares his powerful story of resilience and overcoming the odds. Aaron Hale reflects on his journey from being an all-American slacker to facing challenges in college and gaining the "Freshman 50." Determined to find his purpose, he turned to cooking, a passion he had since childhood. From being a Navy cook to becoming an Explosive Ordnance Disposal (EOD) technician. Aaron's journey is one of determination, adaptability, and a desire to serve their country in the best way possible. Aaron Hale's journey begins with a comfortable job in the military. He enjoys the perks and safety that come with his position, and for a while, it feels like a cushy gig. However, he soon realizes that he craves something more. He wants to serve a greater purpose and be on the front lines of danger. Another factor that contributes to Aaron Hale's decision to transition from comfort to danger is the nature of his job as a Navy cook. The Navy views cooks as the military equivalent of hotel restaurant management. Their duties often involve working in dining facilities on bases or in barracks, which can be mundane and unchallenging. Aaron's placement as a night clerk at the front desk of the bachelor quarters during his shore duty further reinforces his desire for something more stimulating. Aaron's motivation to serve others and make a positive impact also drives his transition from comfort to danger. He believes that by doing his best for others, he can lead a more fulfilling life. This mindset aligns with his desire to contribute and do something greater than himself. Additionally, Aaron Hale admits that it's also fun to blow things up, highlighting his adventurous spirit and willingness to embrace the excitement and challenges that come with being an EOD technician. www.thedadedge.com/455 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.EODfudge.com
Michelle Icard is the author of the books "Fourteen Talks by Age Fourteen" and "Middle School Makeover". She has a degree in Education and has worked with parents, children, and teachers for more than 20 years, creating curriculum, books, and programs that help them better understand and navigate early adolescence. In this episode, Larry Hagner interviews Michelle Icard about their family and their experiences in parenting. Michelle shares that she has two adult children and two dogs. The conversation also touches on their long-term marriage and recent celebration at a concert. Setbacks can lead to success. This is a concept that is explored in the podcast transcript, where the author, Michelle Icard, discusses her book "8 Setbacks That Can Make a Child a Success." The conversation revolves around the idea that setbacks and failures are not necessarily negative experiences, but rather opportunities for growth and development. Michelle begins by sharing her own experience of being relationship and commitment phobic before getting married. She explains that she and her husband dated for seven years before tying the knot, which she finds amusing. This sets the stage for the discussion on setbacks and how they can shape individuals and relationships.  She reveals that she does not have a lot of frustration in her marriage and that it has been mostly easy. She attributes this to the fact that both she and her husband came into the relationship with burdens from their own childhoods and approached their marriage with loyalty and flexibility. They deeply appreciate stability, which they lacked in their upbringing. www.thedadedge.com/friday136 www.instagram.com/michelleicard linktr.ee/MichelleIcard
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. thedadedge.com/mastermind
Matt Parker is the co-founder of The Exodus Road, a non-profit organization dedicated to combating human trafficking. He started his anti-trafficking efforts in Thailand in 2010, which led to the creation of the organization in 2012. In this episode of The Dad Edge podcast, host Larry Hagner interviews Matt Parker, the co-founder of The Exodus Road. Matt Parker shares his journey from running a children's home in Thailand to becoming an undercover operative working with the Thai Royal Police to rescue victims of trafficking.  Matt Parker discusses the importance of being vulnerable and open with his wife and children about the challenges he faces in his work, and how it has strengthened their relationships. Matt also emphasizes the need for couples to invest in their marriage through date nights, counseling, and open communication. He then shares insights on trauma and the importance of seeking help and healing, as well as the impact of online exploitation on children and the steps parents can take to protect their kids. Throughout the episode, Matt's message of resilience, growth, and the power of vulnerability shines through. Matt's story serves as a powerful reminder that even in the face of darkness, we can find strength and make a difference in the lives of others. He encourages listeners to redefine success as personal growth and improvement, rather than striving for perfection.  www.thedadedge.com/454 www.theexodusroad.com Instagram: @theexodusroad
Eric Grannis is the co-author of the book "A+ Parenting: The Surprisingly Fun Guide to Raising Surprisingly Smart Kids." Eric's ethos revolves around challenging the traditional definition of intelligence based on academic performance. In this episode, Eric Grannis joins Larry Hagner and explores the topic of raising smart kids. He begins by discussing the concept of intelligence and how it has evolved over time. He shares his personal experience of struggling in school but eventually excelling through understanding his own learning style. Eric Grannis also emphasizes the importance of recognizing that intelligence is not solely defined by grades or traditional measures, but rather by understanding how each child learns best. Eric Grannis acknowledges that the term "smart" is used in the podcast title to attract attention, but the book they discuss is about helping kids find their interests and passions in life. They emphasize the importance of going beyond school and college, where knowledge is dictated, and instead finding what truly interests and engages them. The conversation also touches on the harmful tendency of parents to compare their children to others, particularly in terms of educational achievements. Eric Grannis suggests that this comparison can be detrimental and that parents should focus on fostering their child's passions and creativity instead. Investing in our kids is of utmost importance. As parents, we have a responsibility to guide and nurture our children, helping them grow into successful and fulfilled individuals. However, it is essential to recognize that success and intelligence are not solely determined by grades and academic achievements.  www.thedadedge.com/friday135 www.amazon.com/Parenting-Surprisingly-Guide-Raising-Smart
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. thedadedge.com/alliance
Dr. Doug Lucas is a double board certified physician specializing in metabolic health, hormone optimization for both men and women, as well as osteoporosis. He is known for his innovative approach in patient care, leveraging his expertise to improve longevity and vitality​ In this episode, Dr. Doug Lucas shares his journey into the medical field as an orthopedic surgeon specializing in foot and ankle. He discusses the significance of diseases that impact feet, such as diabetes, and the importance of nutrition and aging. After seven years, he transitioned into pursuing additional training to focus on these areas. The episode delves into the topic of nutrient-poor, calorie-dense food and its impact on our health. Larry Hagner and Dr. Doug Lucas discuss how our diet has evolved over the past century, transitioning from simple, locally sourced foods to highly processed and calorie-dense options. This shift was initially driven by the need to transport food into cities and support a growing population. However, what was once a practical solution to food scarcity has now become a major contributor to the obesity epidemic. The abundance of food available today has led to a situation where most people have access to more food than they could ever need. However, this food is often lacking in essential nutrients and packed with empty calories. As a result, people are becoming overweight and suffering from diet-induced diseases. The consequences of consuming nutrient-poor, calorie-dense food are far-reaching. Not only does it contribute to obesity, but it also leads to a host of other health issues. Dr. Doug Lucas also mentions the prevalence of chronic diseases such as diabetes and osteoporosis, which can be attributed, at least in part, to poor dietary choices. This highlights the need for a shift towards a more balanced and nutrient-rich diet. www.thedadedge.com/453 www.optimalhumanhealth.com www.drdouglucas.com
Todd Herman is an acclaimed performance strategist and coach, known for helping athletes, business leaders, and entrepreneurs unleash their potential by tapping into alter egos. He is also the author of the book called "The Alter Ego Effect". His innovative methods blend psychology and peak performance tactics to achieve exceptional results. In this Dad Edge episode, host Larry Hagner and guest Todd Herman discuss various topics, including their age, prescription glasses, and a quote about spending time with children. The guest shares a statistic that 80% of personal time with kids is used up by the age of 12. This quote has had a profound impact on the host, prompting him to reflect on how he uses his time with his own children. Children grow up quickly, and the opportunities to create lasting memories and build strong relationships are fleeting. It is essential to be present, engaged, and intentional in our interactions with them. Quality time spent together not only strengthens the bond between parent and child but also contributes to the child's overall well-being and development. As parents, we must make a conscious effort to create meaningful experiences and memories with our children. This may involve setting aside dedicated time for activities, conversations, and shared interests. It may also require us to be fully present, putting aside distractions and focusing on the present moment. In a world filled with constant distractions and busy schedules, it is easy to overlook the value of time with children. However, as the podcast conversation highlighted, time is a finite resource, and once it is gone, it cannot be reclaimed. Therefore, it is crucial to prioritize and make the most of the time we have with our children. www.thedadedge.com/friday134 www.alteregoeffect.com www.amazon.com/Alter-Ego-Effect-Identities-Transform-ebook
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. thedadedge.com/alliance
