how to be a b*tch — why being nice is sabotaging your entire life
how to be a b*tch — why being nice is sabotaging your entire life  
Podcast: Self Obsessed
Published On: Fri May 08 2026
Description: you already know how to be a b*tch. parts one, two, and three gave you the tools. part four goes somewhere the others never did. this one is about the bigger picture. why being nice is quietly sabotaging your goals, your self-esteem, your energy, and the company you keep. why your body is paying a physical price for every emotion you've swallowed to keep the peace. why the women who get treated well in relationships aren't always the kindest...they're the most self-possessed. and how to build a daily life that actually reflects the woman you are becoming, not the one you were conditioned to be.♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:01:06 Chapter 1: Good Girl Syndrome07:34 Chapter 2: The New Mindset16:05 Chapter 3: The Bad B*tch Lifestyle🛍️ SHOP & LINKS:Shop my Abbott Lyon Collectionuse my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 buy one get one FREE sitewide!SELF OBSESSED JOURNALMANIFESTATION JOURNALPODCAST INSTAGRAMLISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMSORDER MY BOOKTHE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTERSTAY CONNECTED:MY INSTAGRAMMY SNAPCHAT [BTS]MY YOUTUBEMY VLOGSMY OTHER LINKSFor business enquiries please contact: tam@mvetalent.comMusic Used:*my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!