Don Manning is a father of seven children and the co-founder of Crazy Cool Family. With three decades of marriage experience, Don has paved the way for success in the family relationship category. He emphasizes the importance of embracing differences for stronger relationships and prioritizing growth. In this episode, Larry interviews Don Manning, a father of seven children. Don shares his experience of raising a blended family with four girls and three boys. He discusses the challenges he faced and his determination to figure it all out. Don also talks about the genesis of his project, Crazy Cool Family, which aims to help other parents navigate the complexities of parenting. Differences in marriage provide opportunities for personal development. When faced with differences, individuals are challenged to step out of their comfort zones and learn new ways of thinking and being. This growth can lead to increased self-awareness, empathy, and a broader perspective on life. Don mentions that his wife's relational orientation has taught him valuable lessons about family relationships, highlighting the importance of understanding and appreciating the unique strengths that each partner brings to the marriage. It is important to note that embracing differences in marriage requires effort and a willingness to learn and grow together. It is not always easy, and conflicts may arise along the way. However, by viewing differences as opportunities rather than obstacles, couples can transform their challenges into catalysts for personal and relational development. www.thedadedge.com/452 www.crazycoolfamily.com dads@crazycoolfamily.com
Dr. Adolph Brown III is a servant-leader at heart, a life-long mental health & safe spaces advocate, a renowned parent/family television host, career teacher educator, top business motivational speaker, marque entrepreneurial business keynote speaker, virtual presenter, and peak performance coach. He is highly regarded as the "balcony" human leadership advisor, and highly skilled peak performance coach who gets you from where you are to where you want to be while having the most fun ever.  In this episode, Larry Hagner and Dr. Adolph Brown III discusses their love for the "Back to the Future" movies and the iconic characters they are named after. They also talk about the various jokes and references people make about their names, such as references to famous boxers. The conversation then shifts to Doc Brown's large family, consisting of eight children. Doc Brown shares that having a larger family has its benefits, with the children taking care of each other and the household being surprisingly orderly. Large families have their benefits. While some may view having a large family as chaotic and overwhelming, Brown highlights the love and support that exists within his family unit. One of the benefits of having a large family is the unlimited love that each family member has for each other. Brown emphasizes that despite having eight children, he and his wife have an abundance of love for each of them. Additionally, the children themselves have unlimited love for each other. This creates a strong bond and support system within the family, where everyone takes care of and looks out for one another. Another benefit is the sense of order and organization that can be found in large families. Contrary to what some may expect, Brown mentions that his home is not chaotic, but rather orderly. The children play together in groups and move from room to room together. They even take responsibility for checking on any accidents or mishaps that occur in the house, reassuring their parents that everything is fine. This sense of collective responsibility and teamwork contributes to a harmonious household. It is important to note that the benefits of having a large family may not be immediately apparent to those who come from smaller families or have not experienced it themselves. www.thedadedge.com/friday133 www.thedadedge.com/bark www.docspeaks.com www.instagram.com/adolphbrown
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. thedadedge.com/alliance
Granger Smith, also known by his alter ego, Earl Dibbles Jr., is an American Southern Baptist minister, former country music singer and songwriter, and a New York Times bestselling author. He continues to share his personal testimony to fans across the globe through his book Like a River: Finding the Faith and Strength to Move Forward After Loss and Heartache. After the tragic loss of his son, River, Smith set forth on an inescapable path of discovery towards God's grace and mercy. In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, Larry Hagner sits down with country music artist Granger Smith. Granger opens up about the challenges he faced after securing a book deal that put a target on his back. He shares his struggles and thoughts of quitting, as well as the decision he made to persevere despite potential consequences. Granger draws powerful insights from his experiences with wild mustangs, emphasizing the importance of surrendering control and finding strength in acknowledging that we are not the highest power.  The conversation dives into the keys to successful relationships, the power of forgiveness, and finding worthiness in the gospel. Granger also shares personal anecdotes, including a traumatic period in his life and a turning point on a music tour that brought him a sense of normalcy.  Granger Smith then shares his own struggles with worthiness and self-doubt, particularly in accepting a book deal without the traditional credentials. However, he discovers that worthiness is not based on personal achievements or the absence of sin. Instead, it lies in the understanding that we are created for a purpose and that our identity as children of God offers forgiveness, restoration, and a sense of worthiness. This reminder allows us to overcome past mistakes and embrace the assurance of redemption. Throughout the conversation, Granger Smith emphasizes that successful relationships require trust, listening, and commitment. Too often, we are overwhelmed with options, hindering our ability to make a calculated decision. Granger encourages narrowing down our choices and prioritizing these key factors. By doing so, we can cultivate stronger connections and meaningful relationships. Granger draws inspiration from his experiences with wild mustangs, emphasizing that surrendering control is not a sign of weakness. Just like a horse with immense power can trust its master and run into battle without pulling up until commanded to, surrendering control allows us to acknowledge that there is a higher power at work. In recognizing this, we find strength, peace, and clarity. www.thedadedge.com/451 www.thedadedge.com/alliance  www.grangersmith.com www.instagram.com/grangersmith
Gary John Bishop is one of the leading Personal Development experts in the industry with a global reputation that has impacted tens of thousands of people worldwide. His "urban philosophy" approach represents a new wave of personal empowerment and life mastery that has caused miraculous results for people in the quality and performance of their lives. He is the author of the New York Times bestseller "Unfu*k Yourself: Get Out of Your Head and Into Your Life" and "Stop Doing That Sh*t: End Self Sabotage and Demand Your Life Back". In this episode, Larry Hagner and Gary John Bishop reunite for the fifth time to catch up on each other's lives, including Gary's recent trip to Germany with his sons who are pursuing their dreams of becoming professional soccer players. They also discuss the upcoming data summit and how their experiences tie into the book they are working on. One of the key themes explored in the podcast is the importance of understanding family dynamics. Larry Hagner and Gary John Bishop discuss how studying oneself and reflecting on their own upbringing is crucial for personal growth and effective parenting. Gary John Bishop uses the metaphor of "biting your own teeth" to illustrate the difficulty of self-reflection. It is impossible to physically bite your own teeth, just as it can be challenging to objectively observe and analyze oneself. However, Gary John Bishop emphasizes that this introspection is necessary in order to gain a deeper understanding of one's own parenting style and the impact it has on their children. Gary also shares their own realization from the book, highlighting the tendency to either repeat or reject aspects of their own childhood. He admit that he had not previously viewed his parents as individuals with their own experiences and challenges. Gary's book helped the host recognize the importance of understanding their parents' stories and how they influenced their own upbringing. www.thedadedge.com/friday132 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.garyjohnbishop.com
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. thedadedge.com/alliance
Adam Lane Smith is "The Attachment Specialist", helping people heal, connect, and build relationships. Leveraging years of professional experience as a licensed psychotherapist, he has honed his craft as a highly sought-after Attachment Specialist and personal coach. He has helped people from a variety of lifestyles, from blue collar families with marital troubles to millionaire CEOs looking for dating help, or anyone looking to fix their dating life, marriage, or overall health of all relationships.  In this episode, Larry Hagner and guest Adam Lane Smith discuss the topic of attachment and its impact on relationships and marriages. They delve into their personal backgrounds and how their upbringing shaped their attachment styles. They also highlight the prevalence of attachment issues in today's society, with research showing that a significant majority of adults in America struggle with attachment. Attachment shapes our relationships in profound ways. It is the way we connect with other human beings, giving and receiving love. Our attachment style is learned from our caregivers, primarily our parents, and it forms the foundation for how we relate to others throughout our lives. Adam Lane Smith further explains that attachment issues can stem from various factors, including neglect, abuse, absent parents, or inconsistent caregiving. When children experience these adverse circumstances, their brains often internalize the belief that something is wrong with them or with others. This belief shapes their attachment style and influences how they connect with others. Recognizing and understanding our attachment style is crucial for personal growth and building healthier relationships. Therapy and self-reflection can help individuals address and heal from attachment wounds. By gaining insight into our attachment patterns, we can work towards developing more secure and fulfilling connections with others. www.thedadedge.com/450 www.thedadedge.com/alliance  www.adamlanesmith.com/courses
Rob Kenney is known as the "Internet Dad" (a Google search of that term immediately brings up his name). But he's also a self-described introvert who, through genuine concern for others, unexpectedly achieved digital fame during the pandemic. His channel "Dad, How do I" has more than 4 million subscribers, drawn by his straightforward tips and sincere encouragement.  In this episode of the Dad Edge podcast, Larry Hagner welcomes the Rob Kenney where they had a fun conversation about being a dad. They discuss various topics such as home repairs, parenting challenges, and the concept behind the YouTube channel "Dad, How Do I?". Rob also shares a funny idea his wife had about a jar for every time someone asks "Mom, do you know where's my…" Overall, it's an entertaining and relatable discussion about fatherhood. Rob Kenney's traumatic childhood had a profound impact on his life, particularly in his quest for perfection. At a young age of 14 and a half, Rob experienced the separation of his parents, which led to him moving in with his older brother and his wife. This transition was not easy for Rob, as he felt the weight of living up to unrealistic expectations. He believed that if he could be perfect, he could prevent such a traumatic event from happening again. The theme of traumatic childhood and striving for perfection is a common struggle for many individuals who have experienced similar hardships. Trauma can shape one's perception of themselves and their place in the world, leading to a constant need to prove their worth and avoid further pain. The desire for perfection becomes a defense mechanism, a way to control their environment and prevent future trauma. However, it is important to recognize that striving for perfection is an unattainable goal. Nobody is perfect, and the pressure to be flawless can be detrimental to one's mental health and overall well-being. Rob's story serves as a reminder that it is crucial to seek support and healing instead of trying to meet unrealistic expectations. www.thedadedge.com/friday131 www.thedadedge.com/bark www.youtube.com/channel/UCNepEAWZH0TBu7dkxIbluDw
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. thedadedge.com/alliance
Joshua Broome is an ex-pornstar turned pastor, and is the current chief strategy officer of Share The King. He has had a 6-year period career in the porn industry where he is known to be one of the most successful adult film star. Today, he is known for his work in combating the lies of the world with the truth found in the word of God. Growing up in a small town in South Carolina with a teenage mother and no father, Joshua's upbringing has shaped his identity and influenced his journey.   In this episode, Larry Hagner welcomes a special guest, Joshua Broome, a former porn star. They discuss the interesting phenomenon of high podcast downloads but low social media engagement when it comes to discussing topics related to porn. They also delve into Joshua's personal life, including his family, and explore his childhood growing up without a father. Joshua Broome's personal experiences highlight the real-life consequences of engaging in the porn industry. He discuss the internal struggle they faced, trying to reconcile his personal values and desires with the demands of their career. Joshua also admits that he allowed himself to be dehumanized and accepted situations that deep down he was not comfortable with, all in the name of conforming to the expectations of the industry. However, Joshua Broome's story also offers a powerful message of redemption through faith and opportunity. Despite being trapped in a cycle of shame and selfishness, Joshua experienced a transformative moment when a bank teller saw him and asked if he was okay. This simple act of genuine concern and recognition sparked a domino effect that led him to make the decision to leave the porn industry and pursue a different path. Faith played a significant role in the guest's journey towards redemption. As a person of faith, he attributes the promptings and premonitions he felt to the Holy Spirit. These divine promptings urged him to reach out and connect with others, reminding him of the importance of human connection and compassion. Joshua's faith also played a role in his decision to leave the industry, as he saw his name being used to call him out of a place of death and into a life of salvation. www.thedadedge.com/449 www.thedadedge.com/bark www.joshuabroome.me www.instagram.com/iamjoshuabroome
Bill Courtney is an accomplished businessman, speaker, award winning film subject and writer, and the founder of Classic American Hardwoods, Inc., a company that employs 120 people with a 45 acre manufacturing facility and domestic sales offices boasting in excess of $45 million in annual sales. He is also a nationally recognized and sought-after speaker keynoting at a variety of venues from the Para Olympics in Colorado Springs to Nike, Frito Lay, FedEx, and other nationally recognized companies. In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, Bill Courtney shares his three rules when it comes to playing time and dealing with helicopter parents. He emphasizes that asking to play won't guarantee more playing time and encourages parents to have conversations off the field about anything other than playing time. Coach Bill Courtney also opens up about his challenging upbringing, including the absence of his father and the traumatic experiences he faced growing up. Bill Courtney grew up in a broken home, with his parents divorcing when he was just four years old. His father passed away recently, and he had no relationship with him. His mother, on the other hand, was married and divorced five times, exposing him to various father figures who were often worse than his absent father. This lack of stability and constant changes in his family structure undoubtedly had a profound impact on his childhood. Childhood trauma can have long-lasting effects on individuals, often leading to negative outcomes. However, it is essential to recognize that resilience can be fostered even in the face of adversity. Bill's story serves as an inspiration, showing that it is possible to rise above one's circumstances and build a successful and fulfilling life. This conversation highlights Bill's journey from a childhood filled with dysfunction and trauma to becoming a resilient and successful individual. His ability to forgive, excel in sports, and find healing demonstrates the impact of childhood trauma on shaping resilience. This story serves as a reminder that resilience can be cultivated, even in the face of significant challenges, and that childhood trauma does not have to define a person's future. The choice to be a rock, as advocated by Coach Spain, empowers individuals to rise above their circumstances and become symbols of strength and resilience. www.thedadedge.com/friday130 1stphorm.com/dadedge www.normalfolks.us www.coachbillcourtney.com
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. thedadedge.com/alliance
Logan Mulvey is a serial entrepreneur, proven operator, CEO of YogaWorks, and the co-founder and managing director of GoDigital Media Group (GDMG), a media and technology company focused on intellectual property rights management and distribution though its multiple operating subsidiaries. In this episode of The Dad Edge podcast, entrepreneur and CEO Logan Mulvey joins host Larry Hagner for an insightful discussion on work-life balance and being present with loved ones. As a successful serial entrepreneur and proven operator, Logan understands the pressures of building a career. However, through his experiences as a father raising three young sons–Declan, McCoy, and Fletcher, he has learned the importance of disconnecting from work and being fully immersed in family life. Logan shares stories about his sons' unique personalities - the overachieving first-born, the confident and cool middle child, and the little guy with a big heart. He highlights simple but meaningful ways he makes time for his family, like spending ordinary moments together, being available for breakfast prep, and truly watching his kids play. This transparent conversation resonates with all listeners, not just entrepreneurs and parents. It emphasizes being emotionally and physically present with loved ones instead of just going through the motions. Logan challenges people to put down distractions and have sincere interactions - a reminder that quality time requires full engagement. With insightful anecdotes and thoughtful perspectives, Logan Mulvey provides listeners with motivation and realistic tactics for achieving work-life integration. His words of wisdom help reframe success - it's not about business achievements or lavish vacations but rather finding fulfillment in simple daily experiences with family. www.thedadedge.com/448 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.godigitalmg.com www.cinqmusic.com www.soundroyalties.com www.wearemitu.com www.yogaworks.com www.bobstores.com www.ems.com www.nglmitu.com
David Hoffman is a top realtor, business owner, economist, and the founder of David Hoffman Realty, an Inc. 5000 company consistently ranked in the top 50 firms as per the Wall Street Journal/Real Trends Top 1,000 list out of over 2 million real estate agents in the United States and Canada. He is also the founder of Covenant First Mortgage, and Beyond Title. In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, Larry Hagner interviews David Hoffman. David shares his personal story of becoming a father to a little girl, Isabella, through foster care. He discusses the importance of being present in the moment and how his three-year plan guided him towards this beautiful addition to his family.  David also shares his personal experiences growing up and the impact it had on his life. He discusses how he was often left on his own as a young age, with his mother working and going to school. This left him fending for himself and having to figure out dinner and other tasks on his own. He recalls having to save up money to order a pizza on the nights his mom was at school. Larry Hagner acknowledges David's journey and the positive impact he is making through his work with the Dad Edge Alliance. By helping men improve their relationships and become better fathers, David is creating a ripple effect that will benefit not only his own children but also future generations. The host commends David for breaking the cycle of neglect and creating a legacy of love and support. He notes that historically, men have found their sense of purpose in their careers, quantifying their success through promotions and accolades. However, this can lead to emptiness and a lack of fulfillment. He encourages men to also focus on their roles at home and the impact they have on their families. By recognizing and valuing their contributions as fathers and husbands, men can find a deeper sense of purpose and fulfillment. www.thedadedge.com/friday129 1stphorm.com/dadedge www.relationshipsoverrules.com
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. thedadedge.com/alliance
Emmanuel Guarino is the Founder of Team Vulnerable. Their mission is to help other married couples overcome porn addiction and have a relationship and life filled with vulnerability and freedom. In this episode, Larry Hagner interviews Emmanuel Guarino who shares his personal story of struggling with a porn addiction. Emmanuel talks about his lack of sex education growing up and how he started watching porn at a young age. He reveals that his addiction escalated in college and caused problems in his relationship, including erectile dysfunction on his wedding night. Emmanuel Guarino describes the negative impact porn had on his life and how it took a toll on his mental health. He then shares a pivotal moment during COVID when he realized he needed help and reached out to God for guidance. His addiction escalated to the point where it interfered with his wedding night. Despite his intentions to quit watching porn before marrying Becca, he found himself unable to perform sexually due to porn-induced erectile dysfunction. This revelation was a devastating blow to both Emmanuel and Becca, as he had to explain that his inability was not a reflection of her desirability or attractiveness. It was a consequence of his addiction and the distorted mindset it had created. Emmanuel's story serves as a poignant example of how porn addiction can ruin relationships and lives. It highlights the detrimental effects it can have on intimacy, trust, and emotional well-being. Porn addiction not only distorts an individual's perception of sex and relationships but also leads to a breakdown in communication and emotional connection. It is essential to recognize the seriousness of porn addiction and the need for support and treatment. Emmanuel's story emphasizes the importance of open and honest conversations about sex education and the impact of pornography. Education should focus on healthy relationships, consent, and the potential consequences of excessive porn consumption. www.thedadedge.com/447 www.teamvulnerable.com/30dayprogram www.youtube.com/channel/UCctvkhL4du2VJIgIFnhY2uA www.instagram.com/teamvulnerable
Brad Stulberg researches, writes, and coaches health, well-being, and sustainable excellence. He is the bestselling author of The Practice of Groundedness, and co-author of Peak Performance. He also serves as the co-host of The Growth Equation podcast and is on faculty at the University of Michigan's Graduate School of Public Health. In his coaching practice, he works with executives, entrepreneurs, physicians, and athletes on their mental skills and overall well-being. In this episode of The Dad Edge, Larry interviews Brad Stulberg, author of "Master of Change". Brad shares his insights on navigating change and the paradox of trying to master it. He discusses his journey from economics and psychology to studying public health and becoming interested in what it means to thrive. Brad's book, "Peak Performance," focuses on sustainable ways to perform at one's best. Brad Stulberg then emphasizes the importance of embracing change for personal growth. It challenges the traditional notion of stability and highlights the concept of allostasis, which suggests that stability is achieved through change. He argues that change is not abnormal or something to be feared, but rather an integral part of life. From the moment we are born, we are constantly growing, evolving, and adapting to new circumstances. Change is an inevitable part of life. Yet, many of us fear change. We cling to the familiar, the comfortable, and the known. We resist the idea of stepping out of our comfort zones and embracing the unknown. As Brad and Larry argues, to fear change is to fear life itself.  Change challenges individuals to adapt, problem-solve, and develop resilience. It pushes individuals out of their stagnant routines and encourages them to explore new possibilities. By embracing change, individuals can expand their comfort zones, learn new skills, and gain new perspectives.  www.thedadedge.com/friday128 www.1stphorm.com/dadedge  www.bradstulberg.com www.instagram.com/bradstulberg
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. thedadedge.com/alliance
Jennifer B Wallace is an award-winning journalist and author of the book "Never Enough: When Achievement Pressure Becomes Toxic–and What We Can Do About It." She is a frequent contributor to The Wall Street Journal and The Washington Post and appears on national television to discuss her articles and relevant topics in the news. In this enlightening episode of The Dad Edge Podcast, host Larry Hagner sits down with Jennifer B. Wallace, delving into the profound influence of one's circle and the ripple effect it has on personal choices and behaviors. Larry begins by sharing his reflections on how his circle, initially entangled in negative activities, contrasted sharply with his own pursuits in training, sports, and personal goals. This disparity prompts a deeper exploration into why individuals often veer towards negative behaviors and the underlying factors steering these decisions. The conversation takes an intriguing turn as Jennifer shares insights from a friend whose life choices were deeply rooted in their family values. This revelation triggers a self-reflection on Larry's end, acknowledging the solid support system he's had, which fortified his resilience and steered him away from detrimental paths. Transitioning to the realm of parenthood, Jennifer emphasizes the importance of nurturing interdependence in children. She highlights her advocacy for the "A for other" mindset, aiming to groom children into becoming individuals who uplift others. The motto "don't worry alone" resonates as a family mantra, underscoring the essence of deep relationships as a cushion against life's tumultuous rides. As the discussion nears its conclusion, the spotlight shines on the crucial role of fathers in spearheading the work of interdependence and emotional communication. Jennifer encourages men to defy stereotypes, engage in open communication, and model healthy emotional expression for their offspring. By emphasizing the importance of a tightly-knit support system, the discussion illuminates the path towards cultivating a nurturing environment, not just for oneself but also for the younger generation. www.thedadedge.com/446 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.jenniferbwallace.com www.instagram.com/jenniferbrehenywallace
Jeff Lerner is an Entrepreneur, Musician, Author, Podcaster, Husband, and a Father. He is a visionary entrepreneur whose journey from a debt-laden jazz musician to generating over $100 million in online sales embodies the essence of transformation. His philosophy centers around the "3 Ps of Success" (Physical, Personal, & Professional), a mantra that has inspired millions to reshape their lives. In this insightful episode of The Dad Edge Podcast,  Larry Hagner is joined by Jeff Lerner, the visionary Founder of Unlock Your Potential. They delve into a profound discussion about a structured system for purposeful living, which Jeff elucidates as the cornerstone for achieving success and discovering one's unique life purpose. The conversation takes a deep dive into what Jeff Lerner dubs as the three P's: physical, personal, and professional realms. By channeling focus on these pivotal areas and relentlessly pursuing growth, individuals can set a solid foundation for success. Jeff Lerner talks about the necessity of setting precise goals and understanding the mechanics and definitions of income, growth, and wealth. As they navigate through the discussion, Jeff introduces the audience to the concept of the fourth P, which is 'purpose.' He elaborates that purpose often materializes later in the journey, sprouting from a life led with consistency, discipline, and predictability. Larry Hagner and Jeff Lerner explore how creating the right conditions can help individuals attain clarity and recognition of their unique purpose, which, although always present, requires the right milieu to be fully realized. In wrapping up, the episode reiterates the profound impact of implementing a structured system for purposeful living. By aligning daily activities with the three P's of success, individuals can create the conducive conditions for personal growth, clarity of purpose, and intentional living. This transformative approach empowers listeners to take the reins of their lives, progress towards their aspirations, and ultimately unlock a greater realm of freedom and satisfaction. www.thedadedge.com/friday127 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.jefflernerofficial.com www.instagram.com/jefflernerofficial www.youtube.com/channel/UC7Olcyw8n
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. thedadedge.com/alliance
Nick Scrivens is the owner of Fore Fathers Apparel, a company offering  beautifully designed, thoughtfully tailored, ultra-comfortable, and original polos for Dads of all shapes and sizes. Nick is an accomplished and focused enterprise sales executive with talent and grit to turnaround client perception, develop long-term client relations/retention, generate multi-million-dollar sales, and build team cohesiveness. In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, Larry  interviews Nick Scrivens. They discuss the success of the brand and how it all started with a meme featuring Nick and his daughter wearing their Turf Dad polo. The meme went viral, leading to international demand for their products. Nick shares his initial struggles and the overwhelming support they received from lawn care enthusiasts worldwide. Nick's passion for his clothing brand is evident in his dedication and hard work. He spent two and a half hours discussing the need for his brand and the potential it had. This passion and belief in his product drove him to take action and start working on his brand. It took him 10 months to perfect his polo shirt and gain confidence in its quality. He started by giving it to family and friends and gradually gained more customers, holding himself accountable for the quality of his products. One specific theme that emerges in the podcast is the idea of prioritizing family over career. The speakers discuss their experiences as fathers and entrepreneurs, highlighting the challenges they face in balancing their professional and personal lives. They also acknowledge that building a successful business requires a significant amount of time and effort, but they also recognize the importance of being present for their families. Nick Scrivens and Larry Hagner also touches on the idea of not sacrificing relationships for financial success. They caution against becoming so focused on building a business that they neglect their personal connections. Ending the episode, they share a quote that resonates with them: "Don't come home with a wallet full of money and a house full of strangers." They recognize that true success is not just about financial wealth, but also about having meaningful relationships and a strong connection with one's family. www.thedadedge.com/445 www.shopforefathers.com
Seth Ramser is a Dad Edge Alliance member, and the Director of Business Development at SignatureMD. He is also an accomplished healthcare executive with a 10 year track record driving business development, operational efficiencies, innovation and growth strategies to physicians, health systems, self-insured companies, IDNs and ACOs. In this episode, Larry Hagner is joined by Seth Ramser to explore the pivotal role of relationships and accountability in personal growth and fatherhood. Seth Ramser highlights the immense value of authentic friendships and stresses the importance of a robust support system in our lives. Drawing from his dojo experience, he showcases the transformation that occurs within a supportive community, promoting personal growth. The analogy of towers reinforces the need for mutual support and accountability in our lives, paralleling how towers depend on each other for stability. Seth Ramser shares poignant personal stories that underscore the reciprocity of support and encouragement among friends. The conversation also delves into Seth's journey to sobriety, emphasizing the role of relationships and accountability in overcoming challenges. The episode also discusses three fundamental tools from the dojo that profoundly impacted his family life: self-care, a strong marital relationship, and intentional quality time with children. In conclusion, this conversation reiterates the significance of prioritizing family and fostering meaningful connections. It leaves a lasting impression of how our actions and choices can profoundly impact the lives of those we care about. www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.thedadedge.com/friday126
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. thedadedge.com/alliance
Rich Mitchell is a a certified Life Coach through The Life Coach School. He helps high achieving professionals overcome burnout so they can get fired up about their personal and professional lives. He is a Life Coach for single dads on a mission to help single dads level up to their fullest potential. In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, Larry Hagner interviews Rich Mitchell who shares his personal experience with burnout and how it led to him losing his job. Rich Mitchell discusses the symptoms of burnout, including disengagement and distraction, and emphasizes the importance of addressing burnout to prevent others from going through the same struggles.  One of the ways Rich Mitchell describes his burnout is through his engagement in various distractions. He admits to looking at his phone during work and avoiding people he was supposed to work with. These actions demonstrate a lack of focus and disinterest in his job, which are common symptoms of burnout. Rich also mentions that he stopped focusing on improving his own craft and instead focused on helping others improve theirs as a school administrator. This shift in focus indicates a loss of passion and motivation for his own work. As Rich Mitchell reflects on his career, he realizes that burnout has been a recurring theme for him. He shares an anecdote about being asked to include goals of becoming a building leader, principal, or superintendent in his goal sheet. However, he tells his supervisor that he is not interested in pursuing these positions, which he now recognizes as a sign that he was already feeling burnt out and not motivated to advance in his career. Rich's experience highlights the impact of burnout on one's professional life. It can lead to disengagement, a lack of focus, and a loss of passion for one's work. However, amidst the burnout, Rich Mitchell also gained clarity about what he did not want in his career. He realized that he did not want to continue down a path that would lead to more stress and burnout. This clarity allowed him to make the decision to move on to a different career path, specifically life coaching. www.thedadedge.com/444 www.richardmitchellcoaching.com
Yeadon Smith is the founder of "My First Million in Multifamily". Yeadon discerned that he was not called to the pastorate, and  launched a career in real estate. Yeadon was one of the top producing real estate agents in his market while he was active in the residential transaction side of real estate. In this episode, Larry Hanger interviews Yeadon Smith  about his personal life, including his marriage and four children. They discuss the question of what leads to having four kids and the guest attributes it to having a hot wife. They also delve into the guest's unique childhood and the different experiences he had compared to others in their generation. This episode reveals a shift in parenting style over time. They discuss their upbringing and how their parents' authoritarian and disciplinarian approach influenced their own initial parenting beliefs. They also acknowledge that this style was prevalent in the 80s and 90s, reflecting the cultural norms of that era. However, as they grew older and became parents themselves, they realized that this approach was not effective or conducive to healthy parent-child relationships. They express frustration with the idea of demanding obedience from their children without allowing them to express themselves or be kids. Larry and Yeadon Smith recognize that their parents were simply following the parenting norms of their time and do not blame them for their upbringing. This serves as a reminder that parenting styles are not fixed and can change over time. It highlights the importance of reflection, growth, and adaptability in raising children. Yeadon Smith's personal experiences and challenges provide valuable insights into the evolution of parenting styles and the need for a more open and inclusive approach. www.thedadedge.com/friday125 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.facebook.com/MyFirstMillionInMF www.facebook.com/groups/3624929014238193
Alyssa Campbell is a teacher, parent, and an emotional development expert with a masters degree in early childhood education. She is also the author of the book "Tiny Humans, Big Emotions." In addition to her writing endeavors, Alyssa also runs a business and is a devoted mother to a two and a half-year-old. Her ethos revolves around the importance of building emotional intelligence in children. She believes in recognizing and regulating biases, looking beyond behavior for understanding, and fostering empathy in communication. In this episode, Larry Hagner sits down with Alyssa Campbell. They discuss the challenges of balancing motherhood, running a business, and pursuing personal goals. Alyssa Campbell shares her excitement about expecting a baby girl and jokes about potentially having more children depending on their behavior. Larry relates by sharing his experience of having four boys and the reactions he receives from others. Alyssa Campbell explains that she wrote a book called "Tiny Humans, Big Emotions" because she felt the need for more resources that focused on the adult's role in emotional intelligence. She found that many existing resources only provided strategies for dealing with children's behavior, without addressing the adult's own emotions and reactions. Building emotional intelligence in kids requires parents to model and teach emotional regulation, empathy, and effective communication. It involves creating a safe and supportive environment where children feel comfortable expressing their emotions and learning healthy ways to manage them. Parents can also encourage their children to identify and label their emotions, validate their feelings, and help them develop problem-solving skills. Recognizing and regulating our biases is a crucial aspect of building emotional intelligence in both children and adults. This episode sheds light on the biases that often go unnoticed and how they can impact our interactions with children. www.thedadedge.com/443 www.amazon.com/Tiny-Humans-Big-Emotions-Emotionally www.seedandsew.org
Scott Gutzman embarked on his career in the audio/visual domain at 18, swiftly ascending through various roles, mastering leadership, organization, and customer interactions within a decade. His stint in nightlife security polished his abilities in customer engagement and heightened his situational awareness. In this episode, Larry Hagner is accompanied by Scott Gutzman, a loyal follower of the podcast. Larry, recognizing the sincerity inherent in earlier segments, unfolds Scott's unique tale with a desire to pay him tribute. With ten years of dialogues with a myriad of personalities, Larry accentuates the profound impact of collective stories, proposing they provide resilience and diverse outlooks to surmount individual obstacles. He encourages listeners to gain inspiration from Scott's odyssey, allowing him to navigate the discussion and reflect on his upbringing, familial bonds, and life in Colorado, balancing the demands of his father's military assignments. Scott Gutzman expresses profound gratitude for his parents and values his secluded upbringing notwithstanding its trials. This episode illuminates the transformative essence of forgiveness and accountability in reconstructing strained bonds, featuring Scott Gutzman's moving reconciliation with his father, marked by compassion and responsibility. This account highlights the effectiveness of opting for empathy over condemnation, promoting healing and mutual advancement, and strengthening connections. It portrays the crucial role of forgiveness and ownership in reviving fractured relationships. The discourse progresses to elaborate that assuming complete accountability for our deeds prevents lingering bitterness. Acceptance of our imperfections aids in the dissolution of pride and arrogance, clearing the path for renewal and concord. www.thedadedge.com/friday124 www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game. thedadedge.com/alliance
Adam Davis is a notable figure in law enforcement, embodies the principles of authenticity and vulnerability in his work. He's passionate about aiding individuals through their trauma journeys and firmly believes in the essential role of transparency in relationships. Among his extensive accomplishments, Adam champions for parental vigilance and protection, underscores the value of embracing love and seeking support, and advocates for prioritizing familial bonds and love. His endeavors seek to facilitate healing and triumph by inspiring surrender and defense of family values. In this episode, host Larry Hagner, alongside Adam Davis, delve into the captivating realm of trauma and its ability to imprison people in their histories. They unravel the complexities in traversing trauma and the struggles of remaining engulfed in it. Adam reveals his life experiences, shedding light on the obstacles faced while expressing vulnerability. The conversation also accentuates the criticality of embracing liberty and the journey to recovery. Trauma holds the formidable ability to chain people to their past sufferings. Escaping its clutches is daunting, yet the episode illustrates that liberation is attainable. Adam Davis motivates listeners to tread the path of healing and freedom, providing a beacon of hope, illustrating that the shadows of trauma can be overcome for a more luminous tomorrow. The statement "Churches can be unsafe places," might shock many, considering churches are typically regarded as havens of serenity and affection. However, Larry and Adam unveil the hidden sinister aspects of some church congregations, revealing the potential presence of manipulation, dishonesty, and malevolence within sacred halls. This showcases the healing prowess of genuine love in mending profound scars. It stresses the significance of fostering safe and caring spaces, both in churches and personal relationships, enabling individuals to receive healing, backing, and acknowledgment. This episode is a powerful reminder that true, unadulterated love can instigate healing and revitalization in the lives of those haunted by trauma and agony. www.thedadedge.com/442 www.thedadedge.com/bark www.theadamdavis.com IG: @officialadamdavis
In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, Larry Hagner discusses the importance of measuring progress and introduces a new tool called the Five Dials, which helps participants track their growth in various areas of their lives. The boardroom is a tight-knit group of dad business owners who focus on growing their businesses, improving their marriages, and strengthening their relationships with their kids. Larry also highlights the trifecta of business, marriage, and parenting and emphasizes the importance of creating a nurturing environment for open communication with our children. Family connection and self-improvement are two essential aspects of a fulfilling and meaningful life. One of the metrics mentioned is the "boardroom score" based on the concept of family board meetings by Jim Shields. This score rates how well the speaker is connecting with his family and children. It emphasizes the importance of having a five-year vision and regularly reviewing and working towards it. One aspect of self-improvement that is often overlooked is the relationship between physical fitness and mental and emotional well-being. Larry Hagner highlights the importance of maintaining fitness in order to achieve better mental and emotional fitness. He also mentions that many people experience a decline in their fitness over time, but they strive to push themselves and their team to improve their physical fitness quarter over quarter. This episode highlights the significant role that accountability plays in achieving goals. As well as the importance of setting clear goals, having a plan, and regularly checking in with an accountability partner or group. By doing so, individuals can significantly increase their chances of success in various areas of life. Through accountability, individuals can create a path towards personal growth, success, and fulfillment. www.thedadedge.com/friday123 www.thedadedge.com/alliance
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game.
R.A. Dickey is a former American professional baseball pitcher. He played in Major League Baseball for the Texas Rangers, Seattle Mariners, Minnesota Twins, New York Mets, Toronto Blue Jays and Atlanta Braves. Currently, R.A. is a full-time father and husband, taking care of a 40-acre farm and raising four children. In this episode, R.A. Dickey shares about his current life as a full-time father and husband on a 40-acre farm in Tennessee. He also talks about his two daughters who are in college and his two sons who attend a small Christian school. R.A. Dickey also discusses his love for Nashville and the community he has built there. One of the key elements that R.A. Dickey highlights is the importance of honesty in a marriage. He reflects upon his struggles with candor, revealing the deep-seated fears stemming from past traumas that threatened the intimacy with his wife. He was shackled by the belief that unveiling his pain would drive her away, a misconception that not only stifled his emotional well-being but also impeded his spiritual and mental growth. It was only through embracing vulnerability that he could navigate past these barriers and embark on a healing journey. R.A. Dickey's revelations underscore the seismic repercussions of trauma on personal evolution. He candidly shares the burden of shame and apprehension anchored in his past, which sculpted protective but damaging behaviors like deceit, manipulation, and dismissiveness. These defense mechanisms, though aimed at safeguarding his inner wounds, instead deepened the rifts in his relationships, particularly with his spouse. Centered on the ethos of restoration and metamorphosis through raw honesty, this episode chronicles R.A. Dickey's personal odyssey—facing shadows of the past, pursuing healing, and ultimately discovering rejuvenation both within himself and his marital bond. www.thedadedge.com/441 www.1stphorm.com/dadedge www.amazon.com/Wherever-Wind-Up-Authenticity-Knuckleball
Jay Martin is an investor and the CEO of Cambridge House. He dissects the minds of thought-leaders from around the world with expertise in money management, geopolitics, macro-finance, commodities, technology, and any emerging trends his audience should be learning about. His goal is to challenge the way we think and the way we invest, knowing well that this can improve our lives for the better. In this episode, Larry sits down with Jay Martin, a multifaceted personality who dons the hats of a business magnate, investor, ultra athlete, fitness aficionado, devoted husband, and proud father to three boys. Genuinely intrigued, Larry marvels at Jay's vast repertoire, jestingly pondering on what Jay Martin possibly doesn't indulge in. Jay's candid revelation: he abstains from alcohol.  Sharing a mutual journey of alcohol abstinence, both Jay Martin and Larry echo the myriad benefits they've reaped. Jay accentuates that mere months into sobriety brought him unparalleled clarity and vitality; an enriched awareness that amplified his engagements and deepened his sense of purpose. Their discussion inevitably gravitates towards the pivotal role of fitness in molding one's psyche and temperance. Jay Martin, who's evolved into a formidable triathlete and ultra marathoner, professes how physical milestones bolster his self-worth. This newfound self-assuredness is palpably evident in his parental approach—marked by patience, empathy, and guidance, rather than domination. The testimonies of both Jay Martin and Larry Hagner underscore the symbiotic relationship between fitness and mental wellness. Consistent physical activity, coupled with mindful living, not only elevates one's self-esteem and vigour but also profoundly impacts our interactions, especially with those we hold dear. www.thedadedge.com/friday122 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.jaymartin.club
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game.  thedadedge.com/bark sathiyasam.com/coaching
Sergio Nazzaro is a licensed real estate broker at 8z Real Estate, and is also the visionary founder and host of Become The Standard—a multifaceted coaching program and podcast dedicated to honing one's career, relationships, and fitness. In this episode of The Dad Edge Podcast, Larry Hagner talks with Sergio Nazzaro to unpack the dynamics of achieving balance in marriage, family, and business. Drawing from his military background, Sergio Nazzaro offers poignant reflections on the emotional weight of parting with loved ones pre-deployment and the disorienting feeling of returning to a world that has seemingly left them behind. With a keen eye on the interplay of personal narratives and finances, Sergio Nazzaro opens up about his modest beginnings and how financial ascendancy has armed him with the means to give back and sustain his family. Beyond mere financial success, he underscores the transformative power of seeking fulfillment over sheer monetary rewards. Diving deep into the heart of personal evolution, this episode unveils the significance of confronting one's internal battles. Both Sergio and Larry spotlight the fears and hesitations that often deter men from the journey of self-improvement, illustrating through their own stories how overcoming these hurdles paves the way for profound personal victories. www.thedadedge.com/440 Website: www.becomethestandard.live Instagram: @sergio.nazzaro Tiktok: @sergio.nazzaro Facebook: www.facebook.com/sergio.nazzaro Youtube: Sergio Nazzaro Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/episode/49AtPr3AJ8eCzRcIFfo0ru
Shawn French is the host of The Determined Society Podcast where you are able to go to experience high vibe energy and come together with like-minded people who are looking to grow professionally and personally. This is for driven people who are looking to connect with more of the same in order to continue on a path to success. In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, Larry Hagner and Shawn French discuss the importance of staying hydrated and share their personal strategies for drinking enough water throughout the day. They talk about their daily routines and how they incorporate water consumption into their busy schedules. From using motivational water bottles to tracking their intake, they emphasize the benefits of staying hydrated for overall well being. This episode sheds light on the importance of water intake and healthy habits for overall health. Shawn French emphasize the positive impact of staying hydrated, wearing comfortable and confidence-boosting clothing, and finding personalized routines that promote vitality. Shawn French also offers valuable insights into the personal growth and lessons learned from a previous toxic relationship. He emphasizes the importance of trust, personal growth, and collaboration in building a thriving marriage and a healthy environment for children. Through their own experiences, they provide hope and encouragement for those going through difficult times, highlighting that even the darkest days can lead to brighter ones. www.thedadedge.com/friday121 www.1stphorm.com/dadedge www.instagram.com/theshawnfrench
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game.  thedadedge.com/alliance thedadedge.com/summit2023
Allan Blain is the former owner and CEO of a $40 million dollar real estate investment company. After realizing that he was not pursuing his true purpose and calling, he launched what he calls his "work-from-anywhere" freedom business, teaching everyday people how to create passive income streams from their phones. Today, he has grown his organization to include over 10,000 others spanning 10 countries, producing millions in annual revenue, and representing countless lives that have been positively impacted by his company's food supplements. In this episode of The Dad Edge, Larry sits down with Allen Blain to discuss the challenges of life and the importance of vulnerability. They delve into the misconception created by social media and how it can make people believe that others have always been successful without facing any hardships. Allen also shares his own journey of embracing vulnerability and the positive impact it has had on encouraging others.  Embracing change strengthens relationships. This is the underlying theme of the podcast transcript between Larry and Allen. Throughout their conversation, Allen shares his personal journey of embracing change and how it has impacted his relationships, particularly with his wife, Nicole. Despite being in law enforcement for five years, Allen felt called to a different path. He recognized that his entrepreneurial spirit and desire for personal growth were not aligned with a long-term career in law enforcement.  This decision required a leap of faith, as he was giving up a stable job and financial security. However, Allen's willingness to embrace change and follow his calling ultimately strengthened his relationship with his wife. Tragedy can strike anyone at any time, and it is how we respond to these challenges that define us. Allen's story is a reminder that even in the midst of the darkest moments, there is always a glimmer of hope and an opportunity for personal growth.  By reevaluating our choices, finding our true purpose, and surrounding ourselves with a supportive community, we can overcome even the most devastating tragedies. www.thedadedge.com/439 www.thedadedge.com/25questions www.allanblain.com
In this episode, Larry Hagner dives deep into the world of love languages and triggers in marriage. He explored the importance of understanding each other's emotional needs and communicating effectively to enhance their relationship. Larry shared personal experiences and insights, providing listeners with valuable tools to navigate the complexities of love and marriage. Love languages are the unique ways in which individuals perceive and express love. By identifying and discussing each other's love languages, couples can foster a deeper understanding of their emotional needs. Whether it's through acts of service, quality time, words of affirmation, physical touch, or receiving gifts, discovering and embracing each other's love languages is a powerful tool for building lasting connections. Thoughtful gestures and attention to small details play a significant role in creating a loving and appreciative environment. Taking notice of each other's efforts, desires, and even changes in appearance cultivates an atmosphere of significance and care. Love is a journey that requires continuous effort, understanding, and effective communication. By exploring the top love languages and triggers in marriage, you can provide a roadmap to creating a thriving relationship filled with love, understanding, and support. Remember, understanding and embracing love languages, navigating triggers, and showing appreciation and attention are essential elements in fostering a deep and lasting connection with your partner. www.thedadedge.com/friday120 www.thedadedge.com/25questions www.thedadedge.com/summit2023
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game.  thedadedge.com/alliance thedadedge.com/summit2023
Matt Doan is a husband, father, speaker, entrepreneur, and a freedom coach. He is helping burned-out corporate professionals live Uncaged. Inspired by 15 demanding years in management consulting, he is obsessed with helping high-achievers build a career and life on their terms. In this episode, Matt Doan discusses his journey as a business owner and the freedom it has brought him. He talks about his blended family, with three older children from a previous marriage and a two-year-old with his current wife. Matt also shares his joy in coaching baseball and the intensity of the eleven-year-old players. He then delves into the life lessons he wants to pass down to his children, both boys and girls.  Matt Doan highlights the significance of understanding that femininity does not equate to being female. Instead, he emphasizes the hidden feminine energy that exists within all individuals. This energy includes qualities such as empathy, vulnerability, and emotional expression. Matt believes that society often teaches boys to suppress these traits, but by embracing them, they can become more well-rounded individuals. Matt's approach to parenting is about finding a balance between masculine and feminine energies. He wants his children, regardless of gender, to feel that they have access to all the qualities and strengths associated with both sides. By doing so, he believes they can lead fulfilling and authentic lives. This episode demonstrates the negative impact of corporate life on happiness and well-being. Matt's experience of feeling trapped, unfulfilled, and disconnected from their values and priorities is relatable to many individuals in similar positions. The pressure to maintain a certain lifestyle, the demands of work, and the sacrifices made for career advancement all contribute to diminishing happiness. www.thedadedge.com/438 www.matthewdoan.com www.uncageyourself.fm www.linkedin.com/in/matthewdoan www.twitter.com/Uncaged_Matt www.instagram.com/uncaged_matt www.facebook.com/MattDoanCoaching
Adam Prince is a member of Dad Edge Alliance. Some individuals, like Adam Prince, have experienced childhood trauma and instability that can have lasting effects on their lives. Adam opens up about his journey of overcoming these challenges and creating a better future for himself and his family. In this episode, Adam Prince and Larry discuss the power of overcoming childhood trauma and making a conscious effort to change the game. They dive into the importance of breaking patterns and creating a different life despite challenges.  Adam describes his childhood as marked by instability. He moved between several different schools, houses, and apartments, even living in a motel for a period of time. This constant upheaval created a sense of uncertainty and unpredictability in his life.  This conversation between Adam and Larry highlights the importance of acknowledging and overcoming childhood trauma and instability. It is not enough to simply accept these experiences as part of one's identity. Instead, individuals must actively work towards healing, understanding, and breaking the patterns that have been ingrained in them. Adam's story is a powerful example of resilience and the capacity to overcome adversity. Despite the instability and trauma he experienced, he has chosen to take control of his life and create a different path.   Resilience and gratitude are two powerful qualities that can help individuals overcome adversity and find strength in the face of challenges. From a young age, Adam experienced the absence of his biological father, who left when he was little and only reappeared briefly when he was 12. This lack of a stable father figure could have easily left him feeling abandoned and resentful. However, Adam chooses not to dwell on the negative emotions associated with his father's departure. Instead, he focuses on the lessons he learned and the resilience he gained from navigating life without a consistent male presence. Adam's ability to share his experiences with his own children is a testament to his resilience and gratitude. Rather than shielding them from the realities of his past, he chooses to have open and honest conversations with them. He does not shy away from discussing the hardships he endured but presents them in a matter-of-fact manner. This approach allows his children to see the strength and resilience that can emerge from adversity. thedadedge.com/alliance www.thedadedge.com/friday119
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game.  thedadedge.com/alliance thedadedge.com/summit2023
Ben Pauling is a writer, director, and actor. He is known for his new film Dream (2023), which highlights the issues of child trafficking in America. In this episode, the host Larry Hagner welcomes guest Ben Pauling to discuss a topic that has been gaining a lot of attention. They briefly touch on Ben's personal life before diving into the main subject. They mention the release of some films and the media's coverage of the issue, which has created a perfect storm for their own film.  Ben Pauling emphasizes that human trafficking is an issue of utmost importance and one that demands immediate attention. He also highlights the need for rescue missions and organizations dedicated to combating this problem. However, despite the efforts of these organizations, less than 1% of trafficked children are currently rescued. This statistic underscores the enormity of the challenge and the urgent need for increased awareness, resources, and action. Awareness is key in prevention, especially when it comes to the issue of human trafficking. One of the common misconceptions is that human trafficking only happens in certain areas or to certain types of people. However, the reality is that it can occur anywhere, from small towns to large cities, and can affect people from all walks of life. This lack of awareness is dangerous because it allows predators to operate unnoticed and continue their heinous crimes. By supporting these organizations and advocating for stronger laws and policies, we can contribute to the fight against child trafficking on a larger scale. www.thedadedge.com/437 www.dreamfilm.us
Trine Schmidt and Loise HeartHenley are the creators of the Fulfillment Scale, where you learn where you are at on your personal growth journey, how to recognize growth, and how you reach daily fulfillment in everything you do. Their mission is to connect people's hearts and now share their method of 'Time-ins' with everyone so they don't have to walk the journey alone.  In this episode of the Dad Edge podcast, Larry welcomes Trine and Loise, two non-dads from Denmark, to share their perspectives. Loise, a proud mother of four girls and a grandmother, discusses the reactions she receives when people learn about her all-female family.  Larry also shares his own experience of being a father to four boys and the common reactions he receives. Loise emphasizes the importance of self-belief and personal development. Meanwhile, Trine Schmidt echoes the sentiment of self-belief and adds the importance of patience. Both Trine Schmidt and Loise HeartHenley's advice focuses on the internal aspects of parenting rather than external tactics or strategies. This highlights the significance of self-awareness and self-care in raising resilient and confident children. When parents believe in themselves and practice self-compassion, they are better equipped to navigate the challenges of parenting and provide the necessary support for their children's emotional development. Overall, the episode emphasizes the importance of taking time each day to "tune in" to oneself. By checking in with one's thoughts, emotions, and intentions, individuals can better navigate their personal and professional lives. www.thedadedge.com/friday118 theheartconnection.co
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game.  thedadedge.com/alliance
Matt Vincent is a traveling strength athlete, two-time Highland Games World Champion, and founder of HVIII Brand Goods. Through his travels, Matt was lucky enough to spend time with exceptional people who were chasing strength, fulfillment, and personal growth in every imaginable way. Matt chronicles his travels and conversations with people in the strength game and beyond on his podcast UMSO. In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, the host Larry and guest Matt discuss the limitations of text-based communication, particularly in the age of remote work and virtual meetings. They emphasize the importance of non-verbal cues, empathy, tone, and context in effective communication. They share personal experiences and strategies for avoiding misinterpretation by using audio or video messages instead of relying solely on text. The hosts express concerns about the potential loss of these essential elements in communication as society continues to prioritize text-based communication. The conversation highlights the need to consider how messages can be interpreted differently and the importance of using non-verbal cues, such as facial expressions and voice tone, to convey meaning accurately. They share instances where written messages were perceived as angry or confrontational, even though that was not the intention. They emphasize that tone and context can easily be lost in text, leading to misunderstandings and conflicts. It emphasizes the limitations of text-based communication and the potential for misunderstandings and misinterpretations.  Matt acknowledges that there are lessons to be learned from following the path set by others, but they emphasize the importance of finding their own path. Choosing one's own path is a personal and transformative journey. It requires self-discovery, self-acceptance, and the courage to pursue one's passions and interests. It may involve breaking away from societal expectations or familial pressures. However, with the right support system and a belief in one's own abilities, individuals can find fulfillment and success in their chosen paths.   By triggering awareness and breaking free from societal expectations, individuals can find fulfillment and success in their chosen endeavors. www.1stphorm.com/dadedge www.thedadedge.com/436 www.notdeadyet.com
Markus Kaulius is the founder of Magnum Nutraceuticals, works equally hard on his physique as he does on his business. The hard work and balance between these two endeavors, synergistically have led to success in both areas.  In this episode, Marcus shares his gratitude for being invited and expresses his admiration for Larry's work. He talks about his family, including his wife, whom he considers the best for him, and his two daughters.  The first piece of advice Marcus offers is to not sweat the small stuff and to choose battles wisely. He emphasizes the importance of not getting caught up in minor disagreements or insignificant issues. Instead, he suggests focusing on the bigger picture and selecting battles that truly matter. Choosing battles wisely is an important aspect of maintaining healthy relationships, whether it be in a marriage, friendship, or any other type of connection.  Creating lifelong memories through experiences is a powerful way to strengthen the bond between parents and children. In today's fast-paced and technology-driven world, it is easy for parents and children to become disconnected from each other. One of the key benefits of creating lifelong memories through experiences is the opportunity for quality one-on-one time.  The ability to explain decisions and involve children in the decision-making process is crucial for their development. By communicating effectively, parents can promote critical thinking skills, empower their children, and prepare them for adulthood.   www.thedadedge.com/friday117 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.instagram.com/markuskaulius
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game.  thedadedge.com/alliance
Sean Patrick Flanery is an American actor, author, and martial arts practitioner. He has embraced transformative roles that have deepened his faith and allowed him to connect with his audience on a profound level. His broad achievements and credentials as an actor and entrepreneur are a testament to his dedication, hard work, and commitment to personal growth.  In this episode of the Dad Edge Podcast, Larry Hagner and Sean Patrick Flanery discuss their childhoods and the impact their parents had on their lives. They talk about the importance of having a supportive family and how it can shape a person's work ethic. Despite not having a lot growing up, Sean Patrick Flanery emphasizes that he never wanted for anything and had all the necessary tools to navigate life successfully. They also touch on the significance of attending sporting events and the role it played in their upbringing.  Wrestling is a sport that goes beyond physical strength and technique. It builds resilience and grit in individuals, teaching them valuable life lessons that can be applied both on and off the mat. Sean Patrick Flanery emphasizes that wrestling is not just another sport like tennis or basketball. It involves hand-to-hand combat, where a wrestler is pitted against another individual of the same size, weight, and age. The primal nature of wrestling creates a real-world application, where a wrestler realizes that they can be bested by someone their own age. This realization instills a sense of humility and a desire to improve. Wrestling teaches individuals to make quick decisions and remain calm in chaotic situations. It instills resilience and grit, qualities that are essential for success in any aspect of life. The ability to think on your feet and maintain composure in high-pressure situations is a valuable skill that wrestlers develop through their training and competition. As we wrap up this episode, remember that embracing failure is a vital part of personal development. Today, we delved into the significance of obstacles and setbacks in propelling us towards our goals, reminding us to continually strive for self-improvement. Consider adversity as a daily supplement, integral to growth and advancement. This wisdom holds particularly true in wrestling, where wins and losses are an inseparable part of the journey. Carry these insights with you as you forge your path forward. thedadedge.com/summit2023 1stphorm.com/dadedge  www.thedadedge.com/435
Tom Dobrez is the author of "Root Root Root for the Home Teams: A Chicago Fan's Odyssey to Find the Meaning of Life Through Sports", an autobiographical account of his life as a sports fan. In this memoir, he examines how sports can teach us about family and success in life.  In this episode of the Dad Edge podcast, Larry Hagner welcomes author Tom Dobrez to discuss his book "Root, Root, Root" and his unique childhood experiences with his father. Tom shares how his dad was not only his baseball coach but also took him and his siblings to professional sporting events in Chicago. This episode offers a heartfelt exploration of the father-son relationship and the impact it can have on a child's life. Tom describes how his father was their baseball coach, and they would often play organized sports together. However, it was not just organized sports that filled their days. Tom's father built a small ball field in their backyard, providing the perfect setting for their baseball games. The family's love for sports extended to attending professional sporting events, such as Chicago White Sox, Blackhawks, and Bears games. This exposure to sports and outdoor activities created a foundation for Tom's love of sports and physical activity. Engaging in outdoor play has numerous benefits for children's physical and mental well-being. Outdoor play promotes physical fitness and helps children develop gross motor skills, coordination, and balance. Playing sports and games also teaches children the importance of teamwork, communication, and fair play. Additionally, being outdoors exposes children to fresh air and sunlight, which are essential for overall health and well-being. Outdoor play also has significant mental health benefits. Being in nature has a calming effect on the mind and reduces stress and anxiety. It allows children to disconnect from technology and experience the natural world around them. In today's digital age, where children are often glued to screens and have limited opportunities for outdoor play, it is crucial to recognize the importance of outdoor play in childhood. Tom's childhood experiences highlight the joy and benefits of spending time outdoors, engaging in physical activities, and building connections with others. www.thedadedge.com/friday116 www.rootrootrootbook.com
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game.  thedadedge.com/bark
Thomas Pfanner is the Founder and CEO of Dads Who Lead which aims to help dads dramatically improve connection and leadership within their families. He is a Licensed Health and PE Teacher in Oregon Western University.  In this episode of the Dad Edge podcast, Larry Hagner interviews Thomas Pfanner,  who shares his unique journey into fatherhood. Thomas Pfanner talks about how he unexpectedly became a father at a young age and the challenges he faced. They also discuss the importance of leadership in fatherhood and how becoming a father changed his perspective on life.  One of the key themes that emerges from the podcast is the importance of parental support in navigating the challenges of unexpected fatherhood. Thomas Pfanner shares his experience of telling his parents about his impending fatherhood and the profound impact their support had on him. When he told his mother about the situation, she responded with calm and support, assuring him that they would figure it out together. This simple yet powerful response gave him the confidence and reassurance he needed to face the situation head-on. The focus shifts to the subsequent years of the father-son relationship. Thomas discusses pivotal moments and lessons learned during this time. He shares how he made the decision to move away temporarily to finish school but returned once his son started kindergarten. This decision demonstrates his commitment to being present in his son's life and providing him with stability. Thomas's wife also plays a crucial role in supporting their relationship. She recognizes the importance of proximity and encourages the move back to be closer to the child.  The father's journey demonstrates the importance of self-reflection, taking ownership of one's flaws, and adapting one's leadership style to meet the needs of their child. Through this process, the father was able to strengthen his bond with his son and provide him with the guidance and support he needed to thrive.  www.thedadedge.com/434 www.instagram.com/dads.who.lead www.facebook.com/dadswholeadpage www.youtube.com/channel/UCyitVscaolt_pd3a-kJnKdA www.dadswholead.com
Scott Jeffery Miller is currently FranklinCovey's senior advisor on thought leadership, leading the strategy, development, and publication of the firm's bestselling books. He is also the host of the podcast "C-Suite Conversations with Scott Miller", which features interviews with the world's top executives, as well as the author of the multivolume series Master Mentors: 30 Transformative Insights from Our Greatest Business Minds. In this episode, Larry Hagner welcomes Scott Jeffrey Miller, who embarks on a revealing journey from his bachelor days to fathering three boys. Scott candidly discusses his transition into parenthood, unexpected career trajectory, and his latest book that focuses on his passion for mentorship. Moving away from traditional perceptions, the conversation illuminates the essence of parenting as a mutual learning experience, thus underlining mentorship's role in shaping a child's self-confidence, self-esteem, and self-worth. Scott Jeffrey Miller underlines the importance of appreciating a child's unique abilities and contributions. He advocates the practice of "naming their genius," a validating method that can enhance a child's self-worth and enable them to meet challenges head-on. He also compares the parent's role to that of an archaeologist, gently unearthing a child's passions and aspirations, thus enabling children to own their journey. Also pivotal is the role of parents as validators who affirm their child's capabilities. However, Scott cautions against over-validation, which can diminish the impact of genuine achievements. He also touches on the significance of clear boundaries, using his own strict rules around behaviors like drinking, drugs, and tattoos as an example, to steer children towards positive behaviors. In summary, Scott paints a compelling picture of parenting as mentorship and validation. This model encourages the nurturing of a child's inherent strengths, mutual growth, and the setting of boundaries. By embracing this approach, parents can foster strong connections with their children, providing them with a trusted confidant and mentor throughout their lives. www.thedadedge.com/friday115 www.1stphorm.com/dadedge www.greatmentorship.com www.scottjeffreymiller.com
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game.  thedadedge.com/alliance
Mike Baldwin is the VP of Operations for Grossman on Truth. He is also an experienced Law Enforcement Professional with a proven history in successfully working high profile and sensitive investigations, and co-author of the book "The Bulletproof Mind". In this episode, Mike shares insights on developing a bulletproof mind and cultivating resilience. He also opens up about his upbringing in Arizona, growing up in a big family with parents who loved him and adopted him. Throughout his 21-year career in law enforcement, Mike served in various roles, including patrol officer, field training officer, SWAT team member, and detective. He found great satisfaction in investigating crimes, talking to people, and learning from them. Mike's ability to connect with others and gather information played a crucial role in his success as a detective.  Reflecting on his upbringing and the opportunities he was given through adoption, Mike expresses deep gratitude. He acknowledges that without being adopted, his life could have taken a different path, potentially leading to substance abuse or other negative outcomes. Mike credits his heavenly father for guiding him and keeping him away from such destructive paths. Mike shares an example from his experience as a law enforcement officer, where he would interview suspects who would blame others for their actions. He would remind them that they are responsible for their choices and need to take ownership of their lives. He challenges men to examine their own actions and not use their upbringing or circumstances as an excuse for their behavior.  He discusses the importance of making choices that lead to positive outcomes. Mike mentions that individuals who grew up in dysfunctional homes have the choice to break the cycle and create a better life for themselves and their families. He encourages men to reflect on the kind of men, husbands, and fathers they want to be. By being accountable to oneself, to others, and to a higher power, individuals are able to navigate challenges, stay motivated, and work towards their goals. Whether it is personal growth, maintaining healthy relationships, or excelling in the professional sphere, accountability plays a vital role in leading to success. www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.thedadedge.com/433 www.grossmanontruth.com
In this episode, Larry Hagner delves into the glaring absence of comprehensive education on what makes a marriage successful, and the trials many couples face as a result of this deficiency in knowledge and skills. Larry turns the spotlight on his own marriage, expressing his heartfelt gratitude as he crosses the two-decade milestone. Additionally, Larry touches upon the escalating divorce rates and explores whether a lack of these crucial skills might be a major contributing factor. One of the primary hurdles in marriage, according to Larry Hagner, lies in the intrinsic differences between men and women. Our needs, our ways of operation, and our communication styles all differ. Without a clear understanding and appreciation of these disparities, conflicts can surface, triggering misunderstandings and resentment. Consequently, it becomes imperative to learn how to bridge these differences and communicate effectively in order to sustain a healthy and harmonious relationship. Throughout the podcast, Larry Hagner underscores the lack of formal training or education in the domains of marriage and parenting. Unlike other professional pursuits that demand rigorous training and certification, marriage and parenting are typically a journey of trial and error. This dearth of guidance can leave couples feeling directionless and ill-prepared to tackle the challenges they encounter. Larry Hagner proposes that with the right set of skills and knowledge, we as couples can surmount these challenges and lay a robust foundation for our marriage. Similar to how a GPS aids in navigation by offering clear directions and information about potential roadblocks, acquiring marriage skills can steer couples through the labyrinth of married life. These skills encompass effective communication, conflict resolution, empathy, emotional intelligence, and understanding one's partner's needs. Ultimately, Larry Hagner believes that mastering marriage skills is integral to building and sustaining a successful and fulfilling relationship. Living in a society where divorce rates are at an all-time high and relationships encounter numerous challenges, it's essential for us as couples to be educated and guided on how to navigate the intricacies of married life. By honing skills like effective communication, conflict resolution, empathy, and emotional intelligence, we can overcome challenges, reinforce our bond, and cultivate a lasting and joyful marriage. www.thedadedge.com/friday114 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.thedadedge.com/25questions
Larry Hagner hosts members of the Dad Edge Mastermind in this behind-the-scenes episode. This is an opportunity for members to ask Larry and the community their most pressing questions and get tailored insights from experienced dads. From work-life balance to dealing with tough emotions and building stronger relationships with our kids, this episode is packed with actionable insights and practical strategies to help you become the best dad you can be.  Sit back, listen in and get ready to level up your fatherhood game.  thedadedge.com/alliance
Josh White is a musician who is still involved in music and has a record label at the church. His ethos and philosophy revolve around fatherhood, broken relationships, forgiveness, grace, and faith. He believes in breaking the cycle, creating change, surrendering to God's perfect plan, and embracing vulnerability and humility in relationships. In this episode, Larry sits down with Josh White as he shares his challenging upbringing and the absence of a stable father figure in his life. He grew up in a depressed mill town and experienced multiple stepfathers who were either disconnected or abusive. His biological father was an alcoholic and drug addict. Their relationship was distant, but they reconnected later in life, and Josh became a supportive presence for him before his father's death. Josh White's experience with his biological father is a central theme in his story. He describes the initial disconnect and the subsequent reconnection that occurred during his last year of high school. This highlights the importance of open communication and the potential for relationships to evolve and grow over time. Despite the challenges they faced, Josh and his father were able to establish a real relationship before his father's passing. This demonstrates the power of vulnerability and the potential for transformation in even the most difficult circumstances. Josh's understanding of forgiveness goes beyond simply forgiving someone. He believes in actively working towards rebuilding relationships, even with someone as complicated and difficult as his father. He attributes this mindset to his faith and the lessons he learned from the Lord. He emphasizes the importance of the cross in his book, as it represents God's willingness to enter into human suffering and offer grace. Josh's personal experiences have shaped his understanding of forgiveness and grace. He shares that he had a complex family dynamic, being the oldest of three brothers with different fathers. Despite the challenges, he formed a close bond with his younger brother, who had a different father. Josh took on a father figure role for his brother, given the absence of their biological father.  This experience allowed him to understand the importance of boundaries and parameters in creating a sense of safety and freedom. www.thedadedge.com/432 www.thedadedge.com/alliance www.amazon.com/Stumbling-Toward-Eternity-Finding-Ourselves